FrostyChampionship95 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Primer on Confidence	Inner Game	FrostyChampionship95	/r/seduction	13/02/21 04:11 PM
34	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing	Fundamentals	FrostyChampionship95	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:53 AM
9	Tell me you're a PUA without telling me you're a PUA	Fundamentals	FrostyChampionship95	/r/seduction	08/02/21 08:14 PM
1	Tell me you're a PUA without telling me you're a PUA	Fundamentals	FrostyChampionship95	/r/seduction	08/02/21 08:08 PM
1	Tell me you're a PUA without telling me you're a PUA	Fundamentals	FrostyChampionship95	/r/seduction	08/02/21 08:09 PM

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2	Opinion: if a girl randomly leaves her boyfriend for you that can be a red flag First, get over it. It's the reality. Second, it's not stealing. It's called upgrading. Men and women both do it. Third, go find someone else. There are 3 billion women out there.	/r/seduction	23/05/21 03:22 PM
1	Cold Approach Lol, you don't usually want to compliment her unless you've already negged her. Everyone compliments don't do that. Never ask questions, always cold read. Not "where you from" but "you look like you grew up in NJ"	/r/seduction	23/05/21 03:09 PM
1	Cold Approach Only if you're very attractive and she feels instant attraction to you. This sometimes happens. I had just started talking to a girl in the street one night when her cockblocking friends literally pulled her away physicially. I mean I got to talk with her for less than a minute. But I had approached her confidently and clearly made an impression, because as she was being dragged away, she shouted her Insta handle to me. I dm'd her and took her out later. Lol.	/r/seduction	23/05/21 03:04 PM
2	I think I intimidate women - does anyone else have this problem? This happens to me sometimes too. Usually, the girl clams up. She stares at me, I go approach her, and she turns all red and doesn't say anything. Often she will cover up her face. Funny thing is, then she will often give me some sort of gift, like a mint drop or something along those lines. I haven't figured out how to break through. I'm usually really good with girls, and can turn even the least interested girls into an enthusiastic girl but this is a conundrum I haven't cracked. And I'm not s…	/r/seduction	18/03/21 10:34 PM
11	What if it's the opposite? I'm in this situation. You just ignore them and ghost them. One of the other commenters said it's better to politely reject them, and I agree, but it's just too mentally exhausting to do that to all the girls. Seriously. It's mentally exhausting to even keep track of them and keep them straight. Even the hot ones, because to tell you the truth, there are a LOT of hot girls out there. I remember one of my first GFs after I became good at PUA, who was a Playboy model. She said "there are so many a…	/r/seduction	13/02/21 02:33 PM
2	So being direct seems to work- some thoughts from my first month on the market brilliant!	/r/seduction	13/02/21 02:17 PM
1	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing I'm 100% sure they're negging, if they're naturals. Where do you think PUA got the idea? The early PUA were basically copying the naturals.	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:50 PM
2	I can’t “seduce” women who I perceive to be better looking than me. The operative phrase here is "who I perceive to be better looking than me" It's not women who are better looking, it's women OP perceives as being better looking. There are a lot of women who are 10s to some guys and 7s to others. OP probably would have no trouble picking up an 8 he perceives to be a 5. The problem is that if the guy thinks he's reaching, he acts differently. And women can smell that. Basically, you have two choices. You can develop inner game and your self-perception so that yo…	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:42 PM
1	I can’t “seduce” women who I perceive to be better looking than me. Gadot is terrible. Features are way too big for her face.	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:33 PM
2	Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean? No, not a shit test. A shit test is something she says ABOUT YOU. When she says something about herself, it's not a shit test. This is qualification. She likes you and she wants you to know she's high value.	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:27 PM
1	Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean? This is absolutely correct. When guys have girls after them, it makes them more attractive to women. So women think the same is true in reverse. The best course is to do what you do if the girl mentions she has a BF. Ignore it. You don't care because whatever other options she has, you're so much better.	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:25 PM
1	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing What you're describing, if I understand correctly, is the comfort building portion of seduction. For seduction, you need two components. Attraction and comfort. If a girl is attracted to you but doesn't feel a connection or is uncomfortable then she will not come home with you. If a girl is comfortable but isn't attracted then she'll friendzone you. The key is that attraction needs to come first, and then comfort. Most guys get is backwards. They try to establish comfort first. They will agree w…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 05:57 PM
0	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing Bingo	/r/seduction	17/01/21 05:45 PM
1	I think I've found a really effective cold approach strategy: "you look really familiar..." Lol. This is very old school pickup line. It was so common it was a joke, I guess it's coming back. You can use an indirect opener like this but you have to make your intentions clear in the next sentence or two. As in, "btw you're really cute."	/r/seduction	17/01/21 05:43 PM
-3	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) Great work. The mistake wasn't in not telling her your age. She doesn't really care about that and it makes you a mystery which is great. The mistake was that you didn't escalate soon enough. As you noticed, female attraction has an expiration date. If you don't make a move, they lose interest. You should have gone for the kiss much earlier, shifted venues, and then pulled her to your place. She would have slept with you that night.	/r/seduction	17/01/21 05:40 PM
