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I want her to be attractive, but I'd honestly prefer her be just slightly above average and physically fit, that'll carry her fine, if it's a boy I'd be much more concerned about his looks than a girls, an attractive boy is waaay more valuable than an attractive girl. Attractive girls are a dime a dozen, but organically beautiful men are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:59 PM
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Not really my concern, I'm an extrovert and have decent charisma, I have no problem being the personality leader in my relationship and can help build independence in my SO, I've done it before multiple times. But if they have the other 4 aspects building a level of independence isn't too difficult at all. It's all the same generally they get annoyed that you don't plan something for you to do together every weekend or constantly want your attention. Then you slowly get them on the same page tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:57 PM
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I got training to do complex mathematics, and cpr, you get training all the time, everytime you get a new job you go through training You want your doctor well trained, why not your significant other? People need training in a relationship, training on how to read your little triggers, training on the foods like and don't, training on what you like sexually and don't, training on your family culture and how to best interact with everyone. It's all training, training isn't a dirty word
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:23 AM
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Yeah you do, they train you, you train them, you train each other to meet your needs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:49 AM
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Yes, but that's the risk of life, those are issues you gotta just live with, plan for, and hope for the best. If I hold my wife to the standards I'd set for my daughter, she likely can't meet them because I didn't raise my wife, I can only support and train her from when I meet her. Like you said, she had a whole life before me, what can I truly expect from her at the end of the day outside of a solid partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:01 AM
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Those are literally aspects of being rugged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:51 AM
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My top qualities in a woman are 1. Chemistry 2. Attractiveness 3. Intelligence 4. Work ethic Now why would I my top aspect for a daughter be chemistry or attractiveness? It's my daughter not my wife, why would I want the same aspects out of these two people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:49 AM
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These are top qualities, yeah I care less if my wife is independent, strong, smart, etc. I can fill in those gaps and they aren't deal breakers for a relationship, we're building a relationship, a team effort, not necessarily something I'm hoping for in my daughter because she's not marrying me, I need her to be able to fend for herself because I'm not around and I'm not her husband. whereas I obviously plan to be there for my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:43 AM
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Unfortunately after a year of picking up his shit and him being grumpy at me and not pulling any of the household weight I just can’t do it anymore. You could just not do it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:33 AM
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I'm getting the impression dudes are expecting women to be impressed by their dreamer bulk physique from 6 months of consistent lifting or the 80k they make living in a large metropolitan area with a HCOL. This is literally the average guy that your friend was saying she can't find at all, but you're talking about this average guy like he's not worth shit, that's the disconnect, neither you, nor your friend seem to know what average looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:24 AM
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Absolutely. No questions asked. I'm a black male, I already have the highest chances of death, and all of that is better than being murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:41 PM
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As the saying goes, doesn't matter had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:32 AM
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Crowder 1000000% gets laid. You are kidding yourself if you think a guy like that is an incel. Look up Hillary Crowder, chicks a solid 7.9/10 Same for Shapiro, just because they put on this blatant disingenuous act to make money, doesn't mean they aren't getting laid. Tim pool, no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:46 PM
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Meanwhile, Ben Shapiro, all those weird intellectual dark web types of course are against abortion, sex, socialism, etc. Why ? Because they know they're undesirable males or have been in the past so they fear they might lose the one thing that keeps them above water. Ben Shapiro is married to a decently attractive woman and has kids, I don't think the idea really applies to him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:32 PM
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Yup, same feel about new york, I was absolutely astounded at how many nice looking people there were walking the streets of new york compared to everywhere else I've been, then I lived there for a few months and realized you had to earn almost every meal, buying groceries is hard, eating out means you must walk, going to work means walking. I lost 20lbs living in NYC. It takes real effort to be fat in NYC and the people are better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:48 AM
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Care for the children? Let the old women care for the children, women 18-35 can be right on that frontline with me, we can all fire a rifle
/r/PussyPass27/02/22 02:52 AM
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You really think we have enough doctors to be losing them because they won't perform an elective surgery? Women, y'all are entrepreneurial as fuck, you have leadership, you have money, literally just create a website where women can easily connect with doctors that will perform whatever they want. If you don't like your doctor's decisions, literally just find a new one, shit isn't that crazy. If my doctor wanted my wife's permission to perform a vasectomy, I would just find a different doctor. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:48 PM
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You said you can't get a break, with the implication being that women can't just get a hysterectomy they want because doctors refuse. I said if a doctor isn't comfortable performing a surgery they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:47 AM
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male doctors especially will make changes to women's bodies out of consideration for their fellow man against the wishes of their female patient. Can you cite the court case that a woman sued a doctor over and lost for malpractice body modification? Because that's literally illegal. Same if women want to get a breast reduction surgery. Some women have had to bring their boyfriends in for the discussion and other doctors have either refused to get them because the boyfriend wouldn't like it or ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:46 AM
