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Red Pill TheoryFruitSalad1010/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:27 AM
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On a day to day basis yes planning and making decisions, doing what needs to be done. Own what is yours and divide up the tasks accordingly in order to live how you want to live. Over time however set goals which extend beyond where shall we have dinner tonight. This might be the next holiday or where are we going to move to. Have a very clear idea in your mindset how you want to live your life and make it so. Be cautious when asking for advice, make sure you are not in fact asking someone to de…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 09:18 PM
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She was shit testing you because showering a girl with gifts is weak why isn't she showering you with gifts for being her protector? It sounds like that's all in the past now anyway. "Romantic get aways" are covert contracts if a girl in my life bought me a weekend away and expected me to build her a house once we get home then forget it I didn't sign up for that. She's thinking the same about sex. Come to think of it gifts sound like a covert contract, I bought you something be nice to me... NO…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/17 02:48 PM
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The truth is a lot of people simply don't get to experience true leadership until it is given to them. Anything before that has the training wheels on. A CEO isn't in charge of a company until the shareholders say so. A President isn't in charge of a country until they are voted in. A man hasn't led a family until he has a child. He has only witnessed how others do it. Leadership becomes a lot easier once you simply are the boss but how you are perceived will depend on you. If his mission was to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/17 04:34 PM
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The only thing more likely to get her to use it as a revenge tactic is you saying don't use it as a revenge tactic. You're basically feeding her ideas for shit tests. The only lines worth drawing are real ones that you will enforce and often they don't even need to be voiced out loud, people can sense a point of no return. Honestly the whole idea is mute, it comes across as rationalisation if she's fucking someone else why would you even care move on. Women aren't men your history indicates valu…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 02:54 AM
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Well said it's easier to give something you like your attention. you have to stop whatever it is you are doing There is no divine power making you stop what you are doing. I can do and listen. If I'm interested in what I am doing at the time then I keep doing it. Also taking notes etc on conversations might help you reach some sort of conclusion but overall it comes across as a little over invested in the whole dynamic. Let her vent and don't let it steer you off your path by more than you're co…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 01:36 PM
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I have experience of this. Some of this may be of use to you. When you are shit tested like this it is a sign you are failing at your manly duties and it's time to top them up. When you are shit tested like this she needs leadership. Most likely she does not know that this is a shitty relationship skill or worse she does not care (more on this later). Perhaps her primary care givers were a bad example and she learnt it from them either way excuses are irrelevant what's important is it needs fixi…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:07 AM
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Here's the tough pill. It's your fault. You learnt the hard way not to put yourself in a position which threatens your status i.e. your job = money = status. Lets be honest you didn't say "buzz off". Saying something or acting in a way which threatens your job can be reckless. When you let a woman rile you up you enter HER frame. If a child is riling you up they WANT a reaction. A parent doesn't provide this and instead the child is placed on a time out, you remove your attention. The interviewe…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 12:23 PM
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This assumes underlying attraction. If there isn't any this will only be followed by a sigh of relief when you leave. If you are later seen doing anything other than actually chatting to hot women expect to be shit tested for not having social proof. Remember words are not some trick to create attraction your presence is what she desires, words are just the lube to ease the entry.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 07:20 PM
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Chances are you spoke too quietly. Be loud because what you have to say is valuable and you don't want leave room for misunderstanding. If you speak with enough volume someone should be embarrassed to ask "what did you say?".
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:41 PM
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Your looks are your million year old business card. Either you're good looking enough to attain an equally good looking mate or you need to raise your value to get one. Kimdotcom is a good example. When his offspring enter the sexual market place the fact his children have model genetics show that in their lineage is high status.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:48 AM
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Her resolve will soon crack once you start getting along with her friends. Often they resent her "if they're not good enough for me they're not good enough for any of my friends" - mentality. With good social skills you can exploit this and isolate them (divide and conquer). She's the alpha female and alpha males crush alpha females. Dating is like any form of business market you have to decide if what they offer is worth the cost (i.e your energy and effort). Some girls will price themselves to…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:42 PM
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Do you want kids? If not Darwinism is doing a great job of crushing that sexual strategy as you get deleted from the universe forever.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 12:48 AM
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"The schedule seems to work for us" Does it work for YOU if not change it. Either it works or it doesn't. Your ship is headed towards an iceberg does the course seem to work? I don't want to be on that ship. First decide if you want to hit the iceberg (FYI no you do not) then make sure your course guarantees what you decided. "Am I being BP by relying on guaranteed (duty?) sex?" Yes, fix the underlying reasons for the unsure nature of this post and you might not have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 11:31 PM
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27 and 5 years divorced you were 100% correct when you said you needed to collect advice from a pool of peers your track record isn't glowing. However in any critical situation it is reckless for a commander of his ship not to communicate the opinion of others when making decisions so good work for that and ignore those that think this a lone battle. However you must take responsibility once you've decided. A pressure flip is pretty useful "would you be moving if we weren't going to live togethe…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 11:06 PM
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This is awesome put away your hamster these interactions are genuine, however beware of anything edited we didn't get to see the out takes.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:49 PM
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Stop thinking about some other dude and focus on yourself it's wasted energy. You sound like you have a crush. Have some respect for yourself and ignore anything which isn't good for you if you don't like something dominate it or eliminate it from your existence.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:42 PM
