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| 3 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?I get what you're trying to say but I still don't agree with your original comment. Maybe it's because of social media overrating women and underrating men. Can you explain what it is about bear that you think is ugly?? Cause no matter how much I look at him I just fail to see how he's ugly compared to nikki. I even looked up the actor's photos. Of course you can have an opinion on who's more conventionally attractive between them, but I think they're closer in attractiveness than you claim... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Bruh it's not like ian was a supermodel or something, in fact I'd say he's even a bit below bear's level in looks. But he still hooked up with nikki. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 11 | Escorts are NOT a substitute for a healthy sex life for the vast majority of young men.It's pretty simple dude. Just wait for her to grow old and fat. She'll definitely realize your value and you'll have the luxury of paying for something all the other guys got for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 5 | The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women.Only men say shit like this. You'll never hear a woman saying something like this about men. Lol now that I think about it, I've heard so many husbands vocally appreciate their wife in front of others, but I don't remember a single time where a woman was all giddy over her husband like she couldn't get enough of him and actually respected him. Most of them have the "how tf did I get stuck with this idiot" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?I mean, seeing a woman go crazy for me will make me even more attracted to her 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Some guys just have it. Funny story on a night out"Hey guys I saw this super attractive male model and he was the center of attention among the ladies in the club. Crazy right?? 🤯🤯🤯" | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 08:46 AM |
| 1 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universityWould muscles matter that much when you're 5'10 like me?? I mean, they'd do wonders for you, but I feellike I'd just go from average joe to slightly above average joe... How tall are your friends? | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 08:32 AM |
| 2 | You need to spend money to get laid!Well I could be wrong about them obviously. But the thing is, every con you could say about escorts, could also be said for even a semi hot woman on dating apps, considering the endless options they have to satisfy both their urges and ego. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!I'm not sure I believe any high end escort would be that desperate for money considering they already make bank. And even if that was the case, I think they both would get tested and show the results to each other before the deed. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!I think a high end escort would care more about her sexual health than a random tinder girl who's been railed by god knows how many guys. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!You're consistently trying to put emphasis on money. My question is, shouldn't men just go the escort route. At least they're hot. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 10:03 PM |
| 3 | When a random man is interrupting your conversation with a girlElaborate looping (preferably with an example) pls. I'm still relatively new to this stuff 😅 | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 02:08 PM |
| 4 | When a random man is interrupting your conversation with a girlshe said, "Why should I give it to you?" Honestly I'd really like to know how to answer that... | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Dating is just sales.In this game of sales, 90% of your success will be determined by the way your product looks (which is something you have no control over). | /r/seduction | 18/04/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.You think I haven't done the approach part?? There are reasons I'm a khhv at 26. Reasons that are out of my control | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 09:41 AM |
| -2 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.Be one?? Ok let me just change my face structure and elongate my spine broo..... | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 03:46 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyGuys who're meant to get girls will get girls regardless of what I say or do, those who aren't, will get none...that's the one thing I've learned in my 25 years of virgin life after the constant cycle of approaching, failing, crying and trying again. I know not everyone is going to have the same experience as me, but the way you just casually said "maximize your attractiveness" seemed so weird. A great advice and a useless one at the same time. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Apprroach opportunities are very rare realisticallyExcellent tips.... Oh wait, how do I change my skull shape?? Or increase the height part of my genetics?? Please let me know, it will single handedly solve my seduction problems.... | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrongLol how do you expect someone to change their looks?? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?Like I said, there are many women if you just look at the numbers. But the amount of women who'll share the same feelings?? Highly rare if you aren't born attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation?Very few women reciprocate your feelings. And I mean VERY few. You're overestimating the availability of women. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Why do I keep getting destroyed by the charming guy?Lol what work did he put in exactly?? | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Why does it seem like I’ve done everything I can to become sexually appealing but women in college won’t just give me the time of dayI don't think women give good advice regarding this. They are just as bad as men in this sub, if not worse. Source: I followed female friends advices back when I was in college. Had the exact opposite of the result I was hoping. Meanwhile guys who clearly didn't follow their advice had the most success and I graduated a virgin. Still am. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?Notice how everyone trying to convince you and make you feel good had healthy sex life in their teens and early 20s lol. Another common cope is "it's gonna get better in 30s". Yeah right.... | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | I've been getting way more attention from girls recently and I don't know what to doBy being good looking, you're already better than 80-90% guys ever will. Most guys don't even get a second look from women and if they get a compliment, they cherish it for years. So don't let this gift go to waste. Best thing you can do is learn and practice. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 08:56 AM |
