Friendly_Fifi007 Archive

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2	3 months after being blindsided, I'm barely functioning Losing your job the same week she told you she was leaving - on top of everything else - is a brutal hit and heartbreak that a lot of people wouldn't survive with their sanity intact. And that image of you staring at the ceiling while she was in Vienna, after a whole year of you setting yourself aside as any good caring husband would do, so she could find herself: that's not weakness, that's what genuine devastation looks like. Three months isn't long when the ground opened up in front of you th…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/26 02:21 PM
1	Wife asked for a divorce/separation That's really hard, being blindsided with no arguments, nothing obvious, and a real shock. Your mind is probably searching for what you may have missed but you can't find it. And for her to feel like this for over a year, which is a long gap, you probably wonder what was real and what wasn't. Others here are right, in that you need to get stable emotionally so you can function better again with food, sleep, and so on, as you now have to put yourself first. This does get clearer, after you've und…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/26 03:17 PM
1	How do you rebuild your identity after divorce, especially if the role of "husband" was a big part of who you were Would you mind sharing the title of your book as I'd like to take a look? Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/26 03:00 PM