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I’m offended if a woman suggests coffee or to meet for lunch, it’s clear she doesn’t see me as up to her standards. Often it’s a woman who dates so much she’s meeting men all the time. I met a woman that was a successful entrepreneur, multi million home, hot blonde, mid 30s. She said she met a guy for lunch, a guy for happy hour, but saved me for last for getting drinks at night because she saw me as the best option. (Women using dating apps to go on multiple dates in a day is not that uncommon)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:00 PM
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When a woman is financially set on her own and is not hypergamous and has a desire to help support a pretty boy that’s popular with ladies, or they want him for reproduction and husband, they will. While this happens, this is not a normal woman. For men it’s more common to focus on beauty alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:30 PM
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Men are just more likely to exchange lower socioeconomic status for looks, women are less interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:24 PM
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You can possess status without money and that turns women on. Natural leaders, preachers, entrepreneurs, popular in cool social circles. Women want to go for men at the top of hierarchies and that’s doesn’t have to equate to money. This sub is ridiculous sometimes in its tenacity to argue against the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:03 PM
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Yes then women that make that money often flat out refuse men who don’t make a similar amount, go look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:21 PM
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Most modern farmers are pretty rich. They created a dating app called farmers only that exploited this fact. Women want looks and status like men desire looks, signs of youth and fertility, and personality. It’s all a combo. There’s always an exception, but that’s the general guidelines for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:20 PM
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It’s an incredible correlation because the women can, if you’re a really hot chick with a good personality and career. You’re not just doing loser chads almost always, that’s too easy. High value very attractive women are also looking for more substance than just looks, they’ll want looks too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:56 PM
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Some women are more hypergamous than others. I’ve never met a very beautiful woman who only wants chads or funny guys. The women at the top of the attraction hierarchy want men with looks and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:46 PM
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All women desire security, a good lifestyle, and expendable income for fun activities. A guy higher on the male social hierarchy, leaders who utilize intelligence. If they know a guy has that it turns them on much more. You cannot separate status from looks with women. If he’s very attractive they will make an exception if he has no status, but women would desire him less for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:40 PM
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Women are attracted to looks and status. If you tell a woman to rate a guy 1-10 and say he’s a factory worker or a defense lawyer the women will rate the lawyer higher in looks. You can’t tear away women’s desire for looks and status it’s tied to the hip. Same with looks and personality for guys, she will actually look less attractive if you find her annoying. If he’s a man of status she’s going to think he’s better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:32 PM
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It’s one of the most obvious signs women give for physical attraction. You should research “choosing signals in women” they do a lot of behaviors subconsciously to men they feel attraction towards. Pick up artists look for these cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:30 PM
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You have the weirdest technicality argument here, fine. Women never see hot guys and want to kiss them got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:50 PM
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Omg people will say anything as a retort, yes it does. Maybe not right then and there, but it implies instant attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:32 PM
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Don’t pine for her, don’t earn her affection, check to see if she wants you first, then do it. I don’t know why that’s lame it’s a good idea if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:50 AM
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I enjoy that feeling of looking in a girls eyes for the first time, she locks for a millisecond, smirks and turns her head away. If I can’t have that I don’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:39 AM
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What % are attractive in your post description, an estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:12 AM
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I get you. What % of single guys under 40 do you think can easily make out with 5 decent women a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:55 AM
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Cool we’re just not going to be in a relationship. I can’t deal with someone that didn’t find ourselves mutually attracted at first sight. If she figures it out a few months later, that’s not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:07 AM
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Reading this only confirms my belief I can’t be in a relationship with a woman that didn’t desire to kiss me the moment she met me. Physical attraction first is so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:59 AM
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If a guy in his 30s only dated 19 yr old unemployed women, what would you think of him? Perception is reality whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:24 PM
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If you’re just here to say there is no rules and you can be with a fat smelly broke woman and that high value man just enjoys her personality, then whatever. What possible argument can you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:17 PM
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Then what should a high value man go for in a partner. What qualities should she possess? You just said nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:01 PM
