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ConversationFromGymToBoudoir/r/seduction06/06/25 01:17 AM
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6

Facts. You hit the nail on the head with this one.
/r/seduction23/07/25 01:42 PM
0

So?
/r/seduction20/07/25 04:39 PM
1

Yes. That’s partially true.
/r/seduction19/07/25 06:44 PM
2

That explains it lol. Europe and South America don’t deal with bullshit like American does.
/r/seduction18/07/25 07:22 PM
4

This should be upvoted more! I’ve incorporated this a couple of years ago and it works 💯
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:21 PM
3

That’s insane. Did you buy this 18 year old a new car or some shit?
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:18 PM
4

Are you in the U.S? Because the US has this weird-ass Agist thing going on.
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:17 PM
4

Ohhh yea… It’s better for her to meet a bunch of college-age fuck boys that are very mature and are always looking to be committed, and will pump and dump her before jumping to the next broad. That’s gonna be a lot better than dating some dude a few years older, right?
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:31 PM
7

So what? Girls in college are getting plowed left and right by college frat fucks. But it’s weird to date some older dude? And I’m speaking as an early twenties college guy lmao. I never understood the logic.
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:30 PM
1

Yeah. The outrage and folks on here telling her not to do it because it’s, A). Creepy. B). Predatory I don’t see the same with OP.
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:37 PM
1

It’s not shade at you, specifically. It’s towards the hypocrites.
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:36 PM
3

Why? Explain. I saw one dude get chewed out because he’s a thirty year old dude hanging around college campuses to pickup chicks. But now some 18 year old man wants to “pickup milfs,” but I don’t see any backlash. It’s just funny to me.
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:55 AM
1

He’s still the first, though. That already makes him better than the other guys who just show up for left overs. First hit, to plant the flag, where no other guy has gone before. Trophy’s his now. Even if the other dudes are somehow better, I mean… do chicks even forget their first? Probably not.
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:51 AM
-7

Imagine if the roles were reversed, would ya’all still encourage this?
/r/seduction17/07/25 02:01 AM
2

Lmao never see that man pull any women except pulling them to his damn podcast.
/r/seduction16/07/25 04:31 PM
-1

This dude: https://youtu.be/IkqH6khsrt4?si=lLnRtQu5pUlcNEQk
/r/seduction16/07/25 11:02 AM
-1

This man’s on another level. I’ve seen so many videos and the shorts. He’s living life on easy mode for real. He constantly can pull without saying much. And gets choosing signals non stop. You can try to seduce and talk and have a mouthpiece but let’s be real. Fit, tall and have a good presence are all winning combinations where. Looks a lot more than people admit. Look at Okan Serbes, or Marlon. Prime examples. Okan: https://youtube.com/shorts/73QE_k_Iywc?si=ooEhjG7mXl3f27xq https://youtube.co…
/r/seduction16/07/25 10:48 AM
0

Hell yea. There you go! If you’re to “compete” with these dudes, you have to offer more. And by default, you already do.
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:17 PM
10

Facts! I’ve heard as much. Being in thirties and having a good physique is a recipe for success.
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:06 PM
2

The two so far I’ve told didn’t believe it at first, and were cool with it. Had follow ups. Now the rest I don’t tell, because since I’m not looking for anything serious, there’s no reason to. It makes as much sense as randomly telling someone I wear contact lenses.
/r/seduction25/06/25 04:10 PM
2

True. Or he could find whatever he needs to do to improve and maximize his looks to get what he desires. If it’s a relationship, then yes, he should absolutely find someone who’s with him because they like everything about him. There’s no superficiality there. Now… if he wants casual encounters, it will absolutely be in his best interest to improve his looks in any way, shape, or form, to hit it and quit.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:57 AM
8

It can reduce your dating chances if you’re college-aged. Chicks 18-24 usually go for guys with hair. There are exceptions. You got four options. Embrace the baldness. Hair system. Transplant. Rogaine/finesteride, etc. I took number 4, and it didn’t work for me personally, so I went with 2. Number 2 so far gave me drastic changes. Positively so.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:05 AM
1

And also accept that he’ll have limited options as a result.
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:02 AM
8

