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Re: “if you see relationships as power struggles, you start testing your partner instead of trusting them.”— It’s become normalized among SO many women’s dating channels “a man should live a women more than a woman in a relationship should love a man, so he works for the relationship,” allegedly held up by therapists as what helps make a relationship last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:50 AM
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My wife was JUST saying she has big hips! And a narrow waist to go with it.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 03:07 PM
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You said the other day that women have certain preferences because of evo-psych, not because they’ve been influenced by ‘patriarchy’, right?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 01:05 AM
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You should just change your flair to ‘Red Pill’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:59 PM
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What analysis provides more value than the various ‘official’ modes of therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:56 PM
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Kyriarchy.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/26 06:06 PM
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I’d ALWAYS expect to be a compromise, by whomever, and just like being chosen. Guys who are “devastated” are pathetic, because they shouldn’t EXPECT to check all the boxes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:29 PM
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Idk, they’re more tattooed and pierced than Milennials were at the same age —a Xennial / older Milennial
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:50 AM
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To tie shoes? Squat, which is better for your back anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:49 AM
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Also, wouldn’t that mean you could expect your partner to be non-exclusive for a while, at least typically?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:19 AM
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As in more in larger cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:16 AM
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I wouldn’t say consensual sex is akin to alcoholism, but it’d be good to know if she’s had a roster recently, or if she’s 100% willing to drop hookups, FWB, and situationships before getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:00 AM
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Tbf, this was some other guy in a thread, but it doesn’t seem to be a rare sentiment. Was this (general) issue what had led to your breakup ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:55 AM
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That’s utterly pathetic. That someone whom you desire who’s interested in a relationship with you desires you should be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:50 AM
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I didn’t care about my wife’s sleep number before we got together, just that it had been a while since her ‘hoe stage’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:39 AM
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I’ve read plenty of guys who have any an enthusiastic bj from a ONS / situationship, but wouldn’t with someone they’re in a long-term relationship with. Both genders have their Madonna/ whore hangups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:31 AM
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Isn’t it possible someone could have a high libido yet have had relatively few, but sexually satisfying, relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:32 PM
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in which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:37 PM
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I mean, is it submission by her for her to get eaten out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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Or sex is BOTH partners among turns pleasing each OTHER.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:29 PM
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I wouldn’t be able to get hard with someone I’m paying for it, but then, I’d rather wait years between relationships that seem like they might actually GO somewhere (FWIW, I’m married now).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:58 PM
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Google AI says he’s “refused to label his sexuality” and “considers it private”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:19 PM
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“We kinda got tired of this” ^ don’t pretend to speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:16 PM
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New study, touted by a left-leaning (purple pill if she’s honest) PhD in psychology: https://youtu.be/QW-xRba4A0I?si=0Pw7XA2lRR_31U7t
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:58 AM
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Bipolar girl is fun for a bit…if she doesn’t get her shrink or the cops to blame you when she crashes out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:13 AM
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(I’m a Xennial, fwiw, and HAD had OP’s POV before that happened.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:59 AM
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Or, hear me out, some people get physically or mentally ill if they do 4 hrs sleep more than twice a week and average <6. Source: mental health discharge from the military in my 20s largely brought on by that and who knew many others with such problems or who were BARELY hanging on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:58 AM
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In what field?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:54 AM
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“Everyone knows”—so people who married their first sweetheart and stayed married for decades are either lying or together just for tradition?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:35 AM
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Did she not marry you for your humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:00 AM
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I.e., anxiously attached
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:12 AM
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My wife says she doesn’t mind my ‘dad bod ‘ (not flabby, just not that muscular), but, some times of the month or when looking at a star like Momoa or Cavill, suggests I should get “jacked”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:10 AM
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Maybe they mean ‘high-maintenance’ more in terms of emotional support?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:08 AM
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I think we’ll have to agree to disagree, Though I’m attracted to my partner now and was when she was 30% heavier
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 07:35 AM
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Do people not use makeup? Find an attractive perfume? Practice speaking? / learn humor ? Practice moving flirtily close, but not too quickly (maybe that’s just ASD people or people who’ve read PUA-ish works)? So, yes.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 07:29 AM
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I’m disputing that “spark” is innate and uncontrollable
/r/ExRedPill31/10/25 12:12 AM
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“Charisma isn’t something you can control” “A date (both the person and the time) is either fun or it isn’t”
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 04:44 PM
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Like a guy would want a woman to be more sexual with him than with others (including outside of the bedroom)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:23 AM
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so perfect and she never really felt that spark Sounds like the RP line to me, I.e., that it doesn’t matter how little a man does for a woman if he keeps said ‘spark’ alive
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 12:28 AM
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Even if someone who’s ASD seeks treatment, their mask isn’t likely to mar them fit in socially as well as someone who isn’t, particularly if they’re male.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:29 PM
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Did you read his whole post? He said that, based on being approached after he was 21, he’d become ‘hot,’ but those who’d approached him were turned off quickly by his awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:27 PM
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Sounds like what OP did. I got into early PUA influencers myself in the 2000s, took what I thought I could (should) from it, The first time I tried it, it worked like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:25 PM
