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in the aftermath of my year post divorce I have had a lot of time to reflect and the conclusion I'd reach is that its just unfair. I did make my ex wife a priority throughout our relationship but later on this is forgotten and despite our shitty ending she has come out significantly ahead in life with the help of my multiple head starts which includes believing in her and encouraging her and helping her through her low confidence and indecisiveness. I thought that I was making deposits into a li…
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 10:00 PM
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she (27) was under employed in dead end retail (near minimum wage) with a degree. I empowered and prepped her to be considered for a middle class job in public service which she was successful whereby she cab further leverage her education to move up later on. now obviously it wasn't purely due to me that she was successful, but I open the door for her and showed the way. there were many other areas od her life where I influenced it for the better by sharing my expertise and knowledge. moving ou…
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 08:38 PM
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this is the same conclusion I reached when I split with my ex wife. good job. all the stuff I gained was mutual gain that I can effectively get from any woman. what she got from me was alot more including status and money elevation. hate to toot my own horn but status wise she was nothing until I came in the picture (investments finances job and parents home etc...
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 07:57 PM
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hey despite it probably being a good long term decision it's a huge change to your life and as a big change it will be hard. it's the old age saying better to dine with the devil you know than the devil you don't know
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 07:55 PM
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I agree and am living proof anecdotally of course. I can't get away with the same shit I pulled in my 20s now 37. i have to play and act like white knight at work. I don't completely mind but I do feel like I have a secret life and past
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 07:30 PM
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oh man. LMFAO. sometimes nothing makes me laugh more than this sub reddit
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 04:38 PM
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divorce is imo single most destructive force of wealth.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 04:30 PM
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most replies are YTA. I'm glad. the op needed to be educated. I dont fault the op logic completely but I do fault her intent and entitlement. the man has options now. 3m is very nice. early retirement. id run and go Thailand.
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 04:25 PM
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Watch the full 3 minutes for good laugh!
/r/MGTOW01/03/19 03:32 PM
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I love This! This is lol funny!
/r/MGTOW27/02/19 04:40 AM
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Soo true! I've had my share of taking advantage of simple/nice women and then i ghosted. All because I could and it was easier than doing it face to face like a person with integrity
/r/ExRedPill27/02/19 03:49 AM
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Yep. I got corrupt and still am corrupt after my failed marriage. I find solace in Jordan Peterson explanations as well as reading the tactical guide to women by Shawn t Smith. Very good read. It explained to me where I went wrong in choosing my spouse. It also lightly touches trp concepts bit in a different way. Like it says a man needs purpose and some form of status to feel good and like a man. Trp serves as echo chamber for experiences with bad women. The sad thing is that I utilized the tec…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/19 04:42 PM
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It's true. Imo. Trp generalizes the narcissistic and bpd of women and paint them all like that.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/19 02:46 AM
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Woah thanks for the rye openener. I will check out to know thy enemy lol
/r/MGTOW25/02/19 01:28 AM
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She wanted him to change is what the problem is. She couldn't love him for him and was wanting him tl be something diffrenet. She signed up for a bum when she was desperate and now that her emotions needs are satisfied she realize she don't need the bum anymore because she feels better about herself and feels she deserves better. He is the one who got pumped and dumped. Of emotions!!! And thought if she tries hard enough she would be successful at changinghim She failed and is trying to shift th…
/r/MGTOW21/02/19 08:52 PM
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Ouch. A chill right to the bone in reference of my kid years. I idealized the shit outta women and disguised it under red pull fundamentals. Because that shit works and u must hunt and so you should hunt with as much knowledge/lifestyle as possible. Then got dream girl. Someone I thought might get me for real whwre I can get her for real. 6 years later... NOPE You can't compete with hormones. And socially the game is rigged against you.
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 08:27 PM
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Agree. It sucks if you get a shit dad or an absent dad but here we are in a day and age where we are empowered with internet, the ability to read and training and learning *from schkol) There are a lot of chances to rise up above what dad couldn't do for you
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:50 PM
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Aww how cute women pretending to be men
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:47 PM
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Exactly. No big guy is in a position of authority forcing her to to do it It would be oppressive not to share!
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:45 PM
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A fairy tale come true for mgtow if you really think about it. Be a dork. Fall for girl get rejected . Wait. Wait longer. Get successful become more "alpha". Girl comes back. Leaves you cuz you did not pass shit tezt. Has your son in secret. You find out about son and marry her. SHE gets sick. SHE DIES! You keep son and all your Money!!!! You get a dog and become Chick magnet!!! (Mgtow fantasy) PLOT TWIST :( SHE gets sick. SHE gets cured. she has a mood swing. Divorce you. Takes kid. Get divorce…
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:42 PM
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I was this idiot lol. In fact it was one of my favourite movies as a kid... I had no idea what was really happening. In my mind as a child I thought forest Gump was real life and to be a gentleman is cool. Perfect nice guys finish last tale. As a nice awkard guy I'll gr8 tlucky and make it big. Even with girls
/r/MGTOW15/02/19 06:35 PM
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Lol op you got me good!
