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Uuuuhhhh what. I feel like 95% of what I read here is either posts about how you can work on your inner confidence, posts on good hobbies you can get into that help you get more social, field reports on guys that met a lot of girls, or updates on how guys are doing. Oh and posts about AA. Those are kind of annoying but we all have to deal with it and AA can be defeated through persistence and perpsective. Then there are posts like yours that appear and say things like "Seddit is full of scumbags…
/r/seduction01/05/14 12:14 AM
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Well that's good you have accepted rejection is 100% common and will happen all the time. But be careful about your rationalization. Just cause a girl doesn't want to talk to you doesn't mean she's a bad person.
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:59 PM
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Some solid advice here, but I am starting to think that OP is a troll. But for any lurkers who feel similar to the OP, this is solid advice. -Be the best looking you can (you don't have to be "good looking"). This means wear nice clothes (baggy jeans and a star wars shirt don't count). Lose weight if you are overweight. (plenty of subs to help you with that from /r/fitness to /r/loseit and /r/keto). Do something with your hair. -Have good hygene. -Practice talking to people. If you suck at talki…
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:51 PM
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Why does she fuck that guy! It is clearly made of wool. Mine is 100% polyester and was imported from China. It is laying there, right in my room for her to see and she just fucking ignores it! Mat guy
/r/seduction04/08/13 01:16 AM
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Your post states the same thing that so many lurkers post "Women are people, pick up lines don't work, just be your self, yada yada yada". Sorry my annoyance is being channeled at you now. But at some point I can't sit back and let these kinds of posts just skate by. Seddit is not about pick lines or cheesiness or treating women as anything less than equals. Your post seems to imply that it does by having the tone of "Don't do these things that I think seddit encourages, do this thing that seddi…
/r/seduction28/07/13 05:48 PM
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Hey good for you pal! One thing though. There is no need to hate on another mans strategy or approach. I don't know the case you are talking about with the guys line, but that paragraph itself is out of it. I'm not sure how long you lurked here, but if you seem to think that pick up lines are encouraged, then you probably lurked for a whole 10 seconds. That being said, I personally love fun lines. I'm not sure if that guy actually got the number but that's pretty funny. I'm sure at a bar if I sa…
/r/seduction28/07/13 12:53 PM
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Uuuhhh I use pick up lines all the time. They are hilarious ice breakers
/r/seduction27/07/13 03:38 AM
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Agreed. I don't know how OP got so many upvotes. No thread worth it's salt has ever encouraged anything that OP claims. This reads as someone who browsed seddit for all of 10 seconds
/r/seduction27/07/13 03:36 AM
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I just figured it was a funny tale to tell since it's a result of practicing what I learned from this sub. Also I just think it's a nice lesson to be reminded that not every girl is the same
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:17 PM
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Woah maybe we have different idea of douche. Pushing people around and being rude is "asshole mode" I consider being a douche just being loud, really out there, maybe a bit wild, and sometimes doing physical stunts that are just ridiculous.
/r/seduction17/07/13 11:55 PM
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As another guy that can go too far and get into "douche mode" I am constantly surprised at what people let me get away with or find entertaining. At so many times in the night I think, "Okay that was too far. Things are about to get awkward and people will leave" Nope! They just keep on laughing and seem to want more. People are funny :)
/r/seduction17/07/13 11:50 PM
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It was a masturbation joke. She was talking about how I like to shake hands
/r/seduction14/07/13 03:15 PM
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Criiiiiinge.
