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that is just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 09:03 PM
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do you ever have a serious reply? This is what automod is for!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 11:03 PM
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I hate feminists, what are you talking about. oh, you ran out of arguments, right. cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:26 PM
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so you're telling me that it's more important to YOU that the woman you knock up on accident be punished for sexing you by being forced to carry your child and then later the state will want you to support it, thereby punishing you as well. AND the solution is to abort and both of you be forced to raise an ethopian? You and this post are saturday morning bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:08 PM
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only men get punished for sex you been paying attention to abortion debate in our country lately? If so, please amend your statement accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 05:02 PM
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yes, i'm fine with women who don't want children having their tubes tied! It was only in the last decade really, that a doctor would agree to do that to a young woman, women were turned away from this option for forever! I tried to have it 20 yrs ago and was denied over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 04:57 PM
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by what mechanism would this be put into practice? How would it pass, what policy would be in place? Those are the questions that need answering when talking about making new laws. Otherwise it's just funtime at ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 04:55 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 04:53 PM
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except if it can't actually be implemented, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:42 PM
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nah, your plan is dumb and would never be implemented so it's not the perfect solution is it? I like /u/lordb0lton 's solution much better. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/brw5cq/question_for_pro_lifeanti_abortion_red_pill_men/eoh10en/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:33 PM
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go ahead and abort but still be forced to support a child? this doesn't solve anything for either party, it only punishes men and women for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:27 PM
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are you trolling? this makes no sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:25 PM
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disagree with gallant, 100% in no way are dark triad traits gallant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:10 PM
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dang woman, well played! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 04:27 PM
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++
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:25 PM
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what gives you the idea that I am "blind to the female social matrix"? Also, what do you mean by "the female social matrix"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 11:52 PM
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I don't either, it's not my position, it's these male commentators opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:19 PM
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no, the men in this chain were saying things were handed to women, that women made no efforts to fight for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:18 PM
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I don't know where you got all that from :/ I totally don't believe or want any of that. where did i tell anyone to be a radical incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 08:46 PM
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drive by insults that don't add to the convo or answer the questions for 1000 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:12 PM
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militant organization, with whatever violent or destructive stunt attached, is of course radical and absolutely women fighting back against rights they were denied. If women hadn't need to catch attention they wouldn't have resorted to it. Their destruction was meant to catch attention in order to secure votes to change policy and the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:00 PM
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They belive these kinds of things are petty issues. They usually do have a thicker skin than women. I agree, men think the issues of the thread i linked aren't worth supporting. I'm not sure thicker skin explains that, it seems like a separate argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:57 PM
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what does this have to do with my comment and/or post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 06:56 PM
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men who want to find pride and celebrate male achievement find ways to do it or find themselves naturally doing it in their lives. They do not care in the ways you just talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:58 PM
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well, I can't really argue with that. I personally dislike the dynamic and the shrieking from everyone, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:33 PM
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I find that to be false because whole swaths of men demonstrate solidarity and pride and brotherhood - all of the armed forced specifically encourage this type of mentality. All you are saying is that the consequences of your efforts are not worth making the effort, except you are blaming women for what they think of it. The consequences are "some people don't like what you're saying" - if that's going to stop you, it's your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:30 PM
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The individual is told to toughen up. The group is made fun of the minute they form. Society doesn’t want these groups so the loudest voices in society scream them down the moment any such group starts to form. Then it seems strange to me that these black pill/incel types make posts here on ppd that generate 107 karma. It does not appear that men are conditioning other men or ostracizing them into silence. Can you explain why that isn't happening on a very public forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:20 PM
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You might have noticed in my post that the issues quoted were about looks, posted by a male in response to fat acceptance approval. I am not unaware of current men's rights issues. otherwise the movement is demonized and/or ignored. I think men in this thread pretty clearly explained that the issues listed in my OP are things men don't care about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 05:08 PM
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no worries, i think we missed each other somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:47 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:25 PM
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indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:24 PM
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Men are not allowed to complain without facing condemnation "not allowed" - false "without facing condemnation" - everyone faces the possibility of being judged for what they believe. EVeryone. Those who let condemnation stop them can't be heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:17 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:11 PM
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I'm confused, I quoted a post that a male made about male issues and asked men why they don't organize over it. The sane responses have been "because men don't even care about the issues in that post".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:09 PM
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Well that's false, my post quotes a post about men whining about things even men dont care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:07 PM