| 1 | does anyone know where to find hookups?How can I join these things if I'm not in college anymore, how do I find them?? Like is there a website or something? | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?I don't think they are menchildren. They just want to move on and save their time and energy instead of "waiting for the right time" (which can make them wait for months lol). | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and noticed any difference?Can you elaborate the four main steps?? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and noticed any difference?And how do you do it?? Any advice other than "just shower" or other generic bs advice??? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and noticed any difference?So you're already handsome... | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:42 PM |
| -1 | Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and noticed any difference?You sure you aren't being settled for?? Or do you actually find those girls attractive ? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Went from incel to 2 lays in under a month but still have a lot left to learnLol I think op is afraid of competition. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Dancing approaches in clubs/bars?? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guysLol it's so funny... There's something I fantasize about at night, and somewhere else some guy is actually living that reality. You talk as if women opening the door for you is such a trivial thing whereas I'd literally kill to have a cute girl talk to me like that. Lucky guy... | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 12 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?This mindset of "only approach women who are already in your social circle and you know each other" is really the only mindset holding me back from meeting women. Not to mention it's also a really demotivating thought. Not everyone is in college and not everyone who graduates college has a partner in their arms. That thread really saddened me. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?No offense but your advice sounds like something a really attractive and tall guy would say. Although I do want to ask you, what exactly are the things you did in those 3-4 years to get those results?? How and where did you get those ons, fwb whatever.... | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?I guessed you were either tall or good looking. And I was right on the money... Now let me be clear, I believe you've worked on yourself a lot which is good and I'm sure all that has played a major role with women. I don't mean to discredit that. But will your method work for my 5'9 ass??? Idk. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Help me heal guys!!There aren't as many as you think.... Not to mention most of them are taken. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?Lol how do you get numbers without working on it?? Really good looking I assume... | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?Does it get better even if you're virgin at 25?? | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Is it weird to cold approach alone?Where did you meet them?? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Lower your standards, sleep with some fun women, and your abundance mindset will become real, and hotter girls more accessible.Yeah, because dudes just can't have standards can they??? They should just sleep around with whoever they can even if they're not attracted to them and they should be grateful that they even got that opportunity. Instead of that title, you should just write "beggars can't be choosers" because that's essentially what you're saying. You do whatever works for you guys but I'm not lowering my standards. For me that's worse than dying a virgin. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Can you give me some examples of the kind of messages you saw in the girls' phone?? Just curious. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Yeah I know that you should not indulge too much into texting as a man. But I was more curious about the dudes he called pathetic. What exactly did he see in them that made him cringe. I was basically asking for some examples of the texts those dudes sent and how he managed to separate himself from them. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 08:14 AM |
| 3 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Tell me a bit more about those dudes. What exactly did they do which made them pathetic?? And how did you stand out from them.... Asking for research purposes. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Yeah I know it's unfair to them and they're normally tired of that shit by the time they graduate so I never really bother them because I know it's useless. I've been filling my day with as much activity as possible and sometimes even overwork myself so that when I'm at home my eyes just close not giving me time to think about it too much. If that doesn't work I just come to reddit to vent. I actually considered some medications that kill your sex drive but didn't do it because I heard some side… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?I'm really not in a situation where I can hold a long term ltr so at the moment I'm not looking for anything serious and it's going to stay that way for quite a while. The hobby locations you're talking about....I don't think they'll be down for something casual since they most likely already had their fun in college. So I think it's safe to assume that my window of opportunity is pretty much gone. You can only get that stuff in college and my friends used that opportunity to the fullest and had… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.We get it buddy, you're tall and handsome... | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:15 AM |
