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From my mother's words, there is no break from the chaos as a SAHP. She could never sit down. Every time she even took a second to take a break one of us interrupted her, lol. There's no end of your shift, it continues on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:46 PM
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From my experience with women, they want a person who is not conditionally nice. I.e., they don't have an ulterior motive when treating them well. You're not actually nice if you're only doing to to sleep with ppl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:44 PM

Women love empathy, they love it when you acknowledge when you value them beyond a sexual context. You have to mean it, too. No deception or deceit. I feel the key to women is emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:39 PM
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A bubbly woman who is happy with herself and femme. I also like nerdy girls with ADHD. They give me life. Demeaning, bossy or bitchy women really turn me off. Women who always play the victim, always make YOU take responsibility, even when they're at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 09:37 PM

I was joking, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:28 PM

Really???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:24 PM

What's that got to do with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:15 PM
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Oh, I have so many threads open at once lmao, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:54 PM

I mean I am autistic but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:50 PM
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Every time I see an issue regarding the opposite gender get brought up on a sub, they are quick to blame that gender. Bring an issue of the same gender to a sub and they defend it, even if it's a really shitty act
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:49 PM

Reddit is such a misogynistic and misandristic cesspool holy shit So many people with the emotional intelligence of an autistic person making sweeping generalizations about groups they only interact with once in a blue moon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:46 PM
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Absolutely a male celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:45 PM
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It's bullshit. I'm friends with trans women and they say that their life is far worse as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:22 PM
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are you sure about that Many do not have this experience they are taken seriously more often and have admitted to gaining privileges that they had no clue of before trans women have the opposite experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:44 PM
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As if you aren’t susceptible to biases
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:19 PM
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I think your outlook is primarily aligned with that of an evolutionary biologist, but I do think there are other viewpoints that you could apply erspective can apply adequately to real life. Reality is more complex than mammalian instincts. If it weren’t then we wouldn’t have evolved so far as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:16 PM
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I’m a lesbian woman who is engaged to somebody and I’m not really physically attractive at all. Your designations do not match my research, nor my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:10 PM
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That May be the situation for you, but desire is not universally predicated on physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:08 PM
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I thought it was common knowledge of the least adequate form of substantiation anecdotal , evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:06 PM
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Yes, I think that’s a very ignorant query to pose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:06 PM
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What exactly constitutes desire? Please do not provide statements that do not have adequate substantiation from prior research fields.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:02 PM
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Emotional needs for these individuals are far more important. You never see somebody get divorced because they’re partner was ugly.. you see them get a divorce because their emotional needs were not getting fulfilled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:51 PM
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In regards to hook ups, Absolutely, that’s true. In any other context, that’s complete bullshit. I’m not attracted to males, but from what I have observed from my own dating life with women you can’t get away with just being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:42 PM
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They are. In the long-term you’re not really going to get anyone if you’rehaving a shitty personality. That works on dating apps and for temporary solutions, such as speed dating. I would never date a girl just because she was attractive because I know she’s gonna be insufferable in long-term if she has no other redeeming qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:40 PM
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I'm sorry that you had to deal with that. Redditors are insufferable and I have to argue for my human rights every other day, as well as be called slurs and have every single one of my accounts invalidated (people think they know more about me than I do when they've never met me and it's really frustrating), so I understand the frustration. The solace one can find is that the Internet isn't representative IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:28 PM
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Who said anything about men, anyway? I was talking about others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:11 PM
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Bro I knew this was going to be something. My gf doesnt do it for men at all, like 100000% of the time because she is gay. Only when they go on dates, but most of the time they literally do not care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:09 PM
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I'd be hella single if this were 100% false tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:15 PM
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Is the guy dating women who are short and overweight and have an equal personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:13 PM
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Danny DeVito?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 PM
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Bro, it's not opposing. Sometimes they do it for dates, other times they don't. I don't even wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:03 PM
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Ok this is beginning to sound self centered on your end. Different quantities of makeup are worn. Women usually have makeup as a hobby. They wear it because they like it as a process. It's like people who make coffee as a hobby. It's the process that's intriguing. Do you wash yourself for women? Do you wear deodorant for women? In some regards, it is required to wear makeup or else you will look unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:19 PM

That's not true because not everyone has a good personality, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:09 PM

Humans aren't a monolith, we have different purposes. For example, homosexuals exist to foster children without parents. So I don't have any obligation to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:08 PM