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feel free to report any of my comments that argue in bad faith or break ppd rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:06 PM
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At least they were willing to show up and not hide behind a keyboard. You know what's funny, those pussyhat parades where women cared soooooooooooooo much about women?? . ..... every bar on the street was full of drunk women wearing pink hats and getting sloshed all day watching the parade lol. Let's don't get too overboard here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:01 PM
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I'm guessing those movements have nothing to do with penis size, shortness, or balding. They are actual issues that men care about for themselves and for other men. They matter so much to men that men are risking it anyways. That , I respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:59 PM
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EDIT: I will admit OP is being a bit of a dick though How am I being a dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:54 PM
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Ok admittedly I have no actual examples of notable protests by mens right activists. Literally any violent revolution that ever existed. Any defensive war too. thank you, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:52 PM
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so feminism only exists because men allowed it. If men had the power to take it back, why haven't they? All they did was whine for a bit and got everything handled to them, as always. This is why these discussions grow boring, can't argue with such an emotional reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:45 PM
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I'm asking why men care at all what women think, why does it stop them. I'm not talking about why its not all universal "Everyone is beautiful"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:40 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:32 PM
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it is women creating acceptance from other women shaming their issues. agreed. however, that women do it to women doesn't explain why men can't create activism for themselves. I don't mean that only men fat shame, hell women slut shame women in their own circles too. That's the FSM. I want to know why men who legitimately want to be considered, despite their possible shortness, baldness, or penis size, aren't making their own efforts. Why does what women say in response matter in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:32 PM
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I agree with most of this however, That took more balls than anything a mens right activist ever did to protest. I disagree that male activists have been outdone by female activists in the balls department, it's intuitively false to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:18 PM
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can you link a scene that tells me specifically how I am wrong? I can't argue with a movie, ya know? Just tell me the concepts you're thinking of from the movie if you don't want to link a scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:09 PM
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For history standards feminism was a rather peaceful "revolution" ok I actually agree here , although there were buildings or homes blown up which is what I was thinking about. That might have been the UK and not the US though, so I'm willing to concede.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:07 PM
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little dick acceptance and fat acceptance are on a pretty even unpolitical keel - they do not take rights from others or give rights to anyone, they foster acceptance at a 'public message' level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:54 PM
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are you bothered by women's acceptance issues? Does fat women supporting fat women bother you? I don't give two shits about it either honestly, I'm mostly curious about men who do seem to care about it and feel it harms them in some way. Men who don't care are not part of the discussion really, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:48 PM
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if you think that no women will support any men's issues, I have some beans for you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:40 PM
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well if you read all my comments, I've mentioned it already a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:37 PM
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If men didn't care about women's desire to have the right to vote, how could women have gotten it? They obviously couldn't vote to give themselves the right to vote and women aren't capable of forming a militia that can defeat an all male military force. "A suffragette was a member of militant women's organisations in the early 20th century who, under the banner "Votes for Women", fought for the right to vote in public elections, known as women's suffrage. The term refers in particular to member…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:34 PM
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Men are just as big of an obstacle to men's issues being taken seriously as women are totally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:30 PM
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this is so ignorant of 20th century western history that I have no idea how to respond to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:26 PM
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Why am I a prime example, do you believe my arguments are some form of man-hatred? I have not actively opposed, shut down, or claimed women's issues to be more important. I do not believe that at all. so men concede we have no power Those ARE excuses though, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:21 PM
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Do you know about the early 20th century violence created by women to achieve more rights? Suffragettes were blowing up buildings and going to prison for their rights. You are ignorant of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:18 PM
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It's curious to me that women created what you call institutional power and most men on this thread seem not to believe men can create it also. Women literally blew things up to carve their place and men seem to respond about being shamed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:15 PM
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social media crucifies women every day, why is that something that women decide to handle but men shy from? So you are going to be doxxed and fired for caring about male pattern baldness acceptance? that sounds kind of hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:07 PM
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That sounds like men can't solve their own problems but women can. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:06 PM
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women literally forced their concerns to be listened to. They got their hands dirty and put in the work. All I'm hearing so far from this thread is that men aren't capable of the same efforts because women don't care about men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:05 PM
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Men are not allowed to complain without facing condemnation from society Sounds like an excuse and not reality. Do you think women aren't being condemned for their efforts? They are. So
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:03 PM
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Why are they upset? Most aren't, just the insecure losers that want to bitch on the internet and YouTube. I would consider that bitching on the internet to be their 'movement' honestly, that's where they put their energy. It just seems kind of dumb that it's so useless a task.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:01 PM
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Women's movements get off the ground because both men and women care about the wellbeing of women. interesting, because i don't care at all about women's movements or support them in any way. On top of that women tend to actively oppose men's movements and spaces because everyone seems to think it's a zero sum game, anything that is deemed to be apposing or harming women's movements in any way will promptly be decried as misogynist or some other slur that will make the general pro woman public t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:00 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:51 PM