| 11 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?So it's over if you're a virgin out of college who doesn't like drinking and online dating. Got it.... | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?If only it were that simple lol... Well you do have a decent count and now married so it's not like you'd understand my situation. I'm more interested in your brother's story. How did he get success in game?? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How to naturally approach women?And where do they socialize?? Any place that will be accepting of guys?? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I'm not in college anymore. So I automatically have much lesser options and opportunities. Even if I do get some experience, I don't think I'll get with a girl I'm actually attracted to (no I don't have unrealistic standards, and I'm not going to drop them or lower them). What "situations" are you talking about specially. I'd love to hear some examples if you have any. Don't say bars or online dating. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I start approaching?I didn't just come up with a theory on my own. Based on posts on askwomen, as long as you're not already a part of their social circle or friend of a friend, your approach will likely not be appreciated. A 25 yr old college graduate with no social circle of his own who only has coworkers who are too busy to introduce you to someone, will have a super hard time. Just visit some women oriented subreddits and you'll know what I'm talking about. They cry all the time about how they wish stranger guy… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I start approaching?I'm not sure tbh. I just thought you have a reason to believe what you were saying so I asked. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:44 AM |
| 2 | How do I start approaching?What makes you think that a lot of girls like being approached if you don't mind me asking?? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I've just seen so many posts regarding this thing on reddit that my mind has gone through kinda information overload. So many people saying fun time is over when you enter 30. I also missed out on big social circle in college so I don't really have a decent friend group to count on. I also don't get how and where guys like you meet women who you find attractive. As a guy who got out of college without accomplishing anything socially, who is not good at dating apps and hates being around drunk pe… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I feel like women are just not approachable anymore. The word creepy is thrown around like crazy, anything unattractive is automatically creepy. This sounds really incely, I know. But that's just my honest opinion. How do you approach them?? Are you good looking or tall maybe... | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?In today's era it's really hard to approach a woman imho. Literally anything you do can be creepy and I feel like they are very hard to talk to. I promise you I'm not an incel who hates women. I'm just speaking from personal experience. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?It's even harder when the girl you like is with her friends. I'm sure you're aware of the term cockblockers. I get your point. I have to take chances. But the success rate is so low that it kinda demotivates me sometimes. When you're a pure virgin at 25 you tend to overthink a lot... | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 3 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?"At least one over a few years." 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I thought women have their guard up in bars. Besides, is a bar ok for a 5'9 guy ? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Every time I come across a comment like this, I can't help but wonder... Where the hell do you get these girls?? Like what places do you go to except, bar and online dating. Or maybe you're really good looking or tall, or both. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Man you're extremely lucky that she even thought about sitting back with you. But personally, that's what it is though, LUCK, no offense. Now please don't take this as me downplaying your struggles. I'm sure you practiced talking to women. And you definitely have many things to bring to the table. Also I don't understand why these women are only talked abut online but I never see one in real life. As much as I like what you're trying to tell me (which is basically stop giving a fuck), what I nee… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 9 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Well I don't want an ugly girl my guy. Just because I'm still a virgin doesn't mean I'm not allowed to have standards... | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:30 PM |
| 4 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?But when I'm in my 30s, even if I have everything figured out, I'll still get women in their 30s, or even older and overweight women who clearly don't take care of themselves, with kids in some cases. How do you think I'd get the ones in their 20s. It's not that I have strict age range. But when I enter my 30s, I still wanna keep my chances alive with the younger ones, if that makes sense. Although I can't get this mentality out of my head that 30 will be too old for that. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I'm used to rejection. I've had plenty of those already. Why else would I be virgin at 25... I just hear that a lot of women don't want to be approached. According to them, if you're not already a part of their social circle, you're not allowed to approach a woman. I could get away with this without being creepy when I was in college. But now I don't have those mutual friends who can set me up. I sometimes feel like it's a bit late for me now. That's why when I see guys who had experience with w… | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:51 AM |
| -1 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?How is not wanting to be an alcoholic an excuse lol... | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 10:49 AM |
| 6 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?I don't like to talk to women at places they go to get drunk. I don't like to drink myself. The main problem is that I don't want to come off as the creepy guy they talk to about their friends. And I'm not in college anymore. So that really limits my options. Where and how do I approach women who will be receptive. I'm talking about the women who don't hate guys who approach. Even if they reject me, I want them to not be rude about it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 10:30 AM |
| 16 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?That's what I thought when I was 20. 5 yrs went by in a flash. It won't take long for another 5-10 yrs. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:47 AM |
| 13 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Lol how do you sleep with dozens of women??? I mean where and how did you find them... Asked by a 25 yr old kissless virgin. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:50 AM |
