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CMVFuture17/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:47 PM
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He wouldn't, he would get married. That would be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:34 PM
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What's the point of wanting a life partner if you're fine with casual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:30 PM
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inviting you to a fancy place or a bit expensive restaurant men do this because they are still working under the old norms that "they must impress a woman with their generosity" but I wouldn't mind being the one asking out a guy and paying Have you ever done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:27 PM
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It was a question in the form of a rebuttal. I'm in a loving relationship of 2 years now, Implies you're an exception to the rule i have never had sex with someone I wasn't exclusive with, ever. Doesn't matter if it was 2 weeks or 2 months not sure how you prove exclusivity in 2 weeks Either way.Even if they pay, I'm tipping. You never posted a percentage of times a man has paid for you vs how many times you've paid. But it is nice to be actually taken out on a date sometimes. But im sure it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:25 PM
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I have never seen a case when a man wants to get money from a woman, therefore he gives he sex so that she pays for all dates. I have never seen a woman who wants sex, therefore she pays for all dates to get the man to have sex with her. I'm not saying those cases don't exist, but are they significant percentages to warrant consideration?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:18 PM
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It's spelled "dementia", dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:15 PM
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no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:11 PM
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I just don't want to pay for the dates So you want to make zero effort to try and find that life partner. Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:10 PM
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Your post didn't make any sense either. Just because women control sex doesn't mean a man doesn't have choices to find a decent life partner, and that's not done by capitulating to women's whims as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:09 PM
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contradicting goals then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:08 PM
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you only hurt yourself in your current strategy, so I don't know. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:07 PM
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staying celibate until established relationship with tenure is the best strategy. Getting off with casual sex defeats the purpose. Assuming the goal is to find a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:06 PM
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so your goal is to get laid, not a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:04 PM
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can you give me percentages of each category?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:04 PM
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More shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:03 PM
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You're discussing sex as a primary animalistic drive. We also want to eat as much as we can because food is delicious. Try it for a couple of months and see how much weight you gain. Just because something is a primary drive, doesn't mean it shouldn't be controlled. The human body does not have a self cleaning mechanism. Hence we needed to invent a way to clean ourselves: Shower and soap: technologies outside our biology. Our standard biological baseline is not to clean ourselves, but we do it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:03 PM
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no hope now. only a collapse that will happen eventually, hopefully after I'm dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:59 PM
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online dating is so vast and a fast food kind of way to consummate dates In other words, people not looking for a life partner, just to fuck. but outside apps the one asking IRL someone on a date should be more likely to pay Does that exist still? And even when it did, what was the percentage of men asking out, vs women asking out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:57 PM
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Men control their wallets, or at least they should. If MEN say they want their wallet to be a virgin, then women will have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:55 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:52 PM
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is the goal to find a life partner? or just to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:51 PM
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only because it's not ingrained in the culture. As a woman, would you prefer to share the costs of dating with a potential life partner, and assess his personality before you give him access to your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:51 PM
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excellent sir! you essentially followed my ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:49 PM
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is your goal a life partner? or just to fleece the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:49 PM
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Only because it's not part of the culture yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:48 PM
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You kind of simply restated my original premise, but shifted the punishment to be from men to men, or women to women. Which is where your restatement fails, because as you explained, men and women with higher transactional value are able to control the market. My solution imposes rules on those abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:47 PM
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so you are one of the ones to be weeded out then, hence the process works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:43 PM
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Well, look at the consequences society is paying for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:42 PM
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Women take the biggest risk in relationships. Men take 2 risks that are bigger than yours: A dead bedroom. Divorce fleecing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:42 PM
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My post is dealing with initial relationships. It doesn't deal with already existing successful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:40 PM
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which is sad because most men need teaching. Most of us get our information from porn, which is a terrible lesson, and 90% of it is usually nonsense that doesn't work in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:39 PM
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I've never, ever expected the man to pay for everything I'm in a loving relationship of 2 years now You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:38 PM
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There's women that have been with men for years, and they haven't paid for a single thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:37 PM
