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| 117 | One of my confidence tricks. | Frusciantex | /r/seduction | 16/12/14 06:10 PM | |
| 24 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can. | Frusciantex | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 09:24 PM | |
| 0 | I think this is the basis of a lot of the gaming trouble out there. (Confidence) (Long post) | Frusciantex | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 02:51 PM |
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| 3 | I have huge issues with motivation. I have realized there is a gap between what I want, and me taking action. I am more motivated by external validation than anything else. How do you even fix something like this?You indicate that you have a low self-image. Maybe you're not even aware, but the feeling that you need people that know you to see you with proof that you're cool is a major indication. First of all, you're a person like everyone else, and you seem to be pretty awesome. Way to go. First 5 minutes of every date will have a highest succes rate. But then there's your interests and feelings and dreams. And you have to figure that shit out. Not because I say so but you have to get yourself happy man… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 10:12 AM |
| 7 | Women will break the rules for men who turn them on and create rules for men they don't respect.Great fucking story bro. Pound up. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Women will break the rules for men who turn them on and create rules for men they don't respect.Mad Men: 2 episodes in, not hooked. Should I go on? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 09:11 AM |
| 2 | The Seven Books That Changed My Life Summarized in 16 Words or LessNice. Arrogant as I can be, I didn't expect that. Excuse me. I like you. High five. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Feel bad about being "alpha"This one is gold. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 06:06 PM |
| 1 | The Seven Books That Changed My Life Summarized in 16 Words or LessDo it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Want to get a girl to be my girlfriend.Sit the fuck down, and breathe. Who are you, what are you, and what do you believe in? I bet you're doing pretty okay. That's right. Calm now? She's just a girl in a world that's just as strange and beautiful and occasionally disturbing as yours. What do you want from her? Just for now, you should want to get to know her. Find out more about her personality and life and interests. Then you may want to start spending time together. Just like in the rom-coms; at some point they finally sleep toget… | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | 25/M yr, virgin, traumatized as a kid,where to start?Hey man, I've had a pretty shitty childhood myself. Since two months getting my shit together after a few years of depression, addiction and substance-abuse. I feel like I've had the luck to be inspired by the right things at the right time. I could only say from experience that you should take examples. One of mine is Will Smith. And let them inspire you to find your way. Who are you and what are you doing? In the end that's it. "The way of the peaceful warrior" - Dan Millman (Or the movie "Pea… | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 12:14 PM |
| 2 | One of my confidence tricks.Now you seem to be a man I could drink with. Thoughtful, respectful and nice. Thanks bro, you too! | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 10:29 AM |
| 1 | One of my confidence tricks.It is not from a lack of focus. It's from a lack of linguistic skills. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 04:52 PM |
| 1 | One of my confidence tricks.You didn't hurt my feelings. You're just too arrogant to see that this shit isn't about you. You made it about you, and in the process made a fool out of yourself, so way to go on that. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | One of my confidence tricks.There's evidence of a mistake. Not of a lack of focus. And thank you. :) | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | One of my confidence tricks.Maybe you should take an improv class. Or one about not being self-centered and judgemental. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 04:23 PM |
| 2 | One of my confidence tricks.I'm just a Dutchie. My bad for misunderstanding. Maybe instead of the arrogant presumption that I'm unfocused you should just assume that it could very well just be a mistake of someone who isn't a native English speaker. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Girl told me I came on too strong with her. Haven't talked to her in 2 and a half weeks.Probably nothing. Go out, seduce another. If you by some strange accident bump into her, be really cool about it. Then have a laugh and seduce the shit out of her. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 10:57 AM |
| 3 | One of my confidence tricks.Glad to be of service. :) | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 10:14 AM |
| 3 | One of my confidence tricks.I get it. I don't say that shit out loud. It is however who I am. Hate me for it if you want. Or just use or forget my post. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 10:04 AM |
| 3 | One of my confidence tricks.Yes it is. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 09:55 AM |
