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| 7 | This Shit Got 3.4 Million LikesThe engagement ring is the last vestige of brideprice. It was kind of an insurance policy for the woman in case her husband died or turned out to be a scumbag back when women were expected not to work outside of the home. It doesn't make sense in a world where both are expected to work outside of the home. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/08/26 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Opinion: AskFeminists has no interest in "male feminist" perspectives on dropping college attendance. And censors opinions accordingly.It's both. There's a lot of obvious generative AI rage bait that makes it to the front page from there, and anyone pointing out the AI tells gets downvoted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/26 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Europe treats Ukrainian men as cannon fodder, not as human beings.Canada has a weird history with Ukraininan Nazis. While Russia and America were fighting over the most useful German ones, Canada took in all of the Ukrainians. Your house of commons invited and gave two standing ovations to a Ukrainian member of the Waffen SS -- the actual, for real, WWII Nazis -- a couple years back. I'm not making this up. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 8 | How quartz kitchen counters are silently killing men...Prison terms for negligent bosses and owners would solve the problem better than banning the industry. There shouldn't need to be new laws or anything, they're guilty of manslaughter at the very least. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/26 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of ManosphereAnd whose fault is that? Heaven forbid a man have standards that go beyond looks and require getting to know someone a bit before being interested in starting a relationship, and not be interested in finding random, empty hookups until one of those hookups coincidentally happens to be with someone who's attractive on a deeper level. It's a total double bind. You're shallow if you do and a creep if you don't. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/26 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Is the fact that the accusations against Graham Platner hardly dented the momentum of his Senate campaign a sign of progress?The man joined the marines, then the national guard while they were getting actively deployed, re-upped in the national guard multiple times, and when they were done with him he joined fucking Blackwater. Those are not the actions of a man who has it in him to change, let alone one who realized he made a mistake and is trying to atone. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 6 | The r/comics subreddit is moderated by radical feminists who claim that misandry only exists in theory, as does racism towards white people. It got me banned.Towards the bottom of their long and rather unhinged rant they say that "Misandry does not exist. Fuck you." They then claim that racism is prejudice + power, which is why you can't be racist towards towards white people. And since we live in a patriarchy, there is no systemic or institutionalized misandry, and so therefore misandry does not exist. And that 100% of the problems faced by men are a direct result of misogyny. In other comments this same mod referenced radical conservative feminist … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/26 10:20 PM |
| 10 | The r/comics subreddit is moderated by radical feminists who claim that misandry only exists in theory, as does racism towards white people. It got me banned.The comic is kind of an ad for her OnlyFans. It wouldn't surprise me if the misandry in the two comics the other guy mentioned was just her catering to dudes with a humiliation kink. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | If there was an equivalent draft for women, DC would be in flamesYeah. forced pregnancy was where I thought he was going to go with it. It even dovetails with one of the common excuses for why women aren't drafted -- they're needed to repopulate after the war. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/26 11:20 PM |
| 1 | [Repost] Why does ‘male gaze’ have ‘male’ in it?I’m on mobile and I have no idea how to quote the way you’re doing, but to your example of the non pornographic male gaze, I’d say the fact that it’s a cleavage still makes it inline with the typical examples. I’m almost certain if you used a scene from a movie like that as an example, people in the comments would say it is a pornographic shot at least, even if the film itself isn’t porn. Don’t you think male gaze can exist outside of focusing on any of women’s sexual characteristics, like their… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/26 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Smearing men as pedophilesAnd in schools as teaching materials. And in every office in the country. And they're extremely common in the tabletop gaming community. I hate this tiktok self censorship shit. It's just a goddamned word. If you're too squeamish or don't have enough respect for a topic this serious to use the actual word, you're not mature enough to participate in the conversation. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/06/26 07:13 AM |
