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Sure bro, we can pretend that male thirst has been eradicated and the woman that’s still getting laid at 40 while also still having a line of guys drooling over has peaked because she looks older than she did at 26. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:51 PM
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Literally. I’m 26 and my tinder age range is capped at 50+ For every man going their own way that won’t sleep with these women, they SEVERELY underestimate the amount of men who can and will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:44 PM
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Lol um have you seen 19-21 year old girls? I don’t think your point hits like you think with 19-21 girls especially when that’s the age range most grow into their adult bodies. You don’t remember being that age and knowing, dating, or having friends that were struggling with “getting fat”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:35 PM
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Women literally still look like kids at 19-21. Most probably aren’t even north of 115 pounds. I don’t believe this wall/peak shit exist, but if it did women definitely don’t start to lose “value” the moment they no longer look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:20 PM
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Can we please stop pretending that women “peak” lmao or all of a sudden lose all ability to get laid at a certain age. If dudes are thirsty for her at 25 that’s not just gonna stop just because she turns 40. Edit: lmao called out pedophilia in a “non-civil” manner and got banned 3 days, can’t engage with responses anymore so, yeah no reason to respond this w/ counter arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:12 PM
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Lol dude who cares. Why stress over determining factors to figure out something different than what someone told you or what you simply refuse to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:02 PM
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You don’t see how that imply that they should lower their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:35 PM
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No the goalpost is just nonsensical. Your premise is that women should accept physical traits that they find undesirable in men if those same traits exist in their family. Well that’s incredible silly because It implies women have no right to shape their preferences in attraction outside of the realm of what men in their family looks like (hence my original statement that others seemingly understood) based on what seems to be a simplistic eugenic take on how you believe genetics work, in that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 06:17 PM
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But you do realize height would be an attractive trait here? What if she grew up around tall bald man? She’s gonna go for tall men with hair and rightfully so, if that’s her taste
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:50 PM
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Well I don’t see how, because your general implication is that girls should settle for undesirable physical traits just because their dad, brothers, uncles etc. also have said features. I mean wouldn’t you think growing up around those features would actually mean those women are more confident in their taste not to date those men? For instance (and eugenics aside), if your grandmother grew up around a bunch of bald men, then why on earth would she want to date a bald a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:43 PM
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My sister is about 5’0-5’1. At 6’ I don’t like short girls. Does that also make me a hypocrite and gene pool tainter? Is that the logic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:35 PM
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So they have to be attracted to their family members now? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:33 PM
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Why would I write a book when I clearly advocate against it in sake of following your own path? You don’t see how the “advice” game contributes to miserable dating? A bunch of people dating according to the word of other people? Lmao I digress, Godspeed hope Kevin and the rest help you find whatever they tell you to find good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:29 PM
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Well no not on dating because regular grown ups shouldn’t need their hands held through something simple like dating. Why I gotta be a moron? Edit: especially not from Kevin fucking samuels 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:11 PM
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So basically they have to watch videos to be humbled out of their standards? Lmfao get the fuck out of here, they need to be “told” the same shit they’ve been hearing for years by a man running the same scheme as Steve Harvey? It’s a miserable ass dating life to invoke the advice of a stranger to apply it as gospel so it’s only right they don’t listen to him and you probably shouldn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:01 PM
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(They should be for nobody because they don’t help and anyone that thinks they need him, doesn’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:43 PM
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Well yeah, of course not lmao. I don’t believe that they aren’t unrealistic so why would I watch videos to confirm a bias I don’t believe in or look at videos for “advice” I don’t need nor want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:37 PM
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Ehh I feel like their whole thing is actually not seeing conversations about past sex as being rubbed in their face though. Plenty of women are able to have those conversations without talking about past women as a slight to them. What I’m basically saying is it’s ok to not lie? Like if you’ve slept around, tell her you’ve slept around it’s not gonna be the end of the world (unless she’s against that type of thing and that’s something someone should know before dating someone else so)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:34 AM
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Women don’t stress over sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:16 AM
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Well they aren’t angry. They just won’t fuck, date, nor marry men who do those things and rightfully so because this is one huge false equivalency. Women wearing heels, makeup and sometimes spending weekend nights inside watching Netflix isn’t nearly as pathetic projecting imaginary land pretending to have a career or be 6’0 when you’re 5’9. And as for the women that do actually fit the description of the loser persona that you want women to accept but fail to accurately describe, your calls for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:29 AM
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Well yeah lol that’s already the point of my original comment? Rather hear them than a bunch of other dudes bitching over nonexistent issues
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:05 PM
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And that’s good, I just think a low libido isn’t required to dispel those worries. Especially since they’re worries that are kind of required not destroy one’s dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:28 PM
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There’s a good section of people who participate here where hookup culture is their norm, circumstance permitting like big city, huge social groups, etc. But the loudest experts on hookup culture and casual sex sex are the ones who don’t participate or can’t, that’s why the takes you see are usually wrong, way off base and/or nonsensical A bunch of people from the outside looking in passing themselves off as experts on the inside with no actual experience basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:23 PM
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Counterpoint: I have a high libido and my dating experience is also awesome. Sexual leverage is nonexistent because we’re adults. I can’t be manipulated because sex is a powerless tool to hang over me. If she offers sex quickly, I accept it because I don’t put value into what someone can offer me, meaning there won’t be any emotional hang ups or expectations with a stranger. Women aren’t boogeymen sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:16 PM
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They don’t work. The proof is in the example you give. You make a claim here that the average man is able to have sex with at least 7+ women a year, you’ll hear cries from the offended because they don’t fit the stereotype of what a stranger on Reddit personally believes the average man is able to accomplish - basically offended that they’re being stereotyped as below average despite being the major pill pushers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:07 PM
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That’s life, who cares? Doesn’t give anyone a pass to constantly whine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 07:57 PM
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Any man who can get sex from multiple women regularly without lying, manipulation, ulterior motives or pretending to be relationship ready. A bunch of upfront-ness and fun No most men cannot be players because there’s a level of mental toughness, self-awareness, and common sense that a lot of men either just don’t have or refuse to hone. Most dudes are too emotional and sensitive to handle simple rejection, no way they’ll be able to handle a girl they’re sleeping with getting in an exclusive rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:29 PM
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Eh sounds like an approach I’m good on. Sounds like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:08 PM
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I’m a man and the whining, exaggerating and strawmanning definitely paint women in a better light for me. I can’t get on board with a bunch of whining that I don’t identify with Whether it’s here or twitter you never see women sensitively bitching as much as men when it comes to dating topics and it’s what articulates their point of view better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:06 PM
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I’m really glad I procured my type to not include women who’d take advice from Kevin Samuel because this all sounds like a miserable approach to dating. A bunch of push and pull to see who can get the bigger slice of the pie, no actual substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 03:00 PM
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I’m at the point where I can’t have sex with someone I’m not attracted to anymore. In the early part of my 20s I would but a few months before the pandemic I decided to stop lowering them Probably came with maturity, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:14 PM
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It’s really that easy. Dudes kill me trying to force a meaningful connection with every girl on the apps, thinking every girl is gonna wanna talk about time travel and aliens. It’s so easy to swipe left if her politics personality and looks don’t align instead of wasting my time creating expectations with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:17 PM
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Even if so, it doesn’t discredit the experience foreign to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:16 AM
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Idk. You gotta ask the men that call themselves that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:09 AM
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Yeah same I had no idea I was a “Tyrone” before coming here. I once claimed that the average dude is able to hookup at least 7+ times a year and that’s on the low end and they got my post deleted lmao. Which speaks to my comment, they’re the loudest here. Shit that we think is normal, they’ll tell us it’s not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:32 AM
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Not sure what you’re getting at but what I’m saying is it seems like 2 different worlds on this sub because the majority of people here are your second bullet point. For example, for everyone woman that fits bullet point one and makes a pro sex comment, at least 3-5 dudes will reply to her comment saying she’s wrong, and project their experience onto her. Thus, 2 different worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:32 AM
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Because the people who can’t get casual sex project their experience as the majority. Example. Men who with active casual sex lives understand dry spells. Sexless men however, call those other men delusional for saying smiling helps etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:22 AM
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My slut shaming first girlfriend. Once we got to college she suddenly became obsessive over every girl that I had been with other than her which was literally one person (same as her) whom I felt was none of her business and it contributed heavily to killing our relationship. I guess I saw what it was like from the other side and saw how it’s incredibly goofy to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 10:29 PM
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The average man that this sub claims is a victim is not benefiting from patriarchy in ways that other men are. The average man isn’t getting those jobs that the OP is saying men are well suited for. Those are who this sub call the “winning guys” the “chads” or whatever they’re the one who’s the patriarchy is overwhelmingly benefitting. Not the guys who feel jaded about not being a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:41 AM
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Because (and I don’t know how many times I have to tell you this) we haven’t bad a draft since Vietnam war. The issue you’re arguing literally doesn’t exist 💀. Is it on paper sure, but who the fuck is going to jail over avoiding a nonexistent draft in a non major us wartime? You’re knowledge is the product of good ol misinformation American my dude 💀. While you do have that going for you, you’re preaching American exceptionalism with no real rationale grasp of anything that goes on here. Perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:38 AM
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Yeah your interpretation of our law is remedially low. Not only is circumcision a choice lmao your source literally says it’s routine. And then you equate it to torturing. An interpretation of the practice that literally nobody that lives here has. I gotta end it here man I’m sorry. You really just have 0 grasp of anything you’re arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:45 AM
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Yeah you have 0 grasp of American law let alone enough to challenge someone who lives where and literally telling you you’re embarrassingly wrong. Wanna know how I know? You’re using the draft as an example to qualify us as 2nd class citizens. How many men here do you think live quaking in fear of forced military service in the largest, most funded military in the entire fucking world? 😂😂 The draft is a process that most of us don’t even know about let alone register for. Why on earth would the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:41 AM
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Why does every man that doesn’t share the experience of a man that subscribes to mgtow have to be delusional? Girls always say men project everything and I see why sheesh. Some men share views here without going through whatever the hell the majority here does. We sort of play the game better than others which allow us to sort of shape our views free of all the concepts of men that resort to going their own way that doesn’t mean we’re delusional. You just don’t have to project those experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:26 AM
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First, the US has none. We no longer have laws establishing 2nd class citizenry, and if so the constitutionality of any law attesting men to 2nd class citizens would been challenged long before you and I were born. And what law here establishes the legality of torturing babies? Granted you’re abroad, your interpretation of our law is embarrassingly wrong, damn near child-like imaginary (torturing babies?) Which severely undermines you’re original there. It’s simply wrong. Second, you still haven…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:37 PM
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What law says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:21 PM
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But then you realize that no man, a beneficiary of the general oppressive system, (patriarchy) can be oppressed by a system that does not have power nor oppress (matriarchy). And no, no woman in any position of power be it president, ceo, prime minister, etc. does not constitute existence of an oppressive matriarchy. The generalized system is patriarchic. I benefit from it, you do, as does every other dude here despite how minimal that benefit may be. And being oppressed in said system does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:01 PM
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Y’all can’t even handle the generalized approach women already take to exist in an overwhelming patriarchy (having high standards, being career focused, “hypergamy”, not dating you, feminism, “being stuck up” fds, etc. etc.) but all of a sudden patriarchy okay? 😂 The “average man” himself is a victim of patriarchy. Sacrificial lambs for the successful personification of the successful man in op. If the patriarchy is ok, kill the victimization of the average man that happily upholds the system of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:43 PM
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Literally this. The projection of experience as the shared male experience here is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:09 PM
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“Good for him” “Good for her”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:56 PM
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Well empathy is something learned usually during adolescence. It something that most people are able to express effortlessly. I don’t have to be a woman to know the effects that a man challenging their authority or opinion have. I can simply exist in a professional and social place and see that. Vice versa women don’t have to be a me to see the effects that a struggling dating life has on men. Contrary to popular belief the women and men can coexist as friends and tons on top of tons of women se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:02 PM
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Sheesh to be as intelligent as you folks like to portray you guys sure do breakdown and resort with emotional attacks. I can’t be purposefully obtuse where someone dumb enough to rely on argument provides an un-cited argument only to come and expect me to take his word that there are “dozens” of other cited sources yet failed to provide those 😕 The sensitivity and projection form your own failure and inability at research is the perfect parallel to the very “discriminated” men you’re defending. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:52 PM
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Discrimination of gay people meant restriction on the right to marry. Discrimination against black people meant restriction on the right to associate during Jim Crow. Discrimination against Native Americans meant restriction on the right to property. Common theme, restriction on rights. Y’all are applying the wrong word to a trope to feel better. That’s ridiculously soft. Dating preferences may be superficial, shallow, obtuse? But discriminatory? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:36 PM
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Your offense and sensitivity is the only attempts at dodging my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:25 PM
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Discrimination implies the restriction of a right. There are no rights restricted in dating preferences therefore no discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:25 PM
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The big thing that sticks out to me about that article is literal 0 citations. 3k+ reads without any credible citation tells me everything I need to know to not take said source as fact. Sure it may be credible but without 0 citations, not even a positive one, it holds no weight to me. And as I’ll say again, discrimination implies to the restriction of a right. Not being someone’s cup of tea even if at a drastic rate, will never be discrimination no matter how bad one wants to seem to be oppress…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:24 PM
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Babies are being born literally everyday. Pro-lifers are picketing Planned Parenthood’s everyday. People are literally having sex man 😂 Are there a few that’s not, absolutely. Will it lead to the end of civilization, fuck no lmao. It’s a socially manufactured “issue”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:30 PM
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I’m sure that’s not a problem for promiscuous women who would likely rather stay single and rightfully so than date someone not compatible with there lifestyle. It’s certainly not an issue for promiscuous men, more promiscuous women the better for them. Neither side is losing anything and would gain nothing if their scenes were flooded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:28 PM
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And yet here we are in a world where so many women knows specifically what satisfies them sexually. They’re on tinder, they’re in the clubs, social groups etc. maybe not to the extent that men overwhelmingly are in comparison, but that doesn’t mean they’re not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:58 PM
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Literal apples and oranges. You’ll never walk the same with a broken leg. The doctor serves as an educated intermediary to help you fix that problem. If you’re sexless you’re just sexless. You’ll walk the same. You don’t need an intermediary to help you fix that problem. Millions of other guys seemingly didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:53 PM
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And yet here we are with a world full of happy couples who share promiscuous past and lifestyle comparability. Having one’s cake and eating it too is not a concept that jade men who date those women. The issues of the man who has only had sex with 1-3 women are simply not the issues of men who have had sex with at least 11+ women. Even if he’s an average looking dude, he’s not caught up on the same hang ups as someone who doesn’t even have his experience. All he knows that he’s had his fun and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:48 PM
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Right yet still so many men want to have sex with them so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:41 PM
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Oh brother. The less motivation to maintain 5G networks because some men can’t have sex isn’t gonna bring down society like you all say it will. Women can create 5G. These chads or whatever can create 5G. The carrousel of society doesn’t depend upon the “30% of sexless” men or whatever. If anything life expectancy drops SIGNIFICANTLY when those boys are around. Especially in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:40 PM
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What if I told you a lot of women actually have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:35 PM
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Why would top men care about bottom men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:34 PM
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Lmao no dude. Women don’t have attachments to ONS in the same breath that meant don’t. Realistically a woman at 30 with an active sex life barely remembers the face or even thinks about anyone she’s hooked up with. That’s not norm for anyone that has had multiple partners. Those past partners aren’t on anyone’s mind nearly as much as you assume. Contrary to whatever people here think is the right way to date, most rationale people are smart enough not to invest their all into a stranger. Most pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:33 PM
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🥱 and I’ll say it again dating preferences are not discrimination. Physical unattractive-ness is not even a sociological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:26 PM
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Yet the despite the childlike nonsensical narrative, dating still thrives. “30% of young men are sexless 🥺” so 70% of men aren’t sexless right? Dating is doing fine. “Women are being pumped and dumped by sooo many men 🥺” no people are just having sex. Dating is doing fine. “The great pyramid 🥺” yeah no reasonable people in dating are thinking about this. And as for modern western women? Is this an assertion rooted in experience or a projection? We don’t know how unhinged our choices our in women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:23 PM
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Who’s talking about people on in public or social media? Is it not the norm to base perceptions on experience and those we know personally? Or does everything have to be from the perspective of generalized based on what everyone knows is a mirage behind a screen? Family, friends, coworkers, whoever else you know should be who you’re applying to this post, not social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:19 AM
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Or maybe I’m talking about real people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 04:14 AM
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Nah I gotta imagine the sausage fest would be frowned upon. Ever been or in college and wondered why frat parties limited the amount of guys allowed but let unlimited girls in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:23 AM
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Ive learned learned use the lingo or get deleted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:22 AM
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My bad I meant men who are able to have casual sex. They wouldn’t be to happy to sacrifice with more men crowding their field
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:13 AM
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What about men who likely wouldn’t be happy about more men crowding the field?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:06 AM
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I’ve learned to use the lingo or get deleted because comprehension is not a prerequisite for participation here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:04 AM
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The point in the post is literally that promiscuous people date promiscuous people. They can have one big 2 promiscuous parent household together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:56 AM
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You’re talking about unattractive men that can have casual sex right? Implying they can have sex regularly? An unattractive man that is active on the casual sex market is having well over 2 hookups in a lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:46 AM
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Despite whatever projections, I promise you they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:44 AM
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I see what you’re saying with the guys who lower their standards and honestly that’s the real fucked up but about it. I can’t speak too much to the whole pretend to want to relationship for sex thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:43 AM
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No. Lack of equality implies discrimination. You’re being purposely obtuse in applying pity to nonsensical mythical issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:38 AM
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A lot of men are in happy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:35 AM
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Ohh I misread your original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:33 AM
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3-4 hookups in a lifetime doesn’t equate to participating much in casual sex. 3-4 would be low for maybe an unattractive man who has causal sex but maybe in a year or 2 years worse? But not nearly a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:33 AM
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I mean would I be better off bluntly asking what do pretty dudes have to gain from from a sausage fest and risk another deletion? Or engage with whatever this sub lingo is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:29 AM
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Right because nonhot men never abuse women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:22 AM
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That’s a projection. The problems of the men outside of the casual sex market are not the problems of the men in the casual sex market even if he is a 5/10. The 5/10 man that’s had tons of sex isn’t gonna be worried about the attractiveness his gf past partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:21 AM
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Still missing how there’s inequality among a bunch of people who don’t date each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:15 AM
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How is equality a factor? Dating is moving along just fine with people establishing relationships on compatibility. Equality would be a factor if 80/20 people were discriminating against everyone else. They’re not. They’re dating within their own while everyone else dates within their own. Life is not linear. Sometimes you’re in one category sometimes you’re in the other sometimes you’re stuck in one for life and there’s factors, some tangible some intangible, that dictate where you’re are. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:04 AM
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Ridiculously false
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:10 AM
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Oh you’re just being sensitive lmao that’s not cheating. There’s nothing in the comment that established exclusivity in the scenario. The big emphasis in the comment being on “date”. How can someone cheat on someone their not in a relationship with? Whatever her delaying sex with someone is her prerogative, sucks to be that dude couldn’t be me, but you’re confusing her having her cake and eating it too and I’m still struggling to see the problem? Is that not the current dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:06 AM
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Where do they encourage cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:07 AM
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Op, I present exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:11 PM
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Exactly. On paper here they’ll say you’ll never be happily married. Yet reality constantly proves that for every man that won’t date a certain woman for breaking some social norm, someone else will certainly date that woman despite of that social norm / dealbreaker etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 09:02 PM
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Lmao um? 85% of this sub admit that women don’t even see them. 10% red pill men who subscribe to pseudoscience. 4.5% FDS which I’ll admit is not bad but incompatible with my type and .5% everybody else. This a terrible place to get dating advice 💀 Edit: I’ll admit the 15% together is not bad to interact and chat with, I’ll give the sub that. But everybody else? It’s like a daycare center
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:59 PM
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Ahh thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:34 PM
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Isn’t blue pill just a parody of red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:32 PM
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Mama’s boys who need their hands held throughout life. Or those dudes who blame their mom for their shortcomings in dating (bad advice, bad genes etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:20 PM
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In the world of make believe? Or real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:14 PM
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It would be the way I go if a relationship is what I was currently looking for. Moving too fast ruins shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:15 PM
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Honestly starting to feel like it’s some leader complex that needs filling or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 11:02 PM
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Idk man just sounds like you’re making dating harder than it has to be
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:58 PM
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So with timing for example, do you mean in the sense of meeting you somewhere? Or demanding she follow your schedule or something? I’m just trying to get a sense of why this type of stuff is kinda not mutually expected or just something that naturally happens out of the connection you have w somebody. Basically, why is it something you have to stress instead of it happening naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:20 PM
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That’s the type of shit that’s so ridiculously minuscule though. I am a dude and I will never “understand why”. It’s like an obsession over unnecessary intangibles of a relationship mixed with taking themselves to seriously. Afraid to laugh/be laughed at/laugh at themselves. Real respect can be earned through so many more ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 09:16 PM
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What do you want to be listened to about?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:44 PM
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Yeah it’s harsh but a necessary harsh/hard truth to help break this sort of cycle of repressive tropes that the black church force on women. Growing up in it you see nothing but preachers cheating on their wives (Derek isn’t a preacher but the theme is still there) along with this sense of normalizing it. It’s violent, it’s repressive, and it’s exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:02 PM
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No man that woman is a loser. Hate to say it but it’s the truth. Could money be a factor? Sure? Could his looks? Possibly but that’s subjective, just look at the jokes about him on twitter. She’s indoctrinated by her religious beliefs that preach forgiveness and loyalty to her man. She’s mentally weak as hell, that’s all it is. At some point she needed to be told never to settle instead of being groomed to believe she has to make everything work with her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 03:42 PM
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It’s seriously so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:54 AM
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The projection on this sub is ridiculous. There are literally millions in relationships 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:44 AM
2

