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103

Let him then. This is classic controlling behavior and mental abuse.
/r/askFDS13/05/21 07:51 PM
79

In the book, most of the Handmaids are afraid to trust each other because so many of them rat each other out out of fear or to save their own skins. If you're familiar with the character of Ofmatthew from the show, most of them are like her in the books: They all play the role of dutiful Handmaid even amongst each other, and you can never tell who's just going along with it out of fear and who is genuinely complicit and spying for the Aunts. I like the term "Handmaid" to refer the toxic "Trad Wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:30 PM
30

"YoU DOnT HaTE ME ThO RiGhT?!" "Not yet, but I'm sure you'll give me a reason."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:42 AM
1

FDS has no issues with being childfree, but it's not really a maid focus of the sub. In general, long as it stays "being childfree is one aspect of my personality" and doesn't become "my entire identity is being childfree and children and families are a personal offense to me" (as it has on some of the childfree subs) you're good. FDS is staunchly against porn and sex work, because these industries benefit men at the expense of women's mental and physical health. I know that's a hotly debated to…
/r/askFDS12/05/21 05:14 PM
61

Bet my left tiddy this guy is a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:15 PM
4

Is it wrong that I hope she gets double mastitis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:49 AM
5

Um... can you please link your post? I wanna torture myself :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:48 AM
3

You should report OP to the mods and let them decide.
/r/askFDS11/05/21 10:56 AM
28

The only men who hate "gold-diggers" are broke men. Wealthy men LOVE them. They LOVE lavishing expensive gifts on a woman; she is their living trophy to show off how much money they have. "Look at my beautiful 20-something girlfriend dripping in Hermes and Cartier! Look how successful I am that this girl will go out with me!" This is because most men almost never mentally age past their bullied, bitter, incel teenage years. His body may be 50, but HE is still 15. They will work for decades to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:59 AM
14

Then what the hell is she there for? Oh right- someone needs to cook and clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:13 AM
81

I came here to say the same thing. They'll just start WWIII and come up with some excuse to enslave us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:36 PM
172

"...Relationships became a space to grow and not re-enact childhood trauma..." I feel so fucking attacked right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:23 PM
14

She gon’ learn the hard way, poor little idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:17 AM
8

Well you have to understand, "dad bod" was SUPPOSED to be that body, with maybe 20 or 30 extra pounds on it. Large muscles, but with a snugly layer of chub. Fit but not wiry or so cut it's like trying to hug a mannequin. It does NOT mean pre-weight loss Jonah Hill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:58 AM
28

Hers is the most happiest looking smile though, don't you think? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:59 AM
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Yes the perverts now have Billie Eilish masturbation fuel. But what is the alternative? Even burkas don't stop the pervs in the middle east from harassing women. Pedos and perverts will ogle women no matter what they wear. If Billie never revealed her body, they'd just photoshop her head onto some other woman's nudes. Or make a deepfake of her doing porn. Those probably already exist anyway. I'm against virtually all porn, but I'm all for sexual art. Nudes. Erotica. Fully clothed sexy photos. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:06 PM
7

I understand where you’re coming from, it’s natural to want a kindred spirit who can fucking get it. But men who’ve “seen some shit” are virtually always toxic and out to make women suffer as some kind of catharsis- Even if the trauma had nothing to do with a woman. They have PTSD so it’s not their fault they bounced you off the walls, you triggered them. Their parents divorced so now they’re emotionally unavailable assholes who jerk you around because they have “trust issues.” As others stated,…
/r/askFDS07/05/21 05:13 AM
7

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Glad you’re out of that life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:19 PM
29

Low Value men don’t “befriend,” women, they orbit them.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 03:03 AM
1

"I have no pity for depressed elderly people who's spouse just died." Good for you! That's really a personality trait to be proud of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:21 PM
4

Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do until you know for sure whether the new guy in town is your ex or not. Only way to do that is to, A: Cautiously go about your life until you see this guy in town again and get a really good look at him to know for sure. B: Contact someone back home you can trust to not tell anyone you asked about your ex, and ask them if he's still in Texas or not. C: Hire a private detective to basically stalk your ex for awhile to find out where exactly he is and what…
/r/askFDS03/05/21 08:03 AM
1