/r/seduction11/07/13 01:28 PM
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Seriously. This was awful. I've had a one night stand, and I just feel gross reading this post. It's like someone who watched a bunch of movies/television wrote out what they think is the best way to do this.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:19 PM
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Well good job on this! Day game isn't easy, and you obviously handled it well. But yeah, you could have gone back. Just remember one thing: "No one cares about the things you are nervous about" That's something I always tell myself when I'm about to do some kind of public speaking. I am good at it because I just remember that no one is thinking the same thing. But beside that, again nice job
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:16 PM
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What was your kino like? You end all of your sets with "Then we said our goodbyes". I am all for stepping out of a set if it is just not clicking, but learning when to continue is just as important as learning when to go.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:13 PM
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Don't text that. Don't do that. Ever. If you text it should be for two reasons: You are setting a time to meet up. Or you are responding to her text. That's it. There is not "Texting Game". Because every time you have a text conversation or text something witty/funny, that is one less chance you had to do it in person. I did break this rule once though. I was at the bar, and a girl gave me her number. As she walked away I texted her, "Dat ass....." But besides that I highly recommend you get out…
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:09 PM
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Seriously this is the best. My rule is that if a girl completely flakes with no warning, she is out of my mind. If she texts me with like 1-2 hours in advance, I will give her one more chance maybe. But what is important to remember is that chasing a car is not the way to go about this. You cannot force someone to have you on their mind. It's really cliche and I hate seeing it on teenage girl FB posts, but it's true: "Don't put someone in the front of your thoughts if you are their afterthought"
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:06 PM
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I told her there was like 10. It's been about a month, and she whenever she finds one she puts it on my pillow. I think there are about 15-20 left :)
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:37 AM
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Can't tell if your comment is suppose to be sarcastic. If not you are comparing apples and oranges friend
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:32 PM
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Absoultely no one says that. No one. Your attitude is the problem.
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:31 PM
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"Would probably have interacted with 6 or 7 sets" "Would never get a k-close" The keys to success are clouded by "Would have" and "Should have" :) If your emotions are on your sleeve I assume that means you are easily distressed by other people. This is more of a maturity issue then. Don't know how old you are, but taking stranger's opinion of you as anything more than white noise is not a good way to live. Don't really know what else to say. Sounds like your attitude is what holding you back. K…
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:50 PM
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Not "a while". I have been wokring at this for about a year now. Really made strides back in February when things kind of clicked. Had my first cold approach f-close two weeks ago and made FR about it. So not a high level, probably intermediate. For "fun" it is obviously super subjective. And I think it mostly depends on where you are. But I think the most important is obviously conversation. While most attraction has nothing to do with what is being said, you have to learn to talk to people. I …
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:28 PM
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I downvoted. But I'll just go ahead and tell you because you have the wrong attitude. This past weekend I only went out Thursday and did about 6-7 approaches. I did go out a little Friday and made a FR about it. Anyways, out of those 6. I went home with zero of them. 3 of them lasted less than 2 minutes before I knew it was a lost cause and said goodbye. 1 of them kept talking to me and it turned out she had a bf. She was nice, and I just told her straight up I didn't realize she wasn't single, …
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:14 PM
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I can totally relate. I love approaching, and I love the talking, getting to know someone. The thrill of having 1,2, sometimes 4 girls looking at me and just going with the flow is kind of addicting. I don't escalate all the time. 50% of the time I will just say goodbye, wish them well, because it was fun. I don't go into every set being like, "I want to have sex." I go in being like, these girls look fun. I am fun. Let's have fun together.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:09 PM
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Agree 100%. One of the first things you can do to get into this kind of thing is to go out and not approach. Don't focus on any women. Look at all the dudes. Seriously, just observe them the whole night. Try to keep track of the social ones, the ones with friends, the ones that seem to be approaching, and then the other ones. Trust me. Most of the ones you see will not approach women.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:07 PM
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I told her I owe her a similar wingman action. Although I'm not sure how well this kind of thing works in gender reversals....
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:03 PM
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Exactly. It works wonders. It helps that I have surmassed many female friends over my life. I meet a lot of guys who just don't have friends that are girls. Now I am not advocating going out on the town like, "I need a female friend to increase my value so I can get with more women." No no no. But I do recommend that guys make more of an effort to expand their social circles, which should include females!
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:01 PM
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I put about 50 fake spiders in various points around her room. Does this count?
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:58 PM
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She is. We never even discussed something like that before. The power of being around women to increase your perceived value is impressive :)
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:57 PM
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This guy seems toxic and has had his feelings hurt too many times.
/r/seduction06/06/13 02:14 PM
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I actually used to carry a notepad around a lot. I like to do standup comedy on open mic nights. And whenever I think of a good joke I used to write it down immediately. Maybe taking one to a bar isn't a bad touch. Always try anything once! (Except hand grenades and bareback)
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:17 PM
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I actually really like hitting on taller girls. Not sure what it is, but if a girl is like 5'9-6'2 then she is twice as attractive to me as before. I like looking up at a girl when I have to talk to her. My friends tell me that's weird, but whatever haha. When I kissed the HB8 from the first set on Saturday she was taller then me. So I actually got on my toes to kiss her better. Love it!
