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I agree with others, she has already downgraded you. She is bringing up the "not right for each other" and "lets be fuck buddies" to let you know without directly saying it. She is taking the lead here. Probably waiting for you to agree. Just start looking for other women. I wouldn't bother saying anything to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:26 PM
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Judo is superb for young kids. Starts at age 6 here in Canada. If you are considering it, look at your country's national juso association and look to see clubs near you. It will help you avoid the McDojos. There are also city run clubs that are not part of the national association, however it is common for the sensei to be a member.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:12 AM
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If you can, do both. If you are in a good martial arts club with lots of sparring, you will gain stamina. Weights for the muscles. If you can only choose one, do the one you love best.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:08 AM
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Anyways, her previous sexual escapade was one with a friend of mine who had a GF and was about to go to jail. I am almost certain that our 'relationship' wouldn't have developed if he hadn't gone to jail. You were her second choice. These ones aren't worth committing to.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:53 PM
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A little more truth wouldn't hurt. Get her to realize that "good enough shape" to her may not be "in good shape" to attract quality.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:31 PM
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-Shut Up- Good advice. I would change it to -Shut Up Listen Absorb-
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:18 PM
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It was a bit bumpy when I first told her but she understood that there is a good chance the company I am working for is going to sink, and it is better to leave on my terms than leave on theirs (going out of business or getting laid off) I did though take the bull by the horns and handled all the issues before she even brought them up. Arranged extended childcare, money management, even have my buddies agree to keep an eye on them and give them a hand if there are emegencies. Had I not taken tho…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:59 PM
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That fits in well with the N count. Well I only gave oral so that doesn't count, or I took it up the ass so I didn't consider that sex because P in V is sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:19 PM
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I don't have issues with anyone who has an STD. You can get it anywhere. What bothers me is her attitude behind it. It was this that really stuck out 85% of us have HPV and most of you fools don't know it. What this says to me is that it is your responsibility to know there is a good chance I am infected, not my responsibility to tell you that I actually am. If I was single and out dating women, this is something I should be told about so I can make an informed choice whether or not to consider …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:16 PM
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here is another comment that make me shake my head: had sex with 70 people in a rather short period of time (3-4 years) once I claimed my sexuality back Now that I'm over PTSD and depression and healthier then 95% of the dating pool, can not in fact kiss my ass because I have standards. 70 in 3-4 years??? high standards?? and from the same poster 85% of us have HPV and most of you fools don't know it. With 70 partners, I am sure she has had a few others. And let me guess, she doesn't tell men th…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:47 PM
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Yep she didn't meet expectations, out. But I don't get why he wouldn't want to see what she looked like before getting hitched, unless she intended on wearing her burka 24/7. a good zinger in the comments Well if it's arranged, you find out the hard way whether your parents love you or not. There is also a mini column in the article, a Saudi guy divorced his wife because she was spending too much time on her phone chatting to respond to his own message to her. From what it said this had been a l…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:13 PM
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My Field report I can see the company I am working for is going down the tubes. Poor executives, poor hiring decisions, productivity is taking a nosedive. Started networking, called up a buddy who floated the idea of me moving to his company a few months ago. Totally unrelated field to what I am doing now but have lots of experience in it from my earlier days. Had the interview today, starting a new job in January. I informed the wife today and she was a bit pissed as I will be away a lot until …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:00 PM
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The Swedish model is the preferred feminist solution. It liberates women from the responsibilities and pushed the punishment onto men. The old prostitution laws were tossed out by the Supreme Court here in Canada and they recently adopted the nordic model. The feminists said women were oppressed and forced into it or had no choice and insinuated even the ones who chose to be in it were oppressed, they just didn't know it. They also brought up the slave labour/abduction arguements which in itself…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:56 PM
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What a load of crap. So we have gone from a minor disagreement, where a WOMAN tries to be controlling by threatening to send her hubby to a couch to get her way to using controlling behaviour by men who cheat and beat their wives. Some people astound me.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:53 PM
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Yes you missed the point entirely. She tried to make him the second class citizen in the house by threatening to tell him to take the couch. He said that is not going to happen but you can choose to take the couch if you want.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:25 AM
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Married here. You mentioned you left some stuff out so it is hard to judge exactly what is going on. I do think you handled things correctly by setting boundaries using the divorce card, but her asking to see if you cared about her wanting a divorce was a test. It throws them off if you go rational (cold in womenspeak) as they are expecting you to get all beta on them and use it to gain control. One thing that we tend to miss out on including me, is how women communicate. A great read is Rollo's…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 03:49 PM