Um, guys? His wife - presumably of several decades - had just died. He was probably extremely depressed and didn't want to eat. I'm all for calling out deliberate "male bumbling," but accusing an elderly, possibly slightly senile, old man of starving himself to the point of scurvy rather than learning to cook because he's lazy or petty, ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:54 PM
6

Her TikTok is miikaa_96 if ya'll wanna follow her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:44 PM
12

I grew up in the fundamentalist movement, and while they do seem weird to outsiders with the constantly being happy all the time stuff, most of them really are good people trying to live how they think God wants them to. But I think people like the Duggars totally over do it. Just because you CAN have 19 kids, doesn’t mean you should. It’s a quality of life issue. How much can any of these kids really know each other? How well can the parents know their children? They’re all so busy with chores …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:31 AM
27

My standard response is “when you jump, do a flip.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:10 PM
77

The disgusting sexual stories and comments are pretty typical of stepdads. What really concerns me is him coming into your rooms without knocking, and particularly, him coming into your room in the night and climbing onto your bed while you were asleep. Those are HUGE red flags. Huge. Most rapists start out as peeping toms; they practice trespassing, violating people's spaces by creeping around their homes, trying doors, testing boundaries, etc before they attack. Him coming into your rooms and …
/r/askFDS30/04/21 07:55 AM
29

Report their names to modmail so they can block them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:30 PM
110

Men don't give gifts, they give down payments. Men always have a self-serving angle to every nice thing they do, it's just how they are. Most of the time it's relatively harmless- like this man giving 'insider advice' to women. Yeah he probably genuinely wants to help women, but he also wants all those shiny internet points. But there are some men who prey on women by acting woke, because they know that of they act like they're aware of how toxic male culture is and are against it, you'll let yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:22 AM
15

So basically lil man spent the whole relationship trying to find one thing he could be better at than you, and failing miserably! lmaoooo what a loser!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:32 AM
14

For the same reason cigarette manufacturers made candy flavored cigarettes in pretty brightly colored packaging. They know exactly what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:22 AM
3

This sounds like the “precious bodily fluids” rant from Dr. Strangelove.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:51 PM
1

This is so goddamn degrading...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:20 AM
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"She was my dream girl, she wore hajib and we always went straight home after work." That tells you everything you need to know. He didn't approve of her being religious, he approved of her compliance with the behavioral standards the men of his culture set forth (under threat of rape/death) for their women. Her actual thoughts on the hajib, and whether she was wearing it out of genuine religious devotion or because she was pressured into it by her society, didn't matter. Whether or not she want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:38 PM
6

And of course this story gets buried as quickly as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:29 PM
44

To them ALL women are sluts smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:44 PM
252

Dead eyes. Cover their smile with a finger and stare into their eyes. Do they look like the eyes of someone who could murder their family with a butter knife? If yes, avoid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:30 PM
7

:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:28 PM
6

PREACH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:26 PM
33

I'll probably get downvoted to hell for this, but I like the Joe Rogan Experience. I don't like Joe Rogan, but some of his guests are amazing. The Paul Stamets interview in particular was legendary, and really made me take a second look at the idea that mushrooms could actually have a medicinal benefit. I'm actually looking into trying micro-dosing for my depression and anxiety because of it. Everything else is on point though. Especially the dislike of cats- and I personally feel that goes for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:26 PM
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You mean to tell me that all my life when men have called me a whore, it's because I don't know how to get to the Science Center in Baltimore?! Well I'll be damned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:13 PM
9

Thankfully no, but I would never even consider having that conversation anyway. What could possibly be more demeaning than counseling your narc ex's new victim? You wanted him, you got him, honey. Enjoy. Honesty this woman sounds like an absolute moron with nothing positive to contribute to your life or anyone's life. I know it's sooooo infuriating to see someone who you know is full of shit gassing themselves up on social media and everyone else falling for it. But you really just need to block…
/r/askFDS19/04/21 03:52 AM
21

Trust vetted men? Yes. Trust a man who’s strung you along for a decade? NOPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:33 PM
5

