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Getting married is fine, just get married to the right person. A lot of guys I know have no idea how to vet a woman for marriage. Blame women for your problems but honestly, blame yourself for making the wrong choices.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 12:08 PM
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Why? Cause she fucks? How can you tell she's not relationship material? With barely any context.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:36 PM
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She'd suck his cock if he went for it though. Stop with that incel mindset.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:31 PM
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Seriously this. Fuck first, talk later. And some guys wonder a girl is so conservative with them but not other guys.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:30 PM
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You have the right instinct. They don't need to know specifics but it's good for them to know you're dating around. Keep doing what you're doing and don't tell them about any specifics.
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:03 AM
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No, it's too much imo. Asking her out is implicitly saying "I've been thinking about you"
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:48 AM
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I never kiss on the first date, unless we go back to my place or hers. At that point we're straight fucking. It shows you're not eager and leaves her thinking at the end of night whether you like her or not, whether she did something wrong, why wouldn't he kiss me? Every guy has tried to kiss me but not him? wtf? This only works if you're not a nice guy, otherwise she'll think you're too nice and will chalk it up to nerves which is cute but not sexy. Don't even kiss her on the cheeks, straight u…
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:32 AM
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Your post has been deleted so going just off the title. I'd assume she'd prefer to get to know you without the added pressure of finals. Study dates are cute if you know each other or have fucked before because you can both take the edge off afterwards by fucking. But for a first date type thing, it's not a good idea, especially not during finals. No good way to get to know each other or concentrate on your studies. It's just a shit time overall.
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:59 PM
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There must be a disconnect or miscommunication between us. To OPs post, she just double tapped his message of meeting up... Which imo is not enough to assume the date is still on. Which is what you commented on saying 'I wouldn't text to confirm' That's what continued our convo and just took a different turn. If you agree on a date 1-2 days from now (no double tap reaction on the msg), then yeah, I probably wouldn't text to confirm. If the date was agreed a week from now, high chance a confirmat…
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:36 PM
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Exactly. She's probably nervous herself if this is a new thing/first date.
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:03 PM
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Lol talk about ego and machoism you're no better. It looks like your ego is on 'full display' right now. It's a simple text to check in with a girl who you don't know and is probably nervous to meet you for the first time. It's common courtesy, it's respect, it's normal. I don't check with my friends, girls or guys because I know them. No shit dude
/r/seduction12/12/21 05:02 PM
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I personally don't even send one the day of. We have plans, she knows when we're meeting. If she needs to change that, ball is in her court to tell me. I mean, I'll usually send one an hour or 2 before meeting up. You'd look like a downright idiot if you show up and she doesn't because 'omfg I forgot!' or because she assumes it's not on anymore because you didn't send a text. You're just waiting there like an idiot and you send her a text saying "hey I'm here" lol A lot of the times they'd text …
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:44 PM
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Everyone is saying move on because in those situations their ego's get in the way so it's easier to move on. Personally I love a challenge and I don't take these personally. Ghost her for a few days/week. If she reacts to a story of yours or messages you, ignore. Leave her on read. Text her back a week or so like nothing happened and don't ask, but tell her, Let's go out sometime. If you really don't give a fuck, you can get away with saying "go out with me." some girls love the directness. Edit…
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:17 PM
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To an extent this is me. Minus the tattoos, fame, and money :) But yes, this works.
/r/seduction08/12/21 05:07 PM
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Yes, that's what being dyslexic is.
/r/seduction04/12/20 12:13 AM
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This is about sex and how to behave and treat a chick when you're fucking her. It's just good sex, for both. This doesn't mean we're idiolising the girl or putting her on a pedestal. I worship girls during sex, but I don't outside of it. If you disagree with even the more basic points in this post, I feel sorry for you and the girls you fuck cause you're both missing out.
/r/seduction26/01/20 04:16 PM
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Wear something cute so we match
/r/seduction12/07/19 07:32 PM
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I mean... you're technically not wrong. You have the right idea, it's just not primarily about physical attractiveness. While that does help, the underlying factor is her knowing that you're able to charm and pick up other girls, which instills the fear in her that at any point in time, there is the possibility of someone hotter coming in and taking her place. You need to make it known that she's very much replaceable even if you never intend on replacing her, it's about keeping them on their to…
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:46 PM
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The best way? Say "Hi". She'll most likely respond with a Hi back or even better, Hi! how's it going? (it's better because she invested more than you initially did with your "Hi") You had sex with her, great, now show her you're not a needy person, that you're cool, that you're a busy guy with a life. Slow and steady always wins.
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:35 PM
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You're over thinking this and you've already put her on a pedestal which means you lost. You "fantasize" about her, but she couldn't give 2 shits about you. See where the problem is? I know it's very easy for me to say, stop caring, way easier said than done, but you need to realize that the more you care, the more unnecessary pressure you're putting on yourself to do something right when all you need to do is let go of the fear and just say "hi" Literally, outcome independence. You're overplayi…
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:32 PM
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Ok, let's forget any of your "irrational" reasons behind why you'd say No to pussy that you'd otherwise fuck if you initiated. A simple response for you to still feel like you're in power and to have pussy on your terms when they are throwing themselves at you: "Not tonight, I'm busy. How does Thursday sound?" It's not that complex, now go get your dick wet.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:47 AM
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That's curiosity and accessibility to peoples information online. The line between ok and creep is when you use that information to stalk or contact them.