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everyone deserves a little respect I find I fall for this on occasion. There was a great quote in here that I think of that sets me straight. Nobody deserves respect, that is entitlement. All you owe people is civility. Respect must be earned.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:22 AM
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Others have mentioned marking her territory and I agree. It wouldn't surprise me to find out that picture isn't for you to stay faithful, it is letting other women know you are taken.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:43 PM
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I would say thats setting your sights a little low. I don't want to cause offence, or judge OP on his abilities, but electricians and plumbers are pretty limited on the high end income they can make, even business owners in those trades. Take a look what the trades pay. Take a look what happens when you have to call a plumber after hours for emergencies. These guys can do very well for themselves if they have the motivation, and are good at what they do. And best of all, they will ALWAYS be need…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 11:39 PM
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How do I enjoy my 20s when I'm ...in front of my fucking computer every night Cut back and find a hobby or two that involves meeting people face to face. I don't even understand how you get that fat in a poor area rofl. Poor people have poor diets. Women pushing fat acceptance say hey 150 years ago women were more "curvy" (fat) so it was good for men then and it should be good for them now. What they don't say is that that was an indicator of wealth. You could afford to eat. They were also the o…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:23 AM
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Is there another TRP reddit some place ? Where are these posts ? I have seen the VERY rare fucked up post and we see other subs jump on it and paint the community as a whole. It usually disappears pretty fast. But I have never seen anyone condone what was claimed.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:20 AM
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in college I got ripped but hardly anyone noticed What you mean is you got cut but made no gains in weight. Lift, eat, gain
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:27 PM
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you plate her whilst you're living with her, because you live with her and have no space/buffer zone between you and her you're not really plating her properly. She does and WILL want more. She will be pushing for commitment and getting you to girlfriend her up. Because she is living with him, she won't want more like commitment or g/f she will assume she already is there.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:21 PM
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Take it like a man, son. Nothing special about it, they really are all like that, so don't waste any second thoughts on feeling hurt in your one happy sunshine moment or whatever. Hit the nail on the head. You should feel happy. Guess this month is gonna be about me moving so I should embrace it and make it fun. Damned straight. You have given yourself the best advice. Mope or have fun.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:19 PM
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Female roommates can be the worst. I had 2 of them. I had to put up with it for a year and a bit while I was in University. Absolute worst experience of my post secondary days. Catfights, backstabbing, emotional tamponing and playing referee. And then of course, them going out drinking coming home and pulling the same shit that female roommate of yours did. That lease couldn't end fast enough. Sadly the lease was in my name so I was stuck, and it can be difficult hoofing people out. Moral of the…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:15 PM
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She could have saved all 23 points by just making one. You shall put me on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:44 PM
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I started on Nov 1st but didn't add anything here so I will now. I have time off from work and get into bad habits pretty fast that need to go. Wasting time on the internet. Too much gaming. No junk food. - temptation galore as my kids are constantly offering me their Halloween chips etc and I am doing the majority of the grocery shopping while home so have access to junk food @ the grocery store. Get at least 8 hours sleep every day. Stop skipping meals. No junk food should help that.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:53 AM
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I don't think the two work together at all. Rp works with reality, the here and now. Feminism is all about how they think things should be, wants to engineer society to their benefit and will create drama and hysteria using both real information AND myths to forward their agenda. Feminism in the past has done many good things that I agree with. Now, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:02 PM
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i have made that wrong turn and am now in shitville. Everyone fucks up and shit happens. Your life isn't defined on what happens to you, it is defined on how you react to what happens. You admit you made a wrong turn, you know it, so fix it. And if you don't know where to start, ask more. dreaming about my goals Get your head on right and set them, don't dream. We see here a lot of get the career get in shape, get some high value hobbies. There are other things too. Goals can also be deciding wh…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:35 AM
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this must be some sort of wishful thinking/exaggerated bragging, maybe trying to convince themselves and others that they are worthy of such attention. You forgot to include "poor me the victim" part to get attention.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:51 PM
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I dated him for 10 months when I thought he was penniless, proof I'm not a fucking gold-digger He never took me out for fancy dinners or anything. If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't he want to treat her? He could have easily kept our relationship alive by being forthcoming (he be loaded) Such entitlement. And gold digging. And she can't see it?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:59 AM
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I have a different mindset. Yes, women are the gatekeepers of sex, but as we have seen time and time again, they are willing to throw themselves at that top 20%. The top 20% can be picky as they are the prize. With 7 regular plates sounds like he has got himself up there in SMV and is the prize. He can pick and choose who qualifies.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:02 PM