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Why do women need to care about men for men to care about themselves and other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:51 PM
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how do you justify your victimhood while women handle their issues? Men shame women for their issues, yet women still create acceptance. What is different between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:51 PM
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Why is it that you have to care about other men? If you have a problem, it's your problem. If men don't care about themselves or other men, why are they so upset that women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 01:49 PM
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have you read their wife-raping porn stories yet? those are my fav
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:06 PM
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scope?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:07 PM
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slope?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:06 PM
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soap?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:05 PM
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Younger woman are positive, energetic, and full of excitement and joy of life (why wouldn't they be, they have the world wrapped around their finger). no, they just haven't met that many men yet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:08 PM
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I see which side of the jaded and bitter spectrum you landed on. well i mean, she's red pill and redpill is sexual strategy so she's saying that your idea isn't good for women because x,y,z.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:31 PM
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well this isn't a self help forum, nor is this TRP although it's kind of hard to tell some days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:24 PM
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no problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:31 PM
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well sure, if they accept a slowed down sex life in the same way oldness makes you bald, that seems reasonable. I think what saves those situations is that they make each other feel loved in other ways to compensate, so there's still care and comfort there for both. To me, when someone's talking about a DB, it's understood that they aren't happy about it, that there's resentment and sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:20 PM
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I'm guessing those people don't have a problem then and aren't part of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:14 PM
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such a great response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 05:07 PM
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learning to accept it is failure, period. That worse things could be happening is a terrible reason to accept failure. I do not believe that anyone should just learn to accept it because it's better than cancer or dead babies or a million other tough things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:44 PM
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lolz i was re-reading that over and over !
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:39 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:29 PM
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Late 40's. Nearly every marriage i know in my age group went through phases of DB and working it out. Theres like three couples that probably don't have sex at all anymore though, those people let themselves go and don't love each other anymore. I think it's a gamble, no matter how much you don't want to find yourself in a DB situation in your marriage, recognizing the signs that it's going there is sometimes hard until it's already fucked up and now you have to work to fix it. There are no perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 04:11 PM
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Which is not the same as SEX
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:25 PM
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Of course sex is a sexual need, what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:24 PM
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Are you seriously asking if mom hugs relieve sexual need?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:12 PM
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You draw a weird and distracting argument here, of course anyone can believe what is bad for health is a medical need to prevent or make right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:11 PM
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Masturbation is not sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:08 PM
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Answer my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:05 PM
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describe to me what exact social validation is given when two people have sex? demonstrate to me the percentage of people who find social acceptance wrt sex as alleviating the NEED for sex? (not masturbation but actual sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:44 PM
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masturbation is not sex if thats your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:41 PM
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yes, band aids on gushing arteries is also self evident yes it perpetuates loser-y
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:38 PM
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i'm struggling to understand your distinction. SEX is so much a need that men and women masturbate in lieu of actual sex with another human. what social validation are you speaking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:36 PM
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which is of course my point. sex is so much a need that certain people must masturbate to relieve SOME of the desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:24 PM
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masturbation doesn't fulfill at all is my point. it's done as a bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:23 PM
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it absolutely IS a need for humans, those who can't get it masturbate. That masturbation even exist is need made self evident
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:04 PM
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yes absolutely, they are trying to get men to "high beta" status which means leadership and comfort skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:40 PM
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alphas are largely born that way, not made. For the purposes of discussion lets assume that Alpha just means a man heavy in alpha traits (physical good looks, social status, confidence). Confidence is the only relevant thing on your list there. If you read TRP you find that most people believe "anyone can be a natural if they practice hard enough" smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:27 PM
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did you accept your fatness then and learn some work around? if not, you['re just another whiner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 08:30 PM
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It's fine to dislike a system, it's fine to complain about it, it's fine not to know what you're talking about while you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:49 PM
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the foster system is not just people trying to adopt children. You said you'd be willing to pay for a system ( that you described) and I'm telling you that system will never exist. Conflating adoption with foster care doesn't help your point either. If you're point is all about the children, you aren't actually describing something that's good for children. We already have this system and it's pretty awful for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:37 PM
