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| 108 | Is it work if you can’t put it on your resume as experience? If ‘sex work is work’, would they encourage their mothers, sisters, or daughters to pursue it?Former cam girl here. Did it out of desperation for money. It’s hard to make good money and not worth any of the bad stuff. I am grateful for the experience for helping me understand men better. It’s a big reason I’m an FDS fan. But yeah when I realized I’d have to hire legal help for reposting of content and became worried about doxxing and just some of the things they said to me and asked me to do - I won’t shame anyone for doing it because I understand why but I wouldn’t recommend it to anyon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:44 AM |
| 35 | Any experiences with red flags in dating women?Just wanted to say I love how this post really highlights how this sub is different from MGTOW/TRP. We don’t hate on a whole gender out of ignorance and jealousy. We apply the same strategies to dating anyone of any gender, while recognizing that the degree of misogyny in that individual increases the risk of a bad outcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 122 | As it should be.They always shamelessly push for more than they deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 78 | Abort Mission if a Man Sees You This WayLmfao this actually happened to me. An ex I dated for about 6 months told me I’m about an “8” whereas his roommate’s gf is a solid 10. I didn’t even respond, initiated breakup soon after that, it didn’t hurt to walk away one bit. Fuck you, Mark, I bet you’re still a red pilled piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 200 | Working on Leveling up and I’m on my financial goals right now. This woman has been a huge help and I cannot express how great it is to see women reaching their goals and sharing their success secrets with other women. Share and grow together and one day we will rule the world;)The older I get the more financial independence I get. Having been stuck with men in the past due to lack of money was AWFUL (abusive relationships). Now I know I can walk away from my partner at any point and that has been soooo good for my mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 18 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?I think he knows he has more to lose, that’s why he made the threat. If he actually intended to do this he wouldn’t have sent a text to “warn” her, because now she can take all the measures described above. People who plan to do bad things to others don’t warn them. He’s not stupid necessarily, just emotional, and when he comes out of his feelings he won’t do anything else, because he knows it would get him in hot water way more than OP, imho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 3 | I'm sick of askingI could have written this, just broke it off with a man for the same issue (plus others). He has shown you who he is. Better to be single than with someone who only does the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 24 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!No I didn’t. I’ve dealt with the cops before and just didn’t believe it would be a helpful move to make. I didn’t have any proof that this guy drugged me and the cops generally aren’t sympathetic to woman-vs-man issues in my experience. Hell they wouldn’t even file a report when I had all sorts of proof of my ex breaking into my home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 64 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!I got drugged on a date and reported it to Tinder (which I had used to match with the guy). I told Tinder I had been on a date with him and got drugged. The guy texted me afterward (on the burner number I use through an app) to say he had been banned from Tinder and didn’t know why. I was like “Weird 🤷🏻♀️” and then just never responded to him again. Saw him on Bumble a few months later though. I stopped using OLD apps about a year ago and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Side note,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 140 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"It’s easier for us to get laid!! What more could you want out of life?!?! (/s) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 49 | Gross guy wants sex with crying girl - can they get any worse?Can confirm. I dated a man who told me he finds it hot when a girl cries during sex. The relationship ended when he beat my cat to death. He’s now in prison for animal cruelty and aggravated child molestation (separate case from mine, I have no kids). I hope this girl gets out of this relationship ASAP and relatively unscathed. Predatory men are so good and finding and keeping vulnerable women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 06:25 PM |
| 10 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Awesome! You do you girl!! Yes the single life is so much better than a crappy relationship. Hell I even miss single life sometimes lol. That’s why we don’t settle! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:02 PM |
| 32 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Thank you! I understand your criticism and I should include a detail I left out. When he inquired about my relationship status, I told him I wasn’t actively dating but I’d be open to being friends, and if something more than friendship developed over time I’d be ok with that but it wasn’t something I wanted to pursue right then. He does maintain friendships with multiple women from other places he’s lived (and they are definitely just friends) so it is very plausible he would’ve been ok with onl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:14 PM |
| 51 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️ I really appreciate you posting this because I know it’s a struggle so many of us have. I wish FDS had been around when I was struggling with OLD. I feel like I learned all the winning strategies the hard way, through trial and error and lots of pain. Every Queen on here can find a great partner as long as she uses the FDS method and looks in places other than OLD. I consider myself a feminist and so always thought pursuing men or paying for dates was “equality.” Big NOPE. Femi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:52 PM |
| 271 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.I was there one year ago. Four years of hardcore dating, tried all the OLD apps, went on many dates (sometimes 8 in one week). I finally decided to throw in the towel and become comfortable with being single for the rest of my life. I knew I could get laid whenever I wanted (dick is abundant), so I just focused on using my free time to enjoy life rather than find a partner. I started going to edm shows every weekend and technology-related events during the week (both huge interests of mine). Whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 32 | Be Careful Out There Everyone!!Good, long, easy conversations that flow well when you’ve just started chatting with a new man are a red flag for me. It’s always the psychopaths and manipulators who do that. They don’t have anything good to offer so they learn how to game you that way. The last time I thought “this is going really well! Too well actually...” I googled the guy and found out he killed his ex by recklessly driving while sober. His family was well-connected so he didn’t do any time in prison. I’m six months into a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:43 PM |
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