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if your goal is to find a life partner, then people like that should be filtered out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:36 PM
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So the alternative is to get men you don't even know well yet, to access your body, in the hopes that they do what you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:35 PM
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men with self respect, and a desire for a life partner, are ok waiting 2 months to get to know a girl, and assessing if she will demand financial rewards from the man....................or if she legit wants to build a lifelong partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:34 PM
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If your goal is a life partner, you want to eliminate that 95%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:33 PM
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is your goal to find a life partner? or just bedroom fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:30 PM
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How is it blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:30 PM
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It doesn't have to be a 50/50 deal. There ware other variables, for example. If I'm making $200k and I'm dating the McDonald's cashier, it would be stupid of me to expect 50/50. But if the woman is making 3x what I'm making, then it's ridiculous for her to expect I pay for 100% of the dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:29 PM
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My post is based on the typical scenarios: Men want sex as quickly as possible. Hence, we need to vet them. Women want security as quickly as possible, hence we need to vet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:27 PM
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Shaming language? the resort of the lesser mentally abled?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:25 PM
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who is it that was attracted enough to ask? Men are expected to do the asking. I've had women tell me to my face that I am handsome (debatable, but to them I was, I guess). They never asked me out though. I had to make the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:24 PM
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Humans also want to not take a shower with soap, but we still do it because societal norms and we want to be clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:16 PM
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If I want to listen to whiny females, I would prefer Avril Lavigne.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:14 PM
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In this instance left-handed and back-handed are completely interchangeable It could be a regional thing. I have never heard of "left-handing" being analogous to "back-handed", but I will take your word for it. To answer your question, I don't recommend that anyone follow in any of my footsteps unless you have some reason to believe it would work for you. How does someone know if it works for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:11 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:07 PM
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I guess I should say my idea is not the end-all-be-all. It's just a starting point to get us further into healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:06 PM
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do you want a life partner? or just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:05 PM
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men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:04 PM
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so you play a game of chance where the guy could have enthusiastically said everything you wanted to hear, because he felt high probability of getting some that same night. Hmm. I do agree with you fundamentally thought. Marriage and children should literally be the first thing people should be asking on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:04 PM
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So the alternative is to offer your body right away to see if the guy is up to snuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 PM
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We are also evolved to grow our nails without stopping, yet you still cut your nails, right? The human body is a random result of many evolutionary paths, not all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:58 PM
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again do not complain because women aren't entitled for sex because you paid. The issue is that men are expected to pay, even though most women make more money than men now. But fundamentally you are correct. A man should either decide to pay or not. Sex should not be part of the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:57 PM
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Shaming language? The fact you're taking it personal means I'm on the right track.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:53 PM
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They are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:52 PM
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You never know man, I've seen examples, different couples have different chemistry As with everything, there might be outliers. People win the lottery all the time. I wouldn't bank my life on it though. a date is supposed to be fun and enjoyable I'd say for most men, only if there's an actual chance for the girl to be a legit gf. Just for a night out, most guys would just go to the pub with their buds and have a couple of pints. you're not losing/giving something away by having sex You do if it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:20 AM
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They're not following the rules now because there are no rules to follow. If people were shamed for their bullshit, they would self-correct eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:02 AM
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Would you recommend all men do it your way? You may be ESL, so friendly correction: it's "back-handed way"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:01 AM
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And you can't teach him what you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:58 AM
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No, you missed the point of my reply. Men pay a toll when they don't follow my suggestion: They waste a lot of money on women who were just foodie calls. Ergo: they got stoned. Women pay the toll of giving up their body to someone who wasn't worth it. Ergo, they got stoned. Metaphorically of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:57 AM
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and 2 months was too long to wait and find that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:54 AM
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Depends, some couples do, other couples take years I wouldn't trust that's real love. People confuse lust for love. I googled it, it's 3.6". But it's relative, some women won't settle for anything less than 6" and that's fair For most women, I think 7" is probably ideal. Anything less is settling, but I think you're right, most women feel that less than 6" is missing out a lot, especially if they've had bigger (which I'd comfortably wager is about 80% of women who are sexually active) And wastes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:53 AM
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Those are things that can be communicated way before the actual deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:48 AM