They emphasized the importance of enjoying 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:41 PM
0

How are you gonna be happy with someone else if you’re not even happy with yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:09 PM
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Parents been married almost 30 years. Watched my grandparents be married for longer. Marriage is the goal but my parents always empathized having fun before getting there. Never to be in a rush/panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:07 PM
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Lmfao is there a twitter thread to go along with the post or something? I have to see this. There are most definitely men out there with that complex. It would probably help if those men let go of whatever masculinity their trying to prove to themselves while also practicing generosity too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:53 PM
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I’m pretty picky as a man now I have to imagine as a woman in Russia I’d be even picker to be honest or probably wouldn’t date much because of those laws alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:48 PM
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I see what you’re saying but one sided domestic violence laws wouldn’t have to be a thing if one side didn’t disproportionately commit violence against the other side at rates so high that the victimized side has to have added legal protection. We use laws and the threat of punishment to discourage particular behaviors, and any measures taken to discourage domestic violence shouldn’t change anyone’s approach to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:50 PM
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This reads like a question directed for guys who beat the shit out of women in a sort of “which one would you rather?” Way. The country with the strict domestic violence laws or the one where you can get away with it? Normal dudes don’t dictate their dating approach based on the domestic violence they can get away with. Either way I’m gonna choose Spain because it’s seems where the victim is protected. I would still date as I do now because 1. I don’t hit women 2. I have 0 risk of “false allegat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:34 PM
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Chewing gum and walking at the same time really isn’t as hard as this sub makes it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 10:17 PM
2

You’re chasing someone else’s, a stranger I might add, interpretation of what dating should be like. Where’s the happiness in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:32 PM
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Lol I’m sorry but anybody that takes Kevin Samuels or any other dating “guru” words as gospel is never gonna find what they’re looking for. It’s a grift people c’mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:21 PM
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Theirs seemingly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:19 PM
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Yup, the mods coddling their whining here definitely made them the loudest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:18 PM
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No. Probably because I barely notice strangers but also I just don’t apply the hysterics and dramatics of this sub to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:33 AM
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Escorting is not exclusively high end low end. You don’t either work the streets or fuck in skyscrapers, especially in already oversaturated sex market. Literally think of any sex workers in your social circles that you know and think about where they are on this low end high end spectrum. There’s literally countless women availing themselves on sugar daddy websites, advertising meetups, etc. etc. that are not big bucks yet maintain some level ability to maneuver the game with normal clients. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:40 AM
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Yeah you do, a businesswoman presents herself as businesswoman. You can argue the morality of it later but any sane/normal customer in the sex market is knows who and what they’re shopping for. Anyone customer in the market that deviates from that norm is likely engaged in violence. An actual criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:14 AM
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The broad legalization of sex work and sex trafficking are not exclusive. The victims of trafficking don’t want to be there and legalizing prostitution/escorting isn’t gonna boom that market. Victims of literal violence are not the same as people consensually profiting from sex. My advocacy of legalizing sex work is clearly rooted in the physical/financial protection of those people, don’t twist my words words to mean support for incels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:03 AM
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Ok so say sex is a need. It’s not a need on the same plane as universal healthcare so let’s throw that out. (Pretty sure countless arguments would be made to the constitutionality of laws regulating sex anyway) Let’s say sex is as equivalent of a need the same as food. Unfortunately poverty exist. Food insecurity is very real. Some people are so less fortunate on the brink of starvation. Assuming you’re not in that position, you wouldn’t expect someone to hold your hand to lead you through a gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:27 AM
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It does here. Prostitution is sex in exchange for money. Casual sex is literally just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:10 AM
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That doesn’t make them the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:33 AM
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Nah sex work is a job. Causal sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:31 AM
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Well I can’t speak to the credibility of the German police, but personally it’s my inclination to not trust that they were ever going after sex traffickers as hard as they say in the first place. I’m not saying that they don’t, I’m sure they do but let’s be real police departments don’t protect women so them saying that kinda reads as an excuse. I just think with the proper protections in place it can minimize danger for a lot of workers. Legalization wouldn’t mean a free for all but more so reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:27 AM
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Legal prostitution seems to work fine in Nevada. It’s not like there’s much effort by the police to protect these women anyway but I can’t help but think legalization provides sex workers with legal protections to marginalize the middle man (pimps) so I’m here for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:58 PM
1

Never indicated that’s the only thing they’re begging for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:39 PM
0

Yeah I absolutely date with high standards and really struggle with what’s stopping other men from doing so. I’m not encouraging that they price themselves out of their respective markets, but a little self control and dictating your own dating life goes a very long way. Even with attraction aside, in dating you should be looking for partners who meet other standards instead of “hey” every single girl to death
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:21 PM
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Does it really matter? Are we really that offended by their content that our only way to discredit is to ponder how they look? Also have to imagine any women advocating/begging for something small/basic like proper hygiene in men at least knows how present herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:17 PM
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Joining a club and activities is awful advice to people who hear it and operate in them like the type of person described in OP. You join a class to learn, not hope that pussy will magically fall in your lap as you awkwardly sit back and overthink every social aspect of the class. The argument has never been that joining club will automatically get everyone laid. But having a social life is required in dating. Probably helps to start realizing that these methods and strategies to get laid are aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:51 PM
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Lol thank you but naw no reference to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:04 PM
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Could lead to less weirdos on the app and potentially free space up for more dudes to have their profiles seen by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:02 PM
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Lmao pussy-by-association. This advice will probably be drowned out by whiners but it’s so true. Nobody saying it’s easy, but it goes a hell of a lot further than putting on a charade that women are gonna see through anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:29 PM
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They’re never going to get that on this sub. The dramatics are always louder than the rationale here and their anxieties are projected onto everyone else. So yeah, they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:14 AM
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A bunch of dudes. It getting laid won’t bring the downfall of society like they think it will. For every 5 dudes complaining about not getting laid, there are 5 other dudes getting laid. The complainers are just the loudest. That being said, less people aren’t getting laid. It’s just all kind of dramatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 04:14 PM
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Yes it’s important for everyone to have a hoe phase. The way to build a healthy sex life is by exploring the things you like with different people. You build an idea of what you like, learn how to clearly communicate that to any future partners, and apply it in the bedroom. You don’t want to be stuck in a marriage/relationship where the sex is awful, repressed, and vanilla. That’s how you end up with so many whining about what their partner won’t experiment with them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:50 PM
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Oh yeah much rather know what I like and avoid those that I don’t without feeling like I have to feign over every single woman that crosses my eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:40 PM
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Pro choice. I do avoid women that would be happy to become pregnant because that’s not where I’m at so what would be the point of us dating? No woman has ever insisted that a condom isn’t necessary. I only date women that are up to game on sex health/education but I’m also not scared to not wear a condom, especially to the point where I’m gonna leave, so condom use depends on the relationship. Signs of a unfit sexual partner means that I’m probably not attracted to them in the first place, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:04 PM
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Pick me women and a lot of dudes that post here are likely the only ones that do everything for the opposite sex’s approval. Most people have healthy sex lives and platonic friendships and can operate in spaces without being obsessed with sexual or companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:24 PM
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Men seemingly from a sense of intimidation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:40 AM
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Most votes in history, I misstated lmao https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/01/20/who-helped-biden-get-most-votes-history/?arc404=true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 10:54 PM
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Yeah sure, but that’s not the argument here. Nobody said average was ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:45 PM
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It was the biggest electoral victory in history. That’s not to say a lot of people didn’t vote for Trump obviously. Lol like that’s a given, everyone knows this. Our elections are based on representation. If the election was the biggest margin in electoral history, which again is based on representation by population, the majority of Americans did not vote for trump and it was not even close. A majority may have in areas, yea of course that’s an election. But those small majorities were drowned …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:44 PM
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My post history here + genuine interactions on the very post you’re reading literally proves that I have nothing to troll for lol. I just don’t acknowledge woe is me rhetoric like others here. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:40 PM
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My OP clearly doesn’t apply to your comment. You threw in a demographic that clearly wasn’t the introverted demographic of the post evidenced by nearly every other person in the post not talking about long term relationships. This comment follow me around thing with your over specific and off topic literal takes is getting weird dude and I mean that in the most genuine way. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:36 PM
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Yeah 😔 that’s why we’re all living in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:32 PM
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Sounds like you just might know a bunch of below average men and that’s ok dude, we all do. This isn’t a stigma thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:31 PM
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We don’t do conformation bias studies this way pimp. Sorry you’re offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:30 PM
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Yeah I’ll admit the past year have been rough, but most definitely maneuverable for those who want what they want I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:29 PM
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Even though I said physical factors aside in another comment, that is an extremely narrow demographic of men that makes up so much a minority of who are how can you apply that to reality? That’s not even to say that the outliers of that demographic are the majority, but get over. Keep up like the average or don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:28 PM
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I’m sorry to tell you but any man with the attributes/lifestyle in my OP, the average man, who’s single,25-28 is sleeping with well over 7 people in their lifetime. Quite possibly a moderate number within a year for that same man. But any man with 7 for a lifetime especially in today’s age where hookup culture is able to thrive simply because of how plugged in we are is below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:25 PM
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Trump literally did not almost win. Stop it. The race was known by everybody at least by Wednesday night but of course our pandemic world halted counting for officials numbers which held the official call until Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:15 PM
0

