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| 87 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleI want to punch him in his stupid face. Why is he so worried if she is fitness focused?? He just wants to control her day to day choices? What a miserable life. Edit:a word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | This queen spitting truths about men and their feelings. So nice to see this knowledge in the wild tooHell yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 45 | I effed upGood! and good job ditching this loser. Getting cheated on is such a tough thing to go through. Virtual hugs from one sister to another 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:43 AM |
| 196 | I effed upIf anyone asks you, do not keep his secrets. You don’t have to go out of your way, but you have no reason to keep his secrets. Like him pestering you for nudes, his cheating, his lying. He is NOT a person whose secrets should be kept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 03:20 AM |
| 15 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?I would say childfree means there are no right circumstances for having a child. I haven’t always been childfree. In my early 20’s I would have had many kids if I had met the right partner. Since my late 20’s and now I’m in my mid-30’s I am childfree. I do not want kids. I have taken action to ensure I stay childfree. Kids are not part of my life plan. Life changes, but if someone is willing to have kids if the “right one comes along” I would not consider them childfree, I would consider them “c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Obtaining Self loveI did what you’re doing for 2 years. Once you grey rock him, he’ll become vile and that’s when you know you should have left long ago. Don’t worry, eventually he’ll make it easy. Yes, he’ll love bomb you, then he’ll try and tear you down, make everything your fault (this is a tactic to get you to engage and defend yourself- don’t fall for it), then the love bombing starts again, then he’ll leave you alone. If you just block, delete and move on, you’ll save yourself a lot of heart ache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:17 AM |
| 38 | What made her such an excellent villain in this movie was her highly realistic ax to grindAs great as the movie was, the book is even better! Edit to add: my ex HATED this movie. Now I know why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:33 PM |
| 29 | Stay safe ladies. Always trust your instincts. The gift of fear is yours to use.Happened to me. I do not drink anything I have not made myself, or have seen made. I also do not allow anyone to buy me a drink. I don’t need a scrote telling me I owe them my time because they decided they wanted to buy me a drink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 15 | HVM plans the best date ever, surprises me with it, and I am still over the moon.Never stop vetting. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:08 AM |
| 14 | My name change was influenced by this subCongrats, Regina ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Today in “romanticizing abuse”Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 10 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Exactly, you invited me, YOU pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:58 PM |
| 15 | How do you end a date early?I told a date once that I had just dropped acid and I had 15 minutes before I started rolling. Then I took off. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Let’s Talk About LVM Exes and When They Come Back After A BreakupYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:36 AM |
| 47 | Let’s Talk About LVM Exes and When They Come Back After A BreakupI keep my exes in my phone under DNA meaning Do Not Answer! So I know someone toxic is on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Romance Books for FDS?LOVE this book. I totally cried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?Don’t focus on finding a man. Focus on yourself, build yourself, and never settle. Also, find a good therapist, and if you need to be medicated, take your pills. I waited too long to be properly medicated, to finally be myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 8 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?Oof. Hospital bills, moving bills, nights out, paying his rent (we didn’t even live together!), paying his cellphone (so he could continue to cheat), so much fvcking money!!! 20,000-easy. So glad to be on the other side! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:16 PM |
| 8 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 24 | He Who Does Not Wash His Ass has nothing of value to say to you.Bidets are the best. My SO is the one who wanted to get one. I’m very happy he likes being clean! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:48 AM |
| 5 | When the mask comes offIt’s so rough seeing someone be where I used to be. I don’t have kids (thank the fertility gods), but man the shit I used to put up with. I want to take their face in my hands and let her know she would be happier alone. Parallel parenting is a thing. She doesn’t have to put up with this garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 15 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Way to go!!! Yay!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 50 | Why We Need A Sexual Double Standard (Against Men)Community dick 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 15 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 19 | Hypocritical male dating/marriage standardsThat is exactly my ex. Adding that they are jealous of their own desires and then get angry at you for trying to meet their “needs”. Ugh. Just remembering everything my ex put me through makes me so sad and angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:21 AM |
