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| 95 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of. | Debate | Front-Orchid-1427 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Have people noticed that “social media is not real life” is applied to women but not men | Front-Orchid-1427 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:41 PM |
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| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionStop asking women for accountability. It is dumb to do and does nothing good. Just treat them in the way you think you should after you observe how they behave. Do not expect more. DO not be so delusional thinking they actually will do anything that is difficult and not in their self interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 09:47 PM |
| – | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionHow many friends do these hateful lonely men actually have that don't think like them? Do you think I hang around these losers irl? LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?What about my mindset stops me from committing? Enjoying sex? There are plenty of people that have slowed down on sex or even long lasting non-monogamous couples but I don’t think I would do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?Lots of women want to commit to me. I just don’t want to commit to them. So we leave each other alone. I don’t imagine a relationship would be hard for me to obtain as long as I remain healthy. Most men are so unattractive to women so I won’t run out of available options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?Who says the relationship we are in requires loyalty and commitment? Maybe she just wants some sex just like I do. We hang out as friends and have sex. This is very normal and I never see women shaming women for doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?This posts starts off with a wild assumption that women who like criminals are also criminals then just lays it on thick assuming they are right when they totally are not right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?When's the last time you saw an unattractive man sleep around with a bunch of women? You are proving the person you are replying to right lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?Yes we do get to know the women on a deeper level. We will just put our dick in other women too lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ?Worked for me tbh. When I consciously tried to be nicer to women I had less luck. When I consciously tried to be meaner to women I had better luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Wouldn't uneven hair and uneven breasts both cause distress? Has this ever been brought up there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Can you give an example of wealthy people fleeing a country in response to progressive taxes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:08 PM |
| -2 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Yes please. The less ugly looking women the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex?Funny enough this is very relevant for me. I was having a threesome with 2 chicks on Monday. They’re a couple. One fem bratty chick one is a masc subservient type. The fem chick often likes to watch me fuck the masc chick the whole time while she records and gets cunnilingus. Anyway they just got a new ringlight and wanted to record a “milking” video. The fem chick wanted to beat me off while I made out with masc chick. Fuck it I’m down lol. So we get to it and she is hitting some spots really w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 02:12 PM |
| 10 | Misogyny is often mistaken for confidence in online dating spacesA man who is happy and doesn’t cater to women’s feelings is seen as an “I do what I want and get what I want.” Type of guy. Men who seem to cater to women’s feelings are seen as doing it so women will be nice to them in turn. It’s the same as women who brag about treating men like shit and the men still pay their bills and bend to their whims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themI was friends with a woman for 6 years before she found out I had feelings for her. We started dating within like a month lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themThe issue is people make statements like “women don’t like that!” about so many things that some women in fact do like. Women are not a monolith until you are telling incels that women do not want to be romantic with friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themYeah do women really let their imaginations run wild like that? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:48 PM |
| 0 | On a moral and ethical level, we need to ensure women have fair representation in government and leadership positionsThats why I said work in a mine AND face gender based harassment smart one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:48 PM |
| – | If you could run one rigorous study on modern dating/gender conflict, what would you test and what do you predict?I would love to study what it is about women with BPD that makes them attractive. Their behavior patterns and such. Basically a study about the crazy/hot scale focused on diagnosed mental illnesses in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 04:14 PM |
| – | If you could run one rigorous study on modern dating/gender conflict, what would you test and what do you predict?Would love to see data on women who lie about body counts vs women who tell the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it much more common for me to hear about men developing feelings well into a friendship, but women quickly become infatuated about someone and start dating maybe even before they're more than acquaintances?I don't see how being interested in someone and remaining friends and then respectfully shooting your shot when they are single is bad. I have gotten into good relationships this way. We both liked each other but we were both busy dating others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Which scenario do you believe to be more common?Scenario 4 happens even without the rejection. Women WILL drop their friends for a new boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.This is why I genuinely don't mind dating uglier women. She will treat me well and have sex with me. I don't need much else from a woman and I am not gonna sit here jumping through hoops competing with men who just want sex from her too. Give me a nice medium ugly bisexual woman with a decent friend group and I will buy her flowers and take her on dates. They will enjoy dating up because I am 6'1 and I get to have sex and talk to a girl who is nice to me. Win/Win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:16 PM |
| 2 | On a moral and ethical level, we need to ensure women have fair representation in government and leadership positionsPoor people who don't have other employment options would love to work in a mine instead of starving and being homeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way.That time is the past now fortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way.These mfs cannot read LOLOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way.Idk why you guys doubt these things so hard lol. Everyone can't be lying all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | On a moral and ethical level, we need to ensure women have fair representation in government and leadership positionsImagine if men made up a small percentage of CEOs and business owners. Imagine if men were vastly outnumbered in politics. How would you feel? Would you be OK with that? Do you think it could indicate some sort of discrimination? I'd feel like a black man lol. We know that in group bias runs deep for all groups. Men will promote more men into positions while they are on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | On a moral and ethical level, we need to ensure women have fair representation in government and leadership positionsWho wants to work in a mine and face gender based harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:42 PM |