| 2 | One of my confidence tricks.So what are you then? | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 12:36 AM |
| 7 | One of my confidence tricks.I did not learn it. I just said it one day in my head and it fits. We are all of equal value. So forgive a man, for he's human thus flawed. He has his own story. Don't judge him for a mistake by your standards. Look to your neighbours to see if they have enough. And be goodwilling to do so. It's about respect and not being a selfish and cynical dickhead. Whom I forgive, because they probably aren't to blame all that much either. They walk their own paths and have learned lessons that I still hav… | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 12:33 AM |
| -5 | One of my confidence tricks.No shit. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I think this is the basis of a lot of the gaming trouble out there. (Confidence) (Long post)Without the explanation it's the cliché of "you're perfect just the way you are". | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 03:58 PM |
| 1 | The longest rant you probably would choose not to readI didn't read it all, but I think I have some things that might help. If you want: First of all, check out my last post. Those are my thoughts on confidence. Secondly, a great Ted talk about everyday confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-HYZv6HzAs And lastly, here's a (to me) very useful guide for approaching and conversation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI Best underlying concept: create the situation where she can just talk, and you can shut up, while sending a strong body… | /r/seduction | 02/11/14 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Overcoming nice-guy syndromeStart with getting confident then. Your life isn't about pursuing perfection. You have flaws just like everyone else. Be aware of them. If someone is a dick about it, he is the dick, don't take his shit. People who point out and judge others flaws are people you don't need in your life. Be confident with them. You know you have them, and that's fine. That's what she'd sign up for. | /r/seduction | 26/09/14 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What could be the reason a man only attracts marriage minded women but never the ones interested in flings, hooking-up, FwB, casual sex?Because a man isn't sexy. Men all over the world who are bad at game should learn dancing. And to be cool, but more importantly, it's got to be sexy. Flirting in a way is like a dance. Body language is way too important to just see as a side-matter. Allow her, and yourself, to feel sexy. And now it's fun too. Move those hips boy. Pound up. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Got a question for you veteran sedditors. Newbie looking for some help.People figuring out how to help him here, I'm just curious about the acid story. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Able to approach but can't sustain...Make that three. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to CloseWith a girl you looking to find a connection. You obviously seem to have that. And there is going to be a moment of eye-contact, maybe after you or she says something that makes yourself/herself, or the other a bit uncomfortable. Example: I'm dating this girl, and at one point she says something which led me to believe she understood me. I was mentally naked, fucking intense eye-contact, five seconds, felt like a minute, I took her wrist, pulled her in, bent in and BAM! But you are the man. You … | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm opposite of every guy everIf it escalates, try to keep perspective, be cool, but also just do what you want. Don't get locked up in choosing your next move. Pick the one you want, play it cool, execute plan. If she doesn't like it you don't have a connection. There, you're real and you're confident. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Tried to kiss a girl, she gave me a "nice try" lineYou could've asked why she avoids eye contact. Their reaction can make pretty clear what they're thinking. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:36 AM |
| 0 | I am scared to have sex.You're probably ashamed of something there. I struggled too. Let's just say I can be a quickdraw. But she won't think of me like less a man. She'll probably feel awkward and go with what she's got, and I got quite a lot so it ain't that bad after all. So there's the complete humiliation in your head. The only thing you worry about, before, during and after sex. While I've had girls saying I gave them the best night of their lives. CONNECT. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of the mentality that I am trying to prove myself to women?I kind'a hope this is my doing. You're awesome. Up high. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2c2wz8/a_way_to_be_way_more_awesome_than_you_think_you/ | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:01 AM |
| 2 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.But you're also quite awesome dude. Like a brownie from domino's which are kind'a could from the outside but there's this hot fuzzy chocolate inside which is so awesome. Just like you. Shine your awesomeness on everyone. That's awesome. High five. | /r/seduction | 02/08/14 08:59 AM |