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People don't look left and right because it's polite. They do it because otherwise get killed. You're making my point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:47 AM
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Well, I know nothing about you. This is all theoretical. But everyone always says they are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:41 AM
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Are you in it to find a life partner? Or just for the fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:40 AM
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Hey, even in South Park, they showed the atheists fighting about who's atheist philosophies were the best ones, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:36 AM
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only works if both are actually virgins, and they understand what they are getting into. Still doesn't change anything. People like that (usually from highly religious enclaves) already know each other quite well. Waiting 2 months for marriage is literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:32 AM
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How long have you been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:30 AM
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are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:29 AM
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No one falls in love in 2 months. What's a micro-penis? Is 4" a micro-penis? They didn't click in bed. What does that mean? A man that is looking for a life partner will waste 2 months, AND a lot of money trying to find the good woman. A woman will waste 2 months sleeping with random guys until she hits the one................and then he hits it and quits it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:24 AM
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What do you think the percentage of guys who will wait 2 months to hit and quit is, vs guys can get to hit and quit 2 dates after?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:21 AM
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2 months in, she knows you're with her not for the quick bang, and you know she's not with you for the quick fleece. Afterward, I'd say implement different strategies, but at least your foundation is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:18 AM
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How does that guarantee the person will be the correct life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:14 AM
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if the attraction is not there, there will be no sex. You made my point for me. A guy can wait 2 months to find out, and not get fleeced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:12 AM
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How does that work exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:12 AM
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what were the markers that made current hubby the ideal candidate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:10 AM
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born again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:09 AM
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I can only think of two things that cannot be changed: The size of the equipment, male or female The regularity of the libido of the person, again, male or female Is there anything els?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:09 AM
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Most of the time the sex dies down after the honeymoon phase, but that's a different issue. how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:07 AM
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I’m talking about things like the influence that Jazz and Blues had on the 1920s Because that music actually requires a LOT of the musical theory the Greeks discovered. Britney is still regularly in the news Only when the topic is sexual. Nobody actually cares about her music. N’Sync have been forgotten Maybe they'll do a reunion for the teen girls that are now in their 40's. I recommend they use the Korg Wavestate sounds, that's the popular Synth right now (or the Yamaha Montage)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:07 AM
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Swift's talent: "Chad didn't commit" NSyncs talent: Using that Roland XP "Impact Hit" sound popular in 90's teen pop
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:03 AM
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how many years so far of life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:02 AM
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Oh I know this. But do you think sex after a couple of dates is going to confirm she will like sex as much as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:01 AM
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Is your goal to find a life partner, or just to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:54 AM
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How many tries did it take you to find that compatibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:53 AM
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I fail to understand this "compatibility" thing you and others have mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:52 AM
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We still talk about famous musicians and performers from the early twentieth century and before. Exactly my point. Jay-Z and Taylor Swift will be quickly forgotten, as much as Britney Spears or N-Sync was. Human society will absolutely continue to discuss music and popular culture for decades to come. But here you miss my point. There's a reason music of the past is discussed today: The people who were relevant were pioneers in discovery about sound and music. Greeks discovered a lot of our mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:51 AM
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If the woman gets upset about this arrangement, then she isn’t the one for you. Move on to the next one. Not sure why you're making assumptions about me personally, but yes, in general, you understand exactly my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:46 AM
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Only because they can get away with it. Nobody "cheats" the rules by sticking a fork into an outlet, because the chance of getting away with it is almost non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:45 AM
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I'd say this is a precursor to my strategy. Mine would do the same as yours, it's just that mine is a hard course-correct, yours is a softer redirection. I would say they overlap in some results, but not others, hence why both needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:43 AM
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I'm as happy as I can be, considering the circumstances, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:41 AM
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If you can pull it off, congrats, I guess. But keep in mind some women legit want to find a husband, so if you're using those, that's a dick move.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:40 AM
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Are you looking for a life partner? What's compatibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:39 AM
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every civilization went thru shit. We have usually been lucky to have the written works of the smartest of them to continue our learning. In 100 years, no one will give a fuck who Jay-Z was, or Taylor Swift, but guaranteed Stephen Hawking and Albert Einstein will be revered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:38 AM
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I never did. I put my foot down hard, about 15 years ago that I would never have kids. And that cut down my prospects by about 99%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:36 AM
