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| 2 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.They are in pre established relationships for decades and are having sex with these partners. That's not the same as the initial stage of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:49 AM |
| 2 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.Than why comment this? Because you're debating him rn? I mean, I know why you're here now, it makes sense why you'd be here and not be in the dating market. 🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:49 AM |
| 4 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.If someone comments like you, they are 100% projecting. Like you need your hard drive checked buddy boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:44 AM |
| 6 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.Yes, I don't like to floss on your body hair. I also shave when I'm sexually active, so I have no reason to not want women to do so 😂 Also can we drop the implications of men being pedophiles? Literally every single fucking preference or standard a man has is rationalized as fetishizing body parts, objectifying women or some form of negative connotation. How the hell are men persecuted for a tiny preference like smooth skin, but women aren't for the million things they have preferences for? Men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:43 AM |
| 18 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.Society wouldn't be here at all tbh, that's like the main driving force for doing shit for men 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Study: Size matters: Men perceived as more masculine if they are taller and heavier, regardless face https://medicalxpress.com/news/2014-11-size-men-masculine-taller-heavier.html5'5 less than 100 lbs and I had no problems pulling women, they even came to me. So there's a lot of factors at play, and sometimes certain factors are overridden by others. As a guy, a fat ass will override a lot of unattractive features and even red flags... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 4 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?You're not understanding. Compersion is what we're talking about, it's clearly an emotion that's not very high in the vast majority of the population. If you feel that emotion lots, you have success in open relationship dynamics. Otherwise you're setting yourself up for a bad time, and a potentially dangerous one at that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanSocializing/networking lol ESPECIALLY with the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Viiiiiiiibes frfr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Practically a shit human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman's appearance really matter THAT much?Nope.... It's either monogamy or I'll just be a horny fuckboy by myself. No middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:02 PM |
| 7 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingBro, I'm black pilled but a majority of the population is just normal. You're not going to find rational discussion on Reddit ever, especially not any dating or ask subs lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:58 PM |
| 19 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingThey're talking about both.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.You've negated like 80% of the 7 billion human population on earth with these metrics lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:52 PM |
| 5 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.You're a pick up artist that does so while clubbing, I couldn't care less what you're results are bro lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.You have the IQ of a poptart infested with maggots lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Nice people also tend to get bullied and stepped on a lot more, in my experience there's a clear middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Fair, but people that are seen as exciting tend to be "adventurous". Almost ALL these types of people have strong overlaps with, drug addicts, people with low impulse control, people with heightened self importance etc etc etc, all of those are way more likely to be signs of abuse than someone just chilling at home lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I'm an introvert at heart, but I love hiking, swimming, I'm a metal head so going to metal concerts and moshing.... I had a whole 2 year stunt, where I didn't even play any games and I didn't even really use my house for anything but to "refuel" and shower lol I partied, hooked up, constantly went to places and met new people and tried new things. Why are you acting like people are so rigid that these things can't be experienced? I never would have thought about doing any of those things, I met … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:19 PM |
| 17 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.I enjoy doing all that stuff and also play games all the time. This isn't a zero sum game, and there's a lot of wiggle room, compromise etc.. No idea what you're arguing about if that's not what you're interested in. I'm certainly not dating anyone in the future who's not adventurous in some fashion, I love hiking specifically, but I also need someone to be a bit of a nerd. I'm not trying to go out all the fucking time, I need some rest days, I need some time to myself, and they gotta have hobbi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Not in my anecdotal experience, I've known a fair amount to be very attractive, Infact most I've known in my personal life have been. That doesn't mean it's true, you and me are giving extremely biased anecdotes... Most abusers are probably just normal, because most humans are just normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.English motherfucker, do you speak it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Y'all say dumb shit like this and seriously can't comprehend why you're abused??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funWho cares?? Some people are naturally more abrasive than other people. If that's not you, don't do it. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 01:34 AM |
| 2 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestNo, and also I think based of this interaction, that social media was the sole mistake, or gravest one we've made on a societal level so far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestMen can't afford vr bro, ubi isn't coming anytime soon from what I've gathered. I'd say resentment growing and that only breeds one thing, it's not inaction and it's not good for anyone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:07 AM |