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The best part is when he eventually wakes up and next's her friendship she won't even bat an eyelid.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:28 PM
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Go and talk to her, if you're afraid go and talk to a billion other women until you're no longer afraid of this one.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:01 AM
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Check her cycle if there is shitty behaviour educate your LTR invest in her because it's investing in you. I recently had an open discussion pointing out my LTR is horrible around her period. I recorded it, proved it, explained why it happens. (She's biologically angry her alpha didn't get her pregrant this month). Now she's aware of it and controls it, it works for both parties because I will straight up leave if I have to put up with too much shit. So I get less shit and she gets to keep her a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 02:00 PM
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Because a LTR might give you a daughter and you want to contribute to a society that doesn't shit on her for no good reason. The idea is you defend and respect the ones worthy of it and as a parent it's your job to raise one worth defending.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:50 AM
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Stress is common place in high status jobs noticing the increased heart rate becomes part of the norm, embrace it, it means something interesting is happening.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 03:34 AM
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Stop walk away and go do something more valuable with your time, she's not interested and if she's not neither are you go play golf instead a golf ball will never behave uninterested in you smashing it with your man club
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 01:50 AM
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Nothing to see here as if you are the first person to flirt with his wife. If anything you were used put up a FR when you're in a hotel room together. Good example of the paradigm though. If you're going out with/married to a high value woman be prepared for guys to flirt with her just be sure to set a clear boundary.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/17 01:56 PM
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You're don't remove people because they lack value it's because they drain far more than they return. Human co -operation can be considered a zero sum game. In the 2nd part you identified what behaviour can potentially take place around a leader but didn't consider why this is the case. I.e. what the leader has done to achieve this dynamic. Leadership is flexible, the scenario you described only works if every player understands their part but a leader will have had to make sacrifices to get eve…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 10:11 AM
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Your post goes a long way to understanding leadership something which many people say you won't understand until you have children and possibly can't until you do. The essence of true leadership really comes from understanding what others need around you. Some people need inspiration others need attention, often those demanding it really need to be told to fuck off so they can do some introspection. As you become more comfortable with this area you will find you notice people don't meet your sta…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 11:24 PM
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Excellent post recently someone posted a link to a book on evolutionary biology this really is the handbook to understanding human behaviour, analysis like this adds great value to readers of this subreddit
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 02:19 PM
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The catch 22 you speak of is actually why women often insinuate they want to be comfortable but not too comfortable. A woman knows that if they get too comfortable you are not valuable and they will no longer want you. A valuable man will always keep the balance in check. There is an awful lot of women hating in this subbreddit due to the anger phase (some of the hate might even be male hamstering) however most women are unconciously or even conciously trying to help when things aren't going rig…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 08:31 AM
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Women shoud be grateful we are self improving towards a person they want, it would be respectful if they had a movement that did the same.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:12 PM
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It's serious because it's meant to be, creating the boundary of what is and isn't acceptable is important in this case.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 05:53 PM
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When you are both of high enough SMV to have options you can both respect that either one of you can leave at any time. If this is channelled correctly it leads to both of you being better people as you are aware if standards drop it's over. In addition part of what the relationship is built upon is the fact either of you could leave but didnt neither party is subject to a relationship against their will and both players stand to gain. This takes experience and practice to cultivate correctly.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:28 PM
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It was a threat and shit test combined he should have dealt with it appropriately with something along the lines of "The minute you think this is yours it ceases to be the case, you earn my dick you don't own it". A man of value chooses when to give up something like his reproductive potential with several partners.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 11:26 PM
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For people who've never seen "the look" before, 4:40 is exactly what tingles looks like. 1:39 = definition of a pussy pass. Lets remove gender, person A and person B both qualify for promotions at separate companies. Person A asks for +10% person B asks for plus +5% end result person A got a higher offer. If you don't have the confidence to ask for more you aren't worth more, suck it up. Equality = no more free passes you fight for what you are worth if you don't acheive it blame yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:30 PM
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Would be interesting to have these rated in priority order or order of effectiveness
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:08 AM
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And there in lies the secret, the person in first class on Singapore airlines or on their yacht doesn't need to brag about it, their actions speak for themselves. Hency the dichotomy if you need to brag you can't be as good as you are claiming. It must be said bragging is ok when under test just don't show off for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:47 PM
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Can confirm having a decent sexual history and talking about it will generate tingles if done in the right way.. one can taste the salt in these words below. Sexual boasting. Even if I believed you banged those two girls who woke you up gibbling your nob, what the fuck makes you think I would be impressed and want to sleep with you? Edit: This guy didn't really get blown by two chicks. It was one of many BS stories he used to try and make himself seem like he was sexually experienced, and yes, h…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:06 AM
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To fully embrase the concept you should blame yourself for getting treated badly not her
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:35 PM
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I simplified it for anyone that's not 100% clear on the matter: Step 1: Stop being Beta Step 2: Start being Alpha
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:17 AM
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