That’s so damn sad. Not only does that mentality make you hate your own body (because unless you are one of the rare people born with a rodent-speed metabolism, weight fluctuations are normal), it also instills a judgmental attitude towards others. Very isolating and toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:09 PM
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"Look at those disgusting fatties, that's so unhealthy, how can anyone let themselves get to that point?!" - Said Myrtle, as she ate and entire layer cake with her hands at 3am and then starved herself for a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:05 AM
8

I just... wow. I couldn't believe Spoitfy had no block option so I Googled it, and sure enough the community even voted for a block feature as of 2018 and Spotify was like, yeah we heard you, we know you want to be able to block people, but tough shit we're not gonna let you :) My advice is write down all your playlists and songs on paper so you'll have them no matter what. Then delete your account and start a new one and recreate them there. I know it will be a ton of work, but you might actual…
/r/askFDS17/04/21 09:28 PM
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How abusive are we talking here? Because I can see this being a trap if he's extra crazy. Can he be trying to find out your location if you cash it? Could he be setting you up for legal entanglements down the road by suing you to get it back? I'm particularly suspicious of him telling you you don't have to file taxes on it. I'm pretty sure any monetary gift over 10k you gotta pay taxes on. It's a stretch, but he could even be trying to set you up with the IRS by planning to report you for not pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:39 PM
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It worked for Ted Bundy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:40 PM
22

“From now on, every time I sit in your urine, I’m leaving a period clot stuck to something you care about.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:05 PM
79

Ya’ll been together 6 months and he’s avoid the future/marriage talk with you so intensely, he doesn’t even know you want marriage and kids?! Damn, girl. Men are simple creatures, they absolutely know with 6 months of you qualify as wife material for them. If they see a future with you, they’ll want to know everything about you and especially your dreams for the future. A man who isn’t about what you want for the future doesn’t plan to be in it. He’ll still happily use you as a living flashlight…
/r/askFDS15/04/21 06:01 PM
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I would say about a year and a half to get past the bulk of it. It was complicated because I fell for the “I still want to be friends” bullshit. Don’t ever stay friends with an ex. Don’t torture yourself like that. I would have “missing him” days where all I did was cry. to this DAY I still sometimes have sad spells, but I know what he is now, so, it’s not so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:30 PM
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Yes, that is LITERALLY what I went through. Literally all of that. It took me a long time to realize he was a complete narcissistic sociopath and I fell for his lovebombing. Looking back now it was like I was under a spell or something. He would so blatantly disrespect me, and I’d just... feel nothing. Or excuse his behavior. Because when he was nice he was wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:42 PM
3

Girl I think we dated the same man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:17 PM
1

He chipped away at your conference with his “doubts” and tried to tie you down with a baby before marriage. That guy was as LV as they come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:47 AM
6

My God. You'd think at least writing it all out like that would make her realize...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:42 PM
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She was SHOCKINGLY nice, considering. Most people would’ve aborted the child without a second thought, but because he claimed to want the child, she willingly went through the ordeal of birth for him! On top of that, she pays far more child support than even the courts require, to ensure the child she didn’t want to parent is very well taken care of. Deadbeat mom?! This is the most kind and generous women on the planet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:40 PM
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Never. What’s the point? To hear “I’m so sorry, you didn’t deserve that”? That’s what your therapist is for. Your therapist isn’t going to wake up one day and decide they don’t love you anymore any use your stint in a mental hospital as a weapon in court to get primary custody of your kids. Men do not have empathy the way women do. Men do not hear stories of abuse and think “you poor thing you didn’t deserve that”, they think “you can’t be worth much if people treat you like crap, maybe I’ve mis…
/r/askFDS10/04/21 02:07 AM
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Yeah so he either knows he has an STD, or heavily suspects he does. He's using a very common LV male abuse tactic called "Male Bumbling" to try and get out of the tests by playing like he's so fucking stupid, you finally give up trying and let him infect you with his skanky disease-ridden dick. It's the same tactic men implement to get out of household chores: They accidentally-on-purpose bleach your laundry or fry it in the drier until you get so frustrated, you end up doing all the laundry you…
/r/askFDS09/04/21 01:59 AM
8

Nothing says "I'm so over you" like writing an essay to your ex about how happy you are in your new relationship, half a year after they dumped you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 AM
3