Don’t remember. Don’t care as long as I look good on Snapchat and Tinder. I’m not doing it for strength. I’m doing it to ascend to Chadhood.
/r/seduction21/06/25 07:55 PM
1

I get that. There’s different styles for it. It all depends. Some range from $200 to $300. The good ones are $400 or so if you get them custom made, which I recommend as they’re very good quality. I say look around and do some research. I’ve seen some where they hide the receding hairline, but if it’s really bad they you might want to give it a try or not.
/r/seduction21/06/25 07:36 PM
7

Body Game. That’s the only explanation you need.
/r/seduction21/06/25 06:52 PM
1

For skin care I do the basics: hydrate a lot, eat clean. As for products, I use exfoliating from time to time, I also use Aztec Bentonine Clay, and Adapelene Cream 0.1%.
/r/seduction21/06/25 11:42 AM
2

Not at all. The only people that know it isn’t my real hair are the folks I work with and friends. Because I told them. The key is proper blending and of course the hairstyle. Mine is pretty standard, so it hides it well. I’ll send a pic. Backstory: I work in a pretty big company where, ironically, we know a lot of people. I’ve had occasions where I had full-blown conversations with a person in a steam room at our gym and after several minutes of conversation, they’re like “Wait, holy shit, [my …
/r/seduction21/06/25 11:39 AM
1

Had resin procedure done overseas to file in gaps and fix a chipped tooth when I fell.
/r/seduction21/06/25 11:30 AM
24

I was fat. Lost 34 lbs. Going to lose some more to get that aesthetic physique if I’m to compete with the college bros out there. My teeth had gaps, so I had dental procedures done. No more gaps. Bald and balding, but opted for a non-surgical transplant/hair system/rug/toupee or whatever y’all want to call it. Now I have a nice haircut (Messy, textured fringe with a fade). Better skin-care routine. Those are only on the looks department. I’ve also worked on myself as a person. How I behave, talk…
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:01 AM
3

Girls in your damn High School aren’t enough? Go hit on them.
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:29 PM
1

Plastic surgery is the most drastic option. I personally wouldn’t ever go that far. I take retinoids, lots of sun screen, eye drops to get rid of the bags under the eyes, etc. Skin care to preserve the youthful glow. My biggest thing I want to drop to the 11%-10% body fat range. That will yield the best results.
/r/seduction07/06/25 08:42 PM
2

💀
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:45 PM
0

Well I’m 6’2 and I’m young. The face is a work in progress, though 🤡
/r/seduction06/06/25 10:16 AM
0

Most promote fitness, but his style is unique. He gets into the specifics with women. Fitness is great and all, but I like the fitness coaches or people who are into fitness talks about the effects of women, because that’s the main factor that has me in the gym.
/r/seduction06/06/25 10:10 AM
2

Do it. And I really mean it. I bought the book years ago but I never applied it when I should’ve. Your life will change once you actively apply those principles through trial and error. Ultimately man, just have fun with it. Don’t take it seriously. It’s an adventure! You’ll do good! Looking forward to any reports you have out there, here on the sub.
/r/seduction06/06/25 02:19 AM
1

I’ve followed those guys before. Mystery Method and I bought Rules of the Game. I still have that book lmao.
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:59 AM
4

I wouldn’t call the guys I follow PUA’s but I’ve been adopting a few of their styles. Coach Kyle. Guy has it down to a science. 34-year old dude that looks likes he’s in his twenties. Has tons of videos. J-Lifestyle ( more of a YouTuber but he pulls college bitches left and right). SouthPaw Huncho. Fitness coach. Was a bouncer and preaches more of Body Game. Knows how club chicks are and how to get them. Explains how being extremely fit can yield the best results, along with attitude changes her…
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:50 AM
1

Haha. I agree. But it’s these built-in mechanics some of these women go by. They want to be comfortable and confident the guy they’re going out with for that night doesn’t set off any potential red flags.
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:28 PM
1

100% it is.
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:06 AM
6

I always went solo. Go to have fun. The less you think of getting chicks, the more at easy you’ll be and it’ll just reflect. Ironically it’s easier to talk to girls this way and have success. Talk to everyone. Especially if you’re at a club or bar. Build social rapport. Don’t only give the impression that you’re a social person, be a social person. Strike conversations with the bartender, be chill, etc. Relax. Avoid standing in the corner with hand in pocket or a drink in hand. Be loose, and vib…
/r/seduction02/06/25 11:40 PM
2