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 10:31 PM
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Needs to be on Google translate.
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 10:26 PM
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90%++ true imo!
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 10:25 PM
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Same.. initial mgtow is like wtf do I Do? Now I learn some video editng and dj software and I create things. So fun! Instead of sharing myself with a woman I record edit and creste highlights of my life and Share on YouTube. Some I just keep to watch when I'm old. Made some friends too. A bonus is that since I'm so into what I'm doing I've gained some mastery with my interests which doesn't make me boring when I talk to others. It's like I have a intense ambition. I think biggest struggle is tha…
/r/MGTOW08/02/19 05:32 PM
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I highly recommend the book: the tactical guide to women by Shawn Smith I think. Talks about what to look for in women and what to avoid in a much less red pill way. To me it was like the father I never had.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:45 PM
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Agree with bring disgusted but plz don't use the word hate. It can attract unwanted attention to the sub imo
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:26 PM
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Lol thank you
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:24 PM
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Think of it like gambling Don't invest anything you can't afford to lose.... permanently.
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 09:18 PM
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Haha that was good
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 09:08 PM
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. I see what you mean. If i were to give more context I do think 20% of women might suffer from a personality impairment. (Similar as men) But this 20% grosses up to what might feel like 80% of "available" women like you say because the ones that are good are off the market. And then there are also ugly, fat, poor, low class etc that i don't want. So it ends up feeling like anyone desirable at my age has something seriously wrong with them.. Especially as I get older (I'm 35 now). So all that is…
/r/MGTOW21/01/19 05:43 PM
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But what ate the alternatives. ?
/r/MGTOW20/01/19 09:10 PM
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I'm mgtow for about 8 month now post divorce. I still enjoy women and don't hate. I just won't cohabitate or marry ever again. I also learn to love myself more and expand my circle of friends. Mgtow challenge to me is finding like minded people and enduring heat during the holidays when I'm around so many couples with kids. It's not so bad. I also don't truly believe in awalt. I do believe that about 20% have mental impairment tho and for whatever in my history I think 4 out of 5 I have been lon…
/r/MGTOW20/01/19 09:05 PM
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Yes dear. And I'm sorry. Simp Latin
/r/MGTOW18/01/19 02:11 AM
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what? why? it seems like a lovely way way to say firemen are caring and giving and helping, which is why they choose the profession. It's main motivation is to care, save lives, protect etc... and to do so you must be a strong and muscular man so you can lift /carry victims.. ​ Should we be saying firemen are passive lazy ass weaklings? ​ ​ ​
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 02:37 AM
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lol are you sure about GTA 6 ? FML...
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 02:33 AM
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The way mgtow is also GYOW ensures there will be mixed views on this. GYOW is just that. Some are monk. Some pump and dump. And some might allow themselves to succumb to blue pilled ways and enjoy but will never marry or cohabitate. The cool thing is we get viewpoint of All! I for one still enjoy some woman companionship. But I will not cohabitate or marry one.
/r/MGTOW17/01/19 02:23 AM
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Good write up. Gotta date smart if you do it.
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 09:09 PM
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Oh man I gotta research this!
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 09:06 PM
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Dear god! it's like everything in life is relatable to either the Simpsons or Seinfield .
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 04:17 AM
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Y3ah I used to agree with that. But in my view because a woman does indeed go through a pregnancy and give up a lot of comfort and vitality with birth and also experience the bullshit if a period once a month. They do earn a bit of a "pussy pass" lol. They then they have menopause which also must suck. And can get quite ugly. Would you really want that to be your life for 20 years of good looks and seductive powers?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 07:14 PM
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I share this point of view. It's effective techniques with high success rate on women with a personality disorder or those that also want to play the game with you. However this will bite you back in the ass later when you become the object of scorn should you ever settle down with one of these impaired women. All IMO
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 07:05 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Much like finance education I believe there should be some extra teachings in school regarding modem dating ettiquite to help offset some problem areas many can face from Poor parenting styles and bad examples. Pop culture (tv/disney/rom COM etc) giving inaccurate view. Lack of community and belonging. Else everyone is left to their own and those that struggle go with a method that gets results like trp pua and mimic techniques poorly with a feedback loop to try "harder" and …
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 06:51 PM
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Thank you that was a good read.
