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| 0 | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation. | Debate | Fun_Grab_7148 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:54 AM |
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| 1 | The Red Pill is Making Men Weaker, Not StrongerI agreed with your point, I pointed out you're acting like your expression of the point is admirable when it isn't in the slightest, you're putting nothing at risk, speaking out against a crowd of men who aren't here, doing nothing to make a difference, and I could go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I owe you credit. You made me realize I spent like 3 hours arguing a person I do not know, of who my words have no effect on, and wasted countless more hours doing the same across the reddit. Regardless of the discussion I do admire that you're sticking out for your thoughts, it's annoying as hell that you can't keep to a line of argument, but I'm grateful you helped me realize I have better shit to do, you probably do too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is Making Men Weaker, Not Stronger*You mean complaining about pieces of shit online, behind the safety of a screen, so I can feel morally righteous for calling out actions in a way with virtually no real-world consequences, and it's likely that, like almost every other social justice warrior who complains online, I've done nothing, or very little, to address the real world issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:43 AM |
| – | You cant claim “Men take responsibility more” in a sub where men cant be blamed for anything.Yeah this is entirely true. I have a bad habit of wasting time in arguments on this sub I really don't know why I need a better outlit for personal opinions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.You yourself don't behave as an adult being unwilling to accept boundaries and that those are a very real and effective way to take responsibility for unrequited feelings. It is quite literally keeping my problem from being your problem. Notice you have a tendency to reply to only small points in the post? Have a goodnight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:40 AM |
| – | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingI agree with your sentiment but, I think you have a little misunderstanding of the logic behind the thought. Common arguments are things like a woman offering her current partner daily blowjobs, anal sex, or sex as early as possible if she has done it with previous partners. But when it comes to things like pegging or being dominated by the woman, many suddenly find this requirement is no longer necessary. It isn't that wow she did sex it's ok she did things that myself and her partner liked in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I disagree with you. Disinterest is the final word, you don’t get in someone’s face and say “No, Karen, I won’t hang out with you because you won’t date me.” No, but you might acknowledge "Hey, I'm getting feelings for Karen, I am/she is in a relationship, and I don't want to ruin that. Therefore, I'm going to make sure I have boundaries to prevent it from going further." It isn't I won't hang out with you because you won't date me it's I've set boundaries with how we interact to preserve a frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:23 AM |
| 0 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I'm glad to hear we're discrediting psychology and a licensed professional with eh not a problem for me I have had a lot of shitty people in my life, I let them walk all over me, back then, I would tell you again, and again, and again, that it was no problem for me to ignore the shit they did to me because I could overlook it for the benefits in the friendships. That doesn't make it true, does it? It wore me down on a subconscious level, because that's what repression and suppression does. You'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I am arguing for boundaries to be set up before you get feelings to prevent them. The fact that this escapes you just reinforces that you're cherry picking my words, and strawmanning me. Yes, fucking obviously, if you like a girl respect her goddamn feelings. I never said don't do that, I never once said don't do that. But for the love of fucking GOD KAREN I've been saying again, and again, and again, and again. The issue is once feelings are established, you cannot make them go away with any am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.You're acting like I am telling guys "HEY DON'T STOP GOING FOR IT! EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T RECIPROCATE" when I'm literally saying "Hey if you don't want feelings in a relationship set boundaries." You're not responding to the obvious glaring error in my logic because you're not even responding to my argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Hey can I buy some cherries off of you? Because you're DAMN fine at cherry picking what you respond to to take it out of context and ignore everything else said. My advice is read up on the subject before speaking on it because you're very, very, very clearly unaware of fundamental psychology, and I get it, I don't expect you to be, I only am because it's what I've been studying in college, but the problem is when you ignore, cherry pick, and strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I interact with women who are off limits to me differently than I do my girlfriend, who is not my sister-in-law. Maybe I didn't make it clear in my post, but this part right here "If you're not setting boundaries in place