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Frozen_Existence/r/seduction07/02/17 03:52 AM
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Tell her to grow tf up and be an adult. If she can do adult things like sex she should have the mental capacity to understand the "he's not my boyfriend so I can't tell him what to do" thought process. And if she does make a scene just say something along the lines of "why would I date someone who acts like a child instead of pulling me aside like AN ADULT and telling me your concerns." Also, if she does make a scene you wouldn't wanna date her anyway because then that's how all your future figh…
/r/seduction02/05/18 12:02 PM
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When I get this shit test my usual go to is (depending on where I am) Club: "nahh, I rarely ever go out to be honest. I'm always _____ (working or studying...whatever fits your life) and I finally decided to take a night out." I'm a student so my go to is studying which always leads to a broader conversation like what's your major or whatever. Usually easy to escalate from there. Ex: oh you're a psychology major...explains why you can get out of my head or something stupid like that. But please …
/r/seduction04/03/18 09:54 AM
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Honestly, jumping head first right into the sauce isn't what you should be doing. Take some time for yourself. Learn to be alone again. Get your "mojo" back. Pick up new hobbies, find new passions. Do other things and take your mind off of love/relationships/sex. Once you start to bloom as a person again everything else will follow. People often times confuse PUA as people who mastered how to make people happy around him where in reality he just mastered how to be happy to himself and that aura …
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:50 PM
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That's it right there. After my break up with my ex it was hard to accept the fact that I didn't have that closeness with someone who I could call or visit at a moments notice. But once you find the happiness in yourself and stimulate your social life by making new friends somehow the whole world just begins to open up. Source: was in shitty breakup, diagnosed depressed and now I'm happier than I've ever been. (Gym helped a lot).
/r/seduction24/12/17 03:57 PM
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Honestly I wouldn't say you can backpedal but you can definitely set a new standard. The way to go about this is to just hang out with him without the sex. If he comes over to watch a movie then that's exactly what you do. And if he makes a move turn it down. You don't sound like the promiscuous type so that should be relatively easy. Every group of friends is like that. Gossipy etc...but you can't let that bother you. Now I wouldn't say "I keep my affairs private" is a red flag buuuttttt, you g…
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:38 AM
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Well first and foremost, hang out with the guy one on one in situations that don't involve sex. For instance, go on a date with the man. In this scenario, at least you'll really find out what he thinks of you and you'll create an opportunity for trust. Also, why is this a secret in your friend group. How is he supposed to take it serious when it's as subtle as it gets. Personally after reading that it really does seem that you're just a hole. And as terrible as that sounds someone who acts like …
/r/seduction13/09/17 01:42 AM
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First you have to acknowledge the fact that his mentality may or may not be as strong as can be, that he can break down at any moment. Also, when he brings up ANYTHING about his ex, pay really close attention as to what he likes/doesn't like/what she was like. This'll help you point out what may or may not trigger a reaction. Do realize that a person's psyche isn't a simple thing. For me, it was always super complicated to express my thoughts into words, much less explain what was going on in my…
/r/seduction12/09/17 11:56 PM
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Kinda complicated situation because it's never easy to try and explain what's going on inside anyone's head. If he notices other guys hitting on you and gets to a certain extent jealous then I think it's fair to say that he has at least some sort of romantic feelings toward you. Beyond that it's hard to say. If his divorce was relatively recent then you need to let the man heal. As a guy who's been heartbroken I can tell you there are a lot of everyday things that we do that trigger memories and…
/r/seduction12/09/17 05:39 AM
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Simply put, not worth your time. Personally I'd tell you she's not interested but then again, I've never both of you in my life. And on the far off chance she is interested, do you really want someone as wishy-washy as that? I'll answer that for you. No you don't. Move on man. Like I said at the beginning, not worth a second more of your time.
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:32 AM
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Honestly, I love sex. Sex is fun and great.....and good cardio. But at the same time I find it enjoyable in a slightly different way that I can get off without having to go look good and say the right things and all the foreplay. I have sex 1-9 times a week. But I also masterbate almost every day.