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Okay, so do we trust doctors to do their jobs or not? Like if a doctor isn't comfortable performing surgery on someone, I'm going to trust their professional opinion over a bunch of random non-doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:09 AM
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The joke of Seinfeld is that they're terrible people and the fact they are so picky is part of why they're bad, Seinfeld is just always sunny, but better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:10 AM
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Nope, she has to have earning potential, I make plenty of money, more than enough to support a family, but I need that doubled so we can retire early
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 10:22 PM
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Absolutely, being in a care home doesn't mean you don't have an advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:37 AM
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Women who are married die way sooner. This was a pretty recent study on the subject https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7452000/ "Between 65 and 85 years, married men and women had a longer TLE and ALE than unmarried men and women. For example, at 65 years, TLE for married men was 18.6 years, 2.2 years longer than unmarried men, and ALE for married men was 12.3 years, 2.4 years longer than unmarried men. Similarly, at 65 years, TLE for married women was 21.1 years, 1.5 years longer than…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:39 PM
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That was by law, women had checking accounts before, hell we had female bank CEOs in the 1800s, at one point the most powerful person in America financially was a woman (Hetty green 1834-1916). The checking account being equally provided by federal law happened in 72, but women had privately provided checking accounts before then, my grandma had a checking, savings, stocks, bonds, property as a single black woman in the 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:16 AM
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Something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 11:07 AM
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Women used to be forced to marry because they couldn't legally hold property or have a checking account etc. Checking accounts weren't an average thing for the average person historically, as soon as they really started becoming mainstream women started having them fairly soon afterward. same for property, property wasn't just something everyone had, and yes, depending on your country and culture women had their property respected Also where is this idea that single women are the happiest coming…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:04 PM
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Okay, lets actually look at your average woman vs. your average man and how much they're bringing to the table. Due to male selection pressures, women have evolved to be more objectively attractive than men. your average American woman is *at least* obese/extremely obese massively detracting from her attractiveness (40.4% of women were obese, 9.9% were extremely obese, so 51.3% of women obese) https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity Women will do more em…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:45 PM
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Whatever humans do is "natural" if there's a an uptick in murders because people are jealous and die more during hightened polygamous societies, then that's natural (hypothetically)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:23 PM
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For a host of reasons, but a key one I constantly relate to people is that if you want to die with dignity you need children. It's sad as fuck when your health fails and you have no advocate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:43 AM
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Ditto, we have a home, well paying jobs, and good stability all around. But a child would be stupid expensive and we have no safety net, like grandparents around to provide support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:39 AM
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I actually absolutely agree, but think it's more around the top 20% of guys in terms of good looks and charisma if you aren't up there, then yeah, go ahead and get out as fast as you can get a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:10 PM
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And you've probably known more that come from broken homes. Well, depending on how far you've stepped out of your "good home" bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:15 PM
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Altogether? I've hit the gym for a few years (currently slacking, but still overall visible abs, broad shoulders and moderately defined chest), I've spent about $5k on clothes this past year, I'd say for a given time I've gone to the club these past 3 years, I've spent about 2-3hrs getting ready. But at this point, clubs are wastelands, we've socially beat the fuck out of courting so hard that it's just exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:12 AM
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Oh god yes, one of the most annoying things I've repeatedly heard on labor is "Women do so much emotional labor for free" and you think men don't? Do you know how much ego I've had to feed, how much rearing I've had to do for full-grown women? How much personal growth and reflection I've had to foster in women around me? christ. But do I complain (outside of this moment just to make my point) no, not really, that's called being in a fucking relationship. For whatever reason the current dating ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:09 AM
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What does the data say on happiness of single lesbians vs. Married lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:39 PM
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Most dudes I know settle for mediocre sex, sex isn't everything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:32 AM
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Do we not fantasize in kind? There's always badder chicks out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 05:18 PM
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don't like chest hair/pubes/armpit hair/butt hair and I feel like I have the right to ask my partner to take care of that since he also would prefer me to not have leg hair/pubes/armpit hair/butt hair. Totally agree, if my woman wants my body shaved, I'm shaved, because I definitely don't like armpit hair and leg hair on her. Honestly even right now I only keep facial/pit hair because she likes it, and doesn't like stubble when I'm licking her. Pressing on his bladder? Fingering his bellybutton …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 03:51 PM
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I'm not even going to sugar coat this, but this annoys the ever living fuck out of me, and I'm not sure I can fully explain why, I suppose because, why the fuck do I want to be attracted women if they are barely fucking attracted to me like I am with them? I generally don't really care for female attention/validation, but this still annoys me for some reason and makes me bitter about my own sexuality. I completely agree man, I cope with this in a slightly odd way, I literally go to gay bars just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:09 PM
