FunnyShy80sGirl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Men's body standards... OK. Good luck to you.	/r/MensRights	09/02/20 07:53 AM
0	Men's body standards... Pretty sure you're not a doctor. You wouldn't like it if I called you out on being subpar in intelligence and wisdom. It's not my business, ya know.	/r/MensRights	27/01/20 01:49 AM
1	Men's body standards... It's no one's business to point out other people's looks, particularly since you don't know their situation. So yes, that's shaming.	/r/MensRights	20/01/20 05:01 AM
1	Men's body standards... I guess you and I will both have to stop subscribing to Cosmo then. I have heard men call women who were 5-10 pounds overweight "fat." So no, they don't need to be shamed and it's not the same as someone addicted to drugs. Your response is a lot of personal examples, a mistake people make in situations like these. Just because you were able to lose weight or change your attitude, doesn't mean everyone is like you. Not everyone wants to clap back. Some want to be treated with respect. Thanks for …	/r/MensRights	02/01/20 10:09 PM
1	Men's body standards... especially when women are most fertile. When you say nonsense like that, you reveal that you think you know everything about women when you know nothing. Who even says that? Your point about "nice" is pretty much the same as mine - it can't be your only requirement for dating someone. But when women, for what ever reason, aren't attracted to a nice guy (and there can be many other reasons), they're made to feel like they're not even allowed to say no. Wmen may say "You're a nice guy but" because…	/r/MensRights	02/01/20 03:53 PM
1	Men's body standards... You've actually made my point. Lots of nice guys are successful at dating and get married. Sometimes, women meet a nice guy and don't fall in love with him. Then they're shamed for that. As for Tess Holiday and Whitney Thor, please. I don't actually know who they are (so I guess they're not pushed too much) but I'm guessing they're the exception. And going by a r/niceguys whiny reddit or a whiny saying doesn't mean anything. Sorry boss.	/r/MensRights	02/01/20 08:16 AM
0	Men's body standards... The media doesn't push them. Women who ARE plus-size or curvy shouldn't be made to feel bad, as what's the point? Your response shows exactly why it's harder for women. You say they should "just" do this, that, and the other thing that you perscribed. Men aren't shamed for whoever they're not attracted to; that's what women are shamed for (why didn't she go out with him? He's a "nice guy"! What right did she have to say no???)	/r/MensRights	01/01/20 09:10 AM
0	Men's body standards... At least someone understands the standards women would have to stick to in order to avoid being called "fat" by men.	/r/MensRights	31/12/19 12:22 AM
2	Men's body standards... Why can't you agree with something like this without bashing feminists? Also, everyone is objectified in Hollywood, but let's talk about the rest of us who live every day life? Guys talk about women's looks all the time, this one is too fat, this one is hot. I'm sure you can find women doing it but most of us talk about how we met a great guy, not a hot guy.	/r/MensRights	29/12/19 05:51 PM
-1	Put on a damn jacket you violent brute Or just that you're looking too hard for reasons to be angry at women.	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 01:32 AM
2	Protesters being murdered is a terrible thing no matter the gender because it's posted under the "women" subject head. this isn't "the media" reporting it.	/r/MensRights	21/12/19 09:57 PM
1	Watch: A blind man enters a women's only subway car in Mexico Yes and you used the one incident as an argument against feminism in the US. If you'd just complained about the one incident and not tried to make it about feminism, which tries to protect women from thousands of sexual assaults, your point would be made.	/r/MensRights	20/12/19 02:22 AM
-11	Watch: A blind man enters a women's only subway car in Mexico Gosh there aren't even enough women for you to get angry at in the US, you had to go find this example. Really. You know how many women are killed by ex-boyfriends each year? Take a chill pill.	/r/MensRights	17/12/19 02:27 AM
0	Literally insulting the severely mentally ill And you can't always tell the difference between a real attempt and a cry for help. This post is, in a way, making fun of women (and mental illness) and every bit as bad as the OP. If someone takes pills to cry for help, they're in a bad state. And the reason people bring up men being successful at suicide is BECAUSE people use the male suicide rate to respond to stories about women being killed in domestic violence incidents, an attempt to show that men hurt too. I've seen it over and over. Bot…	/r/MensRights	12/12/19 05:18 PM
3	Literally insulting the severely mentally ill This post is every bit as bad as the original. Taking "a handful of pills" as "a cry for help" is still a severe sign.	/r/MensRights	11/12/19 12:43 AM
1	Woman tweets about app that women can use to contact police if they think they’re being followed by a sex predator. Man tweets that he wants to use it to protect against being falsely accused. He gets accused of being a predator. But she just told you not to trust her.	/r/MensRights	09/12/19 06:40 PM
0	Pressure on men Oh lord. Some women like nerds and some like men that are stronger, and there is quite a range of women, just like men. It's too bad you don't see it. Here's a tip: Just like some men are nerds and some are not, some women LOVE quiet, thoughtful men and some do not. I've seen more than one "nerdy" guy reject a nice girl in favor of a pretty drama queen too, but that's their right. Some men chase the wrong women, then want to blame all women. Your (capital letters) NEVER LET THEM FORGET THAT show…	/r/MensRights	09/12/19 06:14 PM
