FullyLeveledKween Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Post wall woman FOMOs her way out of a relationship and into spinsterhood. This is the difference between adults and children. I’m in a happily committed relationship. Do I sometimes think, “Gee, wouldn’t it be more exciting if…” Sure, and then I immediately realize that it’s the adult equivalent of wishing you could have ice cream for breakfast every day.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/02/22 12:35 AM
41	If you’re seeing multiple guys and none of them invested the time to get you flowers, that fact should prove that you’re nothing but poll na síol salach! Apart from the fact that this is just pathetic, no self-respecting man is going to invest anything more than the bare minimum necessary for an occasional hook-up (while waiting for something better to come along) in someone with a “rotation” of men she’s thick enough to think she’s using when they’re in all likelihood using her. This notion of cultivating a gaggle of suitors who are going to try to outcompete each other is pure fantasy, and the fact that none of her “suitors” could be assed to g…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/02/22 02:24 AM
40	Rewaiting for marriage “When people change habits” is an interesting way of putting it. I would generally think of a change of habit as, say, switching from half & half to non-dairy creamer in my coffee rather than no longer being in the ‘habit’ of getting knocked up by a rando.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/02/22 08:12 PM
63	Quite the catch! She attracts felons and sex offenders, yet somehow she doesn't have custody of her kids. If you have to specify “no felons or sex offenders,” it’s probably time to reevaluate your life.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/02/22 03:27 AM
64	C'mon man! Where are all the good men to save this damsel from the dumpster fire that is her life? \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen So, five kids, with one on the way, by four different fathers. A package deal, and wonderful opportunity to insert oneself into some crazy parental hexagon!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/01/22 02:00 AM
30	Gravitationally exceptional mother is tired of your games. Queue up! And she’s what’s eating him, it would appear.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/01/22 04:25 AM
2	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. Go check out their “handbook,” which you are enjoined to follow as a member (and if you contradict it, you’ll be banned). Any man with any sort of mental health issue is “no value,” though it’s evidently fine for women.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/01/22 02:36 AM
3	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. You should take a look, because I think a lot of subs like this are reactions against that sort of thing.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/01/22 02:31 AM
7	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. By your own admission, you have a mental illness, and according to FDS principles, men with mental illnesses are “no value/low value.” Does it not cut both ways?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	08/01/22 02:25 AM
6	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. “Lowering their standards.” I just saw a post on an FDS site by a woman who lists a litany of mental illnesses and then asks whether she should “lower her standards” to find a man. Of course, all the commenters say no, but I’m sorry, what “standards” does a DSM manual on legs feel entitled to?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	07/01/22 01:49 AM
12	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. I had a revealing conversation several years ago with a woman who was trying to cheat, with me, on her boyfriend of six of so years. I knew her well enough to know that it was a good relationship and that he was planning to propose to her, so I asked her what she could be thinking. That was exactly the response, that while she loved him, it was the beginning of a relationship that’s fun and exciting, and then it gets “boring.” I asked her whether she realized that part of being an adult was lear…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/01/22 06:08 PM
28	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. It’s kind of like how having to take your road test 11 times before passing means that you must be a better driver.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/01/22 04:41 AM
90	"Dating has changed" - Some epiphanies in the comments. But somehow it's still all men's fault. Longtime lurker, first time poster, but having dated in my late 30s/early 40s in recent years, I think there are some obvious answers to this. I quickly learned that investing time, effort, and emotional energy in “romantic unique dates” and “sweet gestures” is for suckers these days. Tried that and found that most women these days are more interested in keeping their options open, rather than finding a committed relationship; and something that seems to be going quite well suddenly results in g…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/01/22 04:19 AM