The trash took it's self out on this one. Think about this: You don't like how he acts when he's having sex with you and THIS is how he reacts?! THIS is how he reacts when you tell him you don't like something he's doing to your body; when he treats you like his personal masturbation device. You will not have to teach a High Value Man how to treat you right in bed. Fuck that asshole.
/r/askFDS08/04/21 03:38 AM
14

Do you even need to ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:17 AM
34

GIIIIIIIIRL I SAW THAT POST!!! I thought at the time, "Omg imagine being so low you have to audition that hard for male approval." That poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:16 AM
170

Hoist the Red Flag, mateys! We set sail for Porn-Sick Limp-Dick Island! Phone nudes, following Insta thots, and not being able to get hard during foreplay are major signs of porn-sickness. He probably can't get it up unless he goes in the bathroom and watches porn first. When it's gone that far, it's usually not "nice" porn they look at, either. I would start lowkey questioning him about his views on porn and if he has any "kinks." I just bet you won't like what you hear. Buuuuut, I might be wro…
/r/askFDS07/04/21 07:14 AM
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Who was doing all those chores for him when he was single? If he could do those chores then, why is he suddenly so "exhausted" now? I'm not buying it. Cleaning a toilet takes 20 minutes, tops. Loading the dishwasher takes 10 minutes, putting them away even less. If he can't manage even those things on a week night, he needs to see a doctor. He can do a couple of simple, light chores every day after work. If you cook all the meals, he should do the dishes when he gets home. He can also do the gro…
/r/askFDS05/04/21 08:15 PM
12

He's low value and he's already your ex! Why on earth would you go to counseling with him? There is no point. Block him on everything and move on with your life.
/r/askFDS05/04/21 07:46 PM
17

I seriously doubt Pickmeisha Supreme is smart enough to notice xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:48 AM
92

It's a joke, not a dick, you don't have to take it so hard, broooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:54 PM
23

Unfortunately, therapists have to ask questions that would be considered rude in normal conversations. It's no different than a doctor asking personal questions about your body/personal habits that no one would normally dream of asking. They're trying to get the whole picture to formulate a course of therapy best able to help you. Obviously you don't have to answer such questions until you're ready, if ever, but try not to be put-off by the "nosy" questions therapists ask.
/r/askFDS04/04/21 04:40 AM
17

As long as they came, they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:02 AM
16

I honestly think you're just wasting your time trying to get back at him. But if you want to be petty, then I advise making the break up as inconvenient for him as possible, without doing anything illegal or that you can be sued for. Some ideas, which may or may not be legal where you are: Cancel all services you can that he uses: Internet, utilities, Netflix, credit cards, any automatic deliveries. Take him off your car insurance, health insurance, etc. Delete any of his social media you have h…
/r/askFDS03/04/21 07:00 AM
19

What’s “hurtful” about discarding an emotionally abusive narcissist? Nothing! Cruel people like that don’t deserve a moment’s further consideration. I guarantee he’s not thinking about what hurts you! Congratulations on building the strength and dignity to dump that asshole.
/r/askFDS02/04/21 10:10 PM
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Cautiously, I think this is a positive sign. Men know within the first 6 months if you’re a marriage candidate or not. He’s probably seriously toying with the idea of marrying you... That doesn’t mean stop vetting though.
/r/askFDS02/04/21 09:14 PM
3

No.
/r/askFDS02/04/21 04:30 AM
20

“Show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who you are.” I learned the hard way that a guy’s friends are a direct reflection of who he is without “the mask.” He’s not a “great guy who hangs out with jerks”, he’s a jerk hanging out with other jerks but pretending to be a great guy while he gets what he wants from you. To take it a step further, I also learned that how a guy’s friends treat you is a direct reflection of how he talks about you to them in private. If The Boys are disrespectful/…
/r/askFDS01/04/21 07:08 AM
27

The irony is the person who made this has probably never even had a girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:44 AM
10

Because he's in a slump and is desperate for an ego boost. He's probably been recently dumped by his latest victim girlfriend, and is now at an age where getting with young naive girls who can't see through his bullshit, is becoming harder and harder. So he's going back through his list of previous victims and shaking the tree to see who's desperate enough to fall out. He's hoping you're still susceptible to his lies and manipulation enough that he can pump and dump you, and thus assure himself …
/r/askFDS29/03/21 06:40 AM
54