Crazy statement. Majority of Reddit will call you a creep. Unless you’re 19 or 20 years old, and then of course, conveniently you’d get a pass because apparently it’s not creepy if someone of similar age says the same bullshit.
/r/seduction02/06/25 08:07 PM
2

It’s not about a haircut. It’s about having hair. Period. Younger chicks won’t deal with a bald dude because most likely it reminds them of their dad or they give off old vibes or whatever. It’s just what it is. If you have almost two versions of the same exact guy in a club and one has hair and the other doesn’t, the one with hair will have more success. You’re right. Rejection is part of the game. But improving oneself in both personality and appearance is also part of the game. Unless the guy…
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:24 PM
1

Only when dating. But if you want to smash and have fun and onto the next one, it’s better to have every physical aspect on point.
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:08 PM
1

You always need to be muscular to be considered attractive to women. Search up “Body Game” on YouTube or watch how women react to muscular aesthetic men on the streets or even on the Omeagle app. Not being fit is doing oneself a disservice. As a part time bald guy, I’ve noticed that in the past the women that approached me when I was bald was mostly in their 30’s or older. I’ve gotten lucky with a few 23-24 year olds but mostly older women showing interest when I’m at bars or dating platforms. T…
/r/seduction31/05/25 10:48 AM
1

Doesn’t matter if you’re confident and have a good body. Some women aren’t attracted to bald guys. Period.
/r/seduction31/05/25 10:39 AM
1

Observations work better than questions. Always. Make comments about her hair, dress, accent, mannerisms, anything, and follow up with another one. Maybe ask a question or two but just talk casually. Naturally this will avoid the “Oh nice weather. Is it this nice where you’re from?” Etc.
/r/seduction23/05/25 11:40 PM
42

So true, man. The successes I’ve had was with girls that gave me that quick glance and I acted on. There’s always that brief moment when you’re walking inside a bar or club that’s packed full of people. There’s a couple of seconds of eye contact. Usually you know when you have a good chance when the maintains eye contact a fraction longer and smiles or says “hi.” If she glances away quickly, eh… I myself don’t even try. But there are moments where they say “hey” and smile and maintain eye contac…
/r/seduction23/05/25 12:40 PM
7

Yeah. Less bullshit to deal with it. College-age bitches are hotter but older chicks are easier.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:31 PM
0

In today’s ageist society, you’d be surprised. Especially when there’s people saying 20-year old dudes can be groomed by a chick if she’s older lmao.
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:33 PM
1

Does it matter? If he’s 18+, it shouldn’t be an issue.
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:28 AM
21

Careful young man, you’d he groomed by these predatory adult women because your adult brain isn’t developed. /s
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:49 PM
21

At least you had sex when you were in High School. I didn’t until much later in college now and it still one of my major regrets.
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:34 AM
1

If the roles were reversed, lmao… Imagine an older guy saying he wanted to date 18-19 year olds. The Reddit would implode.
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:42 PM
2

Eh I will if I reach 30 and I don’t have as much escapades as I want now in my twenties. What if I reach my thirties without the amount of casual encounters and all the women in their thirties are more experienced? Fuck all that noise.
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:45 AM
5

From who? 30-year old chicks or college chicks?
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:48 AM
3

Doing good work here. Brought me PTSD though as I remember how bad I fumbled months ago. But it was for a good cause.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:19 PM
1

Can’t say much about online but girls hit on me in person now.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:50 PM
2

Ahh. That explains it haha.
/r/seduction29/03/25 08:03 PM
5

Weird encounter. Be glad you didn’t proceed or pressure to go beyond it. She clearly didn’t want it. I personally wouldn’t waste time with this chick that switches up all of the sudden.
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:28 PM
6

If he just wants to have sex and move on to the next one, they’re absolutely the chicks he wants to be with.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:16 AM
29