| 1 | TIL anything about a woman can be sexualized, even her periodI’m going to go with: There’s plenty of fish in the sea. Particularly fish that will respect your individual choices because they know they should not make them for you. That you are an independent fish that knows what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?My proposal needs to be special. My bf and I just picked out a ring, now the rest is up to him. I insisted that I chose the ring, and it was nice that he didn’t haggle with me about price (an ex did that to me, he made me feel embarrassed that I wanted a nice ring, so he’s and ex for a reason). I look forward to a proposal that represents us and our solid relationship. Hopefully something outside and unique! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:35 PM |
| 6 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.Yay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 15 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)Ugh! Redpill 🤦♀️ in my pickme days that shit totally worked on me. So happy to have leveled up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 35 | 6'7" Brock O'Hurn“All around good guy” The hottest trait of all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 21 | Guys who leave you at a party or a family gatheringOh my god!!! I wish I could go back in time just to tell my ex “I’m not a refrigerator!” Just because it would be a funny story to retell. Men who don’t make it a point to introduce and make you comfortable are so not worth the headache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Some of y’all are still pick-me’s, you just hide it better👏👏👏 agreed. I’m still learning so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Four stages of denial, aka "you should have CoMmUniCaTeD"You can communicate till you’re blue in the face, an LVM isn’t going to hear you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 7 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”Yes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 9 | Do not tell men you are on birth controlListen to me when they tell on themselves!!! This should be on a T-shirt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 8 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceYou were assaulted! Do not minimize this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 53 | 💯% true for me.Unfortunately some men pretend to be gay to get women to let their guard down. I learned this unfortunate behavior from an ex of mine that’s proud of how fast the girls let him feel their breasts when he pretended to be gay. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Only pickmeishas get mad at the other womanWell, she let you know you were renting space in her head 🤣 at least it’s free for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 133 | Only pickmeishas get mad at the other womanI remember when I found out my ex was cheating. I texted all the girls to let them know he was a liar and a cheater. I wasn’t mad at any of them, it’s not their fault he didn’t honor the relationship. I was surprised at how many of the women were rude to me. Many of them put me down or threw insults. I was so shocked. Edit: thanks for the award!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:45 AM |
| 57 | Only high effort men can keep up with high maintenance women.Or a Ford Pinto, they just explode when too many things are going on 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:55 AM |
| 36 | All it takes is attention to detailAnd if we don’t find them, we make sure we have great friends around us, and we like ourselves enough that we don’t feel the need for a partner. A partner should enhance our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.YES!!! Also, I love your hair!!!! 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Men don’t have what it takes to be a womanThank you!! Such a great way of looking at it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Nothing drives a man crazier than...Good reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 21 | This is very sweet.Very sweet 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 15 | PSA: just because he pays for dates, doesn't make him a HVMYep! My LVM ex told me a good friend of his was “just like a little sister” Guess who he was cheating on me with....her plus 15 other girls. They all thought they were the only sidechick. Thankfully I didn’t catch anything from that lowlife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!Get ready for a Liz Lemon eye roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 11 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menYep. I have one week til I move out. Never living with a man again unless there is a ring on my finger and a date is set. Lesson learned the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 24 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.And good for women! Yay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 17 | Just Do It!Get outta here!!!!!! Go on! Get!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 4 | Pacific Northwest LVM starter pack🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:43 AM |
| 79 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?Back in my pickme days, I went. I was flown to Denver. I thought it was so glamorous and generous. He sent a car to the airport. What it really was that he was so lazy he had his soon-to-be sexdoll delivered straight to him. Ugh. If I could have woken up sooner. I was so grateful to him for my free trip I gave sex up right away. My poor younger self. Such low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:51 AM |
