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Bruh I can’t believe we’re having this argument in 2022. Men and women abuse at roughly the same rate. You just don’t hear about most of the abuse women do to men because we’re told it doesn’t matter, or no one would believe. I, and almost all of my male friends and relatives, have experienced some form of abuse (mostly emotional) at the hands of a woman. Women get away with emotional abuse of men almost wholesale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:36 AM
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I think what they mean is that for most women, most men are available for sex if they want it. But for the vast majority of men, there are extenuating factors that determine whether a woman is actually available to them (an “option”)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:29 AM
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Glad we were able to discuss “emotional labor” here. I always see this on feminist/femcel sub Reddits. They all complain about the “emotional labor” involved in their relationship, which is usually just a normal part of being a good partner in a relationship. That fact women don’t even want to do that just confirms to me that most women want men to be emotionless robots
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:26 AM
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Different layers began to form. Tinder, POF, OkCupid are considered bottom of the barrel. Then there’s bumble or match, and I would say Hinge is the best. When people are saying “nobody uses dating apps anymore” what they mean is nobody uses tinder anymore. Hinge I’ve found has an abundance and much better quality women than any other apps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:05 PM
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That mostly applies to just Tinder though. I would say that while Tinder has lost high quality users and many women over the years, something like Hinge has increased in quality. Most men snd women I know are either on there, or met on there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:58 PM
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Hard agree. Women are just as good at being fuck bois as men are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:26 PM
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Basically things like a a dialed in diet, exercise, routine and fertility treatments are allowing women to experience a “hoe phase” well into their 30s now. Women typically don’t want to have more than 1 child anyway. If you can do that at 38-40 while still being a hoe at 30 and still having plenty of time to find the right guy then why wouldn’t they? Basically the 30s are the new 20s due to advancements in science and feminisms contours affect on western society. The future is going to be full …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:21 PM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:16 PM
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Sorry man. That’s rough. Gotta work overtime on the money train I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:16 AM
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It was honestly great though. I felt amazing and healthy and the gym became a part of me. No more than 1 hour a day for 4-6 days a week. Combined with a decent diet you can do amazing things. I’m eager to get back to a lifestyle like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:29 PM
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How many of those have the added benefit of enhancing your appearance though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:06 PM
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If he’s smart and has any experience with women he’ll already know she’s probably lying 😆 oh well. Men lie too to seem cool or less weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:05 PM
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You completely ignored his entire argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:48 AM
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I agree. Still, I think telling men to just be themselves to solve dating issues is a lazy cop out. Objectively, a guy might have all those things you just mentioned but still have horrible luck. I think that’s rare though. Vast majority of men who struggle with dating could use better advice than “just be yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:50 AM
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Agreed. STRs almost always suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:39 AM
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Lol damn. One day she’s gonna tell some dude bastard she’s only been with three other men in her life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:35 AM
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Lol why is the example always the basement dwelling Cheeto guy? I get that’s low hanging fruit but let’s not act like perfectly normal guys can’t struggle with dating too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:27 AM
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I think “just be yourself” is somewhat damaging advice to men. It tells you don’t need to change or get better. That if you just keep “being yourself” and are patient then someone will come along. May have worked in previous generations but today things change quickly, and men must change with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:16 AM
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This is the only real response here. I’m 6ft tall and from 2016-2019 I did mostly powerlifting with a decent diet. I got up to 215 pounds and looked pretty yolked (for me at least). Way more attention than I’ve gotten. In those three years I had 2 relationships with very beautiful women and when I was single, between bars and dating apps, I was probably pulling a new girl every other week. Had a nice rotation going lol Now I’m about 175 lbs. Life has got me down the past two years and I’ve lost …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:07 AM
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I think you overestimate how many men are in great shape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:00 AM
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I encourage you to give it a try. You won’t know what it feels like till you give it a try
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:57 AM
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Working out for an hour a day 5-6 days a week can yield great results with a healthy diet. That’s 6 hours a week. You act like you can right lift or have a social life. They’re not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:55 AM
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I’m starting to sense there’s an agenda with all the posts about how “muscles don’t make dating better” Why are you discouraging men from being fit? You realize men work out not just to get big but to help with self confidence? (Overcoming something difficult, endorphins, Look good, feel good etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:53 AM
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Just be urself bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:48 AM
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Sounds like you need better friends. I’d say I have about a dozen good male friends I’ve been friends with for more than 5 years. None of us have ever done something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:35 AM
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Define options. Just cause a guy can get a lot of dates doesn’t necessarily mean he’s getting laid a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:11 AM
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I’ve struggled with this for years. It never occurred to me that a big reason why women were always losing interest in me was because I was looking for a relationship. As soon as you even mention the word they freeze up and then you get the slow fade in interest until they finally tell you they “like you, but not THAT much”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:38 PM
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When a guy changes his mind he’s a fuckboy scumbag. When a woman changes her mind “that’s just life! Deal with it!” See what I’m saying? Backwards social norms and judgment aside, I see why you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:34 PM
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That’s no excuse for women who come on strong and then “change their minds” If you’re with someone for YEARS when you don’t want them that is beyond fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:12 PM
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But why do that in the first place? I guess props to her for leaving after a few weeks instead of a few months. Some women will take months to tell you that shit. It’s fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:00 PM
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I’m giving a perspective here. Where did I say I wanted that person to stick around? She’s flaunting her ability to date a guy for a few weeks then dump him cause he’s “boring” and I’m saying there’s a another human being on the end of that. This is what fuckbois do yet women do this to men all the time and nobody bats an eye. People should respect each other’s time and feelings no matter which gender
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:54 PM
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On a date? Say I’ve done that already. Say we’ve actually been seeing each other for a month or two and have already hooked up. Why even then do women seem to run away at even the mention of the word relationship? If I genuinely desire them, What can I do in a scenario like that to start a relationship with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:17 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:23 AM
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I don’t think he was using it as a measure to say he deserved an attractive woman because of it, he simply mentioned it to say he is a well rounded individual with an above average salary. You’re projecting. And the fact you look down on it and say it’s not enough (even though it’s well above national median!) kind of lends credence to the argument that women think even above average men aren’t good enough these days
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:17 AM
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This is true though. They’re not doing it on purpose, they just don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:00 AM
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A lot of men on here don’t seem to understand this. Even good looking guys can struggle sometimes. Men who have successful relationships are good at making women feel something strong, either through their words, actions, or charm (or some combination). But I do think that most guys must meet a minimum level of physical attraction just to be given the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:39 AM
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So you entered into a relationship with a guy, got “bored” after a few weeks and just dumped him? Just want to say I’ve been the guy on the other end of situations like this in the past and it really fucking hurts. It’s just so callous and it sucks when someone who you thought liked you “changed their mind” about you so quick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:32 AM
