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| 57 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you? | Inner Game | Friendly-Media4214 | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 03:53 AM |
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| 1 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?You should be practicing and improving in all facets of life including the opposite sex | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 01:55 AM |
| 37 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.I’m sure I’ve been on the other end of that once or twice. Definitely makes you think. | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 11:12 PM |
| 96 | This is a message to all genuine men. Please learn seduction and game. Because the game is colder than liquid nitrogen. What I saw this weekend is an example of that.I used to see a girl that would call me while she was out on a date to come over to her apartment. I’ll be sitting there waiting while they were pulling up. I’ve talked to a girl a handful of times on dating apps about how we can fall around, but they can still go out on dates. Needless to say they absolutely love the idea | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 10:39 PM |
| 2 | I think I’ve overcomplicated cold approach so much that I’ve actually gotten worse at it. How do I simplify this?Honestly, it’s easy as going up to a girl and saying you “know you caught my eye. just wanted to come say hi.” And they just start talking to her or I came over here to hit you…. I didn’t think this through this far though.” or I’ve seen you in here a few times and you caught my eye you’re gonna mean to that fucking easy. I wish I would learn it a long time ago yeah their situational things you can say but if they don’t come quick, then just do that. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Best cameras for taking photosI think you can get a good beginner level camera for under $1000 which I’m about to buy myself | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 10:42 PM |
| 4 | How to escalate into a blowjob in a carkiss, kissing hands all over her body, including her neck and face chin, etc. move to sl iding finger around her chin, her lips and in her mouth . if she takes it willingly . That alone will give you a good indication 4) assuming she is sucking on your finger….. “I think we need to get a little bit something bigger in your throat“ If she is sucking on your finger, I guarantee you she’s about to say yes | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.For beginners again, I have to reiterate, making a guy contact, smiling, and being truly happy on the inside and being open goes a really long way, you’d be surprised | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.OK, well that’s different, that’s not an opener. That’s just something you keep doing and practicing with people, everybody man or woman. Even if you’re not attracted to them, you just need to make that conversation. But don’t make it “boring” Maybe find something you’re genuinely curious about or just have fun. I can probably think of some examples if you want to discuss. But he said that maintain eye contact smile and be a beat can change the tone of a boring conversation to something more int… | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 04:59 PM |
| 20 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.This is often just flat out overthink-ed. I’ve gone up to women and had good success saying “hey I just wanted to come say hi. You caught my attention from across the room and you just look like my type“ if you say something like that like a normal human being just look her in the eye, and maybe smile a little bit and show some confidence you’d be surprised how far that goes. You look like my type, you caught my attention, you looked interesting. You look like you’d be fun to talk to you, etc. e… | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 01:42 PM |
| 64 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.This is a situation where all you have to do is sit down and start talking to her like a normal person. Flirt a little bit, make her laugh, and have fun, as long as you don’t say some stupid you’re gonna be good | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.Yall are making this way to complicated. But. If it works for you that what matters. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 12:41 PM |
| 20 | I made a performative male profile on Hinge and got a ton of matchesYeah I dont get it. I don’t understand where the “soft” part comes in either. Edit: yeah I watched about the first 30 seconds of that video in nope the fuck out | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 2 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.I want to add that it’s not always what you say but how you say it and what you do. “Hi“ or “how are you doing“ can be very powerful with the right delivery and eye contact | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 72 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Ain’t no pussy like new pussy. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 05:14 PM |
| 13 | My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left.Nobody but you gotta know you got there early. Lol it makes for good logistics if you’re familiar with the place. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 03:44 AM |
| 15 | Tips for a 45m who is attracted by 20 and 30 years old in the UK.I would not say “extreme” but yeah you have to have your shit together IMO | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How to shake hands when approaching?Maybe shake it and gently hold it in your hands a little bit as you look right into her eye, caressing the back with your thumb | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?Sometimes it’s just about being flexible to another human being. I mean, do you treat a male friend the same way. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:36 AM |