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Sought after by multiple women who make a similar amount of money as him, or are very attractive and can support themselves. Can’t just be “women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:31 PM
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6ft+ good frame hot guys and successful handsome men rule dating apps. I strongly believe they get all the pretty girls on those apps. I’ve known 5 other guys and myself that slept with so many cute chicks on apps so easy and they were one of those 2 types of guys. On the flip side and I’m not sure how this is possible, but I’ve never met an average guy talk about all the average women he’s hooking up with on dating apps. The scale for guys slides off so fast I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:07 PM
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Many women won’t go on a date with a smoking hot guy that has a low value job title and doesn’t express any social status. It’s more than looks, but yea bios and prompts are trash, no one flipping through reads them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:30 PM
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Imagine marrying a woman for her looks and she does absolutely nothing with her life. She isn’t even valuable to you. High value man wouldn’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:25 PM
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Rich handsome guy could marry a below average fat woman with a decent job and guys will think something is wrong with him, so will most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:00 PM
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I know a girl said no to a date to a rich man, I said I know that guy he has a 5 million amazing home, he’s not bad. She said his former wife was a mail order bride and made the gag face. Women judge men for everything, what rock have you been living under.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:46 PM
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I just did, that’s one of the components. Demanding a woman that is his partner to have value. Relationships shouldn’t be one way, if he doesn’t have expectations for her, he’s not high value himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:22 PM
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I don’t, I just say he can’t marry a loser woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:20 PM
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I said I’m not the arbiter, I just merely came up with 2 conditions based on his choice of partner. If you just marry a loser woman who uses you and doesn’t provide barely any tangible value, you expect nothing from her. People won’t perceive you as high value. Let’s say he’s handsome and rich, then you get a pretty mail order bride, barely speaks English, doesn’t work, just lays around the house. People will believe he’s low value and women will cringe at who he chose for a partner, you’ll thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:18 PM
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If a man marries a woman that doesn’t have a job or quits her job, and won’t even be a tradwife, he’s not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:14 PM
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I’m saying he’s not high value then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:33 PM
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I’m not sure what this is all about but many aren’t even aware there are growers. Seinfeld episode was about shrinkage in the pool, guys have been cancelled out for being a romantic option because he got out of a pool and it looked small through his shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:21 PM
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Maybe I made them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:49 AM
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Broke into my house repeatedly, kept showing up at my work. Harassed every girl that followed my insta. Called my exwife and made up a bunch of stuff. One I caught cheating on me and broke up, but kept saying she didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:38 AM
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They won’t leave me when I break up, I’ve had to file 2 restraining orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:01 AM
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She wants you for years, what’s one sided. Good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:56 AM
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Date a girl for at least 3 years before you marry. If she still gives you amazing bjs and sex whenever you want and doesn’t ask for anything. Then you’re set, she wants you and it’s long term certified as best as you’re going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:39 AM
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Inertia is a powerful force. The guy probably never put real thought into what he wanted, never got women casually. No guy wants their looksmatch who wants quit their job so they can leech off you, all the compatibility in the world won’t help. I’m sure she loves it, she’ll prob divorce him, better than 50/50 shot under these circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:11 PM
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There are women that get lucky, had a good job before, and finds this amazing guy and then is a part time yoga teacher that holds it together and is a decent wife, it happens. When you post something to this level you have to give a taste of what these relationships look like, or if it’s real. I need some proof or an idea of what we’re looking at here. Otherwise it’s fake gaslighting that average chicks land dream guys I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:56 AM
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The rich husband wants out of his marriage with his boring average wife who uses him so bad when talks to the coworker banging all the hotties. It hurts him to his soul. Women’s perspectives are hilarious, this post cracks me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 AM
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If you can afford your own life then adding a kid doesn’t come with much additional cost. It can for awhile with daycare if you have to use it. I’ve had 2 kids, one is a teenager now. Except the dentist twice now in 14 years of being a parent, I’ve never said omg these kids are so expensive. I find this sub so interesting because you can have kids and not allowed an opinion, you could have a wife, bunch of girlfriends, and tons of dates still not allowed to have an opinion on that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:25 PM
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Poorer income brackets have larger families and higher fertility rates. If a woman is college educated she is far less likely to have children or only have one. There’s all sorts of factors why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:10 PM