/r/MGTOW05/01/19 08:52 PM
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Hehe I've been feeling lonely sometimes. But then I realize that if I want to date I'd have to spend more money. With I don't want to do cuz then I'll have probablly get a full time job for extra income. But I enjoy my simple pleasures way to much to give up my time :D. . In this day and age I got great access to life comfots never before experiences and music, storiez video games, history, resesech,food from all over the world, technological wonders, red light districts, clean water and electri…
/r/MGTOW05/01/19 07:38 PM
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Hey thanks! I'm starting to reach the conclusion that fundamentally our brains/mind do want to be part of the herd and want to be led and want to follow. So when it realizes this isn't actually happening, the brain/mind release bad feelings to compel us to become part of the herd... So it's very natural to feel bad for not being part of the herd, but despite knowing all this inner-working, nothing can prevent the bad feeling.. It has to work itself out, and that's what I was experiencing last ni…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:48 PM
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yeah thanks! ​ It was very surprising for me to experience the out of place feeling. I don't feel it anymore now which is the next day. . But i sure did for those few hours at the party and it was a terrible feeling. ​ Despite my logic beliefs, i think deep down, as human, we are wired for connection and inclusion. Being part of the herd used to increase survival chances. So when the mind sees that I am not part of the herd, it induces a bad feeling to try and motivate me to fit in - that is, "t…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:38 PM
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Yes i agree. Thanks for that. As I wake up today I am much happier. The "feelings" of being out of the loop/group/norm that I was experiencing simply needed to fade away. ​ There's no doubt in my mind that the bullshit i went through with my ex-wife and various ex-gfs is something I feel extremely lucky for by being single today. I woke up with no screaming, no expectations, and fairly relaxed. If I had a significant other, i'd wake up to talkign about the party and probably a talk about how we …
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:31 PM
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Yeah it'd be social suicide for me. And it would make my career harder if I reveal my MGTOW ideology. It's not like I was MGTOW since 20 and then built a total MGTOW lifestyle. I'm 35 and quite entrenched in the system. ​ Think as I like, but act like everyone else... So yes.. Publicly I'm looking for that "unicorn" and I'm just a hopeless romantic bachelor - recently divorced etc... . Privately, I'm MGTOW and don't give a shit and have re-met my inner child, but I gotta make them appearances. ​…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:26 PM
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It would be social suicide for me to reveal MGTOW ways. It could potentially make my career harder too. I'd be that "weird" guy, that "weird", "woman hating" guy that slowly stops being called out for coffee and group functions and etc... ​ I've concluded that yes, I'll think whatever I want, but I have to act like everyone else or whatever is popular of someone of my status/age etc... It's not like I've been MGTOW for 15 years.. I've built a life while not MGTOW and losing the significant other…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:20 PM
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Hey thanks! I did realize after reading your post that I'm seeing everyone at their best which is not the way it really is. First of all, it's Christmas so it's time off work for many and the year is up giving that sensation of positive reflection. We're also eating good food, there's kids all around that are real happy because they are getting gifts and are playing. Like despite being MGTOW, kids and the happiness of the women in these situations are IMO quite fulfilling to watch and interact w…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 03:13 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I also miss the people they were prior to getting married and having kids!! ANd i think it's not so much being an "outcast" rather than socially just being like the others. Everyone is still nice and kind to me, but the lack of being able to relate probably only causes me pain and not anyone else. It must be a human need to feel connected to others with some similarities... And outside of these kinds of functions I feel like I'm not alone in my way of life, but in such a situ…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 06:36 AM
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that's good advice. I have yet to get like minded friends and so it feels like the world is made up of the people i hang out with and these people are not MGTOW. So the contradicting lifestyle of what I believe in vs what's around me causes me to feel something real strange. And because I don't want to become a hermit, I do willingly go to these things and am in a way grateful that I'm still called upon to join and I can now share with others that I did something involving friends/family during …
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 05:27 AM
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Thanks man. Appreciate your post. My life has changed a lot and it's times like this where it's really obviously. My life was going in the same direction as them but I'm the only one now altered and mgtow now. I think as a human I'm built to fit in And when I'm with people I grew up with I experience a slight sensation of panic cuz i no longer fit in. That I'm no longer on the trajectory I thought. It is a sense of loss that I didn't anticipate that id feel.