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But at least you're not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:35 AM
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so do you pay more than your husband? I don't care if you're not dating me. You're saying I will eat 3 times more than a tiny girl, hence I should pay more even if she's making 3x what I am. A bit unjust?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:32 AM
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You nailed it!!! that's exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:31 AM
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Sadly, it's the way it has to be for the excesses to correct themselves. This is, of course, assuming one is looking for a life partner, which I think most people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:30 AM
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I thought the point of dating was to find someone to spend the rest of their lives with. "multiple long-term partners" is no different than a guy having a rotation of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:28 AM
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Cool stuff. You're living the life, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:27 AM
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The ancients certainly had insight, probably from thousands of years of trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:26 AM
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can I ask you for an income tax report, to see if you're making more than me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:26 AM
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oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:25 AM
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serial dater?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:24 AM
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A lot of women IMO get mixed signals about a guy's penis size. The correct thing they are conditioned to say is "size doesn't matter" but deep down, they know it does, especially if they've been with bigger men than their current. Hence, "I faked my orgasm", I would immediately suspect if this is the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:23 AM
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You pay for 50% of every date? Or you pay 0% for every date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:20 AM
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I'd argue that a woman that suspects this of you, is already dangerous for a man to get involved with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:19 AM
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So you are not in it to find a long term partner then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:19 AM
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Comedy is based of subversion of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:18 AM
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Well, is the point of the dating to find a very long term partner (like, marriage?) or just fun (having an orgasm with a friend?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:17 AM
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and once in a while they get run over, and those that don't, piss off drivers and make their lives miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:16 AM
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Sex after marriage was an easy way for religion to establish what I'm suggesting. I'm not religious, but I agree with the concept. You shouldn't be fucking someone that you're not hoping to spend the rest of your life with. Yes, going Dutch mean 50/50 split on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:15 AM
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I appreciate the sentiment, but my view is logical, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:13 AM
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You must live in Holland
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:13 AM
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Yes, and you are taking advantage of their stupidity. And screwing yourself, literally, when they dump you or vice versa, and you have, yet another notch to de-value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:12 AM
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Everyone agrees that we should probably look both ways before crossing the street. It's a matter of it becoming part of the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:10 AM
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Is it now? and Is it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:09 AM
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Then don't get mad when they expect to be paid in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:08 AM
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If people can't do those two simple things, then its pretty much over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:07 AM
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Humiliating is not manual labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:05 AM
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100% agreed. If I could get $2000 a day for stroking my little dick on camera, I'd sure as fuck do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:03 AM
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I don't bother because even $100 a pop is too expensive for me. I bought a doll instead. Great investment IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:01 AM
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So he was right that you are female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:59 PM
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But if it were acceptable in society, most people would eventually conform.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:55 PM
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Population numbers right now are expected to plummet in the next 40 years. The "mating crisis" will simply be solved by giving men artificial gf's (combination of dolls/AI, which they will even marry). Unsure how it will be solved for women. I think Japan's "rent a Chad" cafes might be the solution for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:19 AM
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unattractive older women who may be virgins and just want to get it outta the way but don’t care about LTRs/kids Where do I find one of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:57 AM
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If you want a sexual relationship, say it right off the bat. Women are terrible for understanding that men want to get laid. Hence you can be friends with a girl you like for a decade, and she will never realize you were interested in her. Do not be friends with a girl you want as a gf. If she's not interested, seek elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:15 AM
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free testosterone is the one that makes you horny. Not having sex doesn't mean you have low libido. Do you watch porn and/or jerk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:12 AM
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But the fact is that if I do let myself think that way, I've got even less chance. Because every option is bad, scary, impossible to win. Which is why I personally gave up a decade ago. But I at least want to keep myself open to getting a shot, whatever that looks like. But I totally understand this position, and do not berate you for it. Living without a female (for the physical access to a vagina, and the mental companionship) is fucking hard, and I can't blame a man that has to take a few blo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:11 AM
