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I’m cryingg what is she doing in this gif lool but I really want to be with someone that is good in bed. My biggest nightmare is a shitty sex life 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:49 PM
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Same here lol but the sad part is she isn't even lying like I've read reddit posts of women saying their spouses don't shower or clean themselves properly. I just can't believe some women really put up with that. I COULD NEVAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:06 PM
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It's so horrifying and heartbreaking this happens. I'm feels so sad reading all these comments. I have no clue how someone can lay next to another person so quickly after their spouse passes away. I wonder if they even truly loved them. I just pray we find good men out here that wouldn't do such a thing to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:04 PM
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Reason #1000 why hookup culture doesn’t benefit women at all and should be avoided
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:49 PM
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I just haven't found the right person yet. I don't know what's with this idea that my standards are too high. Like I said I haven't crossed paths with them yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:00 PM
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Yeah unfortunately, so many women date/marry folks that don't do much for them and mistreat them. I mentioned how I struggle to find guys that commit and was told my standards are too high. I didn't know someone who is kind, has a job, and is fun to be around is too high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:59 PM
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I wonder where the men are that are like this. I can't seem to find a guy that want's a serious relationship, so it's difficult. I just think your post isn't very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 03:09 PM
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Being invited to their place on the first date or being told they would take me out in their car. I am not interested in doing any of that cause I prefer a real relationship and I don’t want to cross too many boundaries while getting to know someone. Also, I noticed on dating apps people writing in their bios “got nothing else to do. Not looking for anything specific.” It’s a huge turn off coming across multiple bios similar to this. I guess men struggle cause of bad bios and not showing serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:35 PM
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I really needed to read this and I'm glad you are learning boundaries! This is something I still struggle with. I want to make more friends with other women, but it's so damn hard. I dislike loose friendships that have no meaning. Most of my friendships throughout uni were not genuine and most of the times I was the one doing most of the work, reaching out, and asking them to hang out to be declined often. I believe real friendships is someone you can hit up and ask if they want to grab food and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:54 AM
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I'M IN TEARSSS THIS THREADD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:40 AM
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Yeah I agree I need to improve myself. I’m going to start exercising more and do better for myself this month. It’s just difficult cause I find I don’t have very high standards to begin with as long as they got stuff going on for them and they have a stable job. It’s just hard to find current when Organic dating is basically dead these days, and online is where everyone is at. I see people constantly getting engaged and how it started from dming one another. Maybe I just have bad luck at this po…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:56 AM
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I forgot to mention I’m a woman myself lol, but I am struggling to meet guys. It’s almost like every guy I talk to online don’t want anything serious. And there is always an abundance of other women out there, so guys don’t have to commit :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:19 AM
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No wonder I’m still single out here. I don’t use insta and rarely use social media, yet everyone is on social media these days and I feel pressured to upload pictures of myself, so I can make more friends and potentially find a partner. It’s like nowadays you will not be noticed or have any validation if you are not active on social media, so what do we do??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 03:03 AM
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Forea he isn’t lying. I cringe when I see women in their 40s saying they have a bf. I used to believe dating for up to 2 years was okay until I realized many guys won’t propose that far in. Men know whether they want to marry you in the beginning of the relationship, so if he dodges marriage conversations walk away. It seems everyday I read stories on reddit of women getting pregnant with their boyfriends and being cheated on. Many just end up staying cause they have no legal protection or anywh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:43 PM
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I will never understand women that will move in with their boyfriends and cook meals for them or clean. You are doing all of that with no ring on your finger. That’s how you get trapped in the forever girlfriend cycle. I really wish more women in the west understood it does not benefit you at all being a gf doing wife or mother duties for a man 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:39 AM
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I do agree though. I always block or move on if someone doesn’t have an intention of wanting to be partners long-term. The problem is a lot of women will settle and entertain men who don’t want anything with them. I believe it stems from low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 12:18 AM
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Same here! Not to mention you are wasting a shower and all other things and for what? You gain nothing from casual sex which is why I always feel so bad for women that will casually date a man. Never give your time, body and energy for someone that doesn’t picture you in their life long-term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:00 PM
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I would consider being with one based on the reasons for their divorce. If it was a nasty divorce I probably wouldn’t be with them and also, if they haven’t healed from the past relationship. I usually don’t seek out divorcees to begin with, so it’s never been a problem for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 09:54 PM
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Totally agree with you! I even read somewhere from a guy that men know within 6 months whether they want to marry someone. I’m willing to do a talking stage/meet up for up to a year and if no marriage is in sight I am out. The last thing I would want to be is a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:41 PM
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Done! Yeah I’m done entertaining guys that don’t want me. Thanks girl 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:25 PM
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She is so young too and already has that many children. I definitely think the age plays a role. The father is 27 and does not seem mature at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:16 PM