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Varies a lot and if it’s 5 days full time, could be free if you’ve got a partner. Could be $3k/mo. Could be $600.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:00 PM
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I still hookup on 70% of my first dates. You just go for the kiss at some point and ask her over. Guys be talking crazy sexual to a woman he’s never met before, I’d be like if you really want her just ask her out, she either wants you or not. You’re probably more likely to turn her off turning the conversation sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:22 PM
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To me she showed up, so she’s likely down for some affection. If I dove into sex talk I feel like I’d be risking my chance of her not wanting me, because that’s how I view her as mainly just someone for sex. Better to keep that a mystery to her and make a move at an appropriate time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:19 PM
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If you don’t have a place to call your own and you’re living with random people that’s a tough life. You bring kids into that it’s more complicated. If you want to start the argument that you have your own place then that’s a debate. Saying “what about people that have to live in a weird commune or don’t have any place to live?” It’s like umm, well you can’t even barely survive on your own of course adding kids is going to be an issue. I’m not sure what you’re trying to debate at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:55 PM
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All most guys are going to care about is she has her own source of income so you’re not stuck paying for everything. Then guys just go for the most beautiful woman they can get that he enjoys being with. People just meet through similar socioeconomic conditions, but guys will marry a retail worker if she’s hot. They’d much rather do that than get with some average looking girl that makes the same money as him. Guys place extremely high value on beauty for a relationship. Women want their income …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:24 PM
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There isn’t a suitable replacement for real affection. If you got your own place and can feed someone, you can have a girlfriend nearly guaranteed, most of the time you don’t even need to do that. Girlfriends are way better than escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:10 PM
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What does the cost of rent in a particular area have to do with anything about kids. You might need to pay a little more to get them their own room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:06 PM
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You need your own place or your homeless yourself, not sure that has much at all to do with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:50 PM
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This is more about how expensive life is. Once you got your own place, it’s daycare maybe and an extra portion of food, extra couple hundred for health insurance. Toys and clothes, not that expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:46 PM
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All American women want a high salary guy, they all arent going to get one. You can make a high salary then she can be disappointed you’re not attractive enough, you can’t win with women. How is it poor people can just crank out kids, and couples that make $200k/yr find it so expensive. Kids are not that expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:59 AM
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Right, it’s all fun and games, until they find a guy that really wants to be with them for real. If they too young or think they can do better they run from him. When they do have to date for real, it’s a different measured approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:45 PM
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After 14 hrs in a holding room and after 50 repeated attempts to ask for a lawyer and denied, I told my story in exchange for my phone. To show them I wasn’t in the room, I was almost certain it was on my phone and they were actively breaking into it, so I needed to get it back before they deleted anything, which I’m damn sure the cops would’ve. I felt like I had to because I was going to be charged before allowing to speak to a lawyer which can ruin your life halfway anyway. This was many years…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:43 PM
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Real women work that way up unto a point. If a guy is handsome and has a good career and asks for a real date he prob gets that date, because why not. Women may be aware he prob has lots of options and may not get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:34 PM
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It becomes impossible to talk in general terms because most women don’t date around a bunch. Most women have awareness they could get with a much more attractive and desirable man in a casual relationship as opposed to a real one. To not understand this and have it be argued is a mind boggling concept to me. If a woman is of above average looks she can effectively get with whoever she wants if she makes herself available enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:30 PM
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Dating around women have to make a conscious decision at some point to pick the guys that will have her for a real exclusive relationship. It generally a very humbling experience that causes some depression. If I had to go from casual relationships with 9/10 women to go settle for 6/10 it would be upsetting too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:43 PM
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Unless someone makes a Pokémon Go augmented reality dating app or something, even that there’s really no way to do this again. Social media and dating apps connecting everyone over the course of 5 years can’t happen again. At that time you could believe your rich handsome soulmate was just waiting for you to match, and they were for temporary entertainment with each other. The interesting thing that happened is women’s standards were lower back then, now to meet a guy online you better be really…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:45 PM
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The problem with your statement is that average men wouldn’t mind casually dating average women. I would say that holds water for below average women. Basically all women won’t agree to a casual relationship with a guy they don’t know, unless he has clear desirable appeal. Whatever the threshold for a date is for women, it’s at least 3 times bigger pool for men. Men will date down far if she makes herself available enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:28 PM