Oh wow, so Self characteristics better predicted women's attraction than they did for men, A.> "participants in the sample were college students in a fairly large public university in the southeast. It is possible that the mechanisms underlying these college students' initial attraction in a speed-dating context might be considerably different compared to participants in a commercial speed-dating service who are seriously looking for life partners." B. This only applies to Speed-Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:08 PM

Remove the makeup and it gets much lower
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:56 PM

Okay, that* (what you said) was a blatant lie. Do You go on dating apps often?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:54 PM
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Like I said before, I was referring to when my girlfriend dresses up specifically for me. Different times it's usually just because they like it. It's like saying men dress for others because they wear clothes all of the time. After all, a suit and tie is still clothing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:01 PM
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It's the same reason why one might wear a suit and tie on a date but not one on other occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:54 PM
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Women usually do dress for themselves, excluding dates tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:27 PM
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Well, yes, but when we are on dates specifically she gets dressed. It's not always for me, you know. Women are emotionally very giving. You have never been in a relationship so you have little say on this. They give me empathy, loyalty, time, respect, humility, companionship. As a woman, I give my gf money, time, empathy, I fly her out on Vacation, I paid for her rings, I take her out on dates, I buy her records and flowers, I just gave her a few hundred dollars as a gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:13 PM
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They clean, they spend hours making themselves look good for you, they shoe interest in what they like ,(even if they hate it) they write letters, they buy you very sentimental gifts when they have the money, they make sacrifices, they cook for you, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:07 PM
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I think a lot of guys kind of project. They think that if they go to the gym it'll fix everything magically but that's not true. In reality the most important thing one has to work on is their personality. Look I'm ugly, I'm not even going to lie about that. But I still date because I care about the people I'm with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:05 PM
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I mean I'm not really in the heterosexual dating sphere I'm just trying to empathize with people. I mean, I'm a lesbian. I just mirroring what the original post said regarding sacrifice. This isn't really the gotcha you think this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:01 PM
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I don't know what kind of women you're seeing but Jesus Christ. I mean in my experience it's nothing like that. People just want somebody to love and somebody to be loved. I feel bad for you if you're interacting with people like that so regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:57 PM
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I did hear of it, but I do think it's kind of BS because more than looks factor in to make somebody eligible for a woman. these people were grading purely on physical attraction. Like if you're a good person you could go from a six to a 10. I'm not attractive at all and I still get women because they like my personality. And I'm sure it only applies to dating apps. Women don't put forth those traditional male associated romantic gestures, yes.. but they do put forth their own gestures that I gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:55 PM

Do you have trust issues, is everything good? I used to be in that state where my SO had to constantly prove to me that they were interested. It didn't end with her well at all. I'm pretty insecure about that constantly... but I kind of go back to reality. this is just a concern that's living in my head, primarily. I think what we would qualify as a "romantic gestures" is different between partners. The sooner you learn that, the more confident you will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:17 PM

As a woman who dates women only this isn't my experience at all, lmao. I can relate to the second paragraph, though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:43 PM

Did she outright say she would leave her bf to fuck the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:27 PM

I don't think anybody is obligated to appeal to the gaze of anybody else. What I do think is if you expect a relationship you have to put in the effort. if you don't put in the effort by improving yourself then you aren't going to expect one. That goes on both ends. your priority is to make the other person happy. As a lesbian I am dedicated to this 1000%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:48 PM

Oh, no! one random woman said something so now it applies to all women! That wasn't that got you I was expecting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:46 PM

Attraction is different for women. From my experience dating them you don't have to be physically attractive to be a viable partner for them. So even if you are not physically attractive you have a chance. Women are more reliant on personality than anything in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:45 PM

It's an indicator of whether or not somebody is online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:43 PM

