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| 2 | Brutal oneitis - what if there really is no one out there as good as your ex? [Warning: pretty long]Two years later and I'm still in your shoes; it does help to understand that part of your (and my) problem is the desire for INSTANT gratification. You know for a fucking fact that a girl like that who could love you back and give it all to you does exist, it's just that it's absurdly annoying and painful that you can't have her RIGHT NOW. This isn't something we have control over, but I always tell myself that it's all valuable time that I HAVE to use to make sure I keep that one special girl w… | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 03:30 AM |
| 2 | It's not the fear of rejection that gets you...Don't want to be approached by guys they're not attracted to*** | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How To Start A Conversation With A Stranger When You Don't Know What To Say (And Why You SHOULD Talk To Strangers) [x-post from /r/socialskills]You don't need to avoid certain topics because they're common/stereotypical conversation starters; turning something boring into an interesting conversation delivers a strong message about your character IMO. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I stand by my point; you somehow seem to think people are autistic. What you say can only be validated by who you are, I'm sure you can at least agree with me on this. If you claim to slay women left and right, and you do look and behave the part, then people believe you. If you're very sarcastic and you've been demonstrating this particular trait all night, then it's not too hard to believe that people understand that you're joking. If you can't pull this off with the right vibe don't do it, pl… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I have yet to not get a good laugh out of this one. People are not as autistic as you think they are, at least most. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?I usually answer by expressing how happy I am that she brought dick size up because I recently gained a full inch on my dick. "I went from 2.5 hard to almost 3.5 inches" "You won't even know what hit you" "Like, literally". Always get a solid laughter out/lighten the mood or shift the convo to something sexual. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 10:10 PM |
| 3 | You don't have to be perfect, in fact you're more approachable when you're not.I dunno I'm kinda into that. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.I disagree. When people are LED to express themselves they often become aware of the fact at some point, and this usually causes a GREAT shift in power dynamics (equal value > lower value (them) and higher value (you)). Take "let the other person save face", for instance. This is almost always obvious, and by doing so you ALWAYS come out the bigger, more powerful individual. You're not trying to deceive anyone, you're making it very clear that you're big dog through your superior social skills (… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 11:27 PM |
| 3 | A reminder: The game never changes. [LTR]Hit close to home, brah. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How To Flirt ChecklistI don't know how to quote, but why not make any references to the date/hangout? When I text (and I only text to set up date, no rapport building), I usually hit the up the day of with something like "I'm about done with my makeup, but we may have to aim for 8 instead (I haven't actually set up time, trying to project that I'm busy). Did you pick an outfit?". I'm interested in your rationale. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Caring and IDGAF in LTR?You sound autistic and incredibly insecure. Your girlfriend =/ girls. If you don't feel like doing shit, which is absolutely okay, then have a fucking reason to back it up. Lie if you have to, it doesn't matter. But what you did sounded outright aggressive. It is very clearly that you don't understand what an "IDGAF" attitude is, which leads me to think that you've probably been projecting very low value the entire time you were trying to look alpha. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | How are we supposed to flirt actually, according to Mark Manson?The problem with negging is that most guys don't balance it out with good vibes/honest compliments. You neg someone enough times and they'll take it to heart. This isn't even a woman thing, go talk to a male stranger and make similar remarks, see how they react. I read Models a while back, but from what I recall MM is NOT against teasing, and sometimes even negging in certain cases. He's also not against overt flirting or flat out stating attraction because value and investment are communicated … | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 06:10 AM |
| 1 | 25/F. Question for those who read Models by Mark Manson: Can women attract men through honesty too?I am immediately turned off by any display of weakness or hesitation. Had a date with a cute Persian girl last night, but I ended up asking for the check and calling it quits after she started talking about how she hates her body and usually go up to a mirror and grab her belly fat everytime she eats ice cream. This girl was 100lbs at most. I don't have time to deal with this crap. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Why don't girls just admit they hate black guys?Nearly every white HBB my gym exclusively dates black guys. They definitely want nothing to do with you, though. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 08:05 AM |
| 5 | To put height or not in a Tinder profile?Defer from this black and white thinking, OP. I hate blonds. I don't think they're generally attractive, but every now and then I run by one who leaves me feeling absolutely ecstatic, and then it no longer matters that she's blond; it matters that I find her attractive. I'm 5'7"/5'8" (on a REALLY good day), I don't have my height up on Tinder, and I've been out with quite a few women who turned out taller than I am. Point is; she might cross your height off on paper, but once she meets you and y… | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the best response to this reaction?"I'm really just trying to hide my boner" Srs. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 08:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you're down? (Doesn't have to be because of a girl)Stop resisting your own emotions and acknowledge that you are not feeling great, and that's OK. One thing I recently started doing is write down one thing I'm grateful for every day before I go to bed. Make sure to highlight something good about your shitty day, even things as little as "coffee turned out nice this morning", or "my favorite song came out on the radio, it made me think of XYZ". | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 08:46 AM |
| 1 | 3rd Date - No physical contact yet. I have no idea what to doFirst of all, why did you sit across? You NEVER sit across on a first date. If you can't find a couch or a one sided bench just sit at the bar. Also, dinner first dates are silly. Don't do that. Is she planning the dates? Sounds like you don't really know where you're going. You don't have to touch her hand; any kind of body contact, especially obviously deliberate body contact (touching her often when trying to make a point, for instant), coupled with overt display of affection (staring at her … | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 08:36 AM |
| 2 | What it means when girl behaves differently in real life and texting?You're already highly invested in this girl. I'm not saying this girl is sucking three different dicks as we speak, but to say that she isn't talking to anyone else because "she's not that kinda gal" is beyond delusional. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Physical escalation and how to get to kissingI think most of the laughter we men experience when talking to beautiful women is a result of good vibes deriving from flirtation and joyfulness. I'm always laughing on dates, and it's genuine, but a different kind of laughter. I fell madly in love with the one woman who truly made me laugh, and if I could find that again in a beautiful woman, I'd content. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Physical escalation and how to get to kissingYea because nothing gets a man harder than a really funny joke. I have only ever met 1 legitimately funny female in my life, and I'm approaching 30. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 12:03 AM |
| 30 | Physical escalation and how to get to kissing1) Kino > flirting > lots of silent moments/lock eyes on her lips, when she asks what's up, tell her she has nice lips. Easy breezy from there. 2) Play the awkward penguin. A while back I was out with this girl and we're sitting at the bar, she's showing me funny texts her friend sent her, typical shitty female humor, etc. I said "Are you gonna put that down soon?" "What? Why? I thought you liked funny memes!" "Because I've been trying to kiss you for 20 minutes now". Made out, sucked on her nip… | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 07:36 AM |
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