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IMHO I think thats kind of a flaw with /r/seduction, I personally wouldn't have a ONS with an 11 if she had a bad attitude or a shitty personality. Imagine it was the other way around and you were the hottest motherfucker on the planet but had a shitty personality and were rude and toxic. No one except desperate people would try to sleep with you, and I find desperation a huge red flag so much so that I wouldn't even consider sleeping with them. TBH its probably a shit test to weed out the despe…
/r/seduction03/07/18 04:30 AM
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Of course they can let him go if it interferes with the work environment?
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:58 PM
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Nah. HR is never your friend, they’d be more likely to let you go than let her go. Follow the advice of some of the endorsed contributors, polish the resume and try to become a bad partner. Make her want to break up with you.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:25 PM
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This. This has been one of my major hurdles in my own lifetime. I myself after taking TRP realized that I was a complete and utter Incel. After being troubled with so many social anxiety issues and interpersonal effectiveness, I became utterly terrified of the little control I had over my life and how many relationships, especially with women, that I alone had fucked up. I obviously hit straight up anger then denial from the information I had started to learn from this subreddit and finally once…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:17 PM
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If this is just a rut then what you need is some exercise, a good diet and some good friends to hang out with and have a good time. But if this is a real major depressive episode and you have other anxieties and issues you need to deal with then you need something much more intense. You need DBT or CBT Therapy. Dialectical or cognitive behavioral therapy helps people like you stuck in this spot. You could go to an individual therapist for it but it takes months of hard work and education for it.…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:37 PM
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I was considering data hording and archiving all of TRP. All posts and comments. If anyone knows of a place where it’s automatically archived I’d greatly appreciate it. Somewhere off Reddit so it doesn’t get deleted or erased.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:50 PM
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Stark agreement. That 1 comment encompasses more of TRP in a few sentences than most people read around here in a couple months.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:16 PM
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Google chain of association
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:20 AM
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No. She’ll probably try to shit test your frame and make you BP. You can if you want. But be careful.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:39 PM
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Have you heard of becomingthenatural? I have it and used as a framework for my game with TheRedPill being my base. Check it out and check out RSDMax on YouTube. He’s super helpful. I bought and still have all the files for The Natural and it changed my game 100 fold. Max is a bit tryhard and he isn’t really RP but he’s a lot further than a lot of other people so don’t take everything he says as gospel. A lot of what he says works but there’s definitely some stuff that is super beta and tryhard a…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:13 PM
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TBH I actually look up to the level of RP you are, as far as I can tell. If you're commanding rooms and girls are apologizing to you and you have such a level of status then you're doing better than a shit ton of us. Confidence is fickle. Here's what I do. Imagine your image and how the rest of the world sees you is like a picture frame, and inside that picture frame is everything that encapsulates you. Looks, SMV, clothing, and everything. Hanging that picture up means that no matter who they a…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:27 AM
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No no no no no. Ignore that. Well everything except the beginning part. First of all, you responded perfectly, Laughed it off and didn’t let it affect your game. People took your side because you didn’t give a fuck and no one agreed with her. People are ostracizing her and calling her out on it. She texted you an apology, is she realized she messed with the alpha in the room and is trying to not get kicked out of the social herd. You left her on read. More importantly what it shows that you don’…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:01 PM
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I’ve never not gotten rid of LMR with “It’s ok we’re not gonna do anything we’re uncomfortable with”. However it sounds like you didn’t build enough arousal, not attraction. That’s usually where LMR comes from. Try to work on it and maybe sometimes add a little comfort game when experiencing LMR. Has helped me loads in the past.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:51 PM
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This is the only acceptable answer here. Everything else makes you come off beta and needy as shit that you want sex and you can’t have it. Sometimes unfortunately you need to give a little bit of comfort game and make her feel just the slightest bit safe. Not her fault just her mental programming. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:31 PM
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Damn you beat me to it.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:55 PM
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The last thing you want to be is an incel style of personality. Dont show that butthurt attitude when things dont go your way. Dont be needy and understand that sex will come when it comes and when you display yourself to be a guy that women want to chase.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:43 AM
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It just takes time. And to be 100% honest, most guys here won’t tell you this but a little bit of seduction and getting with girls requires a little bit of luck. Girls can smell neediness and problems mentally in the men they interact with in a huge way. You need to find a psychiatrist or therapist you trust and don’t take their words as gospel. Finding a therapist that works well with you takes time. As for your ladies issues. Once you start feeling better and feeling a little more confident th…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:17 PM
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Alpha as fuck💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 /s
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:34 PM