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fuck it's nice knowing someone has made an effort to look good for you by them dressing up, doing their hair, exfoliating, getting rid of their ass hair. This is a very strange thing to hear someone say, a what kind of men are you aiming for who don't care about their appearance? Me, and all my dudes are extremely well kempt, wear fitted clothes, light cologne, maintain good physiques/hairstyles, and of course shower daily. Hell speaking personally I have a daily skin care regimen. But ass hairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:59 PM
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What porn are you watching where the guy only last 30secs? Every porn I've ever seen guys are going 15min+ minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:10 PM
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Because everyone's social circles have been affected by this, traditionally you dated someone's cousin, sister, friend, etc. but now that cousin, sister, friend, etc, they all have a >50% chance of being obese. Hell even if you wanna try and go out and meet women, those women are pretty fat. The worst part is that the remaining options of thin, fit, slim, healthy, etc. women are just average women, so even then you're still working off a bell curve of that last 1/3ish of women just because of ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:21 AM
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So I specifically used women in the 35-44 age range as the stats here. Children age 12-19 have a 20% obesity rate and a 10% extreme obesity rate for a total of 30% alone obese Women in the 18-30 range had obesity/overweight rates of about 65% Obesity is extremely prevalent and affecting the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:38 AM
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Absolutely, black dude here. Bill Burr was 100% spouting truth on SNL, white women highjacked movements just to put themselves at the middle. Personal opinion here, almost all the social discontent we have right now going on can basically be boiled down to a culture war between white women vying for more power against/over white men. The rest of us are just useful idiots, "damn black, Mexican, asian, middle eastern person, doesn't it suck how much we're oppressed? Look at those straight white ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 06:52 PM
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Because these days "less attractive" usually just means straight up fat, consider that 44% of women are literally obese and another 26% of women are overweight and for a lot of men the true dealbreaker is literally just don't be too obese/overweight ( personally because sex is nice and all, but it's not worth being permanently connected to an obese woman if she ever got pregnant) then we get a clearer picture that the dating pool is more so a bunch of guys going for a few women with healthy weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:01 AM
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I think I see where i disagree with you at, I think you're waaay off on the average female beauty, the issue isnt that the average female is more attractive than the average man, it's literally the exact opposite, there's faaar more attractive men than women. That's what you're actually seeing here Check this out "Overweight & Obesity Statistics | NIDDK" https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity Currently, the average man is overweight, but the average wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:30 AM
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Well, it's not a the real model for judging how attractive you are as a man, it's a lot more about how good you are at taking pictures. Models in a photo shoot take literally hundreds of photos and then narrow down their best pictures to like the top 3 of those to ever publish. Most guys take like 3 shitty photos across a few years and hope that will carry them through. Want to do better, take hundreds of photos from different angles and diferent lighting and see how you do then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:00 AM
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This seems to completely disregard the gay male experience of being penetrated and how that still results in an intensely high casual sex culture. Gay men have higher of many of those risks (except pregnancy) but their community is fucking like bunnies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:45 AM
0

If you aren't mature enough to grow past or handle your past traumas in regards to relationship, you shouldn't be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 02:04 PM
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Just pick a highly rated one and have them come on one of your days off. They only take like 2-4hrs and really don't take much management if they're half decent and 9 times out of 10 come with predetermined packages and expectations, so it's literally like 10mins out your day elonce every 2 weeks or however often you want. TLDR: doesn't really matter, no one gets credit for telling someone else to clean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:48 AM
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So what you're saying is that if working a more dangerous job than the birth rate to provide for the child then I have more of a claim to the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:52 PM
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He didn't carry them. He didn't birth them. He didn't do the majority of the childcare tasks I'll never understand this carry and birth them talking point. You got mine months on carrying them that I couldn't, we both have a lifetime after that, and if I'm an even average father, then I was there the entire 9 months doing my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:10 AM
3

If they're making comparable money there's literally no reason they can't afford a cleaning service.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 10:07 AM
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A hot 50yr old woman will get a fuckton more play than a poor 50yr old man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:30 PM
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Personality definitely doesn't beat money, it's a close 3rd to income. There's very few rich male virgins out there I'd guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:25 PM
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If she offers sex quickly, I respectfully turn it down and see if she has more to offer. Take notes, this right here is one of the most solid things you can do, turning women down really throws them off their game
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:09 PM
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I don't get to know those women well in my field of work, there's very few women, and the ones there are have kids or are married. But, as I think about it I could easily imagine an unmarried older childless female engineer as being just as maladjusted as her male counterparts.ugh, bet she has cats
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:14 PM
