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| 2 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?I swear this sub gets more insecure and autistic every day | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?Okay I don't subscribe to this sub but I came across this post, and honestly? You're all trying way too hard and thinking way too much about this. Unless you're very autistic or otherwise have some kind of social disability, dating women is not difficult. I think the issue most people in this subreddit have is one of two things - you're either not a good version of yourself, or you're aiming way too high. Being a good version of yourself is simple. Make yourself as attractive as you can, which i… | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Right now I live in a relatively small town in the middle of nowhere. The one upside is we do get a lot of tourism for skiing in the winter but generally it's quiet. Most of the time I've met women out was when I lived in a slightly bigger city. But it's not difficult to do now, people are still out there in the world. Blaming your lack of success on not being in the right city is pointless. | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?Yeah. It's how I've met most girls I've either dated or been in relationships with. It's not particularly difficult to do | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number.In my opinion (as a European, this possibly makes a difference) Instagram is better. Its more casual, people spend more time on it than just waiting for a message, she can see what you look like properly. And I say 'as a European' because we tend to generally use texting way less than Americans do. Because we generally have pretty free travel between countries and a lot of younger people travel a lot, it's not super uncommon to meet a lot of people from random countries when you're on a night ou… | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl with a boyfriend texting meTbh you’re being a scumbag. Move on and find a single girl | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 12:51 PM |
| 66 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfWait do people here really think sleeping with a bunch of girls makes your life better? I mean when I was like 18-23 I'd very often have casual hookups with random girls, at least a few times and they were probably the worst times of my life. I was depressed, borderline suicidal, borderline alcoholic, losing my fitness, didn't have a great career etc. Now I'm older I'm in a committed relationship and my life is going better than ever. Having sex loads does not make you a better person at all lol… | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 02:46 PM |
| 0 | How to let girls know u broke broke?In my experience don't need money to get dates and have fun with girls. My first date with my fiancee we went to the beach, had a drink (from the shop) and then went and watched the stars and had sex in my car. First date with my ex we went for a walk round a lake and took some food there. Cost basically nothing. Most of my early dates I don't spend a lot of money, why would I? It's a girl I don't know or care about yet, I don't wanna empty my wallet. I wanna show if she's fun to hang out with a… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high valueTo add on to this - 'high value' does not mean you have to be rich, own a lamborghini, a mansion, and be a CEO who travels the world constantly. High value means you need to have desirable traits. This isn't necessarily money (but it can be). However equally desirable for most girls is things like fitness, humour, motivation, a social life, being fun. Even if you don't have supermodel looks and drive a Bentley, being good at these things will go a long way. A prime example of this is in the movi… | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m starting to get more attention at the gym. What do I do with it?I'm sorry what lol. This post is just awful and the comments are even worse. 99% of the time the gym is not the place to try and pick up girls. As someone who has lived and worked with girls my entire life, almost all of them just complain about guys hitting on them in the gym. At best, they'll polite reject you. At worse, they'll laugh about you in the group chat 10 seconds after you walk off and lose a bit of motivation to go to the gym at all. And I'm sorry but how is a girl using a treadmill… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.Honestly while just dating I probably wouldn't mention it. As much as it should be a topic people can speak about openly and honestly, people still judge others (especially men) for having or needing therapy. This is me personally, but if you're just trying to hook up or be causal don't mention it. A lot of girls find it needy and weak still. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Wait what, that's so not a tease lol she's directly asking you | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 71 | I always see stuff about how guys are used as validationIf a guy wants validation from a girl he's 'pathetic' or 'needy'. The same standard isn't given to girls. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay?Norway | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | is having 'style' as a man considered by some as gay?Honestly I think so yes sometimes. Some random drunk girl the other day asked if I was gay purely because I looked like I looked after myself. I asked why she thought I was gay and she said 'you just dress well and look after yourself so I sorta assumed'. Like bruh. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedI'm sorry but wtf | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 5 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested'Where do you wanna go on our honeymoon' jfc bro chill out any reasonable minded girl would run a mile if you said that while you were still only trying to get someone interested. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do wearing nice clothing really play a role when it comes to dating and girls? I truly see good looking guys wear whatever and still get girls easily.To a point, but 'nice' clothing doesn't mean expensive or fancy. I've had decent success with girls and pretty much only ever wear a white t shirt and jeans. Nice clothing just means it's fitted well and suits your body type and personality. I used to dress kinda preppy but it just didn't really suit me. I grew up in the forests and was a bit of a jock at university, trying to dress like a rich city kid just looked wrong. You really can't go wrong with a well fitted t shirt and well fitted jeans… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Girl i’ve been dating didn’t text backSame thing happened to me. She just started completely ghosting me. I ignored it in the end and just left her to it. Fast forward a couple of months and I've started dating this really awesome girl (ghosting girl knows about this from my socials). All of a sudden guess who suddenly pops up again and says she was 'busy with work' (she wasnt). Ghosting girl then tried to get together with me again, and outright suggested we date and have a regular thing. I obviously rejected her as I'd met this ne… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Date or relationship? No I wouldn't. A one time fun fling type thing? Yeah sure why not. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Stop begging for girls attention, be abundant.Cool. So how do we do that. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :This thread is hilarious. Yall spend the whole time discussing how to get with 'hot' girls, but then turn around and say that your own attractiveness is unimportant and that people should fall for you just because you talk a good game. Girls aren't attracted to ugly guys any more than we are to ugly girls, no matter what you say to them. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :I think there's an important distinction here between finding someone attractive and the whole 'love at first sight thing'. Sure, most people don't have the whole head over heels in love the second someone walks in the room feeling, but most at least found their partner attractive. I mean look to yourself for this. If someone you found completely unattractive and awful to look at/be around came and hit on you, even if they had the best game in the world you're not gonna get with them. Looks and … | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 09:57 AM |
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