-2	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing Mystery, lol, that's old school. It's fine to start with that, and the old standard ones like the Game, but don't stop there. Pickup has come a long way. Back then, it was focused on set routines, and they often didn't even understand why certain things worked. It was trial and error. Modern pickup has a much better theoretical framework, and a much larger data set. We have a pretty good idea now of why certain techniques work, so things have become much less focused on routines and more on free…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 09:03 AM
1	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing Have you considered that how you feel when you're with her is the underlying attraction in both cases, and guys who place a large importance on looks feel better about themselves if they're able to get positive attention from a good looking girl, regardless of her personality. I think this is definitely a factor, guys do like to have good looking girlfriends. But not the main driver. Almost all guys place huge importance on looks, and I think it's hard-wired. I think the attraction is from the l…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 08:56 AM
-1	Even for guys, looks are not the only thing No, for initial attraction, looks are important for both men and women. The difference is that for many men, looks are the most important and it often overwhelms other factors. For women, it helps with the open, but looks will only carry you so far. If you're very attractive, the girl might give you 10 min instead 5 or 2 min to make an impression. But if you have nothing behind it, you're toast. I know, because even before I learned pickup, girls would approach me all the time, and I would blow …	/r/seduction	17/01/21 08:50 AM
1	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? Right? That's basic, basic stuff. I don't think these guys have done ANY reading or had ANY field experience. Might as well buy her a drink and agree with everything she says.	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:34 AM
1	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? Never use self-deprecating humor, it puts you into the friendzone immediately.	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:33 AM
0	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? When you're doing it right, both you and the girl are fully aware you're negging. But it's done with so much wit that both of you are laughing at it. It almost never fails, except on girls with low self-esteem. You don't want to use it on girls who are not attractive or have low self-esteem, because they will just crumple. Generally, if a girl is a point above you (you're 6 and she's 7), 1-2 negs is optimal. If she's 2 or more points above you, you need 2-3 negs, plus 1-2 pulls (push, pull, push…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:26 AM
1	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? Negging almost always works unless you're overdoing it. You can't neg a girl who's only mildly attractive and you can't neg a girl whose SMV is below yours. If her SMV is higher, then not only does negging ALWAYS work, you HAVE to use it. Negs work because it's hard-wired into almost every girl's psych, just like attraction to big boobs is hard-wired into almost every guy's psych. It's not like a girl can make herself not respond to it even if she knows what the guy's doing, any more than a guy …	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:22 AM
2	Does teasing or pulling the leg of a girl in a friendly/fun way somehow gets her to like you? Of course it is. Teasing is great because you're building rapport AND breaking it at the same time. Remember that attraction comes from breaking rapport, not from building it. Pulling her leg is the best. It's one of the quickest ways to demonstrate confidence.	/r/seduction	17/01/21 12:12 AM
17	The key to success is doing whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions) No. You can watch movies from 50 years ago or epics from thousands of years ago and society has admired alpha traits since the beginning of time. OP's post is crap thought. It's not doing whatever you want that's the key to success. Not caring what people think about what you do, that's the key to success. BIG difference.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 10:11 PM
-2	what kind of stоries are good to tell someone to build rappоrt with them? Just so you know, breaking rapport is what triggers attraction, not building rapport.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 10:00 PM
2	Girls that return to your life. Now for girls who didn't like you before and now like you. I always say, don't give them a chance. I think this here is definition of butt hurt. Look, do whatever you want, but a guy with an attitude like that will never do great with girls.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 09:58 PM
0	Girls that return to your life. I won't say it's impossible but in 99.9% of cases, a man will not find a woman attractive if he didn't find here attractive the first time he saw her. He may find an attractive woman even more attractive if he finds that she has a great personality, but he will never find an unattractive woman attractive because of her personality. Now, if the woman loses 50 pounds, that's a different story.	/r/seduction	08/01/21 09:57 PM
2	Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ? Don't listen to what women say. Watch what they do instead.	/r/seduction	15/12/20 10:39 PM
1	How to use Rejection to gain Attraction! I've had sex with a girl within 5 mins of getting to know her. I said hi to a girl, she looked at me, and then dragged me to the bathroom of a club without saying a word.	/r/seduction	15/12/20 10:37 PM
23	Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ? Conversion rate is good. That's a pretty decent rate. The rate OP gets phone numbers is high. He's probably a very attractive guy. OP, a few things. 1) It's easier to get an instadate right then and there than to get a girl to come out via text, couple or days later. Remember it take a girl couple of hours and sometimes hundreds of dollars to get ready for a date. She has to really like you. 2) Definitely keep talking after you get the number. That makes you stand out. 3) Sometimes a very brief …	/r/seduction	15/12/20 07:39 PM