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| 1 | Are there any guys in Montreal that are good at daygame? I'm looking for serious help.I mean, if by any chance we don't find this person specifically we could create a hub or something. Altough I don't think I'd go to Toronto to work on this specifically lol, at least for now. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 08:12 PM |
| 1 | 79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and DatingIndeed. In my case, it's not about being afraid, but precisely not knowing if she's into me enough so I can express it properly. I guess knowing if she's into you it's about escalation and observation. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 10:03 PM |
| 1 | 79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and DatingHow would you express sexual intention without being creepy? It's my biggest weakness for now, I struggle showing and expressing desire, I know it's hard to say without getting to know me but still I have to ask. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Mean but sexyYou can, but maybe once you have done it you'll realize that you'd rather have sex with someone nicer. Also, she might be hot but the sex might not be good, just saying, it happens a lot. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Turth hurtsNot necessarily, and you don't have to be an "alpha male" to be good with women. What I feel is that social conditioning is more about making everyone happy rather than making you happy and fulfilled, this includes getting what you want in terms of relationships, career, friends etc. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Turth hurtsSometimes I think that most men would be natural seducers (or at least, good enough when it comes to talking to women) if they weren't corrupted by society from a young age. Kids who are underparented and did badly in school are good with women when they reach their late teens. It's something I cannot stop thinking about, they don't fit well in society, still, they will always have friends and social connections before the adult life eats them alive. It gets me thinking a lot. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 06:49 PM |
| -1 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?Is that an issue? I don't think there's nothing to deal with in that situation. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Need advice about lifeFocus on your life, including career. Then you can think about what's next | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold hard truth - Height play a Major Factor than CharismaDuring night game, looks matter more than in other situations. That's it. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Tight, figure-hugging jeans or a low-cut dress?Do you really think that we care about it? Hahahah If you guys already slept together it won't matter. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Gym baddies…how toThe only time I dated a girl from the gym was through warm approach. I could tell that she checked me a couple of times, at some point we started talking naturally, you know how it goes, she's working out right next to me, one comment here and there, we end up talking more and more and at some point it came out naturally: "what if we meet tomorrow?" I don't even remember how it was. The date went badly btw, never dated again but we were fine with it. That being said, I do not reccomended it unle… | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreKeep in mind that a 7 face for you might be a 9 face for someone else. What you are trying to say pretty much is that you prefer a hot body before anything else right? | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreThe problem with this statement is that the whole thing is a matter of preference... I personally prefer a beautiful face but an ok body before an amazing body and an ok face. It's like body types, if you like curvy girls, you are going to overlook a girl with a beautiful face but with a slim build. It comes down to preference. | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 34 | Being attractive is largely about being healthyActually, you can be unhealthy and attractive, but being healthy will never make you uglier. Attractiveness it's not guaranteed if you are healthy, but it will make you more attractive for sure. Same thing applies to wealth of you ask me, for years, my attractiveness was low because I didn't have much money to spend on fashion, and yeah, most people will say that you can spend a little amount of money and have a good wardrobe, although this is true, let's be real: it helps big time. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I broke down infront of my GF and i want to win her respect backBro, forget about that dude, you should not be friends with someone like that or at least, have a conversation with him. How old are you guys? On the other hand I feel like you are just a little bit insecure, the good news is that you can work on that. You'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 01:26 AM |
| 0 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Keeping in mind that their perspective is not the only one and maybe they are talking to someone whose context is way different. Considering only 55% of the people that read this post are from Canada and the US, it gives you a hint. | /r/seduction | 01/06/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How can women get laid without having a social circle or dating apps presence?They don't, normally. Everyone needs a social circle or online presence. In the case of women, you might be lucky in the r4r subs, but take care of you do it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotOh yeah, that's for sure, but now you made me wonder if for real there are any studies that link higher testosterone with higher sociability. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 10 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotAre you sure about that? I've met many men who have high testosterone and are either not so interested in being around people or they are just really selective with who they spend time with. Are there any studies that back that up? It's the first time ever I've heard about high T making you more social. Maybe more likable if any. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 04:28 PM |
| 64 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotYeah, and to add to that, when they know that you have people around you (not even women), but the fact that you are a social being with a social life, makes you more relevant if that makes sense. What you described is a different form of pre-selection if you think about it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Do you want to see a screenshot of the views? | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 03:38 PM |
| 0 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.But the advices do not apply to them many times. Most of the advice provided here feels like it's catered for the "default" westerners and I've already proven that most of the people in the sub do not fit in that category. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 02:05 PM |
| 0 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.The West is not homogeneous and not everyone who lives in the West are from the predominant culture(s) as well as the fact that many of them would not have the assumed income. "Just go and travel" Wel yeah anyways. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I can show you screenshots, 45% of people who have read this post so far are not from Canada or the US, and I'm wondering how many of that 55% are immigrants like me, from a different culture, low income, neurodivergent etc. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 02:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I think it's perfectly fine if not every advice applies to everyone who is reading, what I feel is that we assume way to fast. Actually, I found two people in the comments who thought that the US and Canada are majority in this sub, and are not. Feels like people who post that kind of advice are just clueless. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 01:48 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Oh yeah, the typical "I'm going to write something that I think it's complicated just to check if the immigrant can understand me" text. You wrote a lot but said nothing. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Okay, but we could stop assuming that everyone lives in the West now that we know that most people here are not. | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 01:43 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.It's a fair question and you are right: it's hard to address everyone in every single message, still, my proposal would be to just assume that the person you are talking to might have a different life than yours. Example: you just cannot recommend everyone to go on a vacation, because many of them could not even afford it | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 01:36 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.That would not exclude the fact that I want to inform and make people conscious about this reality | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 10:53 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I told you already, for now, the whole point of this post is precisely about the fact that we assume way too much about each other, when the data shows the opposite of what most people think. The majority of the sub is kind of what I've described, still, we read a lot of advice that doesn't apply to the majority | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Then why do you suggest me to create content here? | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Bro, you are just mad at the fact that you were wrong. You are not the majority of people who read the sub. You keep shifting your complaints depending on what I say. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Taking in consideration the data at stop with the audacious comments that assume about the posters. Yeah I could "create content", but it doesn't exclude the fact that this happens. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 05:46 PM |
| 2 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.It happened to me as well. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.45% of people who have read this post so far are not from Canada and the US, I'm also wondering how many of those 55%, "the majority" as you called them, are either immigrants like me, from a different cultural background, or low income. Just saying. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.You have really valid points, but the purpose of this thread is not about discussing the validity of the advice given in this sub, but the assumption that every guy has the capability of following those given advices. And the assumption is there, in this very sub. Last time I posted here, I ended up explaining a guy how it was not possible for me to relocate to southern Asia at the moment 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Hmmmmmm The post it's not about discussing those arguments 😂😂😂😂 And if you pay attention, I'm literally saying that precisely because of your last paragraph I had to write this post. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I'd read it lol | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.Or the other way around. As I mentioned, 45% of people who read this post so far are not from Canada or the US, and I'm pretty sure that a lot of guys from that 55% are either immigrants like me, low income, different cultural background or so on. And with this economy is highly likely. Making another sub is possible, but being mindful of this reality and making the whole sub more relevant for most of us is easier I think. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 0 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I am not that active in Reddit anymore, but it would be a great idea. What bugs me more is the amount of people negating that this is a fact, the post is being downvoted a lot despite the fact that 40%+ of people that have read it are not from the US or Canada. EDIT: and yeah, my profile would be really good to be a mod, since I've lived in both worlds pretty much, although my country is considered a developed one, it's different enough. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 07:34 PM |
| 0 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.And how does this information change anything of what I've mentioned so far? | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.That's what I normally do. I'm just trying to share a thought, and if people do agree with me a lot, maybe it's time for a new sub, or adding different categories to this one. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:48 PM |
| -1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.40% of people who read this post so far are not from Canada or the US, I can add a screenshot EDIT: it's 45% now EDIT 2: who would want to downvote this comment? Does data hurt your feelings or what? | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Inviting a female coworker to a concertApart from the advice already given: a concert is probably one of the worst possible dates ever. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.I did not mention inner game precisely because of this. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:19 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamedOp provided an example of his point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 02:07 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamedYou keep bringing up that word and the post it's not about that. Society doesn't like when men have standards and express them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 11:11 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamedWhere is the word forcing here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 10:58 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamedOp's point it's not about getting dates, it's about how society sees men's preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 10:41 PM |
| – | I genuinely think men’s preferences and standards are shamedOp never mentioned forcing, he mentioned the shaming and how society reacts to men's standards. And he's right honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythI do yoga, and if I had to use that environment as a reference, then yes, women age better than men (because there are barely any men lol). But if I take the gym as a reference, then men age super fine since there are guys in their 40s and 50s that are fitter than I am around there. I work in a female dominated field, and most of them are 40-60, I can tell you that if I had to say how many women in their 50s I find attractive at my workplace, I would say 5% maximum and they have really good gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythAlright, so your generation has both, I see women your age that are really attractive but they are a small minority, same applies to men, but generally speaking I feel like millenials are more concerned about taking care of their health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythMay I ask you how old are you? I'm 31 and I see a little bit of everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythThen wait until you have an idea to make statements instead of saying the first thing that sounds right (to you) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythI SUPPOSE that you could check social media, Instagram and Facebook have been around for a while. You can also ask friends and family about it. Or you can just be quiet until you know more about the topic you are talking about instead of supposing. I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythThere's a difference between being open-minded and opening your mouth just for the shake of it. It doesn't matter if you are 23, you can observe older people I suppose. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?I've had sex with women I was not attracted to and it was good enough to keep me going, so I personally could see myself dating someone "below" what my expectations are and be happy with it. Although, if a relationship doesn't make me happier, I'm leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythOr that's what you want to believe, this generation of men will catch up in terms of all of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a myth"I made a statement but I don't have any idea of what I just said because I'm supposing" Nice job, really nice job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythNah, I look better now in my 30s than when I was in my 20s, my prediction is that I'll look better at 40 than now as well. There are also women that look better in their 30# when they put the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 10:25 PM |