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 04:32 AM
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I'm 35, divorced married of 6 years.... ​ I'm finding.. MGTOW is pretty great most of the year, but I still maintain ties to many people I grew up with who all have families and no time for me.. And then I have other group of friends who are single-ish, but are simps. So it's very hard to relate to anyone. My relationships stay a bit shallow and don't have too much depth. It's hard to create depth when they have kids/wife and so many other responsibilities... I almost want to get back into the "…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 04:16 AM
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Yeah i understand too how difficult the holidays are.. I just came back from a christmas eve potluck type thing with many of my friends I grew up with. I was the only single, and MGTOW person there. I'm 35, divorced mid 2018, married 6 years etc... It's wierd for me cuz I feel like a social failure. Like no one's going to say it, but I have these doubts about my MGTOW ways and such. I see such simpy attitude too and lots of talk about "wife won't let me do that" etc... and inside i'm like, I'm g…
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 04:12 AM
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where can i find theses??? looks very interesting. I'm facinated by authors of many years past say basically the same things that we see today. it gives a certain comfort and i'd love to read more!
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 02:20 AM
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Unless she has actual money to her name sueing her might only be a drain on you and your resources. She could claim bankruptcy. Best to let it go. See a therapist and grief over the loss of your not getting justice.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 07:21 PM
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That was perfect!!!
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 10:33 PM
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Just my 2 cents but have you explored the possibility that your upbringing may have resulted in some personality impairment within you. The minds job is to protect you so if you've been burned or experienced trauma it will developes in a way to avoid that pain trauma in the future which may merely resemble something in the past. For example within myself I have realized I see the world through a narcissistic lens. It really sucks for relationships but is real helpful in navigating the world. and…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/18 09:14 PM
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Imo Op lists the extremes that can and do happen. In my experience (1 time charged and 1 friend charged). The abuse and unfairness of the system will be slightly less. However it is best to be prepared. Keeping your computer and phone clean is a must. Put things behind encrypted cloud. Imaging the "publicity" or bias in the investigation when you are found out to be on mgtow. You'll be grouped as a woman hater .
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:28 PM
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Wow. I was red pilled and had some success. Then nasty divorce. Then mgtow and now I'm just looking to obtain self respect and love myself and reduce anxiety. In my journey I realized that. My past upbringing was shit (single parent divorce etc..) And this was hugely significant which i didn't take seriously or own enough. I became slightly narcissist in a way to protect myself in both professional life and with woman. (Put my self first and believe im alpha and special etc...)I enjoyed lots of …
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 05:02 PM
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Same. Life support for me is 15k a year. Although I allow extra 10k for the fun stuff. And 15k above that is saved/invested so one day I'll generate my life support wo worm
/r/MGTOW14/11/18 11:37 PM
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I can attest to this. I am guilty of retreating to the bathroom to avoid the ex-wife. It was a fucken nightmare. ​ Mostly when I was in circumstances where whatever I do I lose and bring on her wrath.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 06:45 AM
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agree. My ex wife's status went up with me. I helped her with obtaining better employment, entertainment/hobby choices, finance and investing, and I contributed to her pursuit of improved mental health by encouraging her to have more participation in social interactions. These were all IMO permanent gains so her life is much improved after meeting me. ​ Everything I gained could have been gained by any woman. Sex, companionship mainly.. ​
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 06:43 AM
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Hey.. Don't give me flack but from evolutionary standpoint, a woman's purpose is to make children.. A man's purpose is to provide and get a suitable woman to get those children made somehow. ​ When you go MGTOW, all the culture and evolutionary imperatives that you are wired for are being forced out by your prefrontal cortex (the part of the brain that uses logic and makes decisions ... u know to go MGTOW is a "rational decision" you are making regardless of ur mind's biological urge). This MGTO…
/r/MGTOW01/11/18 05:10 AM
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Ooh what name of anim3? Looks hilarious
/r/MGTOW22/10/18 09:08 PM
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Same. Except add hd porn lol
/r/MGTOW19/10/18 04:53 PM
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It did for me! Now aside from living a life of 1st world luxury, i'm happily playing video games, watching hd porn and enjoying an escort about once a month. I proactively work on my mental and physical health. Still work out eat eight and pursue social interactions with others as much as I can. Over time something clicked for me. I realized that my pursuit of women In my life was a pursuit of a safe place. It was the "lack" of relationship status that lowerd my life confidence. My pursuit wasn'…
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 06:09 PM
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Think as you like but behave like everyone else. If you must fight in some way online use a fake handler. It's your secret life from now on. There is no such thing as right or wrong only popular opinion. Don't forget this.
