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Most reasonable dates would last around 1 - 2 hours, unless you suggest to extend the date by going to another place. I guess we got different dating experiences. Extending the date to another location is very normal on a successful date. It means both are enjoying each other's company. If I or the man is dipping out only after an hour or two of the date that means that there were better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 04:32 AM
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..not really. That's still fairly early unless you're talking a lot/the dates were hours long. All my successful dates were hours long and with lots of talking. Usually if a date is short and you immediately want to end it's a bad sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 04:15 AM
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He says "within 3 dates" in the video, which is typically when people start asking about sex, but even 5 dates would be considered "too early." It should come about within a reasonable time and organically, not quickly and forcefully. Oh good! Three dates is a good amount of time to gage relatively where it's going. Sounds like he formed an image of you in his head and fell in love with that I'm guessing. Still, yikes. I agree and wonder what kind of lessons men need to avoid doing that. Women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:40 AM
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I'll watch the video later. I like the lessons. Especially wanting to commit to a woman too early. I wish there is a more concrete definition of what is considered too early to be more clear. Example: Had a man back in my college days asked for a relationship with me within the first 3 minutes of our first conversation. He was serious. He told me that he has been watching me and noticed that I didn't "sleep around" like the other girls... I was creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:22 AM
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What do sugar daddies provide? A nice car? ($40K), vacations? ($10K) and trips to very expressive restaurants? I don't think most men can afford a sugar daddy lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:51 PM
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How much money is required at a minimum to become a sugar daddy? What if he doesn't hit that income by 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:43 PM
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There is no transitions between attachment styles to heart attack patients to single mothers. I'm sure you want to discuss some underlying theme within these topics but I'm not seeing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:33 PM
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It's similar to the phenomenon of "women aren't funny" belief. Women being the silly to the extreme length in general comes across cringy to alot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:02 PM
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Any dude can recognise a girl taking advantage of him and being deceitful. I agree with you that in general that men are better at judging whether another man truly likes a woman or not. But not the other way around. There are many studies that suggest men constantly overestimate the interest from women. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-and-mating/201804/why-men-tend-overestimate-womens-romantic-interest?amp Evolutionarily, for men, it may be more costly to miss a potential opportu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 07:03 PM
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I have seen dating app pictures of men I know... Many of them choose really terrible pictures of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 02:24 PM
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In what context are you getting into these conversations? It's very particular. Do you purposely bring it up? It's a bad test. Extremely unnatural.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:35 AM
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Well that went over your head. The point is commitment and filtering out men who will only stick around for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:26 PM
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The scenario is that she was unable gain commitment in the past doing what she was doing before. Holding off on sex doesn't change who you are. That doesn't define you. "Being yourself" mean not trying something new? Just go with whatever you feel like you want to do with little regard to long term consequences? I want to eat six bags of Cheetos everyday but I decide not to because it's unhealthy. Am I not being myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:18 PM
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Ladies, this strategy doesn't work. If the man has any self-respect he will dump you and you will falsely think to yourselves "my strategy worked, he just wanted to have sex and now that I am withholding it, he bailed". No, we just dislike being manipulated with the anticipated reward of sex. She wants a committed relationship and not waste time. Then you state men's self-respect and manipulation as reasons against it. Huh? Wtf does that have to do with it? How is this a fail strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:00 AM
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https://www.today.com/today/amp/tdna74671 Most men who graduate from high school start thinking of marriage as a real possibility when they are 23 or 24. Most men who graduate from college don’t start considering marriage as a real possibility until age 26. When men go to graduate school, it takes them longer to get into the working world, and they’re not ready to get married until a few years after that. Ninety percent of men who have graduated from college are ready for the next step between a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:24 PM
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Medicine cabinet snooping is relatively a common thing. I remember a prank video on TV of people getting caught doing it by filling the cabinet with marbles that spills out when opened. I think what she is doing is harmless. She isn't posting pictures online or telling mutual friends to shame the men for any real consequence. I understand that it's the principle of the matter. You are very deontological about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:44 PM
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Genes. The results from hard work can disappear after a year. Genes are forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:17 AM
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"men have much lower standards than women. Both for women and men, when the men are gay." So compare women's results with other women relatively? Then that means that "7" woman and a "7" man are two different ratings. The problem is when frustrated men believe the ratings of both sexes represent the same value. There are plenty of posts about being confused on why women don't get together with look matched men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:26 AM
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Being emotionally vulnerable is a double edge sword. A man can come across as too whiny and unattractive or the woman feels that there is sometimes special about herself that made the man open up. You are doing something right. Good timing? Articulate? Maybe it's something else that is correlated with your openness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:29 PM
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Acting disgusted by something can be considered shaming depending on the context. Why is shaming not a perfectly normal, natural, and even healthy response to the actions of other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:40 PM
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Men who claim this shit is using it as a hyperbole. Also unattractive or "not nice" women do not register in their mind hence they ignore negative female representation. I think some men are using this claim not to absolve self responsibility but trying to warn other men. Most did lie to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:47 AM
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Men are more accepting of categorizaton of people than women. The alpha that broke her heart and the next alpha are two different people to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:30 AM
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It's not weird. The purpose of ads is to make money. If ads actually convinced women to spend money on men then ad companies would create such ads. Businesses do not care about gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:09 PM
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Chill, low maintenance girls are attractive but they also attract men who are not 100 percent into them. When a man gets involved with a crazy woman, they know what they are getting into. They like it and will stay. When a man want easy sex, they will go for a low maintenance woman. These women are so easy going and will not demand anything more. Perfect side piece. Low maintenance women need to start making men jump through at least a few hoops to eliminate the time wasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:04 PM
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Men and women's nature cancels each other out then. Why be upset that the one you are with want someone else but you're willing to leave if you find a better option?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:57 PM
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The guys I rejected when I was single was usually didn't seem to know anything about me or even spoken to me before the asking me out through a DM. "What's up" "Hi, I'm sorry that I don't remember but where do I know you from?" "Hey I saw you hanging out today at/with ______." "Ok...." Then they message me every 3 or 4 hours on what I'm doing... Usually fizzle out from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:38 AM
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It's about ego. No one likes to believe that they are predictable but most humans are to a certain extent. Lots of people believe that they are not racist but many social experiments show that many have unconscious bias. PUA have not been studied through controlled experiments to be proven effective but most concepts are harmless enough to try. The only problematic material to me is LMR. One trick I like within PUA is agree and amplify. Confidence in this manner is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:20 PM
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The problem between PUA and TRP is that the lines are blurred now. PUA was originally intended for short term hookups. That was it. People within the PUA community years ago started getting into gender politics, LTRs and "inner" game. That turned into TRP and the manosphere. When TRP shits on PUA it's because PUA is different. Simple tactics with simple goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:49 PM
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It's not about the sex. The need is affirmation from the people around you. A man with money can pay for sex with prostitutes. But he can feel unfulfilled because he knows that these women do not want him for him. Affirmation comes from different places. Friends, work colleagues, family, etc... The men who really need sex maybe lack affirmation in other areas of his life. He may come across as a bad option for women because they know that he doesn't have a life and all his focus will be on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:33 PM
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