Your MyTeam lineups are dope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:15 PM
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Why on earth would that factor apply to a married man or one in a relationship? Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:12 PM
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With the OP attributes? Easily. If that’s some they want to achieve again of course dating preferences aside. A man with the lifestyle in the OP can settle down at 23 and also not have 40-60 partners. Life isn’t linear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:00 PM
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If you put 20 men in a decently sized city like Milwaukee in a room on dec. 31 and ask them how many have slept with more than 4+ that year at least 14-16 men with the attributes in the OP will have done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:57 PM
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People have types. The average man is able to identify who’s attracted to him and date accordingly. Short dude gets laid man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:50 PM
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That would insinuate that a majority of our population occupies the area of land stretching from the northern tips of Idaho and Minnesota down to the southwestern tip of Arizona and southern tip of Arizona. All land with states that barely make up enough electors to matter in national elections as opposed to other mass areas of the countries where millions on top of millions share small to major sized city experiences. 5-6 sexual partners is something most dudes experience before 22 as opposed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:44 PM
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Wait huh? A few things. So is the impression that the baseline for this top 20% is 4+ partners a year? I was generous with that number. Also note this post is not about looks. It’s about lifestyle, none of that weird woe is me shit because as I was funnily enough having this conversation in real life, my dad is 5’6 married 30 years, my brother is 5’8 and is all the above things plus more, in similar fashion that everyone else who isn’t 6’. People simply have types man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:35 PM
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I’m sorry but there’s still no sympathy. That’s a phase that he should have experienced as a teen. There’s accountability in adulthood, he should be one and save himself the trouble. That’s what dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:20 PM
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He’s not stuck there in limbo lmao. He’s likely an adult, he can easily remove himself from the relationship and situation and move on. There’s no law that says he has to be there. Hard to feel bad for someone that’s doing it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:45 PM
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This is literally a “problem” that nobody gives a fuck about. It’s only affecting a few and a the issues of the few are not gonna create the downfall of anything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:22 AM
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How has the progressive approach to the world failed? Who are the issue you raise affecting? A small proportion of men? So we should flip the world upside down because a few dudes can’t keep up with women? You’re crazy as hell lol the world is fine, we’re fine. Your problems are not are not our problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:10 AM
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Yeah I definitely think it plays a role along with some other factors
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:10 PM
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Never needed redpill. Just lucky enough to have normal parents who didn’t install traditional repressive practices. Dating and sex was something that was never taboo in my upbringing so I just applied that same mindset to my adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:14 PM
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The grift is pretty obvious at this point. All you have to do is pretend to be a guy who has sex among a bunch of other men who don’t have sex, throw in a few buzz words, play on a few generalizations. Boom. You’re a pick up artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:51 PM
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It’s almost as if they don’t really care about height, money, or “nice guys” I wouldn’t call that undervaluing us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:37 AM
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What is writing like a man or a woman? Especially English? A non gendered language? I’m sorry but nobody else has probably noticed what you’re talking about because most rationale people aren’t obsessed with the whole masculine/feminine thing at literally every single turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:57 PM
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It’s not that we don’t like talking about it, I personally just don’t care lmao. They’re irrelevant. I’m not on their radar. They’re not on mine. Our dating lives have no affect whatsoever on eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:55 PM
1

False equivalence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:52 PM
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Anybody that has to fool women into sex isn’t really having as much sex as they’d like to portray or even having sex at all because deceptive sex is not sex. I would say it might be somewhat common but it’s not this conscious oneupmanship type ordeal Or method taken to actually hurt anyone or validate yourself. It’s just an effect of dating. Like I would never ghost someone and call it “pumping and dumping” lol thats teenage type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 03:47 PM
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Remaining together out of fear of being alone is some of the dumbest shit people do. The relationship is gonna fail because the foundation isn’t genuinely rooted in the connection, it’s only there because one of or both of the people are afraid of being single. There’s literally always somebody else so suffering through misery just isn’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:32 PM
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Yeah I personally think my mom’s influence affects my dating life but only positively though. But growing up her advice was probably suited more to the type advice most guys don’t want to hear because my mom is a very left leaning feminist. So with that came discussions on proper sex health, sex education, consent, and how go treat a woman. Never any advice on how to GET a woman or court them into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 08:25 PM
1

I think you meant to reply to a specific comment, the person who noted that might not see this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:54 PM
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So put into your context, what I’m getting at here is say the guy gets laid but doesn’t have child support right? If he comes here and makes the assumption that “not all women are evil and want to lock every dude into child support” that’s fair. But if he came here claiming all women want to do is tie men down to child support, how does his argument have validity if he’s never even been in or came out victorious in a child support proceeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:14 PM
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Right so I guess my question is are a lot of the conclusions here reached in bad faith? Because somebody will definitely say 20 I beta or whatever yet have maybe even only ever kissed 4 different women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:33 PM
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Right, because men are lining up to date girls on onlyfans. Stop acting like every other post on this sub isn’t shaming women for being promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:14 PM
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I’m genuinely asking, are you being dense on purpose or are you like sheltered? Lol I’m talking about men scared to date promiscuous women. You’re way off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:12 PM
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Obviously I’m not talking about regular everyday postings on Instagram in the same context where I’m talking about sex and slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:05 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:52 PM
1

I’d probably say the exact opposite of the examples you see on r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:48 PM
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Lmao this is so validating This what I feel like other dudes on this sub who reply to me sometimes don’t understand where I’m coming from. This is why. Chicago 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:42 PM
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Still a part of it (pending current pandemic of course). Probably won’t ever let go of it tbh. It’s just a big part of my social lifestyle. Parents did it. Grandparents did it. Friends do it. So I’m kinda right where I’m supposed to be. Casual sex is probably one of the main proponents of going out and partying so yeah I think it helps a lot. But of course that involves having prerequisites that would make someone successful in normal dating like being a good dude, good conversation, being fun e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:38 PM
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Women aren’t the only ones who deal with shame, but their shit is a lot harsher than ours. A woman can’t even have sex or post on Instagram without this idea that she’ll lose marriage and relationship prospects or being viewed as undeserving of some type of respect. As for everything else I think you’re wrong in that “it’s a little confusing from our perspective whats ‘allowed’l when it’s extremely easy not to be a weirdo. I think it’s a bit hysterical to pretend that we can’t move without this …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:33 PM
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The type of women that that feigned for Ramirez are such outliers from women that you’ll ever encounter (unless of course you are a serial killer) Discussing them, especially in ways that generalize women, is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 04:21 PM
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I simply live in reality. I don’t project my experience as the majority but I at least know it’s normal enough to be shared to the extent of my social circles. Literally no one I knows relies on confirmation biased studies in the ways on this sub. Like me and my friends talk about similar topics on here, but nobodies ever relying on a copy and paste about divorce. Aside from living in reality, a coherent understanding of sex education and health goes a looooong way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:37 PM
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People pushing off parenthood until later years work for a lot of people especially when today’s economic and social climates. One collective shared experience isn’t going to improve earth’s rotation. If you’re an adult years and your teen years are affecting your relationship you very well may need help to let it go. What I’m saying is that stressing over sex as a teen is completely normal and not the world shattering issue you make it to be. The theme of everything you’re saying is that promis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:36 PM
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Were people ever taught to value a committed relationship though? The things you talk about aren’t new. Like you say there’s an uptick in teens posting about stressing about their virginity. Have you ever been a teenager? That’s what every teenager every worries about lmao. While I probably didn’t post online about it, 10 years ago I and everything other male teen I know was stressed about virginity. Those days don’t matter. You barely even remember them in adulthood. I also wish the “promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:40 PM
1

First, dress code enforcement against girls and young dudes being embarrassed in front of girls are inherently not the same. Why should dudes who don’t struggle or don’t feel jaded by women’s have to segregate with a bunch of other men? Like is there this idea that we should sacrifice for the sake of camaraderie among men? So instead of holding abusers accountable let’s just segregate? I’m sorry but this is a bad take. I already don’t want to go my own way, but I REALLY don’t want to go my own w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:21 PM
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I wouldn’t say I ask because even at 26 I still find it extremely awkward explaining to my mom that I rely on swipes on a dating app lmao. Regardless I do think the words my mom has given during the years have helped in dating. It’s never the nice guy shit but an approach rooted in consent, sexual health, and sexual education. Think it also helps that I live the same lifestyle that my parents did when they were in their 20s so there’s never been any pressure to abide by any traditional norms. Oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:18 PM
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It plays a role but not in the way I think that’s being discussed here with physical characteristics. I think it plays a part in terms of shaping the qualities we look for in people. For instance I catch slack here sometime for dating promiscuous women who party, do drugs, etc. While my family is religious (I’m not) me and my very non-traditional liberal parents were regulars at Monday Night Raw 😂 So I think it’s safe to say that growing up with 0 media restrictions shaped my infatuation for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:41 PM
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If women don’t care about character or who a man is then why are there so many men seemingly with bad character that complain about women not wanting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:50 PM
5

Hit the bottom of what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:22 AM
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Sluts could literally care less about dating the type of dudes who obsess over sexual history so why would they care what they prefer? This is a weak argument
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:36 AM
0

Yeah because wage gap = $0 so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 12:09 AM
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Yeah you didn’t read the article. “Another—less optimistic—possibility is that these women are simply following in the footsteps of their predecessors, who start out with salaries more or less equal to men, but for whom the wage gap grows over time. According to the Pew Research Center‘s analysis of Bureau of Labor Statistics data from the 1980s to 2012, women’s earnings earnings relative to those of men began to fall around the time they reach their mid-30s, even if they had started out ahead.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:27 PM
1

Well you mistake American progressivism for being as left as European progressivism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:19 PM
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Did you read that article??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:13 PM
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Well when I see West here I assume America but yeah it’s a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:10 PM
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Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:03 PM
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Women here make 78 cents to $1. The wage gap alone is sufficient evidence of discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:01 PM
1

Shouldn’t I have learned? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:36 AM
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I prefer women with a lot of sexual experience. Pleasure aside, personally I believe promiscuous women are less likely to wonder “what if” or ever feel like they’ve missed out on being young or something. That’s not to say women without sexual experience are boring. But typically I find that ideologies don’t align in situations with women who practice celibacy be it for religion etc. and ideologies not aligning = disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:13 PM
4

Well when you see relationships as only analytical transactions there’s not gonna be any changing of your view. This is miserable. Give it a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:08 PM
2

Being settled for would only be a factor if you believe the bullshit in the original post. If you don’t then there’s nothing to feel jaded about your brighter future
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:50 PM
1

Difficulty? What? Pick up a book or watch a documentary. Read old newspapers, research historical journals. There’s no way you hah e difficulty believing the realities of a 50s America
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:44 PM
3

Drake, if dying alone is better then settling then settling must be really bad right? They don’t gotta be subject to that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:00 AM
1

Whoa, very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:31 AM
-2

My worldview is grounded in reality opposed to confirmation bias stats and data.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:29 AM
-5

Their sexless-ness is a product of their own fault more than they’d like to admit. It’s just the truth. There’s no top few % of men only having casual sex because literally almost any and everyone is having or has had casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:01 AM
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Lmao thank you so much about y’all and measurement perception. I think because a lot of dudes here are over analytical so they expect women to be the same. Just to see for myself last year I started downplaying my height an inch or 2 to 5’11-5’10 to women and it was never questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:56 AM
6

So are you saying women should settle due to the unlikelihood that they’ll find anyone with their desires? Because I’m sure they’d probably rather take their chances with the 1% < of men than settle and that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:50 AM
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I would actually be very unhappy if I had to marry a woman at 23 raise a family and work at the steel mill. That’s on top of the actual realities of the 50s. Racism. Violence. Wars. Hatred. The 50s were a terrible time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:44 AM
5

Why does it have to be about fucking people’s wives? You don’t even need game if I’m being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:01 PM
12

A lot of dudes here are already convinced that you have to be an incarnation of whatever Chad is to have a simple sex life. Most rational people know that’s not true and it shows through women’s (and some other men) refusal to believe in that bullshit. They’re not being arrogant or condensing. They‘re speaking and applying their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:37 PM
0

1980 was 50 years ago? People stop having sex after 40? Like what are you getting at lol. Don’t women always say dick is abundant? Does that just stop for them? I’d probably be actually willing to bet that those not thriving in hookup culture whether online or in person are the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 07:23 PM
1