| 31 | What experience forced you to completely rethink dating?Well yeah, I had something similar as well, but in my case was this specific girl that even when I knew a lot about game, I literally didn't even had to think in order to seduce her, since I already had most of it understood and it came off in a natural, effortless way. Not only that, but she really liked everything that happened there and encouraged me a lot. From that point on, my anxiety about dating and game was reduced drastically, since I realised that I'm more than enough and I can get th… | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsYou are the one that needs therapy, mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:29 PM |
| 1 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsYou are the one that wanted to make it about me <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 01:28 PM |
| 3 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsBeing invisible for 5 years is being invisible, you are just pissed that my streak is over and yours is not. I could give you advice if you wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:47 PM |
| 0 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsYou don't read don't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:46 PM |
| 5 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsTakes one to name one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:46 PM |
| -1 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsOkay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsI'm not bothered, and I get some action as well. What about you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsI've been, there was a period of my life when I hadn't sex at all and it lasted 5 years, from 26 to 31. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 10:31 PM |
| 6 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsHaving a lot of options that are shit is as bad as not having options because you are invisible, if you asked me, I think is even worse since we (men) can do things to stop being invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 8 | I want casual but exclusive, she wants emotional connection. Is this doomed?Yeah | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 11:48 PM |
| – | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choice"as a raver and blablabla" You are talking from your biased experience, there are plenty of people who go out at nights pretty regularly and get little to no sex. Also, you are talking like if all men liked that type of women. I've dated women that don't go out at bars, never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Any successful guys here still play video games? What’s your relationship with them?I was about to say something similar, but I'd like to add that playing single playing games with a cool story, atmosphere and characters is perfectly fine in moderation. I feel like games such as The Witcher series, RDD, or even Elden Ring both bring you joy and you get to appreciate the beauty of the craft. Play a couple of hours on Saturday and Sunday and you won't throw your life away, but only once you've worked out and done your chores. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/26 09:21 PM |
| 3 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexIt was me, but I won't reveal where. That's my fence now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:03 AM |
| 1 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexSo, women don't trick men? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:01 AM |
| 2 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexNot every PUA technique is about pretending to be someone else, actually most of them (specially the most modern advice) is pretty much how to expose what you (already) are in a better way that could lead to more dates or sex. And also btw I'm sure you slept with at least one man that picked you up using techniques he learnt on the internet without you realising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 12:00 AM |
| 3 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexYou could not provide an example then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:58 PM |
| 12 | Friend got ragdolled in a wrestling match in front of his GFIf muscle guy is as we can imagine, he will most likely have other girls, so he doesn't need to. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/26 06:04 PM |
| 67 | Friend got ragdolled in a wrestling match in front of his GFYou know, in my honest experience what I predict is that fat guy's ex will not get anything from the muscle guy, and muscle guy and fat guy will still be friends. Maybe fat guy joins the gym now that he's single and he works out and have fun with his bud. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/26 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I only go on Saturdays because I don't have time during the week, and the ratio is like 90% women, there's not a single male teacher for example. They also have Pilates. Still, this post is not about how do I find more, but where they normally are at. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I barely use social media anymore, and I use to spot 8s more frequently back in the day, like one year ago or so. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Maybe there's a little bit of "yellow car syndrome" here, but apparently I'm not the only one noticing. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Financially speaking, I'm alright but just alright so doing what you suggested it's not an option, at least not for now hahaha. The activités I'm doing is yoga pretty much, not to meet women, I really like it, and although I see an 8 from time to time, it's not too common. I see a lot of 7s but not 8s. As I said before, I'm not asking how to meet/date them, I'm just asking where they normally are at. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Okay but what about the 8s? | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Okay but what about the 8s? | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Original post, I mean, the post that I originally wrote lol | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | why do men hate it when u play their games"I" don't know | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Can we stick to the topic? | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.My city is not small or crappy at all, it's actually the other way around. I'm asking about my specific case, I don't see women this attractive where I am going. And the last statement is true, it happened to me as well. Also, as soon as you have friends (girls), you'd see that depending on the day they can look way better. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Suggest, worry not, the op is for that, I just wanted to ask where are they and why I don't see them anymore when I used to, I was just not expecting someone to ask me about my looks, which makes no sense, I could be ugly ASF and still wanting to know. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Oh yeah, I remember when I was in university, certain times I was at the gym and apparently, it was impossible to see people my age (20 or so), but then I realised that I was working out during the mornings since I had classes on the afternoon, lol. Then during the weekends the demographic had more variety. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Yeah, maybe I would find a different population in other studio, maybe it even depends on the day of the week. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I am precisely talking about 8s and not 9s. Do you think it applies as well? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Well, I work in a field dominated by women, I'd say that 70-80% of the employees are women, including even higher positions. Other than that, I'm actually doing yoga. I love it. Funnily enough it's one of the places people say hot women go, but although I find attractive women there, I see no 8s. To be fair I meet one on Saturday but she was too preppy for my taste, still, she counts. But it's one on 50 or so. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 09:29 PM |
| 8 | why do men hate it when u play their games"i" think you have other problems that should be a priority right now. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Yeah, and they are not so attractive, at least in the places I get my groceries. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Alright but I'm not talking about getting them hahahaha. I never even mentioned I wanted one, I'm asking about where they are at. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.You are fine, I just find a lot of people on reddit (and this sub specifically) that like to change the topic a lot. None of your comments has nothing to do with the OP. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Oh come on, she's hiding actively. Not a good example. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Do I have to be an 8/10 to ask where they are at? Just curious. I am a 7-8/10 depending who you ask, women consider me attractive and I've pulled 8s before. But I don't know how this is relevant. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 14 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Even with loose sweatpants the figure is still there. Women with beautiful figures do really have to put effort if they want to hide it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Exactly, it's like a dude with wide shoulders, it doesn't matter what he wears, he will look huge and masculine. A good ass it's impossible to hide unless they wear an oversized hoodie. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I'm going to copy a message I just wrote: "False, if you think you need makeup to be an 8 then you are just coping. Still, you can't makeup your body and it's been a while since I saw a woman with an impressive body around there. Actually I did one month ago or so, she was wearing no makeup and she looked cute (not pretty, cute). The thing is that her body was crazy. That's an 8 with no make up, just wonderful genetics and wonderful curves. Maybe in her best day she'd been a 10, but even in her … | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Girls considered 8s by the majority of men ofc. Did you really think I was describing girls that are a 4? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:19 PM |
| 23 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.And how did they meet their boyfriends? Don't they even have friends or something to do outside their home? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I didn't mention "to get guys", I'm asking about where they are, generally speaking. They should have a life right? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Because they are people and should have a life I assume. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Exactly, the last line is more of what I was going for. I accept the current market I'm at, but I'm still surprised about the amount of hotter women I find with my current life (low). In my case, I already mentioned it, I'm prioritizing other things before dating/meeting truly hot women. The thing is that the profile of women I am meeting is closer to the profile of women I actually want, but feels like there's a limit of attractiveness I should expect from the women I do meet. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:12 PM |
| -2 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.False, if you think you need makeup to be an 8 then you are just coping. Still, you can't makeup your body and it's been a while since I saw a woman with an impressive body around there. Actually I did one month ago or so, she was wearing no makeup and she looked cute (not pretty, cute). The thing is that her body was crazy. That's an 8 with no make up, just wonderful genetics and wonderful curves. Maybe in her best day she'd been a 10, but even in her casual attire she was smoking. Did I see an… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Exactly, this is what I was going for. If I could get what I want without leaving my comfort zone I won't probably do it. It would make me more boring and a loser but I won't know. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I said I'm not going to the gym anymore, and yeah, there were hot girls there. I do exercise and I go to places where I can meet both men and women. Feels like truly hot girls who exercise only go to the gym. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Okay bro, let me grab my whole office and plant it on Vietnam. If you think it's that easy to move countries, you are really privileged. EDIT: I'm not complaining that I cannot find 8s, I'm asking where they are at outside of the gym, social media and nightlife and you keep mentioning that I have to move lol. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Are you AI? This comment has nothing to do with the previous one. Moving to one place or anothe it's not an option for everyone lol. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.Yeah but what about the girls that are really good looking but are not wealthy? And I'm not talking about third world countries or anything like that, you have plenty of neighborhoods in any city where people are not wealthy at all and girls are hot as well. I'm trying to think about women I know that are hot but not wealthy, and they fit into that, they barely have hobbies outside of the gym or their preferred exercise (if any) and they only go out during the night or events (festival, concerts… | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.My question is "where are the girls that are 8s or above"? Not what I have to do to find them or get them. This post is more of an observation. Did you read the post or did you read just the bare minimum so you can spam me with one of your articles? | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Feels like truly hot girls (8/10 or higher) are so hard to find outside of nightgame, social media or events.I never said I'm ignoring the 7s, I actually found women that I truly like... and are not 8s. Nightgame is deceiving, you are right, but as I said before, I could find women in the gym (for example) that looked amazing with not so much makeup. Yeah yeah, gym clothes are deceiving as well, but still. I'm asking where the 8s are. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Touché | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Talking stage with a goth barista. Need perspective and tips.While painting the picture you painted yourself as well. I knew you were in your early 20s just by reading the title. I can also assume that you are not alternative at all am I right? | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Talking stage with a goth barista. Need perspective and tips.As soon as I realised that you have to insists on how she looks like, I knew you had 0 chance. A guy who thinks that there's a specific way to pick up alternative girls just lacks of social calibration and that usually means that you fail with girls, a lot. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Yes, everything men say, do or think is calculated to hurt women and you will downvote anything that doesn't state that 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?I'm saving this one if you don't mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:37 PM |
| -1 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”This is true, the only exceptions might be women who are truly introverts or damaged from a previous relationship, so they have to wait but not because of the guy, but because of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:24 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Because you are trying to prove a point that you just made on your own lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:13 PM |