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Appeal to emotion - A logical fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:55 PM
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have you gotten tested?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:54 PM
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do you have high free testosterone, or high bound testosterone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:35 PM
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They marry under the same rules for their level. Danny DeVito might have been a big movie star, but all he could get was Rhea Perlman. Actual attractive people at that level usually marry to create perception. Did Brad Pitt need to get married, when he was probably banging models for a good decade? Same with Angelina Jolie. I'm sure she's had her share of notches. By the time they decide to marry, has nothing to do with the reasons average people get married. So separate "rich" and "attractive",…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:27 PM
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Keep in mind that the things that make a man more attractive, have generally been outside of the medical establishment to resolve. Women can easily gain 4-5 points simply on losing weight, some make-up, and dying their hair blonde. Men need to lose weight too, but we need to be tall (which surgically has been next to impossible), we need to have a larger than average tool (again, surgically this has also been next to impossible. Even now, the surgeries only gain 1" or maybe 2" for the very lucky…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:16 PM
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Most people get married because they settle. Very few people get married to their ideal partner. So happiness is absolutely relevant here. Correlation does not equal causation. What was that Travolta movie? Battlefield Earth? He sees the humans are eating rats, because they are starving, and assumes "oh, the rat must be the human's favorite food!" Hence, people will marry out of desperation, or necessity of some sort. I would argue that most men would prefer to cum inside a woman who's a 4 out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:07 PM
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Drugs/Alcohol are seen as things that make a man "tougher and more able to protect his woman". Video games are seen as "mousy men who can't be tough in real life, pretend to be in a video game" This is all subconscious of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:00 PM
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Biologically speaking, men have higher libidos than women. That's just a fact. Testosterone is not the only factor, but it is the biggest one. This has been confirmed by many female bodybuilders, and female to male transgendered individuals. As soon as a biological female starts taking testosterone, her libido rises. Psychologically, I'm not as well versed, but I have my theory: Men see sex as a relief valve (an orgasm is releasing tension). Women see sex more holistically: They are not as horny…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:57 PM
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I think it will be worse than that. For most men, even married men, they can only get off with Porn. Young men are preferring that as a stop-gap measure, and slowly are adapting the new technologies coming in like a wrecking ball (sex dolls, AI). In 10 years? The 10% of men at the top will have harems of dozens of women. The 90% of men left over, will have an AI girlfriend with a gynoid body of their favorite Anime character. 90% of women will happily go on rotation for a 10% man, while complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:50 PM
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That's blue pill thinking. Are the men and women in those marriages actually happy? That would be the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:41 PM
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your fallacy is where you fail to see that women are the same as men. Show me women who are in their 30's and 40's who aren't overweight, and have skin problems. When I give that range, it's IDEAL candidates, not everyone. What's the percentage of girls in the 18-29 range that are actually fit? Just looking around, I'd say 30%, maybe. And what's the percentage of men who are fit in their 30's-40's? I'd say maybe 20%, so it is a bit less. So we can say potentially, a woman's prime is 18-29, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:38 PM
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I get that mindset. The issue with the more men that women sleep with, the harder it will be for her to enjoy being with you physically. She might realize that guy with the 8" felt really good, and all you have to offer is 5". Or one of those men has slept with so many women, he's an expert on what gets them off, and you don't have, and will never have the experience that the other dude brought to the table. Essentially, if she's settling for you ("she had her fun, now wants to settle down"), yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:32 PM
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I forgot to mention I have the snip and don't want any kids. Also, it's near impossible to prove if a woman has her v-card.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:27 PM
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Is it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:11 PM
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I am very liberal and want women to progress and be independent No one is independent. Women's independence comes from government protection. To some degree, so do men's. But as a man i feel like time is on my side. We could be 40 and still get a decent partner that is younger. Only if you're genuinely attractive, and even then it's a toss-up. Women don't need men for marriage. The ones that want to get married are either looking for the status that marriage gives them, or are looking to lock do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:49 AM
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This is not a fair comparison since getting to your job to pay bills is necessary but dating and dating someone that have exactly what you want is not. Dating should be to find your partner. When I saw I was never going to find what I was looking for, I stopped doing it in 2016. It is a fair comparison because both men and women do, in fact, need each other. I can live without a job. I'd lose my house and my car, but I can go live in a tent and panhandle to survive. We can also live without an S…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:45 AM
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Most of my relationships ended because my partner felt too young and did not want to settle. If your goal was marriage, and it's the girls that were shooting you down, then I feel for you, dude. You're in an even worse situation now. I'd give up on the idea altogether, to be honest. When you were younger, might have been a good idea to go to a church and get a girl from there. Right now, maybe a place like the Philippines might be an option? A lot of women would jump at the chance to get married…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:36 AM
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I don’t want to be with a men that thinks like that, he also doesn’t want to be with me. There is not conflict. Why are you here then? I’m just curious why people want to continue doing something that they claim that is terrible (dating). Because there is no other option. I hate that I have to drive to work. I just had to pay $2000 in car repairs, because I need my car maintained so I can go to work. I hate having to drive in rush hour. But I still do it because I have no alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:33 AM