| 4 | Both the "Red Pill" and "Progressive" narratives about men are wrong. Here is a structural analysis of why men are opting out.Dead in a ditch from a drone I couldn't do anything about or dead after killing someone who actually deserves it and was in some way directly responsible for me being in that situation. Gee, I wonder what the better choice is. And how many think like me. The best case for the bastards is the war goes smoothly but the survivors come home with military training and a grudge. A draft is a very dumb idea for them. That was kind of the lesson of Vietnam, it was just less existential for the ruling cl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/26 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Both the "Red Pill" and "Progressive" narratives about men are wrong. Here is a structural analysis of why men are opting out.If they want to hand us guns, let them be the guns they're overthrown with. Even conscripts swear an oath to defend against both foreign and domestic enemies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | [Repost] Why does ‘male gaze’ have ‘male’ in it?I could imagine that being the intended use, but it’s gotten so assumed by common gender discourse that I would say the colloquial use tends to be exactly just about what men and women prefer to look at. I’d include the usage in a lot pop culture articles with that as well, but fair enough' You're not really disagreeing here. Some people seem to be using it as a verb in this thread, like they're conflating it with a lecherous stare or something, when it's really more of a noun. Yeah I mean if it… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 02:16 AM |
| 6 | [Repost] Why does ‘male gaze’ have ‘male’ in it?Usually the terms "male gaze" and "female gaze" are used in context to mean what a piece of art focuses on. It's not just men or women looking, it's what they'd prefer to be looking at. As for the female gaze, I don't know if I can define it, but I know it when I see it. Art that's meant to titillate women just focuses on different aspects of the body. I'm not making a value judgement either, it's just literally that you can tell who a piece of smut is primarily aimed at based on what it focuses… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 07:01 PM |
| 10 | [Repost] Why does ‘male gaze’ have ‘male’ in it?Female gaze is absolutely used and there is a distinction between how the two depict even homoerotic imagery. I think it was this sub I recently saw someone mention the difference between Tom of Finland's art (which is the art of a gay man drawing men for other gay men) and the kind of sexualized depictions of gay men drawn by straight women for other straight women, and it really is a stark difference. Not in a way that makes the female gaze more pure or anything, it's just very different in wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/26 03:42 PM |
| 28 | An Israeli soldier who served in Gaza says that the order from above was "to kill every military-age male"It was pretty standard in bronze age warfare. And for basically all of the history of warfare before and a lot of it after. Kill the men and enslave the women and children. Big surprise an ethnostate built around a bronze age religion whose holy book is full of examples of exactly this crime being ordained by god is continuing to do it. Edit: it's also part of why Jewish ethnicity is passed down matrilineally and doesn't take the father into account at all. It was that standard in bronze age war… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Also men's fault, women's biology 🙄Dick pill ads. That are presumably individually targeted (I guess based on age and sex in this case) because they're on the internet. If I so much as watch youtube without an ad blocker, that's, like, half the ads now. It's ridiculous. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Also men's fault, women's biology 🙄Low T is why you take testosterone, though, not bluechew. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 25 | The obsession movie increasing misandry, similar to Adolescence show.In Harry Potter it was pretty explicitly a magical date rape drug and Ron ended up being the one hit with it in a bad way (something about it having been in some laced chocolates meant for Harry, Harry not trusting them, Ron getting into them well after the fact, and the potion getting more potent with age). It was, however, played for laughs more than horror, even though it was also pointed out how fucked up the whole thing was. It was a pretty weird sequence from what I remember. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/26 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Also men's fault, women's biology 🙄erectile dysfunction I'm at an age where I'm starting to get ads for help dealing with that, and the thing is everything down there is working as well as it did when I was a teenager. I don't think it's a coincidence that I'm able to say that and that I'm uncircumcised. The older I get the more I think widespread ED is a direct result of widespread circumcision. So that's one more thing to add to the list. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/05/26 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Autistic men are not "coddled"So do the people I'm describing. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Autistic men are not "coddled"No, it is. The alt right are not normal people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 11 | Autistic men are not "coddled"Basically the same way OP used it, but talking about approaching political topics with people with more normal politics, rather than masking autism around neurotypicals. Actually if you ask the ones that talk like that they might say it's one and the same. They're a weird bunch. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Autistic men are not "coddled"The alt right got it from Dragonball. We're talking the kind of guys who used to hang out on /pol/ here, they're a weird mix of nazi and full on basement dwelling geek. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Autistic men are not "coddled"Be careful with that. Here it was clear what he meant, but it's also associated with alt-right politics. Pretending to be less far right then you are when feeling people out or spending time around people who wouldn't approve if you were open about your politics, especially if you think you might be able to bring them around by being subtle. Thought I should mention it since you're literally talking about masking autism and this is a situation where missing nuance could bite you in the ass. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/26 03:19 PM |
