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Fuck_Dacts/r/seduction17/08/14 01:02 PM
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Thanks for the words. The calling out part stems from acknowledging people's mood. If someone looks sad I'll call them out on it. It usually wakes them up emotionally and opens them right up. In this situation I would not have been so blunt. Bringing up related topics on the slow move to attraction. I can see that I may have pussied out but I still stand by the context of the situation. This place was awash with girls scrambling to talk to me. I feel no need to rush, just enjoy. Poker I get, it'…
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:52 PM
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That could be the case. Acting truthfully has been a problem before. Honestly I didn't feel a strong enough drive. I am fairly indifferent and didn't feel stong enough pull one way or the other.
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:24 PM
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Honestly I don't mind. I wasn't there to find a sexual partner. Just to meet people. It would be nice to meet her again but I'm fine either way. Just saw the signs and thought it was cute. We talked all of about 30 mins so I don't know her incredibly well. My plan is to move to Japan in about 6 months time. Currently I am having fairly regular sex between a fuck buddy and other randoms. This means motivation to escalate is not always there and I felt that the place was inapropriate. If I could l…
/r/seduction06/01/15 12:20 PM
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masjid? And what is your reason behind this?
/r/seduction06/01/15 11:41 AM
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Yo!
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:12 PM
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Here is a good quick guide. http://www.mrmediatraining.com/2013/05/02/five-things-you-should-know-about-body-language/ Recently saw thumbs in action with this video. From 0:38 we see a confident man surrounded by unconfident males. Marcus is the worst here, thumbs in pocket, not holding eye contact with the ref and facing his torso away. Basically the article has the key points but the book explains in much greater detail.
/r/seduction27/10/14 07:48 AM
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What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People by Joe Navarro Great resource on the things to look out for in body language. It made me more aware about my actions and noticing things in other people. My favorite thing to look at now is thumbs. They speak volumes. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0061438294?pc_redir=1413517413&robot_redir=1
/r/seduction21/10/14 10:56 PM
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Any Aussies with deodorant/cologne suggestions?
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:16 PM
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Thank you! Will use this at the next event.
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:57 PM
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I don't worry about wait times with tinder. Just message when you feel like it. It's hard to guage her interest with so little information. You will know pretty quickly on your date. Can someone more experienced with gym dates step in? I do my workouts at home. Can see easy kino for you but also sweat and grunting. Both turn offs for me. To each their own though.
/r/seduction07/10/14 03:07 PM
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What really? You already have a direct link to her phone, it's called tinder. Numbers are pointless before a date when you meet with the app. Five messages is also a lot less than I would use to set up a date. I have to get to know them a bit better first before rushing into a date. If they are compatible with my ideals then I will ask. If not then we both save the time and money. Been on many tinder dates and the worst ones have been the shortest conversations. It's a value thing. It shows need…
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:41 PM
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A week is not much time to guage anything. After reading 'Models' I decided to only masturbate once a week. Found it difficult but stuck with it. After a while I found the no fap community and took the no masturbation challenge. Soon after I went into a flatline, basically having no libido for 6 weeks. I was having sex but really struggling to maintain an erection. This was a annoying part of the process but it was my brain rebooting after watching porn for half my life. Now it's easy to get an …
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:57 AM
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Yeah could be mental block. Anything else going on in your life? Serious question but how often do you masturbate?
/r/seduction06/10/14 02:28 PM
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It worked though it was dishonest.
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:53 PM
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Step one - use your arms excessively to hone in every point.
/r/seduction02/10/14 02:07 PM
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Way easier just to flatten the 7th.
/r/seduction30/09/14 01:18 PM
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Crazy is a state of perception.
/r/seduction28/09/14 03:06 PM
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I second the travel. I've made huge leaps in my social anxiety while on tour. Just being in new and ever changing environments with the intent to improve no matter what has helped a ton. When I walk around I say hello to everyone no matter who they are. My favorite part of this is hearing the stories that people have. Everyone has one and are usually heartbreaking and beautiful if not funny. In three weeks I have gone from shy to talking to girls in many different situations. Now I am looking fo…
/r/seduction19/09/14 11:12 AM
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Thanks for the comment. The gig went really well. I had the crowd chanting my name during my dance solo. My value was indeed high. I went and talked with her and her new friends after the first set. We had fun and the conversation was light and playful. Honestly I think she was not interested. After the gig I went a talked to her again saying that I must pack up first but would like to have a drink. Unfortunately she declined as she was tired. Her loss. I still had a great night. Plenty of more …
/r/seduction18/09/14 06:54 AM
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She seemed pretty open but you could be right.
/r/seduction17/09/14 07:04 AM
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I have never thought movie dates were a good idea. No chance to get to know her or escalate. Personally I would take her to a high energy place with lots of interactive things. Science museum, video game arcade, art gallery, $2 shop. Somewhere that provides a conversation topics easily.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:03 AM
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But now you are telling him what he should do.