/r/seduction25/08/17 04:04 PM
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Ahhh, I remember those days.... In a less condescending tone, the first thing you need to do is learn how to do the stuff properly. Learn how to finger, learn how guide the girl into what you want. Just browse seddit and there's an endless library of experienced people explaining how to guide a girl. After that you have 1 more thing to do. Just ask her. Like straight up. Just ask her if she wants to move forward. The biggest problem for you is your age. At your age everyone is experiencing new t…
/r/seduction08/07/17 03:19 PM
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I've been raving for years, clubs and festivals. This might seem like a shock but the best way to handle this, assuming you want to grind, is to just ask the girl "hey, do you want to dance with me?". And it's best asked during either a slow part of a set when it's calmer or between sets. Now you might be thinking, wtf no. But I got proof. I used to date this girl that I used to go to events with like crazy and we often laughed at how guys would be creeps and whatever and I eventually asked her,…
/r/seduction08/07/17 01:27 PM
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It's less about what to do and more about what you need to become. Find shit you are passionate about doing. Art, music, sports...anything and build yourself up. Give yourself an interesting life. Once you're happy with where you are, and happy with yourself step 2 will be a breeze. You'll have loads to talk about etc...in terms of personality you need to be comfortable with who you are and embrace it. Some people say be "alpha" but you don't necessarily have to be that. Just smile, laugh, be co…
/r/seduction21/06/17 06:06 PM
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I look at it like this: you don't want to hit on every girl you see and you don't want to be considered annoying. That being said, if you see someone at the gym that you wouldn't see any where else then don't you think it's worth a shot? You don't know if/when/where you'd see her again so if you're really into someone and really think you can then go do it. Just don't be an annoying prick and interrupt her. Between sets or workouts or something like that.
/r/seduction21/06/17 05:42 PM
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I don't like that one personally. It's really aggressive. I'd reference the sex. Joke about how good it was. I honestly wanna help but there's just a lot of details I don't know
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:43 PM
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Something along the lines of hey, had fun last night or something like that. Depends on your personality and how she views you. Tbh. If she sees you as a funny guy, make a joke about it or something
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:37 PM
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Idk man, you asked if you should text and my answer is yes. Anything beyond that idk because I don't have all the details
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:32 PM
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Fucking text her. That waiting shit is bullshit. How would you feel if you were a girl who was into a guy and you finally decided that you're gonna give him your body. And after that the fucker doesn't text you. Probably not the greatest.
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:25 PM
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You got 2 choices. 1) be blunt af about it with her and bring it up. Tell her you didn't mean for it to go that way or 2) you can take it slow and meet up with her and not make a move to sleep with her until she feels like she means more to you than a hole.
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:17 PM
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Exactly what the other guy said. All you gotta do is initiate the "hey I got something to ask you" conversation. It just depends on how the night is going. If it has a serious tone just match that. If the tone is fun and playful, match that.
/r/seduction07/06/17 07:17 PM
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Nice meaning not being a douche. I don't mean nice like being a cuck
/r/seduction07/06/17 07:15 PM
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Honestly, have a fucking talk with HB7. Both of you guys are playing a guessing game on how the other person feels and it's detrimental to the both of you. Sit down, talk to her, see how she feels about you and move on from there. Otherwise you're gonna just keep guessing.
/r/seduction07/06/17 05:36 PM
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Just my 2 cents on this topic: nice guys don't finish last. Just depends on if you're being nice or being a slave. You can distinguish yourself from other guys by being "nice" just so long as you don't put women on a pedestal.
/r/seduction07/06/17 05:23 PM
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Lol just take it one step at a time. It will all come to you. You're already miles ahead of 99% of the other guys by going out and not being a pussy. Here's a pro tip though: I've been a player for a really long time. But I had my first head over heels, fell in love with, girlfriend from last March up to almost new years and I've felt more joy, happiness, pride and love in that 9 month relationship than I ever did as a player and (not as a brag) but I've been with a lot of girls. Imo, it's fun a…
/r/seduction05/06/17 05:09 PM
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My opinion: make a connection in person first before you text. You want to make it clear that your relationship with her is more than just classmates. (For example: if you text her hey while she thinks of you as only a classmate her subconscious reaction is going to be school related instead of friendly.) But that's my opinion....so....