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Right, and since there's some amount of irrational revenge motive, OP should be supplying his own condoms and taking any other precaution he can, including mechanisms to prevent false accusations. I won't argue with you there, but it seems he is taking a bit of pleasure in the revenge too. Each to his own.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:50 PM
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You have 7 plates. Why bother? You are rewarding her for her past behaviour by still screwing her. if she never fucked up and we had sex like that all the time, I might stick a ring on that bitch If you are still thinking that, she isn't just a plate. Revenge and feels. Time to move on. should I stop sticking my dick in crazy and move on She isn't necessarily crazy as you haven't mentioned she did anything nuts, she just can't be trusted to be loyal.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:55 PM
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It was the beginning by the sounds of it here: ontariokink.com/cbc-host-announces-firing-implies-bdsm-as-reason/ I just didn't want to link it because I wasn't sure if kink sites were permitted or not. So I won't make it a live link and if the mods want to change it, or edit it, please do. The kink site insinuated it was her who got the ball rolling. XOJane article -> he gets fired after filling in CBC. They skipped all the rest of the info. I just read the national post and the star. According …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:18 PM
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According to people in the BDSM community Carla Ciccone a freelance writer for XOJane And here is her article with her version of the encounter: https://archive.today/H0oim
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:21 AM
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bang on Forget the tattoos, forget chainsmoking - you should have called her out when she showed up looking like a mess on your first date. And I'm not talking about playfully jabbing her about it, I mean you should have looked her straight in the eye and told her point blank that this isn't going to cut it, and then you should have left. this I put her in place after a cancellation that happened twice in a row. She didn't like that. Letting her get away with it 1x is too much. She valued her ti…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 04:34 PM
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Why can't I be confident? Because you aren't alllowing yourself to be confident. You aren't recognizing your achievements, you aren't giving them value. And you are not saying you are trying to improve. Are you? You are no longer the skinny loser in high school. But your mindset is when it shouldn't be. The above posters have hit the nail on the head. Recognize your weaknesses and improve them. Can't bring yourself to talk to women or feel a bit awkward? Force yourself to just start a random con…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:14 AM
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I picked up a new hobby just for interests sake. I don't NEED to do it, I did it because I wanted to. Leatherworking. It has nothing to do with my career, nothing to do with martial arts instruction, I did it because I wanted to. Now I can make all sorts of high quality products for myself without laying out tons of cash. It is a life skill. if a man wants to study medicine, code computers, learn Spanish, work out and learn to cook why the hell would you be giving him shit. You should commend hi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 01:01 AM
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Men should ask for 20k to freeze their sperm and get vasectomies. Save them from knocking up randoms and being dragged into court for months on end to fight over child support payments. /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:55 PM
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you just can't make this stuff up lol
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:01 PM
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Gonna have to post there for a bit I feel like doing the same thing but I would have no idea how to approach it. They are all in there for a variety of reasons but the same end result and there won't be a cure all. I am not sure that internet posting will do much good. From what I can see they need real human interaction, almost like we see with those big brothers and sisters clubs that can offer on the spot guidance and confidence building.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:34 PM
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There are guys actually setting up meeting with other guys on there I am assuming most of foreveralone are men. I can't imagine a life being utterly alone. I applaud that they are getting out and doing something. It is a positive first step and it should be encouraged. I noticed a few posts with some of them suffering from social anxiety. Aren't there medications that can help solve that or are they so uncomfortable being out that even seeing a doc is out of the question?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 10:30 PM
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Thus because men aren't playing the 'game' we can't lose... or win which brings me to TRP. By discussing ideas like this we propagate an environment where it is difficult for women to manipulate men, this results in them losing power and influence over men. Truth. Sadly there will always be men who will do whatever they can to get female attention even if they get screwed over multiple times. I know one guy who has been orbiting a female friend of my wife's for 10 YEARS, and he still hasn't figu…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:55 PM
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I don't need or want to hear anything about it. For sure or you run the danger of becoming her emotional tampon. Unneeded hassles.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 01:01 AM
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It will be interesting to see for sure. I can men just putting up a pic maybe answer a question or two and then just wait it out until something decent comes along as women now have to take the first step. This will become the lazy option for men. I can see the mid to low level men sticking on there longer term, and the women staying there at a minimum for attention whoring or entertainment purposes.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 04:56 PM
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I can see this app picking up for women. The low value women will flock to this so they can hide and sell themselves on their "personality".