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Lifting helps a lot with confidence. In my experience, confidence is the ONLY thing that matters to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:20 AM
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But what if you genuinely desire them? How are you supposed to act if you want a woman to be your girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:58 AM
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Let me get this straight: they’re turned off by the mere fact this man wants a committed relationship? This is a big reason why I’ve begun hiding my feelings from the women I date. I think the more I keep them guessing the better. I don’t like doing this. I wish I could be honest about how I felt but time and time again it ruins everything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:02 AM
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Congrats on being alone. But if you’re a woman I’m sure you got plenty of attention from men along the way, even if you never wanted to date them. I wonder how your stance on being alone would change if you were alone AND never received an ounce of positive attention from men the entire time. Most women I know will become borderline suicidal in the rare times they actually experience those circumstances
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 01:13 PM
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It’s perfectly fine and natural to you want a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 11:34 AM
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What the fuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 07:41 PM
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What country?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 07:36 PM
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This made me want to vomit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 01:20 AM
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Yea man. Same. I got comfortable with her and started doing serious boyfriend shit and treating her special. I’m pretty sure that’s why she lost respect for me
/r/TheRedPill13/01/22 02:02 AM
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The biggest thing for me was that we were never together for that long. Idk how long you were with your girl but I topped out at around 6-8 months with this girl. Burned bright at first but burned out quick both times. 6-8 months is still a chunk of time but in the grand scheme of things it’s really not. If I was with her longer and we were really serious then yea I’d be total no contact. But she’s still on my mind as someone who I wasn’t so serious with, but who is still somewhat important to m…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 09:35 PM
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Yes. She’s sexy as hell. We’re still in contact but I’ve kept my emotional distance. Though at one time I did feel like I genuinely loved her, she’s just another girl to me now. And that’s the way it will stay
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 07:31 PM
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I’ve experienced an almost identical situation this past year. It’s not worth to date them again. If they fucked you over before they’ll fuck you over again just as easy
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 04:04 AM
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Sadly I’ve broken all of these rules before (hence why I’m on RP). It feels good in the moment but reaching out/talking to her at all is more painful in the long run. DONT DO IT
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 04:02 AM
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Take a deep breath and calm down. Like it or not, it’s the world we live in. Find a way to navigate it, or perish. Fortunately for us, traditional masculinity is still highly attractive and sought after to women (despite what bullshit feminists say). The bar for being masculine keeps getting lower and lower. Which, in theory, should make it easier for masculine RP aware dudes to clean up In other words, the message of this sub still rings clear. Focus on yourself and what you can control Fuck ev…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 04:17 AM
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Or just ask her if she wants to come over for Netflix and a bottle of wine on a boring Friday or Saturday night. Every chick knows what that means
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:06 AM
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God this is so accurate it hurts. The best thing you can do to keep her is to not care about her at all and keep her guessing. It sounds terrible but women did this to themselves
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 03:04 AM
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And never forget AWALT. She may seem really sweet on the surface but she’s let Chad go ass go mouth and will leave you without hesitating the moment someone more “exciting” comes along
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:20 AM
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TIL your future wife thinks it’s okay to be run through by “adventurous” men before she settled for nice boring you This is why more and more men are recognizing marriage in this day and age is complete bullshit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:18 AM
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The part that got me was DADS. It’s not even one man. Wtf is wrong with this lady. She deserves to be laughed at
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 12:59 AM
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Sadly I’ve seen women in their 30s behave like this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 11:12 PM
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Hahahaha. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:59 PM
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Ok king
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:26 AM
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Exactly. She’s describing the prototypical fuckboi. It’s about time women acknowledged that’s what they want. Enough of this “he had a kind personality!” Bullshit. Nobody buys that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:56 AM
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Don’t apologize for not finding body fat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:49 AM
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It shouldn’t be. Most men are obese pieces of shit today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:46 AM
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Anxiety=“lack confidence” Men who lack confidence are lower than dirt to women. Even if it’s only a temporary lapse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:45 AM
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You don’t care about them cause you’ve never had to think about them. If they disappeared tomorrow I guarantee you would notice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:40 AM
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90% of women are completely unprepared for the absolute loneliness most men feel all the time. Add in the expectation that you have to do 200% of the social effort in dating and you have a recipe where I think almost all women would be on heavy antidepressants within a month
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:36 AM
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They neglect to tell you for weeks or months because they need to find another guy. Women cannot stand to be alone or without attention. No woman ends a relationship with a guy without having the next one already lined up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:44 PM
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We’re both attractive and the sex was good. She found another guy who “swept her off her feet” or something Thing funny thing is 9 months later she came back. Told me her ex was an Ass hole and she was sorry for treating me the way she did. Guess what? I was an idiot and took her back. she did the same thing again! The second time I definitely brought it on myself, I’ll admit that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:36 PM
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Had a girl tell me once sex doesn’t count unless she came. And since I didn’t make her cum she was not counting me on her list (told me she was at 79 partners, was shooting for 100 lmao. She was a slump buster for me)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:16 AM
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Yup. I’m at the point where I’d rather be called an Ass hole from here to eternity if it means I never ever have to hear the “youre a really sweet guy and rally attractive, BUT” bullshit ever again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 07:14 AM
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Multiply by 2 and that’s probably more accurate. Though she’ll probably only admit to 20 at most
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 05:16 AM
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I’m turning 31 in a few months. You summed up pretty well how I feel. The romantic gestures will cause them lose interest in you and take you for granted 10/10
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 05:01 AM
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In addition, they completely fail to recognize that they could have had one of these good men in the past but they rejected them because they were “boring” or some shit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 05:00 AM
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I used to be the guy that liked to try and do romantic things like this. It got me nowhere. Just one rejection after another from women that didn’t want to get serious and took me for granted
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:57 AM
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Keep that in mind. They will not settle for a man who has anything less than 100% of the boxes checked. Nothing wrong with that at face value but they all have an insane number of boxes that keeps growing as they get older It’s inconceivable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:55 AM
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Exactly. What’s the point of putting all this effort into romance if they’ll just wake up one day and become completely indifferent toward you for no fucking reason?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:49 AM
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I firmly believe this is the case. It’s why I laugh nowadays when I hear slave mind progressive bullshit about how wOmEn ArE sTrOnG
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:47 AM
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They gave their youth the men who wouldn’t commit AND they rejected every good man that wanted them then because they always thought they could do better, and when they were comfortable in their career in their 30s these men would still be plentiful and pursuing them
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 04:46 AM
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All because some guy they perceive as being better than you gave them attention one day now they’re stressing out about whether than can “do better” and you have to prove yourself to her all over again. I’m so tired of this shit Experienced inform judgment. My experiences have taught me that women are unrepentant psychopaths who will dump someone they said they loved and be in bed with another man 24 hours later. Fake emotions, fake feelings, they’re all just fake everything
