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| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.LOL your life's ambition is basically to be a child prostitute. Congrats on achieving it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 03:53 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Of course I don't actually believe that. I'm just going by OP's so-called logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 01:25 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.So? Who said you should be treated as an equal? As OP said: "Nothing about this is fair. And it's not supposed to be." We also can’t erase cultural expectations overnight. So yes, deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 01:21 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.You can live a full, happy life without being able to vote and without getting paid fairly. And why should I care whether you're a second-class citizen? Life, like dating, isn't fair and shouldn't be. Does that argument sound stupid and reductive? Of course, because it is, just like OP's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 01:11 PM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.So why should dating be an exception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Dating, marriage and sex are overrated.When dating as a man, there is almost always some material and monetary benefit women want from being involved with you. So most women are whores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:22 AM |
| – | Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be.Then women should stop complaining about being discriminated against. Life isn't fair and it shouldn't be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 11:16 AM |
| – | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.You’re an adult, right? Then stop acting like a child and take care of yourself like adults do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 06:40 AM |
| 7 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.Why don’t you just take care of yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY.The problem is that lots of guys will never be “That Guy” to any woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/26 02:37 AM |
| – | Do woman care how many Partners a Men had before?The only "body count" that women actually have a problem with is zero. Women would even rather date a guy who's currently married or in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"That's how men interpret it. Women know this. Yet they insist that they should be able to say this to men, knowing how those men will interpret it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"Self-aware comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material""You're not hookup material" = "You're not sexually attractive unless you provide the other benefits of a relationship." I'm saying what the equivalent would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"Do women want an honest answer to "Does this dress make me look fat?"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"But that's not what I said. It's more like "I wouldn't hook up with you, but since you cook and clean and have a decent income and seem like you'd make a good mother, I'll marry you as long as you don't mind me masturbating while fantasizing about hot porn actresses." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"What if a guy used to take women out to Michelin-starred restaurants for first dates, but realized that wasn't working and was just attracting the wrong women, so he started out with something less fancy instead and saved the Michelin-starred restaurants for a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"Women want their partners to see them as the most beautiful woman in the world. Why shouldn't men want the equivalent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material""Settle" is relative. Plenty of women settle for men they aren't physically attracted to because they care more about what he brings to the rest of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"How would women feel about being told by their partners that they didn't seem attractive initially? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Men try to gatekeep standards"Unattractive" women are unattractive because of choices they made, and even fat single mothers are attractive to fat single fathers. "Unattractive" men are unattractive because of things out of their control, and short introverted men aren't even attractive to short introverted women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Keep moving those goalposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.I never claimed men being less picky was entirely a good thing for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.You said that a man who doesn’t have a chance to either hook up with a mid girl or date Sofia Vergara is below average. Do you even read what you write? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.You think the average guy has a chance to date Sofia Vergara for three months? LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Most men would be happy with either one. Why? Because they aren't as picky as women. But most men have no chance with either one, whereas most women have the option to either fuck a hot guy now or spend three months vetting a mid guy for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.wouldn’t commit to her. boyfriends/exes You're also contradicting yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 07:16 PM |
| 11 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Men are just as picky as women Just because they have a lower looks standard… Next time try not to contradict yourself right away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Men try to gatekeep standardsNo, I think single parents are probably best off dating other single parents. I don't think short, introverted men should be stuck dating overweight single mothers just because they're in the same "league" or at the same "level" of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/26 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Men try to gatekeep standardsEvery woman gets to experience being young. Not every man gets to experience being tall or extraverted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Men try to gatekeep standardsPeople can generally control whether they have kids. Extraversion is a highly stable core personality trait that people can't control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Men try to gatekeep standardsLast I checked, most women were young at some point in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Men try to gatekeep standardsWomen have control over whether they're fat or single mothers. Men don't have control over their height or how extraverted they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 07:07 PM |
| 22 | The value of vagina Is beginning to declineThe value of dick is already negative and declining even faster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 12:08 AM |
| 4 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.And if its the second, why would you settle for a woman no one wants? Those have been the only options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:18 PM |
| 6 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.She's fucking hotter guys when all she wants is sex, but she'll settle for sex with you when she wants a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:51 PM |
| 15 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.It's so much fun to know that your partner is only having sex with you so she can secure a relationship, not because she's sexually attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 0 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?It's also not pleasant to not even be considered worthy of any sexual attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?If you aren't in school, don't date coworkers, and don't go to church, what's left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What's your reasoning that you can actually say something to the dating life of a young men?What do you think the word "attention" means? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when datingDo men lie about maternity fraud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Men are right to believe their prime is later than womenYep. Men in their “prime” are still only appealing to morbidly obese perimenopausal single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Actual good men would understand abuse and abuse victims instead of victim blaming.The family and the church both protect abusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?You're just proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?My for you page is just women being absolutely feral for their men 🤷 A lot of men aren't the type that women go feral for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?You'd rather complain about fairness than enjoy sex, got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?With whom are men supposed to study and practice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?With whom are men supposed to study and practice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?I'm fairly certain that the whole concept of consent means that sex is optional for absolutely everyone in a relationship. Sex is optional, just like staying in a relationship is optional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are the prize.Men aren't more coveted; sons are more coveted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Men are the prize.And this is natural, given the choice between an 30+ woman with low chance of fertility and a 21 year old with high chance, what do you think the high-status, high-earning man will choose? As a childfree man in my forties I would definitely choose the former. TLDR: Men are the prize because they can afford to delay dating while accumulating resources because they have a larger fertility window than women. Women aren't actually attracted to older men with resources, they're just willing to settle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:30 PM |