/r/MGTOW02/10/18 08:27 PM
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how can someone actually shame someone tho? Shame is an emotion based on interpretation of your surroundings. it's a feeling that comes due to not fitting in with the rest of society. ​ So if one feels shame it's actually a good feeling to make you feel bad for not fitting in. it's a really good feeling to have when you might be teetering on the outskirts of what's an acceptable way to conduct yourself... ​ Therefore, this SHAME is their own thing. they feel bad because they know they have thoug…
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 09:23 PM
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Same.... I went to bed yesterday disgusted. I can't believe all the hate going his way on Twitter. It's unbelievable. A part of me died. He is under oath with his statements. This can come back to him with perjury an even more damming conviction. Taking a real risk here if he is lying and I can't see that he is. The last senator that has him swear to god and everything looking him in the eye and I don't see the lie. I feel bad for the chick but how can this shit storm continue w/o real evidence?…
/r/MGTOW28/09/18 05:54 PM
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Omg! I havent laughed that hard in a while. The slow mo really heightens the laugh
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 02:24 PM
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Agree. But he did legalize something fun to ease the pain lol
/r/MGTOW27/09/18 02:22 PM
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Hey op. It will always be a struggle. What you require this life is a sense of purpose. When it comes to sense of purpose a relationship and impressing women really helped fill that. Everything you might have done could have been in pursuit of women. Education money job going out etc.. Replace the purpose. Truly replace it. Somehow and some way. Truly get into whatever you are into with intense focus and love and mastery . That's how I help myself. And mgtow doesn't mean no interaction with wome…
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 03:15 PM
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Hey. You might still be struggling with purpose . I had a similar problem with escorts when I was in whar I call "maybe mgtow " mode. When I changed my purpose for real from Women, career and etc to things I actually love and enjoy while maintaining social connections I found escort to be fun again.
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 03:06 PM
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Yeah. Women think they are going to live forever and don't compromise. Men know life is finite and make true best with what they got.
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 02:53 PM
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Fellow mgtows.... in my quest to get some inexpensive sex (non-escort) I have allowed myself to explore some online dating. Can confirm 90% is this post. I'm go back to paying lol.
/r/MGTOW26/09/18 02:51 PM
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Nicely done! Can't be live it could happen to brad Pitt.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 07:15 PM
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Say no and celebrate with an escort.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 04:24 PM
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Yeah it's fine. Remember this place is a hospital...
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 04:21 PM
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Not true at all. I love women. It's not out of hatred that I go my own way. It's out of partnership. And potentially getting screwed agsin I'm of the conclusion that despite personality and lifestyle flaws that it's feminism that fucked up my precious relationships. It was the cultural reinforcement that I shouldn't always lead or that I should give her equal say. There's a real fine balance which is practically impsosible to find which led to resentment, and my unattractiveness. Cuz I would hes…
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 04:13 PM
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I prefer stable dividend paying blue chips. In the US. Berkshire Hathaway is a great investment. Just need to b3 creative with ur cash flow in times of recession. And monitor p/e ratio to mom and maximize when you sell to sufficiently fund a buffer that will last a few e years. Also certain jobs in a crunch like in the hospitality business can help yiuv suppliment in times of need. Imo 350k usd is more than enough. Most developing country you only need 15000 a year which is ~4.3%....
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 04:03 PM
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Tee hee. I sleep on a futon on the floor. It's great for my back.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 03:57 PM
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Yep. OP you learned the hard way but the damage to you is minimal! In essence... Congratulations! Could have been a lot worse. !! You'll never make that mistake again now won't You? :)
/r/MGTOW19/09/18 03:46 PM
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My 2 cents. Life as a man require purpose. And this purpose is hard when you think your own way but must pretend to be like everyone else. Cuz your way is rejected but you must blend in still. You must have a why to live. Without a why, I think you will suffer from emptiness. My Old way to get purpose: Women and relationship and family. Either nurturing it or going after it. Career. Money. Greed. Get nice things etc.. The new way. Up to you to decide but you have to find something with purpose. …
/r/MGTOW17/09/18 06:32 PM
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Although this is very text book known for us. In a way I do feel bad for her. She doesn't understand. Credit to her trying to figure it out. The guy is in for a lot of hurt indeed
/r/MGTOW16/09/18 07:28 PM
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Apparently Darwin made these consideration prior to having any particular woman in mind. So maybe he got tricked. Like the rest of us
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 07:02 PM
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Source: Sex at Dawn by Cacilda Jethá and Christopher Rya
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 06:24 PM
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No. Unfortunately the level of internalization and distancing of on self to emotions is required. Some women have this bit not enough. Men will continue to be blamed. But root cause is socially reinforcing monogamy and no fault divorce.
