| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 205 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown) | Red Pill Theory | FryedRyceLyfe | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/23 07:45 PM |
| 91 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it) | FryedRyceLyfe | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/25 05:31 PM | |
| 63 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it) | Fundamentals | FryedRyceLyfe | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 11 | A late bloomer's online dating story (Lost virginity @ 25) | Comprehensive | FryedRyceLyfe | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:28 PM |
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| 1 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)It’s basic once you get the hang out of it, but I’ve dealt with a lot of guys who nosedive interactions at key moments. I’ve also had to micromanage and come up with all of the responses for certain guys because you let loose of the reigns and they’ll scare the girls off. The average guy is absolutely cooked with texting and sometimes, they need in-depth, hand holding stuff like this to not mess things up | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)Bruh, you can’t be saying you do you while still coming up with another paragraph arguing how I “lack capacity” just because I never needed to use your method lmao We’re all supposed to be fishermen talking about getting fish. Glad to hear you actually got something out of your method but you’re basically going after me because I don’t want to swirl my bait around for an hour | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)That’s where it seemed to start, but he straight up says “an hour long phone call that blows her mind right out of the gate is worth 10 dates” This makes my lesson on taking your time before responding all the more important | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/25 09:59 AM |
| -1 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)You’re right. I’ve only used my phone to tactically secure and go on numerous dates, close more than my fair share of them, get a girlfriend out of it, and then vicariously did the same for plenty of other guys. This being your hill to die on over getting actual dating results is pretty insane, ngl 😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/25 03:11 AM |
| 7 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)So you’re saying that having a good phone call is more important for standing out than…going on an actual date with a girl. Never mind being worth 10 of those? Yeah…I get the case you’re arguing for, but the math isn’t mathing, bro | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/25 12:30 AM |
| -4 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)Phone game is unnecessary. Texting (and calling if that's something you do) is just a form of communication and a means to an end to set up a date. The average guy who is advised to call before a date is going to talk his head off and self sabotage things because he doesn't know how to keep things short and sweet. Like I said, you do you if you want to call a girl before you meet her. I've secured plenty of dates for myself through text only and proved this concept by doing the same for other gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/25 12:01 AM |
| 3 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)If that works for you, great, but I personally try to never call a girl before a date. My texting is sound enough to set up plans and let both of us respond when we’re able to. There’s nothing more I need to accomplish and I don’t need to earn any more favor by having her hear my voice | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/25 05:45 PM |
| 3 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)*Posts easy example with high interest girl - “Too easy, doesn’t help anyone” *Posts hard example with barely interested girl - “Wow you get matches + that’s too much work, should’ve just told her to come smash in 2 messages” I can already see how it’s gonna go, can’t win with this 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)We’re getting downvoted for saying there needs to be a plan haha. These are the same guys who will take an interested girl like this and sperg out trying to talk to her and then turn around and cry when she becomes disinterested | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 06:29 PM |
| -5 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)The point is that guys should have a plan when it comes to their dating app conversations. Most women know how these things play out but they are not conditioned to lead conversations anywhere meaningful. Interest is a resource that diminishes if not capitalized on. I recognized this and developed this framework so that I could consistently convert women interested in meeting me and filter out ones that won't. This interaction is one of hundreds that I've gone through and I chose to exemplify th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 11 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)Dating is basically just marketing and selling yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/23 10:19 PM |
| 8 | THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown)This post isn’t for you then, it is what it is 🤷🏻♂️ | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/23 09:43 PM |
| 2 | A late bloomer's online dating story (Lost virginity @ 25)Unfortunately, yeah. I had screwed up so many opportunities and my prospects were getting worse as time passed | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleI mean yeah, but that's the game you have to play. I agree that the message by @EthicalSeduction is a little bit too much but any text that asks for a confirmation is technically a validation text. "Hey, are we still on for tonight?" is still a validation text because it implies some insecurity on the sender's POV that the other person may not show up, but I will still risk sending that over wasting my time preparing and showing up for a no-show. It's almost always better when the girl sends a c… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleIf dating was logical, then people would take things as seriously as an interview. You set a time and a place and you're expected to show up, no one's going to check up on you beforehand. But dating is not logical. There are emotions involved and every decision/indecision has an effect. I've set dates up days in advance with location and time set to a T that were agreed upon enthusiastically only to have silence when I try to confirm them because of stupid things such as not texting at all the d… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 09:06 PM |
| -1 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on ScheduleIf that's the case, doesn't the text serve its purpose and filter them out? If I'm expressing interest in seeing someone and they don't return that same energy, then I can write them off and find someone who will | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"If you go through the comments of the original thread, OP basically says he thinks she's ugly but just wanted to see what would happen if he tried bantering, so it's quite obvious he wasn't trying to smash. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 03:24 PM |
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