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It’s declining because since 2015 women who were pretty and hypergamous had to finally own up they’re not going to all somehow end up with rich handsome men. Then in the meantime they’ve already been through the hot guys that will have them. You can’t tell a woman the odds were really against them because being single handsome with money is not normal as beauty, though it occasionally does work out, for most it won’t. I was there during the dating app boom of 2015-2017, women really got into it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:23 PM
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They’ve tried to wipe that data off the internet, OKCupid data causes a storm spread by the incel community and then they took down the blog. Any dating app data you get now is iffy at best. Most of the activity going on dating apps is the top 10% guys passing around the girls. I finally got a good profile and instagram, then got a couple friends on it with me. Sharing profiles and dates. Women don’t fully want to realize they all are going after a much smaller pool of guys, it’s gross, I now ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:32 PM
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The person that googles to find accurate stats as an argument for a topic on PPD as proof, is one of the most gullible people you’ve ever known. Do you realize how much money isn’t put into gender dynamics studies? Why would there be? The most quoted online gender stat is one guy writing a blog that had access to some OkCupid data 15 years ago me and wrote his own opinion on it for a book. Full fledged studies are not funded because there’s no money in it. Stats are also made to tell the story y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:27 PM
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If you get filed any charges against you, the cops will lie if they think it was a 51% chance you did it. They only care about the conviction. You’re really toast at that point and need to pull a rabbit out of a hat to get out of it. I almost got a murder charge, if I didn’t pull out the secret camera in my house that caught the whole thing I was done, cops were just making things up and denying clear evidence just to try and prove I did it. I had 4 detectives calling me a murderer to my face, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:20 PM
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Imagine being able to get the attention of affection of hot men. Then also get dates with men who live in mini mansions that drive luxury cars, if you land him as a boyfriend you are catapulted into a new social strata instantly. Women will happily get in situationships with these men for their shot. They know they probably won’t land him, but if they keep trying they think one will work out. Guys don’t get these opportunities, above average women have them in spades. Women take near every oppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:33 PM
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Women are just as bad as men, you’ll have to get over that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:27 PM
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You have no examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:33 PM
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Lies. Imagine saying I only date white women, they have tighter vaginas, they just look better and more feminine. Now flip it for a girl talking about only dating black men, they are larger, more masculine, black men are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:20 PM
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Go into your work and say I only date black men, all others are ugly. Then have a guy say, I only date white women, all other women who aren’t white are ugly. Try it out, women have privilege to say whatever they want about men, even if it’s racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:51 PM
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I don’t date Asian and Indian girls, 98% of them aren’t attractive to me. I can’t proclaim my racial exclusions publicly like women can though. If an asian or Indian woman at work heard me say that, I’d get fired. Women can say I only date black men, all others just aren’t man enough for me, no one will say a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:46 PM
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He’s Trump, and women would let you touch their pussy if you were rich and famous, he didn’t say he did it, he just says you can. Go into your work and say guys just let you touch their penis. Then have a guy at work say, women just let you grab their pussies and see which one of you ends up in hr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:44 PM
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It’s worse than racism, people call out racism. Go say some racist stuff and post it, your job will immediately fire you. Now go say at work and say any misogyny like all women are dumb and annoying and are only good for breeding, oops fired again. Any woman can walk around anywhere and say men are disgusting creepy rapists and I wish most were dead, nothing will happen. Also, women can say I only want or willing to date a specific color of guy, and she thinks this background are unattractive li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:23 PM
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If you had to shell out millions and go bankrupt twice paying $15,000 a month alimony and only get to see your children half the time you might think it really sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:38 AM
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So if you’re an average guy and you don’t have kids together then divorce is not that big of deal, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:15 AM
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You only get to see your little kids half the time now, if you’re lucky. Divorce is terrible, biggest L take, oh divorce isn’t bad, yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:26 AM
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You must have not had to give millions, your house, and have big alimony checks every month for the next 12 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:21 AM
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That body type won’t fly, if he had no gut it’d be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:03 PM
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If you’re big and not that flabby it passes. Being big better than medium and muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:59 PM
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2/3 looks then 1/3 status on average. You can boost yourself 2 points in looks in a woman’s eyes with decent status. The top 5% of guys in looks can easily get with the near entire population of women. Women are a huge sucker for a cute/handsome/hot face and above average size frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:38 PM