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And yes. I have no problem with paying taxes for a government program that removes children from stupid parents, takes care of them and puts them in the hand of more competent parents. this is a false narrative of what happens to the kids and their quality of life. Some states have so many foster kids, they are keeping them in motels in other states. Your idea sounds nice but doesn't work like that in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:20 PM
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22 is not far past the wall, it's not even up to the sidewalk. unless you hit the wall at 8 and are fat and gross and socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:07 PM
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ok? congrats?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:26 PM
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So you would never be aggressive towards a man either? I am genuinely uncertain of what you are saying, not being an idiot. It's sounded like you were saying that a trait about yourself (being willing to be aggressive in an argument) is something you wouldn't do to a woman - but you are saying you wouldn't do it at all? Which are you saying? Have you never been aggressive to anyone and would not value that in a female? Are you saying you'd not be aggressive with a female...??....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 06:11 PM
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What are some masculine traits you like about yourself, but would hate in a partner? I can’t think of any traits I wouldn’t like in a partner either. it's fine, ty for answering my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:48 PM
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so , you can think of some you wouldnt like then. ok ty. Just because you wouldn't do some masculine behavior doesn't mean those behaviors or traits don't exist. I don't know what you are on about with the handicapped question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:35 PM
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I can’t think of any traits I wouldn’t like in a partner either. so you'd like a dominant aggressive female mate who never bent to you in anyway? You'd like a woman to go toe-to-toe with you in an argument as if she were a man too? SEriously doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:05 PM
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Kidnappers often use children or women to add a false sense of security. Why? Because it takes advantage of people’s preconceived notions on the probability of danger. so male bad guys need women crimebeards to get away with their plans..... So even male criminals know that they are more dangerous than women and use that element to their advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 04:32 PM
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it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:35 PM
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better a faggot than a dumb hole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:18 PM
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he felt personally attacked by atlas 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:28 PM
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did you just throw in 'trp' so you could post this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:50 PM
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he is not moralizing, he is talking about the connotation of the words you chose to define your post. You've been screeching about moralizing and being personal rather than addressing the post you wrote and the replies you received. I'm kind of guessing you don't care as long as your post gets lots of replies so it looks like a successful SMoogsDailyColumn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:28 PM
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again, what moralizing and why are you bringing up father daughter relationships again when your post is about dating. You are being so full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:21 PM
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lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 04:03 PM
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) A man and woman are dating. They go out to a romantic Valentines Day dinner. Once back home, she jerks off into a towel and passes out. He becomes upset. correct, he did not give the reverse of scenario A, his reversal was 'woman is bought dinner and doesn't put out', not whacking off in her own socks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:54 PM
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no, he's not asking any of these questions in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:52 PM
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a) A man and woman are dating. b) A man and a woman are dating. You didn't ask about fathers, you listed dating scenarios. I hate myself for answering your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:31 PM
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you listed two scenarios that affect ATTRACTION. I still don't see the point or answer you are after. Can you explain? You said not to moralize, but your questioning itself moralizes. Attraction killed is not a moral issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:27 PM
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what exactly am I moralizing? please paste anything I said that was moralizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:20 PM
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no, it's not unreasonable as I clearly said in my answer, that a woman on a date with a man who jacks off instead of having sex with her is free to be mad and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:19 PM
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I'm answering the questions YOU asked. If you have some specific point to make, I sure wish you'd do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:16 PM
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if we aren't getting sex or protection, exactly what do we need men for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:15 PM
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so only answer with some hypothetical guess about hypothetical women and not from experience? We get enough of that already around here. Dating someone is not making them your partner. If we are dating and the guy would rather get off in his socks, we are not dating anymore, let alone partners. You are using muddy language.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:11 PM
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If a dude took me out on a date, brought me home, and jacked off - I'd think he's a noodge and I'm outta here but not because I was entitled to anything...just that the guy is a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:05 PM
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Might as well have titled this "Q4M What Would You Change About Reality?".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:18 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:12 PM
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I'd love to see it some day :0
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:10 PM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 04:07 PM
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That's like a generous 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 04:00 PM
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good god, he even has dimple chin. come on lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:59 PM
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he got that Chad pose and muscles which all men think women like the post is who do males think are fucking that girl and i don't think your boi is it. I think it's geeky fat awkward guys into magic and poly and I'm right because I've met those gals plenty irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:57 PM
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that is not a woman's 6/10. That's like a generous 3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:50 PM
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so.....IndianChad is fucking the girl in OP? I would not think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:48 PM
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well sorry! i said sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:26 PM
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you think that girl is is a 5? good god have the women all turned into wales? what the fuck has happened! Edit sorry, i read that wrong too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:16 PM
3