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:15 AM
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Something society tells us daily, actually: Respect is earned. Actually I think society is telling us the exact opposite which may be leading to many of the problems we are witnessing. Respect has become an entitlement rather than something to be earned.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:42 AM
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Shopping for food to cook is a lot of work, then cooking it it's also a lot of work It can be. But if you have a chest freezer, you can cook for multiple meals and freeze. For instance, making a spaghetti sauce or stew, the time it takes isn't much longer cooking 1 meal or 5 of them. A little more prep time, but not much more. Every Sunday we cook a pile of food, pop it into the freezer and we only have to heat it up. Saves a ton of time during the weekdays when time is limited.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:24 PM
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Glad to hear things are doing well. Good Luck!
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:23 PM
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I think we are talking about different studies. This one specifically talks about race. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ Scroll down to the chart reply rate by race, male sender and you can see the numbers. White women prefer white men to the exclusion of everyone else—and Asian and Hispanic women prefer them even more exclusively. By the looks of it, these groups tend to prefer white guys so you scoring with these women is showing you are probab…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:48 AM
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You should go look at that okcupid study to see what the response rates between different ethnicities. As you said though you aren't doing as bad as you were doing while in college, so just work on your game.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:15 PM
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You need to change your perspective on things We cannot change our past but accept that what we were/what has happened to us has shaped us into the person we are today. Because you were in college, you got your diploma/degree and are working. Now you are doing much better with the women. Now you aren't a loner anymore You found tinder and are scoring I don't know if as a guy in my mid 20s I can have success with White American college girls Sounds to me like you have "white fever" (not sure the …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:23 PM
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What a terrible troll that woman was. And she made absolutely no sense. I wanted security for us and our family So how is divorcing him going to give extra security? He already gave all his money away. I'm sick of bloody charity and the hard work - we all are And there is the crux. She wanted the security without putting in any effort. I have nothing but respect for the husband. We need more people like him in the world. And less women like his ex-wife.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 12:02 PM
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According to this: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_21/sr21_024.pdf The data collection used estimates where available. In the early years, they used national data collectors named agents, but later they relied on stats provided by the states in order to save money. Some states didn't even provide information. Due to austerity (depression) data wasn't collected as it normally was 1907-1915, 1917-1921, 1933-1936 (estimated). WWII also caused some problems with collection.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:37 PM
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They also say guys in shape prioritize the gym over spending quality time with their significant others. an hour a day is taking away from spending quality time? Yikes. me me me
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:19 PM
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I had a discussion with a male feminist a few weeks ago and I just shook my head. No sense of reality at all. He is a borderline RADfem who also called himself a humanist. He was totally illogical, ignored reality and there was no method to his madness. He complained about the wage gap (average woman salary vs men): me: There are half a million families with a stay at home parent, and about 90% of women so there is a big difference right there him: oh that isn't enough to affect things me: What …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:20 AM
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but mostly because I feel like I'd need to ask for permission to go and I want to avoid an argument. You need to work on that part for sure.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:42 AM
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I think it is a combination of both validating herself and shit test combined. Definitely don't get mad nor confrontational. This is one of those prove yourself things. You can have some fun with this. One evening while in bed my wife told me she got hit on, so I reached into the drawer beside me and with a shit eating smirk I tossed her a condom and said well you should keep this in your purse but don't forget to bring lube. She had a good laugh, threw it back at me and the discussion was over.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:37 AM
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have a trophy case area for athletic trophies (could even be a shelf). a bar area never hurts with the core of what you drink and a few of those small single oz bottles they give as promos to add some variety in case visitors don't drink what you have have at least one book on how to mix some drinks good sound on the TV and whatever you use to play your tunes book case stuff from your hobbies
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:55 AM
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Don't get too excited about it yet. It has to go through more rigorous studies to get FDA approval. According to VOX
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:43 PM
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Watch out for the friendzone
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:57 AM
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The cosmetics industry flogging the younger skin creams etc. will clean up too.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:30 AM
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Become a plastic surgeon and promise 30-35 years old women they will look younger so they might be able to compete.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:29 AM
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I didn't listen to my gut instinct about a situation - evolution has honed those instincts into us all for a reason, it served our ancestors well, and we should respect it. Screw society or perceived racism. This is so important. I have no doubt our gut instincts cover all facets of our lives, including the women we consider dating. A shame so many men allow desperation to shout louder than the gut instincts.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:20 PM