| 3 | How the Ruling Class Exploits Male Violence as a Systemic ResourceBy the same token, no need to start dehumanizing Russians because their government is doing the same things your own government does, and is doing by proxy in Ukraine. I feel sympathy for the Ukrainian people, but literally none of the governments involved have their best interests at heart right now. Not even their own. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/26 04:01 AM |
| 3 | How the Ruling Class Exploits Male Violence as a Systemic ResourceNo, I equated American invaders in, E.G., Iran with their Russian counterparts. Although maybe it's not as clear of a comparison as it would have been with Iraq. If you're too young to remember that one, the Bush administration and their media lackeys literally told us our soldiers would be welcomed as liberators by the Iraqi people. They even named the invasion "Operation Iraqi Freedom." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How the Ruling Class Exploits Male Violence as a Systemic Resource"Ruzzian." Although the whole "their savage invaders, our noble liberators" thing is also at play here. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/05/26 10:46 PM |
| 6 | How the Ruling Class Exploits Male Violence as a Systemic ResourceThat's called a poverty draft, and there's no need to single out Russia or throw slurs around when the US does the same thing. Everyone involved in actually fighting that war is sandwiched between two empires and three sets of oligarchs who are using them as disposable pawns. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/05/26 09:23 PM |
| 20 | Child marriage happens to boys but they ignore itOh well that's fine, that's just a military draft! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/26 03:33 PM |
| 3 | First Hormone-Free Male Birth Control Pill Shown Safe in Early Human TrialFinancial benefits (to the patient, not just the pharmaceutical company) are routinely taken into account with medicine. ADHD drugs, for example, wouldn't exist otherwise. The only real benefit of those is making it possible for the patient to put up with the inhuman modern work/school culture and get and maintain gainful employment. Seems like maybe male birth control is regulated in the wrong category or something. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/26 08:54 PM |
| 8 | First Hormone-Free Male Birth Control Pill Shown Safe in Early Human TrialAvoiding 18 years of child support is not what I'd call for someone else's benefit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/26 08:35 AM |
| 16 | Why TikTok's DoorDash Girl Has Finally Been Indicted | LAWYER EXPLAINSVery rarely do such people leave the door open though. Unlocked yes, but open? You've never thought you closed a door but actually had it stick just shy of latching before? Especially when drunk enough to pass out? I've had that happen fully sober and while thinking the door was locked before (because it was, the lock was just in the handle and useless if the door wasn't latched), let alone black out drunk. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/26 05:37 PM |
| 12 | American Female Popstars’ Sexualisation of Young Boys: An Underdiscussed and Harmful PhenomenonYou sick groomer! /s In another 15 years or so there's going to be a lot of millennial and younger gen x parents wondering why they don't have grandkids. They won't put together that they were so obsessed with keeping their kids innocent beyond the point of that being developmentally appropriate that it prevented them from exploring their sexuality and making those crucial early dating mistakes when they were still low stakes and easy to recover from. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/26 04:20 PM |
| 12 | American Female Popstars’ Sexualisation of Young Boys: An Underdiscussed and Harmful PhenomenonExact age numbers for the definitions can vary. I think a more accurate way to distinguish them is by the Tanner scale of human sexual development. Of course if you do that you can't get outraged at men for being attracted to tits and ass instead of numbers. There was a thread in TwoX the other day where there were all fantasizing about screaming at men and calling them pedos in public for looking at their fully post-pubescent but still technically underage (in California, and above the age of c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/26 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Some people seem really angry that "62 million men are in a rape academy" is incorrect.Watching nothing. It's like saying every single pornhub visitor was a member of a specific fetish club that posted gay porn videos. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/26 07:38 PM |
| 13 | Some people seem really angry that "62 million men are in a rape academy" is incorrect.It's challenging it either way, and unsourced claims need to be challenged. It's only bad faith if you ask for a source as a rhetorical move but plan to disregard anything the other guy provides no matter what. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | The Men Are Not AlrightThere's nothing leftist about them. Ronald Reagan and Margaret Thatcher were neoliberalis. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/26 04:15 AM |