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 04:13 PM
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Same. I accumulated enough to my name to make work a choice It makes a lot of sense. Why do we work till 60ish with all the technological advances and economies of scale. I worked approximately 15. I'm frugal relative to everyone around me yet in the absolute sense j live a life of luxury and convienence. I ear fruit that is imported, read books from all over the world and enjoy classical music which if you think back just 200 years would always have to be live. Got YouTube and shows like cosmos…
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 03:41 PM
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I do know HI-Q is an app that allows immediate upload to the cloud for voice recordings if anyone else was interested. I want video tho
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 03:34 PM
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Woah! Sometimes I use up nearly my entire phones memory on things like pics music vids comics and etc... ibe in a bind if I needed an emergency recording. Seeing this video has made me all the wiser. Always have spare memory. You just never know. Anyone know an app that lets you save a video to the cloud right away as you take it in case things escalate? I'd want a separate app to use in just a case. And let it upload using mobile data and etc.. even if it charges me. And then my normal app for …
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 03:29 PM
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This is exactly what I've noticed. Women have a disappointed life isn't fair look. Men have a I bet all my eggs in one basket I hope it works out kinda look!
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 03:25 PM
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Yes. But it's not just women. It's men too. But women imo have this confused and dazed look when I observe them in malls. They also look like they zre in a hurry. Men have an insecure / I hope this works out look. All IMO
/r/MGTOW15/09/18 03:22 PM
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Wow! So the man's act of love was totally rejected because girl wanted love and marriage proppsal a very specific way. Despite his creativity. It's not like it was super embarrassing. They could still discuss a the performance of a fantasy or showing and play out a sexond proposal for social media and feels. Girl should be dumped
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 06:38 PM
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Is this really awalt or an unhealthy immature woman ?
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 06:35 PM
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This is why we retreat and stfu when we have issues. It's risk management because we deep down know that something like this could happen. And it has happened .. often. On little things
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 06:33 PM
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Yes. It's true. I can frugally Get my basix needs met off 1200 usd a month... It's only gets expensive when I chase women. I utilize an additional 300usd for my own mgtow purposes. Travel, drugs, toys, escorts etc.. When I don't use it all in a month it carries over. The rest I save/invest so I can retire early. When I was married it cost me about 3k month to maintain the life style. I could only save 5-10% lol
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 06:24 PM
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Hey. You gotta be smart where you travel and research the red light district first. Make sure what your after is accessible. Where to go, the websites to find an escort, typical cost etc etc... The market for this kind of thing is a lot bigger than you might first think. It's just kept outta public eye...
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 10:08 PM
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I have a friend who was like you at a similar age. Above average looks, fun guy, but single mom upbringing and a few personal tragedies held him back... and he's fairly MGTOW / Red pill aware and doesn't want to get suckered into bullshit... But finds that he's attracted to hot messes... ​ He did his traveling and got it out of his system. full 3 weeks at a time.. about 4K USA total spent. has done this 3-4 times now. He's a better man for it. Now he does it every year. It gives him something to…
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 04:04 PM
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OMG thank you for that link! It's really helping me understand a few things about my 20s. It's like... Oooh! that's what was really going on!
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:50 PM
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That's mighty kind of you. But I'd put it to good use. Canada tho, not USA.. :( ​
/r/MGTOW03/09/18 03:38 PM
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You may be lonely if you are actually alone. As human we are wired for connection but the connection can be to things non-woman like a pet, volunteer, clubs etc... I think as men we have a good ability to compartmentalize our needs. Aside from human solutions you can supplement the lack of intimate partner with. Use a pet to emulate familiarity and closeness. Use an online community and/or online video game and be active in that community to emulate connection When you feel like venting or shari…
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 04:20 PM
2

Much thank! It was quite the entertaining read. Very AWALT. ​ ex finance ups her looks, says sorry, but still externally blames the therapist, quits her job, has a break down, and promises absolute submissiveness to the man if he takes her back... and offers a journal. The man rejects it all. Good on him.
/r/MGTOW30/08/18 02:44 PM
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Yea! Despite mgtow it is a human need to feel connected. We have a need for intimacy too. But do not mistake intimacy for sex and women only. Intimacy for this purpose means a closeness and familiarity and this can be satisfied with a pet! You must do something to somehow have this need met or you risk some negative side effects as you age.
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 07:37 PM
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Ooh ty op that looks like a real interesting read. The title of book is fate of empires??
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 07:29 PM
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WOW! O-W-N-E-D! That was AMAZING!! like explaining gravity to a chicken!!!