| 11 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?This experience is common but I don't think it's something new. Maybe it's time to normalize asking about kinks earlier in the dating process, people tend to assume too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:40 PM |
| 15 | Why is it that young women are so into kinky sex?You have a point, but keep in mind that not everyone is hooked to porn. Don't let them discourage you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 09:02 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?You think so? I barely drink and I've asked girls out inviting her for drinks, not because I was calculating, but because "that's what we do", guess what, I ended up more tipsy than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 07:25 PM |
| 29 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Because it's a socially acceptable date and the "standard" one. People will overthink everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | 32M, Can i still succeed in seduction after mental health sickness?Thanks, I'll be back to you in a couple of hours maximum. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 04:16 PM |
| 4 | RP men are not viewing women’s experiences on par with their own.Well put, most people tend to generalize and it doesn't matter what the topic is, pretty much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | 32M, Can i still succeed in seduction after mental health sickness?I'm curious about a couple of things, could I DM you? | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | 32M, Can i still succeed in seduction after mental health sickness?Yeah, you can definitely succeed. Don't get discouraged by your own thoughts, take it easy, one step at a time. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How to market yourself properly on dating apps for the first time? What to expect with women on dating apps?Expect nothing and everything, each one has a different experience. But generally speaking, you will match with people that don't want to actually date you, you will need dozens of matches before dating one of them (typically). | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Impossible to find someone in AKFor the weather? Do you like Alaskan weather? | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 08:19 PM |
| 14 | Impossible to find someone in AKI mean, one doesn't move to Alaska to get laid bro. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Time wastersIt happened to me, it could also be a way to make her bf jealous or, you know, trying to make him work harder. "There are people out there that take care of me more than you do!" Type of shit. So at the end of the day she's playing with 2 men to get all the emotional support she needs. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Time wastersThis happened to me in 2022 and that girl made me change the way I view women. Bottomline: I became less interested overall, especially when it comes to bonding. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 11:47 AM |
| 3 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?I think OP wants us to share insights we got from our experience that cannot be proven easily, that's why he called them theories. A theory is yet to be proven. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:18 PM |
| 4 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Yes I agree. If you don't escalate quickly, maybe you won't at all. It also works the other way around, if you are not escalating quickly, it's because you can't. If you learn how to find it out quickly you'll save yourself a lot of time. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:14 PM |
| 7 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Correct , but it's not a theory and it's definitely proven. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:13 PM |
| 13 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?This is correct, but can be proven. I won't call it a theory, but a main quality of the seducer. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:12 PM |
| 27 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Nah. If she's attracted to you, it doesn't matter what you do. You can build attraction by making her intrigued and of course you have to detach yourself from the outcome. The thing is that most people don't understand what attraction actually is. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 16 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?You did not understand my comment. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Dance teacher. You guys are a little bit clueless if no one has said this before. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 07:19 PM |
| 120 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?It's actually possible to prove it, but here's mine: Most techniques and strategies in dating and seducing are valuable only to prove that they work and you don't actually need them. If you develop a magnetic personality, lifestyle and appearance, you will pull by being in your own skin and getting exposure. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that doesn't like his current clothes but struggles when it comes to find fashion he likes?I'm actually really happy with the way I look like, when it comes to face, hair, facial hair and body. Still, I feel like every item is stupid or not enough, | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How to meet & get with more alt/arty/emo/goth girl?Be similar enough to them in terms of fashion, or at least, you gotta have a non-normie lifestyle | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one that doesn't like his current clothes but struggles when it comes to find fashion he likes?You are absolutely right, if I ever want to travel to India or I need clothes like that, I will do it. I cannot leave my country for many reasons at the moment, but you got me thinking. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that doesn't like his current clothes but struggles when it comes to find fashion he likes?I see, so it can be worth it if you need to dress business casual or formal, definitely. With only a few suits you can make the whole trip be worth it. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that doesn't like his current clothes but struggles when it comes to find fashion he likes?I will take in consideration everything you said but let me ask you something: is India that cheap? Lol. I just googled how much it would cost me to fly there and the cheapest flights would be around 1k, not to mention that I also need to find hotels and so on, the jet lag will be crazy and also the trip would be more than 15h in total. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that doesn't like his current clothes but struggles when it comes to find fashion he likes?You have a point, and I've picked up women while being dressed horribly, actually when I met my ex I wore clothes that didn't suit me at all, as well as hairstyle and beard, and she was the hottest woman I've ever slept with. That being said, maybe it's an insecurity I've developed recently, since it didn't happen before. I think I'm trying to pair up with people that I work with, or maybe it's because I really want to look better and the fashion part frustrates me. I'm comfortable with my beard… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?Well, there are a lot of kids in this village, there is a high school and elementary school, both of them relatively big for the size of the place itself, this means there are a lot of middle aged people there having lots of kids, so the population might be younger. They also have a hospital and a church. I'm not counting on a lot of single, young people, but as I said before I met a local and told me that there are more single women than I'd count on initially. I don't think it's going to be my… | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?Nope, it's my second language. How would you say it in this context? | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?I see what you mean. I definitely need to consider it. | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?I'm thinking about selling my car since it would be an extra expense and I don't think I'm going to be using it too much, it's something I have to consider. But if it helps with my social life it might be worth keeping. I need to research what the environment has to offer, maybe if there's truly nowhere to drive, I will sell it just to save some money (insurance + permits is about 1400$). What do you think? Would it multiply my options socially speaking? | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?Befriending the men should be easy, I already met a guy that is a local and he told me that he wants to teach me how to hunt. He also told me that there are more single women that I would initially imagine, he's late 40's, married and has 4 kids so he doesn't see me as competence so I assume he's honest. I've lived in small towns but not that small, my record so far was 60k, so I got used to find the same people everywhere at all times. I also experienced everything you described but I figure it… | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Moving to a 6.000 inhabitants village. Am I cooked?Dating apps? I'm not sure if I could find a single soul there. Someone that lives there told me that there are more single women than I'd expect, I asked him in all honesty and he replied. Of course I worded it in a different way but he immediately realized what I was truly asking. | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | The Most Dangerous Mindset I See as a Men’s Dating CoachI don't know if the story is real or maybe this Bruno guy is, but the message is clear and I agree. Sadly, I am one of those sometimes. I'm getting out of there as well. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:43 PM |
| 28 | Brazilian girls in CarnivalThe reason why it seems to be easier is because in those countries people are easy-going and laid back, so it's easier to make friends faster, including FwB or just getting laid. Also, when you travel you are on vacation mode, which helps. So no, it's not magical, but it helps. | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?Because some people agree | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?Yes, so I can give them my view on this question | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 01:28 PM |
| -22 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?I didn't assume anything, it's a comment. People will have different reactions to your questions and concern. You can always ignore it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | O que torna uma mulher extremamente diferenciada no sexo?I know enough Portuguese to understand your question, and what I can say is that you are in the wrong sub, lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Hardest and easiest country to get lucky or game in your experience?Oh please, don't ask these questions, everyone has different experiences. And please don't travel just to improve your chances of getting laid, travel for fun and exploration, if you get laid while you do, nice job, but let it there. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedNow that I'm job hunting after a while, I realized that getting laid is like getting a job. You don't want to have a thousand interviews, you want to land a job that suits your needs. The same applies to sex and relationships: you want a social and sexual life that satisfies you and fits your lifestyle. Anything else is pointless. I'm not talking about getting the perfect partner, maybe you want a couple of cool and reliable FwB and that's it. It depends on you, but after reading your post even … | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedDon't forget to tell us if you do. Now I'm curious. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 06:42 PM |
| 21 | is this even possible ?Have you ever seen him doing it or are you just believing everything he says? Once this is settled, I got offered money to bang, but I never accepted. The setting was different, since I spend a lot of time around older, upper class ladies due to my hobbies and career. I've also been invited to things by women, but never "make them" do it, it happened that they were wealthier than me at the time and they wanted to do so. I also know a guy that used to do similar stuff, his body count at the time … | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Is hookup culture cooked?Are you me? Lol The only difference is that I'm not doing amazing either online or IRL, but feels like nowadays it's hard for people who don't have an active social life or strong online presence. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 3 | The only reason you are single is your locationI've been in Colombia. It's easier to socialize and people are more willing to go on dates and have sex in general, as simple as that. It's cultural. People get laid there more. | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Stop Following Outdated Dating Advice!Excuse me but getting your shit together is attractive, what are you talking about? I've experienced it as well, going from student to someone working on a decent enough field makes a difference. | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesIf you really want to be a male prostitute, I can give you a couple of insights I got from this. But you gotta be hot and they will be your mum's age, keep that in mind. I'm passing... | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesHonestly, considering that not everyone can be famous (it's impossible) I would change the #1 for networking/connections, or maybe visibility in a certain community. I've seen it before, I've experienced it, even if you are a guy, you meet another guy that everyone knows and go "uuh?", like there has to be something about them. Most guys in this sub, including me (maybe) cannot choose to be famous, but everyone can be better known in a community, and networking is a skill everyone can work on. I… | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 02:00 AM |
| 3 | you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashedBro, move on. She's not your wife, she's entitled to do whatever she feels like. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 01:39 PM |
| 7 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?Not in dating apps for sure. I'm like the guys you are describing and in order to meet me at this point of my life it's either networking or we meet through hobbies. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 01:22 AM |
| 5 | No wonder most dudes stay stuck - how are you supposed to get better at game without real time feedback?That's why you need male friends, men have been figuring it out since the beginning of time. Also, OFC, not every single man ever was a player, some of them ended up getting married because they had to. Anyways, although you have a point, society doesn't have an answer for all of your concerns and inquiries. There are a lot of musicians that figure out their skills on their own, and some of them might be your favorite artists (likely, since I don't know you). It's a simple comparison but it's th… | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Meh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 02:30 PM |
| 2 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Well, maybe I'm not on the internet that much so I can't be helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 02:51 AM |
| -3 | PSA: Living with roommates in cool area is way better for logistics than living by yourself way out in the suburbsThis kind of posts will stop making sense soon enough, we are reaching the point where people live where they can, not where they choose. I have a personal theory, kinda hard to accept, but I think at some point only wealthy guys will get laid consistently, for things like this one. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?do they? I'm a man and I don't give a shit about who dates who. But answering your question: men who dislike what women in terms of dating are unsuccesful in dating or just insecure. Generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 12:33 AM |
| 0 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Men like eye candy more than women (oftentimes). That's why they follow these types of women. They don't want to date them, they just want to appreciate their beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsIf you are not desirable then it doesn't matter what you do. Start there first. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 03:28 PM |