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:15 PM
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I agree with Rocky. I said that line in the spur of the moment because J obviously wanted to stay. And I didn't really give her friends a chance to argue. I just jumped in quickly because I knew what would likely happen. Don't focus so much on the line itself. Focus more on the fact that I spent enough time with this whole group, laughed with all of them, and had shown all of them a bit of what I am like. They didn't see "Oh no J is going to stay with some guy." It was more "J is staying behind …
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:09 PM
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I have some mild creams to reduce redness. But I have no acne/scarring/or vein appearances. My cheeks are just rosy. I look like I am embarrassed a lot. I get a bit more red around my nose/eyes when I exercise. But I think if I have a drink in my handle people assume that's why my face is so red haha. For now I just apply the cream 2-3 times a week and keep an eye on it to make sure it doesn't spread. I also have a strict diet which I know rill restrict it from getting worse
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:06 PM
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Haha I actually kind of liked it too. It might be a good way of building momentum. Purposefully bombing in the most awkward way you can. Then the rest of the night you know you can't do any worse. But yeah, I had to go back to this group. Mostly just to see if I could pull it off :)
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:06 AM
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Thanks man. Yeah that's just the way I have always seen it. I feel bad for the guys that seem to be stuck behind their looks, because I was the same way. I'm not saying that any guy can throw on their Kohl's t-shirt that is two sizes too big and has a stormtrooper on the front, and expect to get laid. I put a lot of effort into losing weight, building up a wardrobe, working on my conversation skills, finding a good hairstyle that worked for me, and just allowing my physical to be at it's peak. N…
/r/seduction05/06/13 02:48 AM
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I would say my confidence grew a lot in the last year. In the past year I trained and ran a marathon, got into healthy eating, and am in much better shape overall. I did a lot of reading into r/seddit and some PUA youtube vids, and bought a couple of books. Mind you, I don't remember much of any details from these. It just took all of that crap to finally pound the message into my skull: "There is nothing wrong with wanting to meet and be with wonderful women" I also figured out some basics. Bei…
/r/seduction05/06/13 02:44 AM
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I was a little tipsy. I'm a bit new to drinking. I know that about 4-5 drinks will have me drunk. So I started going at around 2 drinks, and had a third in my hand while approaching. If I get too drunk I just get sloppy and can barely conversate. For my kino I do it "back-handedly" That's my term for it. I'm not sure what it is really called. Basically when something funny or exciting happens with the girl I'm talking to I will go in for a hug, or maybe a 1-arm squeeze. Then I will just leave th…
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:42 PM
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It didn't happen this past weekend, but if a conversation dips after so long, it is probably the girls more than you. I was able to keep a conversation lively on my own for a while. But after some time the girls started asking me questions. The conversations didn't really die out, and if they did I have a few safety questions I like to ask, "So what is something I absolutely have to know about you?" or something. If the girls are not reciprocating even a little with questions or conversations of…
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:19 PM
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I thought it was a bad move at the time. In hindsight it obviously paid off. But I think it would have been good to go. Earlier it was a good move for me to let the HB9 go without following because I was still interacting with the whole group. I would be following that girl across the room like a puppy. But in this situation the whole group was leaving. I had built report with the girls and could play it up with all of them even in a venue change. I don't think it would decrease my value because…
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:16 PM
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Well not every girl wants to k-close either. Maybe just holding her, being next to her, and making her laugh is enough to #-close, get a date, and get a kiss later on. But ask yourself honestly, do you not do PDA on principle, or because it is a frightening concept? When I k-closed the girl on Saturday, all of her friends started giggling and were obviously kind of staring at us. I don't like to insult girls ever, but I will just say the friends in that group are not the kinds of girls that woul…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:53 PM
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Sad to say that we live in a world where bad people do bad things. We live in a society where most women would never walk home in the dark on their own. So obviously when a girl's friend is about to be left alone with a guy you don't know too well, you want to be okay with it. Being friends with the friends is key. You know you aren't a bad guy. You are just young and having a good time. No need to be coy or around the bush about it. Let them be confident in the idea that when you say you will l…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:46 PM
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Haha i meant it was my first f-close in terms of picking up a girl. Not losing my v-card lol. And thanks man. One thing I learned through this whole weekend is that if you aren't confident in yourself and have no inner game, you shouldn't even try this. Like you mentioned, how weird is it that some guy would come up, not say anything, then walk away. How many guys would just go back? It did take me a while to get this confident. A year ago I would have been thrilled at going and talking to one g…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:43 PM
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Exactly. I like this way because I can just enjoy the moment with the girls (I generally approach groups most often). If I am goofy and then decide there is no one in the group I am interested in, I can just keep going, have a good time, and maybe make some friends. Then if I find I have someone I like I just funnily goof over and pull off some kind of large kino to get them to me. Then since i have already made the group my own she is likely already into me. One thing that is also great with th…
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:59 PM
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My next goal is to pull off some kind of "girl lift" in a funny way. The closest I got was a big bear hug that I lifted her in. But I really want to just like lift her super high.