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Just having cute or handsome face is enough. Doesn’t need to be chiseled with hunter eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:15 PM
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You don’t need to be hot or have a good body to pull women easily, it’s mostly your face being appealing to look at and frame. Also, I saw a post on here with a guy complaining about having a micropenis, that would suck so bad, most women are gone once they find out. I’m a grower, one of my future girlfriends saw mine before it was hard, I had to send a dick pic she was never going to talk to me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:19 PM
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For half of guys if they are really interested I’ll buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:24 AM
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The sexual marketplace is crushed by men who want to have sex filled weekends and dates a lot are usually good looking is the problem. Sometimes they got money but they don’t have that general desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:41 PM
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You want to succeed in sexual marketplace you need a sales pitch on Instagram, Dating Apps, or places to go to hit on women. If you are the type of guy women “check out” as you walk by like above average handsome and you can talk to girls and know when to be sexually forward with them. Then you can have endless women to choose from. If you can’t do these things it’s going to be hard to succeed in sexual marketplace, because most of the time you need to start with that you’re good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:17 PM
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I feel emotional romantic intimacy is a need. You can just get yourself off if it’s driving you crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:12 AM
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It sucks to not get near free bjs though. It sucks to have your bed lonely. It sucks to not have a woman who loves you. It sucks to not have a potential family. There’s a whole list more, just better to have a girl in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:30 AM
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People won’t admit to being shallow. What do you want women to say? I’m turned on by lots of money, big dicks, tall, this skin color, muscular build, full hair. That man could have a line of women out his house waiting to fuck him for their chance to be his woman, goes without saying. To hear what women non shallow want or would lie about is actually more interesting. We know the shallow reasons are the main reasons already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:52 AM
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Sometimes that’s all a guy has to try is to be nice as he can. Sexually attractive men aren’t just pretty widely seen as that. If they’re halfway charming they slay. Average nice guy doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:25 AM
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Asphyxiation? Anything? If all you do is basic positions and have no kinks that’s pretty boring, expand your horizons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:28 AM
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Lot of people involve anal into pleasure, my current gf enjoys anal and sometimes a butt plug. There’s a whole big section for anal in sex shops.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:03 AM
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I feel sorry for the men who loved you. A lady in the streets and a prude in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:47 AM
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So eating ass is out of the question too? Because I had a girlfriend that didn’t want to swallow cum but she enjoyed eating my ass so that canceled it out. People in general are just kinda down for whatever, if they want you they usually don’t have sexual hang ups to what each other wants. If she does, it often means she doesn’t really want you that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:09 AM
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It’s the most popular foreplay to give each other oral, that and kissing. Women like doing it, like guys enjoy eating out. For some women, they love to do it. It’s only very mildly degrading. To me, if your girl isn’t fairly excited to swallow your cum she prob would be for another guy and you should dump her. Plus, where have you been everyone past bjs, the new thing is you don’t truly want someone unless you eat their ass. Girls and guys eat each others asses more than ever now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:38 PM
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When I was in a relationship with a couple 6/10 women, it was just a give in to me if she had a chance with a Chad she’s going to do it. One had that chance and did it, and maybe you should consider turning the blind eye if it’s only once. People are human, women want that hot guy as much as you want that hot girl. When I was in a relationship with 8/10 more noticeable attractive women I wouldn’t expect them to do it, because they already had Chads and all guys want to have sex with them. I stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:18 PM
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That happens as well, I told my wife that I met at 20 that the dating market isn’t what your friends who are also divorcing is what it cracks up to be. The fomo and her friends influence was too much and I got served despite my request for her not to. If I met her at 24 like I was at the time, prob would’ve not worked out like that. She wanted to have a full life with a hoe phase like her friends, so just break up the family and our little kids for a year of fun that you missed out on in your 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:35 PM
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If I didn’t see obvious and consistent negative mental effects from women from continuing to date around for lust and dreams for years then I would agree. Also, it hits a point with men as well that you can greatly diminish your ability to pair bond by having too many short term relationships, just like some hypergamous women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:29 PM
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Yes of course I’m saying that men can’t, but 7/10 women can land dates with 9/10 men. You wouldn’t be able to tell that 7 guy to stop trying with those hot women that want him temporarily, flip genders and that’s what is happening. These 7/10 women are going to look themselves in the mirror, say they’re a 9, then go on that date with that handsome tall doctor. She just wants him and is going to keep spinning the wheel until she can’t, or falls for a guy that’s in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:02 PM
