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| 0 | It appears that women don't want menYour argument indicates women can only be authentically attracted to other women, which, evolutionarily speaking, would have been a huge disaster for the human race. Straight women are authentically attracted to some men; just not to most men. After one sexual relation with a man, if a woman gets pregnant, she will pass that man's genes on to the next generation. Straight women are the ones who are the most motivated to date men and who are at the highest risk of pregnancy, so they're also the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.STEM businesses are forced to hire women by the law? can you share what specific law you're talking about? Sexual discrimination is defined, by the EEOC, as: The law forbids discrimination when it comes to any aspect of employment, including hiring, firing, pay, job assignments, promotions, layoff, training, fringe benefits, and any other term or condition of employment. https://www.eeoc.gov/sex-based-discrimination So if a STEM business were to favor hiring male applicants because they are on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Women NEED Men More Than Men Need WomenThe women were safe. There were no predators on their island. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Women NEED Men More Than Men Need WomenIf ten women were thrust into the wilderness they are likely to work together to achieve a goal. When that was tried as a social experiment in a survival television show where men and women were separated on different tropical islands, that's not what happened. The snippets I've seen basically showed the women blowing through the provisions they had, sunbathing and lots of gossiping and bitching. They got nothing done by the time the men had everything up and running on their island. The men eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:29 AM |
| 1 | From a selfish male perspective, feminism and 'childfree' women are great for us.Don't career women have more suitable personalities for professional work than the whiny misogynist NEETs who complain about them? Considering the complaints that have been going on about sexism supposedly being rampant in STEM, it doesn't seem like scepticism about women being in that field is unique to "misogynist NEETs". I don't see why a guy like that who has no ambition, drive, social ability or accountability for their own lives would deserve the job over a better qualified woman with a be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.Now, a man in his 40s comes across a fresh-faced 19 year old with little experience. She’s easily impressed, he can put in almost no effort in order to sleep with her because “wow you have your own apartment that’s so cool”. In the real world, most 19-year olds are not like that at all. Far from being easily impressed and seduced by older men, most of them find the mere idea of sleeping with anyone older than 30 to be disgusting. There are 19-year olds who prefer older men over men their own age… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If age gap relationships are wrong, so is dating a person with mental issuesThat it's not necessarily unethical to date someone with mental illness who is struggling and having trouble. It can sometimes be, but it isn't always, and sometimes it can even be the right thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 04:21 PM |
| -1 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Men are not more rational. On average, men perform significantly better than women on the Comprehensive Assessment of Rational Thinking (CART) test: Continuing down the table, it can be seen that the total score on the entire CART full form was higher for males than for females in both samples and the mean difference corresponded to a moderate effect size of 0.52 and 0.65, respectively. https://doi.org/10.7551/mitpress/9780262034845.003.0013 If women are irrational because they are emotional the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 6 | CMV: A bad attitude follows bad treatment - the reason for the bad treatment is why men actually fail with womenMost women never get rejected because they never ask men out. Being "fuck-zoned" is not really a rejection; most men wouldn't mind it at all. It's something that can happen to both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If age gap relationships are wrong, so is dating a person with mental issuesNow, is it unethical to date someone with a mental illness when they’re clearly struggling and having trouble with themselves? yes. So in other words, you're saying that someone with mental illness who is clearly struggling should never have a supportive and caring partner who could stop them from falling further through the cracks? I'm sure people like this would be thrilled to hear that: I hated my life and took to cutting my wrists and arms e blades. I'd even sharpen and clean/sanitize them b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:07 AM |
| 3 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.I still believe one side usually sets the tone and the other responds, even if they initiate on a different occasion. I think that's true for verbal abuse, but not for physical abuse, which is what that quote was referring to specifically. If you're used to being unprovokedly insulted by your partner, it's not surprising that you would end up doing the same to them at some point. However, the bar to initiating physical violence is a lot higher. It takes actual aggressiveness to do that; not just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 01:41 PM |
| -3 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.I thought most reciprocal abuse is actually one person being abusive and the other reacting to that in a way that isn't meek. In most reciprocally abusive relationships, both sides have initiated the abuse at least once. Which means that both sides are abusive. Here is a relevant quote from the above study: Reciprocal partner violence does not appear to be only comprised of self-defensive acts of violence. Several studies have found that men and women initiate violence against an intimate partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:35 AM |
| 5 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.They lure women in with their charm and only after some time spent together does the woman start to realize the man's true colors. While that kind of thing does happen, I don't think it explains most abusive relationships. About half of all abusive relationships are reciprocally abusive. There is a lot of assortative mating between people with Dark Triad personality traits and abusive men often end up dating women who also have abusive personality traits themselves. When abusive men are in relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:36 AM |
| 0 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toRight because customers aren't arguing for access to your body, it's different. In nightclubs and bars, some men do try to pressure women to go home with them, but in other contexts, I don't think that's common at all. Most "pushy" men just want a telephone number and/or a promise of a date. They're not directly arguing for access to women's bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Sexy-Havers Only Discussion ThreadHe's right, though. There is evidence that women orgasm more with hot guys: http://www.academia.edu/6514194/Mens_masculinity_and_attractiveness_predict_their_female_partners_reported_orgasm_frequency_and_timing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 08:10 AM |
