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| 43 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? | Conversation | FrozenOppressor | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:03 PM |
| 14 | Strong IOIs throughout 4-hour date, escalated twice, hard rejection next day - field report + looking for analysis | Field Report | FrozenOppressor | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 05:15 PM |
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| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?That’s fair. I agree the interaction was probably ambiguous rather than clearly romantic. My question wasn’t whether attraction must be instant, but whether some connections that start neutrally can still develop given a second meeting. It seems like in this case, that second step just may not happen — and that’s information in itself. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?can you elaborate on this? "It also feels a bit more like for her its just friends, not romantic. But same could be said for you." What makes you think that? | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 11:18 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?Thanks. You're sure? | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?damn. I misread this.... You're not together for a year? It's been a year and she hasn't texted you back? | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?Haha ngl... this was the kind of response I'm looking for. Sadly, this is the only one in this entire thread :( | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?but why say yes in the first place? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?So I shouldn't text her next week? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 4 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?yes true | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?But don't these casual meetups kinda lead to the friendzone? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 06:14 PM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?So I need to work on generating tension and focusing on polarity? I guess the conversation we had was not enough? As in we connected emotionally .... but don't many couples meet this way? Doesn't attraction come often at a later meeting? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 06:06 PM |
| 3 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?bro, this is so confusing.... | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 05:03 PM |
| -1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?so she won't reach out? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 05:03 PM |
| 0 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?I just don't connect with women in general, unlike most other men(?) I made it a point to do something social for every day of the week... I met and spoke to a lot of women. And just didn't have the same kind of connection. That's why I felt so good when I connected with her and that's why I'm eager for this to happen.... | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 05:02 PM |
| 0 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?and just curious how old were you when this happened? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:47 PM |
| 12 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?so don't text her at all if she doesn't text me? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:45 PM |
| 7 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?ugh this is so tricky... I don't want to seem needy and desperate and begging if I reach out to her again next week... like what should I text next week if she doesn't reach out? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:22 PM |
| -1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?Thank you! Were you the one who was always reaching out to her? And how old were you when this happened? The uncertainty is so frustrating... | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 3 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 04:18 PM |
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