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Not everyone is going to get a top 20% woman who has the option to chase hypergamy whenever she wants simply by opening an app. Also, not all of them do that, just most. I would venture to guess most women are going to struggle to chase hypergamy that has any real impact to her life, so they just trying to get someone on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:37 PM
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Can you freaking read or did you just see the word 17 yrs old and start talking about having sex with children for zero reason whatsoever? Good grief, you’re the weirdo. He’s discussing that a 19 yr old guy dating a 17 yr old is wrong due to the social construct of high school, he’s not diving into justifying being a pedo give me a break, you’re just karma chasing overreacting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:29 PM
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If you’re a 7 guy and you can easily get with 9+/10 sexy women, how are you going to tell that guy to stop? He has to either learn his lesson or no longer have the ability. It’s the same issue with women, they can just do it and men can’t, but all they are doing is satisfying that man’s need for sexual variety. Above average women are bottom line oriented with men, you have to satisfy some desire she has in her life. That could be looks, social, lifestyle, or having a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:14 PM
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With hypergamy in women, we’re tending more focus on the top 20% of single women we all want, that are cycle dating the top 5% of men. Most women are not equipped with enough enticing beauty to strategize hypergamy, but we’re noticing the women that are. Then we gave beautiful women social media and dating apps where they can advertise and garner so much attention. So they want to cash it in for a top man that can just run through as many as those types of girls as he wants because he satisfies …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:03 PM
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They don’t change they just have different rules per guy they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:24 PM
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Dating largely doesn’t work because dating women are fucking guys out of their league for dreams and lust, while single men who can’t date effectively think a top 10% looking woman is still mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:02 PM
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That’s what people hate about redpill. Bluepill normies want women to walk all over you like they did in their relationships. Women want you to put up with them and not have standards. Everyone is against you except other Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:14 PM
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It’s the prevailing attitude of women to end something simply because you want to, not feeling it anymore, don’t want this one man for the rest of your life. I listen to divorced women talk on the reasons. More than half the time the guy did nothing. The problem with this is, it’s the woman’s own lack of effort giving her these thoughts. Women don’t see marriage as a commitment but a benefit whether she stays together or not. Women just won’t be that into her husband as much for 6 months or year…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:31 PM
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You should probably get with at least a few people before you pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:18 PM
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There’s another side to the virtue signaling online that is intentional gaslighting that also gets upvotes from simps and other women. Say a short guy online is lamenting his problems with women because he’s 5’5”. There’s always some women in the comments saying, “I know lots of short guys with girlfriends, I’ve dated a short guy, have you ever considered it’s actually your negativity is turning women off?” Then somehow she gets upvotes for bullying a short man we all know has a huge disadvantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:05 PM
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It’s all just laughable to men what women will write in comments to virtue signal about the male traits, they say I’m attracted to kind and attentive men, with high emotional iq. Which of course, that’s nice. In terms of friends I’ve had that are girls, you ask them what they like in men they say: tall, juicy pecs, big arms, wide shoulders, thick dark hair, big dick, light eyes, fun, money to have a good time, nice place, adores me, and completely ravages me in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:00 PM
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That’s like in 10 years or now, in a 100 years we prob have full outward flesh androids that you can’t tell from real thing. They are constantly portrayed in science fiction movies, it’ll get there eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:37 AM
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Some women are masculine and don’t have a baby doll look, that’s prob 30% of women that struggle with getting dates. Also, if you have bad or old skin you’re going to struggle with men. For the 70% of other women that are acceptable looking, they can get a slutty Chad with no standards to act semi interested enough to get laid and prob not much else. If women want a rich handsome guy, beauty is significantly more prevalent than status, women have to get in line for him. It’s not really a benefit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:13 PM
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You’re so virtuous you won’t do a super hot guy android that you can’t even tell the difference between him and a human, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:25 PM
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If they can figure out how to get you to doomscroll on your phone for 4 hrs straight, in 100 years they will figure out how to get women to want to fuck a hyper realistic gorgeous robot instead of your vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:19 PM
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You know some how, some way most every guy finds a wife who wants one right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:13 PM
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If you got most all the guys busy with their ai girlfriends, a guy that looks and feels exactly like Thor showing up at your door to rock your world is going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:11 PM
