Fundamental999333 Archive

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3	I do not enjoy dating because I have some serious insecurity going on - wondering if anyone has overcome this?	Inner Game	Fundamental999333	/r/seduction	10/01/22 07:39 PM

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1	I want to have fun with women You need a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy and just continuous exposure. So create a budget for a CBT and continually expose yourself to new people. You go out, meet people, make mistakes, push comfort zones, then go back to you CBT and talk about it. Implement the methods. Do the work. I also highly recommend joining a martial art, jiu-jitsu preferably. You'll be amazed how much confidence will be built through physically facing conflict. Next thing you know 2 years pass and you are…	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:44 PM
1	How do you SPEED UP doing your first few approaches (when cold-approaching)? You have to be careful here, because humans are actually HORRIFIC at detecting change within themselves. It is perfectly normal to think you are not improving or that you don't feel different and this is because change is slow and our self-perception is INCREDIBLY distorted. You just stay the course - there is no catalyst or magic pill to accelerate any change within. If you found it, you would certainly be rich. The best thing you can do is to keep a journal. Change is often measured in years. …	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:40 PM
1	Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction? Confidence is not about being that strong hard emotionless man. It's about being human, full of flaws and the ability to show the world and be perfectly okay with it. The man I describe here will win out every time over the hardened dimensionless stereotypical male. Only insecure or emotionally damaged will be offended by a man who can will cry. However, if you are a sobbing weak baby over small trivial matters - that's different.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:38 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yes, and I've done this to girls. Things will be great! Really like her! But either I would like someone more OR I would just not be into dating, either because I'm not over a breakup or I just have too many things in my life OR I just can't be bothered to put effort into getting excited over someone I just met online. Without that rapport and connection, for some people it's just hard to continue. Don't over analyze it - humans have their own free will and sets of desires and motivations. All y…	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:34 PM
1	I do not enjoy dating because I have some serious insecurity going on - wondering if anyone has overcome this? Awesome, thanks so much!	/r/seduction	12/01/22 04:56 PM
1	I do not enjoy dating because I have some serious insecurity going on - wondering if anyone has overcome this? Yea, at the end of the day I guess that's what it will take. Thanks!	/r/seduction	12/01/22 06:30 AM
1	I do not enjoy dating because I have some serious insecurity going on - wondering if anyone has overcome this? Did you find a cognitive therapist that helped you? I've had counsellors before and they are/were useless. Is there a difference?	/r/seduction	12/01/22 06:30 AM