| -4 | Sending Wifey Back to School is a TRAP!! DO NOT DO IT!You gotta have control over your chick lol. Any chick who made a significant amount of money and dated me spent lots of money on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 08:50 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'd love to do all these things for a woman who gives really good blowjobs. Otherwise I would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 08:28 PM |
| – | Some people are not meant to find a partnerNo it is not societies obligation to make sure its people are taken care of LMAO. We let people starve, be homeless, die of preventable diseases, be indebted for a whole lifetime. Certainly not worried about getting someone elses dick wet for them LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?Yeah its a fine line to walk where a woman has to be VERY emotionally mature and self aware and she has to like you somewhat when you express vulnerabilities or sadness or difficulties. They are socialized to dislike weakness in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?I feel like men shouldn't like most women or men's personalities. We shouldn't even be concerned with more than 300 people total. Especially virtual "personalities". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 07:42 PM |
| 1 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.I see what you guys mean now. Good comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himYou can totally friend your way into a woman's pants and then you can fuck your way into a woman's heart. Do not skip any steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | “Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted.Lmao oh wow. Yeah surely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:04 PM |
| – | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableThe old guy has money to offset the oldness. Are older women offering to be providers for the men who engage with them? Or do they expect to be provided for just like the equivalent woman that is 10 years younger? Whats the benefit here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:32 PM |
| 1 | “Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted.So we would change away from that as a society? Okay and would people still have sex for fun and stuff too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | “Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted.What happens in monogamous relationships between a man and woman in a private residence? How does the power structure get reinforced or do we rid ourselves of that as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:41 PM |
| 2 | “Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted.How do we arrive at the point where women have control of reproduction in this manner? When men begin to pushback against male babies not being birthed what happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | “Patriarchy” is just a term women use to hide the fact that they were outcompeted.I often think about what a matriarchy would look like and how it could come to be and I come up empty when it comes to women actually being able to subjugate men as a whole. It just simply wouldn't work unless all men were severely malnourished. A healthy man easily defeats 2 or 3 healthy women in unarmed combat. I just cannot see women enforcing anything men as a whole do not want enforced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes the lack of inhibition turns me on and I am the same way sexually. I just can't relate to the non sexual lack of inhibition like they will have $35K in debt and just be winging it. I will stick my dick anywhere but my finances need to be secure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:09 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Notice it in the speedrunning community as well. Not that theres anything wrong with it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.When women have sex with other women THEY USE TOYS. You are not disputing my point. Consider the fact that PIV sex has little to no toy usage and lesbian sex has heavy toy usage and then asses the orgasm gap. Obviously, she wanted a relationship. What other fucking possibilities are there? If he told her the truth and said he only wanted a one night stand, and let her make an informed choice, she probably wouldn't have fucked him. That's the problem. Clearly, reading comprehension isn't a strong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:00 PM |
| 0 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.The amount of time women have called me gay for finding them unattractive (one was legit double my weight). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:59 PM |
| 2 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.For sure. I am even guilty myself of posing as a woman on a dating app with a “cashapp me for my number” bio and I collected well over a hundred dollars before being banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:42 PM |
| 2 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.He told her to catch a ride and she wanted him to walk, alone with with her after rejecting him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.Caring and going out of your way each time you hang out and putting yourself in more danger as a result are 2 things. I’d tell my friend to get an uber if I’m gonna have to walk back solo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:06 PM |
| 12 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.I have had girls hang around and keep doing things like cooking or a blowjob here and there in hopes I would date them. Then when I get in a relationship with another woman I am suddenly a scumbag piece of shit who lead them on. And nobody calls these women losers like they would the equivalent man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:04 PM |
| 6 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.Who said the man dangled a relationship in order to have sex? You just made that up. Plenty women have accused me of this same thing when I did nothing of the sort and actually did the opposite by telling them I didn’t wanna date. Those women thought sex would make me want to date them and then all the women they told about the interaction also sided with them saying I fooled or tricked her into thinking the sex would come with a relationship. In reality it was just her delusion. You’ve demonstr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toEven in queer relationships they have the problem of the masc presenting person being made to pay for things more often lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | "Nice girls" are just as common in dating as "nice guys" but their complaints get validated instead of made fun of.Oh yeah I hadn't even thought about all of these things. I recall seeing a post where a guy didn't want to walk a woman home anymore when she said she wasn't interested in dating him and in turn she didn't want to be friends with him at all anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men.Emotional intelligence is code for "agrees with what I feel and makes me feel validated". Often women dislike when they are acting irrationally and I say "Hey have you eaten today? You seem really upset for no good reason." and I am right and that is totally why they are behaving that way. I would think this is emotional intelligence because I see the emotions she displays for what they are and identify the cause and also identify a solution to the behavior/emotions. They freaking hate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women don't want emotional intelligence from men, they want emotional validation from men.I have noticed women think if I just understood what they feel I would agree with the feeling and that means I have emotional intelligence. Often I understand the feeling and disagree with it and don't validate it as correct and that is labeled as "not emotionally intelligent". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableThey become mean due to negative experiences they have with people as well as pain in their bodies due to old age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedI regularly see women for for scummy hot guy trope over and over. Intuition does nothing when a woman has the tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guys" are basically an urban legendJust noticed that this behavior describes lots of women who claim you "wasted her time" if you sleep with her but don't want to date her long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overratedOkay but when I reply to debate posts agreeing I get moderatored. Wassup with this reply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.If you're good enough at paid sex you can have sex for free and in rare cases (big dicks) even get paid for sex. I'm the only guy I know who did this tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.The fewer men doing it the more women end up sharing the same couple scumbags 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.The men who think relationships are just for sex are running through a ton of women currently lol. Imagine the opinion of women a guy who women approach has compared to a guy thinking of paying for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableA nice demeanor and less baggage is what is desirable about younger women in my experience. Doesn't know what she wants like wanting marriage or what do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be approached depending on the angle they want to own the OPI don't approach women when I don't have a fresh haircut and do approach women when I have a fresh haircut. Works great for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Women want to be approached depending on the angle they want to own the OPCooked them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Location as a solution to dating gets a very bad rap because it’s put underneath the “Passport Bro” moniker, when you don’t have to go abroadAlso if you're tired of American women simply move to a place where there is a large population of immigrants. I lived in a neighborhood in MD,USA that was absolutely full of 1st and 2nd gen African immigrants and I cleaned up. They had those nice traditional gender role culture, the women had degrees and nice jobs as nurses and music teachers. Their standards for men they are just dating were way lower than American women too. They did seek out marriage and made it known as well. I don't know w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidWomen do the "so you hate waffles?" thing in real life constantly. I actually do not see this behavior with my male friends like I do with my women friends. I always have to over clarify for women in ways that seem absolutely redundant but they are required to have any conversation with them. I go into a restaurant a woman suggested and it's super dark in there. I can't just say "Man it's so dark in here." I have to follow up with "not that that I hate the place or anything!" otherwise they go i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:08 PM |
| – | The reason some men are not being good fathers could be that they are not allowed to be responsible and spend more time with their kids and more importantly have no expections to raise their children.This is a way that patriarchy negatively affects men. Men and women do not expect or challenge men to be great fathers. When my daughter was born I took 1 year off work to spend time with her and just take care of her and the mom. When I started interviewing for jobs they would ask "whats this 1 year gap for?" and when I said I took a year off to take care of my kid the surprise in their voice lol. I think being a parent is incredibly rewarding and I have always wanted to be a parent since I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 09:00 PM |
| – | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.I also love bringing up that I only engage with women that give me money. They call me all sorts of bums and users but don't see the hypocrisy at all lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:10 PM |
| – | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.These accounts attempt to bait men into arguing for the gender role of protecting women. I on their live panels often enough and they get so mad when I say "Yeah I don't protect stranger women because I don't believe in gender roles and I don't feel this diminishes my masculinity at all." They start to yell and mute me for not adhering to patriarchal gender roles. Very funny group of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:59 PM |
| – | Women don't need a social circle or amazing social skills to get a boyfriendThe problem that arises is that if the genders were reversed and those men had issues finding women they would have to endure all manner of personal insults from women telling them that they are bad people because women do not find them attractive when in reality the only thing they did wrong is be born that way and be born a man. I feel bad for lonely men because they get shit on by women all the time and truly start to think that something is morally wrong with them because women make it seem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableThe benefits of dating younger women are often understated and just reduced to generic "youth" when in reality they just treat men as a whole better than older women do for the most part. It's easier to find an unmarried very nice young woman than an unmarried very nice older woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableI will honestly date a younger less attractive woman rather than an older more attractive woman. The personalities of younger women when you date them is just way way better. I am 34 and I am currently talking to a 25 year old woman as well as a lesbian couple who are both a little older than me. Would you believe me if I told you I rather text that 25 year old woman than the older couple? The couple are also attractive porn star chicks and the younger chick is an unemployed tiktok influencer bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Sexual Marketplace Sabotage is the best possible strategyShe likely is unhappy and unfulfilled in the marriage if we listen to internet discourse on marriages. Easy pickings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menI agree. I flirt early and often with women I am friends with if we are both single. It lets them know whats up and increasing my chances of smashing. On the 3rd point that shit hurts worse because you get dropped due to no decision you made just at the whim of some guy like you meant nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:15 PM |
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