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I assume they would use a local anesthetic like a gel or something. I will totally get this done if they can prove it works but dammit a needle into my sack? I get the shudders thinking about it, but they do vasectomies and the patients don't feel anything so this can't or at least shouldn't be any worse. I would be interested in volunteering for the trial.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:58 PM
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I wonder how this will affect the 1 in 25 men are raising a child that isn't their own. Dudes screwing men's wives I imagine will get it done (well the PUA's anyways) And the divorce rate may go up if men get it done and wifey comes home knocked up
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:27 PM
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for a future in which birth control responsibility is more equitably shared across the genders. In other words, men can protect themselves even if the woman decides it is time to start a family
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:21 PM
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I would link to the Men on Strike book and discussions on youtube etc but I know I would be banned within seconds of clicking save in that sub. Eventually they will figure it out by themselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:01 PM
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Keep away from crazy women
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:38 PM
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In a city like Regina there must be tons of hair places. The woman who started this is just attention whoring.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:06 PM
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I remember a show a few years ago called Sin Cities. They toured around different cities and looked into the kink community. There were lots of dominatrix women in the episodes and I remember there were always had these high profile CEO type clients and they would come to get totally humiliated, whipped, spanked and all sorts of stuff. This submissive part of their life was totally hidden and limited to just the one person doing the things to them. Their reasoning was I am the boss every day but…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:03 PM
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Thanks. Not sure why you are surprised. I have been teaching Judo longer than most of the people in here have been alive so have been exposed to everything under the sun during that time :) There is an old saying that if you want your black belt, you can get it for $8.00 at a martial arts store. In judo each club is different. We do do katas, in fact you have to have the first set of the katas for your black belt. It is done to demonstrate you are competent in the technical side of the throws. W…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:36 AM
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You train with them, talk with them. Doesn't matter that you are a beginner, they were all beginners at some point. Go out with them after training to chill out. play video games, watch movies and read books. Join a book club, join in a video game tourney. Some gamer stores have tournaments in their stores. Sometimes unis have movie nights on the campus pubs. I'm scared to dump 800 dollars on gear, lessons and accommodation to just be up there alone. Look for a ski club on campus? Rent gear, the…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:43 AM
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The ability to find something to talk about and start friendships. ....Go to class, attempt to start conversations with girls and guys in class that go nowhere, go to the gym, go to a new club/party/social event alone and fail to start conversations or connect because everyone just went their with their own friends and then ride the bus home alone. No other things you do such as hobbies? There are also usually groups that are run and supported by the student associations. Find something that int…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:19 AM
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The simple answer to this problem? When you give her the ring to be engaged, wrap it in the prenup.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:14 PM
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This brings up an important question in my mind. Is it better to call a lying cheating woman out(in any circumstance) or walk away and put her shit on the curb. Both. No need to argue about it if you have proof. Just state the fact, then move the stuff out by the end of the week just like the guy did on the radio. What would you do if you found out after the fact; when your relationship was over that she was cheating the entire time? You are already out of the relationship so there is nothing yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:10 PM
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I mean top drawer crazy Been there done that. Always a fun ride until shit gets real. After witnessing a collapse of epic proportions I learned to keep away, but each to his own. Enjoy the ride lol. STI test or not, they are opnly good for the day they are taken and even then not always accurate or able to pick up the ugly diseases out there like recently contracted HIV. You gotta wear the plastic with these girls. They are way too unpredictable.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:22 PM
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I asked him why he laughed with his friends, and not with me. She doesn't want to admit she sucked the life out of him. But just with her. As soon as he is out with his friends it comes back. She did him a favour. Good luck to the next guy she dates.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:39 AM
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I saw that and just shook my head. I thought it was a troll post. Guy gives up his education and career, moves all for her and she shows him is a boot to the curb and then turns to the internet to validate her actions. I have to give TwoX some credit here for the majority calling her out on her callousness. What she did was REAL cold. God when will men learn to stop putting women on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:23 PM
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If you have nudes in digital format you run the risk of them being leaked if you share them. Sure you can HOPE they don't, you can believe whoever you shared them with won't, but if you store it publicly or share them, the risk is yours to take. Claming everyone is an abuser for being stupid in the first place? Right. Want to do them and not get recognized? Don't include your face in the pic. Personal responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:40 PM
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Depends on the strike and the commitment. What we often will do is use patience, keep out of reach and piss them off so they over commit (chase). When that happens they are out of balance and that is the time to go in and execute a throw.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:37 PM