Wouldn't more people more inclined to hook up resort to dating apps? You can't adequately generalize the population if said population only represents a biased pool of individuals. So Tinder women can't be generalized to women in general. Simply because that bias exists so prominently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:42 PM
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women are less reliant on physical attraction as a prerequisite for dating. It has been proven that women will date somebody with a good personality if they are less attractive as long as they have that good personality. So yes you can be an attractive and still a woman will go for you as long as you're a good person. In my experience with dating women, this has been completely true because I am not attractive at all. 80% metric derives itself purely from what is attractive physically to that in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:40 PM
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I think this should be a crime punishable by stoning. Really putting yourself out there to getting doxed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:33 PM
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Thank God I'm a lesbian lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:32 PM
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This makes no sense at all, honestly. I mean I get, it it's hard to be rejected but you can't hold it against people who never met you beforeq. they have gone out of their way to pick you. If you're doing 30 I'm sorry but you should experience the same standard. When people are young they're still figuring out relationships they don't really know the red flags. It's not their fault if somebody else chooses to leave them. Some cheaters you would never know that they would betray you because osten…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:30 PM
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What type of male? A rat, a fox, a Chihuahua?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:25 PM
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As a lesbian, liberal women. Not super liberal, but me left leaning. Purely because conservative women are more likely to be closeted so that comes with a lot of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:24 PM
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Lesbian women don't even date men, so they dont play any games on men or have those standards. They might date before figuring out their sexuality, but lesbians are notorious for defying gender norms. You do realize that when we erase men from the lesbian statistic, 25% of lesbians have experienced DV from a female partner, 52% of bi women have reported DV from a male only partner, and 33% of straight women report the same.. so in reality the abuse rate is very low
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:15 PM
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TBH I really can't back this up as a woman who dates other women, it really isn't true from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:50 PM
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I didn't think all women are suddenly demanding this. On a global scale, men are more advantaged than women because they have the physical power to get away with it. It's not their own shortcomings when they are literally forced not to pursue certain avenues. I guess men are at fault for not getting as much in the dating sphere, huh? It's their fault for not being equal!! It s because of their own shortcomings, obviously!! /s. See how stupid that sounds when I reverse it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:23 PM
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I think you're confusing equity with equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:19 PM
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Don't women have lives outside of procreation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:09 PM
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What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not going to enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:03 PM
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Apply that to both.men and women and you're golden
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:59 PM
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Why aren't you affording women the same standard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:58 PM
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Isn't it a well studied fact that men are more likely to keep an attractive partner if they have a problematic personality than women The bullshittery you're spewing is actually insane. Holy shit Also, who might be responsible for promiscuity when a woman engages in it? Women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:54 PM
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Accountability, an I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:45 PM
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I think it's a shallow interpretation of reality misconstrued as logic, looking at individuals from a distance and assessing them based upon that purely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:40 PM
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Saying that women are less physically capable is obvious. I think OP is clearly alluding to different sentiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:39 PM
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Sleeping around does not afford one an accurate gage as to how women are like because you are engaging in inherently superficial relations with them. Superficial relations yield superficial results.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:37 PM
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We are called the same species because we are the same species. Our sexual dimorphism is incredibly low for a primate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:35 PM
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so this measures lifetime rates at which people have been victims to DV. Women are modere likely to experience DV, so when you pair two women together.. yeah. Lesbian women experience that 43% of DV from every previous partner ever. 66% experiended DV from a female only partner and 33% experienced it form a female only partner. Bi women had around a 60% rate of experiencing DV, with around 89.5% having male only perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:33 AM
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As a lesbian I can attest that this is one of the single least accurate depictions of our relationships I have ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:32 AM
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In what way does it imply you were the reason for the problems in the marriage? you do realize that by ‘initiation,’ they mean ‘filed the paperwork,’ right? men are simply more reluctant to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:31 AM
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Talk to a divorce lawyer and they will tell you that women initiate divorce more often because the men refuse to sign the paperwork. By “initiation,” they truly just mean “filing”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:19 AM
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Men are, but abusers sure aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:16 AM
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Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:14 AM
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so this measures lifetime rates at which people have been victims to DV. Women are modere likely to experience DV, so when you pair two women together.. yeah. Lesbian women experience that 43% of DV from every previous partner ever. 66% experiended DV from a female only partner and 33% experienced it form a female only partner. Bi women had around a 60% rate of experiencing DV, with around 89.5% having male only perpetrators. Also, women who divorce don’t really get much from marriage and men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 11:12 AM
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They aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:38 AM
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There are people who insist that one woman has to be femme in the relationship or another has to be masc to the most saturated degree. I think it’s a ridiculous assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:09 PM
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Wdym? Sorry I am a lesbian so I am not really familiar with these dynamics haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:53 PM
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I am sick of the whole top/bottom or masc/femme debacle in lesbian relationships. It’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:45 PM
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As a lesbian I have not seen this very often, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:43 PM
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Because men havent been taught to view women in a way that is detached from a sexual viewpoint. This is why men with sisters fare better with female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:42 PM
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Yes, it exists. I had a gf like this,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:41 PM
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No. Men and women aren’t monolithic, homogenous groups that all entail or embody equal values. This is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:38 PM
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That’s horrible
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