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:10 PM
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Do you allow yourself to become vulnerable?
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:44 PM
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It's simple, you're giving her too much validation. When she sends you nudes, either don't respond (powerful) or respond with one of the following: "Meh" "Don't send me that shit" "Squeeze them" "Hmm you can do better" You get the idea. Stop validating her. If she sends you nudes that easily, she's sending nudes to many other guys as well, who are probably responding to her the same way you are. Be different.
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:36 PM
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Men are logical. We think, “I’m doing x, y and z, why aren’t I getting women?” Women are emotional, she pays attention to only one thing: “how do I feel around him”. In all honesty, that’s all you need to know. This right here is what any guy should have engrained in their minds. Write it down, take a picture, save it, do whatever but keep this piece of information with you til you die. Girls think: does he make me feel safe? Am I comfortable around him? Does he excite me? Does he make me laugh?…
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:03 AM
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"Yeah, obviously. I'm saving my flower for marriage." Works 11/10 times. You don't need to disqualify her, you don't need to assure her, it's playful and doesn't sound as deceptive as "I'm not looking to hook up right now." The responses I usually get are "HAH! Yeah right!" "Oh come on! like people actually do that nowadays" (my favorite one)
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:51 PM
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Both of his books have changed my life for the better. "The Subtle art of not giving a fuck" is just as good as Models.
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:15 AM
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Very well said! I feel as you gain more experience, you sort of realize the signs easier. Any excuse to touch you, relaxed body language, laughs at your jokes. Guys generally doubt themselves too much when it comes to this. The ones who get discouraged over their height/appearance/ethnicity fail to realize there is so much more to the game. Good thing is, you can work on physical appearance, to an extent however. But who you are as a person, what you do, what you are passionate about, your energ…
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:21 AM
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It's funny cause you can't see the distinction.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 06:36 PM
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Just agree with them. "You're an idiot." "I know, I really am" Don't even sound sarcastic, sound disappointed in yourself. "You're a fucking loser." "I am, aren't I?"
/r/seduction04/11/13 12:24 AM
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Side note, how does one handle rejection with poise? A lot of guys on here usually view it as a shit-test and follow up with stuff like "Oh, me too." or "That's okay, I'm not really the jealous type," etc.
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:22 PM
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"I'm sorry for your loss." Fuck that bitch, the nerve on that woman! Deleted!
/r/seduction17/10/13 10:10 PM
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As a fellow Montreal-er, I'm just happy to read this, good for you dude.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:31 PM
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Nah, she was just playing hard to get, don't beat yourself up over it.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:33 AM
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Or d.) say: "Eww what the fuck? get away from me." At that point, DON'T kiss her... trust me, I've learnt from experience. Sigh....
/r/seduction20/01/13 10:08 PM
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SURPRISE BUTT SEX! Sorry, I didn't know any other way to tell it.
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:40 PM
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Any Montrealers on here?
/r/seduction24/12/12 10:35 PM
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My question is, how do I lower my standards? I don't get it... I see so many of these -sorry to say- stupid questions on this subreddit. "How do I not text her?" "How do I stop caring?" "How do I lower my standards?" There is no magical answer to these damn questions, you just do it. You want to lower your standards? Just go and pick up a girl lower than your standards. Think of it this way, no matter which girl you approach, you're gaining knowledge and experience, so go out there, bang a 6/7 t…
/r/seduction23/12/12 08:50 AM
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Well you see, that's the problem most people are facing. They aren't willing to get out of their comfort zone but you have to realize that it's the only way to increase your chances of being successful. Put yourself out there, meaning instead of being just a regular guy trying to get by in this world, be some guy that people will notice. I don't mean try to do some grand ass gesture. I mean actually approach. It can be hard to come up with things to do if you're home alone. Not everyone likes to…
/r/seduction21/12/12 02:36 PM
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It's basic dude, to get laid you need a girl, to get a girl, you need to meet a girl, to meet a girl you need to go out and just put yourself out there. Dont become this guy who blends in with the rest of the world going unnoticed. You have to stand out, you have to approach women because they sure as shit aren't going to approach you. Expect rejection, fucking embrace it. The mentality that I've recently come across which has helped me IMMENSELY is that "I am a person with positive and good ene…
/r/seduction21/12/12 04:01 AM
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Do whatever helps man! I've realized that I'm MUCH more social now that I have gotten into seduction (It's only been a month too) When I go to a store clerk to buy something, instead of just keeping my mouth shut, I actually ask them things like: "Are you working all night today?.... oh that must suck..... have a good one!" or "How's it going today? has it been busy? yeah must be rough..." If you don't start off slow, it'll never amount to anything. Baby steps are still steps and soon enough you…
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:21 AM
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I'm going to upvote this because of the effort you put into it. Good job and thanks.