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But the relationships never workout due to us beeing young and immature. Growing apart etc. So now you are paying the consequences of not making the necessary effort when you had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:24 AM
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Are men expecting this though? I'm not. I'm not an idiot. A girl who has her v-card is more valuable because I want to build experience with her, not have her show up with all the baggage I now have to deal with to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:23 AM
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Find someone like this. If you can’t, stay single So now I'm wondering why you care so much. How does my complaining about not being able to find what I listed affect you in any way? Go find your man that doesn't care about your partner count and stop complaining what other men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:21 AM
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But they don't have options. Logan Paul could be ultrachad and a quadrillionaire, but he can only get from the cesspool of groupies that chase him around. He'd have to go to some Mormon enclave where nobody knows who he is to find a more trad woman. Same with Hollywood stars. Who is Will Smith going to date? Would Jennifer Lawrence go out with him, considering she's probably considered the sexiest Hollywood actress currently alive? Would Charlize Theron? He could go undercover and try to find a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:19 AM
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Why do you want a serious partner now and not 10 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:12 AM
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Find me a woman who: Has her v-card Is sweet and isn't a ball breaker. It willing to state her opinions, with the desire to come to a consensus with her man. Is attractive enough to most men (not a model, but let's say from skinny, to 20-30lbs overweight, which for reasonable men is not a deal breaker) you will then see why men complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:10 AM
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Men primarily want women for sex. Women want men primarily for security and status. Hence, a woman's prime is when she looks the most sexually attractive. That's usually 18-29 For a man, it's usually 30-40 (he's the buffest, and the most financially secure at this range)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:07 AM
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since it's obviously so terrible for men...and y'all are supposed to be these rational beings... why do millions of men still get married every year with ZERO upside? Most men are completely oblivious to what raw deal it is for them. Keep in mind that the "red pill sphere" is actually not that large outside the internet. I'd say maybe 30% of them are aware of it to some degree? That leaves 70% of them who get married because they still think they will have frequent access to sex, and only once t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:02 AM
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Depends. What is your goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:59 AM
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Generalizing much? What guys want "a submissive virgin who's good in bed"? I'd wager most of us guys actually want: A girl who is sweet and isn't a ball breaker. No "submissiveness" is necessary. Give your opinion like a regular person, and if it's reasonable and works to make you happy, I'd sure do my best to oblige. V-card because it gives us a chance, as a guy, to bond to you. I could give two fucks if a girl is good in bed. If she's attractive to me, doesn't have a genetically large vaginal …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:56 AM
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Dude here, 5'7. Height is important because biologically it signals to the woman that you are strong and able to protect. Guys like me can cheat the system a little bit by being muscular, and going for shorter women (had luck with 5'2-5'3 girls). Shorter than 5'7 and you're in big shit. My cousin is 5'4 and he has a hell of a time. He was able to get a girl literally by picking up a homeless chick, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:52 AM
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This is why: Women are told the truth their entire lives: Men only care about how the woman looks. This is why women become basket cases, constantly worried about being skinny, and what make-up makes her look the most attractive, etc. All women's psychological pathologies are rooted in self-esteem about how they look. Men on the other hand, have been lied to their entire lives: Women don't care about your looks. They care about your "personality". Which is why you have an epidemic of simps tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:48 AM
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Men cannot find beauty in women without being sexually attracted to some degree. They go hand in hand. Women can separate the two, to some extent, because of their naturally lower libido. She can see that a guy is textbook attractive, but doesn't give her tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:33 AM
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I remember reading on a woman's forum, that some dude was not attractive, but very confident. She assumed he got a big package, so based on that she gave him a chance, and the package was not big. So now the girl was completely confused "why is this guy so confident?" Basically, confidence works because it tricks women into thinking you must have some hidden value she can't see, but must be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:31 AM
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almost zero
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:27 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:26 AM
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This is it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:25 AM
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Meh, I rather keep my money.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 12:40 AM
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Right. Just as I expected.
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 03:12 PM
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Same here dude, eeewwwwww!!
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:30 AM
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It's already been proven. Not to you, but no one cares if you believe it or not. You don't even believe in Climate Change or evolution. I believe in both. But the government's solution to climate change is to steal my money. What's yours?
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:30 AM
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Exactly my take on it.
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:27 AM
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Got the snippity like a decade ago. Zero kids before. Haven't looked back.
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:19 AM
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I think you have a point, but the social construction is there. Women believe bigger is better, hence when they see bigger, the "visual turn-on" effect will fire in their brains.
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 04:07 AM
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Exception = Jordan Peterson. Balls the size of Cannonballs.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 09:40 PM
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What a bunch of horseshit. From personal experience, I know most women are fine with sex about once a week, or once every other week. Guys need it everyday on average. Every other day at the max.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 09:38 PM
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