No red flags? Girl THIS is your red flag. All LVs seem HV until shit gets real. Then the mask drops. Needing space means "I need to lay in bed for three days and cry it all out." It does not mean "I'm going to dump my girlfriend and completely evaporate from her life." And you HAVE been dumped. He said he hopes you can be together "again", meaning in his mind ya'll, are not together anymore. This is the type of guy who bails when things stop being perfect. He is living a Rom-Com in his head. The…
/r/askFDS28/03/21 09:28 PM
184

The greatest con men ever pulled is convincing us that autism = stupid. High functioning autistic people have trouble with the flow of conversation and unspoken social cues, but they are fully intellectually aware of what is and isn't asshole behavior. Don't ever let someone with autism get away with being shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:37 PM
9

If you go into a relationship with someone you know loves you, but you don't love them, you're a bad person. Period. You cannot be a good person and intentionally jerk a good person around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:58 AM
2

They don’t want to change. They like who they are. They like finding vulnerable women to take advantage of so they can torment them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:32 AM
20

When he’s so toxic the negging starts before you even meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:17 PM
26

I love your response! Yes PLEASE get that poor girl away from those people as soon as you possibly can. I know this may be hard to hear, but I definitely think you should have a very long talk with your daughter about whether this boy has been inappropriate with her in the past. I'm deeply concerned that more has happened between her and that little monster than they want to admit. That could explain why she has been so keen to cover up even when she is safe with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:38 PM
22

Sometimes I get sad that it's so hard to find a HV man. Then I remember that because of FDS, I will never have to deal with insane men like THIS (trigger warning), and I am just... so happy. Single is always, always better than psychotic wasp-eating guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:22 PM
40

The Hitachi is the brute-force cracker of the vibe world: It's big, it's loud, it plugs into the wall, it has one job and it's not stopping till that job is done! So if you have difficulty having an O, and/or you need a long time to get there, and/or you're not a fan of direct stimulation, the Hitachi would probably be a great investment. However if you are more sensitive, it might be too intense. I've heard a lot of woman complain about it being too intense for direct stimulation, or it being s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:05 PM
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I think the text posts that give a really good example of LV gaslighting and manipulation are very valuable to this sub. We can talk about manipulation, but seeing actual examples of it are very helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:16 PM
2

Constantly. The shame is real. I wish I could tell you how I got over it, but tbh I'm still processing it and getting through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:38 PM
16

This is scary :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:44 AM
6

Star from White Oleander really let herself go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:53 PM
2

Girl I literally linked the wiki about the Chinese social credit system in my original comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:21 PM
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I hope so, but I think if it were no more invasive than a regular background check we can all do, there wouldn't be a fuss about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:04 PM
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It's not a means of ranking the trustworthiness of a stranger based on a social credit system run by Big Tech?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:53 PM
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I'm all for doing background checks on dudes before meeting them, but social credit systems are Orwellian and terrifying. Do you really want to live in a world where the government and social credit corporations track everything you say and do and you can be blacklisted for supporting/criticizing the wrong politician or government policy? People say, "Well if it makes the world safer, it's worth it." But China's social credit system is has been up since 2009 and they're actively running deathcam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:43 PM
3

I've never been in a custody battle so idk, but to me this seems like an easy situation to fix: First, pick a time that's convenient for you, then limit his calls to ONE 30-ish minute call a day at that time. It's up to him to call during that time if he wants to talk to them. They are kids, they got nothing to say they can't get out in 30 minutes lol! No one could accuse you of trying to alienate him when you have a 30 minute window every day just for him to talk to the children if he wants. Se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:32 PM
6

"As the needle of a compass always finds north, so a man's accusing finger will always find a woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:10 PM
39

Ever been mid-O and had a random shitty thought pop into your head and just completely kill it? That's what's going to happen if you go back to your FWB. Your disappointment in yourself will ruin everything. My advice is to really get serious about self-pleasure and learn how to give yourself the awesome Os you deserve. Female masturbation (surprise surprise) has a heavy stigma around it as being dirty or just not as much fun as what a man can do. Well times have changed, and companies like Lelo…
/r/askFDS17/03/21 02:48 PM
21