| 13 | Cockblock from society, reddit, and AIHow does AI cockblocks you exactly? | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?Actually I'm not dating that much at this point in time, but I'm having success with women in their 30s and I'm fine with it for now. Will I go for younger women later on? Yeah, but right now I'm not willing to put the effort, so I'm just enjoying the people that are around me already. I'm in a not so social stage of my life. | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Do you feel guilty for approaching college girls when you’re older?I'm in the same boat and around your age. I don't feel attracted to any woman below 24ish or so, there might be exceptions but generally speaking I said what I said. I can't even tell you why, it's odd. As soon as they open their mouths I go like "meh". | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How to drastically improve your personality and social skills if you're under 30Working as a bartender is also a good idea, but depending on your lifestyle can be really taxing | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Starting to prefer only going for those who make it easy for meI think this is a matter of valuing your time and resources as a whole rather than the girls themselves. Yeah, you are getting older but this is a good thing, you are already busy with work, bills, taxes, insurances and so on. You value your quality time with people that matter to you. I'm 100% sure that the same applies to your current friendships, family members even. Am I right? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | It still surprises me how easily some guys get dates or hook-ups through social mediaIt's a matter of positive pre selection + he's just confident, looks effortless and he is just easy going. Other than that, just ask him. "Hey Mark, so I normally do just alright with girls but through social media, it looks like fucking hell. I'm just curious about your experience, what do you think?" And keep going, just have a conversation. He sounds like a cool and approachable guy, being his friend already gives you an advantage. | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Level Up in Life: Quit Video Games and Start Winning for RealLol Life is about balancing | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Is Models by Mark Manson basically saying you should act like you have Asperger’s?What does suave mean in this context? Also, what are you trying to say with the last one? What would be an Asergers way to show your feelings? | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Work in Night LifeIt was just an extra comment that I felt like dropping. I also have experience working during the night, now I'm a "day person". What you said is right, but there's much more out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Work in Night LifeI am confused, when did I said nothing? I don't think the knowledge you can get from the night is useless, other than that, I still think everything I said in the original comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/24 12:35 AM |
| 18 | Work in Night LifeWhat happens during the night it's not always a direct reflection of what happens in life, working during the night teaches you, mainly, to stay away from it and don't trust people who spend much time of their lifes during the night. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/24 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?What the hell is insecurity farming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 03:06 AM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendYeah pretty much. It's a really dramatic way to put it in words but yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:26 PM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendYeah pretty much. It's a really dramatic way to put it in words but yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendI don't know her that much... but she is chronically on the internet. Attractive girls don't need dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendNo one gives a fuck about a lonely man, and if they are attractive, at least they will get sexual attention that most of the time won't be even worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendI know a girl that literally refuses to go out or meet new people and is still sexually active. For men this is ultra rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What's the red pill explanation of why girls get tattoos?Do you really think that tattoos and piercings are impulsive acts? I'm not saying that they can be, but it's not 100% of the cases. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/24 04:00 PM |
| 2 | The Permanent Game Noob & The Autistic AlphaOf course, you are totally right and I agree, it's the easiest way. However, I wanted to point that it's not impossible to gain social skills without friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | The Permanent Game Noob & The Autistic AlphaI was about to post asking exactly that, because I'd fit into that category. At this point of my life I gained more than enough social skills to get along with almost anyone, I can go on my own to any event and talk to people if I want to, but I don't have a strong social circle because I moved 2 years ago and I've been busy. On top of that, I'm in a cynical stage and I am not exactly looking foward to pursue a social life, if I have to be totally honest. That's the #1 reason why I'm not having … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/24 11:28 PM |
| 2 | The Permanent Game Noob & The Autistic AlphaMaybe you can learn social skills through interacting with people you see in a daily basis, like the workplace, uni, or the gym. If you ever emigrate you will gain a lot as well. I have a friend that says that any weird guy can learn social skills if he works in a bar for enough time. Those are a couple of ideas I can think of right now on how to gain social skills if you don't have friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).I'm already looking better, there's a lot of work left to do but the path to get back the muscle is faster than the process of getting it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | women who want to fuck will find a way to fuckis that first pharagraph from the same material OP mentions? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | women who want to fuck will find a way to fuckI had a pretty similar experience as the first one you described, I just wanted to say that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Are all women past a certain age (e.g. 27/28) alpha widows?Disagree, is like asking if every succesful guy (in dating) has been hearthbroken and that's what made him learn. Actually most guys that I know that are doing really good never had that phase. Every person ever, no matter if they are men or women, have had that experience before, being interested in someone that had more avialable partners. It's what we call dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/24 01:05 AM |
| 8 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadBro, think about this for your second, the next time this happens just do it but not for you, but for your son. Hear me out, do you want your son to grow up confident and social? Or shy and retracted? If you start showing him that you can start conversations with strangers out of nowhere, laugh together or even flirt a little bit with women of any age, he will remember that when he is growing up and he will have a better time around strangers. I once saw in a line a single dad with his 2 sons fl… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?The thing is that people in the gym don't seem to friendly here. In my country it was easy to make friends at the gym. Also, I normally go and focus on my thing. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:17 PM |
| -1 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?If you are self conscious about not having experience there's only one way to get it. What would you suggest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:18 AM |
| 0 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?There's no solution. Go and experience life, find someone you like, try, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:11 AM |
| 2 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?I've met countless people that have weaker and poorer social and sexual lifes than they would desire to, and none of them are actually happy about it. My life experience has been really wide but kind of shitty, I'm not trying to play the victim but it's true, I've met a lot of broken souls, too many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 03:03 AM |
| 3 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?So anyone but women with an alright social and sexual life. Not so common at least in the west. I know a couple, late 20s, that have 0 experience with sex and relationships and they make a good couple, they didn't care about each other experiences. But they are the only 2 people of that particular religion I've ever met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:54 AM |
| 5 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?Well said. Lying is the biggest red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:46 AM |
| 4 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?Strongly disagree. Even women say it. But I think we are not going to have a healthy debate about it. How would you describe the type of people that won't care? Probably virgins or women with no experience as well, religious fanatics and so on. For a woman with a healthy social and sexual life, it's either a red flag or an undesirable trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?You are right about it. But what I'm trying to address here is that no matter how you sell it, being inexperienced is negative, in both men and women, but it's harsher for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:38 AM |
| 6 | How to chase girls while still leaving them unsure you are interested?"surrounded by different circles of people" Easier said than done, it's hard in this era. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/24 02:33 AM |
| 17 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?I'm a guy and I think being honest about it is still a red flag. Like no matter what you do, there's nothing positive of being +25 with no experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 02:31 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?I see, and maybe you are right. For sure something will happen. In the meantime, almost every activity that mixes young men and women (likely single) is indirectly an extension of the dating scene. It's impossible to find an activity where there are NO men hitting on the women there, and women that are open to it. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?In a way, it does exist in large cities, those kind of multilingual people events. And yeah, you can imagine the outcome. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Has the long game ever worked for anyone?The only few times it did, it was because he decided to reach me and not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:44 PM |
| 4 | 'Daygame only works in capital tourist places'When traveling, people are more prompt to go for casual relationships, it's not rocket science. Probably op can improve (as everyone else) but he has a point. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:43 PM |
| 4 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?I don't consider myself proud at all, like I have let my friends to find me dates and so on, if I met someone interesting in any situation I won't care about the context. But I do have a strong personality and I value myself and my time a lot. That's why I'm resistant to this kind of things. Also, experience has taught me that you'll find the best people organically and unexpectedly, or through genuine interests. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:18 PM |
| 14 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?So you literally got scammed, lol. I hope you dropped a bad review. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?The thing is that rn "I'm on my way" to the type of life I'm pursuing and I don't have too much money (neither I'm broke), I was just wondering if this is an activity worth it to try in the future. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:53 PM |
| 6 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?That's exactly why I'm not so inspired to go to "activities to meet new people", even if it's to make friends. I know it's a stigma but for real I don't find it appealing at all. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?I'm still trying to figure that out lol. Because the type of woman I'm looking for doesn't go out too much, and hitting on girls at the gym or in a yoga class it's not a good idea. Never. I genuinely like yoga btw but I suck at it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:41 PM |
| 32 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?Dude, if you are ok with it, I'm going to steal this story and use it as a joke, since I do stand up comedy 🤣. This fits my style. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:41 PM |
| 5 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?So, are you suggesting that the efficacy of the event it's contextual? | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:50 PM |
| 4 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?But considering how you just described it, seems like unless you are already successful you are loosing your time there. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 8 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?Can you elaborate on that last one? Because with the rest of the information you provided, it doesn't seem like a place where you can get success with your personality | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 186 | I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressedFind out what you really want and go for it. Casual sex doesn't make everyone happy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | A simple, actionable hack you can do right now to help you deal with approach anxietyHe also mentioned what he called "the cowboy", which consists on placing one (or even both) hands on your belt (just the thumb you know) like if you were about to draw, this position makes the speaker avoid weird hand movements that make them look insecure or nervous. One more time, this is a noob move since it makes you look less nervous but less convincing on your speech. This was like 10 years ago and I still remember, guy was good at communicating for sure, he made me retain this information… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | A simple, actionable hack you can do right now to help you deal with approach anxietyI met a debater once and he told me that novice debaters would hold a pen in order to reduce their anxiety, it's a good way to spot a noob in a competition but outside of this niche scene no one would fucking know, lol. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Porn girl bad. Real girl good.In my particular case, when I was struggling it was a mix of depression and not giving a fuck at all. Now I realise that it's a basic adult thing to give a fuck about the cleanliness and order of your own place, decorations even (although I like to keep things simple). We don't need a woman to carry us, and they don't need us neither, that's the biggest lesson you can get from dating. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Porn girl bad. Real girl good.Oh yeah, this is a powerful insight. I personally have always struggled with cleaning but now I'm actually enjoying it (in a way, it's tedious obviously), I think it is a clear sign of growth. I feel happy for you, good work recovering from your addictions! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.The thing is that, being both of them socially akward and kind of delusional people, I won't have date my mother honestly. But yeah, they make a good couple. I never said that you have to match society's standards to have a relationship or anything like that, just find a good fit and don't fuck up. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for helping me find a 6-year LTR. It all ended just as you said it would.So you literally changed because you had to, basically, satisfy your needs, then your wife is not happy anymore. She just wanted you for what you were currently, and not for the person you are, that is indeed, looking for change. Relationships that last longer are normally based on mutual trust and that involves the willingless to understand each other. Long story short, you had to divorce her anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/24 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Are girls built this way?In my particular experience, I've also found that women tend to test your patience, directly or indirectly. If you feel like she's ignoring you, yes, move on because you will probably have better things to do. But sometimes they will be back. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:27 PM |