| 13 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?That’s kind of a narrow-minded view. Meeting halfway is usually considered a pretty reasonable compromise when two people live in different places. I’ve gone on several “meet halfway” dates before that ended with blowjobs or sex in the car, so it’s clearly not some unreasonable idea. I’ve also had plenty of women just invite me straight over to their place for that matter. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Would you say it's too late ?Yes, I understand that many people believe this is the path to meaning… …. but believing it doesn’t make it logical. And to me it is illogical | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Would you say it's too late ?Fuck all this business about rushing to get married and have kids. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 01:25 AM |
| 1 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.Well, you gain some experience and you definitely learned to listen. I’ve done the exact same thing a couple times over and I’ve learned it several years later. | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 03:29 PM |
| 18 | First time trying to socialize in Miami (volleyball meetup to nightlife) and I accidentally burned $2400 at a strip club. Lessons learned.I haven’t read your post yet, but this just comes from reading the title, but going to a strip club does nothing for you but set you back | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?This goes a long way | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I was out with a girl, and all of the sudden she had to sneeze. Is this a shit test?I would just assume it was, yes | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Tips on picking up girls at coffee shops and libraries?Probably talk to you about it more but if nothing else just go up there and say “have I seen you here before, I come here pretty often what’s your name?” | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:35 PM |
| 6 | How I got hot women to DM me on InstaI mean, it makes the post kind of moot. | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 04:47 PM |
| 12 | How I got hot women to DM me on InstaYeah, that’s obviously gonna be a gateway to meet women | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 12:55 PM |
| 17 | How I got hot women to DM me on InstaI’ve been wanting to get into photography. What’s your theme? Do you just take pictures of whatever. Cityscapes, people? | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?I can’t say for sure but I’d say the one that has clientele that you’re interested in dating, maybe college bar maybe with middle-age people. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?Who do you think gets hit on more Male barista or male bartenders? Who is around more woman in the environment or mindset to date? Bartenders are also probably gonna make better money if you’re good | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 01:37 PM |
| 5 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?It is a Starbucks so it’s heavy traffic when I go. I actually go to the gym first pretty early and then I stop in for a little bit before I go into the office and I’m usually doing some work of some sort. I would think that a coffee shop at a bookstore doesn’t have quite as much traffic. Keep in mind the people that I talk to were the regulars that I saw nearly every day or several times a week if I didn’t see them regularly or once or twice at least I don’t normally talk to them. It makes it a … | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 12:21 PM |
| 3 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?It really is. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 01:58 AM |
| 26 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?I’ve been going to this particular coffee shop for sometime so I’m a pretty solid regular. just started actually trying to socialize with people i see very recently it didn’t take long before I met a girl that I started seeing regularly In my past, I have had quite a bit of sex, I am more into more consistent partners at this point | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 01:33 AM |
| 4 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?I’m working on becoming a bartender | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 12:54 AM |
| 18 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?A person of the opposite sex? What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 12:54 AM |
| 54 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?I’ve been going to the coffee shop every morning consistently in between the start of work and the gym, just to get work done. I started to see the same people every day, and then I thought that was “I need to be talking to these people.” And it paid off real quick. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 08:48 PM |
| 137 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?Go to the coffee shop every day at the same time. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 0 | newly single at 40 - is 40 an actual barrier for a guy that reduces his opportunies with younger women (late twenties to early thirties)?It’s not because you are 40 | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | regrets are hitting me hardIf you don’t want to self improve, then I don’t know what to tell you | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:03 PM |
| 3 | regrets are hitting me hardI didn’t know how to once either. Do you have the time to go to a coffee shop and just sit there for an hour before or after work? Maybe every single day? | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:01 PM |
| 4 | regrets are hitting me hardYou still can though | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:00 PM |