Let’s see. Traditionalist households. Anything not in line with the hetero status quo deemed insanity meaning you have gays and trans persons institutionalized in asylums. Cold War. Vietnam war. Literally half the country couldn’t even vote. Or are we supposed to pretend that the mob trying to prevent the Little Rock 9 from entering a school wasn’t made up of anyone born after ww2? Or that the Robert Wallace’s and Jim Clark’s rhetoric didn’t inspire an entire generation of hate towards the ideol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:17 PM
2

Then why couldn’t two man legally break away from tradition and not get legally married here until 2015?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:58 PM
3

“In online dating” I believe followed those words
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:57 PM
2

That’s not the social aspect attributed to who boomers are/were. Hippies existed but not in large number to actually shift anything majorly sociological wise Those people (boomers that obviously didn’t align with hippy culture) still very much believed and practiced traditional ways of marriage, man lead the house etc. Edit: 😂 are we really gonna pretend that the generation currently shrouded in paranoia and fear were overwhelmingly “non-traditional”? Did we just forget that the same information…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:30 PM
3

Right because if there’s anything American baby boomers love it’s liberals...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:19 PM
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Lol what? Millennials started and ran with hookup culture in online dating. The generation before that (X?) thrives in hookup culture online. Before them, baby boomers thrived in hookup culture. Albeit this generation is thought to be the traditionalist saviors, we all know realistically infidelity and adultery was the norm. It just wasn’t talked about. Tldr: people have sex regularly. The problems of the few don’t really represent the plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:02 PM
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Neither did I or most men that I know knew how to order a drink. But shit, we likely started at the clubs/bars young, essentially preventing ourselves from being late bloomers. And I think that’s what messes a lot of these guys up, being late bloomers. Whether it’s their own social repression or they were traditionally socially repressed who knows. Either way, being socially repressed isn’t doing them any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:12 PM
3

So funny you say that because I’ve started to see an uptick in videos from a pick up artist on twitter who seems to give bad go to clubs/field reports advice. These advice dudes are scamming man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:09 PM
2

The way a lot of y’all can’t identify obviously fake tinder profiles lol. I get it now 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:34 PM
7

Poor guys always look like deer in headlights at clubs. Hard to watch sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:23 PM
3

You really don’t know many western women do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:58 AM
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Yeah the misconception is that if a woman gets a free Chili’s meal from a man, she’s a good digger. So basically what you have are a bunch of dudes worried about a type of woman they’ll likely never encounter. The Anna Nicole Smith’s ain’t worried about man worth less than at least 8 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:08 PM
6

Yeah lol that’s pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:10 PM
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How is this or any red pill “truths” useful for men who do well in dating without resorting to any of this? I could literally never imagine myself trying to calculate a mine and a woman’s sex market value points. Analyzing the specifics like that would make relationships miserable and joyless. You say getting by like this is relevant to most men but I can’t think of one friend nor family who obsess over their girlfriend’s attraction to “alphas” or hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 06:10 PM
2

Jfc normal people don’t have to be manipulative or abusive to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:58 PM
1

I guess I get trying to break down and rationalize human behavior, but in practice everyday people who are socially successful aren’t theorizing like this. Men and women value sex, but not in a way that obsessively applies pseudo-math to predict the number of people the other has slept with. Men and women value attention. Do we not all post pictures on Instagram for likes? I mean c’mon. Also, nice guys are ostracized for their erratic behavior. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:54 PM
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Being demanding and manipulative sounds more like caricatures of abusive men. There’s nothing “alpha” about having to manipulate women to get them in bed especially with how accessible online dating is. Either way both labels are dumb as fuck and really hold no value. Alpha is a scapegoat boogeyman excuse for lack of success. Beta is on the same plane as “simp” usually used as an insult out of bitterness towards men who don’t rely on the teachings of the red pill but still do extremely well with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:32 PM
2

No rational man in a normal friendship operates like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:07 PM
2

But what if the number of men willing to commit to women is less those not willing to commit. Wouldn’t would still be sleeping with a smaller number of men? Also, slut shaming doesn’t work. They don’t care about y’all opinions. And its definitely not gonna work so much to convince women to sleep with dudes they otherwise wouldn’t be attracted to 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:22 AM
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I’ll never understand how y’all always argue here that this is some catastrophic issues. The imbalance of sex between genders isn’t gonna end the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:57 AM
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Learning from past experience is key in dating. But resources? What? This is dating, not the Oregon trail. You don’t have to be that analytical about your relationships. Also, if you give the 2nd girl the same amount as the first doesn’t that imply that you at least have a steady income to not only fund both but recoup losses? Or did you only have funds for 2 girls? Be realistic 😂 you’re not gonna end up with $0 from bad dating experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 02:41 AM
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Most, if not everyone I know knows how to perfectly balance those things. Experience breeds maturity and the way people are generalized here on this sub and in the comments typically don’t equate to how people act in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:14 PM
2

You don’t have to be this image of whatever Chad is to avoid settling for relationship sex. Like you can have a healthy sex life without even encountering someone you wouldn’t care for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:09 PM
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This is in line with how I’m betting most women would answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 11:05 PM
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All of that is the reality of a relationship that a lot of this sub doesn’t seem to get. Everything relationship related isn’t a transactional what I want only matters ordeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:53 PM
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This is of course assuming the sex positive feminist would date you right, would you be in a relationship with them out of desperation or something? Like why would you be with someone if you didn’t care for their happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:48 PM
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I feel like you’re insinuating that people can’t walk and chew gum at the same time. Selfishness does not always mean you have to exclude the other’s feelings. You can selfishly exist in a relationship to protect yourself while making your partner happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:31 PM
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But why does everything have to be done in fear of or viewed as being exploited? It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:15 PM
2

Very fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:14 PM
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Exactly. The way a lot of people making dating so hard is annoying as hell. No one forces anyone to make anything work with someone who’s obviously not interested. Yet people still waste time on whoever’s playing games with them only to end up jaded. I don’t know if it’s out of fear for loneliness, idealizing the potential partner, or what but the way people invest so much energy into uninterested strangers then lash out is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:46 PM
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Is the “inequality in dating” really even a problem though? I mean most of the grievances you list heavily disfavor one side, and that’s us (men). So essentially women and men who do well on dating apps should sacrifice for the dramatics of the “80%” of men who don’t do well in online dating? The inequality of dating just doesn’t seem all that big of a deal to blow up dating apps. Also, why are we mad at women for having a preference for attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:43 PM
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The other dudes here make is extremely hard on themselves, when getting by in dating is really just this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:45 PM
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Because it’s reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:31 PM
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lol that’s because that’s how regular people behave. You’re not bad a comparisons. Most people can barely remember what we’ve eaten for breakfast 2 days ago so why would someone we’ve had sex with months/years ago be on our mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 06:31 PM
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Ok right so there’s a lot of guys wary of women who’ve had a lot of sex but at the same time there’s a lot of guys who could care less. How is a promiscuous woman’s prospects hurt by missing out on guys she was probably never gonna date in the first place? Especially when she can easily get into a relationship with a man who doesn’t care about who’s she’s slept with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 03:45 PM
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What we live in now is probably what the equivalent to what mgtow or any other anti-promiscuity type people of the 80s, 90s,00s thought the present would be like. And if it is, we’re fine. We have no idea what the future of the sexual landscape would look like. In the 50s sex before marriage was frowned upon. 10 years ago, lgbtq+ people couldn’t even get married. That’s just how fast societal trends change. So maybe 10-15 years from now body counts won’t even be a concept. All the promiscuous wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 02:19 AM
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Exactly. A life of repressing sexual desires for the sake of a stranger’s opinion is a life wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 09:42 PM
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F. None of the above and have sex free of the opinions of strangers she’ll never likely date. I can’t help but feel like the policing of women’s sexuality comes from the “if I’m not having sex, nobody should be having sex!” type of dudes and thats just nonsensical. We’re all human. Humans like having sex. But somehow women having sex has morphed into this obsession over their previous partners with this idea that “Chad” is always on her mind and that she’ll cheat on you just because she knows wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 09:07 PM
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Lol it’s not though. It’s unbiased sourced information that reads like a history book. For instance with the 2020 election, yeah the facts will align more with the narrative told by Fox, CNN, and MSNBC. But not incorporating the “facts” of OANN or Newsmax doesn’t make Wikipedia a news aggregate in it’s bias, it just doesn’t pass bullshit off as facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:17 PM
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I’ll probably get married at some point. My potential wife’s promiscuous past has to match mine or it won’t work. I don’t put a number on it because I don’t care. I mesh better with sexually positive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:09 PM
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Well first off, Wikipedia is a sourced encyclopedia, not a discussion. I don’t think men going their own way is the anti-capitalistic fuck the system stronghold you think it is. You kind of did a lot of mental gymnastics to tie mgtow to an societal element that most, if not all, people don’t even associate with mgtow. Nobody sees and mgtow post and thinks “wow these guys are so anti-consumerism let’s alert the establishment!” No. People see a typical mgtow and go “wow that’s misogynistic.” Y’all…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:02 PM
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My dude 😂😂 there is a pandemic and people are literally in the house bored as hell. That’s all there is to it. You don’t know anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 09:24 PM
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Oh brother. You do not have to this incarnation of whatever Chad is to have a sex life for fucks sake. You ask why does a man have to repress himself with his wife when you had an the opportunity to communicate “hey I think I might be into anal sex” before you even started dating her. Instead, you suppress your sexual desires in chase of being “husband material” then cry foul about a situation you wouldn’t even be in had you committed to someone you were unsure would even likes what you like. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:00 AM
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But can’t we as men avoid those situations by doing XYTRW before getting into a relationship with that partner? Lol maybe experiment with anal before marrying somebody that won’t do it with you? Or maybe don’t get into relationships with women you don’t enjoy sex with? Or maybe event be upfront about trying something before committing to that person? It’s like y’all are shooting yourselves in your own foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:16 PM
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You want me to give you an example of a social gathering where a young woman would be present with her older partner? Probably, any social gathering ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:58 AM
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Idk. It’s not a situation for me so I have no answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 05:56 AM
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Other folks seem to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:52 AM
2

Different culture where?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:48 PM
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Thank you. A lot of them want to unknowingly get into situations that they’re not really built to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:39 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:25 PM
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And that’s fair but in my experience it has rarely, if ever, been an older man in good shape with good money. I’d even say a dude at 40 who’s social and youthful could fit in. But most of the time it’s just random older guy. And this isn’t even to imply that he may be socially awkward. There’s just usually no connection due to age gaps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 08:25 PM
1

She?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:50 PM
1

Oh yeah, absolutely not. It’s twitter. Probably a stolen joke tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:50 PM
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The tweet was real. I saw it, sent it to friends to laugh over. Nevertheless, seemingly a joke tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:48 PM
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A lot of older men with preferences for younger women really underestimate the reality of dating younger women. A lot of them aren’t really built to handle the pressure of being the old guy at his younger partner’s social gatherings, surrounded by younger men who he’ll see as a threat out of his own insecurity. Then it becomes a question of whether his college aged girlfriend would rather be with her college age peers over the 35+ year old. Seen it happen to my female friends countless times lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:49 PM
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Not sure what most of the acronyms mean, but personally I only date or pursue women who share my promiscuity and have similar opinions regarding sex positivity. I’ve found that often times I’m incompatible with women raised in traditionalist backgrounds who lack sexual experience or may be virgins. No knock to them, everyone’s entitled to live how they live, but the vibes just don’t connect. I won’t find any solstice or security in knowing my partner has not been with many or any men, so the tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:41 PM
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Date better women. For every woman that tweets about hating emotionally available men, there’s another woman tweeting about how she loves emotionally available men. The actions of the internet don’t speak for reality, especially when there’s literally billions of people in the world. It’s unfair as hell to rely on that tweet as the deciding example that women shoot down emotions. I’ve personally never known any woman to viciously berate a man for being soft just for being vulnerable. I can’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 08:35 PM
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They burned and drowned women on hearsay evidence, of course they’re in hell. The repression of sex ≠ sex lives sucking Millions have great sex lives. It’s the stigma around it that sucks, stemming from our weirdo beginnings
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:09 AM
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Religion set the social standards a long time ago, and some of those standards never died. Like you say, the weirdo puritans preached that even blinking wrong meant hell fire and brimstone. Granted no one’s walking around with a scarlet A pinned to their clothing, but the rhetoric of traditionalist virtues still lives on. Most rural states still teach that abstinence is the only effective way to prevent anything related to sex. You couple the lack of sex education with slut shaming, hypocrisy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 12:05 AM
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That’s why I think it’s sort of a spectrum. We hear the word depressed and think of like a mopey person when realistically a person can be present themselves as regular and still be depressed. Same with anxiousness tbh, at least anxiousness outside of dating. Specifically speaking here, anxiousness isn’t fine in the sense that a lot of dudes seem to be anxious about getting done wrong. But aside from that, anxiousness with everything else, work, life etc. is also fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:31 AM
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I only disagree with the depression part because depression is kind of a spectrum. I go in and out of it, the women I date go in and out of it. But either way, no woman wants to be with a man constantly anxious that she’s gonna cheat on him and that’s such a common theme here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:36 PM
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How not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:46 AM
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Lol yeah I feel like it’s easily disproven by anyone who has ever had sexual. It kinda insinuates that anyone who has sex constantly thinks or even remember the people they’ve had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 02:52 AM
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A myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 02:37 AM
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Yeah can’t help but think how much better off we’d be if we never shied away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:54 PM
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Virgins and women with low body counts typically tend to be fetishized. There was a post on here the other day from a woman is a virgin talking about it. As for real life, personally I prefer sexual partners who are up to game on sex health, sex education, and arc positivity. It’s usually been my experience that inexperienced women typically aren’t any of those, so the compatibility isn’t there. And that’s not a knock to inexperienced women at all. In the US sex is still taboo especially in educ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:39 PM
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You can’t swipe right on a woman with wholesome family pics and a traditionalist bio and left on the woman who’s slaying dudes on dating apps? Thats not even to say that you’re looking for traditionalist woman. But c’mon dude you can read people 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:13 PM
4

Rely on studies or refer to my ugly (obvs mean this in a lighthearted way) friends with girlfriends Decisions..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:06 PM
0