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 10:05 PM
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Good on you for pulling the trigger. A few years ago I had a girlfriend plan a trip to go to her hometown and meet her family the following month only to have her dump me the next week because she “was in a place in her life where she didn’t think she actually wanted a relationship right now” She had a new serious boyfriend three weeks after telling me that and I dropped $250 on a plane ticket that I never got back 🤡 Never, ever, trust them. They’re not genuine. They don’t love you; their feelin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 09:29 PM
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I love this sub. Daily reminder to never trust women I was cheated on last year. Thought she loved me but it was all bullshit. Of course it was all my fault that she fucked other guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 07:36 PM
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My point is you’re better off without them. Yea my ego is boosted initially and then I end up feeling WORSE than I did when they initially dumped me. Precisely because I let them back in and they got bored and left again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 05:15 PM
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They also instigate the short break ups in the short term as well. I have a lot of friends. Almost all are married or in serious LTR at this point. EVERY one of them, their girl broke things off a few months or a year in cause reasons (wanted to fuck other guys) and then came back. It’s unfathomable the amount of heartbreak and emotional distress women cause men for no reason other than they want to fuck other guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 04:13 PM
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This whole post brightened my day. This shit is all too common. Woman torpedos relationship with good man who loves her, finds out the grass isn’t greener and freaks out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 04:02 PM
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Stories like this are a dime a dozen. “He’s a really great guy but there’s no spark!” Almost always followed by “I’ve always gone after guys who treat me badly!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:49 PM
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Every ex I’ve had has tried to come back in some way. It’s a big ego boost at first but let them back in at your own peril. They’ll most likely fuck you over again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:20 PM
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That’s literally what they think. And they will “check in” with you from time to time just to see if you’re still available. If you are they get they ego fix and ghost. If you’re not, they cry and cry EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD NO GENUINE FEELINGS FOR YOU. Women are complete psychopaths
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 03:18 PM
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This is why any woman that mentions ending a relationship over being “bored” “not stimulated” “fell out of love” or any similar bullshit is a huge red flag She WILL discard you like a piece of trash. No thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 08:19 PM
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I hate how true this is. Wouldn’t be that bad if they didn’t all complain about how the guys they date are all assholes. You CHOSE that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:37 PM
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I think a lot of men are consciously snd sub consciously aware that relationships with women are fraught with danger and are just checking out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:24 PM
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Giga Chad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:22 PM
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Lmao. Wish we could spam women’s posts with garbage advice like this. Imagine swarming FDS with “who hurt you?” It would be glorious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 05:02 AM
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Wish there was a Remind Me bot for this woman’s life lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 05:00 AM
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The older they get the my unreasonable they become too Recently saw a 43 yr old woman on Hinge who answers the what makes a relationship great prompt with: being nice, vulnerable, and open communication, but with the passion of a toxic one (typical 50 shades of grey bullshit) There at probably less than 1% of men at any age who are capable of giving a woman a relationship like that. And NONE of them are looking for a washed up 43 yr old 5/10(at best)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 04:59 AM
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For real. Literally had this girl one time telling us how one of her other friends she had should dump her new bf because he wanted to split the cost of a trip and he wasn’t dipping into his life savings to lavish her. That made him “cheap”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 04:51 AM
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This woman will be alone forever And I’d bet my life savings she’s not more than a 6/10 looks wise Probably fat too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:28 PM
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In my experience rejecting women they almost all get snarky. Fortunately I haven’t met someone like this psycho before Be gently. You’re likely dealing with someone who has 1. Never been rejected before or 2. Has very little experience being rejected. Women can’t comprehend the experience of the average man
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 06:46 PM
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I hope that guy sees this video so he can take the red pill
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 12:39 AM
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Plenty of good men for this hoe to date snd she consistently chooses the unavailable guys. Go figure
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 07:17 PM
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I think she’s saying men are that way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 09:30 PM
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Bruh. With some discipline it’s not that hard. Jerking off/cumming is not a bad thing! Trust me, jerk it once a week (no more) and you’ll be good to go at any time. If you keep doing these super long “streaks” without masturbating you’re going to prematurely ejaculate whenever you do get in bed with girls
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 03:51 PM
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I feel you man 1). Next time you’re in the club/bar do this: spot the most attractive and available girl in there. Walk up to her, look her in the eye, and say “You’re by far the most beautiful woman in here, my friends are over there if y’all want to come join us for a drink or two” then walk away. If you gave her a good impression (ie: you walked and talked with confidence and dgaf whether she rejected you) then she’ll probably join you. It’s simple but it works. Don’t overthink things and hav…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 04:19 AM
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Sometimes people want to have the normality of having an “ex” to talk about. Coming from my own past experience of obsessing over relationships because I couldn’t find one at the time. Years later there are several of exes I would have rather not met at all…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 04:07 AM
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After you have done 90 days of no fap you should go back to masturbating about once a week. If you don’t jerk off in forever you’re going to get into a situation where you cum way too fast with girls. I did 110 days of no fap years ago and came in literally 5 seconds with a girl. Embarrassing
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 04:03 AM
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I’d say this qualifies lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 01:16 AM
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Lmfao. Yeah just wait three years and all the sudden Jesus will be her lord and savior
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 11:39 PM
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To be fair I don’t think not wanting to date people you’re not sexually attracted to is a flaw Other than that this chick is a dumpster fire
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 04:59 AM
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Why women like this think that dating is a good idea while suffering symptoms of multiple mental illnesses is beyond me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/21 04:56 AM
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No value to you, yet you responded…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:57 AM
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She seems to think EVERY unattractive man only wants sec with hot girls Most men want relationships. We just don’t want them with used up sloots like her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:56 AM
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Honestly. You sound like a miserable person. Seek help from a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:55 AM
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Lmao. Enjoy your “hotties” now and your cats later. Cause after you turn 30 that’s all you’re gonna have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:53 AM
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She’s a clown. The sooner you figure that out and treat her accordingly, the better
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 12:06 AM
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This is psychotic
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 10:58 PM
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They do want marriage. But only with Chad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 10:27 PM
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True. Every relationship I’ve been in has made my life objectively worse. Better to stay single and keep hooking up than end up being vulnerable to the whims of a woman who will leave you because you sneezed the wrong way (or some bullshit like that)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 10:24 PM
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It’s posts like this that make me never want to commit ever again. I’m kind of glad to have my eyes opened honestly
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 06:37 PM
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The last comment is gold. “Only god can judge me!”-every slut ever
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 05:33 PM
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That shit is disgusting. But ultimately I’m glad threads like that exist. It’s pushed me further towards the no commitment game as well. 100% of women are fucking whores and they’re proud of it? I’m out
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:13 PM
8