| 13 | regrets are hitting me hardA lot of those people who are just fucking are probably going to regret it later in life. When I was young, I made a lot of older guys and they talked about all the women they had sex with, but they were not accomplished or anything to admire in their older age, me now I’m 43 and in great shape have a pretty good career and still pushing things along and improving. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 24. You’re gonna have plenty of regrets no matter what you do to be honest with you. | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 18 | regrets are hitting me hardYou know I’m 43 and I had the most sexual experiences in my 30s and still doing it. I know it feels like you’re behind but you’re fine. You just need to keep trying and doing better every day. I do lose my virginity until I was 23 or 24. | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 07:55 PM |
| 30 | For The Guys That Have Successfully Dated Hot Girls From The GymDefinitely would say slow plate, agreed. As a sidenote, if you’re crushin’ on a specific girl, I’d almost just say fuck it and go with somebody else. Lol. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 08:34 PM |
| 7 | What went wrong?If you’re interacting gays you definitely did a lot of stuff right. | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 08:28 AM |
| 7 | Banned by yet another sub for participating hereRight. What an odd comparison. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 05:09 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?Yeah let Someone in your loose friend group have go while you were gone | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies?I didn’t hit my prime till the 30s, still doing great in my 40s. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Guys that never got girls in a club setting, what changes did you make to get lucky?Clubs really aren’t my scene but I’ve updated several waitresses from breakfast joints. Lol. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | If youre not gaming groups youre not gamingDid he say anything about clubs? Is that the only place you approached women. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 03:59 AM |
| 1 | oh i need helpNah forget this one. If you post interesting things on Instagram from time to time it my ruler back in, but I would forget about it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Approach!Sometimes people can just have conversation | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Ratio of successful cold approaches“Assuming you are confident throughout your interaction and you did nothing wrong”. That is very broad and subjective. | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | What is the most important key to flirting ?Understatement | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 02:36 PM |
| 2 | I also have 5 f×ck buddies. AMA!I mean, I work a full-time job we got a lot going on outside of work hobbies and interests. It’s just things I’m trying to do. I mean there was a point when I was dating a lot and it was exhausting. Lol. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 05:39 PM |
| 7 | I also have 5 f×ck buddies. AMA!I barely have enough time for two to be honest with you | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How to keep her off the pedestalBegging the questions/circular reasoning | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?I push every boundary I did see her in the gym this morning, definitely good report | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 02:47 PM |
| -1 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?😂. Oh swear summer child still thinking woman are sweet an innocent | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 02:43 PM |
| -2 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?I make sure to wear cloths, gym shorts, jeans that extenuates my build. yes woman look men’s bulge. Surprise surprise. It helps when you are bigger than average | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?I took somebody else’s advice, and “leaned into it” she was pretty receptive to my advances. Easy Peezy. The fact that you relate common sense to the approach of dating women tells me a lot about where you’re at. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 5 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Yeah, I took somebody else’s advice and “leaned into it”. She was pretty receptive to my advances. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?I agree, 100%. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:11 PM |
| 4 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Yeah, so I took somebody else’s advice and “lean into it”. I saw her in the gym this morning and that was definitely the right choice. Easy Peezy. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?I tend to agree. Any pointers? | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 05:06 AM |
| -33 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Nah she was all smiles as I stared her up and down right in front of her boyfriend, who obviously doesn’t even work out. I stood right in front of her while she was sitting on the bench and could clearly see my package as you sat there and stared at it, carried on the conversation and smiled. All in the gym where you are “not supposed to talk to anybody” | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?This is pretty much what I’ve been doing. It definitely gets me more attention than the gym plus she’s fun to talk to and maybe she has a friend. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 16 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Definitely like that I did, I’ll continue flirting with her with that in mind | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 04:04 AM |
| 6 | How do you play it when a “taken” girl at the gym keeps coming up to talk to you?Well, I’m definitely enjoying flirting with her when she comes walking up to me in the gym so that’s probably not gonna happen | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Approach a woman because you want to, not because she gives you signs.I’ve had plenty of women interested me after I pursue them first. Even if it was just eye contact, smiling, and asking them “how are you doing” with a look in my eyes and that certain smile. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 03:40 AM |
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