A real world example. Oh my lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:59 PM
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Assuming we haven’t socially evolved into a place where things that are frowned upon now are normalized in 2030, sure. Also absolutely. “I love these hoes” - Jesus 30 AD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:57 PM
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If I ever see dating a woman I’m into as “bailing her out” I’m gonna call it quits in the dating game. That’s miserable as fuck. But I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:50 PM
1

Did not expect to randomly laugh at Lil Fizz today lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:39 PM
1

But... you’re not though. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:33 PM
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Ehh idk about that. Women are usually upfront about their preferences-especially in looks-and aren’t afraid to pretend otherwise. As for the whole personality thing, there’s like billions of women. Personality def matters more to a good portion of them. edit: Jesus. do women not open up to y’all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:25 PM
5

Absolutely. Most of my women friends are in long-term relationships or married. And obviously with being friends comes knowing their business. For most of them I witnessed their college years. The parties, the bars, spring break (oh boy). Yet they’re happy as can be. Dating/married to really great dudes too. For context college for us was like 3-4 years ago. As for the women I date, I don’t know their body counts. I don’t ask. Because I hate when I’m asked that question. But what I can tell you …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:20 PM
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Why is finding out that women like and are more open to men they’re attracted to always treated as a newfound revelation on this sub? Would you rather them not use condoms on guys they think are ugly? Like what’s the point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:54 PM
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You wanna know the business of people you want to get into a relationship with, when you can simply just leave that person alone. Let those women just like sex man lol we don’t have correlate it to shit like drug abuse. Sex is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:50 PM
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You know you can simply just avoid those people right? If you’re that jaded over their sex lives, probably best to just kill the interest right? You don’t have to be interested in a relationship with them. Furthermore, why are you that invasive of their sex lives? You don’t think that’s a turn off? Off putting? Rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:42 PM
3

Dude. As men, we’ll be fine. I guess I get where you’re going with this? But still. We’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:39 PM
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Lmao I think a lot here have convinced themselves they’re being held at gun point. The dramatics are such an overkill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:29 PM
3

Specifically what wellbeing is being cheated here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:21 PM
7

oh my lord kill the dramatics. The world will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:16 PM
4

But I'm not talking about preferences here. I'm addressing the theorizing of strangers' sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:14 PM
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Guys, its literally just sex. Don't overthink it. Neither is important. Body counts are a social construct born out of the view that purity directly correlates to a person's character. Sure you have cases where people suffer from sex addictions and nymphomania. But that doesn't make them any less of a person. We don't live in 1700 Puritan America. Sex is accessible to the point where you can literally log onto an app, chat it up, and then have sex. Whether strangers have past relationship proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:08 PM
3

I mean it basically does. Not practices I have to resort to thought so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 06:54 AM
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Virginity is not shamed. What is shamed is using virginity as to fulfill some sort of superiority complex, using virginity as a ways to fetishize “pureness”, and using virginity as a means to shame people who are promiscuous. As for inexperience, I think the negative light on that is a result of the above. Usually inexperienced people express frustrations in off putting ways related to one of those categories or one related to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 03:03 AM
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Because so many of them fail miserably at it, and instead of directing their anger at the pick up artist who sent them off, they project onto the women who’s panties won’t drop from receiving back handed compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:48 AM
1

Whether a few dudes choose to be bums or get over themselves isn’t really going to cause consequences. Earth is going to rotate regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:16 PM
2

🤨 a book? From a person who’s interpretation of her freedoms are implied through others’ military service? Godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:05 AM
2

So sensitive cry baby of older tougher/stronger/no nonsense generation is crying online about how cry babies of younger wimp/weaker/all nonsense generation do nothing but cry online. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:46 AM
9

Western society has been destroyed? News to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:26 PM
5

Damn It happens. It doesn’t define you tho you’ll most def find your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:26 PM
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You're still caught up in an argument about regular people, a claim that I never once asserted lmao. I said prenups benefit those with insurmountable wealth. A few million isn't ascertainable to the average American. Thus, a few million = insurmountable. You just want me to say that as a future millionaire you shouldn't be worried about a prenup because for whatever reason this is personal to you... If that's the validation you need man then here, having a few million you'll have so much more mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:34 PM
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Lmfao bruh. Do you not know how much a few million is? You could’ve answered that yourself. You’re asking about a MILLIONaire. Why would that not be enough? C’mon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:55 PM
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I mean... a quick scroll up and you’ll see I originally categorized “anyone with insurmountable wealth” as a group in need of prenups and never made a famous people only argument. But if that’s what you took from it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:39 PM
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Um are you serious? Lol. Are they not more susceptible to the “gold diggers” this sub fears? More assets to protect? Brands, copyright, intellectual property, real property etc. to protect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:31 PM
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Well are there “here lady” statutory provisions in your state’s law that makes that possible without the aggrieved party experiencing any type trauma? Was he represented by Lionel Hutz? “Wouldn’t let that shit happen to me thooo”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:24 PM
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Holy shit, and I mean this in all seriousness, you just made me realize something. I’m so pro divorce because “bleeding dry” benefits my financial interest. Damn. Wow. Anyway, yeah man idk. I probably don’t see your point because I won’t date a woman where divorce is predictable ya know? I’m not really one to look pass one’s qualities that I don’t like or force myself to make things work with a woman out of fear of not getting another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:19 PM
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Yeah you’re right. I’ll step outside my broke ass bubble in my major broke ass city, in my flourishing broke ass neighborhood. It’s not like, you know, I’ve taken the time to learn that laws differ by state, and how said laws apply to the multitude of grievances brought by a wide selection of parties insomuch that the a diverse set facts and evidence makes no dissolution the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:11 PM
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Damn just randomly? No elements/evidence of irreconcilable differences, adultery, or violence? So the courts just said “here lady”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:54 PM
1

Sure. For the sake of the male ego we’ll pretend women are bleeding the common asset-less man dry. It’s not like divorce and it’s elements is a part of my professional life and education or anything. So. Yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:52 PM
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Idk man. Probably because I don’t see the women I date as aging boring faces who treat me like shit. So when an emotional connection is present and consistent I don’t mind chipping in a little more in equal housework. Especially since also typically I tend to date women who work equally, in most cases more, outside the home than in. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:43 PM
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Why did they lose their practice? What were the elements of the couples finances? What factors of the marriage led to dissolution? Or do we just pretend that judges see a man walk in and go “The wife filed for divorce give her everything!” As for prenups, I don’t know if you know this, but I’m not in the NBA. I’m not an actor, I’m not Bill Gates, nor am I anyone with insurmountable wealth. Therefore, prenups are not an element of my life. Why? Because I can’t provide the level of luxury that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:31 PM
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No we live in the same times. You don’t get married and not have to deal with the advancements in what a lot of people think ruin relationships like social media, tech, and whatever else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:23 PM
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Lol wtf? I can’t define love for you, I don’t know you. Apply your own experiences. Look at the marriages of your grandparents, friends, cousins, whoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:20 PM
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Aw man prenups. Is everybody’s perception of divorce law rooted in tv/film/celebrity news etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:16 PM
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I see no lies. Good take. Realistically it takes all that work. I was just saying that love is the foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:12 PM
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You know why I don’t? Because I haven’t baselessly convinced myself that I have everything to lose from marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:09 PM
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Lmao man I’m starting to realize that a lot of y’all genuinely don’t know how to be happy. If your outlook on emotions and feelings are rooted in being something that’s mockable, marriage or any relationship might already be off the table
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:08 PM
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It’s really that simple. These boys be manifesting martial issues with their future wives in their heads before knowing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:04 PM
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It’s not feel good Disney love nonsense to not apply the elements of failed relationships to your own. Much rather model the marriage of my parents than live according to gloom and doom just because I read about someone on the internet getting cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:02 PM
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Stop trying to gauge others sex lives for the sake of promoting a Puritan safe haven. People have sex. We’re adults. We date other adults. More importantly we date other adults who are aware that their partners have sex lives prior to dating. We need universal sex Ed man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:49 PM
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Marriage is never going to workout for somebody that wants to theorize their way into a successful one. Do anybody here know what’s it’s actually like to be in love? Been around love? Seen love? God damn. That’s literally all it takes. Y’all rather check off boxes and apply rackets over establishing actual relationships and connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:43 PM
2

😂 yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:26 PM
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My dad is a stepdad. My mom was a single mom before she met him. A few more kids later, now they’re touching nearly 30 years of marriage. Traveling, enjoying grandchildren, raising the dogs, literally living the fucking life. The insecurities of losers don’t apply to all men (hate to “not all men” 😂) and I think that’s where a lot of the Single Mom Hate Coalition overestimates. Drowning in misery obsessing over shit like “raising another man’s kid” meanwhile in reality single mothers aren’t real…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:46 PM
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I always get the feeling a lot of this sub isn’t on to game as to why or how divorces actually happen. The idea of “divorce rape” is stupid. While I can admit family courts tend to be hell for men, in the sense that going there you’ll always see an overly emotional distraught man having a breakdown. But that’s usually because judges aren’t letting them get away with bullshit. Imbalance of finances isn’t gonna make or break a relationship/marriage. Literally just be a fucking good partner. It’s r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:38 PM
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Man it’s really like a lot of perceptions here are created by film and entertainment. The “stereotypical mistress” is a fantasy trope straight out of Desperate Housewives / Sex in the City type of shit. Y’all want to live like fictional characters and apply dramatical themes to reality when in actuality there’s not much crossover between the two. That said, a simple counter argument would be that if men need two women to be satisfied, then women would also be entitled to 2 men to be satisfied bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:54 PM
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Well since revenge porn happens a lot more than false sexual assault claims, its safe to say that revenge porn is probably far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 01:54 PM
1