"There was no sound, he just died!" xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:59 AM
5

Not ALL men, but ALWAYS the men who say, "not all men."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:11 AM
33

PREACH! There is not a man on this earth who has EVER loved a woman unconditionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:09 AM
5

I'm so glad I could help, girl lol I know how much it hurts though. I didn't tell you anything I haven't told my self. It was such an honor for me that my alcoholic narc abuser trusted me enough to tell me he'd fallen off the sobriety wagon and done meth in the bathroom at work with the boys "just this once" for old times sake. I really thought that's all I was worth. An alcoholic emotionally abusive drug addict. Oh God if only I could go bad in time and slap some sense into my dumb Pickme ass.
/r/askFDS16/03/21 07:01 AM
16

You have to realize that male feelings are wonderfully, brutally binary: A man either loves you completely, or he doesn't care if you live or die. If your man makes a habit of disrespecting you, talking down to you, acting hot and cold, or never quite treats you with the love and respect you deserve - despite Communicating with him about his behavior - then you can be absolutely certain that he does not love you at all. Thus you don't have to worry about hurting him by dumping him: His love for …
/r/askFDS15/03/21 12:43 PM
11

I love Lelo brand, they use really high quality nontoxic materials and they’re very discreet with shipping.
/r/askFDS15/03/21 03:04 AM
33

"If you have to ask, the answer is never."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:05 PM
11

I prefer to call it "tough love" lol. I try to tell people the things I wish someone had told me when I was being jerked around by my narc ex. God if only I'd had FDS before I met that fucker.
/r/askFDS14/03/21 03:38 PM
76

This is straight up misogynist propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:01 AM
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"This is the woman I love and want to spend the rest of my life with, so I'm going to string her along for nearly a decade and act like a jackass most of the time." - Said no man ever. I don't know who's crazier: The grownass man wandering around your house singing nursery rhymes and babbling nonsense for hours on end, or you for putting up with him! Not only has he wasted nearly a decade of your life, he spends hours doing the most annoying things he can think of just to piss you off! He hates …
/r/askFDS14/03/21 08:38 AM
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These are wonderful tips! Something that helps me through the really bad times - especially at night - is the Shepherd's Chapel 24/7 bible study stream on YouTube. The pastors there teach the Bible with no spin, and no sexism that I've seen. So rare these days to be able to just listen to the Bible without someone trying to push an agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:08 PM
5

If you're an adult and are in a stable and safe place in your life, it might not hurt to reach out to her over social media to see if she's since gotten sober and bettered herself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:52 PM
27

Therapist time.
/r/askFDS13/03/21 06:03 PM
19

Time for Reddit to go on another purge I bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:26 PM
5

No.
/r/askFDS13/03/21 03:59 AM
4

My ex was like that. If I told him I didn't like something, he'd blow up and go on a rant and turn it around to where I was the one who'd disrespected and insulted him! And I'd apologize, dumbass Pickme that I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:48 AM
3

Fake it. Wait until you get a cold or the flu and then wildly exaggerate the symptoms. Take on like it's the worst sickness you've ever had in your life and you're dying. Absolutely cannot get out of bed or take care of yourself at all. Really be obnoxious and needy when asking for care, more-so than you normally would be, and drag it out for as long as possible. Remember, the point is to gauge just how much empathy he really has. Anyone can fake it for a few days or fetch the occasional box of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:44 AM
2

How can anyone not think saying that would get you instantly dumped?! lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:57 AM
5

I think the single biggest red flag out there is the "all my ex-girlfriends are crazy" line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:40 AM
8

Nothing brings out the LV-in-disguise like sickness. This guy could've been married to her 20 years, and the minute she got sick he would've split. On the cancer wards they tell the nurses to be prepared to be extra supportive and encouraging to their married female patients because the husband is probably going to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:33 AM
6

“How dare these women not date mentally ill broke men with small penises!! Misandry!!” Are we even sure she IS a she? I’m honestly starting to wonder if this was actually a guy larking as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:40 AM
35

Everything in the news is made up. They just have to quote “anonymous sources” and then they can say literally anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:18 AM
11

Pickmes feeling pressed lol 😂 Thanks for the free publicity idiots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:16 AM
2

