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| 2 | medication to help talk to girls?Usually best to drink it slowly while on the date itself. Listen OP, girls are generally just as nervous on a date with someone new. Meet at a bar and have a couple of drinks while talking. Also you can always try Xanax or other benzos which help dramatically, but they are addictive and you may find yourself not able to live without them. I have used benzos in the past sparingly on dates and they can definitely help with not giving a fuck and being more confident | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeHere’s the secret: ask her questions about herself and try to relate her answers to something about your life. That’s how you build connections with people. Build up the physical touch during the date slowly. If you are about to tell a story, touch her arm lightly. If she says something funny, grab her shoulder lightly. If you are walking out, guide her back with your hand. Grab her hand and hold it walking her across the street. Eventually kiss. You don’t always have to kiss before inviting her… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 3 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeI like to invite a girl to a park nearby my place for a picnic (literally just some takeout, fruit, and some drinks of your choice) stay an hourish while talking then just ask if she wants to come over for whatever excuse. You can also do coffee, dinner nearby, a walk etc… really doesn’t matter. Get to know them, act normal, ask questions, then see if they are open to coming over to meet your dog/watch a movie/ anything | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?Then do you want this girl to be your gf? Tbh I would just fuck her first to see how she reacts | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | So I met this girl through a mutual friend and she liked me but I’m not looking for anything. How do I keep it sexual and reel her back in for sex?Invite her over for dinner at your place. Tell her you’ll make her something nice… it’s a good middle ground between taking her out and a booty call | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:08 PM |
| 4 | losing girls with the same mistake over and overIt’s because you aren’t asking them out dude. You are just the boring dude with no balls bothering them on instagram then going dark lol. We are almost 3 years into the pandemic and people can still date. Go to a damn park and take a walk with them if anything, just invite them out | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Clubbing ObservationsYeah just tell her what you’ll be doing then ask schedule. Never suggest stuff to the girl, just be more direct once you’ve texted enough. I literally use this line every time and it works: “well we’ll have to grab some drinks sometime soon then. What’s your schedule look like?” Even easier than that if she’s down is I’ll invite her over to my place directly for me to cook dinner for her. I’ll do this after talking about how I used to work as a cook (you can just insert something here about lear… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Clubbing ObservationsOh also dude I wouldn’t recommend a dinner date first time. Just go for drinks somewhere relatively close to your place, have a few drinks there then invite her back to your place for another drink once the chemistry is good. If you can kiss her in the bar or outside in between all that then better. Not full on make out tho till you get to yours | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Clubbing ObservationsUsually better to just ask what there schedule looks like. “We should grab some drinks soon. What does your schedule look like?” | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Losing the girl I'm in love withDude it has nothing to do with resources, you just friend zoned yourself. This guy was flirting from day one which you should of done. Instead you act friendly with her for like 6 months before saying anything where at this point you’ve sparked 0 romantic interest in her. Girls need to have their romantic side sparked by a guy, they don’t operate like us where they can just fall in love by spending time together unless you are actively trying to flirt build that chemistry - she is just going to … | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Going out with a girl I slept with today. should I try and hook up?Did you end up seeing her? Howd the night go? How I'd react if someone was an hour late would depend. Sometimes shit happens. If you have history and it's a one time thing, I would just razz her a little bit when you do see her. If it's a new girl I'd probably do the same. If there is a history of her disrespecting your time, I would let her know and tell her you dont appreciate her not respecting your time like that and that you make it a point to be on time. See how she responds and if she mak… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Going out with a girl I slept with today. should I try and hook up?You gotta feel the night out. Try to keep the date flirty and fun, but dont get too gamey. See how shes reacting and if shes flirting back or is ok with being touched. If so, given the situation I think it would probably be apt to ask to kiss her instead of just going for it. Saying something like "I really want to kiss you right now" when the vibe is right (try to do this more towards the middle and not at the very end). If she gives a positive response or doesnt outright reject, I'd slowly go … | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 09:51 PM |
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