| 4 | The double standards around male standardsAt this point of my life I literally think that everyone who has a lot of opinions about a gender is dumb. Honestly. Like just live your life and stop thinking what's wrong with men or women, choose the partner and people you are comfortable with and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.It's true that some guys give up too soon, that's why sometimes the "if she's not giving you full attention then she doesn't want anything, move on" advice is kind of toxic and somewhat bad advice. But also, there are guys who don't know when it's over. I don't think sticking around forever it's a good thing either. She has to have some interest in you at least. Right now I'm in a position with a girl I like that might work if I do the same thing my dad did, but she already gave me signs that ma… | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.My dad was the classic 80's nerd, but not bad looking, a little bit above average maybe. He was socially akward but had a decent social life. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.you are literally making this up | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.He stick around that much and was so insisting that at some point she had to say yes. He went full tryhard mode, even learned to play guitar to impress her. But she was also convinced at that point. Anyways, it's not a good example at all I think hahahaha. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 01:21 AM |
| 2 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.You are the one crying here, writing with caps it's the most childish and lame thing you can do online. I don't recall mentioning my own results here. The post was about an observation of the game, as literally every other post here. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Share some knowledge then dude, do you have any experiences that would throw more light into this particular statement? | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.I never said that game is pointless. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.It's an attractive trait, not a deal-breaker. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.It's kinda my history as well, but I am still trying to figure it out. I'm doing better but I'm not done, and the way is more what you are describing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:05 PM |
| 121 | Porn girl bad. Real girl good."you don't have to spend hours cleaning your room for a lady if you clean it regularly for you already" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Fair enough, it also removes the burden from your shoulders. Sometimes she's just not interested (or might be but for one reason or another she's not available). Nothing would have been different if your clothes looked better, your jokes were better, or your cologne was on point. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 6 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.I never said that you should stop trying, just to chill up a little bit. Often times people come here asking "but what did I do wrong?" and sometimes is literally nothing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 5 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.I like this one, pretty much summarizes what seduction is for me, and has been for the longest time | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How to handle dating a friend of someone who used to bully me?Everything I can say, is that you are in the wrong sub for this kind of questions. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.It can fail right away tough. And maybe I exaggerated, it's likely that guys who have all the chances can fuck it up as well. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 0 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Okay what about if I put it this way, this is what I said in the OP BUT, if she's not at all into the guy, no amount of game will change it, she won't even give him a chance. As long as you are not here, you are safe. She had to at least, have seen something in you, even if it's a "he can change my mind" thought. About the first section of your comment, you are right, maybe I assumed too fast and I needed more context. Still, I think there's an important nuance, there's a huge difference between… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:34 PM |
| 5 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Okay I get it and I agree, I also had that experience. What I'm saying here, is that at some point they started being interested at least, am I right? | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:28 PM |
| 23 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Hold on, I agree with the last statement. What I'm trying to say here, is that if you don't pass her tresholds, you won't do it. As simple as that. Sometimes people here state that unless she's showing herself ultra receptive right away, you better move on to the next one, and I know that attraction can be built on time. The thing is that if she's not remotely attracted to you, no amount of game will save you. That was my point. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 7 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Considering your comment, you are literally saying the same thing as I said in the op. Like, they will date you if your game is working, but there will be many others that won't date you at all no matter how good you are, and it doesn't have to do anything with you being black, they will just perceive you as non attractive. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 13 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.Not only looks but yeah, agreed. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Girls that leaves you on read/seen/liked the messageI would like to add that generally speaking IG is meant to just build some rapport through small interactions and set up dates/meetings. It is not necessary to have full conversation or flirt through text, but it can be good sometimes. This also applies to friendships if you ask me, but we are not talking about that rn. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl who’s “too busy this week” for a datesometimes it can be true, the point here is, is she rescheduling? In my personal experience, if they offer to reschedule they are actually busy/tired/sick, if they don't you can move on. Also, sometimes they say they are busy, you just nod your head, and later on they offer to meet. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceIt's starting to get proved, we are doomed. So just get out of your screens and you'll be good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | In 2024, is "emotionally unavailable" a woman's default state?It's not like the world has gone nuts, it's that you are not in college anymore. Back in the day in high school I had similar experiences. Think about college (high school too) as a micro-society. You are definetly overthinking | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?This is super important, actually, as rude as it might sound, if I'm dating a girl I don't want her to meet some of my friends soon lol, since they are let's say, not a good reference. Like, all of the people I have in my life are good people, but some of them are messy, wild(ish), or not so well-behaved, so it's better to wait until some rapport is already built with the girl and you guys have something going. "Remember my friend Steve, the one that refuses to shave and has lost some jobs becau… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).Actually I'm more confident now that back in the day when I was more muscular. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/24 01:44 AM |
| 6 | Crucial last moment texting shit test.Last time something similar happened to me I did something similar, what I normally say is, not literally but at the same it's what it means: "I will go anyways, if you change your mind I'll see you there", which is true. Sometimes she comes sometimes she doesn't, but I follow my plan. And yeah, the stream of text apologizing or joking blablabla always happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Pick a woman (I actually think this game is fun)you know, if Melissa used a little bit of makeup, would be my type 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 11:43 AM |
| 0 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedI feel like I know the basics about everything, maybe Eurovision is too much for me but I can keep track of the mainstream stuff. I learned the basics of Fortnite because I was interested in being more appealing and look cooler to children, what i did was literally ask them "okay what is this about", it can be a good idea too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).That's totally true, although the process makes us stronger as well, and more precious as human beings. After all of this shit I've met really good friends I must say, and our connections were precisely because of that. The thing is that we go through a process when we are working on anything, and even if the results are not enough, the process makes us a different person. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports.You have some valid points but you are mostly wrong, every man that is not doing good, can do a lot of things to improve for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).Dude, go and touch some grass, you didn't even need one minute to reply. A mod read this post and I talked with him about it, he approved. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).I used the word vanity here because I honestly think I don't need more muscle to be happy, I've had dates and met a lot of interesting people, new friendships etc. I miss it but I don't need it. It's just for my own delight, pretty much. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).I don't even know what gooning is. As I said I lost a lot of it but not the entirety of it, I've worked out these years, a bit, enough to keep some. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).You haven't read anything haven't you? I'm more confident now than before, when I had more muscle. This is about how people treat you when you have muscle Vs when you don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 02:54 AM |
| 6 | Why do people bring politics into the pill spectrum when women like alpha males no matter what their politics?For a serious relationship it matters since it can be a huge source of arguments and views... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 7 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).at least in the Western world, it does. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/24 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).I will get my muscles back, at least most of it, but I'm doing it for pure vanity, I'm not dependant on it. And as I said, I feel happy and can achieve my goals and get girls with this body. I will get my muscles back because of pure vanity lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).In my experience you are right, but at the same time we can always improve our looks, and it's not that hard, specially if we enjoy working out. I won't take it as seriously as I used to do, but I'm working out consistently 3-4 times a week, eat healthy foods and so on. Personality improves as we get more experienced and confident. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:36 PM |
| 16 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).something that pisses me off is when I see younger kids that are strong, looking at me like if I was an insect or whatever, it makes me realise how much they still have to learn. Then you meet a middle aged lifter and they behave like the gentlemen they are regarding of the physical shape of the person they are talking to. I made friends with a 19 years old guy recently, he was strong asf, plays football and so on. The fact that he was so humble and friendly made me realise instantly that he was… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:30 PM |
| 16 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).Having a strong sense of humour is a really good skill and pays off, but it's not all of it. In my personal experience humor + swiftness are really good traits to have and develop, but looking good is important too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:23 PM |
| 24 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).Dude, you won't believe how much I relate. I think the fact that I still get attention from girls, besides the fact that I still look healthy and fit, is the inner strength. Even when I don't look that muscular I act like if I was. If I need a spotter at the gym, I go and ask the biggest guy around without any embarrasment, and they are normally happy to help because every man loves to feel helpful and trustworthy. If I like a girl and I feel like it's okay to approach, I do, if I get rejected I… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones).Actually dude, I'm happy the way I look, as I said I want to look bigger because of pure vanity lol, I don't think it will make me more happy. Anyways I won't delete this post and maybe I will be back to you and tell you that you are right, who knows. Gym is fun and makes you feel good, also, I want to experience what they say, that muscles can come back fairly easily, I'm going to become an experiment for myself too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I hit milestones but then they feel like they don't mean anythingProgress is still progress, you are doing better than most guys that are reading this, including me (I must admit). Frustration is a part of growth. | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedIf you are attractive enough to pass the minimun, behaviour and personality matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subTate sucks, but from time to time said something wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:56 PM |
| 6 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedIt's also fun to have friends regarless of their gender, friendships are meant to be enjoyable, not useful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 4 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedBehaviour is also important in attractiveness, I hope when you mention attractiveness you are not talking about physical exclusively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 4 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedMost women give dating advice that goes in the line of "be friendly and at some point someone will like you" but then you see that most married guys are not "friends" with their wives, they have a really high sense of respect and even admiration for their couples, but they don't talk about them like if they were friends. How to translate this into dating? I'm still trying to figure it out, but for now, being the one that always has a plan and being capable of carrying the whole thing seems like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedDon't you think that getting into something just because it's popular and women will get it is lowkey clingy and needy? For me the "I don't give a fuck about soccer" has worked better than actually trying to pretend that I give a fuck about it. Having a strong and defined opinion is sexy, but developing an opinon just because women will get it doesn't sound like a plan to me. But I shall admit that, with the last girl I talked to (and eventually dated), it all started with a couple of mainstream… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:34 PM |