Yeah I totally believe the prince of England was watching an obscure foreign Netflix potboiler hardly anyone had ever heard of. Especially since he said that AFTER they got together. “Oh yeah for sure I watched your show babe, you’re like so famous...” Sorry to burst your bubble but Meg is the queen of the pickmes: She chases after rich men, she whines about how she needs to be pwotected by her man, she monopolizes her man and separates him from his friends and family, and she she starts needles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:09 AM
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This is gonna sound harsh, but two months is simply not long enough to determine whether or not a relationship is healthy. Or even if you're really IN a relationship at all. Did HE initiate the "the talk?" does HE agree you two are exclusively dating? Or are you assuming things and he's just nodding along? At two months this guy is still a stranger trying to sell you something. He has nothing invested in you, and has every motive to lie his ass off to get what he wants from you. Masturbating 10 …
/r/askFDS10/03/21 08:18 AM
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Omg I have been saying this for YEARS!!! People absolutely lose their damn minds, saying I'm being deceitful or trying to trap a man. NO! A HVM will understand why you are not advertising that you have kids to every weirdo on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:34 AM
3

Crippling anxiety and depression, panic attacks, chronic fatigue, insomnia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:02 PM
2

I admit "stalking?!" You're actually sitting here saying I'm stalking Meghan Markel by reading about her on social media? Girl, I'm sorry but you are crazy as hell lmao. I'm not even gonna read the rest of your nonsense, I don't have time for that. Thanks for the laugh and buh-bye xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:05 AM
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He pursued her after she "networked" her way into the circles he traveled in. A random D-list celeb from America just happened to run into an English prince? No romantic ambition on her part whatsoever? Ok lol Look, I can tell you're like a level 5 acolyte in the Cult of Megan and you're feeling personally attacked right now. But my opinions about her are based on several years of watching her behavior and life choices, how she treats her family and friends, etc. Not the obsessive rantings of on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:39 AM
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If at all possible, I'd attend a sermon or two alone first, to get a read on the preacher. If I didn't like him, we wouldn't go. But if that wasn't possible I would absolutely walk out. I will walk out of anything at any time, especially a "church" that's not teaching the Bible. I would be straight up with her: "Baby we sat there half an hour and that man read maybe ONE verse from the Bible out of context. That's not a church, that's a stage for a pathetic little man to spout his views and opini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:13 AM
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Having ambition and/or rising above one's lot in life by your own merit doesn't make you a climber. A climber is someone who rockets to the top of the ladder by riding the coattails of someone else through sex or marriage or some other emotional connection. Markel has achieved the level of riches and fame she has by marrying the spare heir of England, and not much else: Climber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:32 AM
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Christian here: Nothing in the Bible backs up anything this asshole says. He is 100% full of shit. In fact his Bible is open in the middle, which would be the book of Psalms, literally prayers and songs of praise to God that have nothing to do with the subject. If you're interested in teaching your daughter basic Christian beliefs without any sexist or political nonsense, the Shepherd's Chapel streams Bible study 24/7 on YouTube, and the pastors there just read and teach the Bible as written and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:18 AM
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Maybe you should make a public list of these non-approved FDS subs and disavow any association with them? I just bet they will start posting insane man-hating stuff trying to make FDS look guilty by association.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:15 PM
5

Pierce Morgan is tabloid hack, but they're all awful people tbh. Meghan Markle is a fake and manipulative grasping social climber, Harry is an unseasoned chicken cutlet of a person who just molds himself and his political views to whatever Meghan wants, and "The Firm" is just a bunch of bored rich people with nothing better to than bully each other like a bunch of high school mean girls (remember that racist "blackamoor" brooch that one royal wore to lunch with Meghan?) They all just sit around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:07 PM
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FDS has the best mod team on Reddit, period. Maybe the entire internet. It makes me sad there isn't some way to get them recognition or an award or something. They've taken modding to an art form- and I'm not one to really like mods as a general rule. But DAMN. It's not that they are quick to remove male trolls, smartass comments, whataboutists, or DeViL'S AdVOcATEs, it's that they some-damn-how manage to keep them from even happening at all. I have NEVER seen as single male hate comment here EV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:09 PM
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It's most relationships period. In fact some studies suggest LGBTQ+ relationships have higher rates of abuse than hetero ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:54 AM
10