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Women will absolutely use a hyper realistic ai man for a fuck buddy, he’s like a full life gorgeous charming vibrator that she can touch. Jude Law was a sex android for women in movie ai, seems plausible for sure. I think men will go one big step further and fall in love with his ai girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:02 PM
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AI partners will never work for women because they like guys status and what he does for her along with looks. If the ai girlfriend can pretend to love him, and hold great conversations. Shes passes decades of tweaks that she seems real when you take her out with friends too. Men are just going to abandon women. Women will flip their demanding attitudes around and will accept average guys. Some women are going to end up being paid surrogates for ai wife families. If you can make the ai girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:38 PM
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Thanks. I’m praying for humanity as a whole and the earth not being destroyed. One man is going to ruin everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:31 PM
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We’re under complete government tyranny now, I’m scared every moment of my life. I think it’s only a matter of time before millions of people and maybe myself are in the concentration camps you speak of. Of course I talk to my therapist about it. You said he’s Hitler, I’m saying he’s worse than Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:47 PM
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I have trump derangement syndrome, everything he says and does triggers me. Actually I lied, I don’t care about Trump, if things get bad for whatever reason and he’s as bad as people say I got a passport. He was president for 4 years already, seemed okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:32 PM
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He’s prob way worse than Hitler if you think about it. Instead of being happy with my family and everything I have. I just cry myself to sleep every night with my tds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:29 PM
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People don’t like Trump because he’s a blowhard and he actually does a few things while in office. Those people were more happy with a mental corpse and a drunk rambling woman that had no agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:15 PM
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Those women prob aren’t getting the suburban housewife dream either. Women that get it, often invested in the guy when they were younger and they didn’t have much. Fell in love, got married, and built a life together. Now women are impatient and want a shortcut. We live in a microwave society of quick dopamine impulses, if things don’t progress quickly people get bored. Women that are demanding too much from men end up in their late 30s obsessed with their dog or got 3 cats to numb the pain of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:54 PM
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I’m not sure most men want to date they just want a girlfriend. Half the guys got the chops to be good at dating. If you figure out your own marketing, you got to learn how you engage with women and physically escalate at right time and match energy, or it’s going to be even more rejection. Your post isn’t bad, but to assume just do those things and it’ll work, there’s a whole lot more effort and mentality that goes into just getting dates, this concept is at a loss for women. They might underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:49 PM
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I’ve known lots of men in my life, prob 10% are good at dating and 90% aren’t. You know what trait myself and nearly all these men had to get over the hump is? Machiavellinism. This is why women hate dating, because you have to figure out how to be a manipulative asshole with a sales pitch dream to get a bunch of women all over you. Women date for dreams, they can have just any average guy whenever. Guys don’t get this, women say be yourself. Don’t do that, be whatever she wants you to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:42 PM
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Women got their own problems for sure, but unless they are completely hideous, dating is not one of them. Also, women would never comprehend how much rejection you have to go through to get one girl, even the good looking guys. When a woman visually sees how much even very handsome guys get rejected they get turned off by him, because they can’t comprehend it. Guys get turned down all the time for being too handsome and not her type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:28 PM
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Unless you’re very attractive, you would be crying lonely in a corner if you were suddenly a guy and wanted to have dates. You would never do everything it takes to get consistent dates from women. You’re so blinded by your own p pass, you have no idea what hoops even the most charismatic and charming players go through to get women consistently. For men it’s be attractive, don’t be unattractive. Which for every man is going to be their own journey. There’s very few born chads. Many guys who hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:02 PM
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We asked women to become part of the man’s world and they largely complied, so they are required to fend for themselves and exist in capitalist society. The whole world is fem focused, most products, houses are built for women specifications, all the algorithms are designed to keep women at the focus so they stay on the apps. Women have shown quick social adaptability to a rapid changing world. Now we got a bunch of simps telling them all they are all greatest thing since sliced bread and you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:51 PM
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I would go further and say women are men and men are now women. The most important thing guys need to realize is stop caring about women in general, stop kissing their ass, stop placating them, stop simping, stop giving them validation. Women want attention, stop giving it to them unless they benefit you. Women don’t care about 95% of men, they don’t even see you. They don’t think about you. Stop giving any care about women that isn’t personally beneficial to you and you don’t need to think abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:25 PM
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You need a guy roommate that’s your friend. Living alone waiting to hang with friends a couple days a week is not for most guys. There is no full solution, eventually you need a girlfriend. You need a girl who really loves you and will stand in your corner, most all guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:53 PM