| 5 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 45 | Dad’s an HVM ❤️This poor young woman has the makings of learning the hard way over and over and over and over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 21 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.Or, you only care to LOOK empathetic! Behind closed doors you’re going to scream at me about how I’m a bitch for not reading your mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 5 | What are some new years dating resolutions you have, and how do you plan on meeting them?No dating. Self improvement only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:25 AM |
| 3 | You shouldn't have to pushHahahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮This is the worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 31 | Guys who tell you that 'you're not like other women' are a RED FLAG. STAY CLEAR. This poem always makes me smile. I'm seriously no longer pick-me :)The “I’m not like other girls” BS has always rubbed me the wrong way. I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Never understood how guys can express a long list of requirements and preferences but as soon as a woman does the same for a guy, she is shallow.Yes!!! That is my new favorite phrase! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Know your self-worth and never settle! 💞This hit home today. Thank you QueenBeeJubilee! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 7 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Thank you for the award! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:39 AM |
| 23 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:46 AM |
| 5 | I think I miss being singleThe long distance thing combined with how much energy is being expended is seeming like a deal breaker for me. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 21 | I think I miss being singleDamn, this is the best. Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 44 | “I’m just missing my dead grandma”My soon-to-be ex keeps saying that as an excuse for his lack of emotions 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 90 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.A future where women see through the bullshit men try to trap us in is a dream. I’ll admit, I got a little fuzzy and idealistic yesterday. Everything was a high. My bf was being complimentary, he had his kids get me gifts and they were being so cuddly and lovely. I truly love them. It tears me apart to leave. But the day to day is so exhausting and everything I do is taken for granted. I must go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:42 AM |
| 52 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Add on: “I like what this person does for me”and it’s a complete list! I am pretty sure that’s what is motivating my soon-to-be ex. I make breakfast, lunch, and dinner for him and his boys most days, plus the other things that run a household, while running my own business. It started as: I love these guys so much I want to do everything I can for them. Now I feel: I have done so much for these guys and I love them so much why am I not receiving anything in return? And I now know why. FDS has sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:38 AM |
| 19 | Do not coddle men!Beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 48 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Thank you! After all my time with my BF I am done. I have no more to give. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 113 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Actually, I did. My first Christmas gift I didn’t pick in 4 Christmas’, an iPad mini. It’s for my job. I did feel that that was very thoughtful. I also felt, “about time”. Not for the price of the thing, but for the lack of effort the past 3 christmases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:01 AM |
| 383 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.This really made me think. My bf (soon to be ex, I don’t want to move twice) has shown contempt for me under the veil of jokes too. Whether it’s taking his friends side of a “joke” I don’t find funny, or just not doing something reasonable I ask. Since I have made hints at leaving, he is VERY attentive (too late bro, maybe you’ll find it hilarious), and is always talking about our future. Christmas was taken up a notch too. He could have been a HVM, he has all the makings of one, but falls short… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 17 | I really hope his gf leaves him over this. How is she not supposed to take that personally? Of course he won't answer the question.Agreed! My apartment is available on January 4th. My boyfriend’s dad is a selfish person who only looks out for himself, and the similarities between him and his dad are terrifying. After 3 years of cooking and cleaning I was fed up, I found FDS, and I’m happy to say that I am worth more than being a forever gf. If he wanted to be better then he would be better, I’m not asking anymore. KickHimOut2021! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 11 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.LVM’s manage to make everything our fault. The mental gymnastics are fantastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 16 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂My broke ex always did this to me. I was like, “who just paid your $150 phone bill??? Me!” Fu€king clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 16 | Texting adviceReminds me of a LVM I used to date. He would also get pissed if it seemed like my attention slipped for even a moment 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Forever GFs in a nutshell. He’s not going to propose, it’s not “temporary”, he’s already decided. 😳Ugh. Tell me about it. Currently apartment hunting to get out of being a forever gf. I’ve wasted so much time, I’m almost free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:41 AM |
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