How? Kindness and sexual interest are even nearly exclusive. A smile and a hi or a laugh doesn’t come near to meaning sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:50 AM
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So none of that is how actually approaching women in the West goes down. The simple solution to risking any form of backlash from approaching a woman is to literally stop trying/washing/wanting to peruse women who aren’t interested in you. Vibes can be read through the simplest of interactions. So why would you ask a out a woman at work, school, the Mosque, and strangers out when they haven’t given any sort of indication that they’re interested in you? Chase the woman that gives you the vibes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:30 AM
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Yeah probably because they don’t really wanna step up to whatever traditionalist facade y’all try to trap them in. She can’t even get into a bar. Date around your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:55 PM
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A girl that’s not even 21 hurt you that bad? You a grown ass man dog
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:49 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:48 PM
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I think what it really boils down to is that men who struggle simply freak women out and your argument falls under that umbrella. A lot of dudes underestimate how far being good at something as simple as conversation goes. But to effectively converse you have to (1) have shit to talk about and (2) literally just be normal. There’s situations where a dude can like music and talk all day about it with a woman, but if he’s going about it in a way that’ll turn her off (over-talking, condescending, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:16 PM
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Clear cut answers to your questions are almost impossible because you can’t theorize life. The amount of factors that go into each element of your raised situations vary extensively. There’s what? 3 billion people in the world? One cheater may be capable of future loyalty while another is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:59 PM
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Lol I mean if you’re a prude sure. But we grown as hell over here so kinda don’t have to worry about a woman seeing sex as me giving my soul away or “leftovers” and vice versa so yes. Hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:56 AM
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Doesn’t mean we have to revolve our lives around it. I would love a relationship at the end of the day. But I don’t want it right now so I’m gonna choose to date other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:50 AM
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Relationships aren’t for everybody. Relationships may be for certain people, but the timing isn’t right so there’s no rush. Countless factors, I could go on and on. Personally I’m just not interested in one right now so I choose not to chase one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:00 AM
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No I’m involved. I’m actually active as hell in the dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 02:20 PM
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I’ve read this take over a million times in this sub and it never makes sense. It’s over dramatic self loathing. The experiences of your friends and the guys you know from work are nowhere nearly enough to accurately depict any representations of the dating game that’s somehow going to lead us to sex robots. It can easily be countered by me presenting that I have a good number of friends settled and married to women at the age of 25. Simply put, it is good because this is all about a problem tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:46 AM
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There’s nothing to explain. It’s tinder. Most men are gonna be thirsty on there regardless. I’d probably assume 8-9/10 if not 10/10 girls on dating apps are bombarded with unsolicited attention. That doesn’t mean society is headed towards an 80s sci fi wet dream. Get perspective on the world around you and stop theorizing what you think the dating game is like. There’s no concrete data to establish that 80% of men are unable to find consistent sex. That’s literally just regurgitated bullshit hys…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:26 AM
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1st. Umm what the hell? 2nd. I feel like one of the big misconceptions of dating is that the field isn’t equalized insomuch to imply that the field was once equalized - 1940-60s. It’s like we pretend that elements equivalent to today’s onlyfans, tik tok, sugar daddy etc. weren’t present back then. The only difference is back then the dating field swayed more in favor of men. People get married everyday b. People are in relationships. People are booking up. None of the above shit is ever going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:57 AM
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Umm what? I would gladly get down on one knee for the woman I love with a +20 body count. I prefer similar experienced partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:51 PM
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You can’t assume that for sure with the only factor being our heights. What if we approached her and he had more qualities suited to her type and preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:00 AM
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A few years ago I was in a dining hall in college and overheard a guy at the next table complaining about being short and his luck with women. Likely not knowing I can hear him he goes “I bet that guy (me) can get any girl for being a decent height” I had to laugh because it was the dumbest shit I’ve heard lmao my luck with women was dismal in college, I was awkward as hell. Height is not the end all be all of attraction that the manosphere pretends it to be. The fixation on 6’0 I’m what’s reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:47 PM
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Even if I were to believe that, can I still not show sympathy for the 1/10 or does majority rule dictate personal opinion? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:18 PM
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Damn now I gotta go stare out of a window 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 08:51 PM
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The idea of not wanting a daughter is dumb as fuck. Not only that, it’s rooted in creepiness, invasiveness, and control. To obsessively ponder over the sex life of your hypothetical daughter isn’t normal. I’m always reminded of those dumb memes that ask “would you rather have a gay son or a hoe daughter?” 2 things that involve 2 totally normal things: homosexuality and sex. Yet we somehow find a way to keep this carousel of toxicity going. As for the women being inferior? That’s an entire elemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:33 PM
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As an extremely strong supporter of all things science, no. Just no. All science is not good science. You guys theorize way too much shit and make this dating game way deeper that it has to be. It just boils down to cheaters cheat. Being less promiscuous doesn’t decrease the likelihood of one to cheat, being promiscuous doesn’t increase the likelihood of one to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:18 AM
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That reads like a whole lot of nothing to say literally nothing. I’m a promiscuous person. Have I ever cheated on a woman? No. Will I? Probably not? Why? I’m not a cheater. Free of all the theories and nonsensical dating depth, it’s literally just that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:12 AM
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The knife cuts neither way. There’s no allocation between a number of partners relative to the likelihood someone is to cheat. Faithful people will be faithful, unfaithful people will be unfaithful. It’s that simple. Theorizing all of these factors and elements is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 09:24 PM
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Woah I said do well. Definitely not that lol because I know exactly what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:39 PM
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I’m in Miami from time to time. I do well down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:52 AM
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Yeah the summer park dates were really a hit. At the very least it’s a good fallback bored option to swipe away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 08:33 PM
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I say this wholeheartedly,seriously, and living in a huge city lol. Online dating is the best thing to ever happen to dating. It works wonders. I can honestly say that because I know what I want and what I’m looking for, online dating has molded my dating life to be perfect (for me). It makes the game extremely easy. That’s not to say that I solely rely on it or don’t meet women in person. However, it’s so much easier to swipe and connect with people who are looking for the same thing as you and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 06:35 PM
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I’m a man and I’m obsessed with my looks. It has literally nothing to do with expectations, projections, or any other sociologic/dating theory. We just exist. We have careers, social circles, hygiene, we go to public places, movies, concerts, restaurants etc. Existing in all those spaces and looking and presenting your best is normal. There’s no secret competitions or pressure going on, it’s just the normal thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:09 AM
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The likelihood of these scenarios seem extremely extremely low. Unless it’s an act that a partner did at the beginning of the relationship but to refuse to do later on, it doesn’t seem like much of a reality. How does one continue to fall in love without having an obsession satisfied? If someone tells you they’re not into something you like and you know it’s gonna be a problem but constantly keep going back, you’re doing it to yourself, when a simple solution would be to find someone into what y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:35 PM
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Literally. I can’t even imagine this being a theme in many relationships. It’s invasive as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:35 PM
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Exactly. There’s just not much of an actual grip on reality here. It’s like they create caricatures of villain hypothetical girlfriends who treat them badly. It’s like they want to be treated wrong so badly to justify their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:34 PM
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It’s a topic that’s kind of starting to be over-discussed here. And not to be graphic, but I’m really starting to get the sense that it’s a topic spearheaded by men obsessed with anal sex who feel dejected at the hypothetical of a woman engaging in it with other men and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:16 PM
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None because I’m not invasive. What works for us works for us. No reason to have a job like interview regarding past sexual performance. In the same breath, I hate receiving a “what have you done?” Type question, so why would I ask it? As for bonus question 3, that’s extremely unhealthy. If you’re dejected by your partner not wanting to do something they don’t like, you don’t care about their pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:15 PM
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I mean with as prevalent as porn is, wouldn’t it be fair to assume that men rely on consuming tons of it already? That’s not to say they’ve given up on women though because sex is natural, of course we’re gonna want to experience it. I just don’t see where love can come in through sex with someone you’re not in love with? Or vice versa. In a fwb situation, how can you feel love from a person who likely has no emotional connection with you and just like the sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:06 PM
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I’m not too sure how much of a vast majority of men feel love through sex, especially in a FWB situation? How can you feel love with somebody you aren’t in love with? Lol that’s just pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 09:50 PM
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To me, that comment reads as someone who doesn’t know what it’s like to be in a committed relationship. They say that the boyfriend has to provide emotional support, support, communicate, and the small stuff... DUH. That’s what a relationship consists of. When you love somebody enough to commit like that, all those things come 2nd nature. That’s why you’re the boyfriend, not the fwb. If you don’t want to do any of that then don’t get into a relationship. It’s literally that easy. I’m going on ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 09:48 PM
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I mean, if you want to reduce the entirety of your relationship and all it encompasses to one small aspect of the many aspects of sex (which in this situation is likely “she did it for him but won’t for me because she explore it but didn’t like it”) go ahead. Different strokes, different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 06:41 PM
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What if she explored it and didn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:59 PM
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They don’t. That concept seems to come from this idea of an envious boyfriend who’s sees is partner choosing to do “other stuff” with the men before him but not the boyfriend. Of course never minding the fact that his current gf may have experimented or tried things, didn’t like it and took it out of rotation. Which is definitely valid and should be respected. No woman in a happy relationship is treating her boyfriend worse than she would a casual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 05:57 PM
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Well it was debate and never cmv but you guys changed it. But true, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:32 AM
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I live in the biggest city in the Midwest. Know a lot of people, dudes specifically. Never heard of any shit like that happening in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:24 AM
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Man I don’t put enough energy into this for me to be emotionally affected. If it’s condescending the best I can say is to grow some skin. There’s just no argument to be made or had on what women have to offer besides fertility and looks. It’s not 1955.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:20 AM
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Well for starters I don’t believe in the alpha beta bs. But in the context here, y’all want to place a beta label on a hypothetical man in a happy relationship/marriage without any context to the actualities of this hypothetical relationship besides Reddit sub fantasies on what they think relationships are actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:11 AM
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Lol there’s no attitude man. You just want something that’s so obvious spoon fed to you. Go talk to some and see what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:07 AM
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Man some of y’all boys really gonna theorize yourselves to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:49 AM
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Right as they live a happily coupled, financially stable, healthy lifestyle as lonely strangers call them beta. Sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:48 AM
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Lol definitely but I don’t have to prove the obvious to you. You obviously don’t believe they don’t have redeemable qualifies so it pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:44 AM
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That sounds like self-loathing fiction that doesn’t really happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:40 AM
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I think you’re mistaking abuse of alcohol and drugs (alcoholism and drug addiction) and applying it to women having fun on weekends and calling that drinking binges. Us partiers will be fine when it’s said and done 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:35 AM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:22 AM
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Go talk to one and find out instead of theorizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:22 AM
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That’s a caricature of the “evil woman” who sacrificed being datable in her 30s for having too much fun in her 30s. Y’all want to push the narrative so bad that “drinking binges”, having a lot of sex, and partying leads to a life of loneliness of misery for women, when it literally doesn’t. The women who went on drinking binges in their 20s are doing just as fine in their 30s. Probably partying with just a little bit more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:21 AM
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I feel you. I don’t browse read pill subs but here, I’ve seen the narrative pushed by seemingly older men who think older women demand too much or are unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:18 AM
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Lol bruh no. Normal happy couples could literally care less to apply any of the strategies, theories, good deal, etc. to their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:16 AM
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No. Just no. This is a boogeyman perception of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:13 AM
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Emotional maturity here gets intertwined with the idea as women get older they demand too much or become unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:12 AM
2

Haha very fair point. Never seems to be much self-loathing from y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:10 AM
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Most women offer way more than looks and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:06 AM
2

I do here the spectrum take a lot, but admittedly I don’t know too much at it all about anything relating to it as far as behavioral patterns etc. But I can see where it comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:05 AM
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I absolutely agree. Aging is natural and nothing to be afraid of. 30-35 men in the second immature category you mention are weird to me. They’re issues like party lifestyle aren’t pretty blatant. I’m 25 and honestly it’s so weird having an older man in the function who’s probably dating one of my friends who are girls. It was weirder in college like why is there a 35 y/o man in my apartment drinking with 21 y/o’s? It’s just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:34 AM
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I see what you’re saying, this is my assumption and most def probably wrong, but most people I see here talking about a wall seem older and always seem to be advocating for dating younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:30 AM
5

Shit, some men have that difficulty at 20. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:28 AM
1

We should probably stop looking at the men who land these women in their 30s as beta. Relationships are dynamic and the idea that a women settling down could just as much be his choice to settle down too. And I mean how beta can you be having access to something damn near most of this app wants? Companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:27 AM
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I think we really gotta let go this idea that go that when they get up there they look for simps. Let’s be real with ourselves, we’ve all seen their dm’s. They’re not really hurting for attention from the men they want. If they were settling for actual losers (not beta’s/simps etc.) there wouldn’t be so many self loathing men on Reddit. I agree on point 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:21 AM
1

I can see that, with what you mean by attitude. People are dynamic. I damn near want to ask do we share an aunt haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:18 AM
1

lol that’s literally not it at all. They’re not worried about such men because such men can’t provide the lifestyle they want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:31 PM
1

You lost me. When did we discuss proximity or anybody leaving for someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:21 AM
1

Never in my life have I heard about or knew somebody with actual money/wealth worried about hypergamy. Just like everybody else in the comments said, classes usually stick with classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:08 AM
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Yeah it just comes off as a big portion of dudes here inflating their value for something they more than likely don’t have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 10:19 PM
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I’m starting to get the sense that hypergamy isn’t as prevalent as the sub makes it seem or that a majority of the other dudes here aren’t necessarily affected by it. It’s coming off as another boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:14 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:04 PM
2

Yeah we have a chance. I just think if depends on your location and circumstances. I do extremely fine on there because I live in a major US city with a population over 3 million + the never ending influx of tourist. The pool of women willing to swipe right on me is huge simply because of those large numbers. I also know what I like and preferences tend to keep me from even trying at women who I know wouldn’t date me. However, I know men of color in smaller towns/cities who do struggle on the ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:23 PM
1

What’s wrong with catering to women’s feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 03:06 PM
4

Not at all champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:59 AM
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The part where it’s not 1955 anymore and the fact that I never have to reduce myself to old ass societal standards to theorize my dating life because women actually like me 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:29 AM
1

While I do like the prospect of possibly marrying one day, I agree on the other 2. Could care less whether a white dress or exchanging of the rings were involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:20 AM
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Shit like that is so pathetic to me. Seems like the approach that most of this sub takes, and then wonder why women don’t like them. Too proud to spend $3 on a coffee for the sake of some dumb social aspects where they fear they may be seen as a simp or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:16 AM
12

Sheesh do you not know how to make an argument without resorting to childish rhetoric? Anyway. No. I’m not advocating to let marriage die. I literally came up with a living experience. Parents have been married for 30 years, mom still uses her last name. Probably attribute their success to my dad not being a loser that theorized his way through his dating life caught up on whether catering to my mom should mean she takes his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:14 AM
8

Right? It’s some kind of victim type mindset just to make themselves feel better I guess. No gold digger is worried about any man scared to lose $30 on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:58 AM
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I think they’re demonized because a lot of men like to think they’re at risk of encountering one. Never minding the fact that gold diggers aren’t typically worried about men who stress about going half on first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 01:03 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:40 PM
9

Nah it’s 2020. Let traditions of the past die.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:11 PM
1

Literally my first girlfriend who I entered college with is happy with a really good guy. Mid 20s. I’m not sure what you mean by nerd type. But he’s shorter, non-athletic and keeps to himself. He doesn’t self-loath and could care less about me. The way it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:45 PM
0

Reads like you only know women in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:12 AM
0

Lol no. Women call incels incels. Not whatever you described
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 04:46 AM
2

I think you misinterpret my lack of care that I am shaming men who have these baseless (emphasis on the baseless) insecurities because of a partners body count for me going out of my way to shame them. I just speak to what I believe to be hard truths and those whom it doesn’t apply, let it fly. Those who don’t write paragraphs with a self-loathing tone, hence me using the word cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:07 AM
2

Equating the intimidation that any man can take your girlfriend is to that traumatic acts of violence is baseless and pointless to even engage. However, I will say having the desire to pursue dating is all and fine. What’s not fine is consistent bitching and complaining about your shortcomings insomuch that you place that weight on others. “Others” typically being someone you’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:52 PM
1

Having nightmares that your girlfriend is going to leave you for her jock ex who’s more than likely moved on from her is actually pretty pathetic. Source: former college athlete whose haven’t cared to speak to some exes in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:46 PM
2

I’m sorry but that outlook is pathetic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:31 PM
3

Dating younger/inexperienced women for the sake of saving yourself baseless insecurities doesn’t make any sense at all to me actually. If you’re not secure enough to date without walking on pins and needles out of fear that your partner is more interested in other men, you probably just shouldn’t date. Simple. If you take offense to what I say as shaming, I’m not really sure what to tell you. There’s a whole lot of other social aspect plaguing a lot of our insecurities as men like body image, po…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:27 PM
3

Yes. A little confidence and security goes a long way and a lot better option over stressing whether your girlfriend is going to leave you for a stranger on the street that she probably didn’t even see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:17 PM
1

Not the average chump. The average chump is likely an incel or neck beard who’ll blame everyone else but himself for his own shortcomings. But yes, I’d assume the average man can get what he’s looking for on dating apps. So long as he’s cool about it instead of being an overzealous weirdo like most guys try to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:15 PM
1

Still really not seeing as how strategizing and game planning to do something that really just takes downloading tinder proves that it’s easy to get past this other 80% of men, when red pill men seemingly fail so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:02 PM
1

I usually see a big portion of red pill men here who seek out potential partners who are virgins out of fear that someone else (Chad) may have had what he believes to be easy access to sex with someone he’s put the effort into to court into a relationship. That’s intimidation. Why? Because in the back of his mind he’s terrified that his partner will always have her eye on the concept of man that he can never be. You can mask it as much as you want and argue that these are measures to ensure loya…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:47 PM
3

If it’s so easy to breeze past other men, then why are so many red pill and aspiring red pill men intimidated and envious of a Chad caricature?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 10:33 PM
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Comment of the fucking year. OP is harping on self-actualization and working on one’s self, yet doesn’t have the self-realization that he’s boring the fuck out of women with pseudo-deep convos. So instead it’s just easier to paint women as conversationally shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 07:13 PM
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Right* If a guy thinks a woman is seriously considering him as a partner while making him wait but sleeping with other men, he needs to get over himself and realize he’s not boyfriend material to her or he can buy the beachfront property in Arizona I’ll sell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 09:47 PM
8

If she’s making you and only you wait: You’re not boyfriend material to her. You’re probably not as much of a “nice guy” as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:08 PM
12

This screams “and I have nothing to offer in return”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:43 PM
5

Honestly, I’d say it’s more of the idea of what they believe women had the mindset of in the 50s and 60s. Stories from our grandparents will tell us that that polka dot dress, cook, put the kids to bed shit was all just tv and movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:35 PM
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Lol you boys only know women in theory and it’s so obvious. Do you actually know what goes into a woman feeling emotional taxed enough to be emotionally drained? Or are you just bitter that they call bullshit on your constant ranting, refusal to accept responsibility, and overall inability to be a grown man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:24 PM
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This doesn’t sound like a theory based in actual experience, but instead conclusions reached by whatever you’ve been told. Isn’t the main sexist argument against women in leadership positions Is that women make decisions based on emotions? Implying that they’re too emotional? Now all of a sudden they’re not emotional enough to provide emotionally to their partners and families? This just reads as a generalization of the caricature evil women often painted on this sub. I mean c’mon, there’s women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 09:29 PM
1