Seriously. It’s one reason why I don’t come here that much anymore
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:07 PM
2

Yea. The sexual confidence from having a big dick cannot be understated
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 01:41 AM
2

“Wrapping it up” Totally thought this meant something else. Wrap yo dick up with hookers!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 04:51 PM
9

“What I want, I get” Is that supposed to be impressive? Ladies, we usually dgaf about your confidence level. In fact, overly high confidence in a woman is usually tied to narcissism and is very negative quality in a woman
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/21 03:12 PM
2

Yea. It was part of a cataclysm in the last 12 months that made me finally take the red pill. The other half of it was getting together with a gorgeous girl who complained incessantly about how much of an asshole her jobless ex was. I thought cause I was nice, worked out, had my life together, and fucked her good that would be enough. Big NOPE. Women just prefer men who are assholes in some way. Whatever you do, don’t EVER show them you care about them. They go dry very fast
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 03:07 PM
11

Exactly. My ex last year just blurted out one time she had an ‘estimated’ 150+ different partners. I was appalled. The relationship ended after she cheated on me (surprise surprise)
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 06:53 PM
8

Yes. And it’s far braver then she’ll ever be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 06:43 PM
14

That and don’t develop a dad bod. After reading most of those comments it’s impossible to imagine them taking about men that are in great shape (low bf, cut/but muscle tone etc)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:18 AM
28

Modern feminism summed up. Women are equal and deserve to be treated as such BUT are not responsible for their actions Pick one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:14 AM
37

Read those comments at your own risk. Massive red pill. Men, get what you want from women (sex, company etc) but NEVER become emotionally attached to them. They will fuck you over. IT DOES NOT PAY TO BE A GOOD MAN
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:11 AM
41

Brave…my ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 10:21 PM
72

Pretty son she’ll be posting on here about how she met a really nice guy who is perfect but she just can’t feel a “spark” after a while. She’ll openly contemplate destroying a good relationship because she’s thirsty for more cock
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 10:08 PM
2

That’s the thing. I don’t know they don’t care about me. They say they do and they act like it until one day…they don’t. Which I’ve come to interpret as their fun with me is over so it’s time to discard and move on I used to think Red Pill was bullshit until this experience became so normal to me. I’m glad I’ve finally woken up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:06 AM
1

My parents taught me traditional husband and father values as well and I’ve had a horrible time dating. At this point I’d rather be called an asshole a thousand times than have to sit through and another talk where a woman tells me I’m really great, handsome, kind, respectful etc BUT that’s just not good enough. Women do not value qualities that make a man a good husband or dad at ALL. That’s why we need the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:36 PM
4

Women could care less about breaking a man’s heart. You only care in so much as breaking a man’s heart makes YOU feel like you’re a bad person. I’m convinced no women actually care about the pain and suffering caused by discarding a man who loves them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:26 PM
38

There’s just no shame in it anymore. YOURE PREGNANT! Get off this fucking dating app
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 09:39 PM
57

Where is the dad!????? Do they not even think about how disgusting and self serving they are??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 08:29 PM
7

She needs serious therapy. Why do so many women flaunt their mental illnesses on dating apps?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 01:20 AM
10

Don’t ever respond brother. Stay strong. She’ll learn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 09:27 PM
13

Was about to say this. Sometimes I’ve been solidly in that 20% and had tons of options for easy sex anytime I want. Other times it’s like I can’t buy a date, let alone get laid for months at a time. It’s really odd
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 08:36 PM
5

Jesus fucking Christ. That’s it. Never getting married, never getting into another relationship ever again. If this is the way they actually think I want no part of being emotionally attached to a woman in any way, shape, or form
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:39 PM
12

I hope she has a life of endless misery for doing that to this guy’s brother
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:31 PM
7

Infuriating
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 04:26 PM
5

Much better to be aware than end up like this guy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 03:30 PM
0

Disagree
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 01:13 PM
4

How to guarantee you’ll be single for the next 5 years because you have totally unreasonable standards that exclude 98% of men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/21 07:53 PM
6

Forever for women=2 weeks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 09:09 PM
2

As usual this shit doesn’t add up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 04:22 AM
6

Yeah I agree. Fucking brutal. Blue pill was strong with me till this year when I finally got the ultimate red pills shoved up my ass This girl complained to me so much about her ex and said I was different and I was great. But what I missed there was that she let that guy put a ring on her finger. And me? a “great and nice guy who’s so much easier to get along with than my ex” well, she was totally indifferent towards me after three months. It was right in front of me the whole fucking time. Thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 09:03 PM
2

True But I’m mad because this shit causes damage. I’m not gonna pretend like it doesn’t hurt like shit when a woman acts very interested then several months in just changes her mind for seemingly no reason. Finding out that there is actually no rhyme or reason to this and that it all depends on some arbitrary and subjective “chemistry” bullshit (despite having all the qualities they SAY that want in a man) is what makes me mad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 07:59 PM
8

It’s the only thing they seem to find attractive so that’s what they deserve
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/21 12:20 PM
7

I’ve been here multiple times because the blue pill programming was that strong. I cannot describe the amount of anguish I feel at finding out the Red Pill is 100% accurate
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 11:37 PM
114

How is “loving food” a pro? Yea, I too like to not starve to death
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 08:44 PM
19