| 0 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestIt probably still fucking "Chad". In assuming atleast, that was the implication of this dudes statement. Regardless of their relationships they are probably still having casual sex more than the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestWe just need a new word that excludes marriage for either serious or casual relationships than. Because men are having trouble even finding that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestWhat's the correlation with immoral activities that involve harm like cheating on your partner and not paying... Usually, whoever asks should paying. Women used to court me all the time and they always asked me out as a male, no idea why men should be expected to pay.... Atleast that's the implication I got from your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestMen operate in the extremes. Most of the richest people on earth on men, and most of the homeless people on earth on men. Men are being squeezed out of the middle where women are going to on average, be the breadwinners in comparison to most men. That's the argument being made. It has nothing to do with the extremes, and considering most humans occupy the poor to average sector, that's extremely worrying for young men, and maybe women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:57 AM |
| 5 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestHow is that feminine? If I push you're own world view to its extreme, most boys would just be killing eachother to assert dominance and that's not exactly productive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?Are* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | RedPill - sexual deviancy and casual sex is bad for society. Why endorse it instead of building families?DGG4lyfer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 04:31 AM |
| 0 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Eating pussy isn't masculine, sucking dick isn't masculine. You're literally commiting to an action that has nothing to do with socialized gender roles, do y'all just say shit on the internet to stroke your small dick egos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Bro, going down on a chick isn't beta but it isn't masculine either. Some of you retards have such warped and frankly insane views on masculinity that have no bearing on masculinity at all... There's no such thing as physical or mental masculinity outside of going to war and brutally tearing people to shreds, something you definitely aren't doing talking like a goofy on Reddit, humble yourself BIG man lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Logically the 8, but if the 8 is highly entitled(extremely high probability), if the 8 is high maintenance (draining and usually self serving, needs are way to high and doesn't reciprocate), if the 8 is potentially abusive(they might have gotten away with acting out with their power imbalances and have grown accustomed to acting this way to get what they want, they are attractive and rich so no one can tell them otherwise and have constant yes men around them) etc. Than the 8 is objectively a ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 7 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Sounds exhausting, toxic and completely unsustainable lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Revolution is a stretch, but most of the dudes that commit mass shootings aren't exactly the outgoing sociable fratboy type you know?. Being unhinged doesn't require nor care about weakness or anything of the sorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?No, but men are more violent, are we really debating the fact men are more likely to be irrationally violent rn? Men aren't inherently violent, but culture, having a bad home life, toxic masculinity and mental illnesses/behavioural problems are a deadly mix that a lot of lonely guys suffer from any given combination of. Almost ALL the mass killings you hear about have some amount of incel logic or implicitly behind it, that's gotta be telling you something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?They chose to date immoral, classless women, they reap what they sow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Beta Bux? I haven't used this sub in months but I've literally never heard this term uttered outside of R9K lmao, please tell me yall are being ironic and you aren't seriously this deluded in pseudo intellectualism... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:09 AM |
| 2 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Wouldn't this just inadvertently lead to more violent behaviour from disaffected men? Like you can clearly see that it's already been happening. Want those men learn tips to mask their pitfalls enough to still have sex and spread their seed? I know a handful of those guys and they are promiscuous and GET AROUND, most girls even hear about them being bad news but still give them chances anyways, seems like this all or nothing take isn't really true in reality. Men lie about all aspects of their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:07 AM |
| 3 | What is the most ''flawed'' archetype of a person you'd date?Earlier in life I was given that tag and was also quite and "mysterious" at the same time. I'll be honest, usually the egregious behaviour comes out from a perceived or actual wrong doing, like cheating... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter?Only for mindless sex tho, I've literally dated down for LTR, because I've connected with someone more than other potential matches. Emotions can carry for looks and can lead to great sex aswell, this stuff isn't as binary as y'all make it out to be ever lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 04:01 AM |
| 2 | What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter?Well yeah, nuance on the internet is not exactly a given or should even be expected.. You'll even have people explain a great nuanced position, only to get them to bite a bullet that shows their own biased generalizations one sentence later, usually from trauma tho Everyone could do with some therapy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What observations do you get from an average girl having her pick of men? What does this say to you about women’s standards for men and what can men learn from it? Does this debunk the idea looks don’t matter?That's not what a good communicator means lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?As a general rule, men lie about it being higher and women lie about it being lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:27 AM |
| 0 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?Yes... I gotta admit tho my numbers are quite skewed and random I'm 24m, had 14 at 17, jumped into a long-term relationship and had 1 more sex partner after that relationship ended. Mental and physical health have been disastrous for enjoying sex let alone wanting to pursue anything serious... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 03:15 AM |
| 5 | 10% of people check their smartphones during sex, and 35% of them check their phones immediately after sex.Lay in a puddle of sweat barely able to move or think straight lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenlooking for a relationship on a dating app LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:58 AM |
