FunEcho4739 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	My wife is a lawyer. A badass one. How to get a divorce without being killed? Agree to 50/50 split on everything including custody and use the state calculator to see who pays who support. Easy peezy.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/24 06:34 AM
-1	Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop it No it is not.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/23 05:55 AM
1	Resentment Don’t waste money on attorneys more than you must. You split all assets and debts incurred during the marriage. Alimony should be short lived because she has a career. Child support is calculated by a calculator. Fight for 50/50 custody and sell the home.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/23 05:31 AM
2	Governor Ron DeSantis really appears to love his son. Why did he veto default 50/50 equal shared parenting? I support 50/50 parenting time because I am a feminist. Absent one parent being hooked on hard core drugs or criminally violent- 50/50 benefits everyone. It's what feminists want during marriage so it should be what we want in divorce!	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 05:02 PM
1	Every step gets worse Women can’t be used up. If your woman got “used up” after being with you I can guarantee you did it wrong.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/23 12:09 AM
0	Everyone has experienced this type foulmouthed answers from a feminist when you talk about men's problem. Read 1984 by George Orwell. Men’s rights fighting women’s rights when what we all want is workers rights. The Bourgeoisie has you exactly where they want you my friend.	/r/MensRights	31/05/23 06:48 AM
0	Everyone has experienced this type foulmouthed answers from a feminist when you talk about men's problem. A lot of women who care about equal rights are mothers to sons. I would imagine they care about men too.	/r/MensRights	31/05/23 06:46 AM
-4	Everyone has experienced this type foulmouthed answers from a feminist when you talk about men's problem. Feminists are people who want equality for men and women. This other behavior isn’t feminism. And yes, the patriarchy does oppress men and plays a huge part of poorly paid, dangerous work, men being shamed into not expressing vulnerability or emotions, and many of the issues of men’s rights activists align with feminists. But capitalism and patriarchy would rather us not consider ourselves allies for obvious reasons.	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 09:04 PM
-2	First date ran me through Are We Dating The Same Guy. I'm conflicted. Before online dating women advised each other about men, it was just done face to face because you dated people you knew in your social circle. Try to have some empathy for the real dangers women can face with online dating and the need it creates to do "back ground checks."	/r/MensRights	29/05/23 05:19 AM
2	Every step gets worse Maybe but those things can fizzle our or make her realize what she had. Not exactly easy for single moms to find good men.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/23 11:22 PM
0	Every step gets worse Well you never know. Maybe if you can keep showing up, be a good dad, be kind, she will realize her mistake and come back?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/23 05:31 PM
1	Don’t worry fellas I never said that. I am just responding to this idea that when looking at a cohort of divorced single parents in their 40s- the men will be considered high value and all be players, picking and choosing which woman to have NSA sex with next and the women will all be considered “low value “ and red flags. It doesn’t really make sense and I am pointing out why that isn’t really logical, equitable, and is actually kind of misogynistic. I get being angry after a divorce. But saying all single moms i…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 07:48 PM
1	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. Nobody deserves to be slandered. But multiple women making accusations…that is suspicious. You have to admit that it is at least possible your husband did this and just didn’t tell you. Most women don’t believe their husbands are capable of being perverted but that doesn’t make all men married men innocent. If it was just one woman and he showed them the phone it wouldn’t be suspicious. But this is multiple women coming forward accusing your husband of doing something you know he enjoys doing - …	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 05:19 AM
0	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. Also, it doesn’t add up that lots of women have stories of your husband doing this to them. Him doing this in other counties doesn’t make him innocent. I again ask why you think it is more likely that a bunch of women with no axe to grind with your husband would all fabricate stories of this behavior and why that is easier for you to believe than your husband has a sexual compulsion to photograph women without their consent in a manner that makes them feel uncomfortable?	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 03:03 AM
1	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. “I am outraged because it is legal (taking pictures of women without their knowledge or consent) so it should be his legal right to do so” - yes, you can go around taking pictures of women and children in public. That is legal. So is a social shaming as a result.	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 03:00 AM
0	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. So the woman being photographed stated your husband was following her on Facebook. What do you think this woman’s motivation would be for making all this up? As well as all the other women coming forward corroborating similar behavior from your husband? Do you think that there aren’t men out there driven by sexual compulsions to photograph and stalk women or worse? Does it not concern you that he showed a lack of care of consent by showing other men photos of your body without your consent?	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 01:54 AM
-1	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. Ok so it sounds like you admit he photographs other women in public and are ok with it, so long as he is discreet/“more careful”? And also that he admitted to previously following this woman on social media before “running into her” at a store and “taking pictures of products”?	/r/MensRights	27/04/23 01:44 AM
3	There's a Facebook post with a headshot of my husband and a statement that he was photographing and stalking a woman in a store and that he "admitted" (not true) to it. The post has been shared close to seven hundred times and someone managed to get at least his full name and where we live. You really are a ride or die.	/r/MensRights	26/04/23 11:31 PM