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:38 AM
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Just got back from my fourth gig in four days. Played in Exmouth, West Australia. Getting better on my way. Hugged a girl after the first set. Set was definitely a 9.All it took was a smile and she was open. On stage I am a maniac with my bass playing and my dance moves. Even jumping into the crowd with a tambourine and really letting fly. I guess I'm a little stuck as I have to pack up straight away after the gig and I smell incredibly bad. Guess it's a but hard when the party stops when I do. …
/r/seduction06/09/14 04:09 PM
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30 year old musician here. I go out very regularly to see and play gigs in pubs. When I play I get free drinks which is nice. Not playing I will have maybe one beer and call it at that. Too expensive to be drinking every night and I feel it gives me a chance to be 100% in the game. Plus it is harder to dance with a beer in hand. I'm a firm believer in quitting with your vices present. Early on you may want to avoid it but if you do not give yourself the chance to say no you haven't truly beaten …
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:31 PM
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You are right I am getting too defensive. I have overreacted and identified the steps I must take in not being so serious about little things.
/r/seduction20/08/14 12:14 AM
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I'm all for having fun and relaxing. It's not nice to ask for help and share myself and get laughed at. Guess this is part of seddit too.
/r/seduction19/08/14 11:33 PM
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I did for a while and got depressed. With the strong reactions I have been feeling i don't see my AA going quickly. Why not have fun along the way.
/r/seduction19/08/14 11:08 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I believe the next step is acting on this plan. In the past I have talked with strangers though they have been introduced to me. I may be looking for interest before approaching. I know this is wrong and is an irrational fear. Store people are much the same. Can carry a conversation quite well. Guess over protective parents have infected my head with stranger danger.
/r/seduction19/08/14 11:05 PM
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Thanks but I don't see how this helps.
/r/seduction19/08/14 10:39 PM
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Thank you. I am not that fit so I would stand out in a health food store. It is not congruent with my lifestyle of gigs and beer. Not to worry these concepts can be transferred into many helpful situations. Where is your A at now?
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:59 AM
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Thank you for the advice. A mall would be a nice place to try. That way I am there for one thing and not on my way somewhere.
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:57 AM
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In the quest for privacy I would prefer not. I am average but do quite well in tinder. My photos and profile are polarizing. I say what I want without apologie and all my photos are of me doing crazy things in public. It's a reflection of myself and my desires. I have since deleted tinder as it is not helping my approach anxiety.
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:35 AM
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No worries mate. After reading the rest of the comments in the thread I think we both have it pretty good. I would class myself as average so all my profile pics are of me being larger than life. As you said it has helped us focus on the later parts of the date first while we are getting over AA. The "So you're hot, what of it." is a good place to be. It puts us in control and in a comfortable position. Reading this recently helped too. Though my situation was not the same as his I could see som…
/r/seduction31/07/14 03:35 AM
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I'm on the same quest mate. I have had the opposite experience with online. It has given me confidence around women and abundance mindset. I have done a few small approaches, just a hi and quick chat. I am in no hurry to jump in, every week I just try a little harder. With tinder I can have regular sex with a variety of girls and that has given me abundance mindset. Now I'm looking more for girls that I find attractive and have common interests. I could find them eventually through online or I c…
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:35 PM
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Sorry I can see how you would get that impression. Usually I will site a book more clearly. Was on the train after the date and trying to put my thoughts down as quickly as possible. Knowing reddit someone would have asked for a link and had it provided which you did and I thank you. Very lazy of me.
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:26 PM
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I did acknowledge her nervousness early on. She said on tinder that she gets nervous around bearded men. I said to just relax and enjoy a drink. It will be interesting watching her behavior on the second date.
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:22 PM
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Silly is natural for me as I am a primary school piano tutor. Will keep in mind thanks.
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:18 PM
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Thank you, I like the active date idea. I love dancing but could see she would be uncomfortable. Thinking bowling or science museum. Though the biggest conversation opener was talking about a swimming pool we both frequented as kids.
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:16 PM
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My train time is study time. Audio books, reading and writing. I will engage with strangers if they initiate but generally prefer to be left alone. Each to their own I guess.
/r/seduction27/07/14 01:18 PM
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Why reinvent the wheel? It's easier for directed instruction and deliberate practice . Sure you can be self taught but it is less stressful via the paths others have traveled.
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:35 AM
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But this is the modern era and nobody calls anymore. For me it appears to show that you are not social proof. On top of that a date us always better than a phone call. Kino, body language and escalation can happen on dates. Why would you opt not to have that?