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:11 AM
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Nothing beats the feeling of looking into the mirror and laughing at yourself because you can't believe how many good things are happening to you. Everyone deserves that feeling and everyone should keep working towards it. I thought only I did that. Awesome stuff man. I love reading posts like these.
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:27 PM
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Good job man, word of advice, when you get their numbers, TEXT them on the spot or at the end of night. This gives them a chance to remember you + they'll have your number so even though you're not really interested in them, if they were, they'll text you and you can go on from there. Maybe even get a good lay. So it never hurts. Here's an example you can do in front of them after you get their number: "This really sexy girl from xxx won’t stop flirting with me, what should I do?" "You have a gr…
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:08 AM
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Sometimes you're going to run into girls who just aren't physically attracted to you and that's not really your fault, if that's ever the case, then you need to build a much stronger rapport between the 2 of you in terms of kino and making them comfortable around you and having them actually like you. All you did was eye contact and a little bit of teasing, but kino is the most important thing, without kino, you're just another stranger on the bus talking to her. I'm telling you, it's like somet…
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:53 PM
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Can you give examples of some of the messages you have sent? It would be much appreciated.
/r/seduction28/11/12 10:11 PM
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Well, under the "submit a link" link, there is a "create a community" link, I'm relatively new here, so I don't know if this is relevant or not.
/r/seduction28/11/12 10:05 PM
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That would be awesome, couldn't we just create a community? wouldn't that be the same thing?
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:48 PM
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Should have boned the HB6 though! I read somewhere "Never give up on a sure thing for a maybe." (Something like that) You would have gotten laid, AND you got it good with HB8 for a future date. Regardless, sounds like you had fun and I'm happy for that, don't screw it up with the HB8, she's fucking interested, just keep it that way.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:46 AM
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I'm only 20, so we're not that far off, good thing about Montreal bars is that they rarely card if you look old enough, and even at that, you don't have to look that old. Let me know if you want to meet up, even if it's just for talking or whatever.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:36 AM
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Yeah I know, I saw that, I mentioned it in my post all I found is a Seddit locator but even then, I'm from Montreal and there are only 3 people who have posted, and even at that, It doesn't show how long ago they posted their location, so I don't know if they're even interested.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:12 PM
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"Come for a drink/coffee with me after work." If she says no, then it's a no, fuck it, plenty of others. Thing is, you asked her to go climbing... not your usual first "date" sort of thing. Do something simple, maybe she's not into climbing.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:07 PM
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Congratulations on the lost weight and new found confidence. I used to be out of shape, fat, overweight at my age too, got into fitness... and I got into it hard. I started losing weight, got a girlfriend, I thought I was looking good at the time, I look at myself now, boy was I wrong... things went south with the girl, worked out some more, lost more weight, I was looking better than ever. In a way, the past failures with girls has motivated me in becoming a better person as a sort of "fuck you…
/r/seduction27/11/12 06:31 AM
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This is amazing man, It's basic for most guys into PUA, but for starters such as myself, it's extremely helpful, thank you.
/r/seduction27/11/12 06:06 AM
1

I appreciate that boost of confidence man, I'm trying to find someone in my area who'll be willing to go and do some day/night game with me. Just knowing someone is with me trying to do the exact same thing will help me tons.
/r/seduction26/11/12 10:02 PM
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This should help
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:51 PM
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Ah man, I love reading stuff like this, I just browse this subreddit without going out and doing anything, pussy-like of me I know, but I'll get there soon, I'm totally fine talking to girls, once I get comfortable I can almost always make a girl laugh, I guess my real problem is AA and inner game. Just curious, I'm a little insecure about my height and was wondering, how tall are you? I'm about 5'8, and although it's really not bad, It's not tall either.
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:35 PM
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I knew there was a reason as to why I came to /r/seduction Thanks a lot, I appreciate the help. I like it, it's not short, it's not long, it's straight to the point and says everything someone needs to know about a person really.
/r/seduction23/11/12 08:09 PM
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Dude, I know this is such a shallow question, but do you consider yourself good looking? I only ask this because (as you can tell by my noob question) I am new to this and I want to improve, and it's not that I know looks aren't important, I understand that it's not very important, but I still have some trouble grasping the WHOLE idea of that. Did you use some PUA method's around them?
/r/seduction15/11/12 04:31 PM
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I hope this helps
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:49 AM
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Ask a good friend to come in randomly and introduce him or herself to your date, let your friend continue with "... And what's your name?" Unless your date looks at you to tell your friend her name, you're golden.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:49 PM
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That's all well and done, thanks! but can you explain to us how you get the girl in the first place please? I'm sitting here on my chair thinking wtf, it surely can't be that easy to meet a stranger and have them agree to go out with you within several minutes. Maybe I'm just being ignorant here, Maybe It's because I haven't had the balls to go up and strike a conversation with a cute girl, but I never figured it was that simple... I'm not trying to come off as an asshole or anything, I really a…
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:02 AM
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