| 10 | Can someone give me a run down on the recent "95% of men study?"Self reported or convicted? If they were self reported you'd think it'd be 100%. If it was convicted I'm surprised only 5% maintain that they were innocent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/26 07:02 AM |
| 5 | What are the best places for men's rights and well-being?Stratovarius fan? If not I bet you are now that I've mentioned it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/And what, pray tell, is the difference? The answer is there isn't one. What you call crony capitalism is just the natural result of capitalism. In capitalism, money is power, and that causes it to accumulate in fewer and fewer hands over time. If that flair isn't ironic you really have a lot to unlearn here. These are literally Libertarian talking points you're spouting. Dumb Libertarian talking points. The kind that even the more educated Libertarians tend to scoff at. Edit: Ah, I see you've ed… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/Literally everything you've said here is wrong and it's pure cold war era capitalist propaganda. There's not even a point in going point by point, I'd just be re-writing your post and saying it's wrong. The idea that only a petty bourgeoisie forms under capitalism is especially ridiculous. I mean, do you think Donald Trump is petite bourgeoisie? Or Jeff Bezos? Or that John D. Rockefeller was, for that matter? Do you even know what bourgeoisie means or what the difference is between petite/petty … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/Socialism is when the workers own the means of production. It's literally the exact opposite of corporatism. Fascism is capitalism taken to an extreme. It's what capitalists try as a last resort to preserve their social and economic position when the system is collapsing under its own weight and they need to stave off popular movements to change to a new system, like socialism. The racial stuff is also mostly specific to the German version. I mean it was there in Italian and Japanese fascism, bu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 05:59 PM |
| 3 | What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/The word for what Nazi Germany was doing is fascism. It was explicitly opposed to socialism. Like, as a core tenet of the ideology. They had the word "socialist" in the name of the party but it had a huge asterisk about what made it different from what everyone else called Socialism, which they claimed was a Jewish plot. Hitler gave whole speeches about it. They were just using the name to try to siphon off support from the main alternative to their movement. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/26 05:21 PM |
| 7 | What are flaws of a socialist system, and can a system like this harm men/Socialism takes the concept that a rising tide lifts all boats, and correctly recognizes that tides rise from the bottom. It (on its own, not attached to technically unrelated concepts like feminism) benefits anyone who works for a living, instead of having other people work for them while they live like a king. In fact it's a very good refutation of maximalist Tumblr-style intersectionalism: if any group is disproportionately affected by current economic conditions, fixing those conditions for … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 0 | There is an adgenda in certain progressive spaces, to downplay the indifference many men have towards romantic relationships with women.It may not be the one you meant to respond to, but it's the one you responded to. Comments are threaded, you can see that you're responding to the deleted one that that guy is also responding to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/26 04:23 PM |
| 0 | There is an adgenda in certain progressive spaces, to downplay the indifference many men have towards romantic relationships with women.Not that you can see the first guy's comment anymore because again, the mods removed it, but: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1rvphxk/there_is_an_adgenda_in_certain_progressive_spaces/oavzgx3/ There you are telling the guy who was literally talking about red pilling people by name that it was "perfectly said." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/26 04:21 PM |
| 0 | There is an adgenda in certain progressive spaces, to downplay the indifference many men have towards romantic relationships with women.You're literally downthread agreeing with a comment from an open red piller actively talking about how to redpill people that's since been removed by the mods. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/26 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.I question how well you can read if you're having this much trouble picking up on authorial intent and reading between the lines. It's all there in what the guy wrote. I'm not making anything up. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/26 02:09 PM |
| 9 | Feminists think that MTP not being considered rape is better for men.I agree, media transfer protocol mode is rape and should never have been added to the standards. USB Mass Storage is much more respectful of fundamental consumer rights. No, seriously, what the hell are you talking about? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | There is an adgenda in certain progressive spaces, to downplay the indifference many men have towards romantic relationships with women.Over the last week or so we seem to have gotten a big influx of red pillers. There's a couple guys upthread openly namedropping it, even. And not to talk about someone else. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/26 07:39 PM |