oh come on now, don't be coy. "you heard" pfft
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 08:45 PM
1

well yeah kinda, it's just a shame there's no big dicks though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:07 PM
3

not with the man she really desires, but a man on her level yes, women should settle for reality rather than fantasy to get relationships. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:22 PM
1

nope - had no idea.... made it to 47, married 7 years, no clue about anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:07 PM
2

what distinction are you making and why is it important
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:01 PM
1

Hey i have no problem going dutch ever, that's not the asshole part I'm addressing. This thing you wrote reads like grudge-dating with lots of grudgey rule-type things. I personally would sense that underlying disdain and pay the full bill for you and verbally assault you til you left in your bitchin camaro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:00 PM
0

So she's gotta pay half cause you dont have money, got it. You know it's fine for people to split bills, not sure why you wrote it like it was some test of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 10:30 PM
7

so.....show up and be an asshole on principal and when she's like eww there's something weird wrong with you, you can blame her? how does showing up being some fucking hysterical unpleasant asshole prove anything other than you're an angry asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:00 PM
-1

The social decline? every day all around me i see normal men and women having fun, families, dates, etc. What social decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:06 PM
2

there is no chip on my shoulder, that is just you running out of honest argument and dipping into insults. Don't be fat is advice women also give women. It's barely advice in the grand scheme of being a woman. As for dating vs relationships, women date to make relationships. You are classically displaying male solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:51 PM
2

see, this is advice that men give women so that women will please MEN. it says zip to a woman about how to attain HER desires. You have exactly nothing here that is all that useful...don't be fat? cool, that certainly covers all the concerns women have when making decisions about who they choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:25 PM
3

don't ask either. If a woman wants to know how to win, she asks women who are winning. boy or man, makes no difference - you are still giving advice that benefits MEN. Ok I will humor you, hit me with some great wisdom for young women dating and looking to LTR/marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:23 PM
1

the one female i can think of who could actually advise a man ++
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:07 PM
3

I disagree, men are far more upfront in what they want. that's nice but it means nothing with regard to GOOD advice FOR women. Men give women advice on how to be what a man wants and that's fine but it's directly opposite of advice that is GOOD for women. Same in reverse, women advise men to be what women want, which is directly opposite of GOOD advice for MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:50 PM
22

Men should not be listening to women and women should not be listening to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 01:15 PM
6

lol right, it was soooooo easy and CHEAP to get a vhs porno in 1980! What do old people know anyway??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 07:07 PM
3

++
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:48 PM
2

Who cares about women complaining about being single. Why is one movie and one actress a demonstration of caring about single women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 04:25 PM
2

yeah, it was a fast drop, kinda made me nauseous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:57 AM
3

well this is a fat heap of horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 01:52 AM
3

girlpowermarketing.com you thought this was legit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:56 PM
4

is that an actual argument you feel worth investing time over? It's kind of CaptainObvious, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:38 PM
2

++
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:28 PM
3

NO. Marriage is the legal union of two people as recognized by the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:45 PM
3

There's nothing insane about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:41 PM
2

they now require prenups to be vetted by lawyers on both sides, require 7 days before they become effective and proof that non-native speakers had them explained in their native tongue. that is the change they made. They made it so that both parties must be represented by a lawyer and the function of those lawyers is to draw up a contract that is LEGAL and can be upheld by a judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:27 PM
3

I'm talking about the LEGAL agreement that is a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:17 PM
4