to keep passion from entering the picture (limiting the extend of these two, learning what you do when you like someone that way and making sure you don't do that with them, ect) you're in a pretty risky place." was saying you can take steps to prevent attraction in a relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Are we gonna ignore the huge issue here? Suppressed feelings only bottle up until they burst out. You may think they dissipate but they don't, they take hold in your subconscious and build up until they all come out at once. This is why you don't just ignore it when you feel mad, you have healthy outlets for it, prevention systems in place, and address the cause of it. Pitfalls of Suppressing Emotions and Pros of Processing Them | Psychology Today here's a helpful article about it published by a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.My comment: These are the reasons friendships with the sex you're interested in is possible but needs boundaries. Your reply: So you don't have boundaries? Explain that please I'm very interested in how you got that from what I said without a very large dosage of not reading my reply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.Your feelings are not very under your control. I agree you can be friends, but it's not oh just decide to just be friends. Try deciding to view a friend romantically, or your partner platonically, on demand, doesn't work. Love is chemical shit, Sternberg's theory is a great starting point for understanding it. TLDR Commitment, passion, intimacy are all deciding factors in what a relationship is. In relationships with the sex you aren't interested in passion developing, or romantic interest, is v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.I'm not reading all of that because your argument is true but better presented in how romantic shit and cheating bubbles up imo Romantic feelings are the result of closeness in a relationship. Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love has 3 components. Passion (sexual intimacy), intimacy (closeness of the bond), commitment (consistency of the choice to be in the relationship (platonic or romantic)). Romantic relationships usually start with passion, grow intimacy, and lose passion in-which case the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you support men having the right to “abdicate” a pregnancy?https://thelawdictionary.org/article/giving-up-a-fathers-parental-rights/#:~:text=The%20father%20begins%20by%20signing,then%20filed%20with%20the%20court. Yeah it'd be great if there were a way for guys to like relinquish responsibilities...... damn bro whaddo you know that's CRAZY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 08:10 AM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Sorry mods. Far from smart would be a nicer way to put it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 08:19 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?... they're literally saying only date people who treat you the way you feel you should be treated you are beyond stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Men of all ages prefer women between 18-30 simply because it is their physical prime, absolutely nothing to do with manipulation or power dynamicsI think OP's post is enough shit for the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:58 AM |
| – | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation.That's in the oxford languages so... I guess you should take that up with them? "control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously:" Manipulation requires an advantage to you at the expense of the person you're manipulating, which is why flirting isn't manipulation. You used merriam webster, so I'll spare you the time and give you defintion b: "to control or play upon by artful, unfair, or insidious means especially to one's own advantage" artful meaning "adroit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:22 AM |
| – | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation.I misunderstood the definition, I told you the way I understood it though, so very nice dodge to replying to anything I said at all by focusing on a very apparent misunderstanding of a word. It still fits "clever" perfectly fine, I picked unscrupulous as the best fit because I thought it was an act neither immoral or moral which had a goal in mind, and flirting CAN be, and usually is, one or the other but it's the way it's done not the act itself (such as killing, it can be permissible (self def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship?women are all robots who only want physical appeal in a guy or money, you're so right. I'm glad someone FINALLY agrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:22 AM |
| – | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation.Nobody in their right mind thinks flirting with your gf is toxic and manipulative. right to my point. It is, by definition, manipulative. You're doing actions with the goal of reciprocation. The whole point is manipulation isn't exclusively toxic, it can be positive manipulation, like respectful flirting in a relationship. You're just changing the definition of the word to suit your argument. I'm not though, "control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously" fli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:19 AM |
| – | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation.I always find it amusing how dumbed down the view on consent is from people on the internet. Yeah I know but my post wasn't focused on consent and I didn't want to get lost in the rabbit holes of it. It depends a lot on how much you know your partner, and how clear they are on what they want, which depends on how well they know what they want, whether they decide purely on emotion or what they want to happen, their self-esteem, and a bunch of other shit. But for most people it's pretty easy to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 03:33 AM |
| – | People are overcorrecting for "red flags" in relationships, such as manipulation.Your comment is exactly why I've made the post and that's not anything against you. Manipulation is defined as "control or influence (a person or situation) cleverly, unfairly, or unscrupulously" none of those predispose that the thing the other person is manipulated into is good or bad. You can be clever and flirt with your partner in my example, you could be unfair and manipulate a corrupt leader into an act which benefits people instead of hurts them, or you can be unscrupulous, a word I lear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | "Husband" is a compliment. "Material" is objectificationI hate this side of reddit lol. Objectification isn't acknowledging characteristics that makes someone suitable for specific roles, it's when they're treated like objects. Robert has a full time job, thorough schedule, is never out too late and is focusing on his career. Stephanie is looking for a guy who can go have fun on a whim. She tries it with robert, it doesn't work, she says he's more husband material and that isn't what she's looking for. It's not objectifying him. It's acknowledging hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.Thank you for the cookie, I'm happy you cannot admit or acknowledge when you're wrong. Have a good day and a wonderful christmas to you and your family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.Woke isn't exclusively about black justice it's expanded to be encompass social justice as a whole. Every definition you gave had this included. It started off focused on black justice, it changed, words change. Gay used to be used for happy or cheerful, it now means male on male attraction. Words. Change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.For those interested in the research done. The oxford definition of woke doesn't comply with Constant's limited usage. The wikipedia definition they literally cited, right under their cherry picked section, says the word has broadened to other social issues, and yes, they tried arguing with a wikipedia definition. In response to my oxford definition, they threw out merriam webster definition highlighting "(especially issues of racial and social justice)" i guess they missed "and social justice" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.since you love definitions <3 https://preview.redd.it/vpstub05mp8e1.png?width=989&format=png&auto=webp&s=870085428aee8af87b66d9dc7697616071a3b11a | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same that is okay."beginning in the 2010s, it came to be used to refer to a broader awareness of social inequalities such as racial injustice, sexism, and denial of LGBT rights." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.notice the and social justice, which isn't exclusive to african americans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.LITERALLY READ THE WIKI PAGE YOU'RE CITING https://preview.redd.it/pqzb5wvflp8e1.png?width=1136&format=png&auto=webp&s=2499b79633c64999e94842684bc6b6e1e868899c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.that isn't the definition from oxford languages that's wikipedia... https://preview.redd.it/uyq65ah9lp8e1.png?width=1040&format=png&auto=webp&s=0f573b4e27ffc28aaa1cf59d2f132b4fa80f7a04 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.elaborate on the adolescent boy point please? what age do you think a boy can physically overpower a grown woman? even if you try to make it seem so lmao. You're the one who makes yourself seem sexist lmfao. In one post you used arguments lacking the societal context but women are more likely to be in x y z field and men in a b c field which is true and will be true but the spread we still see today is almost certainly due to standing sexist ideals perpetuated by society. Traditional values in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.have you looked up the definition? Literally fucking google it and use the definition given from oxford languages "alert to and concerned about social injustice and discrimination:" you're so beyond wrong lmfaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.Social norms are almost always the result of social expectations and teachings. Women were raised to behave delicate, men raised to treat them delicate. Men were raised to behave tough, women raised to rely on their toughness. The biological impact of social norms is basically non-existent beyond very foundational layers like valuing cooperation within society. I was raised primarily by my mother who treated me delicately and overall raised me in a delicate way. I grew up to be a push over in a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.I was gonna reply, i was actively replying. But I should've known at "woke" (excuse the term) culture that this guy has no clue what he's talking about. Instead of replying, I'll highlight the stupidity. "Woke" (excuse the term) culture Is overused to categorize anything progressive as the new way we're using woke; negative. women are more prevalent in fields like childcare and nursing, while men dominate areas such as engineering and computer science. We're piggy backing off a culture that used… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 02:12 AM |
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