| 2 | (18M) Still intimidated by gorgeous women?Exaggerate it. Check the comments. I used it to show what you should be doing. And a certain point you're just thinking 'awesome'. Maybe after a week you'll need to switch to another cool word, but believe me, if you're in any way like me, this shit's gonna be so awesome. Just like you. Keep it up. You're awesome. Rock on. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 03:30 PM |
| 2 | (18M) Still intimidated by gorgeous women?This is my own post about the thing that changed my appearence, confidence and happiness. Might be helpful. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2c2wz8/a_way_to_be_way_more_awesome_than_you_think_you/ | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 03:18 PM |
| 3 | How do I approach groups?You're awesome, they're awesome. Just show that and point that out. You group approach is gonna be the bomb. Asking opinions is always easy, "Ladies, me and my friend here were discussing beards. If you would be on a blind date, beard or no beard?" Or say something about some interests of theirs you can point out by seeing them, "Hey, you seem like rock-chicks, is that right?" "Haha yeah, why?" "Because rock-chicks are f'ing awesome. Who are you into?" Bam. Awesome. Pound up. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 03:10 PM |
| 2 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.Solid point. Awesome. I love you, you're so positive-minded. You're really cool to hang out with. Up high. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.That's good advice, and if you follow mine for a year everyone would go oblivious, but it get you in a great mood easily, and so from being depressed going to happy is such a small step and easy to get used to. And if you're happy you'll figure out how to turn things your way. Smart peeps out here. You're awesome dude, but you made a typo. I'll wait till you fixed that up to upvote you. Isn't that awesome? It's not about me being narcistic, it's me just trying to get people and myself to smile r… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 10:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 2 Online Game - stuckIf you do, just ask her if she wants to go out tonight or tomorrow or whatever. Tonight I have a date of my own. I'm going to a silent place with her, chilling all through the night. I asked her because I wanted this and I since I felt like I fucked up this weekend I couldn't really stand waiting too. Don't go all romantic comedy on her and expect her to see you as her one and only. She won't. If she refuses say you understand, and that she has every right to (if she refuses she's in an uncomfor… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 09:48 AM |
| 1 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.That's awesome. You're awesome. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 09:16 AM |
| -1 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.This is helpful. You're awesome, thanks. And it's selfhelp and worth a lot. To me really it's almost my own summary of half of the things I learned on Seddit. Be awesome every day. Cause you are. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 08:47 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 2 Online Game - stuckWhat you should do, my friend, is stop working on how much steps you had with her. That isn't a fully adequate description, but I hope you get what I'm saying. That doesn't matter. You need to make a connection. Just try to find her interests and say what you have to say about it. Let her talk. Be the man, 'cause you are. Look her in the eyes and smile. Connect with her. At some point she's going to jump you. And unless you know the connection is there just put the thoughts of getting laid out o… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 08:38 AM |
| 0 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.I don't get it. I'm sorry, I'm fairly new to this shit. Don't really know the ins and outs of how people speak here. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 08:06 AM |
| 6 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.You are and I love ya. You know what you're gonna do tomorrow? Let me tell you. You're gonna wake up, a bit earlier than normal, say 9:30. You're going to get the fuck out and you're gonna brush your teeth, shower, wash your hair, even floss. Everything. Cause you're awesome, today's awesome and today is your fucking day. And you are going to do something. Because by now you should feel like Cpt. Awesome, better use that shit. You're gonna walk up to the girl you are thinking about right when yo… | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 08:04 AM |
| 2 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.Totally legit. Thanks. Just a dutchie. You're awesome. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 01:23 AM |
| -5 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.If you don't care to elaborate, keep your negativity to yourself. Like I said, nobody likes a cynical dick. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 12:41 AM |
| 5 | A way to be way more awesome than you think you can.Thanks dude, you're awesome. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 09:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time getting a number out in public!Check out the all time top Posts on Seddit. You probably already have, but there's good shit in there, some worth repeating every day. And if you dig this girl, Kino is your answer. | /r/seduction | 19/07/14 12:07 PM |
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