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 11:59 PM
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Is it possible that I am "fucked up" because of this, without realizing it? In my limited scope opinion yes. Because I can relate with having a shitty one parent upbringing dueto divorce and all the missed learning and shitry sitiatioms i had to endure. By biggest role models are successful men that I don't know but because of internet,books, videos i am able to learn from them Warren Buffet, Rollo Tomassi and so many others. In effect I've had to parent myself to learn and navigate this world. …
/r/askTRP26/08/18 04:31 PM
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You have to leave good sir. You made an error in choosing to marry this woman. There were warning signs you missed or choose to ignore. AND/OR you did not vet her for a personality disorder... I'm so sorry Very costly mistake... But life goes on. In a few years this will pass Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn! ​
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 04:09 AM
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Is that fake news? No way. I don't believe it! WHAAAT? ​
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 03:48 AM
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heh, I'm 35 divorced and good looking, and I still get asked that.. Whenever someone asks me seriously I just say.. I just haven't met anyone that shares my set of values... Or what my role expectations within a relationship are... Who also doesn't have indications of a personality disorder. If they pry more, i tell them my values are, being cheap, video games, complete interdependent finances, prenups in the event of marriage, always put myself first, ALWAYS separate residences (even if married…
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 02:43 AM
2

OP made a tactical error choosing this woman for an LTR. There would have been warning signs OP may be oblivious to now, but with some reflection I'm sure he can discover it and learn for next time. Likely he did not honestly evaluate her maturity, stability or sense of clarity. And somehow he missed out on checking out for personality disorders. BPD comes to mind... As the saying goes, Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn (when a women is rejected in love). Now you have a taste of this. The c…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 01:44 AM
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Its fun that we can joke around with it because we know the unicorn don't actually exist. I'm with you there though. a true legit unicorn is worth a mil to me. In fact, if it's a legit true unicorn, I can envision the empowerment i'd get to make millions on my own. The one exception to MGTOW is unicorn. But we know that's a fantasy... But much like thinking about winning the lottery. i find it fun to fantasize haha
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 01:13 AM
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I can only speak anecdotally but I come from single mom and looking back on my life.. I'm currently 35... I was always a bit rough around the edges. I got in trouble a lot at school.. I got into some trouble with law not counting yhe times i didnt get caught. professionally I messed up a few times.. my relationshops with women have mostly been love hate and erratic. I've had issues I had to work on such as anger management and anxiety.. luckily internet helped raise me and I learned early about …
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 03:45 PM
1

If we allow him not to pay, and mom can't afford to provide for kid.. someone's gotta pay.. How do we as a society determine this??? whose going to propose an increase in the tax base to cover this kind of thing and whose going to OK it? Need me some MGTOW insurance policy.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 01:55 AM
2

Women are like a camp fire in the cold. I need and want to feel the warmth and at thst level i feel good and look forward to that warmth... yet if I get to close to the camp fire.... I'll get burned and based on my level of closeness ill get permanent burn marks for the rest of my life... All camp fires feel initially good! All fires will burn you permanently when you get close. AWALT!
/r/MGTOW13/08/18 02:49 PM
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lol same here :P But w/o ex-wife I can live off practically nothing and still decently enjoy.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 04:15 AM
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OP, i did the same thing. And moving out is like heaven. There were times however where I didn't feel great and I experienced grief and anger. I will say that those feelings do pass though. !!!
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 03:58 PM
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Hey thanks for the link to that! Looks like a good read!
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 01:52 PM
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same.
/r/MGTOW08/08/18 06:07 PM
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HA HA HA HA! thank you my friend. SAVED!
/r/MGTOW08/08/18 06:04 PM
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I believe it was some famous person who said, There is nothing wrong with enjoying luxuries and comfort in life so long as you are able to live without them. So in that context, I agree. There is no need to voluntarily suffer if you don't' have to, but be sure to appreciate and live somewhat purposeful with your luxuries and comfort items that you do have..
/r/MGTOW07/08/18 11:17 PM
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Op's posted book has stood the test of time! I def recommend! Also another good book is women's infidelity, by Michelle Langley. 2005.
/r/MGTOW07/08/18 11:14 PM
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i wonder if it's possible that she was holding onto his phone when that went out and she then proceeded to perform cleanup on both their accounts
/r/MGTOW06/08/18 02:24 AM
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She was sucking the life out of you. You could have been the premature death, and she would have been at your funeral hooking up with someone, likely coming back at night to fuck on your grave stone high as a kite as some twisted form of tribute for your insurance policy...
/r/MGTOW05/08/18 03:15 PM
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Therapy was worth it for me. It was in therapy where I saw my ex-wife re-tell events and things that happened between us... Of which I had full knowledge of because I was apart of them.... I saw how she twisted the stories to maximize my being a bad person and minimize her involvement and look like a saint when she was talking to the therapist... It scared the crap out of me. Because her lies and twists were not said in a bat-shit-cat-lady-crazy way... She was very credible.. I then realized tha…
/r/MGTOW05/08/18 02:48 PM
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lol.. push it and you'll never forget it!