| -4 | Dear Louis Theroux: we are the manosphereIt's like some red pill sub got banned and we're getting a wave of refugees or something. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.Except that's not what the thread is about. It's basically OP vomiting his weird homophobic hangups all over the place and reading malice into completely innocuous -- and entirely solicited -- advice, and a bunch of other dumbasses with the same hangups cheering him on in the comments. It's like that episode of Family Guy where Peter got a prostate exam and decided the doctor's finger going up his butt was rape. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.It was mostly about sexual insecurity in regards to having difficulty pleasing a partner. The whole thing reeks of the guy talking around insecurities and trying to claim any suggestion for dealing with it is inherently emasculating... because he has unexamined homophobia. Your reaction to butt stuff suggestions ("gross, that's where shit comes from!") sounds perfectly normal, by the way. It's the "are you calling me gay?!" reaction that's ridiculous. I just don't think OP is arguing in good fai… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.Most guys are afraid to try it because they think if they like it it means they're gay. It's normalized homophobia, not some inherent aspect of male sexuality. This is supposed to be a left wing space and it's entirely in line for me to call you guys out on this. If this was one of those guys who refuses to wipe his ass because he thinks touching his butt is gay, you'd be right there with me. I hope. If not that once again says more about you than it does me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.Yes, he does. There's nothing inherently gay about butt stuff. If you think there is you're telling on yourself. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.You haven't established that that assumption is being made. All you've really said is you think that's being implied when pegging is suggested. I frankly don't believe what you're saying in that first paragraph or you'd have said it earlier. And this is the first you've mentioned oral. On which front, there's a point where having a list of hangups goes beyond simply not enjoying the one act and instead shows you're not attracted to either the female body or at least your current partner. At a mi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.yes that kind of attitude is exactly what I've been calling out this entire time. And I'm calling you out in turn for doing exactly what you're accusing others of. You've got a blind spot. how am I doing that when my post is about reinforcing boundaries and consent? are boundaries only acceptable when it comes to non hetero men? Consent was explicitly given. You're just uncomfortable -- on other people's behalf -- with the idea of a straight dude engaging in prostate play. Because you think it's… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 03:09 PM |
| -1 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.No, as I said that's a completely separate problem. It's not merely a good faith, solicited suggestion, either, it's actually a suggestion that deep down they're not really a man and has exactly the same kind of rigid gender role bullshit underpinning it as what I'm calling you out for. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 02:51 PM |
| -4 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.See you're exactly the type of person my post was calling out, if a straight man feels uncomfortable with unsolicited sexual remarks, Jesus, dude, it's explicitly solicited. Your scenario is someone asking for help with sex problems and you're saying it's unsolicited because you are uncomfortable with the thought of certain sex acts and think they're automatically gay or emasculating even when it's in the context of a loving straight couple. That's a you problem, and yes, misogyny is part of it.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 02:40 PM |
| -19 | Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized.Hey, man, your prostate is a sex organ whether you're gay or not. It's only gay if the thing up your ass is a dick (or otherwise being shoved up there by another man). I think you might be reading too much into some suggestions that are more earnest and innocuous than you think. It's not unsolicited sexualization to suggest ways someone literally asking for help with bedroom trouble could spice things up. Edit: Come on guys, 3/4 of OP's post is the guy telling on himself for homophobia. He sees … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 07:00 AM |
| 41 | How to talk with normal leftistIf one person saw it before it was removed and it made them rethink (or even just recognize!) some assumptions, it did more good than a thousand mealy mouthed attempts to talk around the issue. When you argue online, you're not really trying to win over the person you're arguing with, you're trying to win over the audience. And that audience could stand to see that there's more to left wing politics than reactionary Tumblr-grade radlibbery. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/26 06:57 AM |
| 15 | Norway may stop accepting Ukrainian men of fighting ageOr leave them with the father, or the grandparents, or the state that they're defending. You know, exactly like you're demanding the fathers do. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 06:48 AM |
