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I know some women who have only ever met selfish lovers, and I know women who have only ever met generous lovers. I think some people attract certain people. Likewise with BDSM. Some men never hook up with women who enjoy it, some men only ever meet women who enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:12 PM
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Probably >10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:25 PM
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With colleagues and friends, you approach when there's some sort of rapport and flirtation between the both of you. You don't come out the blue and ask them out when there's no indication they're into you. Even of you're at a bar, you chat shit ans if they seem interested then you escalate. You don't ask them out straight away. Grocery stores are not an appropriate context at all. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:15 AM
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Yeah, I do and it's wierd.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:12 AM
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I used to hook up with a guy who got really depressed after sex. Had to stop seeing him tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:22 PM
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I suppose when my now BF was a fuck buddy. He used to sneak in my house and we would have this wild sex. We are like twin flames with the exact same tastes. He's dominant, but not in a cringe BDSM way. He's got a nice body, thick dick and really good all round technique. The sex has got better throughout the years but the excitement back then was really something special. I also had an MFM once which had been my ultimate fantasy for years. I was the centre of attention the entire time and they b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:21 PM
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The best casual sex is where the man does things I find enjoyable. Good oral, kissing, foreplay, rhythm, girth, dirty talking, control, depth/speed, duration ect. 'Meh' casual sex has been where the guy didn't perform in a way I found enjoyable, or I'm basically rubbing myself during PIV to get off and there's not really much connection. 'Bad' casual sex is them having a weird fetish or doing stuff I didn't find pleasurable. Like Bad kissing, weird dirty talking ect Really bad sex has been them …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:07 PM
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'Nice guy- (TM) is cultural phenomenon that describes a specific pattern of behaviour. When people use the term 'nice guy' online, they are usually not literally referring to a guy who is nice. Nice guy syndrome is a pattern of behaviour wherein a male thinks he is entitled to sexual or romantic attention from women simply because they are nice'. I believe there is a reddit with many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 PM
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Well, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:44 PM
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You will, keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:03 PM
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I dunno, when women angle max they make their faces look younger and slimmer. I've never seen men do it where they look a completely different weight and age. I was thinking more about angles that aren't shit (looking down at camera witg serious expression) and lighting/angles that show off muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:02 PM
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Uk. At school I thought everyone was having sex, turns out it was a select few. Most my friends were around the 16-18 mark. A sizable chunk lost theirs at university whilst drunk. My bf was 21 and thinks that's super late.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:16 PM
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Guys should try angle maxing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:46 PM
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Someone whos arguments are loaded with emotive language, projection and bad faith are not worth the energy. This is a debate sub, not the playground or YT comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:28 PM
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The majority of men who are this reliant on porn and cannot separate it from reality are not having sex with women and never will because they are too unattractive Not true. Lots of teens watch it and go on to have sex and get girlfriends as older teens/ adults. Lots of formally 'unattractive' men also get gfs...hell even unattractive men can get gfs and have sex. Do you just hate unattractive men getting any type of sexual relief whatsoever? Lots of ways to get sexual release without watching g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:26 PM
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That's depressing, America? I see and work with kids like this but I would only say about 1/3 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:39 PM
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OK you're just being rude and debating debating bad faith, we're done 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:38 PM
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Thats 100% my generations fault (along with gen X). We've allowed big tech to mess up our children's development without a single thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:21 PM
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Where did I say women were never in the wrong, please screengrab where I said that and highlight it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:19 PM
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I didn't say either of those things, stop projecting, please. You can approach in an appropriate way, in an appropriate setting and have sex or get dates. It's called building rapport and having social skills. Its possible to watch porn that isn't fucked up and gross, wank with your imagination or simply not have an incredibly unhealthy obsession with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:18 PM
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People should be able to enjoy spaces like the gym without being asked out by randos. Shaming is an effecting tactic to prevent it happening frequently. Absolutely everyone has to deal with some of rejection in life, if you cannot cope with rejection honestly you just have to grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:42 PM
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Omg of course they're getting shamed for approaching in the gym, that's an awful idea. It's hilarious hay some men go 'omg I literally can't approach anywhere! And then come up with the most inappropriate ways to do it. If you're embarrassed to ask out someone you know, or someone in a bar because they will reject you, you absolutely DO have crippling anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:19 PM
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To know you're capable, you actually have to try. The swaths or young people who don't go out or have crippling anxiety are the ones having the biggest problems. And I didn't say gross porn was the main issue with people not dating, it's a contributing factor. The main issue with gross porn is how it effects the sex life's of sexually active people. Especially young people who are new to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:49 PM
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They're not cold approaching anymore, which is a very good thing. Most people are capable of meeting and dating/fucking using other methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:12 PM
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They only need to express it to women they meet to confirm how true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:09 AM
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By telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 AM
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If its creating a divide between men and women and causing issues in the bedroom, it very much does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:50 AM
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I think every male casual sex haver has experienced sex with older women. Some even as teenagers. When I was single at 32, I slept with men in their mid 20s for fun. They were attractive, fun and very respectful. They also virtually never had trouble getting it up and could go for ages, which is always a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:06 AM
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The vast, vast majority of porn is disgusting and men should 100% be ashamed of liking that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:02 AM
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Thanks, likewise I agree. All my female friends are casual sex havers, and not a single one of them responded to a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:42 PM
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Who says those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:05 PM
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I'm female and I think that's great advice. Especially if you're picky like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:04 PM
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Any place that I have gone to with the purpose of socialising. Club, party, gathering, OLD. If not from this setting, then from someone I have rapport with. Someone I regularly speak to at the dog park, a friend of a friend, someone from a group I frequent ect. Lol downvoted for doing what OP asked me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:07 AM
