| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Be men of honor and virtue | Frosty_Season_8092 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/21 12:23 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | STBX Wife already deleting our pictures on her Social MediaNormal. Don't worry about it. You feel like she's trying to delete you from her life. She is. It's a tough one to accept. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | UltimatumYou already know the answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you have any advice for men that haven’t been married?The red flags that ended the relationship were there from the beginning. Don't ignore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently.Get ready to start paying for her after you divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]This is the right thing to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]💯 agree | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Struggling a little bit, would just like to know I’m doing the right thing!!It is hell. Everything about divorce. Just accept that life is difficult and in some way when you accept it you begin to transcend the pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Can I deposit money to a personal account then withdraw the money and give it to a family member?Seems like it a decent idea. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Am I making a mistakeI like this is argument. You may be right. Almost always there is no change until there is pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Trying to decide if I give my wife another shotAlways give therapy a chance before calling it quits. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | I did something and now I'm a fucking wreckRule number one if you want custody of your kids. Don't move out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | At a crossroadsNatural way to feel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/21 05:56 AM |
| -2 | Am I making a mistakeHard not to disagree due to your argument. I got fucked hard...BUT the only way we get out of the kind of society we've become is to do the right thing, turn the other cheek and support yourself by not taking alimony. Maybe do a year or something. But let's be honest, alimony is modern day slavery no matter which way the money flows. Let's prove to the women we aren't a pathetic as they. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/21 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Am I making a mistakeDetails regarding how far one can move from "home" and distance to travel for kids going to school. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/21 05:50 AM |
| 3 | POF Tech Support for the STBXActually you should've asked to pay for other apps too. Sooner she cohabitates or gets married, no more alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Amicable Divorce. Is lawyer needed?Doable. Make general and specific statements about splitting assets and you should feel pretty comfortable. Having said that since this is an uncontested divorce hiring a lawyer should be reasonably cheap to ensure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Marital Home and Assets IssuesA lot of factors determine what will happen. Did you buy the home prior to marriage with money you can prove was yours? Did you mingle who paid the mortgage payments during marriage? Usually you are awarded what was yours pre-marriage and anything gained during marriage is split but I know it's state specific on the laws on that... And don't be surprised if you get screwed. The law favors women especially if they are stay at home, unemployed mother's. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/21 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Budgeting for seperated life feels... underwhelming. Alimony will only last until the divorce though so there's that to look forward toAlimony is modern day slavery. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | In divorce process, fighting for equal placement with my kids (WI)My experience in Utah has been the court just applies whatever the stay at home mother says and if you feel it should be any more you have to order a custody evaluation. Then you may get more but probably not up to 50/50. It's the most unethical experience I've ever been through. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | (29M) - I’m wondering if it’s time to go ahead and leave my spouse (28F). I’m so sick and tired of arguing with this lady, and being incompatible. I literally feel my blood pressure rising during every conversation we have.No kids. Much easier. Ask yourself why you chose to marry her in the first place. Then justify your answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Unstable and custodyBetter download a voice recorder and run it the entire time you're in her presence. I used a smart watch for better clarity. Even them expected to get screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Be men of honor and virtueI feel the same way regularly. It's a natural tendency. However, search your feelings. Is that not where the resentment and anger and pain originate? I still want to treat her how she "deserves" but it's the poison that hurts yourself more than it hurts her if at all. Once you've been hurt that deeply it makes sense to react that way to the person who caused the pain. Unconditional love. Unconditional. It takes practice but to achieve it or even come close is the relief that heals all emotional … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Really hard to post this but your posts have given me courageMost X's I'd say. Don't be surprised by the low a woman can go you thought you knew. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Mistakes to avoid.Winning reply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Child custody disagreementYa. You need proof. Turn on your recorder on your phone when you get your child. Write emails...texts anything that can be traced. Proof proof proof | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/21 05:13 AM |
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