Damn right we need to stop putting up with this bullshit. The old rules don’t apply to our generation. Women have made it clear time and again they will dump good guys for assholes (because “chemistry” or something). I’d rather be called an asshole than a nice guy 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 07:50 PM
27

I’ve been trying to say this for a while but people won’t listen. LOOKS DO NOT MATTER AS MUCH AS PEOPLE THINK All that matters is ultra confidence and being an asshole. That’s it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 07:10 AM
53

I feel like I’ve been the guy on the end of this so many times and seeing this enrages me honestly. What the fuck is even the point anymore?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 07:00 AM
17

I’d say it’s probably because she’s not that attractive herself. But who in that post is actually going to tell her the truth?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 12:00 AM
13

Admitted to using her kids. Great gal I’m sure
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 08:10 PM
12

That sounds miserable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 06:12 PM
1

Only fans doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:10 AM
1

Lost a million brain cells reading that one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 08:18 PM
6

Lmao. Maybe she should be more confident and shower more
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 02:53 AM
5

It’s not just that she’s less attractive now, it’s also the fact that she enjoyed how men USED to treat her, yet doesn’t even question why none of these men were good enough
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 02:52 AM
2

Exactly!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 02:47 AM
5

It’s ridiculous that she refuses to even consider the obvious. No, it’s men’s fault
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 02:45 AM
1

A 1500/2400?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:26 PM
13

We need to start shaming women for having “makeup” as a hobby the same way women shame men for having video games as a hobby
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:19 AM
3

And it’s not even that high of a score
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:19 AM
14

She’s clearly insecure about that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:17 AM
11

Yea why is she bragging about that? I feel like that’s a below average score
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:15 AM
5

Hope she dies alone
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 02:12 AM
2

Spot on. Every relationship I’ve had in has made my life worse. After 10 years of dating around and 4 serious girlfriends it’s time to move on to better things
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 07:21 PM
7

Human population growth is overwhelmingly in developing nations where a somewhat traditional gender/family structure still exists
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 05:39 PM
43

No. Just no. These women need to be sterilized or go straight to jail
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:52 PM
1

I’d say the only positive things about video games is that it can take your mind off women. In other words, it will drive them nuts if you’re you’re choosing to play video games over them. Unfortunately, this only works if you’re already a Chad
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 03:03 PM
14

The fact this solid 5/10 (on a good day) with graying hair can just fuck whomever she wants is infuriating. But it’s going to make her fall off the CC all the more savory for us
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 02:53 PM
21

I never wanted it to be the case. It’s not that I wasn’t aware of red pill in the past. It’s just that I didn’t want to believe it was true. It’s all true. And it’s WAY worse than I ever thought it could be
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 02:48 PM
16

I’d bet my life savings she didn’t have a dad around growing up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:52 PM
14

They openly tell on themselves with their bad choices. Consciously choosing instability over stability and then wondering why their dating lives are shit. But it’s worth it for the cheap thrill right?? Anyone watching this is 100% laughing AT her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:46 PM
47

They can’t tell the difference. Red pill and this page has opened my eyes to just how stupid and emotional women are
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:44 PM
3

Funny how all these militant feminists want “traditional” men/marriage (ie the husband working himself to death to provided for her)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 12:07 AM
2

Exactly. I’ve been saying this for a while but the complaints women have about “men” (really the top 10% of men) are a giant psychological projection for the way they routinely treat almost every man in their life. But the SECOND one boyfriend treats them the way they treat 90% of men then it’s the end of the fucking world
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 05:01 PM
6

Lmfaooooo
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:26 PM
16

Yea. Surprised pikachu face which turns into calling their ex bf “toxic” and “abusive” just because he changed his mind and left. Meanwhile they have done the exact same thing to probably a dozen other men before
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 12:50 PM
87

Lmao. They dated for an entire year. Future faked? Spent an entire year of his life and even moved in with her just to get some ass? Come on. Of course they can’t get it through their heads that a man could change his mind about a woman and leave. That’s their job; only women are allowed to do that to men
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:21 AM
3

True. Women pretend to be sensitive but have zero empathy whatsoever…until it happens to them. They’re basically all textbook narcissists
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 07:50 PM
5

It’s a common saying. Especially where I’m from. But go ahead with your pretentious arguments about how using a common saying somehow makes someone stupid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 04:03 PM
5

This is a retarded take IMO
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 03:58 PM
5

Sounds like we’re interpreting it different ways. Obviously using that saying during an intellectual argument is a lazy cop out. But what I’m talking about is simply a shrug to a non-serious situation that is out of your control. Ex: Lost out on a job you interviewed for? It is what it is. Forget it and move on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 03:46 PM
3

It will happen if fathers teach their daughters well. Unfortunately, with the stratospheric rise of single motherhood we’re not headed in the right direction. It will probably only get worse actually
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:15 PM
6

“It is what it is” What on earth is wrong with saying that about situations you can’t control?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 09:25 AM
4

You might be on to something. Saying that could show indifference. And they say they don’t like indifferent men (but we all know they find indifferent men irresistible)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 09:22 AM
29

What on earth does she have against saying “it is what it is?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 03:11 AM
4

That’s exactly what I said
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 03:01 AM
20

I’m saying I still support women’s agency and their option to choose. Forcing adult women to only marry a man her dad says sounds medieval in this day and age. Women need to be taught to take responsibility for their fucking choices though. We’re dramatically failing at that, as a society
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 12:30 AM
50

Exactly. I’m not sayin I necessarily support that old tradition…just that I now understand it. We’re in a new paradigm though. And it’s not going to change until women are held accountable for their choices and start to make better ones
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 11:29 PM
93

This is why in the olden days the father chose a woman’s husband. Letting them choose leads to all sorts of stupid fuckery like this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 10:38 PM
19

Honestly. This makes me fucking sick. The human race really stands no chance if this is the way most women think these days
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 10:37 PM
5

Where do y’all find these posts? I’d love to see the comments and if people are actually giving sound advice or the usual bullshit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 06:39 PM
13

But that reminds of one time when a female friend informed me that someone had taken my pictures and was using them on a dating app. I created a fake female profile to search for it so I could report it. The pic I used was literally me in the female Snapchat filter with a very prominent hairy chest. I was racking up matches by the dozens within minutes. Every swipe was a match. It’s fucking ridiculous. How thirsty are men these days?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 06:30 PM
7

You’re right. I qualified with the word “conceivably” because then their these women can easily get sex they actually experience rejection sometimes, unlike 90% of women out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 06:28 PM
27