| -2 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDAdmit it or not, you have to be seriously handsome for successful cold approaches. Otherwise have fun ending up as the creepy guy who she talks about to her friends when they are sharing their scariest experiences.... | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?Seriously?? That's it??? I swear I'm not an incel but I think you're probably tall or handsome face or both... Not saying you don't put any effort on yourself, but I don't see how I or someone like me can make this work. Any tips on that ? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well?Which app do you use?? And what exactly do you mean by "communicate better" ? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meMaybe it happened to the guy above who I was having a discussion with. He must've experienced or at least seen friendships like that. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meI paid attention to your points and provided some counter points. But well I was definitely speaking from personal experience. I've just yet to find someone who takes friendships a bit seriously and not so casually. I only brought up the downvote thing because it's something I noticed. Upvotes/downvotes are generally not used in a debate, only if the advice is objectively good/bad. If I said something like "fuck women, why do I have to work so hard", then the downvotes would be fair. Well It's a… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meWhat I meant by that line was, how do you expect someone to make friends "who actually care about your singlehood and have someone in mind who'll be great for you". Hell, even I can go make friends in a week. But I can't get them to actually give a fuck. Also, even though you are acting mature, downvoting my comments is really immature on your part considering that I'm not doing the same to you even if there's disagreement. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meAll those friends definitely exist. But they don't give a flying fuck if you're single and need to be set up with someone. Those friends, unlike college friends, are highly busy in their own life and family. Finding girls through mutual friends is a great option for someone in college. For a guy out of college, not so much... | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meOh that's an app?? Never heard of it. Does it have a high user base? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:34 AM |
| 0 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meMe putting in effort doesn't necessarily mean that my "friends" are gonna put in effort too you know... | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meAnd what specific websites do you use to find all these things??? Or a particular app or something. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meI might seem like a boomer but I'm not. Can you tell me how I can meet people with similar interests and hobbies. I mean what websites pr any other online method do you use and find groups, events etc... | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Is cold approach really the best way for most guys to meet women? It feels like a lot of the conventional advice on here doesn't really apply to meHow exactly do you expect someone who's out of college to make good friends from scratch. You might make some friends but they won't really be that helpful to you because they're out of college too. They're busy settling in their own life and don't care if you're single for god knows how long. They don't have the time to set you up with someone. So making friends in this case will be a dead end. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsIf a cute chick by any miracle of god decides to look past my height and I end up with her, I'll try to keep my insecurities out. Btw, let's assume I'm in a relationship with a really fine girl. In this situation, how do I stop doubting her. In the back of my head I'd still feel like she's probably cheating on me with a taller and more attractive guy. How do I let go of that fear of being cheated on?? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsHonestly the only reason I'm motivated to do all this is because I know that I'm far from my best version and I want to see what I would look like at my ideal weight. I'm also not short on hobbies. But my height has been a serious roadblock in my way. Almost all of my insecurities, demotivating thoughts, feeling like no woman of my choice is going to give me a chance...they all stem from my height. This is also a reason why I automatically ask someone's height and looks if he gives me any tips o… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsThose milkshake things are EXACTLY what I'm doing right now. And yeah I do think I'm skinny fat because my rib cages and backbones are partially visible but at the same time my stomach is a little bulged out. So maybe my face can change a bit... Btw how much protein powder would you consume in a day?? (Assuming you're bulking) | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsWell I don't think that's good news for me lol since I'm actually underweight and I'm struggling for weight gain. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsOk what??? How can working out improve your face. How did that happen?? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?I'm never against self improvement. I always encourage people to work on themselves. I'm into that stuff as well. But I just let the guys who are like me know that they shouldn't get their hopes up. You say "more of a chance" because you know you're at least doing ok in height. Very few of them might luck out (anecdotes exist), but for the most part (99%), women are not gonna see you as attractive. She might see you as a husband material and good provider who she can settle with when she's had e… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:57 AM |
| -1 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?You know what's objective?? Height, the department which I'm lacking at. My face is not completley hideous but it's below average. So even if I work like hell, can I actually get a girl I want? I mean don't get me wrong, all the pretty girls have every right to be selective. I wouldn't want them to settle for me. But at the same time, I wouldn't want to settle for someone either. Therefore, the mentality arises of not even bothering to try. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?That's the thing bruh... I'm not attractive, that's my problem with the solution the guy above me gave. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Feel conflicted about approaching girls at the gym. How bad is this, and what should I be doing differently?Even then there's the excuse of "we're not going there to be hit on". You just can't win. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsWell like I said, I can't speak for guys you're in contact with, but all the short guys I know don't expect good enough chicks to settle, but on the other hand they ALSO don't want to settle for someone they don't find attractive, therefore, the easiest and frankly the only option available for them is giving up. That's what I was trying to say. Sheesh I'm so bad at getting my point across, it's hilarious. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI should have mentioned it clearly but since my comment went too long, maybe you missed it. Here's my point, those guys DON'T expect an above average woman to settle for them, even if they worked on themselves like hell because they just DON'T have the required looks or height. And they respect the women's choice. But they don't want to settle either. So in the end giving up is a lot easier for them. I don't draw conclusions about myself because I haven't truly tried my best to improve myself bu… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI think it's because those men know in the back of their mind that even if they max out everything in their control, they won't attract any girl over 5 or 6 (and I'm being generous). Even if they do pull off a beautiful woman, she is very much likely be controlling because she knows she's out of his league and the guy doesn't have options, or she will come to him for money. I can't speak for every guy like me, I can only tell you my own mindset or the people I've been around long enough. Just ke… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thDid you use any resources online to learn humor? If so, then what did you use exactly? Or did you just figure out everything by yourself?? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsYeah I guess I can try that. But this feeling inside me just won't go away. Don't get me wrong, I truly appreciate that you tried to give me some tips even though you weren't obliged to and I will make sure to act on it, but I can't help but wonder...why do I never hear these tips and success stories and see this positivity in guys who are 5/10 and in the 5'5"-5'7" range. People say stuff like man up and just accept the cards you've been dealt but they don't realise how demotivating it can be. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsLet's say I'm confident. What if the girl is just not paying attention. As a 5'7" guy, I face it too often. And what if she's in a group of 4-5 girls?? Should I still go up to her ? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thWhat age did you lose your v card?? Just curious... | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thCan you really learn humor?? I tried to be funny all through college and graduated as a virgin. Still am. I think funny and charismatic people are naturals. They just practice to maintain it. But they didn't really become that way from scratch. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thYeah I pretty much guessed what your reply will be. I wonder why I never hear these kind of stories from guys around my height or looks. So two of all of your dates didn't care. What about the rest of them ? You getting my point?? Nothing against you btw... What is your job if you don't mind me asking. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsIt's obvious that social skills help. But will that get me the girls I actually want?? And no, my standards are not unrealistic or unreasonably high. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI meant I'm weak in carrying the conversation. I run out of things to say very easily. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thDid you get decent dates after that though?? | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsDo those ugly dudes get success though?? Mind you, I'm not just unattractive, to make things worse, I'm brown as well. And what exactly do I say when I go up to a girl I like?? Specially if she's in a group of 4-5 girls. How exactly do I get her involved without using those cringy pick up lines. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thLet me guess...you're 6ft or taller or at least 7-8 on the looks scale. These kind of advices only come from guys like that. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:05 AM |
| 0 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI have tried bars, that's why I hate them. The problem is that places like bars are heavily dominated by attractive people (both men and women). I was looking for a place where I have a fair chance and where it's acceptable to make advances on women. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:47 AM |
| -6 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI'm sorry if I come off as a stubborn incel, but I don't like meeting people in places like bars or clubs (I'm not going into details as to why). You didn't really answer my question btw. I said I'm not very pleasant to the eyes. Any other places for adults?? I feel pathetic asking but if someone is doing good in something, I just have to ask for advice. You said multiple places...so you must have other suggestions. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thAny tips for unattractive guys?? I mean how do you not come off as a creep or a threat and know that the woman will respond in a healthy way without feeling agitated. Yes I'm talking about all the cute ones. I assume you're most likely tall or good looking (or both)... | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:29 AM |
| -6 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsI don't think this works if you don't have a really handsome face. I used to think that as long as I'm confident and look them in the eye, I'm good. But that's not how it works. Sure, there might be exceptions, but for the most part if you cold approach a girl, the first things she does is examine your size and her surroundings and figure out a means to escape. I also tried events, groups and parties, but most women there are taken. And the majority of people there are men. I don't know a single… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Honestly I'm not one bit mad at women for this. It makes ZERO sense to hate women for something both genders do. But at the same time, I really wish I wasn't given false hope. I could've accepted my fate and moved on. But after reading success stories about ugly guys getting amazing partners and indulging in self improvement, I convinced myself that even if I'm not that great in the looks department, I can work on other areas to be attractive. And women will notice the confidence. I was stupid. … | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Honestly I'm not one bit mad at women for this. It makes ZERO sense to hate women for something both genders do. But at the same time, I really wish I wasn't given false hope. I could've accepted my fate and moved on. But after reading success stories about ugly guys getting amazing partners and indulging in self improvement, I convinced myself that even if I'm not that great in the looks department, I can work on other areas to be attractive. And women will notice the confidence. I was stupid. … | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 03:59 PM |
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