| 10 | Norway may stop accepting Ukrainian men of fighting ageWhere the hell did you get feminist from any of this? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 06:46 AM |
| 14 | Norway may stop accepting Ukrainian men of fighting ageIf that's the case they've already reproduced and their services on that front are no longer any more necessary than those of the fathers. What makes mothers so special? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 04:18 AM |
| 16 | Norway may stop accepting Ukrainian men of fighting ageThe Russians aren't in this to kill Ukrainians, they want to replace the government. And judging by the fact that these men are fleeing, they don't seem to be willing to die to prevent that. What right does a government that's lost the support of its people have to throw them into a meat grinder? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 04:16 AM |
| 21 | Norway may stop accepting Ukrainian men of fighting ageWould you be willing to die for that under the circumstances? So some other dude could impregnate multiple chicks and the current set of corrupt assholes who wanted you dead stayed in power instead of the other set of corrupt assholes who wanted to replace them? Personally I'd probably be trying to find a way to deal with the local corrupt asshole problem myself under the circumstances. Definitely so if my avenues for getting the hell out of there were closed off. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/26 03:03 AM |
| 11 | Boys falling behind in schoolsOne who told the students in class directly that she discriminates against boys in grading. That's a naked Title IX violation and you could have gotten the teacher and the school in serious trouble for it. Edit: Assuming you're in the US. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/26 05:59 PM |
| 32 | Biological Determinism and the Dismissal of Men's IssuesAnd another way of phrasing those choices is 1. Spend your life walking on eggshells and apologizing for not being sufficiently submissive to the women in your life, all while getting shit for supposedly being an oppressor no matter what you do or 2. Become the person they keep telling you you are, and quit caring what they think about that. Even the self hatred over not being all-powerful comes with a built in goal to work towards which has some kind of material benefit to you at every step of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/26 05:50 PM |
| 17 | New Algerian law on retirement age for public school workers: 57 for men and 52 for women.If you set up a system like this right (for a cynical and evil enough definition of right), the men die before they get to retire and the women lose too many years of work to child rearing to ever hit their lower-on-paper minimum. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/26 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Misandrist and feminist loreI hadn't heard the wiping thing. The version I always hear is that it's disturbingly common for guys to not properly wash their asscracks in the shower, which is a lot more believable and something I'd actually expect women to be more aware of than other guys, unless you're somehow regularly getting your face right up in the crotch of strange and ostensibly straight men with their pants off. I agree with the general sentiment, though. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/26 06:46 AM |
| 42 | "Women are Wonderful" effect is really the "Men are Horrible" effectThat framing is more resistant to criticism than a more accurate one, like the "Men are Horrible" effect, which implies men are evaluated below an acceptable social baseline. About ten years ago, when the insanity of Tumblr-style identity politics was at its peak, I frequently made exactly this complaint about the way white (and male, for that matter) privilege was commonly framed, and it never went over well. A lot of the lists of supposed privileges granted by skin color were just white people… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftYes, and they're the ones doing the drafting. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 04:36 AM |
| -1 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftAll three were imperialist. One was about Washington not wanting to lose half of its empire, another was about Britain not wanting to lose a chunk of its empire, and the third one was about Germany being upset they were the only major power in Europe without an empire of their own, and trying to change it. War is inherently imperialist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftExcept we know the opposite is true because the last time they actually enforced a draft it went so badly they all but completely abolished it. The only reason we didn't have a draft for Iraq and Afghanistan is because the brass knew they wouldn't be able to stay there for decades if they did. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftIt means there's a widely held assumption that it's generally wrong. You're the one who claimed that the idea that there can't be a just war was extreme. I pointed out that there wouldn't be so much effort put into justifying it, especially in the form these arguments take, of war being bad but the other guy being worse and war being the only way to stop him, if most people didn't see war itself as an injustice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftSo, even if public support is in the toilet and everyone is afraid of being drafted, the public can't do anything about it Sure they can. Public outrage over the draft is what ended the Vietnam war. We used to draft not only the poor, but also the middle class and the parts of the upper class that had political aspirations. The Kennedy brother who was