| – | Yes. S3x and being socially accepted is a need.Second: rape is one of the most traumatic things a person can experience. Sex is not physiological need for either men or women, but it's certainly a psychological need for most men. Men who never have sex generally have a much lower quality of life, just like rape victims. A study that was done on gay and bisexual men found that male rape victims had similarly low levels of well-being on average as men who never had sex: Interestingly, the forced sex group and the no sex group were statisticall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toDon't worry ladies it almost never leads to violence so you should never be uncomfortable with men who don't take no for an answer. During my day job, I've had customers get angry at me for refusing to let them get stuff for free after they "forgot" to take enough money with them. I never assumed them to be a threat to my safety, nor did I make negative generalizations about other customers because of the few bad apples among them. I'm not saying that women shouldn't feel uncomfortable with men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:27 AM |
| 1 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toIt doesn't matter if all men are, almost every woman has experienced something terrifying when rejecting someone. I have been harassed endlessly, stalked home. Being stalked can be legitimately terrifying and is something completely different from being yelled at or insulted, which can happen to everyone. The vast majority of women have never been stalked. Of the 8% of women who have ever been stalked, less than 2% have been stalked by a stranger. The types of men who harass and stalk random wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:44 AM |
| 4 | As a straight man, being hit on by gay men is what it must feel like to be a woman being hit on all the time by men you're not attracted toThe problem is that there’s no inherent power differential between white and black people. Just because there isn't much of a power differential between two average men of a similar age doesn't mean that there isn't a huge power differential between the typical male violent crime victim and their assailant. Violent criminals are more likely to victimize other men than women because they know people are more likely to come to women's defence. And they almost always target weaker men. As a woman, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:08 AM |
| 12 | CMV: The only way to stop misandry is to stop misogyny firstIt feels like everyone has to tiptoe around because any criticism of women is immediately seen as misogyny by a lot of women. If men are criticized, people stop and wonder what about that man or group of men people find problematic. But if a woman is criticized, one of the most common responses is that the critic must be a misogynistic woman-hater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels.They could. Permanently. Men can also get injured during sex. I don't see how this is unique to women. Before the invention of contraception, women risked pregnancy, and thus death. Before the invention of contraception, women were a lot more risk averse than they are today. In this day and age, sex is almost as safe for women as it is for men and their behavior reflects that. Pregnancy is still risky. In most developed countries, pregnancy is much less risky than driving a car, at least for non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?The fetus cannot determine pain until at or after 24 weeks of gestation The scientific consensus used to be that a fetus can only feel pain after 24 weeks, but recent research has strongly called that into question: Reports often suggest that the cortex and intact thalamocortical tracts are necessary for pain experience. Given that the cortex only becomes functional and the tracts only develop after 24 weeks, many reports rule out fetal pain until the final trimester. Here, more recent evidence … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:43 PM |
| -1 | Cheating TENDS to be worse for (average) MEN than (average) women...If you think that being cuckolded is a better outcome for a man than being forced to pay child support, you're not being very objective at all. The reality is that a relationship is more likely to end after female infidelity than after male infidelity. Women usually fall in love with their affair partners, men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+Theres just nothing attractive about a man with that pattern. Either he has peadophillic tendencies and 25 is literally the highest he can go. This really is just cope that women tell themselves when they're in their 30s and older. The reason men prefer women in their late teens and early 20s is because that's when their attractiveness peaks. That's it. It's not because men have pedophilic tendencies, it's just that in most cases, women above the age of 25 are less attractive than women under th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?There is no such thing as a "16-week embryo". Sentience is defined as having the capacity to have feelings. Do you consider pain to be a feeling? If not, I don't know what to tell you. Sentience means having the capacity to have feelings. This requires a level of awareness and cognitive ability. There is evidence for sophisticated cognitive concepts and for both positive and negative feelings in a wide range of nonhuman animals. https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/sentience#:~:text… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?Do you understand the difference between an embryo and a fetus? The other user claimed that only 1/4th of fetuses become viable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?96% of abortions are elective and unnecessary. Less than 1% of abortions are medically necessary or because of rape or incest. Pregnancies that a threat to the mother's health or that are the result of rape are traumatizing, so I don't blame women who abort for those reasons, although it still involves killing. But by having consensual sex a woman is cognizant of the fact that she could become pregnant. It would be like me poking a beehive but complaining and killing every single bee when I got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?False... "Overall, the evidence, and a balanced reading of that evidence, points towards an immediate and unreflective pain experience mediated by the developing function of the nervous system from as early as 12 weeks." https://jme.bmj.com/content/46/1/3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?A fetus can feel pain long before viability. Strictly speaking, that's sentient. There’s no difference between a wanted pregnancy and an unwanted pregnancy other than in your mind and it would be intellectually dishonest to say otherwise. Biologically, they’re the same. There is no proof it’s traumatizing, you’re being so over dramatic. Good thing your mom didn’t think pregnancy was traumatizing when she was pregnant with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men against abortion given that most them just want casual sex?Do you have a source for that figure? Because it seems ridiculously low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:09 PM |
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