Translation: "They chose books, I chose looks, and now the only thing I have going for me in life is my fading sex appeal to LVM and I'm salty as fuck about it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:42 AM
133

"ThaTs OnLY BeCAuSE YoU WonT LeGALiZe ProSTiTutIon" *Meanwhile countries with legalized prostitution have higher rates of organized crime and human trafficking while rates of violence and murder among prostitutes remained the same or were only slightly lowered*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:17 AM
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This one gives me a lot of mixed feelings tbh... Maybe it's because I'm so depressed, but I am actually the sort of person who would keep a video like this (not that I would ever make a sex tape but if for some insane reason I did) as a means of having a window to a past time in my life where I looked good and was happy. It would not have any sexual value for me, but it would be kind of proof for myself that I was beautiful and happy and bin love at some point... and perhaps I can one day be tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:58 AM
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The idea that "opposites attract" and that true love should be "crazy and illogical," is just another subtle means of steering women away from picking men based foremost on their life choices and what they actually bring to the table. "Sure I'm a brain surgeon and he's an unemployed artist and recovering heroine addict living with his ex-girlfriend, I know it sounds crazy, but the love and mutual respect and that Thaddeus and I have for each other just transcends all our differences and I just b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:00 PM
27

Love how he only put the first initial so he can deny it was from him if you go to the cops for him basically stalking you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:19 AM
122

"I'm really not bothered by my boyfriend giving me this Walmart jewelry counter ring, like really I'm not a sappy romantic at all lol I'd be happy with a bent paperclip ha ha..." *proceeds to write a small novel about how cheap the ring is and how everyone in her life makes fun of her for it*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:06 AM
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Mark my words: The dawn of sexbots will backfire on men horribly and I'm living for it lol For men, the whole point of women is to have someone to subjugate so they can feel superior. Their main interest in women - even beyond sex - revolves around causing them physical or emotional pain. Hurting women is even the point of the sexbots for them. You notice how you never really hear men talking about positive changes that will happen in their lives once they have their sexbot? You never hear anyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:12 AM
23

Plot twist: Flower Bro has been harassing this couple for months. When he followed them out to the deserted and attacked them mid-blowjob, the bf finally snapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:23 AM
10

He sounds like a little boy having a tantrum. Voice cracking. Men are so repulsive when they get like this. You're not intimidating you're pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:08 AM
83

This isn't a relationship, this is just churched up prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:18 AM
530

THIS. Whatever body type is hardest for women to obtain during the time, that's what men claim they want. Because it's not really about how women look. Men will have sex with almost anyone. Their true preferred body type is "hole." Body types have two purposes: 1) Allowing men to power-trip off making women jump through hoops, tear themselves apart, hate their bodies, hate other "prettier" women, and gorge/starve themselves to obtain a shape that is not natural or not easy for them to get. 2) Ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:16 AM
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"Boys will be boys" is supposed to mean "boys will like fart jokes and playing with monster trucks" NOT "boys will be abusive sexually predatory assholes."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:36 PM
176

Omg chill bro, I can't talk to you when you're this emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:22 PM
58

I'd mail a letter to EVERYONE on his street and yours, warning them about the peeping tom at X address. I'd include his number and printed screen shots of the texts he sent, and tell them how the cops blew you off. I'd make sure he gets one too, so HE knows that everyone else knows that he's the pervert that threatened you. That way he'll know that if something happens to you or your property, he'll have like 100 people who can testify that he threatened you. Also, and I hate to say this, but he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:16 PM
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This dude is working up the nerve to commit rape, I guarantee it. He lost his nerve when this girl fought back, but he is actively looking for a victim and he WILL find eventually. Just a matter of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:37 AM
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Ok so your danger level just went to the TOP?! Please get out ASAP, take any pets with you, and don't back without someone with you to get your things :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:37 PM
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Yaaaaas omg I love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:02 PM
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"I prefer masturbation to having real sex with real people." ...and you're telling us this becaaaause...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:52 PM
181

KanYE JuST NeEDs A BLaCk KWEeEeN... Nope. Kanye NEEDS to gets therapy and become medication compliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:47 AM
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