Damn they don’t teach context clues anymore? Call it what you want to call it, but something tells me you don’t have sex at all. But I digress 😄.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 08:03 PM
1

Oh brother. “worth time and effort” get over yourself. Also, you said meeting at one’s house is a good way to get killed or robbed. Who the fuck is meeting a woman they’re going to hookup with at a park out of fear she’ll rob him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:38 PM
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Any man with the ideology that $5 and a $1 adds up or stresses over $30 need not worry about hypothetical gold diggers. Also, if you can’t maneuver without succumbing to cultivation theory, hookup culture simply isn’t for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 02:36 PM
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Not that I believe in labels of sluts and whores but yep, this is 100% true. Jealous that the women they fall sluts won’t sleep with them. Then turn around and call them a hoe. But how can she be a hoe if she’s never given you the time of day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:25 AM
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I’m getting the sense from your replies that you’re waaay too worried about the sex life of your hypothetical date in the sense that she’ll likely sleep with other guys without having to be courted on a date, but she’s going to need a date out of you to consider sleeping with you. Work on yourself. Level up. Get to a point where you’re able hookup without going on dates, and I promise you won’t be worried about how the other dude is sleeping with your hypothetical date for free, while your not. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 12:49 AM
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Yeah that’s not something I care about. If she’s sleeping with other guys without them having to pay or getting a first name, it sounds like we lead similar lives so what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 11:14 PM
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Say you meet a woman you’re interested in and she agrees to go out with you. You’ve been interested in her for awhile, and you’re hoping this date will lead to whatever it is you’re looking for. Do you genuinely believe it’s going to be a good idea to ask her to pay half of the bill on the first date? No. She’s going to think you’re a fucking loser. You boys are missing out on all the fun and experiences you’re looking for worrying to much about the almighty dollar and how others might perceive …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 09:31 PM
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Nope. No resentment nor do I hate women. If anything this sub has only reinforced my belief that dating is easy simply because men like the ones that frequent this sub who bash women and lash out actually exist. It’s not hard to succeed when they taint the dating pool so much that women are left with no choice but to constantly raise the bar in what they look for and go after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 12:05 AM
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It can be a mix of anything. Any woman who removes it to create anonymity from online dating has every right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:02 PM
1

Is this supposed to be a bad thing? Hinge I believes asks you for a last name, imagine the scenarios where random Hinge dudes are lurking for your Instagram. Saves them the trouble. I worked at a school a few years ago and removed my last name from ig and twitter. Never put it back. It’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 10:57 PM
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I’ve never thought it was beneath me. I’m only 25 now, but 22 year old broke college me was in Miami strip clubs with the same energy I have now 3 years older with a little more money. Other guys probably seen/see it as simping, tricking, etc. whatever but the truth is I just don’t give a fuck. I’m secure enough in my finances not to worry about the opinion of strangers who likely want to engage in the same activities, but are too afraid of societal standards or what someone else will say/think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:21 PM
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It’s all about lifestyle. Some of us live a lifestyle where drinking and doing drugs is a part of our social means in which casual sex is intertwined. I drink because I like certain alcohols, I smoke weed because I like being high and it helps with anxiety. I party because it’s fun to me. None of that is ever taken as me only being able to endure the women I date while intoxicated. Why? Because they likely engage in the same activities. Our lifestyles match. Being intoxicated while in each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:03 PM
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The insecure should not make themselves more insecure. Let’s be honest, the type of guys that post here who feed into the whole Chad, Stacy, leagues, etc. are in fact very intimidated by this Chad caricature. So what good is it going to do for a guy who doesn’t believe he holds up in the looks department to date a woman who’s aesthetically pleasing? The late nights wondering why his attractive girlfriend isn’t texting him back thinking she’s with another guy in her league isn’t going to be good …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 05:21 PM
3

Why can’t friends just stay friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 03:30 PM
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While I agree with the basis, here’s my take at changing your view. I don’t see this and other subs as anxiety inducing. I think a lot men use these subs as a tool for validation to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings. Instead of taking measures to self-improve and be better, they look for the easy way. Nobody really wants to accept their flaws, it’s the hardest part of self-improvement (been there myself before). So the rely on the “hey I’m not the only one! Women suck!” de…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:57 AM
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Lol man that’s not actual drug dealing. That’s just selling fucking weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:38 PM
1

That’s what you got out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:34 PM
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You grew up in a very nice upper class neighborhood... that had drug dealers? 🤨 Anyway, this is kind of an odd question. Do we really expect 18-22 year olds to make the best dating decisions? That’s college age, as someone else said their dating pool isn’t really all that large. I can see if this question was phrased around maybe athletes or something. But drug dealers? This is just odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 08:22 AM
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Hate to sound like an arrogant asshole but all this Chad bullshit is annoying. I don’t know what else you expect me to say other than level yourself up to the point where you don’t need skill. This shit is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:58 AM
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Not sure what my response is supposed to be. I can’t base it off experience because according to you I’d fall into whatever you claim 20% to be, and I don’t believe in that so this back and forth is kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:54 AM
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This is some sad self loathing shit man. Some of you boys really don’t get it without “having to deal with her shit test or buying her stuff” huh? Because if you did, you wouldn’t be hung up on one girl turning you down. Like seriously who gives a fuck if she’s doing that for another dude? You don’t have the skill to go get that same sex and devotion from other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 02:50 AM
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Nah. Never have a problem being wrong. It’s ok to be wrong. I’m just not about to hit up women sounding like an invasive loser with weird hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 02:42 AM
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Her fertility? This reads weird as hell. What the fuck? Divorce ripoff? Why does this sub idea of divorce not seem to be based in reality? I’m in the legal field and rarely if ever hear of divorce stories similar to the soap operas created here. Anyway, your scenario of her giving away other stuff to guys for “free” is fine because a not like I’m struggling to get that “free” stuff from other women so who really gives a fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:53 AM
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No. 1. That sounds like something a loser would do. 2. I’m sure they wouldn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 06:45 AM
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None of that really applies to my dating life. Why would I harbor bad feelings from something 5+ years ago? Self realization alone tells me how much better now than I was at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 03:05 AM
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No offense but I’m not sure what we’re supposed to take form this? Women are selective on looks. We already know this. So are men, you even state that you wouldn’t swipe on your matches. You want us to discuss you not getting attractive matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 12:04 AM
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I got you now. You know exactly what you want and the way you operate shows for it. No fault in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:35 PM
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Yeah but you can’t learn subscribing to bullshit and nonsensical outlooks. The amount of factors that could have weighed on a woman’s decision to not choose me at 19 are so broad that those factors probably no longer exist at 25. The same would go for a woman I didn’t choose at 19, but would pursue now. Growth in looks, ideologies, income etc. are not something I find offense in a woman choosing me now. We’re an evolving specie. Circumstances change and I’d be damned if I didn’t see myself as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:33 PM
1

Fair outlook on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:25 PM
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Ehh nah. I said in another comment here that my dating life is perfect to me. It may not be what others want or experience but shit I wouldn’t trade it for the hardships of being stressed imaginary bullshit. I’ve come far to along to have my confidence rocked over worrying about why someone didn’t choose me at 19. I don’t have those “back then they didn’t want me, now Im older and have money they want to settle for me” complexes. Probably because I’ve never felt not wanted. It’s not a life I liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:19 PM
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Not the case at all. A woman’s chance isn’t based on attractiveness alone. And who gives a fuck why “Chad” didn’t need all of those things to be with her? It wouldn’t be like she was my only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:15 PM
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If you don’t have faith in women, do yourself a favor and don’t worry about them. If you enter a relationship with a woman you don’t have faith in, and down the road she leaves you like in your scenario above, that’s simply on you. Don’t do that to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 11:09 PM
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Some of you boys really need to build faith in yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:32 PM
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That’s lame. Who even has enough desire to stress over something like that? The broad generalizations that women lose attractiveness in their 30s is so tired. Literally any quick scroll through tinder of 30+ women on their would show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:29 PM
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Honestly. Sounds like a view born out of insecurity. It’s really not hard to be confident to see yourself as a prize and “back up” plan to no other man of all things lol. That’s inferiority complex as hell to be worried about feeling coming 2nd to a “first choice” I can never see myself holding hard feelings for a girl that denied me at 16-18 that would want me at 25. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:16 PM
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Say I fall in love with a woman at 30. Why the fuck would I care about whether she would or would not have given me a chance at 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:17 PM
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My opinions about the opposite sex and dating are strictly based on my own experiences. It’s such an easy outlook to have. I honestly believe my dating life is perfect, simply because it’s exactly what I want it to be and I make the most of it. And I realize my experiences aren’t the same as others, and that’s fine but I take L’s in the dating here and there like everybody else. The difference? I don’t bitch and complain and look for scapegoats to validate my shortcomings to protect my feelings.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:11 PM
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Ehh I see a lot of women in open relationships on dating apps. Seems popular now more than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 06:50 AM
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Lol try? I’m the epitome of what most of this sub hates 😂 but you got it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 05:02 AM
1

No it’s not. Those type of arrangements usually are open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:14 AM
2

By being non monogamous yourself dating non monogamous women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:08 AM
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Lol it’s really like most of their perceptions don’t come from actual interactions with real women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:46 AM
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No they don’t. Healthy relationships exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 10:37 PM
1

Engaging in casual sex in no way diminishes your ability for attachment. Commitment is easy for the monogamous. A cheater is going to cheat. It’s as simple as that. There’s no science you can apply to predict it happening. The best you can do is trust yourself to not pick a partner that wouldn’t do that you free worrying about all the casual sex = bond paring bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 08:37 PM
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If your partner prevents you from engaging in your hobbies then you shouldn’t be with that person. Thats simply what it boils down to. No healthy relationship requires you to give up something you love. Whether it’s video games, movies, shopping etc. All parties of a relationship be it the man, woman, or non identifying individual are entitled to enjoy things outside of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 07:02 PM
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Frequently at bar/party. Sometimes in passing at like bar, grocery store, or passing on the street. Rarely, in a store or in public but it happens. Often in a club setting. Usually from gay or bi men and that’s fine, doesn’t bother me at all. Always. And I recommend returning the favor just as frequently. Always, and again I recommend returning the favor. Always hype your boys up. For the 3rd time, always and ALWAYS return the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 04:16 PM
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Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:02 AM
1

You’re comparing an act of extreme racial violence by an individual to one’s obsession with a partners former flings. There’s literally 0 correlation to being intimidated by “chad from 5 years ago” and acts of terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:42 PM
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What’s up with the general consensus to be average? Aim higher guys. Shit watch the Michael Jordan documentary if you need inspiration. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:49 AM
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Right. The same smarter guys that do nothing but bitch and complain about not getting chosen by women over the bad boy bogeyman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:45 AM
2

😂😂 obligatory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:34 AM
1

Interesting perspective on that test.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:22 AM
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More so not interested in seriously engaging with people who can’t talk like adults without using words like feminist fantasy and sluts. If you wanted to engage you should’ve spoken like an adult like (almost) everyone else in the thread instead of childish innuendos like this is a high school lunch table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:20 AM
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Nah man I just see the world based on what I experience. If that’s the feminist vision of equality we’ll excuse the fuck out of me for not having the men of Reddit dicks down my throat. I want a partner to have the same experiences as me because men and women aren’t affected differently and no amount of pseudoscience is going to prove to me that human beings, the same specie, experience something as natural as sex differently to validate insane beliefs that I don’t have. I also don’t need to “fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:39 AM
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Idk man. It’s almost as if we all don’t lead the same type of lives. Just a thought though idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 03:25 AM
1

Cheaters are gonna cheat. It’s just that simple. There’s no math, pseudoscience, etc. to predict it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:58 AM
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Lmao what? Bruh I can have as many bonds with as many people as I’d like. I’m sorry but random Reddit sub rules/science or whatever doesn’t apply to my life. I’m also sorry I wouldn’t date your hypothetical girlfriend but she really just doesn’t sound like the type to fit my lifestyle and beliefs. So I’m definitely choosing partner A 100 times of 100. Also yeah, no. You know how many lesbian couples there are with amazing families?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:56 AM
1

Haven’t seen one pissed off woman in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:50 AM
2

Would much rather hear personal stories/experiences than a bunch of r/iamverysmart post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:58 AM
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Oh absolutely. “Broken slut” sounds like she going to get my socks off a lot more than fucking Angela from The Office. Have had countless bonds with women who had absent fathers. Because a father isn’t a prerequisite for building a woman nor is a father a prerequisite for a “good family” Why the fuck would I want a cookie cutter Stepford wife when I smoke weed and drink alcohol? Lmao I’m in the legal field and would much rather not have a partner accompany me to events judging others for indulgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:56 AM
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Being a man coming from the picket fence, intact family, parents married nearly 30 years... I’m going to take the first option. The second just doesn’t sound like something I want and that’s ok as it’s ok for others to want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:42 AM
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Yikes. Glad you’re out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:39 AM
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It’s just normal. I live in a major US city where at any point anybody can know anybody. I’ve even been in a committed relation to a sex worker. It’s just not something I think about or have any room to judge anyone else on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:08 AM
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If you can’t read your partner, and the 2 of you can’t communicate and establish each other past knowing where she is on the exclusivity scale then that’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:54 AM
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I think Jesus said the whores. Not religious but I’m gonna believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:50 AM
4

Well shit the general notion here seems to adopt the religious view. Not claiming that the majority here is religious, but based on a quick scroll through post and comments I think it’s fair to conclude that the majority view here is that women are “ruined” or whatever for having fucking sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:47 AM
1

Fair enough, could have conveyed the title better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:43 AM
3

Can you relay your response more adult-like please?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:42 AM
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I don’t believe that to be the case and I’m sure we can have this conversation without the weird innuendos. This reads as if almost if not all attractive woman are in committed relationships. A quick scroll through tinder alone would highlight the number of attractive single women and we all know what tinder is for. I don’t think we can base a person sex life or lack thereof simply on attraction in the sense that sex, a natural thing, is something pretty women don’t have to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:37 AM
0

Yeah quite possibly. I think she could considered a red pill woman based on multiple other factors. But higher n count = higher self-esteem isn’t the basis of the post. My point of view is that I don’t agree with the majority notion on this sub that promiscuity equates to infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:28 AM
1