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I really needed to see this. My loneliness has been creeping up this past month and I’ve been trying to make it work with someone that clearly doesn’t want to be with me. I’ve decided to block them now after reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:11 PM
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I used to be like this totally cringing. Even last night I decided to give someone advice about their mental health issues and they didn’t even bother responding back🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/seduction11/11/20 12:02 PM
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It’s funny how some of you are against her views when a lot of Black Muslim women including myself are often dismissed by many western feminists. Her views are not entirely wrong and it’s disrespectful seeing people call her annoying when women of colour and or religious women have different experiences and face discrimination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:55 AM
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I really don’t agree with women doing this thing of having multiple partners. What guy will take you seriously if you are doing that. We shouldn’t be supporting her behaviour too. And no I’m not defending the guy either btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:51 AM
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I don’t get this at all. She already is aware that this is wrong, so why is she still with him?!?!?! And also the fact she had two kids with him and is still a fiancee says a lot about what kind of person he is. I hope she takes her kids and ends the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:18 PM
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This looks so cute. I would never let a guy go if he did this as a date for me 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:09 AM
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It’s not even just that, so many of us were raised to accept poor mistreatment and this reflects in our relationships and friendships. I thought being overly nice to people normal even if they were hurtful to me. I thought never saying no to people was acceptable. I thought going above and beyond for people was acceptable. I was moulded to be a people pleaser. It really hurts and brings back bad memories typing this out. I had to go to therapy to unlearn all of this stuff. I really send good vib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:19 AM
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If this is true pic I have no words. This is why I am so cautious when it comes to men. Imagine carrying a baby for someone who disrespects you like this. My biggest fear 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:07 AM
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I totally hear you!!! Everytime I end stuff with someone I get asked questions like “oh what did you do or say or what do you look like?”. For some reason lots of folks think it’s a you problem if you didn’t work out with someone. I stopped caring or having to give explanations for why I just block a person instantly as soon as I notice low effort texts or behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:34 PM
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Please don’t ever do this! I decided to do this last night to be dismissed and made fun of. All it did was give them an ego boost. I spent a few hours crying even. Save yourselves from humiliation and don’t be approaching guys first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:29 PM
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This definitely goes for friendships. Being alone sucks, but I am not sticking around for people that are not checking up on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:27 PM
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If a person marries you it shows them how much they value you. I would never be in an LTR for years with a man I’m not married too. That is just a low effort relationship you are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:27 PM
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I don’t understand why women choose to have sex with men that don’t like or respect them? It just baffles me. You end up making yourself low value too if you give it up to any man and still entertain them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:54 PM
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Yes a lot of men around our ages in the 20s are not serious about relationships like marriage. Almost all of them just want to date causally. I want to know where the serious ones are at cause I’m not interested in dating 30+ year old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:31 PM
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Making the first move as a woman is a huge no no. They won’t put any effort cause they see that you are doing most of the work for them. I decided to say hello first to a match on an app and guess what he responded within minutes. I was quite shocked too. A lot of these guys are playing games and expecting girls to compete for them and run after them. Honestly it’s so disappointing. Who would have thought finding a genuine partner would be this hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:27 PM
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I get what you are trying to say, but it is still not easy. When you have a great partner you will of course feel so much happier in life. I did all that and still felt alone. Love is a human need and it’s not good to downplay it. Also how do we make friends during a pandemic? It’s incredibly difficult when almost everything is online now and no one can meet up irl. And also online friends are hard to vet and usually shallow connections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:34 AM
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The last paragraph made me so sad for her. As someone who faced mental health issues for years putting yourself out there is so scary for us:( but I really hope she doesn’t allow this bad date to ruin everything. He isn’t worth it at all. This is why I don’t ever meet with guys on OLD at all until I can tell they are serious about me. It’s even worse meeting a person after only talking for 3-4 days. That’s a huge red flag right there. Also a bar date? I would have flat out said no to that. Drink…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:31 AM
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That is a great way to do things. The problem with me is I still do reply back to these guys and keep expecting a response. I should do what you are doing and just block and move on if I’m seeing slow responses and lack of excitement on their part
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:25 AM
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I feel sorry for these mothers cause their children will now have a father that is barely able to provide for them. I also question why these women are still in contact with him? 150 is absolutely nothing and I’m sure they were aware before having kids that he was broke. And the fact they sent him hearts after that. The bar is so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:09 PM
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Imagine wanting to be a gf for 5 years. That is sad af. If a guy was serious about you he would have married you at least 2 years in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:55 PM
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I believe this cause OLD really made me feel worse about my looks and body cause you will experience rejection, guys not dming your at all if you do match and almost no commitment. Most guys on dating apps are not serious about anything, so it does burn a lot of women out including me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:53 PM