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Simps need their head examined and a real father figure to call them an idiot, it’s sad. Women do roll the dice, at least they get affection. Perhaps a free meal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:22 PM
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If she got a cute face and looks attractive in a swimsuit, she got nearly the whole stack of single men on the planet happily willing to take her on a date. If he’s a 9+/10 man in looks or combination of qualities, there isn’t enough 9+ women easily available for short term relationships to feed his ego and lust. So he seeks short term with 7+/10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:20 PM
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Dumb simps that it never works out for and can’t even get a reply by women is not an argument. Sure they try, it’s of no cost to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:12 PM
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You can’t bring famous people into an argument to make an argument about regular people. Fat ugly Henry Kissinger landed hot models all the time. If he wasn’t a powerful political figure in the limelight he’d be with an ugly broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:09 PM
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A 4 guy can easily land a 2. A 6 guy can easily land a 4. A 10 guy can easily land an 8. Sometimes they still pair up. The attraction via proximity scenario isn’t saying men can get women out of his league, he prob won’t. He can though if in the same league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:04 PM
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A man is getting real lucky if he can land a short term relationship with a woman 2 points out of his league. For a woman, getting a man 2 points out of her league on a date is as easy as pie. 3 points is a stretch, that’s when she’s lacking respect from the man. At some point most women will consciously discipline themselves with men to get a real relationship, until then women are trying to land the best thing they can get their hands on. We act like women don’t have impulses and want the best…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:54 PM
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Forced proximity of work and social circles. Guys can get girls with some persistence and personality, but it requires repeated exposure to the woman. Not all above average overall guys can spark instant attraction in above average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:49 PM
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The 7/10 girl can easily get the dates from the 9+/10 guys who also are advertising themselves on insta and dating apps. This obviously happens in real life too. She gives the man out of her league super obvious choosing signals, and he targets her for a short term relationship. The majority of dating is that scenario, it ends for the above average woman that finally gives the chance to the guy that doesn’t have tons of dating options, or they fall for each other due to proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:40 PM
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It’s a strange concept that women are not going to respond positively to very attractive men or handsome guys with money, and decide not to explore a highly desirable romantic option. Most women with an opportunity are going to turn the blinders on and hope for the best. You prob don’t know 7+/10 women who advertise themselves on insta and dating apps and what results from it. This is a common scenario, they can land a date from nearly whatever man that crosses her path simply by making herself …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:23 PM
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Women go after men with many options, then claim they got used, or it was only fwbs after he’s bored with her. Women much more often end up with the guy that can’t get harems of women and dates whenever he wants. Women are significantly more instantly attracted to the men that have lots of choice. Women always picking the best option doesn’t usually work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:41 PM
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Gold diggers are only a factor if you marry one that doesn’t love you. What does a gold digger girlfriend actually do to the guy, trick him to give her money? Dead bedrooms are usually about long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:36 PM
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You need 2 bffs and a social circle or 2, along with romantic options or a relationship for a complete life. You can be just fine and happy without them or one, but both men and women realize the complete package is better and has more fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:52 PM
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Replace the word sex with passion and you got me on all this. If a girl doesn’t want to come back to my place after the first date, she also never had much interest in talking to me again either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:21 PM
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You could just as easily blame all the slutty attractive men that won’t stop trying to stuff it in as many holes as they can. That’s half of the problem men don’t usually want to point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:46 PM
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Women trade in their pussy pass and use their bodies to date men out of their league. These are also almost always incredibly slutty men who don’t care much for them except hooking up with a new chick. I’m not jealous, I’m sad for them they seek lust and envy from her peers, it’s not about compatibility or love. This is the sexual stupidity of a high % of women being hypergamous sorting through the most attractive guys in a 50 mile radius on her phone. Single guys are getting sick of it, they kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:13 PM
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Is it just me or do people not just “hang out” nearly as much? I think women feel this too, people getting together is too event driven now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:05 PM
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Women regardless of how attractive they are can be insufferably annoying and it destroys their dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 PM
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There should be a requirement to not try and explain situations that you’ve never experienced. Guys with 4 dates in the their entire life by women they were already friends with, guys that have been married for 15 years, or never been on a dating app ever. Will explain what it’s like to be on a dating app or what dating women in 2025 is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:47 PM
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