That’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it. But as an avid partier in myself that I attribute to being in my 20s, it’s also fair for people like myself to attribute our weekends or whatever to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:25 AM
2

That’s fair, very much different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:22 AM
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Exactly. A cheater is going to cheat at the end of the day and that’s what it really boils down to. All the other factors attributed to it on this sub is pointless. Shit is a dice roll, life is a gamble, that’s just how it is. And that’s not to go against my original post, I never meant for it to read that people with lower body counts are more likely to cheat out of curiosity. I just disagree with the notion that people with high body counts are more likely to cheat based on whatever pseudoscie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:22 AM
1

But how is wanting to experience not valid? Humans play on their curiosities, they should be allowed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:15 AM
2

Well speaking to past experience related to the topic, I had more experience than my first serious girlfriend. Her obsession with my experiences was rooted in her believing that it made me more likely to be promiscuous and cheat on her (I know I said I got curious in the past but when I’m committed I’m committed) and it eventually led to our dissolving because the mental toll of being constantly asked who you slept with is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:11 AM
1

The general consensus, at least from what I know, is that your partner is supposed to make you better. You’re not gonna get that dating a yes woman on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:08 AM
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Well yeah lol that’s why I decided to post. Get some “change my view” takes on a different point of view of the norm on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:07 AM
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Equating physical abuse to sex has no relevance here at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:57 PM
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Fair points across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:53 PM
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I feel that. That’s where the hypocrisy comes in with this topic. I can agree that it boils down to compatibility in values.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:28 PM
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Then wouldn’t it make sense to keep going until they find someone that does make them cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:26 PM
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What’s the obsession with someone a woman had fun with 5 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:25 PM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:25 PM
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I don’t see how that can be the case? Is it really fair to generalize others dating experiences and reduce it to insecurity? We don’t know the details of what leads someone in and out of relationships. Cheating, emotional/physical abuse, Compatibility, long distance etc. can all be factors that lead to disconcerting in dating. Shit to be even more blunt, sex is about satisfaction right? Maybe man 1 and man 2 satisfy as well as man 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:24 PM
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I don’t mean any disrespect In this. But that’s actually perfect, what works for you and your husband is amazing. It’s like 2 like-minded similar people attract. I know who I am, therefore I probably wouldn’t be attracting an opposite type person. Your arrangement wouldn’t really work for me and that’s perfectly ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:16 PM
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How does insecurity intertwine with human pleasure? Are you saying that women seek a lot of sex for validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:11 PM
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Are my views going to be dictated by studies form strangers I don't know? Or based how I know I operate mixed with personal experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:02 PM
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Probably shouldn’t generalize the experiences of a few or yourself to speak for the bigger population. Never have I felt robbed of a sense of accomplishment or lack or respect based on whatever you think society has made men these days. Also, the weird rhetoric of “divorce courts” where’s this from? Tv? Reddit? Family law is nothing like the boogeyman presented on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:44 PM
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I don’t ever recall hearing an argument or observing a majority social stance that women aren’t as horny as men? Literally everyone is human, we all get the same urges, feelings, etc. how we act on those just differ and generalizations aren’t a fair assessment because different situations call for different scenarios. Even if the song never existed, we’d still know that women experience horniness. We don’t need to scapegoat a song to validate what we already know lol it’s silly. Lastly, songs li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:36 AM
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Yup. Much rather live dictated by my personal experience opposed to living by “studies” surrounding the dice rolls of dating that only ever used to justify shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:49 PM
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😂😂 Aw man life is one big boogeyman to you guys wow
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:12 PM
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How would “pair bondings” be diminished if neither of us live our life subscribing to that shit? Something that neither of us acknowledge the existence of is gonna take us out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:09 PM
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I’m not sure that’s a good example. Marital circumstances don’t equate to issues of homelessness at all. Anyway what I’m saying is I’m secure in my person not to live a life of obsession with what I believe to be non factors based on data that preaches experiences that has never happened to me. Could former promiscuity be a reason for divorce? Sure but divorce rates are high as hell anyway. For sure wouldn’t be an issue in my life? Why? Because I’m not defined by that nor is anyone in my immedia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:35 PM
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I guess they counter that with the argument that as dudes it’s in our nature to be promiscuous which obviously ignores that humans by nature are sexual beings regardless of sex, thus painting women as sub-human. More nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:21 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:14 PM
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Data doesn’t dictate my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:13 PM
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I don’t get their body count approach either. They say n counts matter for long term relationships right? So their belief is that low body counts means their partner has some halo effect and less likely to cheat or whatever right? But isn’t it the opposite? For me personally when I was young, inexperienced and committed all I wanted to do was have experiences with other girls. So for me, I very much want my future partner to engage in hoe phases lol I do it, why can’t she? I do it to know that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 04:04 AM
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Women can’t be Pats fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:47 PM
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Bitch no lmao it’s a Tuesday morning. I will say thank you though! This comment gave me a motivation boost in my writing. Maybe I’ll write about it another post/comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:35 PM
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Nah just rather not present myself in a r/ihavesex manner like a fucking 14 year old boy 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:30 PM
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The facts alone would be a lot, but an issue,rule,analysis,conclusion of the event for it to even make sense would legit be a novel. It was a spring break night, in a ridiculous affluent part of a major US city where a Pats fan walked me through my potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:27 PM
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Lol no. I lost my virginity as a teenager 😂 What went down didn’t even involve sex. Something that I already doing wouldn’t be a confidence booster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:00 PM
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Lol “no ones fucked you”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:54 PM
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I don’t really know how to answer this without sounding like a weird overcompensating stranger on the internet. So I’ll just say it’s been fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:48 PM
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What a very weird ass reply
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 05:29 AM
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Whew those pockets be hurting huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:56 AM
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Coming from someone that likely believes in projections? Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:55 AM
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Nah I think I’m doing pretty fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:34 AM
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Lol bruh if the answer to that was yes about a girl you like, you‘d have a breakdown that she’s ruined/spoiled goods or whatever the proud bois be saying. You literally just made a comment saying FDS women don’t teach you how to be sexy, letting me know everything I need to know. Don’t do this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:25 AM
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I hear you. But I like to think we’re a product of our own experiences, now that’s not to say that my experience is every guy’s experience. So my first serious girlfriend might’ve very well (unknowingly) been a red pilled woman. Worried about my body count, future family oriented, didn’t like that I party etc etc. me knowing that I didn’t want that in a partner has literally made me happy. Granted, in the post I said I only date casually, but the point stands. For me the happiness is been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:11 AM
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Ehhh I think I’m doing pretty great listening to em.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:03 AM
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Given that I don’t harbor any feelings of being slighted by them, I’d say listening to them has been great and done wonders for my casual dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:56 AM
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Thank you. Leveling up is easy fuck. Hate to always speak on my experiences as the norm, but for me it literally took just one event to bring me out of those awkward late college years and have never looked back. Not to say that I never believed any of the self loathing shit, it was just time working on myself which ultimately resulted in that one confidence boosting event and I’ve been fine every since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:52 AM
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“Adults don’t know what they really want and what they say they want is often incorrect” Ok Nostradamus you got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:44 AM
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I always like to think we’re product of our experiences. While I bet that’s a turn off to some women, don’t know one in my circle who would call that a turn off let alone swipe left
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:37 AM
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Lol aw man the generalizations. You’re right though. Young. Yup 25 and playing video games as I speak. You know what you won’t see me doing? Bitching on the internet about how other guys get girls for being whatever the fuck a chad is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:35 AM
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Lol never in my fucking life has any of the free game given to me by a woman been detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:30 AM
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Who are you to know what a random woman on the internet needs more than she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:28 AM
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Lmfao bruh. How do you know what they need over them? Back to finance example, if a woman states she’s wants someone in a particular tax bracket and looks a certain way, why would you not believe that’s something she needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:28 AM
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I mean duh women date douchebags. Men date douchebags. Why? Because they exist. But it’s weird to create a boogeyman persona of these people who women fawn over and choose over the common man wtf lol. If you can’t be yourself and attract women, probably speaks do a deeper internal issue that should be addressed instead of self loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:25 AM
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No because I believe the game is absolutely fair. Do you take losses? Of course, but you gameplan for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:22 AM
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The implication is that adults can convey what they want. A FDS woman can easily convey she wants a man that makes a certain salary lmao that’s not rocket science nor is there any reason to believe she doesn’t know what she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:20 AM
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Never met a woman who loved a sociopath because he’s attractive. These projections always read like a boogeyman or tv character to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:17 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:08 AM
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Lol they’re adults. Conveying what one wants isn’t hard, especially anonymously and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 03:08 AM
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I think you need to be real with yourself and stop excusing weird ass behavior for the sake of making yourself feel better for subscribing to red pill ideology. Approach anxiety doesn’t exist. “Anti male feminist conditioning” hasn’t made you afraid to do something you were already afraid to do in the first place. You’re just simply afraid to approach women, which is 100% fine because we have no entitlement to approach them in the first place. That feeling you had with the woman at Rite Aid? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 01:50 PM
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Out of curiosity, do you consider yourself a conservative woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:53 AM
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Oh yeah I agree on that too. That’s not even a genuine request for pleasure. It’s some type of envy “let me catch up” type shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:22 AM
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Asked body count? I was actually asked over text last week. It’s invasive as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:17 AM
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I’m confused on why asking for a threesome would be a result of your s/o having more experience? I’ve been on the end of having more experience as a male partner with my first girlfriend and it’s the most miserable shit ever. That’s why I don’t ask nor care about body counts. It’s draining as fuck to be on the opposite end and on top of that, simply not my business. Edit: Just wanted to emphasize, its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:08 AM
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Oof, my professors have clerked for and argued in front of SCOTUS, sat as judges, prosecuted, defended etc. etc. to me that’s walking the walk so I guess I can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:19 AM
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If I’m telling you not to take a statement serious, why are you dead set on taking it serious? Also, no. Fuck no. If I go into a classroom to learn law, I’m going to want that teacher to walk the walk in terms of knowing the law. What the hell am I learning from someone who hasn’t walked the walk? I’m supposed to rely on his stories he’s heard from other people? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:01 AM
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This reads like a whole lot of assumption and anger. How do you know what women on here look like? Relax
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:55 AM
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Lol refer to messages above, it wasn’t a point, everything isn’t literal, stop being sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:31 AM
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Ohhhhhh brother. Give it a rest bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:17 PM
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And you’ve yet to laugh at one joke or meme, even back then, about the common joke of football coaches enforcing conditioning while being out of shape themselves to the point where you take a paraphrasing of that joke (even ending in a “lol”) so serious and off topic that you try to formulate an argument out of it for the sake of nothing... Sure you played Jan. Lighten up dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:00 PM
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If you’re not in tune with jokes from the player’s perspective, you simply wouldn’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:41 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:53 PM
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I don’t know man to me, coach talk seems like bad leadership. I haven’t gone through basic but I am a former collegiate athlete so very familiar with coach talk. Never worked as a great motivator to me personally, it’s like the football coach who forces everyone to run but doesn’t even hit cardio when(if) he works out lol. I guess I see it more sinisterly in a cult like way. Like a Jim Jones type preaching self control, yet sexually assaulting half the cult. (Not sure if Jim Jones engaged in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:43 PM
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Naive people get played, true. But isn’t their goal to not get played? They’re failing at step 1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:23 PM
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I personally believe the red pill teaches nothing self-loathing and paranoia to an extremely unhealthy degree. I mean there’s guys that subscribe to it writing reddit novels to calculate women’s body counts and determine whether they’re lying. Does any of that seem normal? It’s like an unhealthy obsession of placing blame on others-the women, other dudes, society, tinder-rooted in pseudoscience, pseudo-intelligence, and hypotheticals. What really gets me though, on here and from red pill YouTube…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:53 PM
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Nah because I honestly really don’t give a fuck lol the past is the past. And I definitely don’t believe the “youth and prime” bs. Only being 25 I’m not too far removed from my awkward teens, I would definitely date someone from back then if the attraction was mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:30 PM
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If I’m going on a first date, chances are I’m courting a woman for possible long term emotional connection. If I’m courting a woman for possible long term emotional connection, me paying isn’t even a question, of course I’m paying for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:22 PM
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Nowhere because they’re not meeting them. Just self-loathers with an idea of what the girls they don’t know personally are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:09 PM
2

Must be 2 realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 10:50 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:44 PM
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It’s really a sad asa life they live. I literally couldn’t imagine being so obsessed with the next person’s s sex life that I try to break it down to pseudoscience and see myself as intellectually superior when other redditors don’t engage in said pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:17 PM
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Man oh man lmaoo r/ihavesex 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:32 AM
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No bro. Literally nobody gives a shit that. Have fun obsessing with your pseudo-math
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:26 AM
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To be clear, this is coming from somebody who writes reddit novels focusing on women’s body counts? LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:19 AM
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Lmfao yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:59 AM
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No bro. Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:19 AM
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Oh brother what? A woman’s availability makes her less attractive? Seriously who gives a fuck about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:51 AM
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Validation for what? Why is it so hard to believe that humans just like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:37 AM
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Absolutely nothing to do with it. 1. You can literally read what a person likes like a book 2. Passionate/intimacy ≠ good sex in the same way that strangers ≠ bad sex 3. Dead fish sounds like a you problem no disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:27 AM
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Lmao wow you think women out here not choosing the guy that knows their body? Why do y’all create weird works of fiction that’s not rooted in personal experience? And if it is rooted in personal experience, maybe you need to self-evaluate on why you loss out to random ass hot dude off the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:21 AM
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You don’t think that has more to do with us (men) generally sucking at sex? There wouldn’t be any complaining if there wasn’t anything to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:08 AM
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The appeal efforts couldn’t be more clear. Every post on there reads like it’s written by a 14 year old boy saying “hey look at me I have sex” and folks on here eat it up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:02 AM
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Or maybe women just like sex as much as men and that’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:50 AM
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The red pill is stupid as fuck to begin with. You can’t pseudoscience your way into the “casual sex market” let alone a relationship or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:48 AM
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Honestly, who gives a fuck? Why are we trying to base the number of partners a woman’s had on relying on factors that are more than likely irrelevant, better yet why are we even worried about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:19 PM
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3 ways 1) I’m kind of a shy person that awkwardly avoids (what I think/used to think) awkward conversation but the past few years I’ve been working to be more communicative and open with partners about likes, dislikes etc. 2) Lurking. As I’m guilty of with this sub and others, rather it’s regarding dating or anything else, I’m always looking to work on self-improvement by example and applying change. But back when I first became sexually active I put in countless hours of google research on prov…
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