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I had a real hearty chuckle in public cuz of this and people are staring at me on the bus. I’m still laughing.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 09:23 PM
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Find a DSLR camera with a friend and go take good pictures. Get that “snapshot” effect perfect and you’ll do well. Not only tinder and bumble but talk to PEOPLE IN PERSON. Random people on the train, on the bench, in elevators, in the park, in a cab. Talk to everyone and you’ll see how far your social circle expands.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:59 PM
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You need splurge nights. Like all out let’s go fucking nuts. I know exactly what you’re talking about but there needs to be one or two nights a month where you just get piss drunk with friends so you can look back and be like, “those were the good old days”. It helps more though not to dwell on what you might think of the past, in the future. Think only about your future and things will be a lot easier.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:56 PM
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Best response here^
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:54 PM
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Cue the /r/pcmasterrace riots
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:41 PM
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Cue the /r/pcmasterrace riots
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:40 PM
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Cue the /r/pcmasterrace riots
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:40 PM
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Such a quality shot post. I actually laughed really hard out loud on the train because of your comment.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 11:15 PM
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This is a MAJOR hallmark of generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). A lot of the time people don’t show a lot of symptoms and are buried way beneath the surface of their issues. The anxiety sends a response to your brain that you are in trouble and in need of help from your tribe to maintain security. Crying is designed to show distress and activation of tear ducts tells others in the tribe to protect us. It’s an evolutionary response. Fight or flight. OP you might have personal issues and anxieties…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:50 PM
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Initially but men’s looks are not taken as well into account in our primal instincts
/r/askTRP27/01/18 05:03 PM
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You’re too in your head and to me sounds like an issue leading back from your childhood. Master your inner game. Go to a therapist and speak to her about it. The best way to get out of your head without the use of Therapy is meditation. Meditation can help you learn the skill of being present and can reduce anxiety and that feeling of “what’s next”. Try it and report back to us.
/r/seduction26/01/18 10:10 PM
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How is this in any way helpful. This is a sub dedicated to people LEARNING HOW TO BE RP’d. Do you expect Fucking essays?
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:57 PM
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This is the only valuable response. Ignore everything else OP
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:56 PM
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This is some cringeanarchy level text post. Even “I’m going to be inside of you later” makes me cringe. It’s all about delivery and if you’re not careful you could be reported for sexual harassment or put somewhere like creepyPMs. Just be careful dude, some stupid shit like this could land you in hot water. I’m never one to deny a challenge though so: “old enough to be your father? so then I guess you could just call me daddy”
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:51 PM
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I used to go to this school. This is such a small subset of the people there that it’s HILARIOUS. Everyone I’ve met in Tucson is a hardcore conservative and being a conservative town the liberals there do what they need to to feel heard. The school is a public school so 1st amendment rights are protected there. So much so that a preacher called brother dean comes 2 times a week and holds up Westboro Baptist church signs saying things like you deserve rape, and all sorority girls are going to hel…
/r/MensRights25/01/18 09:03 PM
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My way to ease girls minds about whatever physicality is going on between us is this. “it’s ok, we won’t do anything you’re uncomfortable with”. With a smile at the end. Like 8 out of 10 times they act 100x more relieved and I don’t press at all. In this situation though it’s really likely it was just her. She wanted to hook up with someone maybe have a relationship but she changed her mind. Maybe she just broke up with someone maybe she’s feeling lonely it could be a million different things. J…
/r/seduction25/01/18 07:37 PM
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Its usually the prudest girls that are the freskiest
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:57 PM
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Oh, then well i wanna live where you live.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:13 AM
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Well I cant advise you to break the law but most bars check ID no matter how old you look. Also dont just jump into random conversations. Go in with control and not just blundering about.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 04:57 AM
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r/dementia I hope you don’t suffer too long.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:32 PM
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You seem really angry and upset at my opinion. Which is typical beta, white knight bullshit. Not once did I mention asking her what to do. All I did was offer a different perspective on what was happening to OP and you came at my face for it. Good for you. I hope you feel strong and powerful even though I simply offered a different perspective that could not only help OP but also help other RP’s. Here’s my advice, you have no obligation to take it, fucking learn how to use Reddit and realize I’m…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 09:48 PM
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That’s fair. But I think only in the situation where someone’s life is possibly in danger, that’s where I agree. So yeah you’re right.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:45 PM
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I agree with all of this except the police. It kind of shows beta-ism. Avoid the police unless there is an actual crime, because all it does is show that you can’t handle yourself and need the city’s hired alpha’s to come deal with your problems. Otherwise spot on.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:18 PM
