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| 2 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenI implied most of our time we should spend on ourselves. Hence “balance.” But if not having women in your hobbies is driving you crazy I would take some time to try and find women to talk to, making that another one of your hobbies. Maybe even pick up a hobby that inherently has women so that you can better yourself and get with them like a yoga or CrossFit class. Sure to find hot ones there. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenWell duh. How could you meet women along the way if you’re spending all of your time alone? I never said that. I said most of our time. But I did assume that every guy would have at least one hobby that had women involves like jiu jitsu or rock climbing. But of course if all of your hobbies are solo hobbies then it’s fair to give a percent of your time to women in the form of cold approach in public. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenI think your theory is true for certain men, but not all. Some guys throw their life away on this chasing thing and can’t see they’re wasting time when they could meet nice girls along the way by doing their own thing. But I believe, despite our aspirations for life, our true purpose is procreation. That’s why we’re always about sex. Of course, I’m not saying we should be junkies for it. I just mean that this whole chasing thing is a fair journey. There has to be balance. Chasing shouldn’t come … | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenWe’re not built to wait, anyway. Our purpose is to procreate like every other creature and our bodies know that better than we do. That’s why this subject is so important to us. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 11 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenI tried to say this before as replies in another post. You worded it better than I could. But still, I understand the feeling of wanting sex so badly after weeks, months, or never having it that you’ll keep grinding for a few hours and make it a hobby. I get that urge and act on it sometimes. But I learned that no one can make me feel better than I can do I have actual hobbies and try not to rely on the number of women I have talking to me to make me feel good. It beats your spirit when all you … | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Help me heal guys!!TLDR: Hot women are everywhere. We must cap our approaches at a certain number and give ourselves time to focus on improving ourselves. But I still wonder if I would say all the same things if I grew up always getting sex. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Help me heal guys!!I originally wrote a long ass reply that I wouldn’t even want to read. I’ll say this to all the men here. Think about what you gain from those girls you’re approaching, and then think about what you could gain if you put that much energy into yourself. I know I’m a minority, and in my perfect world everyone would have sex and we should fight for things we want whether we’re a man or woman. But it’s also important to realize when something is wasting time you could use for something with higher r… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:34 AM |
| -1 | Help me heal guys!!Judging from the dislikes my original comment got and the fact that this Reddit exists I’d say we could use a big Gutz sword right down all of the bullshit. I’m gonna pull much of the energy I put into girls into myself. Not go to bars or go in public looking for hot girls, but only approach when I’m somewhere I would’ve been on my own volition and only the girl I can’t help but to approach. And I will approach because I’m attracted to her. It’d be weird to approach women just to be friends or g… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Help me heal guys!!It’s not the mindset that keeps me a virgin. I’ve had multiple chances to have sex. I didn’t do something or I said something I shouldn’t have and the girl ended up losing interest. But honestly you telling me to not go up to girls is like the whole opposite of the purpose of this Reddit lol. It’s called seduction not making friends. By not thinking about sex I’m lying to myself and women and doing nature a disservice. We were literally designed for sex. There are a lot of guys who get laid by h… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls usually like starting an argument out of nothing ? So I’ve read girls want drama . What is drama exactly ? And how do we give them healthy drama ?Bro drama ain’t healthy. I hear guys at work complain about their girlfriends and wives. I hear them argue over the phone. I hear them submit to their wives because they don’t think they deserve more. They just think this is how all women are. All of these guys drink and smoke all the time. They think this is just the way life goes. Find yourself a chill girl. Women who want drama don’t have anything going for themselves. Women who respect themselves are too busy with work and hobbies to cause t… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 4 | What does “hahahaha” mean in this situation?Agreed. Why consult the council who has never met the girl when you can ask the girl? I mean she does like you. Not us. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Help me heal guys!!It’s not weird to want sex that badly that you bounce from woman to woman lol. It’s the equivalent of taking a poll of who wants to have sex with you. It’s straightforward. But women today don’t appreciate it in most environments. But hey, they say that in Iceland the dates come after the sex. Yea. Apparently they ask for sex straight up. Not really sure how much conversation comes before that question. Point is that people act different based on tradition and culture. Women were raised like thi… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Help me heal guys!!I want to add, whatever you want to say to a woman, imagine how you’d feel if she approached you the same way before you execute. It puts things into perspective. A straight up asking her out on a date is valid. You might be in a rush so that’s fair. But do practice getting to know them through conversation. I learned that me being so quick to ask her out was just me afraid of being embarrassed by my lack of the gift of gab. That doesn’t mean you suck at talking. It just means you don’t speciali… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:26 AM |
| -3 | Help me heal guys!!(This is long winded but needs to be said. Feel free to not even read any of it, but I think you would benefit from reading it.) I’m all for the grind, but sometimes I feel like this journey we’re on is a waste of time to an extent. I mean women are great, but I think the constantly walking up to women to get sex thing is a waste of time and self esteem destroyer. It’s not that women are bad or I hate them, but the world is so disconnected now. The culture is corrupted. Women will call you weird… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:18 AM |
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