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| 2 | “Mental Load”Man, that sounds incredibly suffocating. You hit the nail on the head: when 'mental load' turns into a scorecard or a weapon instead of a shared reality, it becomes impossible to win. The goalposts just keep moving. I actually built a tool (Guided: Mind Relief) because I hated how abstract and heavy the 'planning' part of life felt. While an app obviously won’t fix the deep resentment dynamic you are describing, the whole point of it is to externalize the decision-making. It acts as a neutral pa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/26 06:26 PM |
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