Ugly/fat women are the only ones that can even conceivably understand what 80% of men experience in the dating world
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 04:21 PM
1

Took the words out of my mouth. I was so blue pilled in the past I would get pissed off at a guy I didn’t even know when a girl would describe how she was “abused”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 05:38 AM
59

I’m just wondering where a 46 yr old woman got the ego to demand so much. I don’t think it’s wrong she wants a good partner but saying she deserves nothing short of gold…lmao. Have fun with your dogs and cats lady
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:31 AM
65

This is truly hilarious
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:04 AM
25

I’m convinced most women have no feelings at all. It’s funny, because you consistently hear women like this complain about how men don’t have feelings. Chad doesn’t have feelings. The other 80% of men do. It’s the WOMEN that treat these men the same way Chad treats them (only used and abused as a means to an end then ghosted). Every complaint women have about men (Chad) in the dating world (“men don’t have feelings, men are trash, men are commitment-phobic etc) is one GIANT projection of how the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:55 AM
20

Vasectomy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:43 AM
3

Funny how everyone has a different opinion on this. I would say looks is secondary to arrogant, borderline irrational, self confidence You can be a average looking dude but if you have sociopathic level charm then there will be no shortage of women who want you
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/10/21 08:27 PM
54

Maybe the baby’s original dad can be the reason you deleted the app? No? Let me guess. He’s either: 1). In jail or 2). He wasn’t “man enough” and left or 3). She is an absolute psycho and a man would rather abandon his child than spend more time with her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 03:41 PM
29

Add on dogs to this too. I love dogs but EVERY women I come across these days has a dog and they can’t go anywhere or do anything because the dog needs a sitter
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 06:30 PM
17

Dating apps are the worst. Where else can a disgusting land whale like this (with kids too 🤮) find enough attention to feel confident enough to do this Unfortunately, she’ll probably have plenty of volunteers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 12:22 AM
9

Truer words have never been spoken
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 10:18 PM
6

The fact there are women at FORTY who are still irrationally chasing short term butterflies is astonishing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 09:19 PM
16

You don’t understand. Treating women the way they treat most men is misogyny! /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 09:17 PM
14

Or an ex girlfriend after New Years. Every ex I’ve ever had hit me up the first week of january
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 09:13 PM
8

Best advice is just do it. Take action. Don’t wait around for the perfect time or the perfect product. Just do it and learn as you go
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 03:27 AM
7

Right. She’ll fuck over beta guys who are thirsty. She’ll take what she wants from these men and ditch them without a second thought to chase after Chad. Till she hits 30, that is, and has 2 more kids. Then she’ll be all about “dOnT wAsTe My TiMe”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 04:31 AM
61

Precisely. This is why I don’t take advice from women anymore. They just don’t experience life the same way we do. They don’t experience one rejection after another like most men do. If they did, then oh boy, you bet they’d all be suicidally depressed. I’ve come to learn that all the shitty behavior women accuse men of doing on the dating scene are things that most women themselves are guilty of too. It’s all a projection
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 03:56 PM
0

Yea. If you only fuck fat girls
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 10:45 PM
5

Jerking off isn’t bad. When it gets in the way, or you use it as substitute, for actual sex with real women then you have a problem
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 12:56 PM
15

I’ve been on both sides of this as well. It’s way better to be called an asshole and than it is to be mistreated by someone who doesn’t give a fuck about you but is perfectly happy to use your attention for a self esteem boost
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 07:31 PM
5

Everyone’s experience is different. Based on my experiences, you cannot express even an ounce of insecurity. Your confidence cannot falter even for a split second or your girl will lose respect for you and start looking for someone else. Of course they will always frame it as a “chemistry” or lack of “romance” issue rather then tell the truth about themselves
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 10:22 PM
6

Love this answer. This emphasis on “being dangerous bro!” has led to so many clowns with no military/police experience larping all over the place
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 10:10 PM
12

Women red pill men through their actions far more than any Reddit post or book does. I, too, have finally taken the red pill after years of getting fucked over repeatedly. I didn’t want to believe this stuff at first. I really wanted to believe the whole Disney fairytale bullshit about women. This lie has been repeated to me over and over since I was a kid and I continue to hear it all over general society. It’s utter bullshit. Women dont care about you, they are not rational, they will ruthless…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:31 PM
3

Often times status is what gives people confidence. People naturally beaming with self confidence are rare and are usually legit sociopaths, narcissists. The fact is most regular people derive confidence from their experience/status; they go hand in hand
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:16 PM
11

Spot on. The idea that women are the nurturing and sensitive ones is such bullshit. I don’t care how good it’s going or how much she says she loves you, she WILL discard you like a piece of trash if she thinks she’s found something better
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:04 PM
3

Not sure about that second piece of advice. Sure, if it’s there for the taking then go fuck a hotter chick but don’t fool yourself into thinking that will solve of OP’s problems here. In fact, by trying to do that he could very well make himself look like more a clown than he already feels
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 09:02 PM
9

This is expected from young attractive women honestly. If it was an average or below average women asking for this then that’s totally bullshit. But as we all know, there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/21 10:43 PM
10

What I would love to know is whether she is physically attracted to him. Sometimes you can physically attracted to someone but not have sexual chemistry. If she is attracted to him, but maybe the sexual spark isn’t there yet, then she would be dumb to walk away. That spark will come eventually. But if she’s just not attracted to the guy (the fact she emphasizes how “nice” he is multiple times makes me think he’s not physically attractive) then honestly she should save him the grief and break up …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 12:33 AM
11

Yes because rich, successful and good looking men will line up to date a woman who has had trains run on her all over Europe
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 10:39 PM
2

Good man. Wish I had that kind of motivation and foresight at 22. Keep at it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/21 02:49 PM
3

Thank god she’s showing all the massive red flags right up front
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 11:54 PM
17

Women are beyond reproach, even for the horrible decisions they make. Men are an open field for any kind of criticism
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 10:46 PM
2

They get coddled. Nobody talks about this but I’ve seen it happen so many times
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 01:29 PM
10

Not to mention the fact you can make 98% of women cry just by yelling at them. This fact alone makes 0% of women intimidating to me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 06:21 PM
1

That’s a fucked up thing to say to someone. But okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:31 PM
10

These women are usually insufferable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 02:39 PM
1

Lmfao. Just be yourself bro!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:20 PM
3