He watched Marie Antoinette obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:15 PM
3

simply because she's decided half its value belongs to her. That's pretty retarded, they both decide it when they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 04:13 PM
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dumb thot? She's his wife and the mother of their children. He wronged her, how can you think so stupidly of the scenario? baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:49 PM
1

so I see you've meet Smoogs finally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:52 PM
1

why are you retarding at me over this. She clearly said she can't help him find a correct sub because she doesn't care about the issue. There is no difference in any of the three scenarios you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:35 PM
3

nothing in her comments is specific or personal to OP so don't feed me lines ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:02 PM
5

why should she?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:12 PM
3

++
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:29 PM
3

came here to say it but you already
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 10:05 PM
2

liam neeson had white guilt and vanilla racism and fell on his own sword over sentiment and women as victims of rape. How is this relevant to the post or my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 06:44 PM
2

did you forget there's a post being debated? For the practical sake of this, she repeats the mantra in her head “all men are rapists” stay on topic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:45 PM
1

so i only need a mantra around native americans specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:18 PM
4

It's not rape to tell a story. You made a whole post around men being metoo'd - over a story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:14 PM
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Gosh I wonder if her upcoming movie has anything to do with anything Sounds like a publicity stunt. There are no charges and only one man stepped forward to say he'd been raped but later said he made it up for entertainment. yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 01:56 PM
1

what do you want, an AMANLT and two studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:28 PM
2

no, not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 10:45 PM
3

betting 5$ biBi has no idea 3rd wave intersectional is solely a usa thing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 08:08 PM
5

I love men AND capitalism! so there!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 07:59 PM
2

the reason you didnt get laid on that date was because the woman found you distasteful lol YOU made this about YOU obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:46 PM
5

or maybe some dudes go off on crazy tangents and say wild hysterical things out of butthurtness........cough I'm not having the 'why women are careful around strange men' talk with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:26 PM
6

it's not "older women raising their standards" almost no women want to fuck the married guy. This has nothing to do with old. Women don't want to share, they don't want to be the late night married man's bootie call. This is not about no sex before exclusivity at all. You are making it that instead facing reality that you are a loser in the dating world, and not to just old women. Married man on dating apps for PnD is literally the bottom of the barrel choice for any woman. especially if they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:17 PM
7

but do you make 60k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:13 PM
7

phenomenon? Doesn't want a married guy for a BF is hardly some phenomenon. This whole post is about you, come on now, no one's fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:11 PM
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AGREE however, meeting someone for the first time as a woman, you do have to be careful about pissing men off. She was nice about it and she protected herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:10 PM
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ok - she didn't pass you over for the reason she gave(not having sex with a man before they become exclusive.) She passed you over once she found out you are married, you are married - that means no exclusivity. She thought well enough of herself not to stoop to the gutters for some dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:08 PM
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I've gotten better results this way, so I'm sticking to it. I'm curious, if you're just playing the numbers game, why the need to come here and put someone on blast...You're making it sound like game and that's fine, but this post screams butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 06:06 PM
7

Some woman turned you down on the first date for sex because you were married and it didn't fit her morals or ethics. You weren't straightforward until the meet, and she politely turned you down. Now you're here railing about bitches thinking they're too good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:54 PM
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you did, when you wrote this piece and summarized your own failure to fuck, like talking about her SMV/RMV and her quakerness and botox (snort). If you didn't feel slighted, then all this is is a humblebrag talk shit about women post. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:48 PM
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NO - this dude is married and she passed on him politely with a statement that is general and not personal. If she had said EWWWW FUCK YOU- that would be confrontational and most women don't work that way, especially on a first date and they have no idea what kind of person the guy is or what he is capable of. Yes, she's weeding out the losers and the late stage fuckbois, especially the married ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:45 PM
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Yeah, when you finally told her in the middle of the first date that you were married, she bailed. Does she owe you sex still once she finds out you're a scumball? NO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:42 PM
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She didn't fuck you because you are a married man, all that you quoted her saying in response is just the way women turn down men without it getting confrontational. This has nothing to do with her lips or roleplaying a quaker - she let you down easily. yall dudes is thick AF Edit: you didn't tell her you were married until you met and now you're surprised she let you down easy??? What kind of retarded bullshit are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:36 PM
3

These are pretty much my thoughts too. If my h gave me a baby anything to care for, I'd be on it post haste.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:26 PM
4