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All relationships have to be 100% salubrious to them. The therapy generation. I'm envious tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:45 AM
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Whether someone's asking for a date or trying to sell you something cold approaching is irritating to most people. If men were constantly approached by other men, you guys would be furious. In fact, gay men get assaulted and even murdered for doing this. But women are supposed to tolerate it? Unless you're an exceptional male, you're going to need to build some sort of rapport and then 'warm approach' if you want someone's number. You're also going to need to find an appropriate setting like a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:33 PM
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Maybe you view incel rhetoric as unfavourable, so when it is pointed out, you view it as an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:08 PM
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I haven't called anyone an incel. I am explaining that people identify as incels and it is a movement with its own rhetoric and beliefs. In the same vein, if you started talking about the patriarchy, people would assume you are a feminist. If you started talking about Jesus, people would assume you are Christian.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:33 PM
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Where have I used a hateful or hurtful term?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:53 PM
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Again, have not expressed any hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:50 PM
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Dude there's no need to be rude. I have not expressed one iota of hate in any of my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:44 PM
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Exactly. Huge difference between a five year age gap and a 15 year one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:16 PM
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I hated dating someone wealthier than me and I would not recommend it. He wanted to do nice things and I usually couldn't afford to. So subsequently he ended up paying and (I beleive) it caused him resentment. He also had a lot of underlying prejudices against poorer people which he expressed without realising it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:14 PM
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The men who coined the term and formed a 'movement' have their own online rhetoric. If someone expresses that rhetoric, they are believed to be members of that 'movement'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:09 PM
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Incels coined the term incel to define themselves. The same cannot be said for slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:58 PM
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Butterflies, sweaty palms, flushes and heart racing. If I'm sexually aroused I get a sensation down there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:56 PM
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People conceptualise 'older' differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:47 PM
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Zoomers are obsessed with the buzzwords 'grooming' and 'prefrontal development'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:44 PM
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Most male casual-sex-havers have experienced hooking up with older women. It is extremely common. Older women are very much attracted to younger men on a primal level, they just don't date them seriously for obvious reasons. In fact, according to the data people on her love to quote, women in the late thirties have a preference for younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:39 PM
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Yeah he's insanely hot, I totally would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:35 PM
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A candid photo of someone with a hot body >>> a not so good body taken in a bathroom mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:13 AM
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You can break up or divorce your partner for whatever reason you want. You don't need to 'justify' it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:11 PM
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The last word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:26 PM
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This was me once. She needs to figure out what the vibrator is doing and then do that with her hands. Once she's got the hang of it, he can teach you how to do that. But the pressure to do this can be counterproductive and make things a lot more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:03 AM
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I don't see the point of having sex if I can't have an orgasm. I don't orgasm that easily either, and basically had to teach myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:56 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:52 PM
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Red flag? No. A massive barrier to dating? Yes. I personally would never date someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:41 PM
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The last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:01 PM
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language barrier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:17 PM
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There's a huge language barrier here so I don't understand much of your argument. Well good luck, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:54 AM
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Why are you talk about 'past traumas?' Again, you're brining up stuff that has no relevance to the conversation. There's a huge language barrier here so I don't understand much of your argument. Well good luck, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:40 PM
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Will Smith isn't exactly a heart throb. I grew up in the early 00s when he was at his 'peak' and I don't know a single girl that swooned over him. He's also really mentally unstable. They stick together because they're both complete messes, and they also have kids together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:24 PM
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Not America, British. You don't understand it because your cultural practices are different to ours. I am not friends with my two ex boyfriends because of the circumstances. I would be friends with an ex if we ended things amicably and neither of us had romantic feelings any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:12 PM
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Let me guess...you're non western.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:05 AM
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I know what Stockholm syndrome is. It has no relevant to this conversation. She is friends with her ex because her ex is a nice person and she (and her husband) enjoys his company. It's really not complicated. Not everyone hates their ex, and not everyone has romantic feelings towards their ex. Sometimes people are not suitable as romantic partners but make good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:59 AM
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The person you replied to gave an explanation as to why she is friends with her ex. It has nothing to do with this wierd abuse tangent you have gone on. I fail to see what's funny about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:31 PM
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Literally no one mentioned abuse or kidnapping. It has absolutely no relevance to this conversation. Absolute insanity, what happened to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:59 PM
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You have completely misunderstood what 'Stockholm syndrome' is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:18 PM
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I find nothing unusual whatsoever. Some people get together and fall out of love and their feelings dwindle. They still like them as a person so stay friends. It's especially common when people have relationships within a mixed gender friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:55 PM
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Would be happy to date a gym bro or sports player. Better mental health, better body, more energetic ect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:55 PM
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I know. Presumably she had an amicable break up with her ex boyfriend and her and her husband are still friends with him. I don't know what's so unusual about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:45 PM
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Not everyone hates their ex. Couples can and do break up amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:49 AM
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Not just young and single people, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:31 PM
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