| 2 | I've found that, contrary to what women say, one's ability to be friends with women and one's ability to be romantic with them are unrelatedI mean, it's not that is unrelated, I think having women as friends when you are a guy it's positive for a wide variety of reasons, one of the most important, at some point you will have a couple and you will already know many things about women's lifestyle and needs. But being friends with a lot of women and understanding them as friends won't make you more appealing for your girl friends or women in general. Still, I disagree with some guys around there, you can hookup with your friends too, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)Hey, I was kinda joking. Maybe I'm getting old and grumpy, just that, but I think this is pretty basic. It's just my stupid opinion. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 6 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)Hey, I was kinda joking. Maybe I'm getting old and grumpy, just that, but I think this is pretty basic. It's just my stupid opinion. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 33 | The more she likes you, the easier things are going to be, don’t be that guy paying the premium (unless you don’t mind ofc)Attractive guys have it easier? Nice I'm waiting for your next post covering the issue about the water being wet. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultOh wow, so you had to stay healthy, fit, go out and have fun? Sounds hard and boring. Plus, going out was more affordable back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultI don't get your questions Life was simpler, no social media, no bullshit, just people living the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultBro, come on, most gen xrs don't know who they are... There will always be guys struggling at flirting and so on, I'm talking about social dynamics and the non-existence of social media, apps, and other things we have to deal with. Life was simpler. And what about boomers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultI have a lot of friends that are early millenials/genxrs that describe a whole different dating scene. Hell, everything was brighter and funnier, even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultwhat about the gen x for instance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultdude what about the gen x, for instance, ahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Dating is easier for women and it's men's faultThis is true, but some decades ago it wasn't like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.r/TheTenthDentist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.I get your point now, even considering the generalisation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.but you need another human being to have sex with, that's dependance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:40 AM |
| – | How are women treated post-wall? Scared of being alone and thrown away.I'm happy for you but... you probably are really attractive, most women around your age don't have the same experience, specially if they have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.I could say a lot of things about this but the one that got my attention is the following: sexually dependent on women So... what are straight men meant to do? Just masturbate? I mean, we don't neet sex to live a fulfilling life, but you talked about straight men like if their lifes can be perfectly complete without sex. I can accept your post if you talked about romance but in order to NOT be dependant what should men do then? Go asexual? Shut down their sexual drive even if it's not high at al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:20 PM |
| 14 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.I'm not upset at women wanting an attractive guy, I'm just pissed at the ones that say that "for me it doesn't matter" and then it does. Yeah, it also applies to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | There’s a reason why regular women do not want to date a man who has used the service of a lot of escorts, and no, it’s not just the possibility of STDThis is a super interesting take, but at the same time, I highly doubt that most men that use escorts have weird fetishes. What would you think about men who use escorts to have vanilla sex? I think it's relatively safe to assume that they are majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI never said that a guy with basic hygiene is high SMV, that's something you decided to make up. I'm talking about SMV within the same type, there are guys my type that have 0 SMV, guys who have a decent enough one and guys who have higher SMV, and all of them can fit into the same type. So the whole type thing is not related to SMV, it's like a personal compass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.I think you are right, but you are describing guys that don't know how women are, men that have no real connections with women (friends and family) besides sex or relationships, mainly. So they don't know what a woman is, they are not attracted to women, but to vaginas. On the other hand, I also think that constant rejections make men go nuts and they do things that they will regret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI tried to make a point about the whole "type" thing while linking it to the SMV, if you read the convo again you will realize that we agree on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyLet's put it this way. I am the classic metalhead, I have long hair, play music, have the taste on things you expect, fashion etc. I walk into a venue and I am instantly the hottest guy in the room, why? Because I take fucking showers and I go to the gym, that's why. So most girls who say that their type is a metalhead guy they are not refering to my boy that I used to play with, that drinks a six pack on a daily basis and doesn't know what a razor is. We are the same type of guy and we are grea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyDating implies failing too, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYeah, and I don't like normie bimbo girls, I prefer nerdy girls or even girls that look manly sometimes. The whole point I want to make is that women might have their desires and expectations of dating altered since attractive enough women have the possibility of hooking up with guys that have SMV that they can't keep. In this podcast this lady explains it better, I wish I could give you a timestamp but I don't remember it all: https://youtu.be/qnMX2mz04Cw?si=uvzQI5pQpNZ9nI8V Also, I agree that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI can talk only for myself. EDIT: I would like that women would think twice before thinking that they deserve a relationship with top tier guys just because they can access to their sex (sometimes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:24 AM |
| 0 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyStill, they all had it, at least the ones that are good looking enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 13 | Why do people get personally offended if they aren’t someone’s physical type?I was about to say something similar but you nailed it. If they are already experiencing certain kind of success with people they like, who would care then? But if they get offended is because they don't get positive experiences at all. Rejection is not damaging if it happens once, years of rejections is damaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyDepending with whom. The following statement works regardless of gender but you will meet people that "are not looking for someone" and then a couple of months later they have a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyFirst of all, you don't have to be mean, I'm trying to be polite while making my points, I'm just expecting something similar. Success isn't "granted" with anyone, because relationships require the consent of both individuals. Regardless of their "demand." Even someone in low or no "demand" isn't guaranteed to "grant you a relationship." Ofc, but you are ignoring the fact that people with more options can be more picky wereas for people with not so many options have to build a lot of patience. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyIt's not success to partner with men we don't want. Got it, you have the right to chase the people you desire, as simple as that, but success is not granted with people who are in high demand. You are applying for a job that has dozens of applicants, and not everyone can be a CEO There's no point to giving guys we don't want "a chance." How is that to our benefit? It doesn't benefit you either to spend countless years single just because you think you have a chance to succeed with guys that get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYou made your question in an edit so I didn't manage to read it, please ask again and I will try to reply properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:09 PM |
| -1 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyYou don't have chances with the men you want because they are on high demand and they have other girls. Most women that come to me straightforward are girls that are solidly below my attractiveness and wealth. Then, girls that are just a little bit below ignore me because they can get better guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyMen who fit that category don't have the right to complain, but there are men failing to date women that have less SMV than them because of the reasons OP describes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:02 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyWomen will overlook if a top guy wants them just for sex, and they will also overlook the guys that are on their level that want romance, even when they are trying to date for real, they need to fail a lot to lower their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 07:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyThe problem is that if they'd aimed for the guys they have in front of them instead of aiming for the top guys every girl wants, they will probably had more success, but they prefer to wait for top guys to be romantic towards them and just get pointless sex rather than giving other guys a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:57 PM |
| 6 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyMost attractive women have gotten attention from really gorgeous men, if they get lucky with one these guys they will act like that's the standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONOkay don't get me wrong, I think I haven't expressed myself correctly. You are right, if a girl is into you, there's no questions left, it's going to be clear as water, but sometimes you will also find girls that, over time, will build more attraction towards you. I've been in both situations, and also it happened the other way around, for example, it took me months to feel attracted to my ex, and for her, it took weeks. Also, a girl that used to be fwb with my roommate (they actually slept like… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONMost girls won't be into you right away unless you are Messi or something. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Do you wanna know something even funnier? I've had similar experiences with my instrument too, worst part is that people consider me attractive, I could say I'm attractive enough to be approached by women because that's literally what happens. But women that are just alright can get better guys than me so I'm ignored even considering my skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:09 AM |
| 89 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONIt happened to me recently with this girl. When a girl is, let's say, moderately interested in you, you gotta give her moderate attention, just give her a text from time to time and maybe, just maybe, at some point she will agree to see you and that's when you can invest in her, not before. Or give her no attention at all and let her come to you, it also works (sometimes). Still, nothing is granted, but never is. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What day (and time) of the week do you think is better to set a date? If possible, of course.Me too, the reason is that I prefer to keep the Fridays and Saturdays for myself. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Yoga class, what to do?Don't hit on anyone in a yoga class... If any, just play the social game, get to know them, and at some point maybe you can meet them outside of the class, that's it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What day (and time) of the week do you think is better to set a date? If possible, of course.I personally try to avoid nights if we don't know each other yet. Feels like during the daytime is more "friendly" in a way, better to build some trust. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What day (and time) of the week do you think is better to set a date? If possible, of course.you will come across as no life loser. Which you probably are anyway Bro wtf hahahah. In my particular case it doesn't apply every week. As adults, many of us have not so much to do during many of our weekends, I think it's pretty natural, I honestly think that people's life is way more boring than whe realise, most of my friends spend the weekends at home or doing casual plans such as going for a walk or something like that. Actually, I try to avoid Saturdays for dates since a lot of interestin… | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.If you only nightgame and are looking for a quickie then the answer is still no, You have a lot to learn if you really think this is how it works. If you play the lottery and your chances of winning are 0,000001%, no matter how much you play, it's going to be extremely unlikely, fortunately, there's a lot of things you can do to increase your numbers up to, let's say, 5%. So work on that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellyou are clearly not ready for this conversation a "high value man", will figure it out no matter how deppresing the data is | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well95% of men are not willing to have sex without any kind of filter, if you think like that, congratulations, you are one of them | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellif you are interested only on girls that just want sex or a guy with money, go ahead and fight for them, and yeah, do that, do roids and base your life on how to get wealthier and cockier, you will get them | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellthose men are man childs that are not so far away from a horny ape, and you should not compare yourself to them | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellmaybe you are talking about sex and just sex if that's the case, women have it easier I'm talking about dating and relationship value | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:00 PM |
| 12 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellYou need to meet more women then, because I know many women that are like that. Not everyone is interested in starting a family rn, but the rest of the boxes can be checked. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 01:46 PM |
| -13 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellonly a handfull of them have high dating value without having to put any effort on it, most of them go through their own process, the problem is that we men have no clue about it. I've seen pictures of the girl I'm dating rn when she was 20 and even considering she already had cute traits, she was not even remotely close to her current beauty and it's not a matter of surgeries or fitness, she didn't had her style or grooming figured out at all. And about her lifestyle, whe was lost asf, that's n… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Really slow reader of texts but quick repliereverything you need is to set up a date, if she agrees, you are fine, chats are not to escalate or anything, chats are for building some rapport and then set up a date. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Really slow reader of texts but quick replierthis is how I see it: text is for either build rapport or set up dates, everything else is not worthy of your time or concerns. If they take long to reply, as long as they want to meet you, you are fine. This applies to girls, family and friends. I don't need my bro to reply to my message the same day to be sure about him being my friend, he will just reply at some point. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | ConfusedYou are dating a girl you don't actually like, why? If you just want sex, be kind to her and drop the relationship before you make her lose more time with you, as simple as that. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 11:45 AM |
