I am having trouble visualizing a scenario where my friends would tell my girlfriend that I used to eat out other girls, or that they would know I am not going down on her. This seems far fetched, and it’s another variation of a question that keeps getting posted on PPD.
Who are these women telling you to weasel your way into a woman’s life by pretending to be a friend? I have never been friends with a woman then dated her at some point in the future.
Postpartum depression is a serious condition that in some cases end in the death of mom/baby or both. He should have been trying to get his wife help instead of trolling for booty at the gym. One rough patch and he is cheating? Dude is trash.
The first date should always be a shorter activity like coffee. However, the man is expected to pay. I don’t see an issue with this. I think you do have a problem with this based on how you feel.