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also it depends on how well they learned wrestling. One of our wrestlers represented Canada. He was a superb wrestler and used everything in his toolbox. The problem was their stance and their weight distribution. That one foot forward defensive stance left them open to foot attacks and side body throws like uchi mata. It is just a weakness of wrestling, same as Judo has a weakness against strikes. Once we adjusted his stance (whch he then went on to use in wrestling depending on his opponent) h…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:30 PM
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Just out of curiosity, how long were you in wrestling and Judo? We had some excellent wrestlers join our club and we used to own them all the time using Ashi Waza when they first started due to their defensive stance.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:37 PM
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Fight with older guys or pick and choose your sparring partners. When you start out you won't be sparring as you have to learn first. During that time you can observe the others and you will pick out the crazies and can avoid them. Most others will want to avoid them too. The one thing about us older guys is we all want to be able to walk into work the next day.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:59 AM
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Oh trust me you can get charged using Judo. In many cases it is the result of the throw and the damage it causes. If you throw an untrained person and they crack their skull or break their arm because they extend it straight to stop the fall which is a subconscious body protection action (which Judoka unlearn and use breakfalls) you can get into a lot of shit. I have used Judo in fights and have placed my hand behind their skull in throws to prevent serious head injury. The rest of their body wa…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:51 AM
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but it's not really a useful skill in everyday life That is incorrect. You learn focus and discipline, develop stamina, self confidence, calmness under pressure, you learn to take a hit and as a by-product my wife knows that if she ever gets into trouble I can either diffuse the situation or end it. boxing is cooler than mma mma usually includes boxing
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:25 AM
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A good question. Depends on your lifting goals. If all you care about is bulking then less aerobics and good rest sure. But as far as I am concerned and this is my own perspective, I think we need to take a balanced approach. Aerobic exercise is good for the heart and great for stamina. I wouldn't do martial arts more than a 2-3x a week. And you have to accept injuries with martial arts so sometimes it will interfere with weight training requiring the occasional adjustment of programs to allow f…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:20 AM
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Boxing is great. Being on the receiving end of a headshot is par for the course but you should have protective equipment especially since you are a beginner/amateur. Mouthguards (to protect the teeth and to prevent the jaw from being slammed shut from an uppercut) and headgear at a minimum. But don't forget you will do a ton of training on the bags and body shields in addition to sparring.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:03 AM
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I would be cautious. Even in Judo where there is no striking, you get thrown around quite a bit and if you screw up your fall, your head can snap down and hit the mat, or get a whiplash sort of thing. Especially in beginners and grown men. Children not so much because they don't have the full force an adult has. I have witnessed a few incidents, both in club and in tournaments. Best to consult your doctor and if deemed safe definitely follow concussion protocols.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:57 AM
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Very true. But if we can't get close, we can't win.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:47 AM
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But lets not forget, we also do limit the force to which we apply arm bars, joint manipulation and chokes. If we seriously injury training partners within our clubs, other practisioners see us as reckless and won't train or spar with us. So to an extent, even we don't go full force with everything although we know just another inch or two and we break the arm. And lets face it, if in a street fight, we don't look for submissions.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:46 AM
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You are responsible for yourself, nobody owes you anything.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:13 PM
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If the man knew me: - Walk in holding weapon (to scare him) and watch him run out of there in his underwear. Erm bad idea although funny to think about. You have upped the ante and he may pull out something bigger and meaner. I just read a site and the writer stated it perfectly. You have changed the altercation from a fight to combat. At a minimum, it will be you who gets in shit with the authorities if they are called.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:13 PM
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I am a 2nd Dan in Judo, 1st Dan in sport jujitsu and taken 4 years of boxing and a couple of years of bjj. I will speak to this from the judo perspective as that is what I have the most training in. Let me first say I think it is awesome that you all are or want to be involved in combat sports however there are some things new people should be aware of when choosing your martial art. You must do your research. 1) Be aware of McDojo's. These are scam martial arts "dojos" where someone has taken a…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:58 PM
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Utter madness. You are making excuses as already mentioned. Lawyer up and GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:14 PM
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Yep. The boyscouts do more cool things like camp and learn how to make fires while the girl guides do girlie stuff so girls wanted in and got in. We also have female scout leaders. The day that happened my Dad quit being a Scout Leader as he refused to be put in a position where some girl could make a false claim and he would be up shits creek without a paddle.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:03 PM
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Are they going to crack down on boy scouts next? They already have here in Canada and the UK
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:52 PM
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And let me add, that (while I can speak for all men in RP relationships), we constantly strive to better ourselves and maintain/increase our value so our wives will never need to look outside of the relationship for other needs.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:17 PM