| 27 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellI used to think like you, then, slowly, through work, I improved my life and manage to get some girls. Guess what? Most girls in their mid 20's (the age I aim for) that are above average in looks, personality, lifestyle etc have already gone through their own self-improvement journey, in one way or another. You might not believe this but most women are not born naturally pretty or interesting. So we are all in the same boat. About the gold diggers you mention: I'm not interested in them, and you… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Are my results typical considering my stats?Instead of thinking about stats, matches etc, focus on living your life as best as you can. If you are looking forward for a serious connection you won't get it through tinder, probably. Try social game instead. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?That's literally what I do, I don't normally tell girls "yo I like you, let me take you out on a date" What I normally do is invite them to something I'm going to do anyways, like "I'm checking this next weekend, wanna come? It could be fun!" And then we do the thing. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?Sometimes it also takes me days to reply to family and friends depending on the situation. You mean, it's a good trait because that means she's not addicted to her phone? I kind of agree. I'm not on my phone all the time, actually, I'm trying to avoid it for the longest time. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?You guys are making me feel way more relaxed about the whole situation, I appreciate it. Well, there has been days when she replies one hour after, and days when she let a whole day pass. I don't reply instantly neither. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?Last year it took me 2 months to have a second date with a girl. I was not so interested, she was. She showed up out of nowhere asking me to meet again. And our first meeting was way worse than this time. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?It kind of surprised me the fact that she was talkative, receptive, and as a whole, really positive when we met, as opposed to the slow texting before setting it up. I know that thinking about their texting habits it's pointless but at the same time I haven't been in this situation before. Rn I'm not going to text her until I'm back, unless she reaches me. When we started talking, I also took my time to reply her, I'm not on my phone all the time. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?I think you are right, if it doesn't work it's not because we are not texting rn. She already agreed to meet again when I'll be back home, and we were supposed to meet this week, that is what it should count. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?Bro, you are assuming more things about her than me, and you are not the one who had a date with her lol. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Slow texters that sound/act receptive, it is over or just a weird habit? Am I being paranoid?I'm more than okay with taking things slow, but my insecure ass is being insecure and makes me question things. We'll see each other as soon as I'm back, I'm sure about it, but the rest is like... idk. If she's going slow to keep me hyped, it's working. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.And women can be shy and/socially awkward too, even if they don't look like they are. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 5 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.no, I don't sound fun, today is a reflective day for me, I'm not intending to be fun now. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.Marriage for me is worthless, but I'd like a LTR at some point. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.One thing doesn’t exclude the other, it’s just that you’re more focused on your stuff. Definetly. Well, I didn't have too many opportunities so far, and if I had, I was not aware/ready for them. I will keep my eyes peeled. Summer is awesome in my city. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.well, he won't me my role model for sure, but I get what you are saying | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.probably, there's work to be done, that's for sure. Do you have any suggestions? | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I have already started, that's why I am here. I cannot go back in time and start even sooner. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I'm working a lot for sure, I crossed an ocean because of that. I'd just love to have an slightly stronger social life and that also would include women. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.what does it has to do with the OP? And anytthing in general? | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.That I don't reject other type of relationships or sex encounters, but the goal is LTR | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.There's obviously a lot of things I can work on, but money and status is going to take longer. That's what the post is about. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I'll do better in the long run, as stated in the OP, in a little bit more than one year I'll be done with this stage of my life and I will be earning way more. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I'm trying to work on my confidence and maximize the things I'm good at and really enjoy. I'm not trying to date super actively because I am honestly a little bit lost, and also, I don't have a strong social life or time to pursue it. I'm working on it too. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I don't know women around my age, all of them are either older or younger, and they don't talk about money or job. I prefer women slightly younger than me, let's say mid 20's | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I am not looking foward to date girls that are way wealthier than me, not at all. Actually, so far I've only dated girls that are in a similar position than mine, and I was not exactly looking for it, it just happened. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:04 PM |
| 4 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.I am not super serious but I'm not super social either. Like, I'm easy going but I don't go out too much since I don't have too many friends yet. Yes, I'm working on it too. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | How important money/status is for a guy? Is it a huge deal or it's just a bunch of my insecurities? Please be honest.Long term relationships, mostly | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How to find a girlfriend ?hold on, there's that answer? holy shit. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 11:07 PM |
| 3 | How to find a girlfriend ?I took the quiz and I think I might be fucked I got the meeting online through a community but I'm not into anything that has women on it, with the exception of reddit itself, where I've met some friends lol. Anyways it got me thinking, maybe I can do something about it. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 10:00 PM |
| 30 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowThere's never an optimal move, but I've tried this one with friends and it works, and it's funny too. | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 01:27 AM |
| 90 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowI have done this a lot, and not necessarily when I was with a girl I was interested in, but with friends. I mean: cute friend (girls, obviously), gets approached by dude, I save them everytime doing that, and then we have something to tell the group and laugh about. I've also done this while going out with the boys, I mean, sometimes there's an annoying drunk guy wanting to talk with everyone. We just go forward and have fun with them. | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Does it increase attractiveness when someone learns your native language even though you already know English?Spanish is my first language and I'm living in an English speaking country. I appreciate a lot when I encounter someone who speaks my language, and when it's a girl, it's an instant turn-on. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Always losing from other menYou need therapy, and understand that you are only competing against yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:17 PM |
| 22 | Dating is kinda painful when you’re personality somehow kills their attraction.I'm not exactly getting your point here, you should elaborate on what are your "unattractive" traits to give you proper feedback. Sounds like it is in your head. Do you have friends? Because if you do, probably you have a nice personality and you are someone good enough to be around. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 03:28 AM |
| 5 | I’m so alone (and horny)Chill, overcome your addictions for once, take care of yourself, go to therapy if needed, and keep making friends. You don't have to learn how to flirt, you have to learn how to chill. You have had a relationship and hookups, you are doing ok already, everything is fine with you. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 02:02 AM |
| 13 | 10 steps on how some men build resentment towards women due to ego, lack of patience, and not getting the hint.One of the reasons there are so many guys that suck at dating is because women rarely give feedback, also ghosting is more common everyday. Women could do many things to contribute for a healthier dating scene but most of the time they don't. The feedback women give when rejecting a guy (if they do) is normally something in the line of "you are cute but", to make it short: worthless sugarcoated words. It's one of the many reasons why this sub exist. I don't count on women to make it easier for u… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 03:17 PM |
| 4 | 10 steps on how some men build resentment towards women due to ego, lack of patience, and not getting the hint.Realising as soon as possible that they are not that interested anymore and it's not worth it to invest more on them, saves you time and energy. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 03:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you not feel bad and upset about teens having more experience than you?And I'm here, studying full time and working at the same time to improve my situation while there are people who are born rich. Everyone has a different path. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?They will never be 100% upfront with it but generally speaking they prefer guys with at least some experience. If they are looking for a husband is one of those things that doesn't matter anymore, but for hookups they would prefer someone with experience. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:02 PM |
| 27 | How to pull shy girls?introverted girls become open to the people they like, either as a potential partner or friends. Maybe she doesn't like you that much or maybe she needs more time. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop feeling insecure about interracial dating?Racism is always going to exist, and if we do something about it for real it's not going to be anytime soon. It's in your head because of generational trauma and so on, you already know. The older you grow, the more experience you have, the less you will care. In the mean time just have your mind clear around this: you and that girl like each other, that's why you are in a date. It's what it counts. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What's the best love story ever written?I'm not into love stories lol | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | What's the best love story ever written?Romeo and Julliet? IDK man this is so subjective... | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Venezuelan girl wants tip for sex is that normal?Yeah you are right. I think this guy was asking more about how common it is for girls to sell themselves this way. Idk, just guessing. Anyways the answer is yes, they do this, more than we think. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Venezuelan girl wants tip for sex is that normal?Many girls do prostitution as a side job... Sometimes they are good pretending. The story of this guy sounds like a regular pick-up, it's normal he got deceived. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 03:01 PM |
| 0 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upit's not about when it's about how you are approaching it and if you are trying different things. For some people having sex with 2 girls in 4 years might be not so much sex, for other people it might be different. If you are not ok with it and you want more, that's ok, but instead of giving up maybe you have to find another strategy, since maybe you are approaching it in the wrong way. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:13 PM |
| 77 | Instagram is the new DATING APPbeing in your 20’s and dating seems like more work than ever. Yeah, it is. That's why some of us are not even trying to go online most of the time. I just cannot at this point of my life. | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?Depending on the amount of sex you have, hotels might be an option if you find cheap ones. If you cannot live on your own, finding roommates with similar life situations than yours is the way to go, still, I respect people who prefer to live with their parents a lot. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?this is older than time itself. Hotel's staff know that their business is used to hookups/cheating constantly. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?Not everyone is wealthy/lucky enough to have his own place in 2024, guy lives in Toronto, high rents and not so high salaries. I will go with hotel rooms until he has a LTR. There's no other way around. Also, considering the circumstances, the girls will also feel it like the regular thing, I've been there too. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you all deal with rejection burnout?Easy, the same way you deal with burnout in general. Take a break, do somthing you enjoy, focus on other things, and then go back. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Should you be phisically fit to be sexually attractive for women?Looking healthy is good enough, you don't have to look like Cbum, even considering a lot of toxic dudes are saying that on the internet these days. Everything counts, be fit, be healthy, be strong, it's good for you, but you don't have to get a top tier physique to be attractive. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Should you be phisically fit to be sexually attractive for women?with clothes on, you can look bulkier in a few months. Also depends of genetics, if you are tall like a tower you need more time. I'm around 5'8 and I started looking wider in a couple of months after joining the gym for the first time when I was 17. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 05:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Yeah, I agree. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Interesting, I guess earings don't count on this one. If women are perceived as less attractive/intelligent then for men it would be way less attractive, probably. Socially speaking it's not as accepted for men. | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV?Do you have data about piercings? Specially the facial ones. I don't have any, I'm just curious. I'm pretty sure guys with facial piercings are not punished for it unless they overdo it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Top 10 Books?Fair, but remember that I said "start there", not "in this book you will find everything you need". Building a nice lifestyle is something that most people who are not getting enough attention lack of. It makes you think and motivates you to become more attractive and social. It's a good start as a foundation, after that, each one can develop their own personal style. If you like mystery that's ok, I don't. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Top 10 Books?If you haven't read it yet, read Models by Mark Manson, a lot of people have a bad opinion on that book but it's so easy and smooth to read that you will finish really soon. After that, if you want you can keep reading some seduction materials but in general with the info from that book + this sub you have it all. I'd suggest to focus on other types of reading instead of going for full seduction books since they are all pretty much the same. | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Gym girl trying to get my attention?I had a similar experience with a girl I met at the gym. At some point we ended up sharing a machine and everything went smooth after that. Force a situation were you guys are working out close enough to start a small talk. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?believe it or not, I had literally this moment past Saturday and I don't know exactly what went wrong, just that I did not escalate sexually. Would your be ok if I DM you to tell you the details? I know that reddit is huge but I think she's a redditor, and the situation is pretty specific as well. I'd love your feedback, honestly. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Completely fair, I'm not in a rush, it's more about the fact that I really wish to do good. I already look back one year before and I feel kind of better, and accomplished as well. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Parties, night games, being introduced to girls, being with a girl in any scenario and she's already in the mood to talk with me and so on. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?I agree and my experiences are similar, I suck at escalating in a sexual way. Do you have any tips for that? Besides keep trying. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?I've found that, just like in life in general, most guys problems in dating don't have much do to with the surface level aspects of game. It's with their beliefs about themselves, other people, and the world in general. And that once you fix certain beliefs, that leads to the change multiple levels up that "chain" (like the one above) that they are looking for. Oh yes, you are completely right, I've found it in myself as well as other people, for example I have a friend that is good looking and … | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?I get it, I'm okay with the last part and since I accepted it my dating life improved, even my social life if I have to be completely honest. My goal is to find a partner at some point. I've been told a lot that without being sexually invested is hard and I'm starting to think that sometimes I've been punished for that, like not going for sex have actually spoiled some of my chances so far. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?okay but what if I want to talk in a playful way with a girl? Idk if you get what I'm saying. The whole point of the post is that when I'm a correct context it just happens naturally, but I suck at creating that context myself. I benefit a lot when my friends are around there and indirectly I get wingmaned by them, for example. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?So, monkey see monkey acts? Like I see pretty girl I talk to pretty girl? | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Okay I think I get what you are saying. With the end game you mean sex? | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:14 PM |
| 0 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Okay so, if that's the case I suck at creating frame. That's the definition I had in mind. Any advices? | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:12 PM |
| 0 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?I used to be the second one, right now I am more inclined to do whatever I want to do to make something happen. For example, back in the day I didn't want to talk in class because I preferred to be "on my own" and don't stand out in any way, nowadays I would never shut up because I am a nerd in certain topics. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Sometimes I do, I have to admit it. It's not like something crazy but I do. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?Interesting, I'm not uncomfortable with prolonged or awkward silences in general. It's more than I feel like talking with someone and sometimes I feel like I don't know how to, as weird as it sounds, and some other times is natural. If you are asking about what I want, in general I'd say that I want to talk more with people. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I am good when the frame is set but I suck at creating/maintaining it. What should I do?honestly, I don't understand what you mean with "give yourself permission to act that same way regardless of the external factors" You mean that I can go "party mode" and be playful even when the context it's not the best for that? If that's what you mean, it sounds logical to me and a really good skill to have in general, but I don't know where to start. If you can provide further examples or explanation to improve, I will be grateful. | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.This reminds me of a guy I know that is good flirting in the gym because he is a gymrat with really poor social skills, but the gym is his home. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How come I do well in night game but suck at day game?Nightgame is easier than daygame, as simple as that. You will find out the reasons on your own. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)I don't recall saying that I'm not making friends. I'm just trying to expand my chances and currently I'm not on dating apps, I'm just trying to find the best for me. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Nice, I will try :) | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)ah ok, that's super cool. I will keep it in mind, thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Sounds interesting, whatever works it's worth trying for me. But do you like, create a profile like in Tinder? Or does the app uses your Facebook photos? I literally have one photo of myself in Facebook and I don't plan to work on it anytime soon, honestly. I just don't like it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)I go to metal events but I don't meet girls there, since there are no girls or the ones are unavailable. I will keep going to shows but I don't count on meeting girls anymore. I'm just trying to expand my chances and currently I'm not in dating apps. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:50 PM |
| 0 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)As I said I do, but I don't meet too many girls in general when I go out. It's like, either we are only dudes or the girls are not in my age range. I'm 29 and I like girls like from 23 to my age approx. When I see girls in the venues they are either on their mind 30s, too young, or are there with their boyfriends hahaha | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Never heard about this app and it's already been mentioned twice, what's about? | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:47 PM |
| 2 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Thanks you for your help. I'm not going out a lot lately, for sure I will go out more frequently this spring, since I'll have more time. I normally go to concerts and so on, not so much to bars since I don't drink (in general). I haven't been lucky making friends and talking to girls in this city (I mean, inside the scene I described), but I won't stop in general. Also, right now I'm just doing my music, I'm not in a band and in order to form my own one I will have to wait. I'll go back to perfo… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Interesting. But I don't use FB at all, it is a separate app? | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)My appearance is enough to attract them. I said I'm a metalhead and I've been in bands and so on. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 16 | What are the dating apps where I can find more alt girls? (goths, metalheads, freaks in general)Is it included in Tinder gold? | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?Thanks boss 👍🏻 | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 06:23 PM |
| 9 | How to ask/find a guy to be fwb?just say where you are located and you'd receive around a hundred dms lol | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?oh yeah pls share it man, I'd love it | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 02:36 PM |
| 4 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Leftist people love sugarcoating even if the topic it's not political, and Reddit it's full of them. I consider myself a leftist btw (with many nuances), but I decided to have a brain. | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Down to heart and charming woman. She's a huge exception, she's soooo smart. | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 07:21 PM |
| 6 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Is like asking a deer how to shoot. Women are great giving advices about how to groom yourself or styling but that's it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/24 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Looksmaxxing Community is just Black Pill in disguise."When you look better you feel better, when you feel better you perform better" and that's it. So try to look good but don't get to obsessed with it, that's when you ruin it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life?Don't think too much about it and keep exploring, you'll be fine, most people struggle with daygame (me included) | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life?I feel like that last sentence is spot on. Regarding the rest... With the information provided by the OP I cannot say anything about it, we are just guessing here. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 02:35 AM |
| 311 | Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life?My first guess is that you are hot but boring. Second guess: maybe you are one of those people that change a lot when you are in a nightime/purely social setting. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Actually, the first time I took my eyebrows seriosly was because of a barber. He just said: "what about if I just shape the top of your eyebrows? if you don't like it they will be normal again after one week" and I didn't like the idea because I though it would make me look girly lol, but I decided to try, and I don't regret it. | /r/seduction | 08/10/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?At this point honestly I don't trust anyone but me doing my eyebrows hahahaha But yeah is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 07/10/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Or you can ask your friends lol. | /r/seduction | 07/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Well, if you can't tell, then you are probably ok. If you want an unbyased opinion try sending me a photo of your eyes+eyebrows and I'll give you mine. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 10:15 PM |
| 6 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?I think that's an exaggeration, they are just underrated and you need to consider take care of them but they are nor going to turn you into a supermodel lol. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Gotta work with what you have man, there are guys out there with even wilder eyebrows than mine, other have thinner eyebrows like you, just make your best. I think minoxidil can help with eyebrows as well, I'm not an expert, but it might be worth it for you to do a little research. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 08:00 PM |
| 26 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?And don't forget about the beard. I mentioned eyebrows because most guys will overlook it, but there are many things a guy can do to become instantly more attractive. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 05:32 PM |
| 179 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?For me is eyebrows, I have a lot of facial hair and when I realized that my eyebrows really made me look like a caveman I decided to learn how to trim them on my own, holy crap, it makes a huge difference. | /r/seduction | 06/10/23 04:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)Some people are going to hard on you but you are not even complaining, you are just making a point. Congratulations for your success, but you have already seen that it's not everything in life. | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Seduction and tricks don't work on women who aren't interested. Women who are interested don't need Seduction.I agree with this one a lot, I used to have 0 game and screwed it up with girls that were interested in me. It's not like I have an excellent game right now but the difference is noticeable. Anyways, what's the problem about working in both fields? Be more social and get some game while you are working on becoming as cool as you can. | /r/seduction | 03/08/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Grocery store pickup attemptOh boy even if you didn't want to date her that was cute and funny, it's one of the stuff that makes your day better, and also hers, nice one. | /r/seduction | 27/06/23 04:24 PM |
| 7 | “I want to text her but I have no idea what to say.” Here are 9 solutions to this problem.I have texted and I got texted too using some of these advices, it works everytime. Last time I did it: I'm learning a new language and turns out that this girl is native in that language and super advanced in my first one, so I sent her a meme about how hard numbers are. We laughed and chatted for a while, also she gave me a couple of advices which is useful obviosly and we ended the conversation with a "we should see each other more frequently", smooth and simple. Also it's super useful to jus… | /r/seduction | 27/06/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Well the most usual reaction I spotted when doing this is more like the "correcting posture" thing that women do to look more appealing you know, or the typical air flip. | /r/seduction | 24/05/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Yeah but you are not going to stop your current job or studies just to become a bartender and train your social skills lol. If someone ever gets a bartending job they will remember my words but I don't recommend changing your job just because of that. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 11:08 PM |
| 8 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Well, I live in a city full of beautiful women and honestly at some point you can't just help it, I started doing it unconsciously, now I do it as a game. I used to deliver food with my car and from the car it's easier, I spent so much time in the road that I got sooo bored so I had to do something, I started challenging myself to do it when I got a long red light, you just look around and find pedestrians you can look at from a distance. Then I started doing it with the clients and then with th… | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 02:26 PM |
| 23 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Or being told by a really confident and supportive man, at least in my experience. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 03:56 AM |
| 506 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Or when you hold your gaze into some girl's eyes and you can spot some kind of reaction. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:05 AM |
| 191 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?Specially if they don't know you too much, but this also would apply to women, people in general will say that you look good. | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 12:04 AM |
| 28 | Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.You guys are describing my parents. I'm glad for them anyways. Now it's our time to do our best for ourselves. | /r/seduction | 08/05/23 11:30 PM |
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