| -1 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenI mean I've literally had girls give a slight yes, I kinda got vibes it wasn't gonna happen and didn't wanna pursue without similar effort from her and said fuck it... Only to find out later she wanted to, and was talking shit about me not making the first move, or pussying out, how the fuck are you supposed to navigate this mind field of contradicting "vibes". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenBut most men are going to interpret what you said as insecurity, that you don't think highly of yourself, and that if you just kept pushing eventually she'll give in. Regardless of that being right or wrong, that's how men are socialized. You're implication is quite wrong here, it's not a skill for people that have mental disorders or illnesses or the socially inept, after child hood your essentially stuck with whatever skills you learned, your brain doesn't intake those other skills as well. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenBut it's borderline impossible to take the hint for some men... I'm socially inept, I can take the hint only because I'm quite calculated in picking up on social stuff from being anxious, I never talked for a majority of my life and learned through other people. You can just tell when you're not welcomed, but I'm completely unable to pick up on hints that relate to yes from being in the moment and not being in that observed role, if the chick isn't explicit that she wants me, I'll literally neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenI feel like all of y'all are talking about things in such a pseudo way it's unfathomably dangerous. Idk what culture or what type of household you grew up in, but being a leader and having the ability to solve shit doesn't mean your a stoic rocks. Women and men are emotional animals, we don't have seperate emotions only one sex experiences. We all essentially have similar emotions that come out to the corresponding stimuli... No idea why you think it's different, men repressing that for sex is i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Women need to be taught at a young age how to treat men the same ways young boys are taught to treat womenYou're talking out of your ass a bit here. We're human beings bro. Both genders should process emotions similarly. Implying women have different emotions than men always 100% of the time correlates with men displaying sadness and vulnerability (weakness in your eyes) as anger and it can come out as extreme violence left unchecked which happens all the time from these stoic rocks society creates with this dogshit messaging, that shouldn't be the goal that you're inadvertently setting men up for..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?The right spot is like 2 inches on the reverse of your clit, it's less about size and more about the angle ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?After reading this comment I'm 100% sure this is bait, and if it's not your a walking incel factory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?Yes? You're trying to force something to be something it isn't and getting disappointed. If you were fine with average dick size, but wanted extreme degradation, borderline abusive beatings and blood and cutting play during sex, but you're partner was against it, this would be a similar situation. Find someone who can fulfil your needs and stop trying to change people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?Y'all are actually fucking deluded or sociopathic l | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?It's dehumanizing and emasculating. If you are a size queen(which you are, 5 inches is literally the world average), leave and find someone that you're sexually compatible with. If the relationship works very well outside of sex, try to open it up without coercing your partner in an abusive way, if they don't want to your shit out of luck Do anything you possibly can do other than fucking cheating on the person, don't be immoral for selfish gratification... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Would you be happy with a romantic, caring, and compassionate relationship, with absolutely no sex ?kek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".LOL You're wrong, unless these issues correlate with all of your country regardless of sex they are fairly biased and are not as big of a perceived issue as you, or these guys think. Golden Rule? Treat others how you want to be treated... Not treat others how they are treating you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".That's such a simplistic take... I'm an anarchist, a lefty that was once slightly more right wing *incel" like, so I can grasp both sides fairly well. The problem is almost always this from both sides, seeing the opposite sex (or race or anything for that matter) as this undeserving subhuman class is literally only going to push men further in the opposite direction. That's not a real argument tho, in a nature setting good and evil don't exist, these are man made constructs used to belittle othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".I mean, that's a bad take tho if it's a peaceful world everone else want... They don't stop crimes from being commited, They come and clean up once the damage has already been done... Minus dudes who can't keep there mouths shut.. Are we trying to come to a conclusion, have a meaningful discussion, or is this what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable objective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Cheating gf caught. Old vid.Because People Like me will openly go to prison over shit like this, crazy women usually give you crazy stories, Crazy men stories usually end in prison and sadness. Don't think ignorance and negligence is a valid fucking excuse to knowingly sleep with people in a relationship. Without bullshiting you, if i knew the girl i met or liked was dating someone, but she is clearly interested, i would also still fuck her. But i would also have literally no choice to accept the consequences of my actions… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Cheating gf caught. Old vid.They Have A Saying For This.... Wrong Place Wrong Time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Cheating gf caught. Old vid.I think the problem here, is that you aren't wrong at all for the most part depending on the context. But i also firmly believe there isn't any way forward do to how society views gender, and what is and isn't seen as socially acceptable. In these scenarios, it is not socially acceptable to beat women, let alone hit them. But it is socially acceptable to hit other men, people usually don't argue over the violence itself like they do with getting physical with females. Even if most people disagre… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/20 09:19 PM |
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