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literally why I’m “Purple Pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:13 PM
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She did, he’s thoroughly blocked. (She also lives in PA now, so doesn’t have to deal with him.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:34 AM
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Robert Greene redpill? I’d say ‘dark psychology influencer’, maybe, as I don’t hear him talk much about dating.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/25 03:18 AM
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Um…are you from ID perchance? I used to know someone who had an overbearing father, who wasn’t allowed to be feminine, who was a goth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:47 AM
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EXACTLY! You all don’t read enough true erotica— I remember one in which a woman was 100% okay with lots of making out, feeling up, but she didn’t want sex yet. Then, though, she’d communicated it. The guy said that his erection was getting urgent, but, imho, unless you’re pretty sure how far both of you want to go, you shouldn’t let it be a problem (but maybe I’m just unusual as far as mind > matter)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:16 PM
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“Voy” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:50 PM
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EXACTLY! My wife and my last ex had their times… YEARS prior to when I’d met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:06 PM
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I wasn’t. Probably should have trusted her, but I knew her (rather recent) history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:05 PM
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Or straight men could get platonic female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 01:36 AM
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No, he was disagreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:45 AM
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ND in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:46 AM
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Had to look up “white pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:46 AM
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Yeah, I think plenty of men wrote, made art, etc. for reasons OTHER than to impress/get women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:40 AM
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My wife is both, and I love her for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:01 AM
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Do you feel that math is artful or that math helps you both appreciating art?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:58 AM
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I got blocked once from a thread of women giving other women advice on men partially because I’d thought it was wrong to make fun of a guy “to see if he could laugh at himself” and “not show a flash of anger”. If a man had proposed that to do towards women, it would have been called negging and a risk for future abuse.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/25 02:02 AM
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If those likes are “yes,” instead of agreeing that it needs to be asked, that’s SAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:40 PM
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So you’re saying he should have easier rules for a woman he’s attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:26 AM
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‘Daddy state’ only helps out if she has children and her income is below a certain level, unless you hate the EITC
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:07 AM
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Question to the women here: How would you like it if a guy laughed or made a face at the size of your inner labia when he went down in you for the first time? Would you not advise a woman who didn’t like that to dump the guy who did?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 03:04 PM
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Omfg!
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 01:43 AM
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What did she do ?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/25 11:13 PM
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Well, tbh, that was what had attracted me to PUA types years ago, that they explained how those (might be) working
/r/ExRedPill14/05/25 11:51 AM
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I’m in my 40s and two women who were hired on my crew last year are early 20s and mi-30s and same (I think it helps that we’re all in relationships)
/r/ExRedPill14/05/25 06:17 AM
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(This may be cope from one who’s cut, fwiw )
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 04:21 PM
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They say that the root of homophobia is toxic masculinity that boxes men in to act a specific way, which is slightly different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 03:25 PM
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Tbf, is circumcision as bad as FGM, as far as eliminating functionality and sexual pleasure?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 03:21 PM
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How can this sub call itself “LeftWing” if it’s not trying to advocate for men on top of pre-existing wokeness, vice instead of?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 03:16 PM
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If you’re not pro-MeToo, as far as I can tell, you just enjoy gaslighting women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 03:15 PM
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If it’s him from the future, maybe?
/r/ExRedPill17/10/24 01:56 PM
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insert free love react
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 10:45 PM
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Him? Love his channel: https://youtube.com/@therealspeechprof?si=hVxNr2S-r7ZrVFdi
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 10:37 PM
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For the last, I’ve heard that actions speak louder than words; many men change after being married on sharing household duties
/r/ExRedPill24/07/24 04:25 AM
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Jungians would say “has integrated his shadow”
/r/ExRedPill24/07/24 04:23 AM
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Could you give a hint as to which creator, by initials or something? I could mess with his comments section
/r/ExRedPill24/07/24 04:13 AM
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I think my ex liked me because the first time I met her dog, he got right in my lap
/r/ExRedPill24/07/24 04:12 AM
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Doesn’t “left wing male advocates” basically mean “buys most, if not all, of feminism, but wants to bring light to what men’s issues aren’t discussed/respected”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 02:06 AM
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What, to you, would look like women caring about men’s issues?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 01:50 AM
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what is it you reject about the argument that “patriarchy harms men, too”?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 01:46 AM
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Second sentence should have been *feminist, which to me is simply like “anti-racist”, as in actively caring for a demographic besides one’s own that has historically been second-class
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 06:11 PM
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Somehow manages to both be inadequately pro-male rights and too anti-feminist. I left already.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 02:40 PM
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Was with you until you mentioned the bear. The women who’ve said they’d choose the bear have said “all you have to do is wait for the bear to go on if you stay out of its way; you never know with a man, and he may follow you and actively try to do you harm”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 02:38 PM
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Yeah, no, not “playing along with feminism” is the baseline for being toxically masculine. Being feminine should be THE value in the 21st Century, at least in any civilized country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/24 02:33 PM
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Got any examples of left-leaning MRAs?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 02:04 AM
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When did the swing revival start? I think of it as being in the 90s.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 03:51 AM
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I’d argue it’s THE gateway to the Alt-Right
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 03:30 AM
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