I’ve thought about this at length. I definitely agree with you. I guess I didn’t offer anything they wanted back then. I do now and I’m going to take advantage of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:57 AM
1

Clearly I’m a retard that doesn’t know how to do this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:49 AM
0

I’m lead to believe they have the same feelings for me. They don’t make it into a bad thing, they just inexplicably lose interest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:38 PM
3

We want women to make rational choices. Prioritizing emotions is not rational
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:06 PM
3

Women’s own behavior red pills men more than any other books or internet posts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 10:00 PM
2

It is a concerning pattern. Shattered my heart to pieces multiple times by multiple women. And that’s not to say I didn’t play my own part in some of these, but overall I think I was a pretty good catch. The only thing I could come up with is that I got too attached and over pursued. And because of that my value to them went to zero. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:31 PM
1

Same here. Just turned thirty. Could easily still pass for 25 and, yes, I have women now that never would have committed to me 3-5 years ago who are aggressively pursuing relationships with me. Forgive me if it doesn’t make me feel a little jaded. It’s almost women my age saw me as the last option and now that they’re still single at 30 and I’m the last “good” man left I’m expected to just give them a relationship, marriage, kids etc. No thanks. Not until I’ve at least tested the waters of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:28 PM
2

As a man who just turned 30 and had a ROUGH go of it trying to find a committed relationship in my 20s, I am thoroughly enjoying the attention I’m now getting from women of all ages. It’s increased exponentially. Granted, I’m also 6 ft, make 150k+ and go to the gym regularly. But I’m not deluding myself into thinking I’ll still have the same amount of attention at 40. But I can tell you that I really don’t have interest in dating women my age right now (my age range is 24-27 right now). If someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:24 PM
1

On average the age men are seen as most attractive to women is like 38. Vice versa and it’s 23 for women. Women want success and men want looks women dating 5-7 years older is a win-win for everyone. Most relationships beyond 8-10 year age gap for me is suspect I don’t know who these men are that say 50 is a man’s peak (lmao) but they sound just as delusion as someone who says 35-40 is a woman’s peak
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 09:19 PM
1

Lmfao @ saying a woman’s “sexual peak” is 35
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:45 PM
1

Yet another example of women saying they want one thing but actually being attracted to something totally different
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:19 PM
1