Happened to me months ago. I crossed paths with this blond chick and we locked eyes, flirted and hung around the club. We stepped away from the dance floor and went to the darts section upstairs. She stayed playing darts as I went to buy myself drinks and there’s this random dude who walks up to me after trying to talk to her and says, “You’re trying to hard bro. You be following her everywhere. That bitch ain’t giving it to you.” Irked me a bit because I didn’t follow anyone lmao. What I did? D…
/r/seduction26/03/25 04:44 PM
1

Yup. Exactly that.
/r/seduction20/03/25 01:09 AM
5

Yup. It’s happened to lots of guys, including me as recent as a few months ago. Enjoy the moment, too, don’t make any long-term plans and if we all go in with the mindset that “whatever happens, we’ll be golden.
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:53 PM
105

Here’s the thing with a lot of these club broads. You can try to link up again but they’re acting on how they’re feeling that night. The chick you meet one night can have an entirely different mindset the next day and not want to engage, they’re only loyal to their emotions and if they’re feeling you they’re night, they’re gonna act on it. Which it’s why it’s best to sleep with them that night if you can, but not saying they won’t meet up again with you, it’s just that it’s a little bit more dif…
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:26 PM
1

Facts! Thanks
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:58 AM
1

Well relationship started off in a lie. Girlfriend said she was a virgin when we started dating, but it turns out she had sex one time when she was in High School. I was a virgin the entire time during my High School days. So now I realize I have to sleep around because I’m not gonna find a girl who hasn’t. It’s stupid, I know, but it is what it is.
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:46 AM
-12

Cause I’m in a relationship. Yup. I’ve seen some decent stories about Facebook dating before.
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:40 AM
2

Yeah I’ve been told it works before. Some YouTuber said folks be sleeping on Facebook dating app. I can’t use it though because I have to be discreet.
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:25 AM
2

You can, too! Just get your discount cape and internet points and you’ll be set.
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:04 AM
2

Here to support the bros, fam.
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:54 AM
14

Careful, there’s plenty of White Knights with mawkish morals here in these parts.
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:04 PM
1

You shouldn’t care.. until those idiots pull out a phone and you’re being blasted on social media just for being normal. Like that one guy at Assumption College who was jumped by students because he allegedly wanted to hook up with someone who was 18(even though they claimed it she was 17). They’re facing charges now. But I agree 💯 It’s okay for frat boys to hit on girls but if a dude is 25 he can’t?
/r/seduction13/03/25 03:16 PM
1

In the perspective of lots of folks, though. Just saying it can come across this way. Today’s generation people get all outraged when there’s something as small as a five year age gap. Imagine someone in late twenties/early thirties hooking up with 19-21 year olds. Some folks quickly pull out the grooming card and are quick to call those people predators. I mentioned it before but i was told I was a victim and groomed because I had a fling with an older thirty-year old woman. That’s ridiculous!
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:44 PM
3

That depends, though. You got older guys like Crew Aesthetics, J-Lifestyle(especially this guy), and a few others that go and are successful. It’s about the vibes honestly. I’m on the younger side and college student and some guys on my campus are older but look incredibly young. I know one who hookups up from time to time and everyone vibes well with him. He’s cool af. The thing is there’s a difference if you happen to go to the school and study there or you’re just purposely hanging around col…
/r/seduction13/03/25 10:29 AM
1

Yeah, I never saw any of my friends complain when I hooked up with a chick who’s thirty. And I’m in my early twenties. Guess when it’s the other way around, people start this bullshit.
/r/seduction10/03/25 10:10 AM
2

I don’t know. I’m a young college student but I’ve met a couple of guys in our class in their early thirties who I thought was at most 24. And some of the chicks like one of them. But granted, he’s more established than the rest of us lmao.
/r/seduction07/03/25 12:21 AM
3

It’s never too late to go back. Step 1. Move to a college town. Step 2. Look young. Step 3. Do College online. Now you’re a college student. Go fuck some bitches and profit.
/r/seduction06/03/25 09:46 PM
1

Haha. I remember my years living in Brazil 🙂‍↕️
/r/seduction02/03/25 04:35 PM
5

Absolutely true. 💯 This has happened to me.
/r/seduction02/03/25 12:16 PM
1

Coach Kyle is solid. ColdHeartKam gives some useful tips.
/r/seduction02/03/25 04:47 AM
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