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Cyralea has explained it perfectly. There is a major misconception out there that these are "abusive" relationships and I get the sense that many think we are leading them around in a slave collar and chains lol. That is furthest from the truth. The captain needs his first mate and vice versa. She trusts me and I trust her, and we respect each other. Her opinions carry great weight because I know she is giving them out of concern for the family, not for selfish reasons. She is one of the stronge…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:52 PM
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Don't get confused between the word submissive and one who is just a boring wet blanket, shy or one with zero self confidence and says nothing, afraid to rock the boat. Submissive women can be opinionated and interesting. They are not doormats.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:25 PM
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This read like a soap opera.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:12 PM
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Not only hamstering, but political correctness at it's finest. Lets not hurt anyone's feelings, lets use words that make them feel better about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:41 AM
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Which is amazing since all I ever did with her was spend money on her. That was your first mistake. Don't let it happen again. You aren't a woman's ATM The most recent one, after breaking up with her has poisoned our mutual friends against me. Even ones I've introduced her to. That was your second mistake. Sure introduce your friends once you have built rapport, but make sure they stay as aquaintances to her at the most. Thoughts with a weak willed girl? Try to build her up and keep her just und…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:08 PM
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Dump her and enjoy the rest of your life. I dated a chick like this before my wife and I complained about it to one of my mentors. He said you are a fucking idiot for keeping her around and get rid of her. Then look at yourself and ask why you are dating these crazy women and why I even have to ask him what I should do. Best advice I ever got.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:55 PM
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Agreed. He doesn't have what it takes because she has a lawyer and a bank manager behind her as well. Revenge may be fun, but getting the fuck out and living your life out how you want to ASAP is way better. OP is making a mistake and needs to get his shit together and move on.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:46 PM
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Then I told her I was about to go ballistic and needed to clear my head so I left the house. OP this is the wisest thing you did. OP just needs to work on setting boundaries and not letting his wife make him lose his shit, especially when he is 100% in the right. And also learn to control himself so he doesn't fall for it which admittedly is hard to do but not impossible, especially if being goaded. OP I think you are also missing something here. You admit you lost your shit and are looking for …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:49 AM
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Don't get to that point to begin with. If one starts yelling, the other one yells back and emotions take over and feed off of each other and it continues to spiral downwards. Remaining calm has a calming effect on the other and will help you to stay on topic.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:31 AM
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I have a couple of buddies over and we were reading it. We would all prefer women with lower counts. We discussed why and this comment was a big one: Some of my best and most memorable sex experiences have been with guys who are just friends! How could I regret that? She may not regret it, but if some of her most memorable experiences is having sex with her man friends, what is left for us? We suddenly become the comfortable old shoe rather than the one who is creating the memorable sex experien…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:19 AM
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What interests me is the 25% who were against it. I wonder if they aren't sure if their kids are from the husband.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 01:57 PM
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Agreed. A few of my wife's friends are pretty sarcastic and I just can't be bothered with them so they tone it right down when they are around me. What I wonder is whatever gave them the idea that being sarcastic is a good trait?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:16 PM
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What bothers me the most is the update refers to the person who made the false accusation "the victim" rather than calling her for what she was... a perjurious cunt. These people need to see jail time.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 10:28 PM
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This reminds me of an article posted here before: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2516858/Is-chivalry-officially-dead-Men-unlikely-offer-women-seats-help-buggies-fear-offending--WANT-to.html I have observed on several occasions some women giving men shit for opening the door for them which I thought was absolutely uncalled for. Happened to me once back in University. It was the typical I am woman don't treat me like that. Of course this treatment will give pause to men to bother doing …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:29 PM
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I seek attention and I need the approval.... I do stupid things on purpose. Things in my mind that will get me "accepted" and "noticed" Understanding women for what they are is one thing. Valuing women more than yourself is another. And looking back at my post I was a little vague on this point so allow me elaborate. You say you do stupid things to impress women. Basically, you are willing to compromise your frame in order to impress. And by the sounds of it, it may be a bit impulsive. (you catc…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:53 PM
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The first thing that came to my mind is you value women more than you value yourself
/r/askTRP06/08/14 06:31 AM
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It isn't only the trust issue. Technology such as cell phones and video games have taken a significant place in young boys lives People are busier than they used to be working longer hours etc, so have less time to give back to the community Family breakdowns Women in the workforce
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 01:06 PM
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There's a huge body of evidence which shows children without fathers suffer from significantly increased likelihood of dysfunction from crime to mental health to educational achievement. Not to mention the huge number of men who are here on TRP because they never had a dad to teach what we teach. I agree. I have mentioned in other posts that I mentor young boys at our local elementary school. It started out simply with a mom who has an absent husband and she asked me for help with her son. (One …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 04:01 AM