0	Don’t worry fellas Yep. This is why women need to not have casual sex.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 07:36 PM
1	Don’t worry fellas I mean, I am a successful, professional, independent woman. I use my intuition combined with facts and logic to keep people alive in my day job. So probably not going to get too far with a woman like me trying to get me to think I don’t understand the value of reason+logic+emotion. I would definitely aim low- look for a woman with a lot less education and earning ability than you so she can look up to you when you define what truth is for her and ask her to submit. Women like me want a man we ca…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 07:35 PM
2	Don’t worry fellas 😂😂😂 that cracked me up	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 07:17 PM
2	Don’t worry fellas I mean yeah- that is what is insulting and what I am reacting to- the poster basically seems to be saying “all single moms are whores who chose to leave a good man so could be pumped and dumped.” No- we didn’t all leave. And we aren’t all naive enough to not be able to tell the difference between someone who actually wants to get to know us vs someone who wants to use us. I think the women who either enjoy that treatment or simply are too sweet and naive to see it for what it is- have a good cha…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 04:44 PM
2	Don’t worry fellas That is really unfair. A lot of us didn’t leave. In my case my ex had a change in his sexual preferences- not something I had any control over. Don’t paint everyone with the same brush. You miss out on getting to know a lot of nice people that way.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 04:43 PM
4	Don’t worry fellas I feel ya. I have no interest in other people’s kids and have 50/50 so I don’t feel the need to mix my dating life with my kid time. But also don’t see myself as a red flag and would never let someone use me as a 10pm booty call. Lots of women do though. Sad but true. Some of them are my friends are say things like “Do you think he likes me!?!! When will he text me back?!?” I am always like “seriously? How did you make it to this age and not know when you are being just used for sex Jennifer????…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 07:46 AM
-2	Don’t worry fellas Ummmm….ok? I guess if banging as many single moms who are stupid enough to let themselves be used like that is fun for you then carry on. My bad. To me that sounds like an expensive and exhausting way to catch an STD with the kind of icky woman who lets herself be used like that. Also sort of a ticket to a lot of bad sex with people you don’t know well enough to really have fun with. But I am not a man so I probably don’t truly understand the endless joys of one night stands with single moms in …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 06:42 AM
-7	Don’t worry fellas Ok but then what are divorced dads? And who will you settle down with? 1) a younger child less woman who has to settle for raising someone else’s kids with an older man because no man her age wants her? Because she has serious personality issues? No? How about 2) A childless woman your age that nobody ever wanted to marry or have kids with because she has serious personality issues? Here is the logic- Both divorced men and women in their 40s with kids are RED FLAGS with expensive baggage to anyo…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 06:35 AM
-9	Don’t worry fellas Meh. It is fun to lurk here. I don’t normally comment. It isn’t news to me that lots of men see women as nothing more than a pump and dump. But all women at all ages have to deal with those men. It is just the stupid women who can’t weed out the men who only want you for sex from the men who actually are interested in you. Lucky for you dudes that want that- there are a LOT of stupid women out there, lol. But often times those women end up at 40 having never gotten married or had kids because th…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 06:25 AM
-21	Don’t worry fellas Ok so 1) I hope you win and move on and 2) this is pretty misogynistic. Not all single moms are going to get pumped and dumped. Some dumb ones will. Some dumb young child less women will. Some women only want men who are out of their league and will be pumped and dumped. But if you are willing to accept attention from men who are at your level (actually I prefer men less desirable than me because I like to be treated well and valued) then she can remarry. But you don’t need to put down all divor…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/23 06:19 AM
3	Men are oppressed We are all oppressed by the oligarchs who have us do their bidding- albeit in different ways, some more deadly for men others more deadly for women.	/r/MensRights	25/04/23 01:51 AM
1	CA - Disomaster Actually I understand well the bias in the courts, look up the Meier study and take it as encouragement to fight for 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 06:49 PM
2	CA - Disomaster Glad you fought for 50:50. At least the alimony is temporary.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 07:17 AM
2	CA - Disomaster The laws don’t care what gender you are. And there is no law saying men always earn more than women. It is about who earns more , not gender.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 07:01 AM
2	CA - Disomaster If it makes you feel better women get screwed too. Can you go for 50/50 custody and reduce child support?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/23 06:59 AM
1	Women using mens restrooms. Hahaha. I am going to start doing this now. If men had to wait in line like women do more bathrooms would be getting built! Just kidding.	/r/MensRights	23/03/23 01:18 AM
-1	1 year post divorce. I am in a place I feel I can move on, she wants to reconcile. Give it another try with counseling in place. If it doesn’t work you didn’t really lose anything. Happy marriage to your kids biomom is a lot easier than shared custody + step parents + step kids + financial struggles + screwed up bio kids. (Speaking as someone divorced for 4 years and now engaged.)	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/23 02:23 AM
-2	Democrats Are Freaking Out Because A "Woman's Right To Choose" Is In Jeopardy... You do realize that women have to pay child support as well? Career women lose custody all the time for working too mucj to the stay at homedad or part time working dad.	/r/MensRights	05/07/22 06:30 PM