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 09:44 PM
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Yes. I went the same route. from age 18-35. several LTR girlfriends and an ex-wife. Same conclusion as you... It's initially a very painful realization, but in some sense after the pain it's very freeing. They are not monogamous as we like to believe. IMO us men invented tools to ensure a monogamous nature (law/religion/marriage etc...), because it was the best option for our species to continue on prior to all this technology and easy modern life... We finally see woman's true sexual nature whe…
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 02:14 PM
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it was an epiphany for me to finally understand and come to terms that a problem in my life was the woman I was with. To finally admit that I made a mistake in choosing her, and that she was not a good woman was heartbreaking for me. Because all my adult life when things don't go my way, I try not to blame externally.. I focus within and how I can be better, or gain perspective, or improve my ways... My instinct was to blame myself and believe I was the cause of problems which I can work on corr…
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 01:33 PM
1

I feel like i live 2 different lives... There's the true me that has my true reasons and ways of life.. And then there's also the "performance" version of myself. This "me" is me fitting in and/or pretending to be what is expected of me so that I can get what I want from this world. It's a little fake, but I receive what I need from living this way. If you've ever learned anything about will-power I will tell you that this does drain my mental capacity and I do require extra time to recharge, bu…
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 02:25 AM
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This... Other men have suffered so we can learn. You must be careful. You must educate yourself and reduce the risk of getting screwed.
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 02:07 AM
1

Hey OP. I'm 35. In my early 20's I had flirtations with MGTOW philosophy without knowing what it even was, but thought i was the exception and that I had a unique ability to pick women who weren't like all the others. I was very wrong about that. I got burned. I was pretty sure of myself that I was different and that the woman I was with were different. Nope... WRONG! This is a very familiar story for so many of us...
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 02:00 AM
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I totally fell for this thirsty lifestyle. Female approval, validation and physical interaction.... Practically the only things that have nearly destroyed me as a person... I'd say that in my life in general there has always been pressure from even other men to get with and make the entire meaning of life be about being with a woman which requires giving up soo much and tolerating so much sh*t! IMO it's definitely a trap, and over time, at least at my age 35, i've been trained my whole life to g…
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 01:52 PM
2

Hey thanks! I have thought of this... and it's helpful to be reminded. Basically I have thought about what brings myself "joy" in life, and mostly it's when I'm out of the comfort zone, when life is a bit unpredictable, and there are novel things happening. This relates to what your were talking about like travel, and getting lost somewhere new! I realized that part of what I enjoyed about being in relationships despite them destroying me and being toxic was that the relationship itself is a dis…
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 01:36 PM
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I agree! The thought of being destroyed by uncaring, self-serving piranha because I love to swim and feel the need to swim does help put things in perspective... I can't negotiate with piranha or "take it easy" with them while they are in the water, I gotta be on my guard and be vigilant. Because they live off instinct, and if they destroy me, they won't even give it any after thought, similar to women, even if destroying me is to their long term detriment because lets say I'm taking care of the…
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 01:03 PM
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gotta somehow find other MGTOW people without letting anyone know I'm MGTOW. I'm confident that MGTOW would make good friends... but how to find each other :(
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 04:28 AM
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yep i'm told this all the time by my married friends. one has 3 kids and is always happy to get even just simple coffee, and has never failed to tell me, "I wish i was single". He does so with a sarcastic laugh, yet I hear the hint of a cry in his voice. which I now piece together still as white knight behavior because he must be trying to tell me he's sad and really wishing to be single, but can't do it without compromising his permanent "cover" (pretending to be happy and providing so that wif…
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 04:16 AM
1

keep your expenses low. When I look at the cost of things I now think of it in terms of hours of work. when i save money I think of it as saving work time. Deducting the total amount of work years/days left based on whatever i saved myself some money on till i can be early retired. I started the clock at 30 years, and kept makign deductions. it was a fun way for me to get ahead networth wise
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 04:04 AM
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Late spring, summer, and very early fall are nice here weather wise. There is lots of things to see and do at least for a few years like museums and nature. You might enjoy seeing Canada's view on history as it relates to USA if you explore this aspect. Winter sucks like ass tho. You can go up north 2-3 hours drive where you can experience very nice nature. It's considered to be cottage country. Again there is LOTS of nature to explore. If you like to camp or enjoy outdoors it's great during sum…
/r/MGTOW24/07/18 09:33 PM
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Thank you for this...
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 06:28 PM
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