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I left the spiritual community a while ago. I couldn’t stand all the justifications like “they did you wrong cause your vibrational frequencies didn’t match”. Like um no they just weren’t good to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:01 PM
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Cause I find I am way too genuine and serious about things. Most guys that reach out to me look for women they can control and fool around with. When they notice I am not down to have sexual relations with them prior to marriage they bounce. Something I also struggle with is feeling like I am not pretty enough. I don’t look like those girls on instagram. I rarely ever wear makeup too and I have a simple style. Most days I literally think to get a guy I need to slap on makeup look like a walking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:53 PM
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Yes totally agree we are always expected as women to accept poor behaviour and mistreatment. Even from our own families we are expected to hold everything together and provide free emotional labour. It’s so important that women are taught that they putting their needs first is not selfish and bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:03 PM
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100% people who are upset with this sub is because many of us on here don’t want to put up with low effort from men. It’s quite sad how people expect us to accept anything from a man. Whenever I go on other subs it makes me grateful for this one cause people really glorify shitty relationships and women staying in them. Smh sad world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:12 AM
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Honestly they must have a degree, have a stable job and income, and be a provider. Also, kind and very affectionate and understanding. Love to be spontaneous and have fun. It’s crazy how in 2020 you can barely even find men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:34 AM
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Honestly same here. I used to literally be happy over proposed dates such as getting ice cream or going to a coffee shop. I’m now realizing how low effort they all were. Edited cause it wasn’t even a coffee shop, but a fast food restaurant styled coffee donut shop smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:36 PM
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Women need to seriously stop investing and giving their bodies and time and energy to men that only see them as girlfriends. I feel so bad for these ladies cause if they are in their mid to late 30s and still have “bfs” that says a lot about what kind of men they are dealing with. No guy will take you as seriously as a gf trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:58 PM
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Omg yess my goals are to travel someday, but whenever I see these guys on Dating apps, I always swipe left. It’s too much for me to be with someone that travelled to 20+ countries and that’s the only hobby they have. I am convinced a lot of these dudes are not serious about relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:31 PM
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I relapsed and decided to respond and talk to someone who has been wasting my time and leading me on. It felt really bad, but I decided to close our messages and leave the gc I share with him. I am going to move on and not allow someone like that in my life. So thankful for this community 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:28 PM
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Exactlyy! Be with those that want to be with you 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:42 PM
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This was sad to read and why women should never go for a man that only sees them as gf material. Always go with someone that wants to put a ring on your finger. It also makes me upset seeing women sleep with these type of guys. This is why hookup/fwbs culture stinks😷 .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:41 PM
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Or constantly anticipating and waiting for a person to make moves or do something good for you. If they wanted to be with you, you wouldn’t be thinking this way either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:37 AM
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Thank youuu ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:52 PM
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Exactly I realized that was my error is feeling needy and wanting someone to love and desire me. I don’t ever need to do this for someone that values me. It will come naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:52 PM
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I needed to read this after a failed talking stage. I did not vibe with them or feel they were the one for me. Next time for sure I am going to fake it till I make it and make them chase after me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:01 PM
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Honestly same heree, but they are clearly a troll just from reading more of their messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:09 PM
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It’s crazy cause all I was saying is that I would like someone that can bring more to the table and provide a lot for me. I am not advocating for women to not work and be stuck at home when I do in fact have a job and go to school. People need to stop jumping to conclusions so fast lol. Thank you for your comment ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:56 PM
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I just want to understand you and where this anger is coming from? You seem to have personal issues you are taking out at others. I will not be engaging any further with you and wish you well in life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:26 PM
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Yes and what is the problem? I want to have a more traditional relationship than other folks and that is fine. Also in my religion the men are supposed to provide for the woman! They even give her a dowry. Also her money is hers and she doesn’t have to give him any of it. This is my personal choice. You can stay mad all you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:11 PM
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I’m very shocked I am being attacked for saying a man should be paying the bills. What is the point of getting married or being in a heterosexual relationship to begin with? When you get married. Shelter, food, utilities should be covered by your spouse and you can contribute to the rest. Nothing is wrong with this at all. I once again am not saying do nothing and sit at home all day lol .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:40 PM
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Exactly! I wasn’t saying you can’t work or make your own money! I am saying your man should be paying the bills and providing for you to live a comfortable life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:29 PM
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Are you kidding me?!?! What’s the point of him dating when men are supposed to provide for women 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:11 PM
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This made me feel better ngl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:33 AM
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I hope she left him cause this is clearly not it. How can you disrespect your own fiancee like this yuck 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:13 AM
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