Of course many women will complain they married deadbeats because those guys can always get a side chick so they don't really give a fuck. That's not why women call men deadbeats. Deadbeats are absent fathers and husbands who don't take care of their families financially or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 02:17 PM
1

what in the fuck are you even saying to me right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:18 PM
3

god I hope so, I am so bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:08 PM
3

ok well Chad is one thing and Alpha is another. I hate the auto-conflation of the two. It makes me want to bathe in acid. You can go anywhere and find what you're describing - anywhere men go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:07 PM
5

I married a bad guy at 40 after years of plenty of it. Go ahead men, let those exploding brains unleash. seriously though, How often do you go out and meet an alpha and how old are you? Are you really seriously asking this question like women even think "going to the alpha block to smashsmash me some more alphas" while putting on their lipstick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:58 PM
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It doesn't need mods to do it for you, you said it was nonserious snarky joking yourself. All it takes is copy/pasting your own comment where you did acknowledge it belonged. whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:46 PM
3

a non-serious snarking answer is certainly not top comment material. I'm getting that from you own words lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:35 PM
1

you don't need to mod yourself to fix where you put a comment as per the rules of this sub. Most people would be like oop sorry, let me fix that. I have done that myself several times - oops let me fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:32 PM
2

uh, im 47 and led a wild life, i have been outside the bedroom plenty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:30 PM
1

you can't police yourself? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:07 PM
4

yes actually, since reading all your paragraphs about how certain types of men show up in these comments just to fuck around and whatever....you know......the please report rule breaking comments thread???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 07:03 PM
1

i mean that you finally shared your thoughts on the topic in a way that was genuine TO the topic. Do you see what i mean, im not triggered by it but it is a common thing in these threads. My actual complaint about men running around up in the q4w threads was what instigated this post in the first place . You showed up and proved me right lol I'ts whatever, I went off on it because it was what instigated this post in the first place, I think you're funny and if you like acutally added to the conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:42 PM
2

nah Chad is like go ahead boys, im stayin here with the women! I didn't come here to smoke cigars and sip with the men's circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:38 PM
1

well, i don't believe that one bit and I understand why you'd have to backpeddle here. Seems to me when called out on it, you changed your behavior, which is good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:32 PM
1

well no, i mean I'm identifying that 'triggered' is your mission here in this thread. recognizing your mission is not being what you were trying for dumbdumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:24 PM
1

then that would be the input needed in this thread, and not the lazy negging cheap shots that add nothing but your own amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:21 PM
2

just here to troll around eh? what does your comment have to do with what she's describing? this is what usually happens when q4w posts are up. Some men just run around trolling at women with no real interest in what they say at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 06:15 PM
2

well, that's what it took for me to throw out a life long system of dealing with men and not laugh in his face when he locked me down for monogamy FROM me. I knew a hundred before him that were also really rough around the edges and didn't pander to women to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:56 PM
3

I will describe my husband and the first few times I saw him and was around him. I was anti- marriage, don't even leave a toothbrush son, until I put eyes on my now H of 7 yrs. The best words that I think of him as are Regal and Powerful, he stood in his natural relaxed state with a barreling proud chest and a chin pointed upwards, as if above everyone around him, like a lion in a cub's den. There was something about his eyes when he was scanning the room, watching people - it's how he caught my…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:34 PM
1

so this is an advice post? This is PPD, not TRP or whatever. Why do we need to debate your personal preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:04 PM
2

If anyone felt that way they'd have said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:30 AM
12

Most women intuitively know that walking around busting men's asses like a bro is gonna make for messy. We aren't your bros and you'd fucking hate us if we were.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:14 AM
7

It was literally THE QUESTION FOR WOMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:12 AM
3

hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 07:56 PM
2

I'm so glad I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:50 PM
3

what? explain sperm competition and women's eyes please How Can Mirrors Be Real If Our Eyes Aren't Real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:42 PM
4

OP mentions that the hypothetical woman dated men opposite of the hypothetical man. yes and those men turned out not to value commitment in the process of her dating them. Nothing changed quickly that now he matches her values, he valued commitment TOO and she stayed. (i.e. monkey branching) ok that's not the correct term but I know what you mean. After 5 years, she hadn't done a single thing like branch swing or any other horrible thing other than "dated people different than him".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:20 AM
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yeah i can get on board with that although i don't know why people are staying with people who dont do the sex right in the first place. no need to marry, no need to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 10:35 PM
2