originally being groomed for politics died in WWII, and he was hardly alone. Now we only draft the poor, only we call choosing to become a contrac… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftHere's the actual based take on that: Speed limits are largely revenue generating bullshit and a regressive tax. We should probably have a limit, but the process of setting them is political rather than scientific (even though traffic engineering is a science and the engineers design the roads for use at a specific speed, it's very often set lower by local politicians), and the fines exist more to be a tax that hurts more the poorer you are than to actually encourage better driving behavior. You… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftAnd mandate a draft for any and every conflict, for that matter. The quickest way to end a war is to make sure everyone takes part in it and bears actual risk from it. The lesson of Vietnam, which the politicians learned all too well, was you can't fight a forever war if you don't have an insulated warrior caste who does the killing and dying while everyone else sees no change in their daily life. People who self select as being willing to die for a paycheck. If it's not worth dying over, it's n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The Leftyou have to show there could never be justified war, and that's a pretty extreme view. On the contrary, the extreme view is that there can be a justified war. That's why so much effort is spent justifying it, and why it always comes down to "he started it" or "he was going to start it". The justifications boil down to the injustice having been visited on you by someone else. Which implicitly acknowledge that war itself is an injustice. It's normalized extremism, but it's extremism that keeps hav… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Dismissing The Draft Is Shocking Misandry In The LeftEven WWII was an unjust war. The allies were taking part in the same war as the Axis. The fact that the injustice was visited upon them and they were simply fighting back doesn't mean it wasn't an injustice. There is and literally can be no such thing as a just war. There are just reasons to resist during an unjust war, and maybe just reasons to fire the first shot if the other guy was going to if you didn't, or that he'd already been waging through other means (justifiable revolutions fall unde… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/26 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Vent: I am tired of the widespread normalized hate we are facing as men and being expected to just shrug it off.Most are straight white men, even. Just because minorities are disproportionately affected by some negative thing doesn't necessarily mean the majority isn't also affected, or even that they aren't the majority negatively affected. Police brutality is a problem for everyone. It certainly is for everyone who isn't wealthy -- the one privileged group that's most likely to get glossed over in these discussions, while also the one most likely to be saved by their privilege in any given situation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/01/26 10:55 PM |
| 16 | I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spacesThere's literally a declassified CIA field manual that explains how to do it. The Simple Sabotage Field Manual. It's so old they were still called the OSS at the time. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Cool to know you guys exist.The Dems are a center right party. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 11:32 PM |
| 12 | Cool to know you guys exist.Eh, the remnants of the dirtbag left would only disapprove inasmuch as the place isn't explicitly communist. But there are honest to god commies (and not just what the right thinks the word means) hanging around. Of course the dirtbag left itself was never exactly popular with Tumblrites. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/25 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What are the main arguments against patriarchy theory from a Marxist perspective?What's the communist Wealth of Nations? It's certainly not the Communist Manifesto. It's Das Kapital. And also The Wealth of Nations to some extent. Adam Smith would have been horrified by modern capitalism and modern capitalists would be horrified by some of the things in his book if any of them bothered to read it. The other answer is more from a Leninist perspective than a purely Marxist one, for whatever that's worth. The whole thing with socialism being an intermediate step to communism is … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/25 05:24 AM |
| 0 | What are the main arguments against patriarchy theory from a Marxist perspective?this meant that women were essentially pregnant for most of their adult lives Aaaaand some things about preggo porn just clicked for me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/25 05:11 AM |
| 21 | Warning: certain ideology is now considered "identity or vulnerability" under Reddit's Rule 1 - with all consequencesThe paradox of tolerance as it's known on the internet didn't even come from him, it came from this webcomic. The way Popper defined it, it was intolerance of speech that couldn't be tolerated. As in you can say whatever you want, but the instant you start silencing other people, banning books, throwing people in jail for speech, that kind of thing, then it becomes necessary for a tolerant society to stop tolerating your intolerance in order to maintain its overall stance of tolerance. But words… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/25 06:56 AM |
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