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She wants you to be her assertive man dude. Do it.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:16 PM
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Unfortunately calling me dumb and questioning my opinions won’t help me to change my mind. I appreciate your need to try and educate me and I thank you for it but that is not how you change someone’s mind. In my personal opinion I am confident enough that my frame and my personality would keep a woman by my side in a situation where a guy wants to Kino her. Showing jealousy and keeping guys away from whatever girl I happen to be with at the time, to me, feels like a man with a weak frame and is …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 06:15 PM
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Work on yourself. I’m in the same boat, think about the last time you fucked up REALLY bad and made yourself look like a moron. Now think of the one 3 years before that. You can’t really do it can you? You could sit there in cringe and in pain from your past or you could accept you made a mistake. That’s what the ALPHA does, he sees he made a mistake and doesn’t make a huge deal about it. He accepts his blunders as a learning opportunity. You know that scene in Wolf of Wall Street, where Jordan …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:13 PM
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My solution.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:44 PM
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Take a complex vitamin combination. B complex, magnesium, fish oil, One a day men’s. Try those for a week before moving on to stronger stuff. Your body might just be missing a couple nessecary ingredients to wake up and feel fueled to complete a day. If that doesn’t work try taking a detox from coffee for a bit and then go back to coffee after you feel coffee can wake you up more. If none of this works then I’d recommend going to a doctor before going on Modafinil. That shit works like mad and I…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:30 PM
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It’s in the interest of giving basic respect. He might be an interesting guy but once he starts creeping out my girl. THATS when I tell him to back off.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:48 PM
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A good example for what /u/redhawkes said is RSD Max. He’s something like 140cm which is like 5’6”. When girls look down at him he’s very “So what” about it. It displays a level of confidence and blasé to women that find it so unbelievably attractive, they literally start creaming when a guy acts like that. So no, it’s not too game-y. Take the advice or ignore it.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:29 PM
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Tbh this would be a difficult decision but what I would do is get off the bus at the next stop and wait for the next one. But I think the guy with a stronger frame than me would say, thanks for reading our palms we would like to keep to ourselves now or some shit like that.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:22 PM
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Don’t “ball out”. Don’t ask her why she added you. Live your life completely normally. You may be spinning a plate but that’s none of her business. As far as you’re concerned she is out of your life.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 10:58 PM
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No I didnt. Oops! Still a good book though.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 06:54 AM
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OP I think the next book you should read is how to win friends and influence people. It fits in exactly with the premise of your essay and is a very beneficial book on how to win the hearts and minds of others.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 11:52 PM
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I haven't been swallowing TRP for too long. Maybe a couple months but I think we should have a stickied thread for newcomers to talk and leave everything self contained so there isn't spam on the front page.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:49 PM
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I would get your Testosterone levels checked as it’s really possible that it’s fluctuating as testosterone tends to do that on a daily scale. https://www.myhormonology.com/male-hormone-cycle/
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:05 AM
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Mfw "I feel like it"
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:01 PM
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One in the fucking chamber.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:42 PM
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Damn, someone said it before me.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 10:20 PM
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Meet people. If they ask you why they never met you just say you were wrapped up in school and never had the time for a social life. Find friends. Go to parties. Meet women. Have Sex. Simple as that. Always remember not to be creepy or aggressive, that is the biggest turn off for a woman. Have fun and kick back, make some friends and have unforgettable experiences. That is your most important thing
/r/seduction06/09/17 10:39 PM
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Well, it's college so one thing is for sure unless you go to a 300 people school, which I'm assuming you don't based on your description, is that people are horny. I'm going to make a few assumptions so bear with me even if I'm wrong because the advice will stand regardless. This is your first real year far from home and alone, one thing I cannot stress enough is to take care of yourself, don't skip on the gym, don't forget to eat and definitely get enough sleep. You don't really realize how val…
/r/seduction06/09/17 09:58 PM
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OutOfTheLoop /me? Can someone explain what happened with a source or something?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/17 12:10 PM
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I wouldn't do it with coworkers too much. Maybe if you like someone ask them casually out for coffee and see if it turns into something more. Don't just run up to women and say you like them that's creepy. But if you go over to a woman like she's a normal human being with no fear she will feel that. Talk to her and see if she's worth your time, if she finds you creepy that's her problem not yours because you know who you are and that is a fun interesting and cool guy with lots to offer and plent…
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:40 PM
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All it takes is 20 seconds. Count to 20 and realize you're going to do something completely insane. 20 seconds of courage is enough time to put your time to go up to a girl and say hello. Count to 20 and have those 20 seconds to have that blinding stupid courage and I promise something good will come out of it.
/r/seduction06/04/17 06:33 PM
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