Furthestprism81 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	What is the occupation of your STBXW or Ex-Wife? Works as a stocker or something at Walmart. I don't care, she's actually having to work now instead of sitting around a disaster of a house on her phone all day letting the tv babysit the kids	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 01:39 AM
13	Well boys I gave it my all in the divorce subreddit today 😂 Was I the best human during my separation/Divorce? No. Did I get absolutely flamed by the Reddit community when my ex posted about it? Yes. I reached a point where I couldn't keep up with everything, it broke me and I had to take care of myself. I'm in a much better place now. Better days are coming.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/26 01:49 AM
2	How did you handle the pettiness? Sounds a bit like my ex and why she’s bitter about things.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/25 01:25 AM
2	How did you handle the pettiness? I like that acronym. Basically do that so it doesn’t start either an argument or a stupid rant about… the topic of the day.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/25 01:24 AM
3	Anyone leave for these reasons? That is a MASSIVE Burden to bear when she doesn’t take responsibility for her own emotions and actions. It’s not just on you to be the “bigger person” but too many women have abdicated that responsibility and relationships are suffering because of it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/25 07:32 AM
6	Anyone leave for these reasons? Neglect. Herself. The house, and me doing my best to care for it was never good enough, always things I missed. The kids The shopping. I, a(later, the kids as well) was the reason she couldn’t get a routine in. Was my fault she didn’t learn to cook/meal plan. “Every time you touch me it leads to sex” (barely 6 months into marriage, we both had waited) And the fact I worked a high stress job, with long hours led to me “abandoning” and “neglecting” her. Eventually i decided that I couldn’t take it…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 03:09 PM
1	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? Not really. Blamed me for any and all incidents/accidents that happen, so I only tell her the necessities. Gets unreasonably angry if I asked anything that would disrupt her “routine” she says she needs.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/25 09:38 PM
5	What hobbies or projects have you taken up as a single dad? Gym, Firearms, Modeling, Cooking/canning/grilling. 760 day Duolingo streak, some outdoors and hiking. I lost a good amount of my friends during the split and regained a few of them afterwards, it was weird. Edit: typo.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/25 07:17 PM
2	Went by the Ex's house yesterday and I'm honestly worried about her... and also relieved. I felt this personally. I did all the chores, almost all the shopping, and child care. When I pick the kids up on the designated weekdays I just… piles of stuff/clutter all over the house, same things laying around on the porch for years, and a general odor around the place. I feel bad the kids have to experience it. That and they’re never ready when I get there. 10-15 minutes of her yelling at them to get dressed/ shoes on.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/25 03:23 AM