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:39 PM
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I have found the best way to keep tension is to play it off my goofiness. I fit more into "cute" since I'm a little short and have rosy cheeks. But I have learned to play this off as a "I'm the guy you take home to your parents" persona. Then when I throw in sex jokes the girls seem suprised, but happily. Then I slowly ramp it up a little more. Some guys can start out more sexual, and that's cool. Learn your strengths, and make them your own.
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:35 PM
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Been coming here for about 6 months now. Yeah, that's the point. It's all about making yourself better and more confident and more skilled. Some of the guys here have trouble just talking to women. Some have trouble taking that next step to more than a platonic relationship. And some are really good at meeting women and want to stay on their game/help others. It sounds like you read 2 posts and made up your own mind what the r/seduction community is like. Lot's of people have a certain idea in t…
/r/seduction04/06/13 12:30 PM
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Sorry but ill admit I downvoted. When it comes to this stuff it is truly "learning by doing". It's kind of like you can read sheet music all you want, and listen to the song all you want, but you won't get anything done until you pick up the instrument and play
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:11 PM
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Go! Go! Go!
/r/seduction07/03/13 02:06 PM
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Know that feels bro. Take this internet hug and stay strong!
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:31 PM
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Double up on the hollywood thing. I think sometimes oneitis can stem from a fear we see a lot in Hollywood. Specifically the idea that losing your "dream girl" will result in permanent unhappiness or longing for that lost one until old age. But the truth is that you will leave behind many women in your life.
/r/seduction27/02/13 11:29 PM
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While seddian may have been trying to be funny by trying to make it seem like meeting new people involves corny tactics, I can't upvote Theyus enough. Just talk to her like a normal fucking human being.
/r/seduction23/02/13 05:58 AM
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Good read! Great job man! Way to play it cool. It's cool seeing that the only two principles really guiding you were "Fuck Texting Games" and "Be open"!
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:20 PM
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Cool story for a FR. But like some others have said, you didn't really do much. Not trying to bring you down. It was a fun read. But I'd be more interested in those AFCs and hear their thought process in order to learn.
/r/seduction27/01/13 03:18 PM
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"realized there was nothing to complimnet" hahaha I love your reports man. I am in the middle of a big body change from fat fuck to lean. When I am done with that in a few months I will definitely give these challenges a run
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:29 PM
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Can this be at the very top of the r/seduction thread in big, bold, shiny letters?
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:04 PM
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Don't let her think this ruined your night. Give a regular "No biggie" or "Shit happens" BUT she is now on parole. This may be her saying she isn't interested. So if she agrees to meet again, and flakes again, move on
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:02 PM
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I like this. It's time to earn those Wingman Stripes
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:34 AM
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I think some guys would think that this is a method of you getting rid of them. But they wouldn't say anything in front of you. So when you call or text them it might be a nice suprise and peak their interest. Maybe when you are talking to a guy you like and they ask for your number you can be upfront and say, "I hate talking on the phone. Give me you're number and we'll do something tomorrow night" Just something to let them know that you are indeed interested and won't blow them off.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:14 PM
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I'll be honest. I'd fuck you.
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:08 AM
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Wait, what? Go with that line! I don't know what a Coffee Bean, your town, or how busy it gets. But if it's pretty empty and there's very few people there I would try something like, "Man it's always so crowded at this time! Mind if I sit here since there's no open seats?" *When of course there are open seats all over the place. At least that's what I'd try. Or maybe, "I'm sorry, but I hate drinking my coffee alone when I have a chance to talk to someone. Mind if I sit down?" There was a good po…
/r/seduction01/10/12 05:35 PM
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Agreed. This is exactly what we need. The inner game stuff is good. But this is about talking to women. These sorts of posts inspire me with new ideas, or just make me want to go out and try them.