No it’s not. Women frequently “change their minds” after 3 months and move on without batting an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:56 PM
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My last gf volunteered this information and I really wish she hadn’t because her “number” was appalling to me. It was “at least 150” according to her. And she was 25. It was a factor is in us breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:46 PM
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I wish that was my experience, but it’s not. The more sweet things I do and say the more it seems they lose respect for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:24 PM
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Stop lying. I know through experience if you adore a woman who is into you then she loses interest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:00 PM
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They want traditional relationships but don’t want to be traditional women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:25 PM
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Because he’s emotional, sweet, and sensitive? That’s part of the lie men are told. Women might say they like men like this but the fact is they’re not attracted to men like this at all. I had to learn this hard way as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:23 PM
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Idk man. I’m a good looking dude and I’ve struggled with women my whole life. A good looking man with low confidence is of little use to women beyond casual sex for validation. Ie: they’ll fuck me, but don’t want a relationship with me. Could be worse, I know, but it sucks sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:51 PM
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Most women typically have a laundry list of standards even for casual hookups, let alone relationships. I can’t speak for all men but for my friends and I our standards have always been something like: Someone who is physically attractive to us Someone who we get along well with That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:58 PM
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True. I wouldn’t exactly say the first woman has unrealistic standards based on that. However, as we keep seeing, successful women unfortunately pigeon hole themselves into less and less male options the higher they go up the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:48 PM
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So, in other words, the male attention she received in her 20s got to her head
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:46 PM
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If that’s pathetic then so are women who think a guy is dateable and says that and treats him that way for months only to “change their mind” when they found someone better. Both equally fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:39 PM
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I’m a man that’s been on the other end of this and I can’t say that’s true at all. I’ve absolutely come across women before that were perfectly fine having casual sex with me but when I raised the topic of a relationship they went cold and rejected me. Broke my heart multiple times but it was a lesson learned. They were physically attracted to me but, for whatever reason, there was no “spark” (according to them) or they’re “not looking for a relationship right now” only to go on and develop a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:25 PM
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She’s literally what is wrong with our society today. Let’s not sugar coat it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:28 PM
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Sure, but is that actually in the interest of national security? To have 50% of our combat roles filled by women would lead to absolute disaster on any battlefield
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:26 PM
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Lmao right?! The guys on here seem to have no understanding of socializing outside dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:53 AM
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Could not have said it better. When they say “men are trash/pigs/noncommittal assholes” they mean Chad. Not you. They complain because the top 10% of men they want don’t want them and they paint this broad brush of making ALL men to be assholes
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 08:29 PM
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This shit just cannot be real. Do even ugly females have enough male attention to act this way these days? She is a 2/10 on a GOOD day I’m not one for acting mean to people for no reason but she doesn’t deserve a pump and dump, she deserves a few serious insults for her smugness and then move on
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 01:26 PM
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Lmao. Fuck her. I too, am at the point where I’d rather be lonely than deal with the constant bait and switches/disappointment
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 01:26 AM
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Some do this to good looking men too if they’re deemed “boring”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 12:28 AM
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My last girlfriend proudly proclaimed she had never been dumped before. When I broke up with her a few months in (she was insane, and alcoholic, and crossed a line for me) she literally did not know what to do but throw a tantrum and threaten to hurt herself
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:58 PM
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Good lord I sincerely HOPE she ends up alone for the rest of her life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:53 PM
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This cannot be real
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:43 PM
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Agreed. I used to feel bad for women who were abused by their exes. Not anymore. You had a choice and you chose this douchebag who was awful to you over and over again. Compare that to men who date abusive women and it’s usually some poor bastard who has to choose between crushing loneliness or the “best he can do”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 10:57 PM
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“They’ll come up with literally any bullshit excuse to get rid of you” No shit I had an ex literally say this as the reason why she broke up with me. I “lacked confidence” and she said word for word she was going to use any reason she could to break up with me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 10:39 PM
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For real man. It’s a trap. I’ve had the same thing happen to me. I’m slightly anxious about something; the encourage me to open up so I do. Then they lose interest in me and start slowly disrespecting me before cutting things off. And this doesn’t even begin to touch the amount of times you open up to a woman and they use it against you in an argument. It’s 100% at this point. I will never open up to a woman ever again
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 10:32 PM
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Pretty sure psychiatric medication use for women is at all time highs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 09:22 PM
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This woman’s life sums up just about everything wrong with our society today
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 08:34 PM
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Yea tell us more about that part… Jk. Glad you got well OP! Inspirational man
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:13 PM
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Bruh. Sure, let me just hand over all my phone conversations and text messages to a stranger online. I’ve been looking for a relationship for years. Time after time ive found women who have “commitment issues” yet go off and start seriously dating another man who they constantly complain about. My ex last year word for word told me I was a good guy but she was more attracted to men who are douches (and was cheating on me with said douches) A 25 year old woman said this. Another ex of mine came b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:44 PM
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Nope. Advice given by women. Happened to me and countless other men. We asked female friends “what women want.” Were given an answer and directed our efforts towards what we were told was right (by other women). My problems with women actually got WORSE the more women I sought advice from!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:28 AM
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You seem like a very sad, sad, human being. Bless your heart
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:32 AM
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Lmfao. If dating expectations flipped tomorrow, and women had zero attention from men and had to put in the effort men do and face the amount of rejection men face then 90% of women would end up on anti depressants within 60 days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:30 AM
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Females animals don’t mate with as many males as possible. They select for the strongest ones
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 02:06 AM
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It’s one thing if it was just a brief phase in college or something. still unattractive but not as bad as a woman who’s still on the cock carousel in their mid-late 20s I’m refusing to even consider any woman over the age of 28 who seems desperate for commitment. To me, that reeks of “I was a huge slut in the past but I’ve finally come to realization that my looks are fading fast so NOW, after rejecting good men for years because I wasn’t done being a slut, NOW I will find a good man and get him…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 05:29 AM
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Same bro. And it sucks. However, this one I can actually understand. Women want men with confidence who they feel knows what he’s doing. If you’re inexperienced it can be very hard to have the level of confidence they want. But I do agree that if it was flipped and a man was rejecting women for being inexperienced then he would be dragged through the mud
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 05:24 AM
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Total bullshit. Women dump/reject men for innocuous reasons all the time. Yet, if a man is put off by finding out his gf has given it up to half the guys in the city he’s sexist. Ridiculous. Another example of feminists and modern women wanting to have their cake and eat it too You want to be a whore? Cool. It’s your life. But these women need to start understanding what the consequences of being a slutwhore are
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 01:28 AM
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Please tell me you’re a 12 year old…there is no way you can be a mature adult and actually think this Part of the reason for TRP is to act as a balance for the modern feminist movement which tell us all women are angels and shouldn’t be questioned and all men are villains Women abuse men are similar rates yet they get off scot free. The amount of young women I’ve met who don’t know how to deal with any kind of rejection because they’re so overstimulated by male attention is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:32 PM
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Confidence is important for male attractiveness. For women it s plus but far from the most attractive thing a man sees in a woman. In fact, an overly confident female is to the detriment of any relationship
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 05:18 PM
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It’s the same in the US albeit through health incurable premiums and general cost of care. Obese people put such a massive strain on the system that everyone’s health insurance costs go up. Then everyone ends up like the shocked pikachu meme when Costa increase heat after year
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 05:13 PM
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98% of women are fat and/or single moms. It’s depressing
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 05:03 PM
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Don’t listen to the corporate media, man. America is not a “racist country”
/r/TheRedPill12/06/21 03:45 PM
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Long story. I was going to but had to be careful because I didn’t want her to hurt herself (she was nuts). She broke up with me one day and I said “great, see ya!”
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:04 PM
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Start jerking it once or twice a week. I did over 100 days of nofap a few years ago. Fixed my porn addiction but I ended up having problems with premature ejaculation. It was terrible. Started jerking it a couple times a week again and it was fixed
/r/askTRP11/06/21 11:14 AM
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She’s telling you she is unavailable to people she doesn’t see as important at all. I had an ex tell me once proudly that she had never ever been dumped. It’s a red flag
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:48 PM
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Dude 7 months is way too long for nofap. Why tf they tell guys to never jerk it ever again I have no idea. It will fuck you up if you don’t start busting nuts soon. If you’re worried about fapping taking away your sex drive then only do it once or twice a week. Use it or lose it is 100% true for men who don’t jerk off. No fap should not be done for more than 30 days at a time. 90 at most if you’re coming off a severe porn addiction
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:37 PM
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I think what he’s saying is that you will need to do some “typical rich guy shit” to attract the women you want
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:35 PM
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If you’re talking about momentary weakness that we all get from time to time then being alone is the best time to feel that way because nobody sees you If you’re talking about chronic loneliness then go find friends and a purpose somewhere
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:33 PM
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Then maybe y’all should stop being so goddamn complicated
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:40 AM
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I think it depends entirely on the individual, and who they are as a person. Look at it this way: genuinely good people usually end up finding each other and having fulfilling relationships. Having a lot of sexual partners does not automatically mean that you are not a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 10:13 PM
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Tinder and Bumble: Depends on how much effort I want to put in. If I put a lot of time into swiping I’ll end up with more matches than I know what to do with and I end up just not messaging any of them. If I don’t swipe at all then I’ll usually end up with a small handful each week. Mostly use these to fuck around these days Hinge: hinge has become my preferred app by far in the last few years. The quality of women I’ve met on there is way better than tinder or bumble. It’s become very popular w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:47 AM
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Second this. Hinge has way higher quality women . Pretty much the only app I take seriously anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 03:11 AM
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Lmao this is the type of dude every woman in the gym complains about until one day he’s escorted out by security. Boundaries, man, boundaries...
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:58 AM
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Doesn’t sound like you’re dating 8s at all though bro. The ones I know and have dated wouldn’t even entertain a guy like you. And what’s with everyone spouting off that hot women only love drug dealers and thugs? Lol where are these relationships happening? Economically depressed areas is my best bet. You need to head to the city, my friend. I don’t deny that drug dealers and the like can pull some hot chicks sometimes because I’ve seen it(in college, not the real world and not nearly to the ext…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:33 AM
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Lmao some of you guys are so fake it’s hilarious. Asking chicks to coffee dates? and not even paying? You most be in high school. The bottom line is this: you want to date/fuck hot girls? Get ready to spend a little bit of money. No woman who is a hard 7/10 or 8/10+ would take ANY man seriously if the best he has to offer on a first date is coffee that she has to pay for herself lol. I mean come on
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 02:31 AM
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