| 2 | There is no blue pill ideologyWho gets to define what "blue pill" means? It only really exists as a repudiation of "red pill" beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:Women want to date guys they're attracted to, and they aren't attracted to nerdy, dorky, geeky, goofy guys who wear glasses, have college degrees, and write computer code all day for six-figure salaries. They want the guys they're attracted to to behave better, but that doesn't mean they're going to date guys they aren't attracted to just because those guys behave better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:Have low standards for physical attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Homophobia is just gynocentrism on steriods.I'm pretty sure infarctions aren't caused by men being attracted to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you leave someone that you permanently lost your attraction for?I don’t know, but I would leave someone who permanently lost her attraction to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 03:56 AM |
| – | Externalizing blame is necessary and healthy for keeping your sanity as an unsuccesful man.For a lot of guys it does seem to come down to a choice between hating themselves and hating women. I guess the only real answer is "don't hate the players, hate the game." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 08:16 PM |
| 7 | Feminists use gaslighting.Cite the feminists you’re supposedly arguing against. Obviously. Why do you losers demand that even the most obvious facts be spelled out for you? Are you mentally challenged or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Feminists use gaslighting.Name names, loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Feminists use gaslighting.Are these feminists here in the room with us? Do they have names? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Feminists use gaslighting.Anti-feminists use strawmanning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 04:03 AM |
| 2 | are there women out there that just want sexSo if you want to just have sex as a guy you’d better not only be super hot but also go for older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 03:57 AM |
| 6 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesHoe fucks, good girl bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man.The problem is that women who are 4s (understandably) want to be treated as 9s by their partners but (also understandably) aren't particularly attracted to 4s themselves. (The same may apply to men as well, but I don't date men.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Men shouldn't approach women unless the woman has "genuine desire" for the man.Social media is not reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 08:07 PM |
| – | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.You have the choice of either being valued as a sex object or not at all, men generally don’t have that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:53 PM |
| 10 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.You have the choice. If you’d rather not be valued at all, just don’t date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 06:27 PM |
| 2 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Money is something one person gives to another. Sex is something two (or more) people do together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:59 PM |
| 16 | This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too.Women complain about being valued only as sex objects. Men complain about not being valued at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:55 PM |
| – | Enshittification of sugar dating is a sign things are badBad for whom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:01 AM |
| 9 | Is there a reason people think relationships require a heirarchy or "structure"?Hierarchies form from a vacuum via pressures induced by entropy Ah, yes, the second law of red-pill thermodynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 06:22 PM |
| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionTouch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Online dating is “broken” but somehow millions of people are dating 🤔Ok, so why is the supply and demand so unbalanced? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:20 AM |
| 0 | There is no reason for women to ever believe “men feel love through sex”.Men feel unloved through lack of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 06:42 PM |
| 6 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.That’s just not true. You can go into any field like that and there will be way more men good at it than there are women impressed by it. That’s just the problem: men need to be really impressive to attract women in general, and most of us aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 07:03 AM |
| 5 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.I think a lot of men see their lack of sexual attractiveness as the main obstacle preventing them finding a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 07:23 PM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementUgly guys are usually so foul and bitter, especially if they’re short too. I avoid them like the plague unless they prove otherwise. One of the most common prejudices and still considered broadly acceptable for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:36 PM |
| – | The phrase “choose better” isn’t about picking me over Chad, and that’s a disingenuous statementYou get vetted based on if I'm looking for a relationship or casual, not based on "relative looks categories and evaluations" which seems like male-brained nonsense. I also have no idea what "somewhat attractive but still average" even means, that again seems male-brained. My attraction isn't based on "average," my attraction is based on "do I wanna fuck." Whatever categories others want to put those men in don't matter to whether or not I wanna fuck. Is this how you're saying female attraction … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 05:34 PM |
| – | "Dating for men is so easy. You have to be normal" Is one of the most cringe and false statements of all time"Dating for men is so easy. You just have to be normal neurotypical." Thanks, I'll get right on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 07:45 PM |
| 9 | BP/Feminist society dishonestly pushes covert contracts on men when it benefits women and stigmatizes it when it benefits men. Whereas RP says to remove covert contracts entirely yet they are condemned for it.Feminists are generally opposed to the cultural expectation that men pay for dates precisely because it’s part of an implicit contract in the minds of a lot of men. The implicit contract in many marriages is that both partners contribute to chores. When someone isn’t holding up their end of that bargain, the other partner often loses attraction. Sex isn’t a reward for chores. Chores are something adults are supposed to do for themselves, not for some external reward. Your spouse isn’t your paren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:54 AM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itI guess it’s the feeling that I’m not someone any hypothetical partner would find sexually attractive on my own unless I offer all the benefits of a relationship as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:42 AM |
| 46 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.People here have a hard time distinguishing “not compatible as a partner” from “worth less as a person and deserving of shame.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Women who use dating apps, genuine question - are you actually trying to filter for personality?Monogamy is a red flag? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 08:05 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for itI think the difference is that a woman generally could have sex with a conventionally attractive man she's more attracted to, while a man generally couldn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?I'd say it's more frustration than surprise. Most women get to be sexually physically desired by people they find attractive; most men don't and essentially have to pay for sex in one way or another. At least that's the narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?Explain what? That’s hardly surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Most People Are Not Compatible With Most People - That’s Why Dating Is Hard1 in 10 ten men aren’t going to be a liberal atheist That depends a lot on things like location and culture: most of the men I know are liberal and nonreligious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of womenThey also don't want sex as much as feeling "desired", if they get this feeling they can easily skip sex because to many of them sex is a chore. That's another truth they will not admit. I'm willing to admit that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of womenAs an American over forty, most people around me are overweight, and most single people my age have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot obese, decent looking face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Lower your standards- or stay single?It’s not a matter of being happy single, but of being even less happpy if I settle for someone. It’s also not fair to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:17 AM |
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