/r/seduction23/07/14 10:25 AM
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I agree with QuebecLibre about validation. I also think that you are coming on too strong. Forcing dates quickly appears creepy and makes you look easy. Buyer's mentality can change that. The main points of my tinder game are: * Be different from everyone else. You need to stand out from the crowd. Have a polarizing description. This sets up boundaries, intentions and interests early. If they are not talking/unresponsive move on. Set up some kind a challenge. Doesn't have to be real but is bette…
/r/seduction16/07/14 10:22 PM
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I disagree with this. I think you are outcome orientated when it come to getting girls. I've been on tinder a month and had a wonderful time. I present myself as an honest, fun and carefree guy. I'm average looking though I have improved with proper grooming and wardrobe. So far I have had four f-closes. K-closed on sun and Tues with two different girls with both wanting more dates. Tinder has been good to me. Not sure why you are having a bad time. Can you post a conversation?
/r/seduction16/07/14 01:58 PM
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'Vibe' makes it sound forced. In public I am just me. If I'm sad I'm sad and if I'm happy I'm happy. Honestly I focus on me and if someone walks by that I'm interested in I will smile.
/r/seduction16/07/14 01:49 PM
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Ha ha this is great. Though you didn't get the most ideal text back you still learnt more about your game. I agree with everyone saying move on. There are other asses that want to be touched. Good work for going after girl you liked.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:28 PM
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I think she was already into you to some degree. The slackline sealed the deal. I love how you got kino paired with your passion. She sees you believing in something and goes with it. My passion is music and dancing. Same thing passion and kino. Great work :)
/r/seduction15/07/14 02:07 PM
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I have this feeling everyday. All it took was giving up masturbation. Hasn't cured my Android completely yet though it's not far away.
/r/seduction15/07/14 12:03 AM
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It is highly recommended. Watching in 10 minute chunks over the week can help. Besides I linked the point of the video where he talks about it.
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:04 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE#t=1714
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:18 AM
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Just say no. Tell her your intentions about wanting to have an intimate date. Honesty is king.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:17 PM
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Thought it best to share one of my number closes. http://imgur.com/a/rdLNP Got her number a couple of hours later. Haven't set up a date yet because of other girls that I'm putting first.
/r/seduction11/07/14 05:35 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/287gp7/hey_seddit_i_have_been_on_four_dates_in_four_days/
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:49 PM
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Models
/r/seduction09/07/14 02:08 PM
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Let her know your intentions.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:19 PM
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Seems like you care about what the girls think of you. I recommend reading models if you have not yet. Gave me a great foundation.
/r/seduction06/07/14 02:12 PM
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Dancing, bowling, feed the ducks, mini golf, it's all the same.
/r/seduction01/07/14 02:37 PM
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"Hey I find you attractive and would like to ask you out on a date. There is this (event) but I would much rather get to know you better. Let's go to (bar) for a drink." Honest, upfront, clear intentions and outcome independent.
/r/seduction01/07/14 02:22 PM
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r/cringe
/r/seduction17/06/14 11:38 AM
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Cool
/r/seduction16/06/14 10:47 PM
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Mindset is from experience and the books. Nice guy ripped apart my value system and was very painful. I have cried multiple times during this process.
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:30 AM
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Welcome to interactive reddit. I love your enthusiasm but I am not ready yet. This is a very personal quest for me and I have so much further to go before I wing man. If you haven't read models and nice guy then do so. After a bit of time we can discuss ideas :)
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:28 AM
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Work within your comfort zone and take baby steps.
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:25 AM
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Thank you. I have not heard any stories like that. Extremely plausible.
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:23 AM
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Can you explain how this is a shit test?
/r/seduction16/06/14 03:48 AM
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Anywhere really, I did most of my reading on the train.
/r/seduction15/06/14 11:28 PM
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Yes I did see your post. My profile pics are set up similar to you. Festival shot in a silk robe with two girls. Playing bass and having a good time with friends. Festival shot is great as it polarizes girls and shows that I am free, confident and comfortable with myself. Dates have been strictly night time. At bars though I have been drinking less after Friday. Two on Sunday as was socially acceptable. Bars allow greater relaxation, less chance of interruptions and increased chance of escalatio…
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:59 PM
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1, Only feeling burnt out from going from zero dates to four very quickly. I just haven't had the time to process everything yet. I am an introvert by nature and if any girl says I'm quiet I answer them truthfully. I guess by doing that I am not over thinking anything. 2, I usually just make small talk. You can get a vibe pretty quickly. I deleted my account for a while so I have lost all but a few conversations. It's an extension of my dating game. Honesty, gauging interest and speaking in stat…
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:50 PM
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It works for my situation very nicely. Try and see though I don't want it to be a crutch.
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:33 PM
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Melbourne
/r/seduction15/06/14 09:32 PM
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The club is not the only place to go. Last night I went to a Brazilian forro dance party in Melbourne. So many single Brazilian ladies eager to teach the me how to dance. Funnest night out I have had in a long time. Expanding boundaries keeps boredom at bay.
/r/seduction14/06/14 09:37 PM
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