/r/seduction27/09/12 07:09 PM
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That actually seems really good
/r/seduction27/09/12 12:27 AM
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Got it. Ya that won't be a problem. My AI and I go to the same bar a lot, but I will leave that til when the semester is over and I'm not in her class :)
/r/seduction23/09/12 02:11 PM
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hahaha I was thinking of this exact episode! When I first saw it a while back it got me thinking about this kind of thing!
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:46 PM
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I'm not sure how my grades came into this. I haven't hit on my AI or anything. (Although I am working on that, maybe that actually would be a line better not to cross) Oh is that not a good line to use anymore? :) Ya I guess like I said in an earlier reply, if I choose to not let it be awkward, that's the end of it. If they want it to be weird/awkward, that can be their decision.
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:45 PM
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Uuuuhhh no offense dude, but if you've been on here long enough you'll know that first sentence makes no sense. Hitting on a girl is such a broad term, but overall means "using your personality, wit, charm, sometimes body, and everything at your disposal to win a girls attention." I read that on seddit here when I first started a while ago. So yes, you are hitting on girls, but are taking a long-term approach, which actually is a great way to do so. Like you have probably figured out over a long…
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:42 PM
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It's a reallly big school, but most guys don't do biology stuff for some reason. For your last part my general concern was that I found it much harder to get through my AA if I lost the ability to think "It's okay what happens, I'll never see her again" or something like that. My post is just asking if that sort of thinking is just an excuse, or is it actually better to stay away from girls you will have to interact with a ton.
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:37 PM
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I don't know about that first part. I mean I see these girls at the bars/clubs, so I'm not as much of a gentleman as you give me credit for with going for "relationships" haha But ya I guess it's all about context. If they aren't into coming home with me, I can choose to make it not a big deal. Whether they want it to be awkward/weird can be up to them.
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:46 AM
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Can I ask why Community is up there? It's my favorite show of all time, and I have seen it all the way through almost 4 times now. But what in it makes you feel worth it for the seddit community?
/r/seduction23/09/12 12:43 AM
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Well for one thing, staring is not a pickup technique. If anyone tells you different they are either lying, or look like Chris Hemsworth. What you should've done is not look back at him. From what you wrote it sounds like you gave him some looks at first, but then when you realized it didn't stop you even stared at him yourself, mouthed words at him, and snuck up to his friends when he went for a smoke: bad moves. If you establish that some guy is giving you looks that aren't the usual "Hey, I'm…
/r/seduction22/09/12 09:15 AM
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He should have come up after those 2 hours, really smooth, and whispered in your ear, "You got a booger"
/r/seduction21/09/12 09:01 PM
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This is too long for a club. By the time you're done the girl will be a fart in the wind
/r/seduction21/09/12 08:59 PM
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You sir are fucking fantastic. I want to copy/paste this response to every post that's ever existed about some guy asking how to get this "special girl" that they barely know/never talk to/never interact with. Have an upvote. And have this http://i.imgur.com/JSBTl.gif
/r/seduction19/09/12 09:56 PM
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I loved that post. Did it over the weekend. Worked very well 3 different times.
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:32 PM
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"That 'X' on your face is so distracting"
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:31 PM
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Ok seriously does the paying of a $20 actually work? I have been in a situation where we had 4-5 girls and 2 dudes but just waited in line cause we didn't want to be rude. Will definitely remember to pay the bouncer next time!
/r/seduction18/09/12 10:21 PM
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Nice job man. Way to not let anything get you down. The world is full of so many possibilities, the only wrong choice is to be afraid of them.
/r/seduction10/09/12 02:06 AM
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I guess my fear is that people won't like me, plain and simple. I'm sure it's more complicated than that, and there are many factors that led to me feeling like this. I fear approaching women, just like I fear to approach jobs, or new opportunities: I am afraid of being disliked/rejected. I'm sure this stems from lack of self confidence and being happy with myself. I work on these things, and seddit helped me to realize this. I think many of us can agree that having Game takes a knowledge of sel…
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:26 PM
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I am going to steal this move and call it "The Revolution" in honor of you good sir.
/r/seduction15/07/12 07:29 PM
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