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:45 PM
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Yeah, no. You don't dance with her friends lol. With friends you stay friendly and there are actual reason for that. The number 1 reason is that because again, unlike guys, a girls friend doesn't necessarily want her to go home with a random guy, so don't be a random guy. Let them get to know you...if that makes any sense. Not to mention you look less sleazy and more trustworthy. And by doing that you're not being a coward. You're being a human. Now hanging around her doesn't mean that you have …
/r/seduction05/06/17 12:40 PM
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Like you said, don't put all your eggs in one basket because what if she doesn't pull through. But you also don't want to be everywhere. I don't think there's an actual specific, magic number but it would be anywhere between 2 and 8. But I HAVE to say that it shouldn't be all within the same 15 min of each other. Like don't bounce from one to another (put a decent amount of time in between) because unlike us guys, girls don't think the way we do. If us guys were dancing with a girl and exchanged…
/r/seduction05/06/17 05:09 AM
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I can't tell you what to say exactly but I can tell you the general idea of what you should be achieving over time. 1) You want to make yourself sound interesting. If you're boring than trust me, you're going no where. 2) You want to not be clingy. Don't respond immediately all the time. Don't make it seem like you're on your phone ALL the time. (Ex: if you're messaging, then conversation ends, then she hits you up 3 hours later. Don't message her back immediatly. Give it some time. Like 15, 20 …
/r/seduction03/06/17 10:46 PM
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I'm 19. I've been a player most of my post-pubescent life (I'm not gonna lie, puberty hit me like a train) but out of all that I only had 1 girl that made me completely, head over heels, fall in love. Someone who when it ended I actually got depressed and suicidal and shit. The thing that really, I mean really stood out to me was that this girl not only cared for me like no one else did but she was her own person. She was strong, independent, and self loving. I didn't become her life, I just mad…
/r/seduction01/06/17 04:52 AM
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Honestly, yeah that's right they aren't objects and they have their own thought process but you just have to tell your friend to stfu because he's being greedy. If anything, say that you'll go out with him but you won't wingman and he'll notice that he needs you. Or again just say you're done with him until he learns to be a friend and not a frat douche. Look at the end of the day if he said anything that you think he'd say he's right but it comes down to Bros before hoes. Don't be greedy and do…
/r/seduction20/05/17 03:24 PM
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3 things you could do. 1) talk to said friend and tell him to stop being a douche. To let you have a turn. Either that or you stop picking up with him. 2) find someone who matches up to you in terms of physical looks. That way the competition between you two is purely on what comes out of your mouth which seems that you have the upper hand. 3) find the beta cuck and you're talking about but the risk is that maybe you open but the girls stay because of the attractive guy? Up to you. I say do ever…
/r/seduction20/05/17 02:47 PM
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Everything in the top post and 1 more thing. You gotta realize that if your life is a mess and you're a disaster that no one is going to want to be with you. You need to get your shit together before you can even hope to move to girls. So seduction really isn't the right subreddit for this tbh. Source: was once suicidal and I self harmed because of a break up and the road to "fix" yourself isn't an easy one but it's definitely the only road if you want to be happy(ier).
/r/seduction20/05/17 02:20 PM
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Thanks, I always look back and see how far I've come. It's much more about finding your motivation in yourself rather than not having it because motivation brings out the best in all of us. The thing with your therapist though (now I know I'm a guy on the internet so may or may not listen but) you really do need to tell her everything. Hiding things is very very dangerous. I never thought myself as someone to do what I did and I hid it all but looking back if I just said something nothing might …
/r/seduction02/05/17 07:34 PM
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First off, this might be for better or worse but everything you're going through is completely normal and I can't stress that enough. When I was with my ex, like you, everything I did was motivated by her. Improved my physique, for her. Improved how I dressed, for her. Did better in college, for her. Etc...you get the idea. Something that you need to do is improve yourself for yourself. And I know, at first this might seem crazy. What's the point right? But I can tell you from experience that be…
/r/seduction02/05/17 07:04 PM
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Thanks for this post. Honestly, I up until recently have been in such a bad place because of a break up I went through with my ex. Embarrassingly enough I used to drink myself into oblivion every night and at the worst of it I cut and was suicidal but I needed to read or hear those words. I don't want this and this kick in the ass was exactly what I needed. I don't wanna be this, I need to make that choice. Thank you. Time to fix my life and be the man I want to be. That I need to be. Crazy how …
/r/seduction02/05/17 06:48 PM
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I remember being like that. Back in November I was broken up with after dating a girl for almost a year. I loved that girl to say the least. After a lot of shit happened between me and her I jumped into other girls. I had the same problem. Didn't get hard (was super embarrassing) and lost all sexual desires. I can tell you that the shittest advice is also the one that actually works. It's time, you need time. Don't just hop into another girl. Let yourself get over your ex. As for me, I only just…
/r/seduction01/05/17 03:23 PM
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What this guy said, leagues don't exist. Well mostly. Unless said person is an absolute train wreck and the other is a model but even then maybe not. My guess isn't that she's a model and you're a train wreck so for all intents and purposes it doesn't exist for you.
/r/seduction07/02/17 03:03 PM
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Primarily it's looks. It basically means that your "friends" think she is so much more attractive than you that she won't even give you the time of day. In simpler terms: every person according to their looks have a level of person that other people match them with. For example, have you ever gone out and saw a couple and thought "wtf is she doing with him, shes so attractive."? Its that in a nutshell and if your friends saw you guys together they would think the same thing. Honestly, I say fuck…
/r/seduction07/02/17 03:00 PM
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So essentially just get myself upset and then calm down is what your saying? And what about picking up girls? Should that even be a focus for me anymore?
/r/seduction07/02/17 02:51 PM
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