-12	What is NOT taught in Sex Ed. zzz. there are like 20 things in this graphic and I wasn't replying to that one. don't be such an angry man.	/r/MensRights	02/12/19 01:03 AM
-28	What is NOT taught in Sex Ed. Speaking of sex ed, she can't get herself pregnant. Also, I doubt 20 percent are trying. DO you guys believe every graphic that's posted without checking it out?	/r/MensRights	01/12/19 11:48 PM
-2	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Running away? Odd. I'm still here, just not engaging with those who resort to silly name-calling. The woman-bashing was directly before my comment, when people said it's women who reject guys who express their emotions. You can read it yourself.	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 09:10 PM
-2	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Oh there are plenty of people who will make you think it's totally ok to blame people for their ongoing health problems, because you were able to overcome your specific issue. If name-calling is positive and healthy for you at your age, feel free to do that too, but I do hope you come to a better place in your life. Good luck!	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 02:12 AM
1	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. "Shaming of undesirable behaviors has existed for as long as mankind as been around." Then you agree it's not from Hollywood! Glad we resolved this. Whew.	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 01:18 AM
1	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Sure, then do that and I congratulate you. But not all experiences are the same as yours.	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 01:13 AM
1	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. No matter what the cause? Give me a break. I'd have far less tolerance for ignorance, and yet some people are willfully ignorant and have no excuse (like people who blame others for weight problems, when medical side effects or the condition itself could cause a weight problem.) Comments like yours make people feel ashamed. Weight is much harder to control than ignorance about weight.	/r/MensRights	30/11/19 01:13 AM
2	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. PS you want credit because you healed? And blame those who don't heal from cancer? What can I say to that except...ewww. Congrats on curing cancer all by yourself, I guess, maybe you can do that for others instead of referring to those who are sick for longer than a few years as Beckys and Chads. Children with diseases often stay positive. Some make it, some don't, but it sure ain't because some WORKED to heal and some don't. I guess if this is how you view life, I won't change it, but I hope yo…	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:20 PM
2	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. "You shame the term Chad because you are not your best Becky self." Oh lord, what Kool Aid did you drink. Labeling men and women this way shows a hatred of both men and women. You have fun on the playground with Chads, Beckies, Petes, Daves, Caitlins, and whoever else; most of us will realize there's good and bad in people and try to search for the good, and be our best, not blame and shame everyone else.	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:17 PM
1	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Blaming "Hollywood"? How about blaming actual people who allow themselves to get influenced by tv, movies, online groups, or whatever, to a point where they shame others? Of course movies will show beautiful people. Yet I see men bashing overweight women all the time...are you going to say they did it because they watched a tv show? How about personal responsibility. "Hollywood" is millions of people of all types, and blaming them is just lame.	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:06 PM
2	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Yet some people don't get cured, and are just doing their best to survive with a disease. Talking about Chads and other made-up terms is nonsense and just makes men feel bad about not looking up to beauty standards.	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:04 PM
0	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. Glad you brought this up. Lots of women are overweight because of a medical issue, yet are bashed by men who say it's because they eat too much or whatever. It's cruel from either gender. I'm glad some men are talking about how medical issues affect weight instead of encouraging their peers to be judgmental.	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:03 PM
-1	There was a male model with a skinny build on a Saint Laurent ad on Facebook, every single comment was nasty and trashing his body, this guy saying “Man up” proved my point. It's a man who trashed that kid and said "man up." Not a woman. Yet somehow this becomes a springboard to bash women? Men respond this way quite a bit, telling other men that toughness is all that matters. And which gender is constantly bashed for its weight or looks, unnecessarily? For every man who is bashed for his looks, can you really say that women aren't derided 100x over? Can you honestly say that men feel comfortable talking about getting counseling or feeling rejected? Yes of COURSE yo…	/r/MensRights	29/11/19 11:00 PM