++
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 10:30 PM
3

I just don't know if it would necessarily apply if there was lying or intentional lying by omission as that builds the whole thing on a foundation of dishonesty. The scenario presented doesn't actually offer enough information to decide what was lying on purpose, does it? I agree with you that a BF who finds out something that horrifies him, does not owe it to anyone to stay no matter the years he's invested. I think also that between two live people, what was described here doesn't match with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 09:30 PM
2

I do think that sunk cost fallacy isn't a strong reason to stay though. It is if the value matches or exceeds the price right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 09:10 PM
2

oh no! so sorry! he asked if i was azn!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:20 PM
3

thank you for pointing out that the missing context matters more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:14 PM
5

I'm pretty sure it's happening to the actual MRP user base as they write epic novels of their efforts to TRP their wives for whatever reason. Some of the shit they claim to pull on their women is just batty as fuck. I also don't believe them that those field reports are real, it's just locker talk bullshit that men do when bored i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:30 PM
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How does she go about finding out which men want to commit other than to date and get to know them and then find out with time what they actually want? Are dudes wearing name tags now "will commit, i promise!" or "just here for that youth and clean bathroom" ??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:21 PM
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Also, I like how you're ignoring that the relationship was essentially built on lies by omission. I'm not ignoring anything. I don't believe the OP story is 'what actual whores who will blow you life up' looks like. The OP's woman was described to be perfect in every way (she even values men who value commitment) but you are somehow saying that none of the 5 years of fun and sex and commitment from her mean more than the number or type of past partners she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 06:18 PM
4

First. He can change ideas. So, it's fine for him to OP a story and then argue a point he never made in the OP? It's one thing to post something you don't really understand and change your ideas or opinions, that's the point of this sub anyways. It's not the same thing to write a scenario and then respond to others with a totally different scenario. Are you seriously not able to understand what point I am making?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:58 PM
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The only difference is your liberal sense of morality. Obviously said friend has more conservative values. you don't know my morality from one exchange, that's just mud slinging and not even worth replying to but whatever. IN THE OP THEY ARE HAPPY AND SHE LEFT THOSE OTHER GUYS BECAUSE THEY WOULD NOT COMMIT, WHICH IS A VALUE SHE HAS THAT ALL MEN ARE CRYING ABOUT WOMEN NOT HAVING. He's not just a safe bet. He matches her values. she matches his except for the so called whore part. It's fine he wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:54 PM
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Well it seems to me that before he knew her past, he was pretty happy. Seems he's now going to undo his own happiness over some irrational slut fear. Seems to me if he's willing to break down what they have built, he's a loser and she's better off with him leaving. lol @ reformed whore. People who are normal and have normal everyday dating and sex lives 🙄 Again, I seriously doubt many of the men on reddit hysterically blowing up their own lives over reformed whoreism have actually kept any relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:43 PM
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I mean that I replied to what he WROTE and then he argued with me THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT HE WROTE and seems to have no idea what my words mean. Why are you white knighting for this ridiculous post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:38 PM
3

oh i don't know, the fact he can't read his own post ??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:34 PM
1

Not exactly. If he has a good wife and a good life, why change? they aren't married in this OP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:34 PM
8

Let's say he was dating a woman for 5 years and that their relationship is fun and the sex is good, They both are in mid 30's and the man has had just a couple of relationships while the woman had had her share of fun with "bad boys."The man finds out that the men the woman dated were the opposite of him and she chose the guy because the others had commitment phobia Did you read your own post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:31 PM
4

that seems like a rude question but ok. No I'm a honky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:24 PM
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Q4W : Does the man has the right to do so and do u think his choice is perfectly fine Right? They aren't married. SEcondly, he's an idiot for leaving after investing 5 years with someone who clearly is fun and sexual. More than fun and sexual though, what are their separate and shared values? Do they complement each others goals? Why would you leave if all that matches up and there's fun and sex too? This is a dumb reason to bail. Do men even do this? I don't think it's going to be that common o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:22 PM
2

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:17 PM
6

Does the article at all talk about sex before marriage? Curious if he EVER did that stuff in the first place. Seems fair to me from the RP male point of view too. Men absolutely express that cheating is excusable with a DB, why would that not bother me but a woman doing it would?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:16 PM
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this is good publicity for you during election!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 05:05 PM
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