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What I took away from people on TRP saying "don't make love, fuck her" was that despite what you may hear, you shouldn't be timid during sex and unafraid to get a little rough. I agree. Don't be timid. And make sure you mix up your styles of dominance. Some days I will just go to my wife throw her over my shoulder and do a fireman's carry to the bedroom, sometimes lead her to the bedroom, or just pounce on her while on the couch. Even after all these years, my wife still giggles away when she is…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 03:48 AM
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Paramedic, military combat medic (get paid while you learn!!) if you have the nuts for it, even vetrinary school. Tons of options
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:53 AM
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it is that nobody gives a single fuck about me or my problems Bullshit. You do. And that is all you need. You know you have a problem, now you know you have to fix it. Once you go get that first job, your confidence will go through the roof. Then build on it. I will say the same thing to you as I tell the group of boys I mentor. Don't look at yourself as a boy. You are a man in training.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:39 AM
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And let me add, do you know what you want to do in the future career wise? See if part time jobs available will contribute to the resume. If it is something you need University for then you have to start saving for it. Do your best in school for high marks and start looking into scholarship programs. There are lots of them out there. Even ethnic organizations offer money towards those in their community. If you are interested in a trade, then look into it. Look at union apprenticeship programs. …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:33 AM
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Ok so you have already learned to save your money. That is great. You are already ahead of the curve of 99% of the people your age. Now go get a part time job. Look at your strengths and weaknesses and see if there is something that matches what you can offer. If you don't have much experience in anything, as I said start out small and work your way up. Network in the turkish community if you are part of it, network with your friends. If you haven't yet, now is the time to do it.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:22 AM
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if I move out our relationship will be terminated Your mom is doing a dread game with you. If push came to shove, would you care? Economic situation is quite dire If your economic situation is dire, fix it. I don't know if you are in school or not or your age, but look at at least getting a part time job at a minimum. Coffee shop, waiter (cash tips) whatever you have to do. This will also help build up your resume. And keep you out of the house. As you said: My mum never took a single penny from…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:09 AM
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Leaving her is out of the question for a good few years. And why is that? Stuff for the autodelete bot to eat.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:52 PM
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Married for 25 years here. We are from a different era than many of you young guys obviously, but in my opinion women are still women (I will get to that later). I am the leader in the household and always have been. And she appreciates what I bring to the table, and I her. She is my undisputed first mate. But never a doormat. Even though I make many of the big decisions for the household, she knows I always value her opinions and input whether I agree with it or not. If I make a decison that go…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:57 PM
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Obviously haven't been burned yet? I had a SO once who was BPD, that was the playing with fire equivalent of walking in to an active volcano wearing crocs and board shorts, yes I did get burned. Listen to this man. There is playing with fire then there is jumping into it. You don't want to do this. Talking from experience. Never stick your dick into crazy. If you have to, make it a ONS, and use a fake name lol. But even then she may still look for you.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 01:49 AM
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I've had good luck with wrestling her to the ground and sitting on her You should never have to get to that point but if you are defending yourself, sounds ok. Self defense dictates that you have to use reasonable force to prevent personal injury, and only enough force to stop harm. Once she calmed down though I would dump her. If in a relationship, it is best to set boundaries in the very beginning. You won't tolerate hitting and will dump her ass if she does. No second chances. And you follow …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:46 AM
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She could try but not a chance in hell haha. She was a massive whale.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:44 PM
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Absolutely. Edit: Here is a personal example of 2 different frames. Last year I was walking my daughter to school and this couple in a driveway in front of us were yelling at each other and then the woman started bitch slapping her husband in the face. He just stood there and took it. I said in a very loud voice what the hell are you doing, husband immediately says its ok its ok (accepts being hit). I said like hell it is and stood between them. Wife says mind you own business and I said it was …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 08:32 PM
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I had something similar happen to me when I was working from home. The wife didn't react so emotionally but she sure did insinuate. I kept my response simple. This is my business and I will choose who my clients are, not you. It never came up again.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:41 PM
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We learn that at a very early age, usually in the elementary aged school yard. You hit another boy, you will usually get whacked back unless he is wimpy or won't hit back because he has been told not to. This is a foreign concept to girls as they usually use psychological warfare against other girls rather than physical violence.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:04 PM
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The guy's first mistake was marrying a woman that was against giving him what he needed. Assuming that this came up early in their relationship, as soon as she said I don't give head because they do nothing for me he should have run for the hills. ME ME ME. My bet is he had no other options and settled. Spin plates Learn what you like, learn what you need (both in a person and sexually) and if they don't meet your needs, next. If they do meet all your basic needs then consider an LTR if that is …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 03:06 PM
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