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Engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:11 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but I'm really not on the lookout for this, it's just a recurring theme where these guys show themselves to fit the stereotype over time. I've met more than a few married guys with kids that fit the stereotype in ways as well, but overall it's been the unmarried who are just not as well adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:09 PM
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I'm an engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:44 PM
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so interesting thing about my stereotypes, I developed them just from working with the guys I'm talking about, I didn't feel this way before I had to start managing these guys and kept seeing these same character traits. am 28/m Good luck and godspeed at being a better man than the guys I've met/managed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:07 AM
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Yes, like I said this is blatantly anecdotal, I'm not claiming to be an authority
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:32 AM
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I'll be straight forward and honest on this, just so you have peak into the mindset, I silently judge the hell out of men who don't have wives or kids after about 35 years old. To me it comes off as someone who was either A. undesirable in their private life (an asshole/weirdo when you get too close) B. irresponsible overall C. unable to make solid long-term decisions, even if you may regret it. D. Manchildren Almost every single guy I've dealt with who wasn't married or no children at that age …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:02 AM
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Kevin Samuels is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:13 PM
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They can have as much sex as they want, but relationship? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:05 PM
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I disagree with the second paragraph, it’s not considered weird to cold approach. The weirdness comes in when someone approaches with an ulterior motive. Ulterior motives being what? The motive is generally fairly obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:27 PM
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I don’t find myself attractive at all but in the space of 1 year I had about 5/6 different girls express clear interest in me as well as telling me that they found me attractive. Yeah.... you're attractive fam, i'm not salty or anything, I get plenty of play myself, but if you sincerely get more than one woman going out of her way across the course of year, you're attractive, or they're REALLY unnattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:53 AM
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Disagree on the sexual advances one, with the expectation/burden being that men will make the sexual advances and do most of the initial relationship labor, it's pretty screwy to have courting standards that are based around guys reaching out, and then punish them hard for doing so. Basically men and women should have at least equal ability to fail at reaching out to the opposite sex without social ostracism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 12:14 PM
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Are people taking this seriously? That's the fakest fucking russian accent. Lemme guess you guys think she's really a life coach, guru, instagram model, food conessieur etc. Etc.? This shit was basic white girl funny, and a satire of some real gold diggers out there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/21 04:33 PM
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Love it when people say men aren't told how to dress, as if there aren't decades of "pull up your pants" laws directed directly towards men
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/20 04:22 PM
1

I take no delight hitting a woman, but this retarded idea that you just beat this dudes ass for no fucking reason and that somehow isn't subhuman is ridiculous
/r/PussyPassDenied03/08/20 11:37 PM
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Do you not understand what zoning is? Have you never fought mutliple people? You don't let them get behind you is like the first rule. You punch the fuck out of his girl, if he's zoned properly to be behind her, if not, you haven't zoned right.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 01:58 AM
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That's fine, but as civilized people, you have to take that into account, you have to zone him out, give him an oppurtunity to get the fuck out of your way, if he touches you and prevents you from going the direction you're going then you're well within your rights to kick his ass to.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 01:15 AM
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I didn't say don't beat his ass too if he comes for you instead of your girl, I'm just also pressing charges
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/20 12:00 AM
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Yeah, fuck that, if you sucker punch me because of some shit my woman does I'm going to press charges on you hard as shit. This isn't 1950 dumbass, you got a problem take it out on her, don't sucker-punch me
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 10:40 PM
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As an economist, if you don't understand infinite growth you don't understand the economy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/20 07:28 PM
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Bro, he aimed directly fucking at where she was standing and very purposely sprayed her. He's a grown fucking man and should've just ignored her whiny ass. If someone is harassing me and I have the capacity to ignore them and keep doing my job, I'm going to keep doing my job and ignore them. I'm not going to spray them with water like a 8 year old. Liking something doesn't mean it fits the description, what the hell kinda logic does that make? By this logic, if a video of a dog farting got upvot…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/20 07:24 PM
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Ah yes, because feminists hangout on "pussy pass denied". He should not have sprayed her, he had an entire field to spray, hitting her with water was uncalled for. Also, this doesn't even count as a pussy pass, no grown fucking man would spray another grown fucking man with water in this situation because he wouldn't want to spark the inevitable fight. A pussy pass would be if he had only not fucked them up because they're female
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/20 06:56 PM
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In their defense, he sprayed her first, which was completely uncalled for. Don't step words up to action
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/20 02:01 PM
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Gotta love how the friend just watched her get her ass whooped after a certain point like "yeah, she's got this, she'll figure out how to escape this choke hold"
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/20 10:03 AM
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Does anyone else think it's weird that he seems to be driving her somewhere else instead of where she wants to go?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/20 01:33 PM
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