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FroopyAsRain/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 08:45 PM
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Yep. Her mom did the same. Uh, not to me, I mean, to her father. I've also seen a lot of men walk away from marriages over my life though, so while we definitely will end up with mostly men going through this here, I don't think it's all one sided.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/26 05:42 AM
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I don't drive, but I've had days at work where I'd just sit there thinking "I can't believe I'm not happy to be going back home. I must be a terrible person." I know better now, of course.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/26 09:12 AM
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Two years? Try less than a year. And yes they do that. Some, because they've already made up their mind and are preparing to leave. Others because of mental illness. Either way, same result.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/26 09:03 AM
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They know when you're over them. I swear. It's this black magic bullshit. Okay not literally but you get it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 09:41 AM
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Oh, I'm sorry. If it helps, so was I. She left a couple months before our 10th anniversary, which I had to spend alone while she was posting online about how brave she's for leaving me and how she's the happiest she's ever been. I just have the extra bonus of being a whole 9 years older than you. My debt is less, but I'm broke nonetheless and had to get a roommate to make ends meet. I'm applying to dozens and dozens and hundreds of jobs and failed several second interviews. I genuinely mean it w…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 12:02 AM
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At least you're only 30 and your wife didn't take 10 years to reveal all this shit to you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/26 12:51 AM
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It depends on who is around you. I'm also 39, still trying to finalize divorce. I also never cheated, took care of her. Now she's victimizing herself and seeking sympathy, telling people I'm a monster, etc. etc. We both know the story. The few friends that stuck with me and few others I've made since have been incredibly supportive. When I called the police because she had gone missing at first, the detective that found her suggested it's perhaps for the best the marriage is over because she's c…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/26 07:16 AM
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Eh it's fine. I spent the last 10 years married to a woman 7 years younger than me that was daddy issues personified. BPD too, of course. I'd be weirded out if I dated someone WITHOUT daddy issues now.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 06:53 AM
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I think I should clarify something that's affecting a lot of responses here. When I say "her 401k", I don't mean a lot of money put aside as she worked throughout the years. I mean whatever was put aside in the one, single, almost-a-year she worked through the ten years I was married to her. That 401k is NOT a lot of money. The rest of the time she was living off of me while citing her PTSD as the reason for not working. EDIT: Yes, I'm well aware she used me, by now.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 04:40 AM
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I strongly considered this. Especially when she first left. Although at this point I also have to consider she doesn't know how to properly care for an older dog, and feel I have a responsibility towards her (as in the dog) to try and make sure she is safe and taken care of.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 10:13 PM
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She IS my emotional support animal. It didn't even cost any money, my doctor made it so a long while ago. I suffered from heavy depression and anxiety even before my ex pulled this stunt.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 10:09 PM
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Oregon, I went ahead and added this in an edit. Thanks for reminding me that's important.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 08:57 PM
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